Life is Short: Forgive?

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Alhamdulilah Nakamoto who wanna study who want to start?

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When I would we let him in Cerulean fusina one in Serbia tr Melina Maja de la dama de la la

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sala de la

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ilaha illallah wa sallahu luxury Jalla wa shadow Anna Mohammedan. Abu rasuluh Yeah, Johan Latina de la haka. tokachi Wanaka Mouton

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to Muslim Moon.

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Yeah, uh Johan nashotah Pura vida como la dee da kocoum enough su wahida wahala amin has over jaha Watson in Houma region and Cassie around one is

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what up a law lady Tessa Luna v one.

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In alohacare and Alisha merkiva. Yeah, a U haul Nadine de la pulu Colin sadita

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u slash la Come on, man. Come ye overfilled lukou Bochum. wanna use a la una hufa defesa was a novena

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de Kellerman.

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Howdy, howdy Mohamed Salah, Lavalle

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waka lava nothing.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam.

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Like they say that the human being is

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a social species by birth.

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We are a Sushil.

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Allah Subhana Allah Allah created us in a way that we need one another. You can't live by yourself.

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You can

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a planet somewhere where you

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you're, you know alone isolated.

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At the end of the day, you have to interact with another human

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Whether he's a Muslim or non Muslim,

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you still have to do it. It just part of our creation.

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FISA Hayden omega.

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Howdy, Abdullah hypno Houma la de la one Houma, Carlos Alomar, Vallejo, he was

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, a new Alevi u haul your to NASA is

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one minute Mini, Allah levy larrieu Holly finance Delilah as

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a believer who interacts with others. And he would endure patience regarding the harm which may result from this process of interaction is much better in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala than a believer who doesn't do that.

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Who doesn't mingle?

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Who doesn't interact? Who doesn't become part of the oma?

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Why? brothers and sisters in Islam? What is the wisdom here?

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Yah do

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with Unity. All the good things that Muslims can do in the face of this earth can happen if we are united.

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I was in Nashville last Juma.

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And the brothers brought up the issue of owning homes in America.

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I tell you, there is one thing if we do, we're gonna own our homes each one is gonna have united.

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Imagine if you get just five millions out of the thin 15 millions living in America dropping $1 a day, a day in our pool of money. See how many houses will build but that takes unity

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that takes togetherness and that is why the believers have to be together.

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You know when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to change the Sushil order

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of a culture of a nation

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which was part of the encrypted in the in the system, deep into the system. He didn't do it in his own.

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Allah said that to him. Who will levy a Yoda carabiner sorry, he, what do you mean? Remember messenger of Allah, I am the one who given you victory through the believers around you.

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What I left her baby napoo be him and he placed affection, love in between their hearts.

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If we want to advance our cause in this world, hopefully to harvest the hereafter.

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We have to be together one person cannot do it. I can do it by myself.

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You know there are a lot of passive individuals in the oma now.

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When we talk about the condition of the Muslims, and we all have to rise in and make a difference. They say Don't let your brother is coming. You know we believe in in ideas coming we believe that. We believe that he's coming. Yes, there is a man. Allah subhanaw taala will seem to unite this oma again. But you see Maddie needs people around him.

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Maddie is gonna need the elders. He's not gonna do it in his own.

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So prepare yourself. I tell you right now, if humanity shows up, we're probably gonna let him down.

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We're gonna call him a tourist or somebody.

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So we need to be prevailed,

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brothers and sisters in Islam.

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But with that interaction with that Sushil culture with that, you know,

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we must disagree.

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a lot of a lot of us when we talk about the generation of the Sahaba. We don't mention the disagreements.

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they disagreed. The Sahaba look at this hadith

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Hi, Ronnie laka

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the to shave Abubakar Noma, they were about to be doomed to lose. Why? Because they fought in front of the VA they were fighting.

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They fought in front of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam.

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So this agreement must happen as a result of that interaction. If you're going to mix with the people, if you're going to try to do something, there must

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this agreement will have to arise that's the nature of the why, why shaitan doesn't like that.

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Villa de la Muslim and

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and that shows you wish I found it's

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in a shaitana

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Buddha Buddha who soluna fija de Jazeera Tila

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Ravi Evita honey Shiva you know whom shaitan has given up the fact that Muslims will worship him, but he is contending he is happy with placing discord

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with causing them to dislike one another to the like one another to fight with one another.

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The extension of this hadith every single day shaitan. Satan places his throne on water and you've probably heard me say this hadith multiple times.

