In A Family, It’s About Give And Take

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The speaker discusses how one can lead in various ways, including being a father figure and learning from evidence. He also talks about the importance of practicing the Islam language and not being afraid to say things out of nowhere. The speaker emphasizes the learning curve and the need to practice every day to change one's life.

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As you learn

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you teach you lead if your if your

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spouse knows more than you then she can

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teach you insha Allah as well Is she,

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born Muslim or revert as well? Born Muslim.

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So she can teach you, and as she

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teaches you, you can lead the way, you

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know, and perhaps,

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within the family, it's just a matter of

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give and take. You are the amir, but

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it doesn't mean that all the decisions come

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from you alone. You could choose to to

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let your your wife help in so many

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different things, and, mashaAllah, that happens.

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So congratulations,

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my brother.

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And, just a quick one, just a quick

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one. As a father figure, how old are

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you, brother?

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I'm I'm 30 1. Oh, 31. Okay. Slightly

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older than my eldest child.

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But I tell you one thing. A lot

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of the times I mean, I noticed some

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of the sisters, some of the brothers,

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when we get up, don't be afraid to

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say.

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It's okay. Don't don't be afraid.

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It's okay. Sometimes we take it for granted,

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and sometimes we forget because we're used to

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the highs and hellos and all that. It's

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it's fine.

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You the

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is a proper way of greeting. Right? It's

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it's a prayer for someone else.

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And then you can say all your good

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mornings, good afternoons, good evenings, hallows, and highs,

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and so on. That follows the assalamu alaikum,

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inshallah. So that was just a piece. But

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but regarding what you asked me,

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as as you learn, inshallah, you you put

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into practice.

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You you won't know everything. I do not

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know every single thing. I might know a

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lot more than you, perhaps, but I don't

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know every single thing. If there's something I

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learned today

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from evidence, my life will change

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regarding that particular matter. That's how it works

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in Islam. So it's a learning curve right

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Barakala fiqh.

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Barakala fiqh.