You Must Sleep With 50 Women Before Marriage
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The speaker discusses the potential risks of hedonism and the importance of identifying women early and not bringing them into one's life. He emphasizes the need for men to identify women early and not bring them into one's life. He discusses the benefits of having multiple women and the risk of embarrassment in a family court. He advises against relying on online dating and suggests finding a partner who is not religious. He also discusses the importance of finding a balance between attractiveness and desire in relationships, and suggests that men should have a similar amount of personal attributes to be in a position.AI Generated Transcript ©
The prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam told us,
whoever builds a mosque for Allah, Allah will
build for him a Sim at a house
in Jannah.
And we know the great reward that will
not only be gained but rather
will fill your grave after your death.
Whenever someone prays there, whenever someone gives shahada
in the Masjid, whenever someone learns something in
the Masjid,
yes,
that will be something
There is no evidence that having sex with
a lot of women translates into an ability
to understand women
in the context of a committed relationship or
a longjevous relationship.
There is no evidence of that. So in
for for this is where
the red pill makes a lot of claims,
assertions but they're not backed. Because the idea
is I feel like there's just ad hoc
justifications
and rationalization
for hedonism.
Which is effectively just doing whatever you want
whatever you desire.
But really let's
assess this claim. The claim that if you
have sex with a lot of women that
that's gonna lead to you
knowing women more and therefore having a stronger
relationship, more long givous relationship with some kind
of woman.
But there's no it doesn't seem to me
that there's any evidence to that effect because
I I was looking at some studies on
casual sex.
Yeah. And I was looking at those like
5 or 6 of them that have been
done. And all of those studies, they're first
of all, they're mixed. They're contradictory, funny enough.
Some of them say that, yeah, they harm
women. Actually, most of them say they harm
women. Casual sex harm women. That is a
consensus psychological finding. It harms men too, a
lot of these studies, but
it does harm men.
Some some of them say it doesn't harm
men. Yeah. But there's there's no study that
says it helps them in relationships. Do you
know what I mean? Yeah. Of course not.
And they would never run a study like
that because it would be considered unethical. Right?
And we know that, you know, when they
run these studies, they have to be politically
correct. They gotta get funding. They have to
do it in a certain certain way to
get the blessing. But what I will say
Mhmm. Is,
with the whole
body, sleeping with women or whatever it may
be, it's not necessarily to understand women better,
it's to understand the women that you don't
wanna necessarily be with. And I think that's
half the game because what ends up happening
right in a remember, I mean you're you're
in the UK so you know this too.
I mean the UK is going through this
as well. We live in a very hypersexualized
world where women are more promiscuous than ever
before. So my thing is, right, I look
at it like and I was just having
this discussion with Andrew. He's a devout orthodox
Christian and he saw my perspective on this
too. If you're gonna meet try to meet
a woman in the west where they are,
promiscuous, they don't necessarily adhere to gender roles
when it doesn't benefit them, they want a
man that makes money but they don't want
to necessarily submit, etcetera. I think it's very
important for you as a man to identify
these women early on and not bring them
into your life. Because
the the beauty of religion, right, whether it's
Christianity,
Islam, or Judaism is that it basically had
an institution of shame and it had what
I call training wheels to keep women honest
with their man. And, you know, it pretty
much shamed them for not doing things that
they were supposed to do. But these training
wheels are effectively gone. We live in a
secular world now. And unless you're a very
religious man and you're meeting a very religious
woman, it's gonna be very difficult for you
to find a woman that's virtuous. So my
thing is I think if, you know, is
and the other reason why I think this
is so important is because,
when you get married, right, luckily, you know,
in the in the in Islam, you can't
just go to a go to a mosque,
go to an imam, he'll marry you, boom.
Done. You don't gotta worry about the state
being involved. But most people don't get married
that way. They get married through the state.
And with with the way the family courts
are set up, with the way divorce is
set up, with the way it's basically an
entire industry against men, I look at it
like if you're gonna go ahead and you
wanna have a family one day, which is
the nuclear family, which is the backbone of
society,
and you wanna get married, you are taking
on a tremendous amount of risk and I
don't want you to go in blind. However,
if you're getting married and the state isn't
involved and, there's no severe consequences to you
financially,
then sure. Go ahead and be less sexually
experienced than me to 1 because at least
you're not gonna be severely punished for it.
