I am the Standard

Mohamad Baajour


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AI: Summary © A group of young Muslims are trying to save their lives from the hellfire and are required to protect their moral conduct. They emphasize the importance of manners, including being the standard, praying for others, and maintaining family ties. The speakers stress the benefits of good manners, including being recognized as the best of o'clock, being thanked for their good deeds, and being a god. They also emphasize the importance of avoiding criticized behavior and not just knowing one's own manners.
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was hidden

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in Hola. Hola Cherie Keller, wash Edwin no Mohammed and others who are a pseudo and Yehuda subhanho wa Taala if you could tell him Kareem, here you have a lady in men who know how to call it

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mostly moon yeah.

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The common lady

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he was

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gonna be he went

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in Allahu Alikum rocky Yeah, you

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have a Kuhn who said either you sleep late come back home while you're here let him know that come with me in

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the Hadith herzer fellows and now the EMA and that thing is local Hadith Kitab Allah Okay, Ron, had you had you Mohammed bin Salman Allahu alayhi wa sallam were shorter, more to her. Well, that's the thing. What could be that in Dolla dolla? I think for now, the man that

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I spoke with beloved brothers and sisters they ask Allah azza wa jal who gathered doesn't dismiss it together assume of PMO Satan will serene Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I mean

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100 young Muslim few so he and Abdullah bin Ahmed over the loss and the rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call

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I believe no, I'm gonna go to Laos and the Hadith in Sahih Muslim he said that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said whosoever wishes to be saved from the hellfire and entered into Jannah

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let him not die except he is incomplete II Eman in Allah and in the day of judgment and treat people the way he would love to be treated.

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So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam put two conditions

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to enter Jannah and to be saved from the hellfire. Most of the Muslims concentrate on the first one and neglect the second one.

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Even though Rasulillah Salam said both you need both

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to be saved from the hellfire and to enter Jannah the first one al Eman Billa he will young in air here will include all our ADA debt.

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And the second one includes all our muamalat All our interactions with others both of them together. Both of them together will save us from the hellfire and interest Jenna, we concentrate a lot on the first and we completely neglect the second.

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My brothers and sisters

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as we have seen from this hadith that luck and a bad that they go hand in hand.

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A bad that with without us luck is not sufficient.

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Was the delille Jah rasool Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on call. Well can you have colorful Nana min Kathy salatu wa was yummy ha sada Katya. Whether Qin ha can add to the genre Tihar Billy Sania A man came to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam telling him about a woman

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that she prays a lot. She fasts Allah

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And she donates she gives in charity a lot. But yeah Rasul Allah she horns, her neighbors with her tongue.

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So this woman has perfected the first part of the Hadith. But she neglected the second part of the Hadith. What was the answer of Rasulullah? sallallahu alayhi wa salam he or she now she's in the Hellfire

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so a lack or a Baghdad without a clock is not sufficient. Similarly, Aquila, without a Baghdad is also not sufficient.

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I shadowed the Allahu anha. She said you had a sort of Allah, Abdullah bin Judah and he indicia Helia he used to be very generous and very kind to people. He treats everybody with politeness and kindness, ya rasool Allah, will that benefit him on the deen? Will that benefit him on the Day of Judgment Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said Laya Isha? Because he never said Robin fittingly hottie at young Medina. All these good things that he has done will not benefit him because he was not a Muslim. He was associating partners with Allah azza wa jal, and he never asked Allah subhana wa Tala for forgiveness. So I collect without a bed that is not sufficient. A bad dad

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without a slug is not sufficient, out of the problems that the Muslim ummah is facing, whether the problems are political, economic, social, or moral, the moral problems are the worst of them all. Why? Because all the other problems generate from the motor problem.

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The politician, he will only be corrupt because he has no morals.

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The economy will be bad because people are cheating. So all these problems that we are having the generate

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from the moral problem

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every crime, every adultery, every kind of injustice, every kind of oppression, every kind of abuse, greed, hypocrisy, every kind of bigotry, racism, hatred, envy, all of them, are rooted in the moral problems in our moral conduct. If we fix that, yeah, one and we concentrate on that

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accompanied by the Buddha that we perform, then we will be the Ummah that are Salah Salem was talking about

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Islam gives this problem the moral problem,

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the importance it deserves. It is built Islam is built on values, which are not only for the group that adheres to them, but also for all mankind. Islam laid great emphasis on moral conduct and how we should deal with one another on a daily basis. Now, what is the problem?

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The problem is, or one of the problems is that I am the standard.

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I am the standard.

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I'm driving on the street. I see the guy in front of me driving slow. Oh, what a slow driver, a car zoom next to me what a fast driver. I am the standard.

