The Sunnah of Sitting Roadside

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de la palma de la comida de la or Chateau La la la la la la la sharika. Wa Sharona Mohammed bin Abu or a solo. So today we'll move on to the next Hadith, which is the Hadees of Omen momineen mahakam Zeynep vintage ash zenobia Josh, this is one of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

she said and then the BSL Allahu alayhi wa selama duck Allah Allah Hafiz er, who echo the La Jolla. Larabee mentioned in character up foot Julio Mamma mia jujuba Julia Miss la de la COVID

de la vamos a la cultura surah la Anna Holly cofina Solihull call Anna indica Sorocaba against this Harrison so we tackle it last week, right? It is the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which he prophesized about the arrival of the Phaeton especially in that part of the land the land of the Arabs, he says Wally laid out a bow on to them mentioned in caracteriza for an evil that is facing them to get idea evil that is facing them. The professor Allahu Allah who Surma said today, some part of the barrier or the world of the Judo module is open. Last week, if you if you can remember, we have mentioned that

Judo modules they are among the signs of the Day of Judgment.

And their arrival is even with the closeness of the Day of Judgment, when you see these creation, they are also human beings. When you see them that mean the Day of Judgment is very, is very near. So those people who carry the liberal Islam, they were the one who carried the religion of Allah hotel to all over the world as the Arab so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says, there is an evil Sharla is facing the Arabian Peninsula to get idea from the side of a judge for my judge. So sign up said Yasuo law. Does that mean we will be destroyed? Even if there is among us, those righteous people? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said yes. In our cultural habit, when the

evil is too much than the destruction from Allah smartair will come in includes everyone get it that shows the evil attitude of somebody who lives in the midst of people who are not righteous, but he is not passing the dour to them is really dangerous as we had mentioned earlier, that when the punishment of Allah smart Allah comes in it will include chemo so it Allah says what cogniser ra conflict HIV, and it has a near term IR Tila Euphorbia where you stay has that will be half a letter or the amount of the Hadith in guide in Islam Islam. Allah smart Allah says, Allah smart Allah says we have revealed to you in the book and is the Quran, that whenever you hear some people playing

with the verses of last Mahabharata and putting them in a wrong way, which means necessarily that they're going against the laws of Allah, Allah. Allah says, Allah Takara do mount hobo Hadith.

So Allah subhanaw taala says, it is revealed to you that whenever you be in a place where the verses of Allah smart Allah misplaced,

some people are disbelieving in them or they're going against the religion of Allah subhanaw taala. In terms of the Commission's of the sins, Allah says Allah, Urdu ma home hotair kobushi Heidi finovate do not stay with them until they change the topic. So from this ayah we learned that you are not supposed to stay with animasi should leave the place.

You get it har*a you Siva, Kumar, Cadiz, Cebu, if there is a punishment from alas martella, which is going to visit that place, it will include you also get it it will include you. So the punishment will include you and include, I mean, we'll go to them and we'll also include whoever is is with them. So that's the reason why I said it is very dangerous for a person to live in the midst of a people who are in need of power, but at the same time, he is not given the power to them. Allah says in nickel, even mythical, you will be considered in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala like, like one of them.

So that's a summary of the second Hadees also that we discussed last week. So the first one is for today is the release of herbicides in the long run. And in the V sir Allahu alayhi wa sallam Karla Yakumo de Lucia fito caught for Kalia rasulillah Marlin an image Allison about doon net had definitely have a paler Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Farina baytril Enlil Melissa Fatah hakuho Kalia Rasool Allah wa mahapatra Kala gagal basa

Couple other orudis cerami while amarula rufina han Mancha, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said he akumal ginoza feito rocket Caboose, Agent Cody said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I said, I want you from sitting at the side of the roads, you know, usually in every community you have, especially the young ones, get it in the evening time they come and sit out of one of the houses, they discuss their issues right? In every place, you find this, you get it, even here in the UI Also, sometimes you find some people sitting at the side of the road, enjoying their life. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I said, I want you from doing that. The city city

are also like these our own places that we usually sit and enjoy our life. We have no any other choice, we have to sit in those places. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, but if you insist, then you have to give the right of the road. The problem is, I am afraid maybe you might not be able to give the right of the road. That's why I say do not sit because there are certain rights that you have. You have to give to those people who are passing you. So he says he acumen Jusuf tokachi, he said, I want you from sitting on the roads. They say Dr. Su Lai, how he majelis in Amman, in Abu Dhabi, Joshua, these are our own places that were easily said. And we didn't have any

other choice. We have to sit in those places. So the prophets of Allah, Allah who serve are set for either obey to Enlil Melissa, if you insist, and you disagree, to stay away from them, you disagree with me insane away from them, it says then autotelic aka give the right of the road, sit on the road, but no problem with that go and keep sitting in your own positions. But at the same time, you have to give the right of the road, they say are also lahoma Hockenberry so what is the right of that route? Since we insist to sit in that place? So what is the right? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, What the hell bizarre.