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And he would say to his jinn, his helpers from his own race, Jin Chi

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Minh leiomyoma muslimin best to

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whoever does the best job today in misguiding Muslims, I will reward him with my own hands tonight by placing a crown on his head.

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At night, the company posting their accomplishment for the day.

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Imagine this one of the will one of them will say he killed another Muslim until this one stands and he will say what

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I did not leave a husband and wife until I separated them.

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You see what he? What is the Muslim community you tell me what a Muslim community look at a small group of families, my family, his family, your family, his family families together. Now, if he penetrates into the origin, the foundation of the society

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the whole society there will be no peace. So he strikes wave

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on the foundation, the family

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the husband and wife the first two who get together

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for other for another cause beside

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shaitan is deal shaitan is he likes

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the aku let eosin Allah Allah stealing us in the Quran. Choose your words carefully. Why? Because you may say a word shaitan is going to come to the recipient to the one who's hearing that word. To take it out of context all he means that Be careful even with the words will kill him. They actually say for Maggie she she doesn't come in and put in the ear of the person.

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so quite frankly,

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some of you may not like this.

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But our knifes my wife who can just blame shaper all the time.

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Our neffs is more into injustice.

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The way that the Nef sees me

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that the concept of me

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the evidence for this in America somehow it will

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abena yamina waszak nemenhah wahama hollinshead

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million at the beginning of time, Allah subhanho wa Taala asked all the creations, the heavens the earth, the mountains and us the human

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Would you like to choose

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to believe in me or not?

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Imagine the heavens and the earth should know the mountains they should know

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they should know

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Create us the way that you want us to be. We want to have a choice we want to worship you unwillingly.

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Who chose

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we said we will do why in Ocala

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What do you mean she

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fell in

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love living

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in justice, exactly trait of the neffs

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It's me, I gotta have this, it's me. If you see someone who does not talk other people Rest assured he has a reason

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he has, that reason could be the divine

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because of a law.

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If I wrote my brother in law, he's gonna punish me.

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I'm gonna pay for this from my house, Senate and the Day of Judgment, oh, he's afraid of the police.

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Or he's afraid that people are gonna say about him, he's an oppressor. He must have a reason. But it is something that the next is more into. Because an insane job Allah, Allah BNF. See, he,

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also worked in a family who

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were different.

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You know, we assess things differently. We Allah given us different mindsets, you may understand the matter in this way. And so this must cause difference of opinion,

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difference of opinion. But really what matters here,

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and that is where the oma is last regarding this. How to manage

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the difference of opinion.

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How to manage administer, may be somewhat $1 $1 At least I will say that. How can we manage our difference of opinion?

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How can we go about it? That's what's missing?

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Unfortunately, the culture came in.

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Yeah, right. Now imagine this. Imagine this, when someone warns you.

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And if you go to that person, and you tell him I'm sorry, please forgive me.

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What does the culture say about this now?

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Oh, he's weak.

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He's not a man enough.

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Color some Lavalle he was. Mic just to show you also that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has taken off on this.

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Why? Why would the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam takes an oath on this on something? Because the people would love to leave it.

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Call us all aloha SLM Harris, Abby capsule and Mary. Ravi Allahu anhu tirmidhi selesa tune the hottie that we will say when we raise funds. We will always forget about the third one.

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Three things I'm willing to take off on. The third one is what wha sobre la la la matin

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was in La Jolla is

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anyone who is patient when when he is wronged and he would make up

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Allah elevate him.

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What the culture says in

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the Muslim world bazaar besana de

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Mille Hanif and Asad nomadic radi Allahu anhu

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man Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he told me a story.

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One day, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed by people while they are holding a wrestling match musar wrestling, wrestling wrestling wrestling wrestling wrestling

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for Carla had,

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he said this is Who's this? Paula rasulillah the incident or messenger of Allah?

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larrieu coviu

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This is this guy out there. Anyone who can beat with him he beats him down. He's very strong,

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very physical strength. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to his companions, shall I tell you about another one who is much better?

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in strength who's stronger than him? Who's your rasulillah

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Walla Walla, Asahi,

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someone someone else has wronged

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someone someone else wronged him or her.

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What did he do?

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He controlled his anger.

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He didn't react

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and by the by doing this, what did he do?

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He can't code is not

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enough what you're not

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even you know, in a in a in a gang language if you guys educate yourself about the language of the gangs, they tell you the weakest member of the gang is the loudest

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in again, I'm sure a lot of you seen that godfather thing. But what was so special about this guy's

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that's, that's

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Lisa Sherry do.

