The Greatest Women – The Life Of Khadijah

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The speakers discuss the importance of finding the right partner for a marriage, particularly for women. caution and understanding of the culture of the Muslim community are emphasized, along with the holy grail and the importance of history. They stress the need for transparency and finding one's own values and behavior, as well as the significance of the holy grail in the community. The speakers also touch on the decision to marry a woman who had a proposal, her lack of confirmation from her father, and her death. They stress the importance of history and finding one's own values and behavior, as well as the holy grail and the holy spirit.

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thought I was the one who didn't eat properly. Can we try again? Assam Alikum warahmatu Allahi wa barakato

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A very good evening to all my brothers and sisters. My name is Mark Jonas and I will be your emcee for tonight.

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tonight's talk is the final episode of the series the greatest woman brought to you by ribeye was in collaboration with the Alumni Relations divisions. So before we begin, I would like to get a quick raise of hands. How many of you are here attending VCs for the first time? This is a quick raise of hands. Okay, we have got a few new faces mashallah most of you have attended before as well. So revives got really a loyal audience here. Mashallah, through the past few months, we have dealt into what is known about the lives of us care SLM, very much malaise, Salam and Fatima Allahu anha the legacies they have left behind as the greatest woman to have ever lived. If you didn't make it to

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the previous previous events, do check them out on our YouTube channels. Because the values you will learn from these stories of these noble woman

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as the greatest woman to have ever lived among the people of paradise, are undoubtedly invaluable.

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And you may think that you already know about them, but there is always something there is always something beneficial to take away from these sessions. So tonight, we culminate the series on the forget woman mentioned in the famous hadith of Allah, Allah Azza wa sallam with the story of Khadija Ravi Allahu anha, the first wife of the Prophet Hamas, Allahu alayhi wa sallam known as the mother of believers, she is considered to have been the first person to believe in the message of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. At this point, some of you may be wondering what meaning lies behind the design of the events foster right, so what is the meaning behind the necklace? And he

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guesses? Well today, don't forget to take notes as we delve into a deeply emotional story of the of the life of Hadith of the Allahu anha and unveil the story behind the necklace. Hopefully inshallah. Without further ado, introducing our speaker for tonight we're grateful to have with us. Chef Dr. Abraham northa. Here founder of another educational foundation. Another works to alleviate difficulties and fulfill the needs of for Muslims in Nigeria and elevate them with education share who was born and raised in Nigeria, he started Islamic education from a young age in the most classical way with his father, Dr. New Jota. Here, may Allah preserve him and other local scholars.

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He completed his Bachelor's in Sharia and Islamic Studies followed by Postgraduate Diploma in Islamic Islamic law and Islamic political science from the Islamic University in Medina. And then he completed his Master's and PhD right here in IOM in Sharia and civil laws, and is now an associate professor in the Department of Economics and Management Sciences. Chef Abraham allows a lot of his free time to engage with youth, and spread the deen the knowledge and the third area of the Muslim youth. He conducts classes in the sea of love and other essentials. We'll learn about those classes later on as we move through the event.

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Throughout today's talk, if you happen to have any burning questions, such as whether or not you can have a cat as your companion, or if you're curious on how to find the right spouse, or maybe you found one, but she doesn't know then then Please remain calm and post them on pigeon holed. So you can scan the QR code from the screen or type in the URL A two. So at the end of the talk chef will be will address these questions with the most votes. Inshallah. There are always people you see there are always people who find ways to upload their own questions, right. So I've seen like questions voted more than 172 times, but just, you know, don't waste your energy because

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at the end of the day, we are going to choose the questions, which has the most number of the most number of votes, but also relevant to the topic. So if you don't have any, any of the questions that I mentioned before, then congrats and Brooke, but But on a serious note, if you don't have any questions, then you can just go through the questions and vote them vote for them. Okay. So that's regarding pigeonhole question. Now, this session will be split into two parts part one and part two. We'll have a break. Okay, but the break is for the shape. Not for you guys. We'll conduct a quiz session on code. I'm sure all of you are familiar with code, right?

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Anyone here not familiar with code? Right? Everyone's familiar Mashallah. So it's

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The questions will be based on the first half of the session. So make sure you pay full attention and take notes right? And winners get goodies. Okay, speaking of goodies, they have got many surprises for you all today. Okay, we have got new merch, any guesses?

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Okay, lastly, before we begin, I would like to invite sorry I'd like to inform you to be careful of your belongings. We have a large number in the crowd today Mashallah. And as you can see the number is increasing as well. So things tend to get misplaced in such events some or the other is always like forgetting his umbrella water bottle or a pet hamster in it happened or or maybe a car behind the seat. So hold on to your precious precious items or you can give it to me.

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With that being said I would like to welcome chef Ibrahim no on the stage

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so with that being said I would like to welcome chef Ibrahim no to the stage chef The stage is yours please welcome

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in Al Hamdulillah who would have stayed who want to suffer well I will Villa initially I'm phocoena Molina, Mary Hiller who Philomel Villa OMA Udall falahat yella Chateau La La Allahu la sharika

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Why should wonder Mohammed and Abu rasuluh Yeah, you're Latina on the top Allah I happen to party he will out in Bhutan Leila Wa to Mr. Moon. Yeah, you are now SUTA Cora Kamala dhikala communication Wahida

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Khaled Amin huzzah Jehovah sending homage Ellen cathedra when we're talking Allah hallelujah Salah whenever he will have him in the locker La Cumbre Kiba Yeah, you have Latina I'm at the top Hola. Hola. Hola, Colin salida hola como Malika Macula on Google. For my new de la hora Sula, who prefer the Pfizer frozen Vemma I'm about to financial educator with Allah. Wa Sal, how do you how do you Mohammed instead Allahu alayhi wa sallam Shara?

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Coulomb, Vida who call me Dotson Valera are collaborating.

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First of all,

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I ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to reward the organizers of this events. Allah subhanaw taala put Baraka in the society and the activities. It is an honor to be invited to be speaking before you about this noble and important topic

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especially this

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type of time that we are living in where the Muslim ummah are in need of the reminders about our predecessors how they used to live, because their success is confirmed to us. Allah subhanho wa Taala advises and ask us to ask Him to guide us guidance which is similar to this one.

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Every day, when you read in your prayer you decide it did not set off and Musa beam Serrata Lavina and I'm telling him vital medulla himolla Bali every day you're asking Allah subhanaw taala at least 10 to 17 times you're asking Allah subhanaw taala to guide you to the Serato Mustafi and you specify what you meant by the Serato Mustafi. You say Allah guide me to the Serato of those people who preceded me, you talking about the predecessors and these ones are those Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in surah to Aneesa. When he says Mina Lavina and Allahu Allah

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when Allah Veena was set up in our shahada, it was Sol Hainault has to know like Rafi

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so that shows the importance of history because

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and that shows the importance of history, as the scholars mentioned that sorted Facha is called Oman Quran omole kitab. Because one of the themes of the surah is the history.

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You have the to hate, and you have the invader and you have the history, I will o'clock was here. So we need to read about those ones for us to understand how they they used to live. And what are the causes of the success that Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the Quran because as I said, we are sure about their success, we're sure about their success. So most of them need to read the history, so that he will know the life of those ones and be able to imitate them in in the present present time. Without reading the history you will not know how did they do they live Allah subhanaw taala has given us the best examples in the lives of the prophets and those who follow them. It says look

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at kind of the courses in the Alberta liberal and

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in that which has been mentioned to you in the Surrey views of Allah His Salaam and those who preceded use of La salaam from amongst the messengers in the province of Allah subhanaw taala there are a lot of beautiful and excellent lessons for whoever wants to come to Allah subhanho wa Taala

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so here comes the importance of a lecture like this. And I believe you have been receiving a lot from the scholars who have been standing on this platform speaking about those most excellent

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personalities that Allah subhanaw taala has chosen for for the human being.

