The Greatest Women- The Life Of Aisha
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The importance of presenting Islam correctly and being careful with language is emphasized, particularly in avoiding marriage and returning women. The speakers also emphasize the need for verifying information on social media to avoid privacy issues and address issues such as wedding mistakes and women's accusations. Strong leadership and behaviors are necessary to address these issues.AI Generated Transcript ©
Assalamu alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
Hamdulillah. A very good evening to all of you, my brothers and sisters, I hope all of you are doing well. I am Abdullah Mohammed and I will be your emcee for tonight. This evening we are here for our last event, which is also actually a bonus one because of the appetite of Yan, and is brought to you by revivals in collaboration with the Alumni Relations Division under the series The Greatest Women. Before we begin, I'd like to get a quick raise of hands how many of you are attending this series for the first time?
Oh, oh Masha, Allah. I see most of you have been following from our previous previous events, I should say revivals we are leaving a legacy on y'all.
So through the past four episodes, we have explored into the legacies of the lives of Ali salaam Maria molybdenum surplus Rhodiola Wanda and Khadija Radi Allahu anha. And what they have left behind has the greatest women to have ever lived our previous episodes up on YouTube and if you do decide to attend, or you want to watch these informative talks again, please do check them out on our channel, because there's always something beneficial to take away from these sessions. Insha Allah. Before we continue, let me give you a small introduction on Aisha Radi Allahu anha. Aisha was Abu Bakr Adela, one daughter and our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam third and youngest
wife. She contributed to the spread of Nabi Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam message and served the Muslim community for 44 years after his death. She is also known for narrating more than 2000 Hadith, related to not just his private private life, but also on topics such as inheritance, pilgrimage, and extra eschatology. various traditions revealed the mutual affection between Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam and Aisha, he would often just sit and watch her and her friends blooming dolls, and on occasion he would even join them. You will learn more in sha Allah throughout the event.
Our speaker for tonight whom we are grateful to have with us chef Dr. Ibrahim noto, who was born and raised in Nigeria and is the founder of another educational foundation. Another works to alleviate difficulties and fulfill the needs of poor Muslims in Nigeria and to elevate them with education. It is a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping poor families in Nigeria, providing basic necessities like food, shelter and education. So I would like to ask you for your support, you can, you can scan the QR code
and go through the various product projects another is working on and perhaps make a donation no matter how small because it will go a long way in helping another foundation to continue this important work. Back to talking about share. He started his Islamic education from a very young age in the classical way with his father, Dr. Nahata. May Allah preserve him and other local scholars. He completed his Bachelor's in Sharia and Islamic Studies followed by a post graduate diploma in Islamic law and Islamic political science from the Islamic University in Medina. He then completed his Master's and PhD right here in AUM in Sharia and civil laws and now an associate professor in
the Department of Economics and Management Sciences. On the other hand, shake allocates a lot of his free time to engage with youth and spread the knowledge and the tarbiyah of the Muslim youth. He conducts classes in fic, C, eight o'clock and other essentials. We will learn more about it later on in sha Allah. Throughout the talk. If you happen to have any questions, please do type them out. In pigeonhole, you can scan the QR code from the screen or you can even type in the URL.
We will have a q&a session at the end which however, we will be filtering the ones which are most relevant to our talk, and then proceed with the most voted ones within the filter questions. This session will be split into two parts session one and session two, we will have a break from learning. In fact, we will be conducting a quiz so that you can apply the knowledge that you have learned during the first session. The questions will all be based on the first half of the session. So make sure you pay full attention and even make notes when as you will get revived as goodies Charla
lastly, before we begin, I'd like to inform you to be careful of your belongings. We have a large number in the crowd today Alhamdulillah and things tend to get misplaced in such events. Some
One or the other is always forgetting an umbrella or water bottle and even in some cases cookies in case you find anything that someone had dropped, you can give it to the nearest Ashada you see with that being said let's proceed with our dog
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salatu salam ala Rasulillah al Amin and the V you know heavy bin Mohammed in said Allahu Allahu Allah, Allah He was he was telling him about
first of all, ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant you good and Tofik in this dunya and after, and ask Allah subhanaw taala to love You and to put Baraka in your life and your activities. Last for her to accept your effort and make it sadaqa jariya for you and your family in May Allah smarter make you happy with this event on the day you meet him.
They there is no happiness except the happiness being granted by Allah subhanho wa taala. So it is an honor to be invited once again here in sha Allah to be speaking
before you about this novel and important topic. And I'm really honored because last time I was given
the chance to talk about digital Viola one, the best amongst the sisters in the Omar homicide Allahu alayhi wa sallam. And now also I'm given another chance to talk about another woman who is also one of the best in the way some scholars actually believe that I shattered the Allahu and Hashi is better than a deja or the Allahu anha Zabi. In his book, Cyril Amin novella where he talks about I share the Allahu anha he prayed has so much so, so much, you know, subhanAllah you might say you never, I mean? So something like that, you know, the way he was talking about this woman and the wife of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. He said there, there was an opinion that says Khadija
Villa I'm sorry, Aisha Lavon is even better than her father. That there is an opinion that says Aisha is even better than Abu Bakr de la vie.
So even with that, he says, this is very, very wrong opinion. And then he quoted an ad that says Khunjerab Hola, hola coalition. kodra.
It says Allah subhanaw taala make a limit for everything. And Suhaila because comparing somebody with Abu Bakr is Murtaza. There is nobody who could be compared with Abu Bakr De La Hoya, apart from the messengers and the prophets of Allah subhanaw taala. Abu Bakr is the next, if you bring the chain of the prophets, you have realized a lot the Salah, followed by Ibrahim Ali Salam, and then Musa alayhis salam, and then as Ali Salam, and then new Halle Salam, and then you have all the rest of the messengers of Allah, followed by all the rest of the prophets of Allah. The next one in terms of ranking is this Abu Bakr de la and therefore nobody in the OMA Bahamas Allahu Allahu selama that
is even closer to some of the scholars said, If this is the case, why do we see Allah subhanaw taala given, you know, certain privileges to Omar, Abdullah Han, you know, you know, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, in that fee man can a couple of comando in Canada, the old material who had fervor instead among those people who came before me, there are a lot who have had the food and had this Elmo ham is somebody who speaks the words of the truth. He will say something and then it turns to be true. Rumor has these statements a lot, even in the time of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam. He said, Yeah, rasool Allah, why can't you ask your wife to cover
themselves and in the past, there was no hijab.
