Reminders Khashiyar Rahman 2

Mirza Yawar Baig


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The speakers discuss the importance of healthy connections and avoiding the judge in building friendships. They emphasize the need for a healthy healthy relationship and avoiding giving too much information. The importance of learning the meaning of what is being recited before a meeting and increasing the amount of data being read is emphasized. The speakers stress the importance of practice and avoiding giving too much information. They also mention a workshop and teacher training for those struggling with their thoughts and emphasize the need to be mindful of their thoughts and not be caught by surprise.

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In the London Lillah wa salatu salam O Allah, Allah Allah He was heavy Amara

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Allah Subhana data in Surah, Yaseen and in other places

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used a particular term

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to describe what I call the formula of success.

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And that term is Hershey Rodman I will write

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I will wait for Bashir Huma ferati no Jim Carrey

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in other places also allows me to use the timer cashier.

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think about this term,

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hotshot is here.

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So if cashier has to be is the objective, if you have to hear

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then why did Allah subhanaw taala not use any of his

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jealousy but

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Hershel Jabbar, Hush.

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Hush apologies.

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grammatically, there's nothing you could have, could have used any of this. And for our small wind that makes sense. within quotes, Casa de bah bah, bah, forgive me We'll take the cup. He will take He will punish.

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But Allah subhanaw taala did not say official Jabari did not say official

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because hashirama will wave

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is the definition of the quad.

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Crusher, if somebody says what is the quad quad is for sure.

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to fear to offend Allah subhanho wa Taala de la vida Rahmani Raheem of dunya and akhira. Who will not see?

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Why should we fear to offend him because we love Allah.

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This is where the fear of Allah and the love of Allah come together. Well, as Monica said, Well as you know, I shall obey the law.

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So it is not Russia by itself. Because even Satan said, he said, he fears Allah.

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But he's not Sasha rock man.

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Just fearing alone is not a question of hearing in any way. The fear of Allah.

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In the context of the Quran, in the meaning of taqwa builds our connection with Allah. The more a person fears Allah,

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the more the person is close to Allah.

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Allah wa sallam said, the root of all goodness is

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living a life without the fear of Allah is

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something which is very, very bad, which is something which is like the symptoms of terminal illness except that this terminal illness will not end with that, it will start with death.

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So hashirama

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Now, how do we build this connection with Allah Subhana Allah?

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What is the way of building this connection with Allah Subhana Allah

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and Allah subhanaw taala mentioned this himself

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will encounter a boon Allah, for

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Allah doesn't say to them who claim to love Allah. Say to those who say we love Allah.

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To do what for Tony? Do my diva

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Allah did not say for Tony, he did not say obey me. No, do my Eva Eva is to do whatever nummies Allah Allah Allah Azza wa sallam used to do whether he ordered it or he did not order it.

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There is a difference between that and he that is to pay for it at the Hong Kong is nothing

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without a home there cannot be that.

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Nobody I cannot say you did not obey me when I never given instruction.

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If I give an instruction somebody does not obey then I can say this person has disobeyed because I told him please do this or do that he did not do it. But without the Obamas asking for it that

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was not logic. Eva is an expression of love

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is an expression of love

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to see your body

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it's Abdo Mahabharata Allah CBOT head he said darboe Tao seabios Quixote a coffee marami de

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gemiddelde Maria Pooja to me, Oh Allah cheesy, but it is when does the keto diet eat

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vivado mbak diva Kahuna mapa Atkinson devadatta musica de bhavati

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is that obedience can be for love it can also be for fear.

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But it is always an always a sign of love a person imitates Why? Because he sees a value in that imitation.

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We do not give examples of Allah and His name is Allah Salam. But just to illustrate today modern dressing if you see why are people wearing clothes, which frankly are sloppy, they're ugly, the bad to look at.

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But they were there. Why?

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Because they're imitating this one or that one the imitating people they were dating, football, you know, soccer player or the imitating some cricket player as a basketball player. So the job was at, you know, with the bigger the bag and he walks like he's got shock absorbers in his knees. Right? I mean,

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because we love those people that they won't look like Michael Jackson. I won't look like Michael Jordan or somebody with a level. So how come you don't look at mahamudra solos or Salah

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Ziva stretches you want to look like everybody in the world except the best of them.

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Except the best of them.

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You have rubbish Allah Shanna is

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what does that what does that give us the one who wants to do it? You Baby como la

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la semana de Allah will love them. Allah will love you.

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And what happened when Allah loves you? Yeah.

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hello and forgive all your sins.

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When the person comes to Allah subhanho wa Taala as someone who loves Allah, and Allah loves that person, there is a question of not for you.

