Mohamad Baajour – Epic Legends – Nusaybah Bint Kaab – Umm Umarah

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The history of Islam is discussed, including the first woman to pray after Omar Abdul Qaeda's death and the first woman to pray after the birth of an American woman named Amara. The importance of shaking hands with women who are not your parents is emphasized, as well as the loss of family members and the use of shields to protect against attacks. The Spanish Civil War and the Spanish Empire are also discussed, along with the deification of the Spanish flag and the use of the military in the war. A character named Mohammed died as a Shaheed Subhanababa and Moe died as a Shaheed Subhanabher, while Mohaqib and Day of Jana Baroughamba were mentioned.
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alumni alumni and founder on fan of Mr. alum Tana

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was it nine manual camera I mean, we ask Allah subhanaw taala teachers would benefit us benefit us from what you told us and increase us in knowledge. I mean you're behind me.

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Please the brothers in the back please just we can keep it down

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today in sha Allah Tala

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in the first

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session we discussed Omar Abdulaziz or the Allahu Allah. Last week we discussed

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so if you only 30 And by the way hamdulillah good news.

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A brother who was blessed with a baby last week he named his son Sophia, after Sofia.

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hamdulillah which is great shall on May Allah make him like Sophia and inshallah today we

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decided to

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introduce a a woman

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to show that our legends and our heroes are not only men, we also have

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women that made our

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history very prosperous.

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We all know that the first Muslim is a woman

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the first person who prayed behind the salah Salem is a woman and the first Shahida the first Shaheed in Islam is a woman Subhanallah

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so Today's legend if somebody can close the doors please because the brothers are talking right there

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today is a Sahaba

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a companion? Her name is Noosa bent cab. nusseibeh didn't cab and her nickname is

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anybody knows.

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Or more Amara?

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Amara are the Allahu anha.

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She had two

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sons, hubby and Abdullah Habib, an Abdullah from the first marriage

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and her husband. His name is Rosie Yeah. Ben Ben Amaroo

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Rahim Allah He said about her

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a more Amara witnessed the pledge of Acaba.

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She witnessed the Pledge of Allegiance the second tranche of alpha, she participated in the battles of

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Khyber and also witnessed the fate of maca. And she participated with the Battle of Yarmouk on the days of Abu Bakr, Radi Allahu Anhu or God.

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More Amara

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is telling the story of what happened.

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In the Davia when they did the pledge to Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, we all know the story. First small group came then after that 73 men came and two women one of those women was more Amara nusseibeh Ben cab

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aka Alpha luck.

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helpful, helpful Lacava.

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When they came, she's telling the story after everybody gave the bailout to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam after everybody gave the bailout

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they told us all a sudden we have two women with us. Masala insulin said

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I take their pledge in the same way I took your pledge, but

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I do not shake hands with women.

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I take the same pledge with them. But I do not shake hands with a woman.

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This is yeah, one the first lesson from the story.

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And I know this is a very, very sensitive issue for all our brothers, the doctors the IT guys in the business they are faced on a daily basis

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of shaking hands with the opposite gender.

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some people said oh this is only for rasool Allah Islam. But the other Hadith in

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a burning holiday in salatu salam if one of you were to be struck in his head with an iron needle, it would be better

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For him, than if he were to touch a woman, he's not allowed to.

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It's better for you to be hit with a needle on your head than to shake hands or touch a woman that is not your mom.

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So this is a general rule for all Muslims. Now we sometimes are in a tough situation.

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And some people say but your brother and Albion have a clean heart. When your heart is not cleaner, then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he did not shake the hand. So it is a very simple choice. Either I upset Allah or I upset the woman in front of me.

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And Allah He the choice is easy.

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You could say it in a very respectful, you don't have to be rude. Very respectful way.

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There's nothing no, nothing personal. This is my Deen. As a matter of fact, every time I try it, you get more respect.

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You get more respect. Now, if keep in mind, you're doing it for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala you're doing it for the sake of Allah and somebody by that are a little bit hard.

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But at the end of the day, my main goal is the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Sheikh Yusuf Estes, he came up with a

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with a

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He said when when a

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noun non Muslim woman put her hand to shake, to put her hand out to shake my hand. I tell her.

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I only shake hands with two kinds of woman.

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Either a little girl that she's nine, less than nine years old, or a very, very old, ugly woman and you are neither one of them.

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And you are neither one of them. So in a joke way, it will pass. A lot of brothers say I'm sick. This and that. Whatever it takes. But it's better always to tell the excuse of the dean. Because this is the truth. You are not hiding anything. This is not your deen. This is not something that you made up. This is Allah subhana wa Tada said, said and it's the ultimate truth and it's the best thing for me whether I know it or not.

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Now, nusseibeh or the Allahu anha

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she was from the people in from the answer, who were waiting for Rasulullah salAllahu alayhi wa sallam to arrive to Medina.

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And she was very happy with his arrival.

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Years passed by and then the battle took place.

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We all know the details of the battle. How Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam assigned the 50 archers and told them not to move. No matter what happens don't move. We all know the story.

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And then when has been when he saw that

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moment that took advantage of it. Rasulillah Salam, as

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Omar Amara is narrating the story, she said, the people have left Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam alone until he was surrounded by only 10 people out of these 10 people. It was me my husband and my two sons. And he 40% of the people covering Surah Salam was the family of Omar Omar Subhan Allah and they were defending him fiercely. Because the people hate us. They want to kill the Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, they want to take advantage of their moment and kill Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he saw a man from the Sahaba running away. So he told him if you want to run away you don't know why just give us your shield.