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Anyone who stands like me is karimun generous. Anyone who spends more than me is extravagant. And anyone that spends less than me, his buffin his stingy. I am the standard. Anyone who acts in a tough situation with wisdom and bravery. He's very good. Anyone more than that? He's reckless. And anyone less than that. He's a coward.

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I am the standard.

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Every single one of us thinks that he is the standard and that is a problem. And that if it only ended in dunya matters to be okay maybe but it exceeds to go to Dean matters. If you are the same in the same level. As religiosity as me, you are as religious as me You are a very good Muslim. You go beyond that. You are extremist, you go less than that. You are heedless.

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I am the standard.

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When we keep thinking that we are the standard, that everything is measured upon, then we have a moral issue. We have a moral problem.

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Rasulullah sallallahu

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Allahi wa sallam

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he was the standard

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what I considered my standard today, two weeks ago or three years ago, was a different standard.

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I used to pray only forward and then Allah blessed me and now I'm praying sunnah with the frog. But when I used to pray for I used to these people who pray some pushing it too much, and the people who do not pray, they forget about it. I'm better I'm better than them. I am the standard.

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So the best thing to do is to look at the real standard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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and concentrate, leave the Hulk to their Halleck leave the creation to the Creator to judge them and concentrate on yourself and do your best to improve your o'clock to come as close as possible to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his character. His social interactions became crime examples became prime examples of moral conduct for Muslims until the Day of Judgment.

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Call Allah subhanho wa Taala look at the kana lecom fee rasool Allah He Oshawott on Hasina in Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wa salam, we have the perfect model, the perfect example when Three men came to the Allahu Allah and asked about the performance that you bear that for Salah Salem, and when she mentioned his a bad that they kind of belittled it.

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So one of them said I fast every day. And other said, I pray pm all night I do not sleep. And the third said I stay away from women. So I will not be distracted from from my dean. When Allah says salam he heard about this, what did he say? says I am the best of you. And I fast and I break my fast. I pray pm and I sleep

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and I marry women Subhan Allah, so that was not the standard that is exceeded the standard

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught us what are the good manners? The good manners Yeah, one truthfulness. Honestly, kindness justice. assisting others is speaking God kindly advising others maintaining family ties, spreading greetings of Peace feeding the poor, smiling as simple as smiling gaff one, smiling, treating the pool with compassion,

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kindness to the parents, kindness to the spouse, kindness to the children, kindness to the neighbors, Muslims or non Muslims spreading spending in Allah's Cause Patience,

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patience, politeness and speech, taking care of the affairs of other Muslims and helping them these are some of the many forms of lab that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught us because he came to perfect good manners. He said that he his Salatu was Salam in Namur boys to the OTA NEMA mCherry Mala club. I was only in nama at that hustle. I was only sent to perfect manners.

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One of the ways

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to improve our manners Yeah. One is to remind ourselves

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of the reward of having good manners. Allah when I read these Hadith about the reward of good manners, Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar.

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For first, Paula Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam

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A commendable meanie you know II man and

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I sent over mahalo calm

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like I said in the beginning, it's excellent to concentrate on on the Ibadan pm and tahajjud and donation,

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but we are really behind

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in the way we treat one another.

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How many times you complain or you hear somebody complaining? I will not do more any more business with Muslims.

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Why if that person is really practicing the deen the right Islam? Why would I'm supposed to give my business first and foremost to a Muslim?

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me Nina, Iman. Some of them the most perfect

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with complete

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To Eman is the one with the best of o'clock

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Shula rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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an act for you to heal in nursing Jana Rasul allah sallallahu sallam was asked ya rasool Allah what is the most thing that will lead people to Jannah

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keep in mind when we say called Rasul Allah one

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that is all 100% True.

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What is it Yasuda Allah that the most thing that will lead people to Jannah Taku Allah wa Snell Hello again, both together a Baghdad and Weimer let

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having Taqwa of Allah azza wa jal and having a good character having good o'clock third, and I Aisha Radi Allahu anha da call it Samia to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam you're called in min la you Derek because Nicole Okay, the Raj at a saw in a locker in

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the true believer, he will reach with his good luck with the rank of the person who's up all night and fasting all day.

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So this person is a very good Mormon. He practices his a badass, and on top of that, he has great o'clock and he's eating and he's recorded saw him and he's sleeping and he's recorded call him.

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Allahu Akbar, he will achieve she will achieve the level of Simon climb with good manners.

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order Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and as usual all these Hadith are 100% authentic Nermeen Shaikh

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man ma'am in shape.

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You will not fill me Zan, ethical minister.