sisters go out just like that, except in few cases the sisters understand that it isn't appropriate for them to go naturally to uncover themselves. So there are some cases where they mentioned that some sisters are still covering themselves, but then Allah smartair made it mandatory but before that Omar so soda pinches Emma the wife of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and then she was trying to hide at night to go to somewhere so Omar so and he told her no matter how much you try to hide, we will recognize you. And then he went to the professor lotsa told me IRIS will lie. Why can't you ask us your wives to wear the hijab? Allah subhanaw taala revealed the IO the hijab, he went and he
found the wives of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam arguing with him. Omar told him you guys have to be very careful Otherwise Allah subhanaw taala will tell the prophets Allah sama to divorce you and he will replace you with the best and these replacements they will be mostly mad Muslims that minute in Karnataka and you know until the end of the ayah in Surah to a dream and Allah revealed the ayah like that, you know, he says yes Allah why can't you take my call me Brahim to be the place where we pray Allah azza wa jal reveal the ayah says we're talking to me McAfee Ibrahima masala. So somebody says, If this is the case that Omar should be better than Abu Bakr, because we don't have a
single case with Abu Bakr in this way. But then this caller said, No, it is not like that. Because there are people who are complete, you know, they said Abu Bakr is completely so perfect, that kind of perfection that fit
OMA did not reach that. That's why he needs some other things to bring him up. So Allah, that was the explanation they gave concerning making comparison between Abu Bakr and Omar so Aisha is not better than her father. And when it comes to Is she better than deja Oh, she's not better than Khadija. Xavi said, I have my own stance here, which I believe Khadija is better than her with a lot of evidences that I have which is which I mentioned in some other places, not here. And I guess in the past, when we have in that lecture, I also mentioned that looking at the evidences that we got from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam Allah Allah, Allah subhanaw taala knows who is the best
but looking at those evidences Khadija is on top of Aisha Radi Allahu Allah, but both wives they are the most beloved personalities to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the salons Allah sama loved them more than the way he loved any other person amongst his his wife. So this one that we will be talking about here today in sha Allah is Aisha, the youngest wife
of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and
her name is Aisha Radi Allahu Allah. intervie Baca was Abdullah Abdullah Yokohama is the name of the Father, about half of man in army, Abraham or even a copy of Assad 17 even more or even a cabin, he can see he also is related to some of the grandparents of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam is the father of eyeshadow the Allahu Anhu Abu Bakr. That's why they call her Siddiqa been to Siddiq. You know, her father is Siddiq and the daughter has always said the
the mother the mother's name was Omar Omar, some scholar said her name is dad. Some said her name is Xena. But she's known with Omar Omar Omar Omar ibn bento been to Army Omar Omar vinto been to army and Charania okay, this is the mother's mother's name. As for the cornea the nickname given to Aisha Radi Allahu anha. The scholars said she chose for herself Omar Abdullah you know the cornea usually is
a title given to a person based on the first child that you have.
But I shouted the Lavon has never had a child. Some said she had a miscarriage but what is the facts with us is that I shall never had a child. So this Abdullah she is called Omar Abdullah. Where did she get it? Let's call it said she went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and said Yasu Allah, all of you wise have Kalia Konya means nickname, Omar, Abdullah Omar Ibrahim, omo Kareem, Abu Abdullah Abdul Rahman salaam, Abu Mohammed, names like this. So she said everyone amongst your wives have this has this cornea, but I don't have one. So the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, I said, Why can't you take one and related to your son Abdullah? He is referring to the son of her sister, Asma
bint Abu Bakr. She has a sister as my mentor. We become different mothers, you know, different mothers.
And that sister is older than I share the love on her with 10
by 10 years, she is 10 years or older than I shall allow. And she also accepted Rasulullah sallallahu Soma sent in Makkah, she was the one who was helping the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when he was in the kibbutz Hara on his way to to Medina. So she has a son call Abdullah, so the province of cinema to Asia. Why can't you take this Kenya you call yourself Abdullah? So some scholars said, this is the reason why she is called Omar Abdullah. She wasn't the one who chose it just like that. But she was consulting the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned that she should
recall she should take Abdullah to be Omar Abdullah to be to be her cornea. She was born
five, four or five years differences of opinion among the scholars
after the birth in the visa license, you know, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I was sent.
Five years later, or four years later, I share with you Allah who was born. And they mentioned that she's eight years younger than the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Fatima she's eight years younger than the daughter of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Fatima and SubhanAllah. One of the good thing about this house is the fact that I Shah was born in house that almost everyone is Muslim, with the exception of the grandfather who accepted Islam later, during the de facto MK remember when the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam defeated the Americans and Abu Bakr went to his house, and he talked to his father and he convinced the father to accept Islam. And
subhanAllah the father agreed to accept Islam and he was very old. You know, he was very old. And even at that time, Abu Bakr, you know, is around 60 You know, so he was very old, the father. So Abubakar brought him to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to accept Islam. When the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, I saw him and Abu Bakr told him yeah rasool Allah, hey, this is my father. He wanted to accept Islam. So when Allah the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said to Abu Bakr, he said, Abu Bakr, what is this? He said, Why do you do that? Why didn't you just come alone? And let me know I will go to him, why did you bring him you know, Salah because they said he has to help
him even to work, you know? And then when the prophets Allah Asuma shook his hand, and he was given him the shahada, Ababa, consent for Allah here. So Allah I wish this is the handle of the mortality saying the shahada Subhan Allah.
Very painful moment. So the father also accepted Islam. That's the grandfather as the father accepted Islam long ago, actually the first man who accepted Islam, and the grandfather also accepted Islam. That's why some of the scholars said Aisha is among the few whose family is all Muslim, almost everyone is Muslim. Her mother is Muslim. The father is Muslim sisters are Muslim brothers are mostly Muslims. And the grandfather also is is Muslim. Almost everyone is Muslim. So she used to say that I did not recognize my father except in Islam, you know, worshipping Allah sahaja. She said when I opened my eyes and become matured, I started recognizing people I see my
parents worshipping Allah subhanho wa taala. And that was correct because she was born five years after the, the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa Salam o has been sent by by Allah subhanho wa taala. So that's when the father was a Muslim because he was the first man who accepted Islam from Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu Allah, he was, and I shouted Allah and she is the youngest amongst the wives of the Prophet salallahu Salam is one in sha Allah, I will shed light on it when I talk about the virtues of sha Allah Who and and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I used to love our Isha more than the way he loves anybody, anybody else.
And she married the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and
at the age of six, and she was sent to the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam at the age of the age of nine. Khadija della one had died and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam stayed
around three years, some set to years without marriage, you know, without wife. So then one of the sisters in the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam called What was honey last time? I think I gave you this name.
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Allahu Allah, right? That's the best answer, right?
Which is always correct.
Okay, the wife of Earth might even bother. Oh, I think last last last time. Yeah. But somebody was writing my own class when they said, students in IAM, the narration of Hadith are all weak,
because they always forget. Anyway, so when I went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she said, yeah rasool Allah, somebody like you cannot stay with that wife. So the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, I said, but how do I marry?
No means you know, like, from the prophets, Allah some was very tough, especially in those days, you know, being prosecuted here, and then you know, it said, Who will give me his daughter. So when I said I have two proposal for you, one of them is young. And the other one is, is a matron, somebody who used to be with another person, but now she is alone. So the problem is, someone said, Who is this and who is that? She said, Aisha is a young one.
Virgin, one who never married and she is the daughter of your brother. You know, who believes in you are the closest person to you? I think this is good for you. So then the prophets Allah someone said, Do you think they will accept and she is it okay for me to go for this? She said, Yes. It's okay for you to go for that.
Who is the other one? She said? So there it is. Emma. She accepted you. And she believes in you. And she's very good according to what we know about half.
So I shattered the whole as she went to the house of Abu Bakr because the prophets Allah someone said if this is the case, and you believe this is okay, please go and talk to contract with them. So she started with with Aisha, so she went to the Father.
When she went to the father of Aisha Abu Bakr, Radi Allahu Anhu. She, she told him, she said, You guys should take the good news that Haley is approaching your house. They asked her what happened. It said as soon Eliza Allah, listen, I talk about your daughter. He was so happy. You're so happy. Abu Bakr kept quiet. He was so happy, but he kept quiet.
And then the mother said, Oh, man, she said, she said, The problem is we are so happy with this. But the problem is, we we promise more time everybody more time even rd that we will give Him we will give his son our daughter when they grow. We promise him to give him our daughter. And it is not good for us to break this promise. Soboba can set please, if you can just wait for me to settle this case first. And then I will revert back to you. So what immediately went to the house of modern and he talked to him when he started talking to him about that arrangement that my daughter is going to marry Maria is your son. Are you still open that that engagement that proposal?
The father kept quiet. But the mother she said no we have a fear that if we give her to him one day she will convert him to Islam.
She said no because we have this fear that if she married him one day I might convert our center Islam.
