Mohamad Baajour – 40 Authentic Qudsi #18 – Hand, Tongue, Heart – Hadith #16

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The history and origin of Islam have been discussed, including the use of subencies and the lack of evil behavior. The importance of being a good father and good neighbor is emphasized, along with the need to avoid harming loved ones and avoid harming their " Probably safe in our society, but it is not safe to be a good role model. It is important to be patient and to be a good role model to avoid harming loved ones and forbidding evil. It is essential to be mindful of one's own priorities and not give up, and to be patient with oneself and others.
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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi over a cat smell out hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Allah Marlena main file now when finally my lymph Tana was at 900 I mean, we ask Allah azza wa jal teachers would benefit us benefit from what you told us and increase us knowledge. May Allah bless this gathering and make us from the people at the end of the gathering, they will be told como MacFarlane lecom Cabo de la se ethical Massenet, Amin Robert enemy, they will continue with another Hadith could see

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I will say the Kadri or the Allahu Anhu although he aku Samia to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Jaco

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in Allaha LEUs l lab de la Malkia Mati had a call man Anna aka either I eaten Moon Cara Anton Kira fair either Lachlan Allah Who Abdon ha Jetta call your OB, Raju Touka. With Eric to minuteness.

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Hadith Lavon as usual, the hadith of slavery

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was a lottery or the Allahu Allah and he said that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that Allah subhanho wa Taala will ask

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his servant a question on the Day of Resurrection, I want you to lend me your ears, because this is a very important topic, especially in the

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in the time that we are living in where ordering good and forbidding evil, is almost

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have disappeared.

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Allah will ask that

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what kept you from denouncing evil when you saw it?

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And then Allah subhanaw taala and He grants him the permission to respond.

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The person will say, Yeah, Allah. I was hoping for your mercy. And I feared people.

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For crypto is not usually is not used a lot means crypto means I was afraid from what people are going to do.

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First of all,

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the first thing we derive from this hadith,

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my beloved brothers and sisters is that we will be questioned about everything.

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We will be questioned for our big Elena's Elena Han, Allah said Subhan. Allah is saying, by his talking to the salah Salem, by your Lord and his swearing Allah by himself, I will ask them all sort of ledger, about everything they have done everything.

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You know, after a while we start you know, you know, I can give you a very good example especially I'm looking at people all at the same age. You know, when we first came to the United States or to the West in general, there were so many things that bother us. They don't bother us anymore.

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Haram is so widely spread. And we get used to it so much that it's not haram anymore, or it's not as haram anymore. I'll give you another example. You know, when the one first the phone, the cell phones, you know, they used to start having ringtones when someone's phone rings as a music or as a song

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after the Salah, the only the people want to eat him up. Now, when do you get that from

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but to that extremely

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Subhan Allah

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naturally, the Haram becomes like you know, we get used to it. We get used to looking at a woman on TV without hijab without anything giving the news and excuse I'm watching the news, but we all know that the shower is our the hair is our but it's not as normal. We will watch your shows. We see a man in a comedy, a man sleeping with a woman and the bed in the same bed. What's the big deal even though we know they're not related? This is haram

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the people are drinking alcohol. You know.

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This is This is very dangerous, very dangerous.

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Now, here the

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is a special

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condition or a special situation that this man was going through.

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So first we agreed that we will be questioned about everything. So if I have to be questioned about everything I have to have an answer, right? For everything that I do.

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Now, the man said, I did not do anything yeah Allah because I was hoping for your mercy. And I was feeding the people. Now usually feeding the people is not an excuse to forbid.

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Evil, right? Otherwise, what is the fear of Allah Allah?

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Allah subhanaw taala Quan, Tasha, Allah is more deserving to be feared than anybody else. Right? So this man said, I was hoping for your mercy. And I was feeling the people.