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The strong person is not the one who

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yields and

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Salima Muslim? Well I can assure the den I am lucky enough sir Who in the lotto.

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But the real strength is to control yourself when you're triggered.

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So, I go back to that management of the crisis.

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They call it now and and in science or in the colleges in conflict resolutions.

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terminologies then they study it somewhere how to manage

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a conflict between two Muslim brothers or two Muslim entities on to Muslim businesses. It doesn't mean that you go about it and you cause more harm.

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Because you may end up harming your actual

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return hatred,

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envy, resentment

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hands you before the other person

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a hater suffers.

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When Why, why?

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Why me? Why

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not having a peace of mind?

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What do they they tell you this person does not believe in that.

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He does not believe in

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the person who invests constructively constructive destructive envy. He doesn't believe in God. Allah has given him that Allah has given him data hamdulillah Allah given me something. So why would you envy that person? Why would you hate that person for who he is? Why? Why would you do that? Allah created everybody subhana wa Tada. And he given each one of us, what we qualify for what we deserve what is good for us, you gotta believe that.

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If you believe in this, you're not going to look at another Muslim and say, why he has this and I don't have it. You're not gonna do it.

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You're gonna hurt this is harming your dunia here harming your world, you're not going to live in peace.

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When you start building on these

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feelings, you're going to harm your duty, you're gonna be this you're gonna be distracted, you're gonna be you'll be angry at people why? And you wouldn't

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have your loved one who

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couldn't, couldn't cool Nakula NATO homies our deeds are presented in front of Allah subhana wa Taala. Every Monday and every Thursday, what we do?

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Look, Allah will reject the deeds of two individuals who have won

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this agreement, who have envy, who have hatred, who have issues in their hearts towards one another. And Allah who will say to the angels what responded the

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you know, the acts until we see if they're going to make up or not.

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And the rumor had yesterday

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Imagine you so you go pray and you do all of this and your armor is not accepted whatever you do is not accepted is not

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taken in front of Allah subhana wa.

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de la de sola to suara Yo man I am so mad.

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lm and Atala, hubby Calvin, Sally.

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On the day of judgment, your wealth your children

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are not gonna benefit you. The only thing which will benefit you in the day of judgment that you bring a sound, heart sound from what from should sound from bigger, sound from hatred,

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sound from anger.

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And one of the things that Allah by the way will do

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for Muslims before they intergender one has on

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and will extract this out of their hearts as one of actually the bounties

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who Salama, heavy a for having

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clean chest

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can be superior in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala then

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Salah voluntary zeca sada sadhaka voluntary or other voluntary acts of worship.

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The Muslim the dilemma hermit generator is ns also.

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One day the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was sitting in the masjid

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and he was surrounded by his companions.

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Before someone showed up into the masjid,

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he said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yaku ra module regenda

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the person who will show up right now from that door. The Prophet did not see him by the way.

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He's one of the dwellers of Paradise is going to be in gentlemen.

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Yet where the prophets of Salaam doesn't decide who goes to Japan who goes to hell jabril came

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the Archangel Gabriel Cain jebra Isla de Salam came and told him that however for some of you may say oh did the Prophet decide to do

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another then formal answer was will mean an answer entered Look at his sheet

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the water is dropping he was making

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from his beard and he's placing his true under his left arm like this. And he's

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the following day the same time the prophets are so long after the Salah. He said one of the people of genda will enter the masjid now he didn't see him the same man

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three days in a row

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for imagine the Sahaba

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you know this guy is going to gender

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was the agenda brothers were like that was the agenda

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they never had any agenda this agenda the agenda just want to get educated man about this world.

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Okay, take his word for me. I don't care.

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So Abdullayev number

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11. When focus when this name very important, because a lot of the people take the caddies out of context and I'll explain how

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otherwise lost a loved one whom I decided that he's gonna go and spend some time with this man to find out what does he do exactly, so he can

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do like him.

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So he followed him to his house, knock knock knock out. He didn't know why. Suddenly Mario a

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lot of times we have to say this to our wives in a way. You know that you say something which means two things.

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You guys call it white lies.

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We call it Mario.

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Or marble. hottub says I give to limit the power of Mr. Mario.

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Why would you lie when you can do Mario?

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He said to him I had

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a disagreement with my father.

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And I took an oath that I'm not going to stay in the house.