The father kept quiet. So booboo can look at him. He said,
I want to know your opinion. So whatever said I'll call the cola. The statement is what she said in a Salah Abu Bakr when he hears that he did not even any stop and argue with them because this is what he wants to hear. Right after that. He said thank you very much. I just want to make sure that I did not break my promise. I really appreciate this. And then he went quickly and he met cola he said to her, hola please tell Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam a place is ready for him. That's why some scholars said, rasool Allah is Allah so married her immediately together with soda. Because when when she when they told her not to talk to the prophets, Allah Samantha he cannot until they
finalize the case. She went and talk to Sodom and Subhan Allah so that was ready at that time. She doesn't have any proposal with anyone. So when she told her what the solar solar summer standard is intended, she said I'm really ready for it. That's why some scholars set a preface Allah so Mary's How would you know because he was waiting for the reply from Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu. And that's the reason why I shall lost the second position. She was supposed to be the second wife of the Prophet sallallahu selama but because he wasn't ready at that time, then so that came into into the
into the issue. But remember there have been some others they have another approach. They said the marriage of both of them happened at the same time so we just leave it to Allah Subhana Allah Allahu Allah, but most of the scholars when they talk about Aisha, they will mention her been the third wife of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So lice Allah so married her at the age of six, right? Yeah. And he met her in Medina. That was a time when the marriage happened at the age of six. But she was sent to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in Medina, at the age of nine. That was the time when the suit of lice and Allahu Allah who said about meet his wife, Aisha de la Vana. And this
is the correct narration. Yeah, that's why we really need to be very careful when presenting Islam. You don't need to modify and you don't need to apologize. You have to present Islam correctly. Yeah, sometimes were very apologetic. And we try to put it in the nice way according to the way we think. Yeah, put it in the nice way according to the way we think to others because we want them to accept us know Allah, Islam doesn't need anyone, actually is a favor from Allah subhanho wa Taala to give us this religion, You Allah, it is a favor from Allah, that we have Islam with us. Islam doesn't need anyone we need Islam. So therefore, if I'm to convey Islam, that is always a better way to
convey to convey the truth.
Right, rather than coming to a person called Carry, you know, and then I look at this carry, I tell he did something which necessitate going to hell. I look at him I say an entrepreneur will be cinema sees
how does he feel?
insulted? Can I convey the message of the prophets Allah some in a better way? Yes. I will tell him Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu Allah, you serve. I said, doing this action lead to help.
That's better than coming straight forward and telling him you are going to help with peace and mercy.
So that's what we have to be very careful. I'm saying this because nowadays I hear some people are saying no rasool Allah. So married had age of 18. Some of them are the age of 11. Some of them are the age of this, this and that. Do we need all of these? No.
First of all, we look at the marriage first, was it a success? He will Allah whoever is not biased to any opinion, read history with a very naked eye, you know, and hard, he is going to conclude that this is one of the most successful marriages that ever took place on Earth.
It wasn't a pedophilia, and the way they are saying that the prophecy last summer, I mean, force her to marry him, read the history correctly. And I don't want to go to the interpretations of some scholars that she was big, the size is so big, and that's why she's matured. All of these, if you don't find them in the Hadees been mentioned. Just keep it in the way it is. Because Islamically when a girl starts having the message, this is the indicator that yes, she can handle a marriage. We do agree in Islam, although there are some scholars who said a father or a grandfather can force a girl to marry somebody who she doesn't like. Yeah, we read this. But if you go back to the Sunnah of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, and this is useless. I say that because a woman came to the Prophet Allah so might the young youngster she came to the Prophet, Allah salah, and she said, The RS will Allah. My father forced me to marry somebody who I didn't want to met.
The Prophet sallallahu sallam, I said, did he do that? She said, Yes, the prophets of Allah, Allah Azza wa said, You have a right to break that marriage destroyed. You have the right to the first.
She said no, Yasser Allah, I don't want to cancel something which is arranged and organized by my father. So why are you here that? She said, Yes, well, I just want that announcement. So that the sister will understand that nobody has the right to force them to marry somebody who they don't like, that's the only thing but since my father wanted, I take it and I will go with it. But at the same time, I want sisters to understand that nobody have the right to force them to marry somebody who they don't want. Well, it doesn't even make sense. Unfortunately, up to date up to date, in some of the areas up to date up to date. I'm telling you, I receive a lot of cases like this, you know,
people are suffering because their parents this agree to let them you know, exercise the freedom that Allah smart Allah gave them. We talk about slavery, you know, but we have slaves also at home because explain to me if I'm to take my daughter, and I give her to somebody who she hates,
and I tell her you have to stay with him. I guess even the slaves also they don't receive this, you know?
But we still
Do it. But Islamically this is this is wrong. So that's why in Islam in Islam,
before you take a goal or a sister, to be under the custody of somebody, she has to understand marriage first. That's why having a marriage at a very young age is wrong. If she doesn't understand if she grow older, and she has some objection to that marriage, she can cancel that marriage.
Good idea. So that's how we look at it. So the time of the Prophet sal Allahu Allah who said, We're gonna read the history and see I shall be Allah and when she talks about herself, that she know what exactly is going on. When the when that marriage was happening? Yes, she narrated almost all of the Hadees about that marriage in detail what exactly happens step by step. That's me. She knows marriage, she understand marriage understand exactly what is going on. And the Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam will never agree to marry somebody who doesn't want to stay with him. That's why when even to Joan said to him, I owe the belimbing What did he do? It will help you have sought
the protection of somebody who protects, you should go back to your family.
How was it possible that that woman just look at him? She said, all the blaming and the prompts or somebody not even touch her. He tell her just go back to your family. And then now somebody is going to tell him that
and then somebody's going to tell us that Aisha was forced to stay with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. So that's absolutely a lie. So we have to understand this fact correctly, that we don't apologize. We keep it in the way it is that marriage of the prophets that Allahu Allah you selama is the most successful marriage. You know, after the marriage of Khadija, the marriage of Aisha Villa Juana is the most successful marriage. So the Prophet said, Allahu Allah who said we're married after Khadija and she was the only woman that was virgin, all of the other wives of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to be with some other people before they married Rasulullah sallallahu
Sallam with the exception of Aisha Radi Allahu Allah.
So now let's go to the
the virtues started telling me your time is up. So let me go to the virtues. Because honestly speaking when I'm given this topic, up to the time I come to you, I have been thinking of what to talk about. Because the hubby alone, you know, the amount of the pages that he spent talking about Aisha Radi Allahu anha, subhanAllah, they are a lot much more greater than any other wives. So I realized that if I take one event, and I talk about it correctly, I will take the whole time I started introducing the topic I do not even begin and he tells me you have only 15 or five minutes left.
So let's move to the to the virtues of Sharia law who are the allawah
number one, she was the only
virgin you know, all of those wives they have been with somebody else before the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam marry, married. Number two Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam, According to some scholars, he married eyeshot of the Levant based on the command from Allah subhanho wa taala. How do we know that? He said when he so I share the love and
he saw he told her Yeah, you are the one who said Jabril has been coming from time to time to me and show me a picture of a woman in a piece of fabric. And he used to tell me this is your wife. And so Hala, he said I see it many times he really will come and tell me how he is. And sometimes he will tell him, this is your wife in this dunya and she will be your wife also in the hereafter. The prophets Allah Simone he married Aisha Radi Allahu anha. And he looked at her, he found out that she was the one that Jabril Ali Salam used to tell him that this is going to be your wife in this dunya and also that
she is the most beloved person to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam, I used to stay with her more estas love to stay with her more than more than anybody else. Some of the events she mentioned that took place when she was with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. She said, There was a time there. There are people from Ethiopia, they have people from Habesha, they have a senior, they came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
They were playing next to the mercy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Atul Ayesha, would you like to watch the game? I heard the loved one has said yes. jasola I want to watch and then she came. So she puts her chin. You know, the chin on the shoulder of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So the prophets Allah sama covered her so she was watching them. They
again. And I want you to focus here because I'm going to make your conclusion and ask you a question also. And I dare you to be honest in answering that question. Get it so the prophets Allah Sama, let her watch right. And she told him and the prophets Allah sama was tired of staying in that place. He told her Aisha, are you satisfied? spyler he said, Are you satisfied? She said, No jasola She said I want to go I'm satisfied. But he enjoys the like, in that place like this the way I put my, my chin on the shoulder of Rasulullah Samira watching those brothers playing the games. In another event, the prophets Allah sama was with the companions
and then an eye shall the loved one who was with him in that battle. Because what he usually does, if he is about to go to a journey, you know, he used to do the Quran. The Quran means some kind of a vote that he will see who will be selected amongst his wife and, and go with her. So this time around the vote of eyeshadow dilla on her comes out. So he took her with him. So in the past, they used to go on the camel, they used to have a small house and put it on the camel and then the sister will go inside. So she was inside that, that how does they call it small house? And then the prophets Allah Alyssa realized that most likely she get bored. She was alone in that place, you
know? And then he told the Companions, you guys should go first.