Now we begin grodan basa, lower in the case,

get it? Anyone who passes you, from the opposite gender, you look, and you may come in sometimes, right? So the Prophet sallallahu, Allah himself has said, God will lower your gaze.

So if he can do that, then go and sit because it will be very difficult. Even if I have people sitting in that I mean passing through that place, sometimes it will be very difficult for you to keep quiet, if you keep quiet, your brother might not keep quiet. And it's so the first ride of the road is to lower your gaze. Allah says Colin momineen a good to me, I'm sorry, him were further through john, than he can

tell the believing man to lower their gaze, some part of it Allah subhanaw taala says because there are certain circumstances where looking at the opposite gender is is hella

good idea. For instance, somebody intended to marry real intention.

Not that whenever you want to look you intend to marry. After you satisfy yourself, then you can see the intention. Now it doesn't go like that real intention, you have intention to marry. And the scholars also added one, one condition here also they said, You must be sure that people like you will be accepted. You get it, you're one of the you Hannah's in the community, you know, you Hannah's I mean, low people in the community, and you want to marry from the daughter of the king.

Yeah, it is not impossible, but usually according to the culture, Daughters of the king goes to

the prince, right? They don't go to the people like like that one. So, the scholar said, he has to be very sure that I mean, not really sure but he has to have a high expectation that these people will agree with him.

Again, there are circumstances you know, it will be a miracle if you accept it.

In this case, you look at other blessings of Allah because there are a lot get us so it's wrong for a person to marry assisted that he doesn't know who she is, is wrong, very wrong. Those cultural practices that are based on pictures, these are all wrong, because picture then represent in most instances the reality you might be dirty so much, you appear in the picture more handsome than the rest who are dressed up as pictures to get idea. So you have people they see the picture, but when they get when it comes to the reality they do not. And then the parents will hold them accountable of their words. You told us you agree.

What should be his reply? I agreed with the picture. I do not agree with this. Good idea. So that's it. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Salaam did not say go to the picture. He said he should go and look and look at that which will make you attractive in a hurry a new demo by an Akuma you get it that we should make you attracted to her because this

is more likely to bring you guys all together and to maintain a good relationship between I mean both spouses. But one point that I want you to learn here also Sharia legalized, what looking right? For what is the law, okay looking is permissible for both suitors because of what Lynn is telling me is the means looking for information, learning is

not to enjoy,

to get it. So this is what the scholars have mentioned. And as student of knowledge, or anyone who wants to marry, he has to put this in mind looking is permissible for information, not tamatar, not enjoyment. But the scholars said, if your intention is good, but then you look you're overtaken by that which you have seen, and then in German come by itself, you will not be blamed, contrary to the one who intended that

a good idea. So don't go to that place and change your intention, you get it your last mahanta, the goddess of truth. So when he says me, I'm sorry, him, it means that it is not in all circumstances, look in his Hara. There might be circumstances where looking is is hallel. For the sake of information, like the judge in the court. He also the scholar said he can look because he has to know who is exactly that person that he's dealing with.

When he looked into the books of the aka you can see those exemption of the Sharia, concerning the one who is allowed to look Why is Why is she so strict? And if the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I did not understand we do understand living in this contemporary era were evil. And the problem is, promiscuity is rampant.

And most of these evils comes from the source of the looking at. So Allah says, What do men outside? Were for the Frodo right, alpha Jia. That's why he did not say mean Fuji, because you have to stay away from from anything that that is wrong, that somebody might do with what is private part cannot be legalized except through those channels that last martela make them permissible. But looking you can have some of the circumstances where Allah subhanaw taala make it permissible for those people who are not supposed to look initial. So the first right of the road is what

do not look at those whom you are not supposed to look at them right lower in the case Allah says your god domina mean I'm sorry.

Okay, that's the first right the second one, he says we're careful

and stay staying away from harming others. handler we are living in a time whereby Eden feels secured sometimes when you pass on people because they talk about you. And sometimes when it happened, any accidentally you look, they might laugh when they see you. What does that mean? They might be not say sure, but they might be talking about you people do that. And this is very bad. Does the reason why the professor last summer said do not sit,

go to your home, go to your room, go to your office and live there. You don't need to come because if you come out and sit in public, you might see something that will cause you a trouble because when you see somebody you are supposed to make comment.