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In Surah Al CASAS Allah subhanaw taala says what a boo Korea Hello Comitia whereafter Allah subhanho wa Taala creates whomsoever He wishes, and he choose from those whom he created whomsoever He wishes. He blocked him in his book that a lot. He had a very excellent commentary on this idea. He said in all of the creations of Allah Sahaja we're talking about them. There are some which we call the chosen ones. Allah Subhan Allah has chosen amongst the angels, you have the chosen one. They're all the best in comparison to the humankind's because they don't have the concept of sin is not to say that they don't have a choice, as most of us believe in No, they do have, but Allah azza wa jal

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created them in a way an angel doesn't say to Allah subhanaw taala No, that's the most important lesson we learn from the angels whenever they are mentioned, dedication to Allah subhanaw taala submission to Allah subhanaw taala with no comments, because the only one that you have to take what he says without having a comment without having a second thought is Allah subhanaw taala and Rasool Allah He said, Allah, Allah Azza, who has conveyed the message on behalf of Allah subhanaw taala So among the angels you have those who are smarter favored over the rest, and amongst the human beings also Allah swatter has chosen, some whom He called them the best and these other the prophets, and

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among the prophets, Allah subhanaw taala has chosen the rooster, you know the rooster they are better than the Prophet and they themselves also are not equal. Since Allah smarten in the Quran says silica Rusu for the Navajo Allah above, and that's why it is wrong to say that you don't make a comparison between a prophet and another prophet and he didn't make a preference. No, there are Dara Jack between these prophets of Allah subhanahu Bucha Allah Allah did not make them equal. He said fumble never Alba whom Allah bow, we favor some of them over the others. He says me in human colon Allah some of them Allah smartass for consider. Like who? Musa alayhis salam, right and by

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By the way, how many people

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spoke to Allah subhanho wa Taala before death

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I thought I'm asking a question

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to Who are they?

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Hola he should have another Microsoft.

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Mohamed Salah Ali Salam did Allah speak to him

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a way

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and they start calling Neeraj K in particular estado de mirage. Hello Neeraj swells. So last month I spoke to Moses, apart from Musa

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now there was one person who said

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either Malay salaam sacral O'Hara, because he also likes a lot so many Hadith of a Buddha when he asked him about Adam Alayhis Salam.

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Was he a prophet or messenger? The prophets Allah Azza wa said Napoleon McCallum was a prophet of Allah Subhan Allah subhanaw taala spoke to him so Allah azza wa jal says some of them he favored them because to speak to Allah, Allah Sparta speaking to you, this is really really pharaoh that took most at that position of being the third amongst human beings if you look at that order of the last minute,

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so that's why that's called a set amongst the roots will also Allah subhanaw taala as chosen those five messages of Allah subhanaw taala and amongst those five also Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu Allahu Suma has been chosen to be the best of the of the best Allah subhanaw taala says, well, Amina lady for tahajjud behind Athleta like as a yamasa caribou como Carmen Muda, Allah subhanaw taala told the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had to take some part of the night you know and worship Allah subhanaw taala and pray the night prayers in some parts of the night as an additional task for you. That's why many scholars said family we have in the visa Allahu Allah you cinema watching

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the piano Elaine is watching for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and what was the reward? That last point is going to give him he said Assa and he about for caribou comma Carmen muda because Allah wants to resurrect you on the Day of Judgment at the best and the most noble position. And this is the place where every prophet of Allah has Marcela is aiming for the province of Allahu Allah in Somerset in ohada, Raja Latin but the elderly Abdi minibar villa is a position which is not going to be given except to one person and he said I wish inshallah Allah smarter will make me that that person that's why he says when you hear them, then

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you should say exactly what the magazine is saying. Except in Hi Alyssa Hallo Fela the prophets Allah Azza wa sallam, you should change it with that how la Portilla below when you say it after that, what must you do? You do the salah on the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam started Ibrahimi. That's the best. And then after that, then you make that dua Allahumma Mojave Tao until the end of the DUA, he says if you do this, because you're asking Allah to grant him and Waseda. He said, Hey, Lulu cache authority. My Shiva is going to be halal halal for you. Yet so what I'm trying to say is Allah subhanaw taala creation belongs to him and the choice also belongs to Allah subhanaw

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taala Allahu Allah myth Allah is editor and Subhana Allah whenever you see somebody who happened to be chosen by Allah, if you check the life of that person, you'll see that person being an extra ordinary person is not a normal person. He has to qualify them to church, I mean choice of Allah subhanho wa Taala like Ibrahim Murray, Sara Musa, and all of those prophets of Allah, that we got their story in the Quran, Allah subhanaw taala says, in the feed daddy killer I or my can access to more meaning in Arabic, Allahu Allah says

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that's the main essence and the reason why history is being given to us so that we can benefit from that history. We learn about the future and the past. We learn about the predecessors how they used to live their life and what made them succeeded in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa taala. But Allah says, unfortunately, the vast majority of the people are not taking this message, including our time we need history to enjoy what he saw us to enjoy Allah. But Allah subhanaw taala is not mentioning story for others. That's why if you look at the stories in the Quran, they're very precise and straight to the point. Sometimes the whole story of a prophet could be combined in few lines. Yeah,

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straight to the point. The main reason why Allah smart is bringing this story is this Allah Sparta wants you to focus on that and then make a move to another, another prophet, and there is a benefit in reading history. Let's call it said Manuel huffy the salary above Amarin Illa. Emery, if you manage to read history, and understand it properly and put it into practice, and

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Action, you're going to add on top of your age, other ages, because you will be using the short cut way, right? You already studied the causes of the successful these people, you know, why did they succeed? And you follow the same cause you also succeeded. And you know the failure of those ones and how did they fail? And why did it fail, you study that you avoid all of those causes of failure, you will also succeed without failing in the way if they fail. So today insha Allah will be dealing with one of those chosen ones, and she's the wife of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the first person the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam met as a spouse. And this is deja vu Allahu

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anha, which I know

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is a kind of reminder equality, we just refreshing our mind because Khadija is not somebody who is anonymous, I guess most of the things I'm going to be saying, we already know them. So it's just I call it to Medaka. Even Allah has urged me to review that which we have in in the mind. Who is this person?

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Khadija Allahu anha Her name is Khadija to vinto hoilett Allah Surya, omo Cassie,

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and some of the historian said, nickname, The cornea is OMO Hashem and she's from there kurush and she is also related to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, to the lineage of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam or from three dimensions. From the side of her mother, she is connected to the professor Allahu Allahu cinema through his grandfather per se. And from this, from the side of her father, through quasi from the side of the mother through the lie, and from the side of her grandmother, the mother's mother, she is related to the prophecy of Allahu Allahu selama through at the mouth being to be identical. So this is how she is related to the Prophet sallallahu selama in

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terms of lineage, and unfortunately, you know, the time which is Khadija, Allah Allah lived is not the time of nourishes. Yeah, it's not a time of nourishment. That's why most of the people who talk about Hadiya the vast majority of the talk, you know, it's about other matters, nostalgia herself, yeah, because she lived at a time you know, that kind of attitude of narrating you know, what is going on was not there in that in that time. So, you have to depend on the books of the history, you know, some of these things might not be authentic as

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he said, I will Rocky in his Alfia he says, Well, yeah, alembic polywood. Under Sierra techwell, masama, canoe, Cara Alakazoo Vic Roma. See your behavior in it's not who let you return. It says, as a student of knowledge, you should know that history gathers everything. You know, that's why in the past there has called us when they erase history, they narrated with Senate, because they believe they are dealing with students who have the capacity and ability and the tools to differentiate between right and wrong, they will not tell you this is authentic versus not authentic. That's what we have to be very careful when you go to tidy up poverty

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will be there when you're highly educated, you know, and some other books have the history. You know, sometimes we argue if somebody is to go against it, we will say no, even Cathy's mentioned this and that it has to be correct. No, He will reveal Himself also did not say that whatever I mentioned in my book is, is correct. What they do is exactly what this report was saying. It said you should know that the historians The main purpose of the compilation is to gather whatever was set to take place in the in the past.