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Or not for you.

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You will come on. So how is this connection built with the divorce or salsa?

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Now what is the theme?

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The theme is not only having a beard for the men and this and that and no, all of those are very important things one must do it. to deliberately for a Muslim man to deliberately shave his beard is haram because he's deliberately changing the the rock of Allah subhanaw taala the shape Allah gave is deliberately going against the sooner

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you don't have to talk about that. I am talking about many other things which are so simple to do for example the asgar after for Salah

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which are also in Makkah used to do this as car after every verse Allah

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we are in such a hurry the minute we finished the parser is that Allah was

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the one who is going to be a scar then

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what is the scar for

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what is the urgency if you are in such a big urgency and can understand or it's one that was running my doorbell I have to go to the office no no go.

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But we are not in an urgency all the time. So how can we never do this?

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Please understand, building tarrlok with somebody or something is always very basic principle of human relations. Building a connection with somebody or something always comes from doing more. Not from doing the minimum. This millions minimalist thinking has to go building connection Gambit doing more. Right you want to build a connection with your wife what do you do?

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I just paid for the lunch you had wood wood wood thing I earned the money so you just ate some food. Does that build a connection? No. You want to build a connection with your wife.

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You take some flowers and give her

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Yeah, so all my Indian friend was not our culture. So go buy buy a bunch of bananas. Something right but do something. Something more than

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this is serious. Yeah. I'm not promoting Western culture, just saying that doing something more than what is required. parents. My father

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said salam to him. How will afford if he did not say salam to him then you are lousy and this is what he would talk about. You're supposed to say Salaam to father you're not doing a father of verbalizing Salah

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but doing more than that the Father sitting nav is going to get up you go straight in his shoes.

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Without his asking, you know at this point at this time, he likes to have a cup of tea go make the tea bring it you don't observe and by which I don't mind

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doing more right with your children doing more than what is required not simply say, Well, I just paid your school fees. What do you expect? No doing more. Take them out. Go do this do that. Always, always, always related?

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jeeps are built by doing more not by doing less.

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Now, what is the need for this with regard to Allah subhanaw taala and the relationship the women have, which we have heard so many times, which is, what did Allah say, my slave comes close to me by what? by you know,

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the father, his father who do not perform the fall, in some cases, you are hiring Islam. In some other case, you may not be currently with Islam, but you are certainly in a bad place. Right? So the first thing is there is a boundary line if you don't cross the boundary or not even inside, so where is the question of

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but Allah said, my slave comes close to me by his navall

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by the extra which he does not by the word fun has to be done extra more that he does.

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until he comes so close to me that Allah the CD, the words of that harissa, coochie how beautiful the words tie become the hand by which he holds.

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I'm not doing a tuxedo here, but I'm just saying that the form of Allah Allah Allah

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is a matter of

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a minute amazing power and strength for you. If Allah has become the hand by which you hold and that hand is raised in Guatemala, subhanho wa Taala What do you think about this dog?

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But my brothers, let me assure you, if it did not happen automatically for the Sahaba it is not going to happen automatically for you and me. Please take this out of your mind and throw it away.

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Don't fool yourself.

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They worked very hard,

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say the delana rates and says that when Allah subhanaw taala revealed Surah Muzammil the last I have forgotten was the 20th in Arabic Allah Monica taco modern, I mean Buddha's a lady when he was

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in America until the end. She said that last I had came one year after the first ads.

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So she said for one year rasulillah salam and the Sahaba prayed all of them prayed that God every day like fourth and then Allah subhanaw taala revealed the last the pseudo surgeon and prayed had to like for this whole life but the Sahaba then this was given as a relief to them.

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Now obviously anyone who reads the seer of this have you know that when that last Ayah came as a relief during the stop praying that you know, nobody ever stopped breathing but this was a really follow it is not a far down the hole otherwise it would have been for us also

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gives a really boring okay so this is left to you.

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Another what is LSA in there in Rebecca Yamanaka Docomo?

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Let's wander knows that you are standing one year Why is this Serbia for one year? Why was it required to build a connection with Allah subhanho wa Taala such that when the students raise their hands in Salah Allah subhanaw taala sent down their angels

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you know more as a landowner, he said we stood and we raised our hands and we said yeah, Muhammad Boone samata Muhammad and he said we saw the sky here we saw the angels are coming down and we saw the sun shining on the Lance's

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didn't happen automatically. Nice story we all like to hear the stories and Mr. Swan Allah what happened was really what happened was today's we are sleeping in our beds.