If he has deficiency, you fix it, but then talk about him. This is what we call backbiting and this backbiting is going to be paid on the Day of Judgment. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, if you have any injustice over you, that you take from your Muslim brother and sister, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said he should settle the case today, before the day comes in which there is no dinner or their house. And he says this muslimah mean everything, Alma. Whether it is I mean part of his honor and dignity that you have affected One day, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said he should settle the case here

and allow him a verse he says, I will advise you this. If you want to succeed in this life, control your town the prophets Allah Somerset, tuba, Lima, Malika lisanna, who was Yahoo by to Rebecca Lee hottie at

the prophecy last summer said the one who control his tongue succeeds. You know, he said, the one who controls his tongue succeed. In some narration, he says, When they asked me how sola how do we succeed in this life, he says, control your tongue, the one who control his tongue succeed, and also the one who, Whose house is efficiently enough for him succeed. You know, because when you live in, in your house, most likely you will not be engaged in any evil attitudes. So nowadays also we have sins

been committed at home. But if you come out, you're more likely to be involved in since then when you are isolated in your house. That's why if I'm to suggest, I would suggest that whenever you don't need to come out, be at home, especially those people who are having family, I'm telling you the best attitude after you finish your work, go home, and live with your family members. Stay with them, enjoy life with them, make them happy, make them love. Again, just be with them like that. discuss issues with them. Again, settle your own affairs at home.

And this is what the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam o silvar into when he says if you are done with your activities out of the house, you should quickly go back home.

especially nowadays, where we live in a kind of a life. The father works, the mother works everyone is working the children they have no time with the parents because they also go to school. That's why the term BIA in most instances is not that perfect. Get it we have to be really careful these matches you know. So the best thing is, if you don't have anything outside, you work you go on, become productive to benefit the community. When everything is done, come back home.

Because staying outside unnecessarily can cause you to go against the laws. Either the law or law smarter or the law of the leaders in the community. So that's why it is always better for you when you're done go back to your family. If you don't have family make one as Miss Mary if you're not intended to make one then go saying you get it given up the code says for can help serve it for who is literally our it we're headed in Baton Fatah and Khalifa when

he asked you to

to restrict yourself to Whoa. That's

one of the scholars of Tobia. He says they say oh if you don't have anything, you preserve your honor, if you protect your hour, and also it protects you from any you know, innovation and deviation that might come and any sin been committed collectively by by others in the community. If you are home, it will never come and reach you.

So back to the first part of the success. He says what control your tongue and then stay home if you don't have anything. And the last one he says, You cry when you commit sin between you and a loss.

You know, he doesn't mention that you get busy talking about the sins of others, right? Nowadays we are more concerned about the sins of others than our own sins.

It becomes so perfect, so excellent. So pure and clean, and others are so corrupt. What kind of life is this? Get it so we don't care about our sins, but we care about other people's sins. You know, this is a very dangerous life or life. This is a very dangerous life. The moment you start picking up the sins of others and you forget yours, you're gone

you're gone. Only Allah knows what is there in your heart only a knows only Allah knows what you do it. Allah says Allah Allah. Allahu Allah Aiko, Parramatta, rumors are coming coming ahead in Abba. For the king, the law is a key measure. The best way of life my brother sisters is you don't talk about anyone. When you see wrong thing coming from him. He's your brother, go and sit with him and advise him instead of going around talking, talking talking to go on advice? Most likely that what she does, either he either he's doing correct because sometimes also my brother is correct, actually am wrong.

Go and sit with him. Explain to him Why is he wrong? In the nice way. Of course, Allah He will appreciate it from you. And this is real brotherhood. You know, this is the real brotherhood, the prophets, Allah, Allah said, the mcminn is the mayor R is the mirror to another movement. You know, if he sees I any efficiency for me and you fix it, he doesn't talk about that. Or we live in a time whereby I am just willing to see the deficiency of my Muslim Brothers so that I can spread it in the community is very dangerous life, or life is a very dangerous life. Life, which doesn't know cooperation and help and trying to complete each other. This is very dangerous life and useless life

actually. And this is not the life in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wants the oma to do for the good life is I learned good. And I go on teach the community that good and I try to protect their honor and dignity. If I see the efficiency, I don't spread it to others. I try to one fix it. Imagine this is how we live everyone is like that, trying to fix others, or live life for the better on Earth.