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Regardless of its nature, you know, it says of course, the victory will matter and sale behavior and it's not the who liked or whatever. So, sometimes we have to go through this we just keep quiet, we narrate what is said to be, you know, the nature of a person, we just keep quiet because if you are going to treat this absolutely the history in the way you are dealing with the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam, you are going to reject you know, two thirds if not the vast majority of the of the history. That's why there's Colin said you don't treat history, like a hadith, except when the history contains how commercially when that is true commercial, right? And this is supposed

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to be taken from Allah subhanaw taala. In this case, then you have to treat this history like a hadith. All the truth and the conditions of it's not you have to critically analyze that the chain or if the history contains criticism against somebody.

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And that's why when it comes to the clash that happens between Maori and Alia with the Allahu Anhu we really have to be very careful because if you take them anyhow, you're going to end up touching the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and this is a red line which should be crossed by any Muslims. That's why

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Have to go to the scholars who will combine the narrations until the which one is correct and which one is which one is wrong. So this is the name of Khadija, Khadija foilage and this is how she was related to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And she used to be a business person.

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It might be

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big, I mean, because of what she inherited from her previous spouses, because the scholars mentioned that she used to be married like any other person, she used to be married before she met the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. At first, she married a person called Zahra IGNOU. And abeche, Abu Abu Hala. And she got two children with him, hint and Hala. And as Ruhollah they mentioned that these are boys, but at the time, they use those two names also to address address voice, Hindi and Hala Ebihara. So he lived with a very short period of time, and then he passed away.

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And then she married after him. Another person called

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call it a minute I have it, she married a ticket with Avid, and she got a daughter with him who's the most was hit. And after that, then that person also died. And they mentioned that these two entities they left a lot of money with her. So she used to call she used to be called a PA Hera. I will FIFA she used to be called a pirate or FIFA. Wala Allah what I found in the in the history books, is that because she used to be a very decent woman, she was very decent cloth, and she doesn't mix with the brothers. And that's might be the reason why in her businesses, she doesn't do the business directly, very good business person, but she does not do it directly. She pass it to

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somebody who will invest the money and come and share the profits with her, and is what we call Modaraba. And by the way, this concept of Mudaraba exists since before the time of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. And this is just an additional benefit, I will benefit the crowd in case you are not aware of it in Islam, you will never most likely and I never crossed any place in the books of FIP where the list of businesses that a person is allowed to be conducted is mentioned. We don't have such a thing. Because almost all the businesses you find them been mentioned by the scholars in the books of faith. They have been practiced by the Arabs before the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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okay. So what Islam does is provide standards and conditions and principles to regulate those businesses wherever mistakes and riba exists Islam or eliminated will tell you don't do this because it has this element of error. Don't do this because it has the element of rebirth. Don't do this because it is a freshman. So having this in mind, will lead you to understand that these have been kept based on the general principle that says I'll ask you to fill a che Alaba everything that you found on Earth is Hello Hara.

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Hara Hara

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Hello stellify

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some some said is halal and some said is haram. And some kept quiet.

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Right? How can I let these are the people who we call at metode? You know, there are some times you find some, some scholars they don't want to voice out their opinion and then they will say we are Motoki food. But the correct opinion is what some of you have mentioned that everything you found on Earth is been made halal for you, including the businesses is allowed.

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Yeah, the general principle when it comes to transaction is that everything is permissible except where you find Sharia stating, stating otherwise, you get it. So having this in mind, that's when I have the permission by the Sharia to come up with my own motor business.

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And we're going to make your conclusion which I think everyone is affected here. And therefore you have to be very careful because you can tell Allah subhanho wa Taala you cannot tell Allah Sparta this is what I found in the community. Everything that Allah Sparta wants you to do, he has made it very clear. The prophesy Lolly cinema said Allah Allah will haram obey, obey now my moral wish that we had Halal is clear. And Haram is clear. And between haram and halal, you have the devil for matters, these doubtful matters are all only doubtful to whom? To some of us, not to everyone. That's why the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam I said not everyone knows the correct ruling

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concerning the doubtful matters. So what is my job as a Muslim? To do

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halal and to stay away from the haram. If something is doubtful to me what is my job is to call a scholar or to go and meet a scholar for explanation. If you couldn't find somebody to tell you what Allah swatter wants you to do concerning that thing, what must you do? You stay away from, from it very simple principle given to us by the Sharia. But unfortunately, nowadays, we don't want to take it. So what I'm trying to say is nowadays, you find businesses in the name of Islam, we keep the same title, which is known to be the title accepted by the scholars. But unfortunately, when it comes to the content, you'll find something something else, right. That's why even the Mudaraba that

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you see, which used to happen before the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and during the time of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, but some people are telling us nowadays this is established based on HDR, what is the difference between HDR and a text? Because if you agree that it is based on the text, that means he had has no place here you have to accept it in the way it was to get idea do we need to modify and he had no. What we're supposed to do is to create our own businesses and wait with the means and of the, of the Sharia. If it goes with it, then we take it if it doesn't, a Muslim has to stay away from from from it with no the ruler because to find the ruler case in this

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situation is very, very difficult. So that's how deja Khadija used to do this business to invest her wealth, but he she used to send people to go and do the business and share the money with them, including Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam before he was assigned as a messenger of Allah subhanho wa taala. The prophets Allah Azza used to go with her to Jarrah And subhanAllah. They mentioned that this is one of the reason why she agreed with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are to become a husband. And here, I have advice for all of us. You see, according to what history is telling us, or at least some part of the history for deja Khadija has been monitoring the Prophet

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salallahu alayhi salam, she benefited a lot from his honesty, and also the profit generated by him is greater than any other prophet. And she monitor him to see his values and manners. And that was the reason why she proposed according to some of the history to marry the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So she made that choice to have somebody in her in her company. Did she succeed in that choice?

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Did she succeeded in that choice? Yes, marital relationship. I mean, marital life is a key, you know, in human human's life. And therefore a person should think wisely. And he will Allah you need a partner. You need somebody who will cooperate with you. You need somebody who focus on your attitudes and your behaviors rather than your physical appearance. You need somebody who will comfort you. All of these you find them in the life of Khadija will will shed light on some of them in sha Allah azza wa jal, but as a side benefit, most of you here I know you're not you're not married and you're going to do it in the in the future. You have to think wisely the Prophet Allahu

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Allahu sama has given us a very simple principle although it goes against the vast majority of our choices, what is the vast majority of our choices? Where do we go for

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beauty or religion or

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the other one wealth position? Which one most of us are focusing on?

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Religion right.

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I got somebody who told me is it halal for him to modify the istikhara

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I said how? Because he wants to marry that person but he's afraid if he do this to Cara, Allah might choose somebody as not this one.

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Here Allah so He told me Is it is it okay for to modify it? I say how do you do it? He said I will say Allah I know you are the most powerful and you are capable of doing everything yeah Allah although this woman might not be good yeah Allah change her to be good so that

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very smart right? But Subhan Allah in the wrong way why do we need is to Hara?

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Why do we need this?

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I heard somebody's

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when you are confused. That's Thank you very much. She's answering one of the questions that I did not ask yet. Is when do we need istikhara but now I'm saying why. Why do we need istikhara?

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Yeah, to us, of course to ask Allah Subhana Allah

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But why do we need it?