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We don't want to do one little extra even the walk Suna maka after for Salah we don't want to break

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then how is this connection going to be built.

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And that is where Ramadan comes as a

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training program for us one month long workshop.

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And Allah subhanaw taala not only gives us the chance to do more about that, but Allah subhanaw taala gives us also huge rewards.

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I was once in Jamaat in UK and there was one guy who was with us and he was very uneasy if you saw if you saw his whole behavior the whole time, you know like something is wrong, you know the whole time

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so what I even asked you I said what's what's wrong? He said No, I don't. I don't feel comfortable and this and that. So as to what is wrong today? You know, why is he like this?

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Malik Malik, aka Mahal Marina give me

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he's a shout out Mr. Nikolai.

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But he's talking

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about his role. He said to the virus come out from the environment or shayateen he's come into the house of Allah.

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So to be comfortable in the atmosphere of Malaika also to extend

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is not automatic it's not as if the minute you come to the matches or Mashallah, you know how peaceful No, it's not visible,

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not visible because you're not used to it

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takes getting used to.

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And that is what happens to us sometimes. In therapy, no. One is physical difficulty.

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Like I am not I'm at an age now why, by the time we are under about

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1516 that I got, Bella, forgive me, my back is hurting, my legs are hurting, that's a different matter physically, something is not. But even other than that.

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It takes getting used to

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and how do we get used to that? By thinking of Allah Subhana Allah as greatness

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by thinking of Allah subhanaw taala as greatness by thinking about his meeting with Allah, seriously, just think about this and say, how do you want this meeting to be?

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Let us do it like homework for ourselves or write down You don't have to tell me or anybody just for yourself? How do you want this meeting to be with Allah?

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Yesterday, we had an important meeting with the tax officer.

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And I know how much work three or four of us did before we entered that Miss

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Angela meeting went off very well. But I'm saying our preparation we did. Question is when we were in a meeting with Allah, what preparation do we do?

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Do we have to think no. So sit down and do this as a homework sit down, write for yourself? How do I want my meeting with Allah to be

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my brother I remind myself I knew that that meeting is going to happen one day Believe me.

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Whether we like it we don't like it. We agree with it. We don't agree with it. We accept it we deny it it will happen one day.

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Understand sensible person is who prepares for something which is inevitable is going to happen. So prepare for it. Don't be caught by surprise that would be very foolish to be caught by surprise for something which we know is going to happen.

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So how do we prepare for this

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one of the easiest ways to prepare to enjoy Dharavi is to read the meaning because most of us don't understand the Arabic. So read the meaning of what is going to be recited before you come for that Salah. Like in our budget inshallah, today, we will finish Surah Nisa and then we will go beyond that right so, maybe 50 maybe 100 or whatever. So, read the meaning of that before you come. So, now when the email is reciting, even though you will not understand the entire Arabic but because you have read the meaning, some things will keep catching attention. So your concentration is there the salary cost is not wandering here and there then you're not thinking oh my back is painting my leg

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is that no,

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no, this is what I was saying the greatness of Allah the glory of Allah, the majesty of Allah this will be in our minds. So read the meanings and come also obviously that is about reading the meanings itself is about then standing before Allah subhanaw taala is also about the second thing very important to do number one is to increase the amount of data we do. For example, whatever amount of Quran that you normally read in Ramadan, we must increase that and keep an account of that till today. Today's the fourth

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fifth to fifth fast how much Coronavirus read till today starting from the first row I'm not talking about what in my address in my previous life No, no no, in this month how much Quran is read and that will be more than what we normally read

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and if it is not more than what we normally read the time to make some changes you know in your in your lifestyle in your whatever schedule or something. How much Koran do i have i read

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consciously increase that as I told you it takes getting used to everything takes getting used to even the nice things they're getting used to. But once you get the sweetness of that the Hello of that then it's like an addiction Mashallah good addiction addiction toward to reaching the closeness of Allah subhanaw taala.

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And that's why I remind myself when you it is very important for us to try to get as close to Allah subhanaw taala as possible because one day we will stand before him and dawn comes as a practice for that. So let us try to do more and more of that let us try to enjoy more and more of that and follow us on our service on a solemn in every single thing that we do.

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Every single thing we do, and do it consciously with the consciousness of following Islam not not mechanically. Don't do one of the most people

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important things is the asgar after for Salah, sit down peacefully do the asgar then get up and do your Sunnah Salawat

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one very small tsunamis lasala small not in the sense of significance every every tsunamis, Allah Salam is highly significant as well in the sense of amount of effort it takes.

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Whenever you wear shoes, shake them out.

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To do it, how long does it take to shake it out? Put it on.