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Three days Can you please host me? Of course he knows that he cannot refuse because this is the right of who

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of the Muslim? A guest by the way has the right for three days, he comes to your house like of course if somebody does this 911 is gonna be called immediately but

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a Muslim setting some a Muslim can come to your house and say please can you host me for three days?

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And he will open the fridge and but after three days if you want get out of here, yeah.

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He said yes, please come

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alive. Loss of course he is waiting to see someone who would fast every single day.

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Break the head with every single night.

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He didn't see any of that. He saw a very regular man. He keeps up with the Salah. Yes, sometimes he wakes up at night to pray. He doesn't fast during the day. But he noticed that when he would turn around in bed at night, he would mention alized me

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like when you turn in your site is so Pamela hamdulillah ilaha illa Allah

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Subhan Allah, how people took that Hadith out of context, okay, you guys talking about this Salah, look at this man.

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But who's who's judging him here? I believe now.

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For after the three days he said by a law. I don't know what it is. But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said about you that you are a pillar of gentleman. And I spent with you three days three nights and I have not seen you do anything.

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I actually do more than what you do.

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If he had if he

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lost his father honorably last winter and got him a wife from the most prestigious families in Medina.

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Imagine the night of the wedding. What did he do?

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He prayed to hydrate the whole night.

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Coming in the morning to check on the wife

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how's it how's Abdullah with you?

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See what he said what she said.

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he's very good to his Lord.

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She's also really

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just who's who's who's judging him now?

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By Allah He didn't even enter

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Look who is judging this other man here is someone with the caliber of whom

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that's important.

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The man responded to him by Allah, I do not do a lot.

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But there is one more thing I make sure that I always have I never harbor in my chest. Any hatred

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in V.

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Any resentment,

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game plan to cheat any Muslim or any human being?

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He said this is it. Imagine this, this is it. This is it. For brothers and sisters in Islam that the point I'm trying to make here is the harm. Also knew when you harbor

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you will disrupt your life. You will be angry all the time. And you may end up losing the Acura

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and what are the name of Allah? Allahu

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Allah fu

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look, Carla salovaara USA

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no one is more patient

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in home, which he is all the time than a law.

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And I don't we have a couple of guests here Christians. I say this with respect.

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He hears the people saying that he has a son.

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That's harmful to God by the way.

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For Allah to have a son is you do not need a son knew. You know, law doesn't need a son. We need sons because I'm gonna die. I want my son to carry on. I need a son because you know I want them to take on my

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Aim. I mean if this is my name is important to keep our son to hopefully benefit we helped me when I grew up growth. But there's a llama doesn't need that. That's why it's imperfection when you say this about a license harmful, but yet Allah still provides for them.

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Allah still provides for them Allah still takes care of them.

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The Prophet

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Allah that story

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for Mama,

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Mama brothers and sisters in Islam

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was one of the leaders of the tribes in the Arabia

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called Benny hanifa.

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In a place called DMM, in the Arabia

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and they used to have an alliance with the people in cooperation with the people in Mecca. They were allies of the disbelievers in Mecca. Why? Because they used to export to the grain wheat.

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So in order to do service when the Muslims migrated to Medina, Medina and Yama are not far apart, they are very close to one another. In order to do service

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to the Muslims, anytime his tribesmen would capture a Muslim he will execute him right away.

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So he killed a lot of Muslims. numbers.

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He was just grabbed them execute. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to his companions, one day, please, if you can capture anyone from that tribe, he wanted anybody so that we can negotiate with this guy.

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So Pamela, how

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do Muslim

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an expedition ended up capturing the leader the head of the stripe?

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is like the president of the country now. His name is Tomas.

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If you have

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and they brought him to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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The Prophet said to them

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there will be two be sorry it means our illnesses tie him to one of the pillars of the machine.

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Imagine you bring in a president of a country and you tie him where

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that's that's very humiliating, too. So taco solemn came to the salon

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after his he prayed he looked at him and he said to him, and

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it's like what's up from me? I got you now

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I got you. You are killing my companions. Here you are.

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What do you have to say about this shuffle a lot of

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the Arabs they had this thing you know

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he's not a Muslim.

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None of us

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am good in spite of this, but I'm good.

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With a couple musella Shari.

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At one time somebody killed his companion.

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So Abu Musa chased him so the guy is running in front of him.

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He said to him

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he stood up

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hey, Mia, jiba

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Allah Mohammed

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I am in good shade in spite of this in

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ductal them

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if you kill me, my tribe are not gonna leave you alone. They're gonna come after you.