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It's a color I guess we're asking Allah right. So that

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when we do secara we are asking Allah subhanaw taala to do what? To choose for us, right? Yeah, to choose us and to guide us and to put our hand on the best place right? Or that it is business or marriage or whatever you are doing the prophets Allah sama said anything that is important in your life. It should go to Allah subhanaw taala and ask him to choose for you the best. Why do I need to go to Allah subhana wa.

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Okay, yeah, thank you very much. Who?

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Did you ever see a person who engaged in a business and fail and regret?

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A lot, especially nowadays, right? Yeah. Did you ever see couples who married and at the end of the day they cry? The wife is crying and husband is crying? A lot, right? Yeah. That's the reason why we need the Sahara. Because if you check a person you might see all positive you know things and this is human capacity. But Allah Stratta knows the future, the present and the future, what exactly this person will be, you know, and by Allah, Allah, we need the Sahara, more than the time of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Because those funds, they focus on values and manners. Nowadays, the physical appearance is more good idea. We focus on shallow things, you know, these are

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the things that will determine what exactly, I mean, our choice is going to be in in the future. That's why we regret a lot. So we go for his Hara, because Allah knows the future, he knows that this person might not remain the way he is, you know, nowadays, we hear a lot of false, you know, promises, you know, because I want to get that thing you want to get it. That's why we say things which are not part of us. That's why in in marriage, that attitude that we have in which you said I mean to propose to marry a sister and you take a longer time before the marriage will tell you, my dear versus says you should avoid it is very low. The more you can close to your Habiba, the less

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respect you're going to have in in the future.

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Yeah, trustee, marriages that are done in a very short period of time, they are more likely to succeed than those which are done after spending long periods of time. And that's why sometimes when they married also, they don't enjoy marriage in a way they enjoy life before the marriage. That's why in Islam, you didn't find where the professor lutzomyia is asking you to sit for talking and conversation. But they have justification those people who are doing it, because they said I need to know who she is. She said I need to know who he is. I need to know the way he thinks. Question. Is it possible for her to know who this person is?

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And is it possible for him to know who she is by listening to her or listening to him? No, no, because if I want something usually we act in the way that person will be pleased with us. One of our colleagues was talking about his friend, this friend of his never been seen carrying a baby is known to them that this person doesn't carry babies. The moment he met the Habiba, he was the one who was asking how to bring the baby, they were surprised and laughing at him, they said yesterday you needed to carry a baby in your life, why when you see how you carry the baby now, yeah, this is who we are. So, what happened is, I will keep giving false promises and she will keep giving a false

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promises when they marry they live together, they cannot hide their true identity for for long.

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Then he will start acting in the way he is and she in the way she is and then clashes will start taking place in in the marriage. So focusing on the values is the prophets Allah Allah has ever said. Usually people marry based on one of the four things either the deen or, or the other one wealth or position, or what is the other one? Guilty? Yeah, most of us goes to the last one. But the prophet said Allahu Allah who said like give us advice. He says, Allah you can be that Dean, Terry Butcher duck. He said, Take the one who has the D. You will be successful in this in this life. So please, my dear brothers and sisters, as I said, I know most of you did not marry yet. Think wisely

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before you make a choice. Yeah, you need a partner. You need somebody who knows Allah subhanho wa Taala because only religious practices can make you happy in your marriage. And this is the difference between us and the previous nations. Irma the Allahu Anhu used to say that sometimes I didn't even have interest in approaching my wife. But I craved that interest.

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Out of the hope that Allah swatter might bring somebody who would never stop out of the hope that Allah subhanaw taala might bring somebody who will be present him in, in the house. So back to the marriage of Khadija or the Allahu Allah. Many of the historian said that she was the one who proposed to marry the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam question Is it okay for a woman to ask for the hand of a man

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Wait, wait, wait, wait

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the norm in the in the in our communities is the boy looking for her hand? Right? But this time around? The woman is asking for him

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for his me to marry is it okay

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to take it as disrespect Oh.

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Anyway, I'm just asking question

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Is it okay okay to do it. Do you have any evidence for that?

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Oh, I Shala so I'm talking in the presence of alcohol right. So I have to be very careful. What is the evidence then

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Oh culture says is not allowed.

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So now

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so we have in the time of Rasul Allah Azza might happen right? Can I have one example from the people in front?

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No, that's Cheryl McDonough that's actually of those few who came before us. I want the chair of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam he went back to the couldn't find any in the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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That one the one that says that Wahiba enough sa Genovesa live symbol right? Okay, just said Wahiba the one who gave the sheet she told the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, ya rasool Allah,

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I am presenting myself as a gift for you. And he's the only one who can marry like this. The rest we have to go through the normal process. If she agrees, and he agrees the marriage can take place, you know, after the agreement. This woman when she came to the province of Lhasa, and she asked me Ursula Salah Salem Yara, so Allah, mice, I've given myself to you as a gift. And the prophets Allah similar look at her and then he brought his head down. It looks like he doesn't have interest, right? So he kept quiet, and she's still having a hope. Maybe he will change his mind. Yeah, but because because she is looking for who for so long, right? So and then the Prophet Allah Allah so I

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kept quiet and she's standing next to him. She did not go and the prophets Allah Allah did not say anything. One of the companions, who was next to the Prophet Allah Sama, he said, Yara so Allah, it looks like you didn't have any interest. If you don't have you have to lie. I have interest. And so Hala, she said she agreed and the prophets Allah the cinema said, Do you have something that you can pay as the MA? Is it? No.

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Yeah, that's in the past, right? Nowadays, the first thing to be questioned when you look for marriage is what?

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Ferrari, Ferrari or Which car do you have?

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Although it is not advisable for a person to go and marry unless if he is in the critical situation to marry without having them enough financial support, because the scholars set the scene of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam many survived in Kabul for later which Alba said he is referring to

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financial capability and also physical capability. Right? But in the time of the probes or marriage has been made, very simple, very simple. That's why this person said yes, so I didn't have anything personal. So Allah Salam asked him to go and check. He checked and he couldn't find anything. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam I told him you still want he said yes, yes. Well, he said you don't have anything he said yet the absolute except my garments. He has one piece of garment that he is covering his our, the promise Allah sama said, but there is no way for us to take it from you because how do you work after that?

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So the prophets Allah sama said, Hell, Monica, America Quran nowadays will be disrespects, you know, people will making fun of her if she married with the Quran, but that person he married her, you know, with the Quran he memorized from the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, the MaHA is to teach her that portion of of the of the Quran almost lame when I was tell him I came to her and he wanted to marry her and he wasn't a Muslim. You know, she she told him. Yeah, it is not easy to reject somebody like you but you are not a Muslim and we're not allowed to marry a Catholic. He said What should I do for me to get this? Another also

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evil thing we can see that in our society, you know, prison conversion to Islam and marrying. Because of that we see it as something which is not sincere as if Allah subhanaw taala sent as to check the heart of the people the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I'm sorry, almost lame told him you should go to the Prophet Allah so man accept Islam and if you accept Islam, your Islam is my is my Maha Funkadelic account, he went to the prophets, Allah Allah, so my next Islam, and they used to consider the MaHA of that sister, the mother of answers even demonic to be the best, the best mob, ALLAH he only if we come back to this system, then we will enjoy peace, and also a society that

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is free from all of these social illnesses that we are suffering from. We talk a lot about what is going on in our society, because we blocked the means which is opened by Allah subhanho wa Jalla will make it so difficult. In the time of the prophets, Allah this dilemma, they block all the means that can lead to an illegal relationship, but at the same time they open the marriage, they make it very, very, very possible. People are running away from it that parents are looking for them to marry. Nowadays, the children are chasing the parents and the parents are running away when away from it. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam married Khadija, according to the best opinion,

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Allahu Allah, at that I found some of the history and to authenticate the chain of narration. He was at the age of 25. And she was 14. So she's older than the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with how many years 1515 years. So 15 years older than the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And that's also good for us to know this, that in marriage, you focus on what? You focus on quality, you know, not the way the person is? Yeah, although it's also a purpose, you know, for a person to look at that person to make sure that he would be comfortable to stay with him. But the first thing that you should be focusing on should be the should be the quality. The first thing should be the