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If you felt that your forbidding evil might cause you bigger harm, then this is what the man said, then you do not do that. Or if you felt that forbidding evil might lead to a bigger evil. You do not forbid evil. For example, you see somebody smoking, and

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you know that if you tell him to stop smoking, he's gonna go drinking,

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not smoking, because drinking is bigger than smoking,

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and so on. So this man did not stop the evil. Yeah, Allah has not stopped to eat because they were going to harm me. And we all know that, like the Sheikh said, say, I'll be here, Dharan, law, your Tico

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he is going to be affected by something he cannot handle. He cannot be able to bear. It might lead him or affect his Deen. That's why he did not forbid evil. And we all know that Allah subhanaw taala told us in the Quran. Well,

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come on.

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You had your own ala Louie there were more owner bill now roofie why and how?

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you can really hone and let there be among you people who are ordering good and forbidding evil.

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And Allah subhanaw taala few, after he told us quantum higher on making a keenness, you have the best nation and this is an honor Jaquan. When we hit this idea, we don't have to remember that. Keep in mind that you're talking about how many nations from Adam all the way till Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and Allah said you are the best nation but that honor has a condition,

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yet maroon have been modified and how that in Mocha, to be from the best nation you have to order good and forbid evil.

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You have to you must follow all the good and forbid evil. Now Subhanallah

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Allah cursed Bani Israel eel, when they used to see the evil and did not do anything about it, can who lie aterna Hona and monka in follow, Allah said that Allah curses the people, why are Allah because they used to see the moon car and they used to say nothing.

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So, seeing the moon car, seeing the Haram being done, and not saying anything, and you are able to do something, you are committing the sin.

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Now comes the

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level of your

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ordering good and forbidding evil, we all know that Muslim, that first is in your hand, second is in your tank, third,

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with your heart and that is above the weakest of iman,

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the weakest of iman. So when I see something

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is wrong in my house, in my own family, I have to use the hand.

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Hand means power, does not mean hand means it could be but it's not necessarily means hand that I have to immediately start building with my hand. But if it needs that, and I can and I am able to do that to stop the evil I can do that I have the authority I am the father I am the principal if but he had hand means authority. You are the president. You are the ruler you are the man you are the emir, you are the father you are the teacher.

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With the hand if you can change with the hand is not enough to do the tongue.

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If I cannot do anything with the hand, this is not my family. It's my brother in the masjid. Then I have to use the tongue. Brother This is haram.

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I have to advise him I have to speak to him. And then

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If I cannot do anything like we are living here, and I see many things that I do not agree with,

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I cannot change it with my hand. And I cannot change it with my, I don't know these people, the least the least I can do is to hate it with my heart.

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And this is where I want to put some emphasis here. Yeah.

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This is what I'm scared about that it reaches a level that even that is not there anymore.

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Let's assume that there's like

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levels that are so awesome gave. You have strong Eman, you change with your hand. You have a little bit weaker Eman. Maybe you change with your tongue and then another level another level. And then he said

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maybe you have some weak Eman then you change like in some other method. But he said the weakest Iman is the heart. What does that mean? That below that is what

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is no more Eman?

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Do you understand how dangerous it is?

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We used to hate liquor stores. My heart it kills me how did this happening? We used to not even pass by the aisle and we hate it in the supermarket. Now we go through the supermarket. Maybe we joke around with somebody about the alcohol. And

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maybe we joke around about the lottery and we joke around about it. We joke around about these things. And we supposed to at least the least the least is to hate them the least is to hate them

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imagine how dangerous it is. Above above you know when you say above weakest, there's nothing less than that. The weakest is to hate it. And we have so many I don't want to name them all you know them all. So many things to hate with our heart. We're living right now. We're not only living right now, everywhere. Unfortunately, our countries are not really much better these days, unfortunately.

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our duty as believers believing men and believing woman is to advise for another Allah says in surah Tauba. One more Nino Nina Well, Mina, but only

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Maroondah will now

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call the believing men and believing women are guardians are protectors to one another. The first characteristic they order good and forbid evil. But let's take some examples. Because I don't like to keep talking as usual just yet when let's start with my own home.