They told him Yasu jasola. Is everything okay? You said yes, everything is fine.
They said okay, they left. And then the province Allah Azza wa said Ayesha,
you said your Aisha, would you like to? He said, come down. So she came down. She couldn't see anyone. She says, Elsa, is everything fine? He said, Yes, everything is fine.
He just wanted to give her some comfort, you know? He said, Would you like to do racing? to race with me? They say, Oh, yes, of course. Subhan Allah. So the problem is Allah Azza said, said to her, let's run and see who will wait. So they run and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I lost the debate, you know, she passed the Prophet Allah so much she went that that race in another occasion also the same thing happened the province Allah that after some years, you know, when actually I became a bit bigger than before. Before she was so slim. She has also said that we are so slim, you know, we don't eat that much. You know, the food was very little. That's why when I raised with Him,
I defeated him very easily. But the second time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salatu wa Aisha, come down. She came down. She told him how to like have everything is fine. He said, Yes, it's fine. I just want us to run again. So she ran with the province Allahu alayhi. Salaam this time around. He left her behind, she lost. When he came back to her. He said, Aisha, this is my revenge. Okay, let's go and catch up the people.
Question. You see, what is the difference here?
Are Sudha lights Allah Simone he was playing
with his wife. Did he ask the companions to leave the place?
Yes, well, yes.
Yes, when he wants to raise with Aisha he told them to go right. So at the place will be empty only him. That's why she narrated it, because nobody was seeing them. It wasn't good.
But when it comes to those brothers who are playing, I check him on. And watch.
Do you good idea. Okay, nowadays, if you have a game
being played by the sisters, they have in football for instance. I do not ask my question. Don't laugh yet.
You have sisters playing football. And it's open for everyone to go and watch.
If the brothers go
what are the watch cable? Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Brothers are playing football. Okay. Sisters are watching. What are they watching?
Football. Football. Yeah, everyone knows that they're watching football. Have the opposite. Sisters are playing football. And the brothers went to watch
none and I didn't say that
yeah, if you want to know what exactly they are watching right after the game is over as them who won.
So that's exactly the difference how it is. That's exactly the difference how oh it is that's why up to date when you have the decent place. When you have this for two places, they put it in in a place which is a cover taken from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and wallah he this is better, better for the sisters and for the Muslim community. Okay, everyone is involved in it and it is hard for everyone to join the sport but each and every one of us is supposed to do it in a way that will be no
But he who is provoking the desire of the other one, this is Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and those people are the most trusted people, but still the prophets Allah Azza did not trust them in that in that regard. So that was the kind of life the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I used to have with Aisha Radi Allahu anha. And I wish I have a time to talk about this life of Rasulullah sallallahu sama with Aisha because it is the most important and the most excellent life as an example for every house to follow. Khadija we do not know detail about her life with Rasulullah sallallahu selama inside the house with Aisha we know
you will live with Aisha we know one of these events, events that I will emphasize on this truck this lesson which is a greatest lesson for every spouse who is living, you know with his wife, you know, suffering from the clashes, that is taking place between them is a great lesson for them to imitate you know and to take from it which I believe in sha Allah, if they take it sincerely, life will be excellent in that in that house or Sudha lights Allah Azza was the best husband to Aisha and to all of his way. That's why you have sisters, you have sisters nowadays who are looking for some people to tell them the words of what
love Believe it or not, we have sisters who are looking for somebody who would tell them good words and they're married. Why? Because she never heard it from from the husband. He might be saying all of these words to his sisters no problem to anyone but this one that is staying with you forever. You know Insha Allah, why Can she hear this? You know? Rasul Allah is Allah sama he was asked Munna humbleness. ILEC humble the last ask Him you also like Whom do you love the most? He said Ayesha. Salah, straightforward. He told him Aisha, he said, Yeah, so I'm asking you about the brothers. He said, Abu Ha ha, Father SubhanAllah. So the love is going around her family, either her or her
father.
That's what the husband should be, should be saved. I will give you this example in sha Allah and then I close the session for the break and then I come back to continue as soon as Allah sama in one of the battles.
And he took Aisha with him.
And Aisha lost
the the necklace.
And they mentioned that this is actually something that doesn't belong to her, it belongs to her, her sister as well.
Unfortunately,
they tried to locate it, but they couldn't find it.
So Subhan Allah, they were staying in the place where there is no water in that place.
There's no water in the place. So the prophets Allah Allah sama told the believers to go look for it. And I want you to understand this correctly, who are those people that are with their will with the prophets, Allah al salam, he was soldiers. And you know, what? A soldier V. You know, and this is a young girl because of this academic jewelry, you know, that was lost, and the army has to stay in that place, not just staying in the place, but they have to look for it.
Why because Rasulullah Salah sama does not want to hurt the feeling of his wife.
How many husbands are like this? And subhanAllah and he doesn't care. He told them go live for it. Somebody went to Abu Bakr, and he told him Yeah, but what
did you know? Do you know what your your daughter did? You said what did she do?
They said she kept people in this place. And that is no water for us. And now we have to pray and we don't have water. We don't have water to make who?
Who could have gotten angry. It said Did she do that? He said yes. Hala Abu Bakr left Eros very quickly to
to ha fortunately he found her with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and she sat down and the prophets Allah somebody said on her on her lap, he was sleeping.
What kind it's like he's biting his finger. Because he doesn't know now on how to deal with her.
Because it's that kind of therapy. I interview. People in the past, you know, very harsh yo. That's why when he came one day and he found her
he heard her shouting and he says salam alaikum when he heard I shouted at the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam,
the robot can get inside and he was very mad at her. And he was trying to hit her so the prophets Allah sama stood up very quickly and US blocking him from doing that. Aisha was hiding behind the prophets, ALLAH SubhanA mukha was trying to get an eye in the process and was covering him Subhanallah and then the prophets Allah so I've managed to, to put him down.
When Abu Bakr left prophets, Allah Azza wa said
he said use
If
she started talking province and you forgot I'm the one who's defending you from him right? I wish I let him get here.
So she loves she loves she loves her and then Abu Bakr came back at the moment she was laughing she was laughing I was awesome. I was lucky because he was telling her I wish I let him get you know, if not because of Bing you could have been into trouble.
So Google can found them. He said he said Yeah, so he found it so interesting. He said he also Allah, please, you guys should tell me you have involved me in your problem last time. You should also involve me in your in your fees. Now. It looks like you are living a very peaceful life. Please let me know what what makes you laughing. So boba can try to touch Aisha, but he couldn't because he also likes a lot of Sumo sleeping on her lap.
So she said he started pinching me from this, from this side. hostility. She said it was very painful. I wanted to cry. But I remember that if I do cry Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu Allah Who Selma is going to wake up.