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quality. That's where so let's Allah so if you look at his life, he might need somebody who is 15 years older than him. And he also married somebody who is at the age of his grand daughter, that's Ayesha de la Hana with no apology. Sometimes we tried to apologize and modify the age No, it cannot be modified because the facts in history, the scholar said history cannot be abrogated. You do the NAS in everything but not history. Right the age of Aisha when she married the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I was six, when the Prophet sal Allahu Allah when she was taken to Rasul Allah is Allah is so much she was at the age of nine,

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whatever person is going to call it, let him call call that marriage, but history has confirmed that that was successful marriage, there was no complaint in it. And nowadays, we are talking about this criticizing Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wasallam and some Muslim communities because of these early marriages, but at the same time, you have in primary schools, you have in secondary school, you have this illegal relationship is taking place with our children, you know, and nobody is there to talk about it. But when it happens legally, everyone will come and say This is injustice and unfair Ness, even if that happens with the agreement of the partner, as well. So this is

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a digital the Allahu anha and her marriage to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she got the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, all of his children with the exception of one who is that person that did not come from Khadija Allah Allah

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Ibrahim he come from which wife

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Maria right wrong

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from WHO?

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Mona wrong, actually very wrong. Even that one is closer.

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Wrong. Just now somebody said Maria. And I said wrong

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you give up

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or you don't want to give up.

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Just give up this this man is telling me my time is afraid.

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Which wife is that? Ibrahim Ali Salam right? Who was his model? Which one? What was the name of that wife

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that her love was the leveler. So let me talk on your behalf. I assume that you gave up right? So let me take over k that the answer is Maria. Is that anyone who mentioned Maria

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But you said his wife Maria. Right. And the prophets Allah sama never had a wife called Maria.

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She was a freed slave of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, or the slave of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah smart Allah says Illa Allah as Wajima Alma Malakut a man she wasn't a wife of

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So that was the only child that did not come from Khadija mama to to serve Insha Allah, the rest of the children, all the brothers and the sisters, they came from Abuja, the Allahu anha. According to the Anderson algebra, I heard one of the losers saying that none of them was from Khadija except Fatima, Allah guide him and guide his is. So all of them became from Khadija Viola on how we have an assay. We have a table we have a title. And then we have from the

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from the from the sisters, you have Xena, you have overconsume. You have raka you have Fatima or the Allahu anha. All of them died in the lifetime of Rasulullah. He said Allahu alayhi wa sallam except for the amount of Allah and how she lived until after the death of Rasulullah sallallahu selama she died six months after Rasul Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so she lived with the Prophets Allah, so very nice, an excellent wife, and Inshallah, in the next session, I will be talking about the virtues of Khadija, and then I will go a bit more through that kind of life she was having with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and talk about that in more detail Inshallah, but a lot of

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people and sorry for taking more than at a time we're beginning to meet so that

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was the letter Sara Molyneux datamine and uh, you know, heavy been hammered into a lot while he was he was selling

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so hamdulillah we're back to continue with this.

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Good mission insha Allah. And last time I promised to talk about the monarchy and the virtues of Khadija.

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She married the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, as I said, based on those qualities she

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she says in Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, she was so rich, very, very rich. But still, because she wasn't looking for somebody who is like her the godless of his attitude. She was looking for manners. That's why she agreed to take, pursued Allah He said Allah Allah who said them as as follows. So she married the prophets Allah is a man had an excellent life with Rasul Allah.

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And subhanAllah I don't think this life of Khadija with Rasulullah sallallahu sama needs any scripture

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by the way, and insha Allah I guess whoever is going to be speaking about eyeshadow, the Aloha should touch this topic a lot about inside the house of the spouses, any What do you hear?

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What do you hear nowadays is tragedy, almost every single second to some is all about clashes between the husband and the wife, marital relationship became you know, marital life became something that is compulsory upon both spouses to accept it because of the link that happened to be between them, who is the the child and the children that last one till it gave him many families they are just living together because of because of this. So we need to see the history properly, because women are complaining and the men are also complaining. You know, if you approach each and every one of them will tell you different stories. But I believe the main cause of all of these

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problems that we are suffering from in our family life, it is simply because we are detaching ourselves to the life of the predecessors. The best life is a life of Mohamed Salah and he will go and check the way he used to live with Khadija, although very little information have been given but you can imagine a person who lost his wife but he kept on remembering Khadija in the way even the most beloved person got annoyed with that. I guess whoever is going to talk about I should touch this because it's really important and crucial to the kind of life we are living living nowadays. So she had that excellent life and she has been a support in the Senate for the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wasallam. One of the virtues of Khadija is that she is the first wife of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam did not marry any other woman together with her, never married, even I shattered the Allah one has said the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam married me three years after the demise of Khadija or the Allahu Allah wa. He never combined between hydrogen and somebody else. So he married Souder, the second person after the demise of Khadija, and who was the one who proposed to the province of Lhasa to Marisota.

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Who gave the process of the proposal because when he lost her

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sister, one of the the good ones in sha Allah, she went to the prophets Allah Azza wa she said somebody like you cannot see without, without a wife. So he said, but who can give me a

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Uh, his daughter at this, you know, circumstance, he was prosecuted you know he was still in Makkah. So the prophets Allah someone did not anticipate to get somebody who can give him his daughter. So she told the prophets Allah so my live the case with me so he said who was in your mind, and then she told him two people, one of them was Aisha and the second one was a soda. Unfortunately for Aisha when she, that sister went to the Father to call me to ask his permission, Aisha, I mean, the father already promised somebody to give him the hang of it in the future when he decided to marry. So he has been given that promise but the person did not convert to Islam yet. So Abu Bakr when he

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heard about this, who likes Allah to somehow have an interest in his father and his daughter, he was so happy but Subhanallah he did not know what to do with the with that promise, he did not know what to do with that with the promise. So Inshallah, wherever that is going to talk about HRD Alana, you should ask him to complete this story that insha Allah Tada. So what is the name? I'll come back to my question, what is the name of that person who propose to the prophets Allah sama to marry after the demise of Khadija.

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Everything you don't know right?

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And the one you mentioned is going to be wrong.

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And just now another thing also happened usually when you have this Kahoot Kahoot, we call it who is winning sisters.

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But what happened this year?

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So after the corona, things have changed.

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Anyway, her name is cola, mint, hacky, the wife of who

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has man a blue muzzle, one of the most excellent and Alia of Allah subhanho wa Taala who died in the time of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam in Medina and the first person to be buried in, in in Burkina right and when he died, his wife, she said eyeshadow and the lack of economic she said I swear by Allah or I witness that Allah subhanaw taala has on you. You know according to the feed of Alison, our Gemma, you cannot confirm Jana or hell to somebody who is still alive. You can say that this person is going to Jana and this person is going to hell because you don't know how Allah subhanaw taala is going to complete their life to get idea if somebody dies, you know, even if he

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dies at the battlefield do we call him shaheed?