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When was the last time you you spoke about your son about Salat. And you know that he does not pray or she does not pray. Many of the parents gave up, gave up. And this is the position of authority. The position of the first one with the hand, said about the heart. You cannot say why my son doesn't pray and I hate it with my heart. It's not enough. This is a family must own, you're responsible.

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My daughter became an adult and she doesn't wear the hijab. I hate it with my heart. I know. You have to tell her. This is your daughter you're responsible for.

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That's why I tell my brothers who have young girls 567 Even it's a joke or they play around. But let them put danger from now. So they get used to it. Otherwise, if you waited 1516 years, I'm telling you from now it's going to be a disaster. very, extremely hard. The brothers the sisters that are doing it already for a long time are suffering. You want to bring a girl that never experienced that. And boom at 16 and 17 or 15 when she became hit puberty, you're going to tell her go ahead now very hard, extremely hard. But when she was seven, eight, she pulled it for a day took it up for two days. And then when she was 10 she kept on putting it out outside outside the house all the time.

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And then when she was praying and other than gradually How does she This is it I saw my mother all the time doing this my grandma's doing this everybody this is it. And we make a big, big big celebration for her when she put her job and we bring her gifts and stuff to encourage them you know there's nothing wrong with that.

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But this is Don't say I hate it with my heart or I spoke to her I told her already. No, no. You have to really poor Be persistent. I'm not telling you go beat the child or no no, you have to be very smart how to convince them especially in this era. But you cannot stop as a father you cannot stop. Maybe you can stop with your kind advice your your neighbor's daughter by talking to her father, but your daughter your daughter

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your sister, your wife is your responsibility. It is your responsibility and

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put your priorities in order when it comes to salad. You know after this is no, there's no there's no joking about salad there's no there's no discussion about salad salad is the difference between a moment and a cafe.

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there's an idea

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that many people Subhanallah misunderstand, and is insulted many that when Allah subhanaw taala said, yeah you Hala Dina Ave, and they come and forsaken, ly adore recommend the law, either to datum or who you believe Worry about yourself and do not bother with others as long as you are guided. So if you read this area, it shows that as if you're saying

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I am guided, right? If you lead if literally it means if you are guided does not matter who's got it or not. This is what it means. It looks like it means but when the sahabi was asked,

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What does this I mean, God Allah could sell to Iran sell to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, somebody asked us a hobby. What does this I mean, this is like, this is going against ordering good and forbidding evil because I'm good doesn't matter. He said, I asked the man it was revealed to I asked her so allah sallallahu Sallam because also it confused me. So he said, What does it mean? He said, It took me to build my roof with an anchor had either Etosha Hambleton well when we were duniya Mazzara when Jeff Cooley the era in FileMaker, because whether allow him Subhanallah there's an order to reach that level Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said,

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order good and forbidding evil.

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But if you see overwhelming stinginess, desires being followed, this word being preferred over the hereafter, and every person with an opinion feeling proud of it, and you realize that you have no power to deal with it, then you have to mind your own business and leave the common folk to their own devices. After you will come there will come a day. These are called the days of patients. These are the words of Salah Salem, they are called the days of patience, during which patients will be like grasping, a burning call, and one who does good deeds will have reward like 50 men doing the same deed. They said yeah rasool Allah 50 from them or 50 from us, he said 50 from you.

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Allah I feel it.

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Allah I feel it I feel the call. I feel it because you know, every time you order good and forbid evil these days, they call you names and they call you stuff and Subhan Allah.

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But that should not stop us Jaquan because we are not people looking for dunya we are looking for the earlier

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days of patients. So as I said, don't call them the days of patients.