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He's threatening.

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We're in 3d Mel. self taught. I know I killed your companions name. The ransom money, blood money. I'll tell you see how many of your companions I killed? I'll be fair to you.

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But look at the third one. We're in a Foo Foo and shaky.

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But if you let me go,

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you're gonna find me great.

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The Prophet ignored him. Salallahu alaihe salam he came back the following day, the same thing the third day the same thing.

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to the surprise of the companions of the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam after the third day

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The Prophet said to his companions, a clip of him

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let him go.

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By the way, at the time the Muslims were going through some financial difficulties at this time around some money would have held what a lot. The companion said that

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one of the ways of this he

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said no let him go. He went clear. Medina, Medina cleave Medina completely free man.

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No pressure whatsoever.

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He takes a ritual bath, he returns to Medina and he stands in front of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and he says, A Chateau La ilaha illallah wa Chateau naka rasulillah I'm a Muslim.

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And he says these three statements out of this world just just to show you that when you forgive,

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look what he said, By Allah, messenger of Allah, I never hated any face in the face of this earth, more than your face.

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Imagine this. Imagine this.

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Now, look at the heart.

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No face is more beloved to me than your face. America and our June Allah de

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la la jolla Salama. Now what

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are the aliens?

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Last night we had a slum of hope. Mercy, the show they heard about it, trying to shoot and we want to say thank you, john. And David actually are here to in support of us.

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Look at this balmaha Rasulullah

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messenger of Allah. I never hated the religion.

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I never hated the religion in my life more than I hated Islam.

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But it is 180 now, Islam is the most beloved religion to me.

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And by the way, I was going to perform ombre. I was going to Mecca to perform ombre What do you want me to do?

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I'm at your service now.

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How can I tell the way he was off he a letting go because if you hold too much grudges and all that stuff is very harmful stuff a lot.

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Alhamdulillah your

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love will handle huson

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shadow Allah ilaha illallah wa ala sharika yaku hopko de serie y shadow Mohammedan Abu Salah Lavalle he was hired he was working on Manhattan we need money down the axon in Isla de

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also brothers and sisters in Islam.

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One of the ways to earn the forgiveness, that if

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the letting go of Allah is you letting go.

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Imagine Allah subhanho wa Taala we do all these things and we come back to him and he accepts us again.

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Our food,

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our food, our food.

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Some of you may heard that big slander

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about a shot of your loved one.

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Imagine they accused the wife of Rasulullah the hypocrites in Medina accuse the wife of Rasulullah of adultery,

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committing adultery.

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The daughter of double walk

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and one of the people who promoted that slander someone the father of Ayesha Casa de la one. His name is mo Spa

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in Osaka was one of the people who was engaged in that slum.

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Abu Bakr is the one who provides for him.

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He has a house for him, he provides food for him. And how he returned the favor he goes and he slumdog

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promised promotes a cylinder about the daughter of the man who provides for him

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for the profits

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of the 11 token oath he said by Allah

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I will not spend on this guy anymore. That's what everybody would do.

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Anybody would do this and his human sound.

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Look, a lot reveals a whole verse about this. Well, Kelly O'Donnell for gleaming Kuma sa

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Akina wasn't mohair GD Nafisa de la Walia.

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Don't do this.

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Forgive and carry on spending. Look at the la buena fear Allahu la ku.

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Don't you want a lot to forgive you?

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to pardon you pardon others. If you want to love to show you mercy show mercy to others. If you want to learn to forgive you forgive others. Therefore we're not angels here. We're not nobodies in we're all full of mistakes, full of issues. Let go of it. Brothers and sisters in Islam. This is the way to go in an established community, that we have to look beyond our differences and try to show these differences and hopefully the delay to Allah. Allah will guide us. Allah will guide us to serve his Deen to serve his religion.

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Life is short. Don't fill it with hate with resentment, fill it with love.

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Fill it with care.

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You know,

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when we die?

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People will say one word about you.

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hamdulillah he died. May Allah have mercy on him.

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maginnis some people are like that.

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When we die, say hamdulillah

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he's the

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Mustafa Mustafa rihana most often. A Mullah Abdul Fattah the wicked slave of Allah when he died yesterday a foreman who labored well below

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all the creation we'll take a break from him.

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For the amongst the first goodness Allah subhanho wa Taala useless

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Muslim Allah

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Salafi emelina

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Chanel COVID Catherine

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haka, haka was open it

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was open so

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we come in and fit and

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while it's been a

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