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Do we call him chi? Yeah, nowadays even the non Muslims also call shahada you know, I didn't know how that work but Islamically you know, look at him and say this is Shahid because who confirms his shahada and his intention? Allah subhanho wa taala. As a Muslim, you are supposed to say we hope that Allah swatter will accept him as a Shaheed because somebody died in the presence of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam module, one of the battles and he was sitting next to him, and an unknown arrow came and got him on his neck. So he died instantly. The companion said honey Allah herbal Jana. It said this person got a free gift of Jannah just like that. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam Asad

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Kola Allah in a Shem letter materiala Hermitage, Sidewinder, he's your Cobra, he now he said no Allah, that piece of cloth that he has taken from the booties before it gets to be distributed, is now been made as a fire in his in his grave. According to the Companions, he died in the battlefield he is Shahe that's why when they see that person whose name was because a man because man you know, in during one of the battles and the companions of the prophets, Allah sama said, oh, this person is doing the great job. But then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said, but he is going to, to hell, no Subhanallah it was very difficult for them to understand because according to what they

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see, he is fighting for the sake of Allah. But who is the one who can judge that which is in the heart? You know? We don't know except Allah subhanho wa taala. So we don't know what exactly it's in the heart of the person. The prophets, Allah sama said, This person is going to hell. And what happened to him after the battle? They found him dead. One of the companions was monitoring him. When he was badly injured that man, he took his sword and killed himself. What did he do? He committed suicide and he also said in Islam is the shortest and the easiest way to make it to help to get ideas. So that's why we don't say this person is going to hell and this person is going to

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paradise unless if we have evidence from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam or that said, that said so other than that, we have to lead people to Allah subhanho subhanho wa Taala to get a sort of fundamental Mazoon when he died, his wife said, I bear witness that Allah subhanaw taala honored you that means you are going to take

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Paradise. The Prophet said Allahu Allahu cinema Tula. He said What are you talking about? Well, my Greek and Allah Acaba, how do you know that Allah subhanaw taala on a day, he said, Anna Rasulullah I have a messenger, the Messenger of Allah, whenever he may have it will not be cool and I don't know what Allah smarter will do with me, and also you as well. And so that Allah that's why as long as you live in this life, you should always have this sight of fear in you that you might go in the wrong direction because this will motivate you to keep asking Allah smart Allah for for guidance Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Is there anyone who imagined Salah Salah sama to be misguided? No, but

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every night the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam on he prayed. Aisha used to hear him say in yarmulke liberal Kulu subcritical Viola dini. SubhanAllah. In this life, we have seen people who have been expert into heat guide to the humankind. They change the world to move heading. Atheists, people who don't accept Allah subhanho wa Taala as the reason why the prophets a lot Samoan. Asha told him the other sewer line you asked always you asking Allah this question. I mean, this request, you're making this dua because Yamaka liberal, liberal identity means you are asking Allah the one who controls the heart to help you to maintain your religion until you meet him. And this is Rasulullah

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asking for this. So I shall was asking why he also Allah and you're also afraid of this? He said yes, he Aisha in Kluber Bennett's Vitamina salvia Rahman, Eukanuba Kifissia. Because the heart of the creation or between the two fingers of Allah subhanaw taala he turns it in the way you want. So the prophets Allah, so I don't know. So if Rasul Allah is asking for guidance, we should ask for guidance much, much more. So I hope inshallah all of us will take it very seriously because honestly speaking, my dear brothers and sisters, we're living in a very contaminated time, the time has no problem but the kind of life we're having is SubhanAllah. So distorted is very easy for a person to

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to tilt, and go in, in the wrong way. So that therefore you should read a lot about this hadith of the prophets, Allah sama to teach you how to maintain you maintain you, your patients, as well as Allah Azza Masson, to the Companions, he says behind you, there are going to be days of patience. It says the one who is holding upon his religion will be similar to somebody who's holding upon a piece of fire and Subhan Allah sometimes if you are holding upon your religion with no compromise, in order to every any part of it, you will feel that you are living alone as the prophets a lot so myself, but at least Lamb of God even was a regimen for to Bali, little horrible, small bit of

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momentum as own when he died and she said this, the prophets Allah Azza wa Taala do not say this because we didn't know what exactly Allah smart Allah is going to treat him with when he meets him but we have a good expectation that he is going to be given the best of Allah subhanho wa taala. So they mentioned that the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Semar took it very difficult for them to to handle this information from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, until the time because everyone knows that a family member who was a very, very dedicated person to Islam, according to what appears to us and he was like that, because his wife, she saw him in a dream and in front of

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him there is a river to get idea in front of him that is a river. So she told the province a lot some about the dream, the province allowed some I said that's very nice dream. And this is actually his righteous deed that Allah's motto is making them continuous again idea and that's why the dreams can we translate the dream?

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Is it possible to try and interpret the dream? Yes, right. Is it good to do that?

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You have to be very careful. Yeah, Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam I said originally by That's why if you take my advice, because you receive a lot of requests from people, they see this they see that they want an interpretation for that dream. And subhanAllah sometimes when he when the answer and the interpretation is given, it might cause them depression which will take a long time you know before it is healed in their in their life. That's why what must you do when you see a battery? Promise Allah the same I mentioned that dreams are categorized into three categories right? dreams that are from Allah, and you have the dreams which are from shaitan and you have dreams which are

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from Hadith.

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When you decided to travel to the place which you are really interested in going into that phase sometimes you see a dream that you are in aeroplane you're doing this and that is all

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you are thinking of of doing. You have those one from shape and these are the nightmares is one of the prophets Allah sama said he shouldn't read them to to others and you have the the organize and arrange dreams when I say arrange things means meaning dream that is very straightforward. That doesn't look strange. This one could be interpreted by the prophets of Allah.

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My name selama says, You shouldn't read them to anyone except a scholar or somebody who really loves you. But the question remains, who is that person that is going to be honest in translation and translation that dream. So that's why when you see something which you're not happy with, what must you do? We do that which also, Lets allow some ask you to do. Split three times in the left side and ask Allah to protect you from shaytan and the evil what of what you saw and as Allah has wanted to protect you, he said in sha Allah, it will not happen to you, it will not take place be evil as usual. That's better than go into somebody who might interpret it in the wrong way, and your life

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will become miserable. Good idea. So it's important for us to know to know this, you can go and interpret it if you wish, but you have to be very careful the promise a lot. So muscle I realized originally in facilite wakad, they say dreams are something that is hanging on the leg of a birds, they will keep on hanging until the time somebody put them into interpretation, then they will they will happen to get an idea so as long as you ask Allah to protect you in sha Allah, it will never never take place. Is there any way for me to make my dreams? True dreams and to stay away from the nightmares? He has it you sleep according to the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is

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there anything called Summer sleeping?

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Yes, right. What is that? It sleep according to the sun right? You make do you make the DUA the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam I used to do in the light as the agenda in most instances you're going to have empty, sleeping with no room except the good, the good ones and the scholars said according to the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the more truthful you are, the more true your dreams is going to become. Especially in the time we are living in the province, Allah Allah sama said before the Day of Judgment letter Kuduro, we are movement acronym. It says before the Day of Judgment, it will be very difficult for see for you to see a dream that was seen

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by a believer, which is going to be false, you will be seeing things but when they will take face exactly in the way he saw them in in Bidri. Why is this happening? Let's call it set because at that time, you are technically alone. You are facing facing a lot of pressure from the work place and from the community from your house. So it's like you're living alone. So Allah Subhan Allah has given you this rule yet aside. You know, whenever you see something will happen, to give you some comfort so that you will understand that you are not alone. Allah subhanaw taala is always in your in your sight. So this

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is one of the earlier of Allah subhanaw taala the shahada, te and Nabi. sallallahu alayhi wa salam. So Khadija was the first wife of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam. As I said, He never married anyone, before Khadija and also during the time of Khadija he did not marry anyone at all. One of the virtues of Khadija is that she was the first person to accept Islam.

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Even a fee

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is a delivery fee set according to the origin of the hobby itself. It is a consensus of all the Muslims, that Khadija was the first person to accept Islam from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And that's very, very obvious, right? Because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa selama he knew that he was a prophet and a messenger of Allah swatter when he was with which Khadija and in fact actually the first time when he saw the, the angel, you know, the real Ali salaam, and he came back home that was when he's when he used to go to the cave of Hira right what was he doing in the cave of Hira?

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He used to go to the cave of Hira what was he doing in the cave of Hira?