But this is Islam. Read the light

From the companions of the Prophet, Allah Saman, see, they will like that. They didn't go on talk about themselves when no one of them is wrong. If somebody speak up against the other one, people will jump on him and tell him know, somebody when the professor last summer talk about cab, somebody says jasola nothing stop him from following us except Bora Bora. That means those governments he has very beautiful government, he is no excuse. You know, one of the companions when he heard that, he says, No, jasola

we knew nothing about this man except Good luck. And and Kev is not there. He said he arcilla No, we know nothing about him except good.

This is how brothers should be. Look for his cues, go to him afterwards and remind him of Allah but preserve his honor and dignity fixing for us to get this is the life that we supposed to do. So back to the heresy says we're careful. Do not harm anyone, you know, do not harm anyone. So back back when you sit on the road, he shouldn't talk against anyone

can mind your business, when somebody pass? Don't talk about him, because you're going to carry this operation on the Day of Judgment. And Allah subhanaw taala says, We're on it will you will inhale Are you more calm and hamdulillah on the Day of Judgment, you will see faces being humbled towards a lot smarter Tada. And if you want to see the real loser, is the one who brings back to Allah subhanaw taala oppressions. Somebody who carries oppression to the Day of Judgment, if you want to see the real loser in this life, as well as the Hereafter is somebody who brings along with him, oppressions.

So, I will close this session because these are serious matters. You live with people, but you don't feel secured. That's wrong. You get it that's wrong. This is not the attitude of Muslims and the believers

will lie sometimes we visit some places that people that you never expect them to do that, but everyone is minding his business, although they go beyond the limits also in that, but unless they don't talk against others, they mind their business. Muslim should be like that. You mind your business. When you see something wrong from your Muslim brother or sister. You remind them about that which I lost what I want them to do. That's the life. So if you want the thing that can help you to maintain this advisor Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

PFA, pay attention to this hadith. He says, Man, can you Mirabella Hey, William in our hair follicle hi hire on hourly as

he said the proxy law server said whoever believes in a law and the hero he should always say good or keep quiet. Hello, very nice life. When you open your mouth make sure that good comes out of it.

If you know you're not going to speak good, what is the other option given to you? Silence. Keep quiet. Imam Shafi says it suku t muts Geron felters m to LMU federal finance to the kasuri he said I have found that my silence is a very fertile place for business.

You get the place where if you do business in that area, you always gain who are saying this emotion. He says I realized that my silence is a very excellent business that I will never lose in it. He says either lamb you feed the rip ham fellas to the car sorry. If I do not gain any profit, I will never lose at the same time.

To get an idea, that's the benefit of support when talking is not necessary.

In some places mama Shafi gave the example of somebody who talks always without necessity. He says we'll also do

tosha or he assigned me to one can you oxa Nnamdi wahana.

To get idea, he says you see the lines

when you see the lines, how is that

everyone is is scared of of them traverse

through.

I remember the first time we visited the zoo in a gala. Many of those people they couldn't approach the place where the lions are.

Why? Because they see the fence is very low. One of them I said recall his word. He says me and lion like this says never.

I told him no. The government when they leave it like that. That's been the places you can go it says no

I would never trust being close to like

this alliance in any community. They were like, they were like that. How much do lion talks?

In most instances, if they're not hungry, they don't talk

to get they don't talk at all. They act they action is more than more than talking. But how about the other one the dog how much he talks

a lot. Tell me where his dog respected.

Even if the man in the western community respected the OG and they give the car to the dog, not their family, okay, this is their business, but their kids when they sit down, they throw stones on it. So, mommy Shafi was saying look at it, look at it, I mean, the differences This one is always silence.

But people are scared of it. Okay. And this one talks always but nobody respected

and in our life Members this is the one who talks too much people don't show respect to him in the way they show respect to the one who is silence in most instances

to get it so man can I mean it will enable me to coherent Alia smart. K, this is number two, right couple other number three, read this Salah, replying the Salah, and when somebody say Salaam to you,

this is also one of the missing ingredient in our communities.

Allah the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, I say, one of the signs of the Day of Judgment As salam o Allah, Allah mollica people will not say Salaam to each other except if they know each other. It is a sign of the Day of Judgment. Nowadays, even if they know each other, what is the Salah? Hi.

What is the other one? The gangsters they hit like them?

I met some kids.

One of them gave me a hand like this. So I just became frozen.

It says sir, you're supposed to be like that. I said you have to teach me first house.

So some of the stuff they do the lady who had an ability who was

one of them was making fun. He says whoever says to you Hi. You tell them what? While a human Hi.