But my thing is the reason why I
even gave that idea like, hey, get with
more women so that you understand them is
because I just don't want men to deal
with the the horrors of the family court.
Now is it the best solution? Probably not.
But I think it's a pragmatic one given
the the world that we're now.
So what here's the thing, I just wanna
know what the evidence is. So of for
example having intercourse with multiple women.
What benefit like let's say 50 or 30
what
what benefit are you alleging that it has
on the man? What benefit are you alleging
it? Well, that's a that's a fair question.
Every man has different competence. Right? So, like,
one one guy might be able to hook
up with 10 girls and be like, okay.
You know what? I get it. Like, I've
I don't, you know, it is what it
is. But another guy, you know, might be
incompetent, might be an idiot. Every everyone's, you
know,
level of adaptation is different. So I'm not
saying, oh, have a hard fifty and don't
get married. It's like no, if you find
a girl that's worthy, that's fine. And I
would argue that, like, our podcast is like
we're able to kinda fast line it where,
you know, remember this information hasn't been out
for very long, so people are kind of
learning now through us talking about it on
our platform, etcetera, so they might not necessarily
have to even hit 50 because they're learning
from our mistakes. You know, the Chinese But
what if they do get 50? What's what's
the benefit of that? What do they get
from that?
Well hopefully depending on the individual they are
able to identify women that are worthy versus
ones that aren't. In in a sexual capacity?
Well I'm also assuming that this person would
be seeing this woman if they're just looking
to have sex then obviously it's just gonna
it's gonna be a waste. But I'm talking
about,
you know, you're obviously corning this woman, you're
hanging out with this woman, etcetera. You're seeing
because look, my my friend had your book,
I was trying to look for it myself.
It's called Oh nice.
I was trying to find something and Yeah.
And actually I was flicking through it right
before I spoke to you. And I like
the the, like, you know, the
the the the statistics you have on here.
One of them that you had on here
was, for example,
that a man will will spend 30 hours
or something like this
doing 30 hours doing
speed dating online in order to just get
one date, 1.46
date in
the year or something like that. Now what
I'm saying is that to get 50 women
look you know it's a numbers game and
I know it's a numbers game.
The feasibility, the amount of man hours that
you're gonna need to put in to have
intercourse with 50 women that are not prostitutes
according to your statistics that you mentioned. Right?
The amount of man hours we're talking about
like if he's gonna use Tinder or some
kind of an app. And according to these
stats, he's gonna need to do a lot
of that. Right? And the and the question
of benefit here is an important one. Obviously
from a religious standpoint,
Muslims, Christians, and Jews all agree that sex
shouldn't even be done outside of marriage. Now
it is still possible to marry 50 women.
I mean I'm not saying you cannot marry
and divorce 50 women. It's a possibility.
But I'm not necessarily saying
that one should do that. Of course not.
We wouldn't agree that one should do that.
The point I'm trying to get at is
that there isn't actually any good evidence
that having intercourse with that many women
would give you a kind of benefit in
the relationship. In fact you could argue for
the opposite.
Because
if you get sex very easily
going back to the idea
of virtue
then you can be less restrained in your
sexual appetites.
And this is something that in virtue ethics
is referred to as temperance.
So if you're less restrained you don't have
as much
restraint
for example. You don't have self control.
And if you don't have will power and
self control in one area
you're less likely to have it in other
areas. And I've read that in a book
called willpower funnily enough by Roy Baumast.
Very fantastic book I recommend it. But he
mentioned the point that if you have willpower
in one area for example he mentioned fasting
religious fasting as an example.
Roy
Baumeister.
If you have will power and discipline in
one area it's transferable
to other areas.
The idea of getting 50 women having sex
with them which is difficult anyway according to
these stats because just because you're dating a
woman it doesn't mean you're gonna have sex
with her. As you know like for the
average person you guys not might not be
the average person because you know from a
status perspective you guys have got you know
big channel good money coming in. The guy's
wearing a nice Rolex red face. I like
it. It's fresh.
And you're wearing a nice watch as well.
You know, you guys are well put together.
Thank you bro. Thank you bro.