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Are you sure he was meditating?

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Existence I like the one contemplating and reflection right. That decision I guess is the one that you close your eyes and think

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keep imagining things right. Is it good for a person to do it as a Muslim?

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No answer. So cancel the Kahoot they already failed.

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Okay, I know most of us are interested in you know taking the terms and terminologies given to us by others. But Subhanallah I wish each and every one of you, you know and I hope every one of you will open his ears. You know, listen to this statement of mind. Whatever wisdom you are looking for, with no doubt it is there in the Quran. Or in the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah this proximal Villa every wisdom you are looking for which will guide you to the truth and lead you to success in this life. It is there in the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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So, in a way you don't need to take from others. I'm not saying benefiting from others is wrong. No, you can do it. But why would it go to somebody after having the most valuable ideas given to you by somebody who is divinely guided? Who is guiding us to Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah subhanaw taala, in every statement he mentioned as the truth, and he never made a mistake in those statements. That's why Allah subhanaw taala says, we're tiberiu Will Allah come to do if you want the guidance in everything, you have to follow the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, even in his culture practices, if you follow him, Allah, he will succeed in life. Unfortunately, we live in a time in a

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time whereby the Muslims are Praising others, you know, and you will rarely see others present what we have, when we coach we quote from them, we write when you see a person when he quote from the Quran, as if, you know, he is forced to do that. He just caught one word from me. But he has all the courage and, you know, to go and code from others to whole thing and put it in his article and his writing

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Subhanallah that's why we are in the state of loss and others are laughing at us. They don't quote from us, and we're quoting from them. But don't take me the wrong way. I'm not saying quoting from them is wrong, you know, you can benefit from them. But you have the best one with you, which is divinely given to you that and that is the statement of or Sula and said Allahu alayhi wa sallam, there is a scholar who wrote the book, when he sees the Muslims in that community where he lives, focusing always on a book, when it comes to a club and manners and attitude. They focus on a book written by one of the one of the non Muslims. It's okay to benefit from it, but the way the

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community are praised in that book, you know, force him to write another book refuting that, you know, attitude of the community saying three o'clock in Akiva, we have more than enough. And he emphasize on the fact that I have been mentioning that whatever you need in this life to succeed, trust me, my dear brothers sisters, it is there in the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe, salam, all that you have to do is to look for it, if you couldn't find it, as the scholars V light as somebody is going to guide you through what is the best. So coming back to the meditation issue, this meditation is a word that we took from, from others, and Subhanallah because we didn't follow

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up what is going on. And we claim that it is beneficial because people got relief from the pressure and depression and all of these things. And trust me, my dear brother and sisters,

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it is what I call a temporary solution.

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You know, you know, those modalities they give us when you are sick, you are in pain, they give you some painkillers, you know, relaxes, you know, to give you some relief. But after that what happened, the sickness come back, because the sickness is actually there inside you. But it is not apparent because of those, you know, clothes that you're taking, which are disguising the true image of you at that, at that moment. This is how I see those things. That Subhanallah the truth comes out, according to that research being done by some of the the Muslims, which they also extracted from the confession of those people who are not Muslims. The vast majority of these practices end up

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with continuous depression and attempt to kill themselves. And also at the end of the day, what nobody is waiting for, has arrived, which is the confession from non Muslims and non Muslims also who are doing I heard one of their spiritual fathers are saying, I mean, he's saying that the rustle

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in Orissa, Allah Azza wa Jalla. They're still coming. We still have in recent laws which

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test against the GMAT of all the muslimeen who is the last messenger of Allah rasool Allah, meditation has led him to believe that Rousseau are still coming, including yourself, he said, and they brought people who are confessing that when they're doing that meditation, you know Subhanallah they have they have a face coming to them one of them says I see what you might have been you know, phase which is coming to me and telling me that you are this yada yada yada so we have replacement mentioned by share wishes based on what taboo in the Quran Allah smart Allah asks you to do what to the book, but the book is based on something that is physical tangible, you see it in front of you,

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you watch you read, you ponder you understand, you'll make your struck lesson from it, not to go and sit down because trust me, my dear versus when you sit down and you start thinking this is when the negative and evil force will come. Although you might see it being good because this is what shaytan wants to do to distract you from the one that Allah subhanaw taala gave you in the Quran which is which is terrible. So let us fix that thing which we usually use when we define what the prophets Allah sama is doing in the cave of Hira, it was reflection, does that

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attendance? I should have the one who mentioned the promise the last time I used to stay away from the community to go and have the privacy in the cave. And Khadija, the loved one has

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She used to support him, he hates to stay there. Whenever he needs support, he will come down to Khadija and get some and then go back to that place until the time Jabril. Alexa met him for the first time. And you already know what happened. The professor last summer came back to where did he go? After his surgery and I saw him for the first time and by the way, how many times the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam or soldiery

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Yeah, because I said how many times he saw him? I did not say how many times he saw him in it. Correct? I'm sorry, in its original form. Right? Yeah, that's your answer is correct. When he said to that he saw him twice divvied up. But see that angel you know in the form of somebody else like human beings, the prophets Allah sama saw him many times. But in the form of angel, he saw him twice. One of them is in the having one he went to the Israel Mirage, and the other one is here on on Earth. So he started to realize, for the first time he got scared of him, Where did he go?

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went to his office.

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Do you imagine if somebody is looking for support nowadays, how many people if you got scared, you go home?

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You go home because you know that there is somebody who will really give you comfort? Or you run away to the web?

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Or go to another planet, right? Not all right. So that's also another lesson in the life of Rasul Allah so much Khadija Rasul Allah. So Allah did not hesitate to go back to, to the house. Why? Because he knows he has somebody there, who is very honest with him and who he can consult about what he saw. So that's when he go to Khadija and he met her in a state of fear. She told him what happened is, she gone? And he said, I'm afraid of what will happen to me. So what happened? He told her what happened. Subhanallah she told him Kolev Allah, and this shows what smartness and you Allah, you want to succeed in life, make sure that your partner is a smart person, not somebody who

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talks too much, but somebody who talks smart,

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bigger ideas, somebody who is capable of guiding you, somebody who has insha, Allah the solution to your problems, somebody who will remain comes when you need them. And that's what we see in them in the hospitals, right? You go on your sovereign, you are crying, the medical doctor, do they cry?

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Maybe you are dying in the moment, but they still tell you take it easy, right? Imagine if you go to a doctor, you are crying and he is also crying.

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For sure you're going to go out of his office and look for another person, right? Who can treat you very well. So the prophets, Allah says go to Khadija and Khadija managed to convert Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she told him don't worry. Let's go to the expert in this field. Maybe we can get some additional information on top of that, which I said can see the smartness right? She told him what can give you comfort. She said people like you cannot be embarrassed in this community. And they shouldn't expect themselves to be in trouble like this, which you are afraid, afraid of? Based on those policies, because this is how the community was in those in those

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days. So she took him to her cousin, who was that cousin? What a cable even know for and what happened now fell. He was amongst the three people who left Saudi Arabian community there are some some some some other people also who had the same attitude, including Khadija herself. Some people said she refused to worship idols. She refused to take all of those bad and huge of the of the Arabs in those days, she focused on values which are universally accepted because they correct to get idea in the time of the time before as soon as Allah in Salem, you have work I've been no fun. You have Salem Anambra, and you have of Manville health, those when they left there may have been community

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because they believe that people are not following the right way. They can't accept the concept of worshipping idols. They believe that this is not the religion of Ibrahim alayhis salam. So what about accepting a Christianity and I guess for someone also somehow, but he refused to do to accept Christianity or Judaism. That's why he kept on worshipping Allah subhanho wa Taala according to the way he believes he thinks Ibrahim alayhi salam used to do, he used to pray. He used to tell them worshipping idols is not the religion of Ibrahim alayhis salam, he used to go to them if they are slaughtering a sheep. He told them do not use the name of other than Allah because it doesn't make

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sense. That one that you're using his name was not the one who created the sheep.