Hello. This caller said Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam is topping a Jewish and army, the whole soldiers they have to stay and look for that episode of eyeshadow, the Allahu anha and Aisha is saying
that I wanted to cry because of the pain but I don't want to sue Allah He said, Allahu Allah you selamat to be affected and to wake up.
And Wallah, he, this is how they succeeded, you know, because I share is always trying to see how to make Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam are happy, as long as he's happy, everything is fine.
Which wife is like this? When somebody came on curse, Aisha de la Juana and it was very painful. She couldn't handle it. And that was Dana Interjet. She was talking she was talking against Aisha villafana.
And then I just said I wanted to reply her because I have something to say. But she said before I talk for another three now watching the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam. Lyra Hayakawa an antacid? She said I didn't reply first. I look at the face of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to see first would he mind? If I'm to reply, ha ha Allah. Allah He does a very good lesson for every sister who is telling her husband, you have to be like, Rasul Allah is Allah Allah. So because this is what we hear. You have to be like Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, but she forgot that if she wants him to be like, Rasul Allah, she has to be like, Oh, I shattered the Allahu anha trust me, my dear brothers
sisters, if the wife is going to observe manners, like Aisha de la Hana, like deja vu Hola, Juan, like almost selama like all the whites of the prophets, Allah Azza. Imagine they have two parties amongst them. You know, you have the party of Aisha Villa and have sides with her. Julia is with her, you know, some group of sisters they are with her, you know, and you have the rest they are with who they are with almost Salomon and Dana.
Imagine those who aren't they did not agree with what the Muslims are doing. Because the Muslims when they realize that the prophets Allah Sama, loved Aisha so much. So they try whenever they decided to make gift to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. They keep it first until the time they know that now he's with Ayesha, because they know that he's going to be very happy, when they will send that gift.
So the wives realize this. And they told almost sedima They said, Please, go to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and tell him that his wives are looking for justice. But this time around justice not from the prophets, Allah Azza himself justice from the believers who are making gift. Whoever wants to give gift, he shouldn't select the time of Aisha only. We also exist, they should give it randomly.
Almost Selim I came to the Prophet Allah Allah syllabi, and she said jasola Your wives, this is what they want. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I kept quiet.
She came back again she talked to him like the prophets, Allah, Allah and selama kept quiet.
And she came back again. She talked to him when she talked for the third time the prophets Allah Azza wa said please do not hurt me in Aisha because nobody amongst you that Allah has ever revealed to me why when I was in her blanket except I shall the Allah Allah.
When she heard that she said, Oh the villa him in other cars villa. She said jasola He I seek refuge with Allah Sparta from anything that will make you upset. Which means as a wife, she is always trying to find out whether Celeste Allah sama is happy with her or not. And in next session, inshallah I'm going to emphasize a little bit more on this and then move forward BarakAllahu pico as salaam alaikum, Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
you know, have you been Mohammed instead of Allahu Allahu Allah and he was talking
He was telling me about.
So as I was saying, I was talking about the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
the virtue of Aisha but through the life of the prophet Allah cinema with her, which I
titled Aisha Genovesa Allahu Allahu Salam by Aisha. And if you remember I said, following the the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the way he used to live with his family. This is the solution to most of the problems we're having nowadays. So last Allah Allah so Allah sent live raka movement and mobility in carry him in her Hello, can you hear me? Hello Can
when you have a failure in the marriage, trust me. It is simply because one of them is not willing to do what he's supposed to be doing according to the advice of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So let's allow some married Aisha and that was the decree of Allah subhanho wa taala.
That was the decree of Allah subhanaw taala for him to do that, so that the world will have the best example of a best husband and the best wife. As I said, all his all of his wives are like that. But since Aisha is the youngest one, and also the love that Allah's patella, put in the heart of Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wasallam, for our Isha is greater than any other love in relation to that which he has to the rest. You know, that's why the lessons we generate from the life of the profit and loss on what I share is greater than any other any other lessons. So let's allow some I used to sit down and laugh with her and make jokes and she used to sit down and talk to the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, and this is also necessary. You know, that's why in marriage the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asks, you want to marry, he said, Allah Combi.
He said, unencumbered and carry in. One, one Takahama and what are the videos here? Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam advise the Ummah when you marry, he said you should marry somebody who is young, young in the sense of not being married before. That was advice of wrestlers a lot. So maybe it doesn't mean that a person is not permitted, permitted Islamically to marry somebody who was married before? No, he was just advising you which one is the best? Because you need somebody to play with, you know, marital life shouldn't be so serious. In some of our lives. We're so serious. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam I was not like that. So when he saw Jabba the Allahu Anhu coming
after one of the battles, and Jai Jabil was was rushing. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam asked him he hijab it where you go with Sal rasool Allah who I married recently. He said, What do you marry? He said, I marry a human candidate in Medina, one of the the sisters, the matron in Medina, Allah you is a person who used to be married with somebody. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I told him he said, Halabi come to live with our tonight ebook, or to their house or to their ebook. It said, Why don't you marry a younger person that you will be playing with at home, you play with her, she plays with you. If you marry an old person, she is not. I mean, she's already tired of all
of these, these things. halite is all about seriousness. So when Jabil told him Yasu Allah, I want to go for this. But my father died. You know, his father, Abdullah, having haram died in one of the battles and he told him Jabil I think I will be among those people who will be killed. You know, the first among the companions of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, and please take care of my daughter's your sisters. So he said, he had a Salah, he left very young sisters with me. So I realized that if I'm going to marry a younger person, at their age or younger than them, then they will not benefit from her. That's why I sacrifice and compromise my right. I brought somebody who is
older than them so that she can help me in taking care of the younger ones. But the advice of rasool Allah, He said, Allahu Allahu selama is that when you marry, you will look for somebody who is young, who did not marry before. The person who is smart, and the person who is religious and the person who has good manners. That's why you see also like Salah Somato his sit down with his wives, especially our Isha Allah, He they have excellent conversation one and the prophets are somewhat doesn't get bored when she speaks.
Nowadays, we don't have time in most instances when our spouse is speaking to us, and this is what creates problems and they also have no type. People are complaining. He is at home sitting in this angle, and she's in the other angle.
You know, they don't agree and you might ask them is there anything wrong? No, nothing wrong, but she is not familiar with sitting next to him and he is also not familiar with.
And this is what is going to start creating the barrier. So let's Allah sama was not like that. He used to sit down with us
I shall not Yianni not only connected to each other Subhan Allah in the way the promise Allah, Allah He reached the extent whereby if I shall drink something, the prophets Allah, Allah says, I used to take the cup and turn it to check and see which place I shall put her mouth and He will put His mouth in the same place. I shall send the prophets Allah Swamiji used to give me a bone to to First eat the meat and then he would take an eat it up and eat the balance after it. That's why even at the last time when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, I was about to die. I used to be proud of this moment, because the Prophet said last time I used to ask the wives, where am I going to be
tomorrow? Which house am I going to be in tomorrow? So they realize that the prophets Allah somebody is looking for the time that he will be with I shall have the Lavon almost tell him I told him after consulting the rest of the wives they all agree that he should go to Ayesha so they inform him, they are salah, he can move to the house of Aisha and stay there until whatever time you want the province a lot someone was there, and Aisha was holding him Subhanallah she was holding him
and putting him on her chest, the province Allah sama was suffering from the super of death. That's why she said I never think of somebody to get an easy death after seeing the the situation of rasool Allah He said Allah Allah Himself. They asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
a university I should do Bella, who are the most amongst the human being who receive the most tests from Allah subhanho wa taala. He said MBM the prophets, prophets of Allah subhanaw taala when you see the way Allah's martyrs tested them Subhanallah you pity them?