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Because Amara does not have a shield. So he throws shield. Omar Amara took the shield Subhanallah she stood. She took the shield with one hand, she's having a sword and the other hand she have the shield and both She's protecting Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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She risked her life to protect Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam when the prophesy sell them, so her son Abdullah, bleeding, a man came and hit with a sword. Her son almost cut his arm. So when he saw him bleeding, and of course I sent them ordered on the Amara. Go take care of your son's wounds. She went Subhanallah look at the mother Jaquan she went and she took care of his wounds and she told him rise up and continue fighting. Get up and continue fighting Subhanallah hearing that Rasul Allah says seldom who said when I yield to women you'll take matutina Yeah Mara woman you to come out to to Kenya Mara, who can there but you are bearing Elmo Amara, you're going through all this and you

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see your son bleeding and he's still telling him to get up.

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and fight and defend me, Allahu Akbar.

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Then another man came from the enemy.

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He said, I will not leave this battle until I kill Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam and he was wearing Double Armor

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he hit a more Amara a wound that took one year to heal.

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He said show me Mohammed may I not survive if he survives. Musa ibn Omar and Omar Amara, they came to defend our solar system against this man. He is the man who killed Musab he killed Musa Musa died in in the Battle of God. And she continued fighting fiercely.

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Then Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, when he saw this whole family,

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fighting around him, he said, may Allah bless this house. May Allah bless this household, may Allah give baraka to this household of Amira. May Allah be merciful toward them, can you imagine Rasulillah Salam in such a situation making dua for you. So

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Omar while I took advantage of that moment, Subhan Allah on the battlefield and you can imagine what's going on, or we cannot even imagine what's going on. She turned around, and she said, Yeah, Rasul Allah, make dua, that me and my family will be with you in Jannah.

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together so Allah, make dua that me and my family will be your companions in Jana, Cara Alayhi Salatu was Salam. Allah homage Alhambra. fucka. Even Jana? Yeah, Allah, make them

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my companions in Jana. Look at this beautiful da from Rasulillah salam to this great, great family. And soloists I sent them kept on saying that in the Battle of odd, he said,

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everywhere I turn, I turn left I turn right on the day of an All I see is Amara fighting.

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She was better than Sudan and Sudan and Sudan. And he started naming some Sahaba men. He used to say she is better than so and so and so Subhanallah when she wasn't Mujahidin, she was very, very brave.

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MultiFit to Yameen and well as CheMin and in Aurora to court, you know, Dooney Everywhere I look, I saw a Muhammara fighting to defend me.

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Amara Rasul Allah says, seldom

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died. And then after that, Abu Bakr,

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Radi Allahu Han, became the Khalifa.

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And then, at that time, Messiah Malka Zab

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the one who claimed prophecy he was

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spreading rumors and making up a bet

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that he is a prophet.

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before I suppose I sell him died, he send Habib who is the son of Amara to turn em asylum stuff oh, this peacefully.

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So he went with another Sahabi when they got there, to Salem, Salem has said

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to the first Sahabi who is Mohammed?

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He said Rasul Allah.

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He said, How about me?

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He said, You're not. He said, Who's Mohammed? He said, Rasulullah.

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How about me? When he saw that he they're gonna kill him. He said, You are Rasulullah too. So he let him go. Now we came to Habib. He said, Who's Mohammed? He said, Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. He said, who are who am I? He said, I can't hear you. He said, Who's Mohammed? He said, Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. He said, How about me? He said, what I can hear you. So every time he said, I can't hear you. He started cutting a piece of his body

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until he killed him into pieces.

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He died Habib the son of OMO Amara died as a Shaheed Subhanallah he could have been excused like Allah said in the Quran, that his heart is safe. He knows that Salah Salem and he could have saved himself, but he took the upper level Subhanallah so what did

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what did the Amara? His mother say when she found out what happened?

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She said

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it was for

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Such a situation that I prepared them.

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This is why I raised them for

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all mothers, you know Allah will or this woman f1 said this is what I prepared them for.

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So her first son died.

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Then the Battle of Yarmouk came, the Battle of Yamama came on the time of

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Abubaker the Allah and also against Muslim. She went and she fought, she had 11 wounds in her body and her hand, her wrist from here, or this is cut, cut off in the battle. And she said, Well, Allah, He

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did not care about all this when I heard that my son Abdullah killed Musallam

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whoever killed most element were two people. While she

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was she he said, with this sword, I killed the best man and I killed the worst man

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who's the best man. Hands up. He said with this sword. I killed the best man and the worst man. And when he was killing him, Abdullah came and helped him finish finishing Salem. So

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her this whole family was blessed Subhan Allah, all of them died as shahada but some Allah say seldom made dua for them to be his companions in Janna. And we are still remembering them till this day and till the Day of Judgment because of her bravery and her courage and her love to this deen and defend defending this Deen with everything that she has. So

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my mother died the year 13 After Hijra in the Khilafah of Omar. Radi Allahu Anhu out a lot. So I guess the next person who had a baby girl, we have a name for you know say you you can name your daughter nusseibeh Such a beautiful name. And as a matter of fact, Danny when I was growing up,

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that name was very popular, but in the age of my mother, then disappeared now completely but people who are now in their 60s 70s that name was very popular in the Arab world. My now you hardly hear it. But Subhanallah if you want to remember this character on a daily basis in sha Allah Tala, that's an option of a beautiful name to name our daughters. May Allah subhanaw taala bring from our generations and our ummah. Somebody like more Amara, may Allah subhanaw taala gather us with this kind of people on the Day of Judgment. May Allah subhanaw taala increase as an Eman zakat Maka welcome Buffy come we'll see you Monday with an area and I've seen it and we'll see you next

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