Stay for a lot.

So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has, I mean, asked and commanded you to do what to say a Solomonic. First of all a Salam is one of the names of Allah subhanaw taala. You know, that is a remembrance of Allah. And whenever you say, You're making a lot smarter, happy and you will be rewarded for that.

Hanlon, we skip this we change it with our own words. To Good idea, the prophets Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in an authentic Hadees he says one of the names of Allah smart Allah is a seller, and a last bunch of places on earth so that you guys will say a lot.

The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said,

I swear by the one who holds my my soul

in which my soul is holds by him. Who is that? Allah subhanaw taala is a Latin full genetic data to amino, you will never make it to paradise before you believe.

And you will never reach the peak of faith and believe until you love each other.

And then he says our Adela kumana Shea in either fall tomorrow,

to have them to say Don't you want me to guide you to something in which if you do it, you will love each other? They said yes sir. So Allah, what did he say? If she said I'm avena?

Can it is a sign of faith when Muslim Lee and what does that mean? It means the peace of a lost power the peace from Allah His blessings be upon you. Why do we change with something else? If Allah accept that do Allah you succeed? You know, you meet your Muslim brother you shake his hand he shakes your hand the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says

us new but he says oh, there will be dropped down just like the way you will see the Oracle shader the dry leaves of the tree falling down when they are shown by what by the winds.

Three remember this and then you will make it you replace it with this.

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up who says wasafi lemon telco mean cuddly muslimin

eternal satakam camera filmless energy if you do that your sins will be dropped out.

So let's prove sometimes when we do these people, these are so simple things in Islam, you are dwelling on silly silly things and a lot something that Allah subhanho wa Taala

I mentioned the Quran and somebody will say this is simple matter. Allah says way that for you to be to hear it for how you will be asked and Amina out.

So it is highly recommended that when you meet your Muslim brother, as long as you see a sign of Islam in him to say a Solomonic contain

and when you say Assalamualaikum to him, he is supposed to reply you would you when he has to reply, Allah says for high up I sent him in how to do how he's supposed to reply with the best.

He says a salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah if he says a salaam aleikum, which you say what walaikum salam wa rahmatullah that's the best

if he says As salam aleikum wa rahmatullah as you say, a salaam aleikum, wa salam wa Rahmatullahi wa barakato.

What it means is Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatu.

Then you go for what some scholars says, You say we're on a call salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato 102. Because Alas, Martin says the sentimiento. They are dependent on the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on that added Roman Pharaoh to but unfortunately that narration is weak. That's why many scholars said the highest level we reach is to keep ourselves within the limit in which the prophets that Allahu Allah Himself are kept us. What is that? A salaam aleikum? wa rahmatullah wa barakato, up to this moment, just saved in the beast Allahu wa sallam, then you stay away from any doubt in that controversy of the scholarship. So the point here is one of the Hakata

trick is that when somebody says Salaam to you, you must say while a commissar you have to reply him.

The good idea, would you but so that's number number three.

He says, what are the salami well, Emeryville maruthi, one Mancha and also to do Amritsar have an alum uncle, it means command people to the righteous deed is he somebody passes who needed to be fixed, tell him this is wrong in a nice way, of course, that this approach of yours is wrong is supposed to lead in this way because of the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, which was gently, maybe a lot smarter way guide him at your hand

and that sitting will be successful you because if this person is going to be guided, whatever he does, after that guidance, you will get the same reward Allah subhanaw taala has given him Allah, this is the real treasure allottee lentil

the real treasure that will never fail is that adjara of guiding others, you put them in the right way. So when you do that, whatsoever they do in their life after that reminder that came from you, you will be rewarded the same reward Allah subhanaw taala granted them without taking from them separately. Our last module is going to give you so imagine you are sleeping at home. But alas mahalo. Charla is giving you a lot of reward because of your guiding towards others.

So you can see there's a very important Hadith that shows how Islam is comprehensive. First advise you to the best because you might not be able to fulfill these rights. But if you think you have the power and the strength to do them, Islam guided you upon a method and a manner in which if you do it, you're sitting at the side of the road will be a success. You can lower your gaze, stay away from harming others reply the Salaam give honorable Morrow one hand monka you're sitting will be a success. And add to that whenever you leave the place. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said you should endure imagelist with what cafaro termiticide Subhana Coloma or be handicapped a

Chateau de la ilaha illa and stuff rocoto like and this will be the end of our lesson today. Also barakallahu li comes to hanoch la morbihan Giga Shara la in Atlanta staphylococci really