And that's why the prophets Allah Azza wa said, You tell him Oh ALLAH cuddly. Imani, Allah subhanaw taala usually test a person according to his EMA and this is Nima Nirmal from Allah subhanaw taala. That he tests you according to your EMA if your iman is so tough and strong, the test will come also according to the nature of your EMA since the prophets of Allah the EMA is so tough, so strong, you know, Allah's monitor would test them also according to that EMA and then we go in the way you have the man in Allah's Mahabharata, the test also would come according to that nature so that you can handle it and get the blessing of Allah subhanho wa taala. So back to the story. The prophets Allah
sama was there Aisha was holding him. And then Abdurrahman, the brother of Aisha, at the marina Viva cut the brother of Aisha came and he was using see work
you know, the see work right? The stick which used to break the chimneys take land, the one that you brush your teeth with, instead of the tooth brush. And this is very, very excellent sunnah, which most of us neglected. Am I right? Yes, most of us neglected in order. So let's Allah Allah Surma when he gets inside his house, the first thing he did is what see work. Because many of us think that wives are supposed to decorate themselves, but for the brothers, who cares about him right?
Now, that's how that's how we think, honestly speaking, most of us don't don't think of fixing themselves so that they can present themselves to their wives. One of the funniest stories I ever read in my life is the story of the person that a person who was who was brought by his wife, you know, she wanted to divorce him in time of O'Meara de la.
Are you three of the like you normally said, I used to decorate myself to wear to dress nicely. Because of my wife. He said in the way I want her. He said in the way I want her to always look nice and neat. I believe she also wants that from me. So he said, I used to dress well, and I'm doing it for my wife.
But most of us don't take this sooner. This this brother of ours, his wife was bring it holding him. She was going to remember the Allahu Anhu she told Omar the Allahu Anhu in the presence of everyone. I want the divorce and the man doesn't want to divorce her.
She wants to be divorce. When rumors saw him Subhanallah scattered. Very ugly, the head the head is dusty. You know, Omar said
it said Sister, please patient go and come back after like one hour.
Omar told him what is this? What is this? He told somebody, please go and help him. Give him a chance to take shower and dress properly. He went he took shower and he came back for Tala Mashallah. And
so when he came back, he became somebody else. Use it for the money robot. When he he came back, Omar asked him to sit down or blame him first. He said, What is this living with your wife and then you look like this. What is this? When the wife came back? This is the funniest part. You know, to me, at least
When the wife came back home and asked her, where's your husband?
She looks she looks she couldn't find it
when I read that I said maybe in her life is the first time he took shower.
She couldn't find then after after tomorrow, you know, she go deep and look and she said, Oh, is that you? He said, Yes, he told her mom and Alana. She canceled that case, you know? No divorce, she told him let's go back home.
So anyway, so this is, this is also good for us to remember this in the way you want your wife also to look good. You should also look look like that. So back to Aisha Allahu Allah, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I used to sit down and speak to Aisha Radi Allahu anha. And I remember a story. Aisha was sitting down with him, and she told him Yeah, rasool Allah, there were 11 sisters in the time of Jaya Helia, who sat down to discuss the issue and affair of their husbands.
This is medalists what,
which module is this? 11 Sisters, they sit down and they promise you know, they promised our hudna what our cabinet Allah tuna mean Akbar as well as in nutshell, they promise themselves that nobody among us is allowed to hide any secret of her of her Husband.
Wife.
So, she narrated the story and the prophets, Allah, Allah cinema was listening, and he was enjoying and he was focusing, and it was a very long Hadith Subhanallah until the time she needs the last sister, who prays her husband. And the issue of this sister is really amazing. Because usually after the divorce, what happened is that the woman doesn't like to hear anything about the husband and the husband also close her page. That's where Allah subhanaw taala had to say in the Quran, Wallah tense, I will follow by now. You guys shouldn't forget those good and excellent days the deeds to exist in your marriage. Because for sure, during the marriage, there are excellent days. That's why
in the early days, the marriage is good, good, good, good, good. And then lack of tolerance will start taking place slowly, slowly, slowly until the time they get people so Allah Sahaja said Do not forget those days. But this is the last one. Her name is Alma Zara. The first one, destroy her husband. You know, the one who says Zoji will memorize this hadith he says Zoji
Lisa, that's another one. Zoji la Shinnok
what is a Shana?
Zoji la shannock
in some of the interpretation, that's the first one right in some of the interpretation of this word, Allah Shanna. It says a person who has long neck
you know and small head and there is there's no connection between the brain and the heart
the other one said What have dromeda says oh, gee, I
couldn't do that in the Huda shed Jackie? Oh for lucky Oh, Gemma couldn't like she said this person, whatever deficiency you're looking for, he has any disease you can hear about in this dunya this person has, and whatever is called injustice this person is doing. You know, so they mentioned that only four if you look at that hadith only for praise their, their husband.
The rest are always blaming except the last one, the last one, which is the reason why I'm bringing this hadith. The last one I shall set her name is Omar SubhanAllah. She is married to a person called Abu Zahra. And the line between them was excellent.
Because he understand his position, and she understood her position. And you will understand why am I saying this at the end of this story.
They live a very beautiful life. And he was rich, not that much rich, but he was rich somehow. And he gave her everything. He brought her from the village. He made her somebody. She said what Hanifa had lafc which means that she praised me so much until the time I started believing that I'm that person who, you know, I used to belittle myself, but the more the way I see. I see him praising me all the time. He said I started to believe that yes, I reached that position.
She said there was a time he just came out. And then he saw another sister, unfortunately, when he's so hot, and she has two children, you know in a very nice weather. And she looks so pretty. He came back
Komeito Lomasa masala
and he married that the other one.
She said for the cat rabada who allegedly I married after him and other person. The second person she said that one. He is Richard and the first one, Richard and Abu Zahra. And he gave me more than what it was that he was giving me. But then Subhanallah at the end of the day, she said, Follow Anil Kumar to call them out and he Marbella as Anita visa. She said, If I'm to combine whatever I got from the second marriage, all together all the money, me and my family members, it will not be equal to one cup, or vessel or plate that I got from Abu Zahra. That's why some of us call it said she loves what a woman is looking from, from a man, although she got all the richness she get more than
what I was that was given her but she was not happy that much with that marriage. Yeah, that's why a woman needs to feel that she's next to next to somebody. So whoever is willing to marry, it is my personal advice to all of you to read a lot about the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his wife the evening Allah has to tell if you're going to apply it in your marriage and your wife also agreed to apply that even light Allah you can avoid the tragedy that the humor Muslims are facing nowadays, because the divorce is at the at the increase up to these days. I'm asking what is the rate of the divorce in the Muslim community is is going up? Why because simply we
are not following the system in the way Allah subhanaw taala designed it that's why we are getting the negative result. Okay, when you decide to marry as a young person, think wisely. Get somebody who the prophets Allah so advise you to get somebody who has good manners, somebody who is upon a strong email and Taqwa of Allah subhanho wa Taala and then somebody who you feel you will be satisfied with, and try and read a lot about the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Surma when it comes to living with the wives, because although he was a prophet, but he was a husband also in the house. That's why when he said with Aisha, he told her Yoshua Do you know that sometimes I know
when when you're angry, and I know when you are sad. She said, Dr. Salah How do you know? He said because whenever you are happy with me, I'm sorry. I know when you are happy, and when you are sad, so she said yes. Hola. How do you know she said? He said when whenever you happy with me? If you swear by Allah subhanaw taala you said LAO or a bow or bow Mohammed. He said, I swear by the one who created Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, but whenever you are sad with me, when you swear by Allah subhanaw taala you will say La or Akbar Cara,
is Subhanallah This is Aisha his wife and the prophets Allah sama is saying, I know when you are angry with me, what does that mean? It means he is living with them as the husband. Because if he is going to act all the time as a prophet, he will be so scary to them, they will not relax. But the prophets, Allah Sama, sit down with them, joke with them and beg them sometimes, and sometimes they raise up their voice also when they're speaking to him. Although this is not the best thing to do, but your wife should have a freedom to engage in activities of the house and also to voice out her opinion. She wasn't a machine just to me, she's not a machine, which is set up there in the house
just to receive information to be executed. That's very wrong. Yeah, we agree. The leadership has to take place. And a woman has to understand that he has the word the husband is taking the lead. But marriage is all about cooperation. And this is what the prophets Allah cinema was doing. When he got scared of some something, where did he go to his wife? When the companions of the Prophet sallahu lism or refuse to take his advice? Where did he go? He went back to the tent, and he met his wife and ask her for her advice. This is breaking the sense of the system, the entire system that the Arab Arabian community was Pharaoh, were sisters are totally neglected. And now their voice is given
out the prophets, Allah Azza is going to ask for her opinion. And based on that the prophets Allah also made a decision. And was it a successful decision? Yes, he succeeded.