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We have to be very patient, and quickly because it's taking long. What are some of the conditions that we should have to order good and forbid evil number one knowledge, but knowledge does not mean to be a scholar in order for it to order God forbid even knowledge mean to not to be knowledgeable about the subject. Like for example,

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somebody does not pray, do I need knowledge to tell him please yaki pray, somebody's eating Ramadan and drinking during the day. Do I need to be a scholar to tell him please yaki This is Ramadan fast knowledge according to you, at your level, make order order good and forbid evil according to your level of knowledge. The more your knowledge, the more you have to do ordering good number to have wisdom in the way you're asking people to perform something Do not be very harsh. When you are very harsh, nobody listens to you. And sometimes it leads to even people repelling from the Dean hating the dean. If you are not appropriate in the way you're presenting. You're, you're ordering good and

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forbidding evil, you might may hate make the people hate the dean. And it happened a lot. A lot. Third, be patient. Yeah, he was stubborn, yada, yada. Be very patient, especially with your family. When you order something, be very gentle with them. And be patient, extremely patient with ourselves that will help with oversold the suburb, very patient.

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Fourth, try to be a role model. When you want to ask someone to do something, try to do it yourself. So you can be an example for others. And don't give up. Don't give up.

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The shaitaan is going to come and tell you you tried once you try twice and very important, extremely important, which makes people

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stay away from ordering good and forbidding evil. Very important. You Me

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Every one you are not responsible for the result.

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This is very this is what makes a lot of people stop. Oh I spoke to him to stop smoking for 10 times and he did not say why should I speak? This is the job is to speak the job is not to reach he stopped or not.

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Are they called bella even rasool Allah say Salaam Alaikum Bella, you have only to give the love you're not responsible for the result

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in the colletta demon

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His most beloved uncle die does not a non Muslim

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but he how many times till the last moment? Yeah uncle sailor killed the last moment he never gave up. So we are not responsible for the result. The hedaya is from Allah azza wa jal, many people stop. Now finally Subhanallah listen to this hadith and you listen to this hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he is making an he is swearing by Allah, by him in whose hand my my is my soul, by him by Allah.

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You either order good and forbid evil, or Allah will certainly soon send his punished. punishment upon

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and listen to this

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you know, so many people ask me, you know,

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in Ramadan in Laylatul Qadr the whole Muslim world is shaking your up your Allah Muslims every day in Ramadan, and in Makkah millions and millions. What's happening isn't to the end of the Hadith, Allah will send the punishment upon you if you stop ordering good and forbidding evil, and then he will make a lot of that and it will not be accepted.

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You would make a lot of that it will not be accepted.

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This is how important it is to order good and forbid evil. To the to the to your level, to your level, smallest things you don't have to like just say something if you can say say it if you hate it, if you cannot do anything about it, just at least Allah knows. You don't have to show me that you hate it. Allah knows in your heart that you're boiling How could this guy do this? How this they're doing this to the Muslims I'm born in my brothers are in a camp in China. And I'm sitting here doing I can't take this anymore. This is oppression. I hate it in my heart.

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Putting the changing my brother's Dean

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the putting things in their head that is not against our our fatwa against everything. And I hate it in my heart at least we held in our heart.

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But when we lose that hatred in the heart, of the of the of the of the action that's happening, then we are in big trouble.

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So please you have one to the best of our ability try to do good and forbid evil, as much as we can start with yourself. Absolutely. Then the closest people to you and then after that, and to the others but very important wisdom, gentleness, kindness and patients. May Allah subhanaw taala make us from the people who listen and apply. May Allah forgive all our sins. May Allah subhanaw taala guide our spouses, May Allah guide our children, may Allah protect our children from any harm. May Allah Subhana Allah gathers yarmulke with Rasulullah Salallahu Salam May Allah subhanho wa Taala increase us an email and may Allah increases in love to one another. May Allah azza wa jal fill all

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our homes with love and mercy and tranquillity. May Allah azza wa jal make our last word last words La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu Muhammad Ali or savage Marine, make a lot of solid on Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and please come to measure tomorrow jakim Allah Subhana Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah, Allah Allah and the stuff Heruka on a toolbar like

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