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consciously, this isn't our Serato DJ unfollowing

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then a time will come when it will be more difficult to follow my sadhana than to hold a red burning coal in your hand.

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And at that time, the one who brings alive

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The one who follows one son of mine, Allah subhanho wa Taala will give them give that person the reward of 100 shades with a Videla.

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in a time of threat, when it is difficult to follow the Sunnah, the person who brings alive one son of mine sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He said Allah subhanho wa Taala will give him the reward of 100 shade.

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And may Allah subhanaw taala bless this I have a reason for asking these questions. They asked him they said jasola Shahada of their time or Shahada of our time, and as soon as RSM says Shahada of your time

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100 Shahada among the Sahaba there is one main for very alive one son, Mohammed

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That's what I tell people. When I when I keep talking about the beard and May Allah forgive me, people tell me you only talk about the beard, but I'm just saying my expectation from my rub is not only will he give the reward of 100 Shahada for keeping the beard but he will give that reward for every hair in the beard every day of your life till you die.

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inshallah, Allah has no covenant away.

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And so also for anything you are picking up a slipper and checking it out, you're getting the reward for 100 Shahada inshallah,

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inshallah, inshallah Allah Allah Allah did not put a condition on it, if Allah subhanaw taala did not put a condition on why do you want to put a condition

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on it under the name of dB Allah? I am for my slave as he expects advice validation from my rubbish he will keep on giving this inshallah he will give

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but we have to follow

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callibaetis neoga Rosa Danny Muna Valera

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please understand this.

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Get close to Allah. If we get Ramadan Alhamdulillah Allah Subhana Allah give us Allah give us Ramadan to all of us in a good state of health Alhamdulillah if you get this Ramadan and still we do not earn this imagine don't get into the Messiah and telling you seriously sometimes the knowledge of Islam becomes a problem with practicing Islam because you know the masala the purpose of knowing the Messiah is to get closer to allies to do more if you if the knowledge of Messiah is making you do less than believe me that masala is being used by shaitan against you.

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Because we know the masala of the of the number of Raka Ravi and so on. The man is brain 20 raga. iPad, the iPad, I prayed it enough for me.

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How long is this? The mean? Is this the reason why I

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mentioned the importance of budget

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how many of us pray that? Why don't we prep so much.

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Do not allow knowledge to become a problem. That knowledge give us the benefit of doing more and more and more earning more and more and more.

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As well as that if you did not have time to create as much as you found the Jamaat is already standing obviously when the job is done, you cannot be playing something else. Make the knee up for that enjoying the gym, Allah will give you double the reward. What's the problem with that?

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Ideally we should come come earlier to the budget so we can do all of this but whatever reason you came up you came late, no problem. Handle the knee and join us.

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Let us try to seek more and more because my brothers I remind myself when you we do not know when our time is going to come. I cannot say that today I am speaking to you that this is not the last time I will speak to you. I cannot say this

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Maybe before the end of today you will be reading my Salah Genesis images.

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So let me be aware of that. And let me prepare myself for that time which will come,

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a day will come. If you remain alive longer than me, a day will come, when you will either be bring myself to join either yourself or if I die somewhere else, somebody will inform you so and so, Pastor, this day will come there is no doubt about this. If you are alive beyond my life strand, you will hear this news.

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At that time, I hope you will pray for me.

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But if I am concerned about that, let me prepare myself for that day.

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Because if I don't do that, then that will be the most foolish thing in the world. And that is the reason why Allah subhanaw taala began hashirama will

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Allah subhanaw taala to whom we owe every single thing every breath we take is from the dogma philosophy.

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We fear to offend this Rabu sahkari

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Yeah, are you an exam? Ma ra Kabira because

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what is the what is the reply to this? Question?

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Baraka para Beagle, Gary,

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ln is all Galloway to be the job.

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What is the reply for this question?

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Hi, Elisa, Mahara Kabira bucklebury.

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Let us try to think, what is the reply to the question and change our lives, where we will not be asked this question directly.

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ask Allah subhanaw taala to make this easy for us, to make it a pleasure, something that we love, and we enjoy to do more and more and more

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in order to please Allah. And we ask Allah subhanaw taala to make the path to his pleasure, easy for us. And to give the sweetness of this for us, and to for us to seek this more and more in our lives in sha Allah, and to reward us and then to cover us with His mercy and to cover his with his forgiveness in this beautiful month or that and thereafter, so that we bring about permanent changes in our lives. It makes no sense to listen to the same thing again and again and keep on doing, you know, make permanent changes and licensure. Or some of the Highlander we'll carry him while he was happy as mean