So not everyone is fresh and not everyone's
myron gains. Yeah. And so it's not gonna
be easy to get sex like that. So
for them to put 30 hours to 50
hours to get one a date
and then after that to get like a
100 of those dates maybe 30 I don't
know how many what the numbers would be
conversion rate. 5 dates to 1 woman having
sex, maybe? I don't know. Is that my
way you know more about this than I
do? Keep in mind. Keep in mind. Right?
Because people tend to, criticize my, you know,
my idea that you should have sex with
50 women. But there's a bunch of other
things I tell the guys to have in
place as well. They should make a certain
amount of money, 35 years old, be in
shape.
They need to have a bunch of things
in line so that they can be in
a position. And the reason why I say
this, like so here's it. Here this is
what it is. Yeah. Make a 100 6
figures a year or more, have 6 months
or a year of savings, be in shape,
50 women and then be 35 years old.
The reason why I say have these 5
things in place is because
most women,
right, will look at you as a higher
status, more attractive male, which in will inevitably
put her and her feminine puts you and
your masculine so the relationship ends up,
actually working because we all know what happens
when you deal with a rambunctious woman. Now
Mhmm. I mean that if a person reaches
10 bodies, 20 bodies, 30, 40, and he
has other things in place, oh, no. Sorry,
baby. I can't commit to you because I
I need to hit 50. No. And like
I said before with our podcast, we might
be able to curb it where they don't
need to necessarily hit that number but I'm
speaking from a general perspective from most people
and then also with the as far as
the book goes with the, the dating stuff,
this is why I'm such a big proponent
of not relying on online dating. I tell
people meet people meet meet girls through your
friends, meet girls when you're out, meet them
out in real life, use Instagram. We have
multiple different,
ways that you need to go ahead and
source women. Now with that said, of course,
if you're religious, then this might not necessarily
apply to you because you're,
you're going against your religious beliefs. But my
thing is this, if you're a religious guy,
right, and you can't do this, that's totally
fine. The only thing I ask is I
want them to make sure that they don't
get married with the state. You don't need
to hit this body count number if you're
getting married and it's just religious strictly No
I see. I see. Look a lot of
what you said there a lot of what
you said there is very reasonable. I don't
think it's wrong for a man to aspire
to make a certain money like a certain
amount of money. I don't think it's wrong
for them to put themselves in the I
think it's actually quite praiseworthy frankly. You know
there's nothing wrong with that. My only issue
is that the reason why I mentioned the
50 body count thing
is because I this is my analysis, Brian.
You could tell me what you think. We're
living in a time historians refer to as
Pax Americana. Yeah. It's a time where America
is a superpower and as a result
western countries have not had to have wars
where they themselves are in danger in the
ways that they had in the past. Okay?
It's more like incursions or invasions or whatever
it may be. As a result we in
the west are living in a state of
relative ease and comfort.
Arthur Schopenhauer, a famous philosopher, he said that,
human beings or humankind, mankind
vacillates
between
extreme boredom and extreme fear. Okay? I think
now we're living in an age of extreme
boredom because we're not fearing
that someone's gonna kill us. Yeah. In a
war context. As a result
we are missing what most cultures in the
past referred to as rites of passage for
men. This is where the masculinity crisis comes
in. Because before a man could prove that
he is a man by stepping on the
battlefield.
Now that that kind of opportunity
is no longer afforded to us on the
same kind of level.
And as a result we have invented rites
of passage for men
So that they can feel like they have
gone through a certain process and now they
are men. And what I see with the
red pill movement is that they've invented arbitrary
and ad hoc rights of passage.
Which actually feed more into hedonistic
liberal thinking
than anything else. Which they're scanty to no
evidence
that will improve them as an individual, virtuously
or otherwise.
The lack of which we've just mentioned the
50 body count thing which I know comes
from the rational male because I've that was
the first place I read. I don't know
if you got it from there as well.
Yeah. So the point is is our number.
He just calls it plate theory. Yeah. I
mean what I'm saying to you is in
the the time it would take you to
find non prostitutes
that are 50 in number that you can
have sex with in the west. You can
spend making money for yourself.
You can spend working on yourself. You can
you can spend improving your bravery. You improving
your
your proficiency, your strength. Because the thing is
I feel like there's an underlying assumption with
the red pill movement. Yeah. And the assumption
to make ourselves most marketable for women.
to make ourselves most marketable for women.