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And he used to get into trouble from the family because he belongs to the family of Roma, the father farmer used to put him into

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trouble because of this attitude. He used to go to the club. You know they have their own baccala homophobic. You know that one right. What do you call that? A Tobia right a baker lamella Baker Baker actually kind of color bake. And then Robin Oracle hunt. Okay in Alhambra when they are meta lateral moves in the past they used to take this also but they add something to get idea they used to say the baker Lahoma Baker Baker, Ashley Calico bake. And then in luxury Ken, who are like Tim lik who Obama like, they used to celebrate Kalashnikov is He Allah, you don't have any partner, except the partner that belongs to you. Yeah, and they have to put Shrek in it instead, except the

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partner that belongs to you which you are the one who, who created this partner and you own him and whatever it holds. So they didn't Ambra used to go to that phase. If he he is somebody making the Tobia when he reached this place, you will tell himself do not continue. This is what it's all about. This is what the religion of Ibrahim use is all about. So you have work I would know. He did not take that stance. He took Christianity and it was a very good person who used to translate Christianity into Arabic language and presented to to the Arabs and whoever approached. So when the Prophet said Allah, Allah is similar he, he told him the Abernathy, son of my brother, what did you

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see? The prophets Allah so my explain to him what he saw. You know, there is a narration which, unfortunately is weak is quite interesting. Khadija tried to comfort the province a lot so many in her own way. But that narration according to what I know is weak narration. It says that narrated to you so that you will know that this narration is a weak narration. We have the case of the worker which is more than enough for us that narration says the prophets Allah sama came back home and he was scared. Have you tried to comfort him? But still, the fear is there just seems to breathe and we do those things to him, you know? So the promise Allah Simoes cancel, Khadija told him if you see

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him again, please let me know. Okay, according to that now they should, right? If you see him again, let me know. And then he told her yes, he came.

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She said, Okay, come and sit on my on my lap, the prophet Allah. Someone sat on her lap the right way. She told him, Do you see him? He said, Yes, I see him. Okay, sit on the other one. Do you see him? Yes, I see him. And then according to the narration, she took off her scarf, you know, and then she told him, Do you see him? He said, No. He disappeared. So she told him according to that narration that yeah, this is not chatter. This is an angel. This narration is weak. But is it the fact that angels don't come to the house when a woman take off her clothes to see?

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Is it true?

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Say yes.

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Just say yes, I will not say wrong. Okay. Yes, it's like that they have this respect the angels of mercy when they come to the place if a woman already took off our clothes didn't come to that base, according to what the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa told us in Hadith of jewelry, when we came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and resume is Allah sama he just lie down to sleep in order to take rest. And then he heard Gibreel calling him from outside. So the prompts the last time I went out of the out of the house, very slowly, in a way I sure will not get scared and she will not wake up because he thought she was sleeping. And I wasn't sleeping. She was waiting for him to come back.

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But then when she saw him coming in that way, she kept

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pretending that cheesy. So when the prophets Allah sama went out, she thought that Ursula is Allah Azza is going to another, another wife, right? And today is how it's our turn. So Aisha, what did she do? She let him go. And then she followed her as soon as Allah Allah, Allah.

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Allah Allah sama kept on going, and until the time he reached Bucky,

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when he reached the bottom, he made a long dua for the people in the Gree. He made a very long draw. So I share when she saw that she realized that Qaeda does fear as well as Allah sama is not going to, to any any of his wife. So she came back home because she was rushing, she was run into the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I will not reach her. Wherever went to Medina, you know that the distance between the House of Aisha and Baca is very, very short. So when she was

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running at that high speed, for sure when the prophets Allah Sama, reach home, you will find her suffering from heart breathing, right? So the Bronx the Lhasa get into the room, and he saw her breathe in very hardly. He said, Aisha, what happened? What's wrong with you? She said nothing. The prophets Allah Allah celibacy, Jackie shaytaan Did you shave and visit you?

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She kept quiet. He said what happened? She was the one to tell. He said Allah is going to tell me if you don't want to tell me

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And then she started telling him what exactly she was thinking about sort of process profits and a lot. So my push her from the shoulder and he said, Do you think Allah subhanho wa Allah and His messenger are going to deceive you? And then he told her I just lied down and then Jabril la salaam called me. I was I was going slowly because I don't want you to get scared of hearing the voice but you don't see anyone. So he said well Makana yet Hola. Hola, que aka Dotty, fear back, it says a woman kind of lead. And Jabril will never get into the place after knowing that you have already taken off your clothes to see. So this is establishing angels didn't come to the room at that, at

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that moment. Even if that had is that a part of the story? It's not it's not authentic. So what I got asked the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam Did you see the prophecy last summer. So other than that knows

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when to Musa listener, and our moves means Sahar was the one who's bringing secrets? So it's referring to Jabril Ali setup, you are not speaking the truth, you show me 15 And you can sell it to five minutes in five seconds. So 10 minutes.

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so so he told him what did you see? He said, I saw this and that and he told him this is this is the angel, the same angel who was sent by Allah subhanaw taala to Musa alayhis salam. And then he confirmed to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that this is actually good for you. It is not a bad and if Allah subhanaw taala is to give me opportunity to see the time when Allah subhanaw taala is going to send you I will definitely support support you. So this is part of the contribution that was given by Khadija to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam she supported him financially during the shape of italic when they boycotted or Celeste Alonso and the believers. They

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were dependent on the wealth from Khadija Villa Juana and some people who can contribute to help them to survive. That's why the prophecy Allahu Allah who said about when he lost Khadija Radi Allahu anha he was very sad. He was he was so sad. He lost Khadija and few days he lost after Khadija in furious she lost also about that one is supporting him politically, you know by power because he was a leader in Morocco. And Khadija is supporting the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and defending him financially. So that's why I mentioned that the machinery cool. Never harm Rasul Allah, he's Allahu alayhi wa sallam, in a way they harm him after the demise of Khadija, or the

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Allahu anha when she died, the prophecy last summer was very sad, was very sad until the time to read, came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and comforted him about the place where Allah subhanho wa Taala puts her before I mentioned this hadith

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the Prophet Allah Azza used to talk about Khadija Ravi Allahu anha much more than anybody else I shall be Allah Han has said I have never been aware became jealous of somebody like the way I became a jealous of Khadija villafana And I never met her she never met Khadija Dylon never met her. So she said I never saw her. But I was jealous of Khadija because every single moment the prophets Allah Azza is mentioning Khadija whenever 100 Khadija comes, you know or any opportunity to process or migrate, he will talk about Khadija if they do something wrong. He will tell them if it is Hadith, he will not do this and that to me. And if the if somebody knocks on the door, the prophets Allah

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someone sometimes will wish that this should be one of the sisters of Khadija Villa and her own friends and he used to slaughter a sheep and distributed to the Friends of Khadija or the Allahu Allah. One day Aisha told the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she said ers will Allah. You always remember an older woman hamre she's

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the one that has a very red gums. What does she mean? She mean that she's too old until the time she lost her teeth. What can Abdelhak Allah who hated me? And Allah smart Allah has replaced her with somebody who is the best for you.

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The prophets, Allah Azza wa stopped her he said, love Allah, Allah never replace Khadija with with the best. That's why Allah Allah.

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I guess these Hadees if you look at them, they can close the discussion amongst the scholars who is the best collegial by Khadija. Oh, I shall deliver. You get it who is the best? If you look at the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and you focus on them, for sure. You're going to pray it. You're going to favor Khadija Allah and first of all she's among those four systems that the prophets Allah sama said they are the best system ever created by Allah subhanaw taala and I guess this should be more than more than enough although the scholars they have their own dimension of thinking