So as I said, I believe leadership has to be there and Allah smart has given the leadership to to the man, but marriage is all about cooperation and love. That's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, he says, Tessa will will do the loot for any McAfee from becoming Amaya. Workiva. So when you marry you marry somebody who loves you, and can have children, somebody who loves you. Marriage is based on what peace and love so only that love which is based on the sake of Allah subhanaw taala can help a person to live with his wife in the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is to do so I guess in sha Allah this message
is properly understood especially by by the younger ones don't rush when you're looking for a partner for Allah who don't rush at this time that we're living, open your eyes, you know if you can add one more I add, you know, to make sure that you see properly you Allah, I'm not joking if you can add more eyes add, you know and don't rush because you're going to regret in the way your predecessors regretted also. Yeah, don't compromise the Dean don't compromise the attitude and the minus, if you want to compromise something else it should be other than the dean and the minus because if
if your husband or your wife has a deed, it will help you to live with them a very rich, respected life. Yeah, because he feels Allah's performance in you and she feels Allah subhanaw taala also in him, so whatever he says to her, he remembers that he is accountable. You know, unresponsible to Allah subhanaw taala first and foremost because you want is what is a man who is the first person that will ask who is the first first one that will ask you about this Amana? Allah subhanho wa taala. So I marry and I know that yes, on the Day of Judgment, I'm going to be brought back to Allah smarta to be questioned about the way I live with my wife.
I will try my best to make sure that Allah is foretell, sees me being the best. And guess what the prophets Allah sama said, Hi, you will find commonly they say, the best among you is the one who is the best, you know, to his, to his wife. The best in the eyes of Allah is the One who is the best to his wife. So always, and this is also a message to those people who are married, always ask yourself this question to my family. Am I the best to them?
Yeah, ask this question and give yourself answer.
After your wife one day, do you think I'm the best? But unfortunately, you have been so harsh, maybe you know, she will tell you yes. But in her heart, she knows that you are not that you are not the one she's just living with you sometimes because of the kids
telling you the truth, many, many families, they are just surviving because of the children that are between them.
This is not the good life. And this is not the life that Sharia wants you to live with.
Children should be just attachment that beautifies the life. But that relationship between you and your wife should remain and it shouldn't go down. That's why if there is any problem between you and her sit down
and think first who is this person and remember what what she has been doing to your life. And for sure if you make the right choice, be even ally as well. Even if you're thinking of divorce, you will change your mind. If you remember what she did, you will change your mind and this is the meaning of the saying of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lie of full commitment and more militant in carry him in half full often about the mean half coloca so I guess in sha Allah, this is more than enough for each and every one of us to be able to make the right choice when you are looking for for the spouse.
I shall be Allah one.
She participated in one of the events which souhan Like she regretted doing that.
Which is the battle of the Jemele
you know, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, there will be a great battle and a fight between two great Muslims amongst my ummah. And he's sort of referring to the battle between Ali Baba Taliban hoe Mao we're gonna be Sophia. What was the cause of that fight?
Shukran Zakka Lachlan, and that the assassination of Earthman Ravi Allahu question. Maori when he was when he was fighting out even and we thought it was it because of a leadership. He wanted to be the leader.
Was he looking for the leadership because he was in charge? Technically Ali? Ali Bin Abu Talib has his own government in Iraq, and Mao is in charge.
And he will have like two leaders, right. The leadership and authority of Ali is restricted to that area, Medina and Iran and all of those places, you know, but Sham is led by Mario Villa Ron, was he looking for leadership to become a race? No, yeah, this is the fact that you have to fix. None of them was fighting for leadership. The issue is those people those criminal came from Basra and Kufa and Egypt. And they came under the leadership of Abdullah bin Saba Yahoodi and attend by the death of Earth man, even alpha.
Alpha has his own family. I live in every thought it was hoping the family of a thermometer fan will come a look for the right but they kept quiet the immediate family are not talking but the distant one while we tell her I shall be Allah on her. They said no
or the HECM of Allah subhanaw taala on those people who assassinated Athena fund is to be dealt in the same way we have to apply to SAS. Were they right in this statement?
Yes, they were right because Allah subhanaw taala his Kitab is kiss us if somebody killed another person we killed that person also contaminating if you have an f7 Next year it will it will Enfamil AMFI Well, it was there was no Synovus in the world zero happy sauce. Life for life was right somebody killed the person we have to kill him. Allah smarter said, welcome Philippa sassy, higher up your life lies in the application of the law of retaliation. This is the thesis. So they were looking for the writer with Manuel de la Hoya and ally, as a leader, he sees it a problem if he is going to start fighting these people and they are in 1000s, there's going to be a great bloodshed in
Medina. That's why he told them, please, let's cool down first, and wait for the family of man to raise up the case. And then we look for those assassins of Earth man, we start taking action against them one after the other. We do it professionally. But he doesn't agree or he doesn't agree. That's what brought them into those battles. Unfortunately, it happens but this is a decree of Allah subhanho wa taala. So in one of these battles, I share the love and have participated
and I shared did not go to that place to fight or to urge Muslim to fight Adam inevitably.
Is that clear she did not go to that place to to fight or to urge Muslim to fight although she has issue with a living avatar, but she never went to the place to fight because Subhanallah in the time of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam when they have issues with each other that issues remained physically but in the heart, there is nothing they still keep the love. That's why when Abdullah Hypnobabies cellule he falsely accused eyeshadow the Allahu anha it falsely accused Aisha dalla Han had that she committed Zina with who?
Who was the accused person
so one so far have been a very good and excellent person. I have 13 minutes according to what Abdurrahman gave me. And now he's shown me 10 minutes to see that is.
So, so fundamental. So, live in a wave and salute accused of committing Zina with this with this person.
Unfortunately,
you know, many of the, the I mean, the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Sama, do not get involved except a few of them. We know among those people who get involved in this accusation, how many people get involved in it?
How many?
I already cheated for you. You can just say three.
Three, right. You have Hassan with rabbits. Who else missa Ivanova. And you have Hamner Binti Jash three of them. That's why after the brow I share the law one Hakeem a very painful story which I decided to quote here but unfortunately the time will never permit a very painful story. And she managed to pass that test. So had a lot.
So after this, the Purpose allows him I call upon those three people who get involved in the in the accusation and ask somebody to beat them at at lashes. Because this is the home of somebody who falsely accused an innocent woman and he was not able to provide for witnesses to support his side. So the prophets Allah Azza Beaton, among those people was having that been to Josh? Why did she do that? And generally those three companions because they are great companions, one of them actually went to the Metro Buddle Mr. He went to the Metro better. But he gets he gets involved in this. Why do you think they get involved with this and it's also another great lesson for all of us.
That whenever you receive news, before you convey the news to others, you have to digest it first. Usually when somebody forward the message, we forward it to others, you know, sometimes because they threaten us, if you don't forward it to many people, you will get cursed and all of these things.