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Nothing on the day of judgment you have one there will be Rasulullah Salam told us there will be actual means an actual scale.

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And we gave a whole football about that actual skill. Three aerosol, Allah what is the heaviest thing will make my skill very heavy on the Day of Judgment.

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horsnell Hello, great manners.

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Allahu Akbar. What else?

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In a heartbeat. Allah, Allah

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the most beloved to Allah.

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Or the one with the best of manners

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was beloved to Allah, not the one who perform Hajj every year and he comes and cheats people, not the one who plays in the first row every single day and he goes and lies and abuse his wife and abuse his children and abuse everything

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that he bet on the Hadith that we narrated about the woman who is praying and fasting and giving in charity. If you continue the Hadith, the man said yeah rasool Allah but there is another woman she does the basic a Baghdad but she has the best of o'clock. He said here Phil, Jana

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isn't our goal as believers

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to gain the love of Allah azza wa jal? Yeah one because when we gain the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala you're done. When Allah loves someone, he will tell you, he'll you had you been I love so and so.

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And up will announce the angels and the angels would love so and so. And then the COBOL will be put on earth everybody on earth will start loving that person.

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So the most beloved to Allah azza wa jal is the person with the best of luck. Six Subhan Allah every single one of us

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love Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and every single one of us would love to be with him on the Day of Judgment listen to this hadith Yeah, one in the mean I have become Elijah. We're acharavi Kamini mesh listen yo Malkia Anna

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the one who is most beloved to me, and the closest to me on the day of judgment.

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The one with the longest beard

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the one with the shortest job.

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The one with the five times a day in the masjid, all these are great, but if they are without a clap, they're not sufficient. Who is it? Yeah rasool Allah, the one with the

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List of manners, the most beloved Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and the closest to him, and also, as I said, live in the highest place in Jannah. Allah gathers with him in sha Allah is the one with the best of luck.

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If I can combine this beard and this salawat and this a bad debt with a great clap, Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar. Allah McKenna has sent a hyung Khanna has some fluoroquinolone acordo Korea the structure Allah for stuff euro in the whole of right.

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Smilla salat wa salam ala mon learn to be about

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the most complete an amen. The most beloved to Allah, the Most Beloved to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, the closest to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the heaviest thing in the scale, the most thing that will lead people to Jannah

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look at these promises and rewards of great manners.

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So my brothers and sisters

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like the Hadith we started with,

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treat others

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the way you would like to be treated. You want people to be kind to you. Be kind to others. You want people to forgive you if you made a mistake, forgive others. Sometimes we are so stubborn we will not forgive no if you want to be forgiven and add to hipbone if you're hola hola calm. Don't you love Allah to forgive you forgive others.

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You want people not to cheat you do not cheat others, be honest with others. And very importantly, one do not go around and search for other people's faults.

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So you can feel better. I'm better than so on. So be very careful. Do not do that. As you look forward. You look every in every form you can to find the fault in the chef and the imam in your brother in the masjid. You look forward for that. Be very careful. There's a warning from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said whoever does that Allah will expose him even inside his own home.

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When you shoot when you see somebody less than you in a Baghdad, make dua for him.

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Thank Allah that He blessed you and ask Allah azza wa jal to keep you performing this Eva till the day you meet him. This is o'clock. This is the way we look at each other. Look at this woman. She is not wearing hijab. This is the look at this guy. I hardly see him in the masjid. Do you want everybody to tell you what the problem is? In order to understand? One sister came to me she's not wearing hijab. May Allah guide all our sisters to wear the proper hijab?

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Her husband told her you were a job, you are divorced.

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I'm gonna throw you outside the house.

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She has nowhere to go to No family, nothing, no education, nothing.

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And in her heart, she's boiling.

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Does she have to put a sign on her chest of what she's going through, so you can be pleased and not judge her.

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You don't know what people are going through thank Allah azza wa jal for what He has blessed you with and make dua for these brothers and sisters that are behind and that Allah to make you from the people who are better and very important, literally

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beg Allah azza wa jal to keep you steadfast because you never know. You never know how our life will end. May Allah make our last deeds our best deeds, may Allah subhanaw taala give give us the best of luck. May Allah subhanaw taala just like he perfected our creation perfect our o'clock Allama Fernando de Nova where Serafina Emelina with a bit of them and when Solomon Allah Coleman Catherine along with one and then we'll start off UniFi Idlib era Bill Alameen Allah Maria's it's one thing if you call him again Yahama I mean, Allah mon Sol Islam or when Muslimeen Allah Islam I will Muslimeen Allah may Allah Hama rahimian result Masha heard that a few Sabina KR but I mean, Allah Medina can

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