No, you have to verify because if you fall into somebody, you must fall in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala whatever he says, Whoever sent a message to you, no matter how much you trust this person, the first thing you do is to check it first. To see maybe it is correct, because sometimes you might mention something that is incorrect. Just not in my presentation. I said the one who was placing his hand
on the hand of the prophets Allah sama was who was that?
Right? Yeah.
The father of
Abu Bakr Villa one. Yeah, the father of Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu. And then Abu Bakr said I wish the one who was putting his hand is Abdullah McCallum, but the correct one is, I will tell him right yeah, so mistakenly somebody just reminded me Allah smarter granting fifth dose. The correct one is Abu Talib is not Abdulmutallab.
The correct one because of the metallic died before the Prophet said Allah Allah Who cinema was was sent so it was Abdullah with it was Abu Dhabi. So what I'm trying to say is no matter how much you trust the person what he sent you a message which is supposed to be forwarded to others read it first because he might make mistake which he needs you to remind him if you remind him he is going to also send another one to everyone and remind reminded them to fix that message. So not trust in this at all. You have to check it first. You check it and then verify if it is okay. Then you forward it to to others. This is really necessary. My My dear brothers and sisters, Allah subhanaw
taala talk to the believers after this case, he says instead of Kona Hobi al Cinetic cometa coluna, the FY hecho. He said, you are receiving this message of accusation with your tongue Subhanallah very nice and beautiful expression. Last one it says you receive it with your tongue. It's like you don't even let it go to your brain for you to digest it, to understand it properly. You know why? Because if you let it go inside, and you digest it, the first person you remember in this event in this issue is whole Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam
and you know that there is no way for a wife of Rasulullah sallallahu cinema to do that.
Because when you think about our affiliates, Allah Azza you will understand that the enemies they are not targeting it shall be Allahu anha because she was very young at that age, very young.
Still young, playing with the sun at that at that time, you know that they are not accusing Ayesha, but they know that if they touch Rasul Allah sama directly, people will jump on them. So they come to him indirectly because when you accuse somebody else's wife, who are you accusing that person, the idea is to accuse Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam or not I shall be Allah. So therefore my dear brothers, sisters, I really urge you Whoever tells you something about anyone. Do not believe before checking. Allah smart Allah says Enjoy confessing from being a button. factor by yellow in another aeration factor football to Allah, someone to ask you to do what to Hubbard.
Allah can tell the believers when they go to Maccha, during the fetch from AKA, he can just tell the believers this one is Muslim, this one is Muslim, when you find them touch this, don't touch that. But she led us to go through the system. Because not every time Allah is going to be informing the prophets, Allah Sama, there will be a time or as soon as Allah some will be dead. We have to live alone through a guidance and this guidance system that Allah smarter left for us, Allah smarter to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam do not go and fight. Why is that? Because they are in Makkah, some people who are Muslims, and you guys don't know them. If you're going to fight randomly, you will be
killing some of the Muslims out of ignorance. So verification is really necessary. So what I'm trying to say here is that you have Hannah is supporting that statement of the enemies because of who because of her sisters in a bid to Josh, because then of them to Josh is the one who used to fight I share the Allahu anha almost all the time. Subhanallah I found it very interesting that all of those battles, they never reached the heart. Because this time around is the best opportunities anyways having to criticize Russia because the privacy law some is asking people about what they know about Russia is asking people to tell him what did he know about Russia? I live in Avatar
debito. The Prophet sallahu alayhi salam ala Rasulillah I really don't want you to worry about this case. And you have other sisters, Aisha is not the only one. What does that mean? Leave her let her go and marry another one.
To get idea or some organization said jasola He This is nonsense. Your wife is okay. She has no problem. You know, but it also talks about Aisha in a very nice way. The prophets Allah Allah sama talk to the rival of Aisha in the house was Dana vintage Ash is a DANA What do you know about Aisha Subhanallah I share used to respect Zayn of so much she said Allah is going to protected her. You know, she was she she was expected to get involved to take to take it as an opportunity to catch Aisha but she said yeah, so Allah, I shall throughout my life, I have known her to be one of the best and the most excellent sisters you
that's the kind of life they have. Although they die Do you see them shouting, but it doesn't reach. It doesn't reach the heart. So that's why I shall she doesn't hate it whenever
die, because he understand what, what he meant. But as a woman, which woman will understand you telling her husband to divorce her to go look for somebody else. That's why when I live in Abu Talib said that, and I actually heard about what he what he said, she stopped talking to him. Even to mention his name, she stopped mentioning his name. That's why when she was narrating those people who are carrying the professor, Lolly, selama, in his illness, you know, before he dies, she said the province of last summer was helped by two brothers, you know, he put his hand on their shoulders, one of them is Allah best. She said word you
and somebody. So the line of bass laughed. He said that that one was added in Avatar, if she doesn't, she doesn't mention his name from that event, you know. So when she went to when she went to that battle, she wasn't going to fight Alameda Vitalia. She was going because Talhah and as obeyed, met her, and they told her, You should go to that place. Because if the believers from both sides see you, and you talk to them in sha Allah, nobody will fight, because you're the wife of Rasulullah sallallahu Saba, if you talk to them, they can stop the battle. And subhanAllah de for God to realize that these are soldiers at the battlefield. You get it, and then she's just coming, a
young girl is coming to talk to them, most likely they will never listen. And this is exactly what happened. So I shall left the house on the way she reached a place when the dog started barking.
So I should ask them, What is the name of this place? They call they told her this place is called and how?
She said Maharani Illa, Maharani Illa Raja, she said, I'm going to go back. They said no, please don't go. She said, No, I have to go back. They said why? She said, Because there was a time or as soon as the last time I came to our house, and he was very angry. He said to us, who is that one among you guys that will go out. And the dogs are going to be barking on her who is that? Who is that one. And he was very angry when he was mentioned this. So when she heard the dogs barking, she said in hola when am going back. But then those people who are with her, because they have a purpose and that purpose is good. They told her please we really need you in that place. And subhanAllah
when she went and that was a very very, you know, I mean wrong decision to be taken. She was almost going to be killed in that place. Alhamdulillah Allah smart Allah saved and live in Avatar and respected how gave her a lot of wealth. And then he sent somebody and in some narration here company have back to back to her back to her place. She used to cry whenever she remembered this whenever she read the Saint of Allah subhanaw taala our karma to be to stay in your houses,
and then go out unless if you need it. And when you go out, you should go in a full hijab. And the way you will be recognized and nobody will harm you. Whenever she did this is she used to cry. And she used to say, I wish I never went out to participate in that in that event. And she made up the line of normal. And I'm delighted you know, Matt is one of the most respected, you know, personalities in those days. You know, really people listened to. So I used to tell him Yeah, the law. Why didn't you stop me when you saw me going out? He said, Yeah, Omar. He said actually, I was going to go to actually just stop you.
He participated in so many events like this.
One minute left.
And since he showed me time's up, then I take 10 minutes
Okay, so I believe in Omar when Al Hussein even Oliver the Allah one who was going out of Makkah to Kufa Abdullah bin Omar was the one who went and stopped him and tried his best to stop him from going to that phase here with us and SubhanAllah. He's going in with with tragedy, we lost him and zubaid of the liveness of him, when he goes against the leader at that time you see it at the live normal, warn him so many times, please, please do not because the consequence is going to be tragedy and this is exactly what what happened. So Aisha when she was going out of the live in Omar Soho. He said I was about to go to you. But then I saw two brothers from the companions of the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, and they're all better than me because they were called her and as the wave and these are among those people that allows for her to Allah give. Generate how many people Allah wants to give Jana that's absolutely wrong.
How many people are like give Jana
just say Allahu Allah.
Yeah, I know that people already know that.