The Disease And The Cure #169

Ibrahim Nuhu

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Smilla rahmanir rahim.

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salat wa salam ala Rahmatullah meaning that we you know, have even Mr. Hamid is a long way and he will use a limb about

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polio assuring the Chevy

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Jumada an older Alfa noir vomiting we're considering our role

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and more quickly out of our machinery December, alfalfa Farah fictionwise shuru all cylinders and if you had 70 Mobarak they were they were sort of last minute Allah anybody convener of humanitaire lemma one year period and as a lightweight for anymore Leakey.

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Came on Allah.

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So today in sha Allah, we will continue for why we stopped in sha Allah.

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And last

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week, I believe we got the

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facet that exists in in each console

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having connected an attachment to images, that a person is distracted cannot be patient. So some of these Mufasa, which you mentioned. And he said, he's just mentioned in some of them, not all some of them so we reach them off center number

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number 10.

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When

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he talks about the problem that use of Ali salaam was in,

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I'm sorry, he was talking about this facet. And how much it is when a person gets himself in into it, it will be very difficult for him to stay away from from it. And he is supporting this fact with the story of use varicella

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and he's trying to do the trickery to bring it closer to us to understand how bad is the situation that use of was was in that if all of those obstacles have been had to be removed, it would be very difficult for a person to stay away from committing the wrong wrong to right the only money you have is to stay away from it. Don't you ever be in earnest nobody except you and the opposite gender. So he's talking about who was usable SLM at that, at that time, and also, how much Allah smart Allah protected him. So he reach the issue number number 10. What he says us Valley salaam was asleep at the house of

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that woman is worse.

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Asleep.

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So the resilience and the resistant he has his very weak against the master is inviting him to do the evil doing. It doesn't have that much power being a slave to resist. And also she is from the top leaders in in the city because the husband is an important person in inner city

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number 11. And as the Annette they are emitting mercury, this one also we talked about this she sought the help and the support of the sisters right? Then he turned to be a tragedy. She wanted to disguise herself and to close, you know, image from the eyes of the community that really imagined it to be understood. But she plotted against us through the invitation of those sisters in order to not tell them what exactly as she planning for but she knows that none of them will stand seeing use of without getting distracted. And this is exactly what happened what she wanted to see.

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And use of of going to to jail so let's Allah listen. I said Allah show mercy upon us Valley Salah because when they ask him to come out of jail, yes. I will not go out of the jail until the time I know.

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My situation for those systems they have

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To be questioned, they have to be asked

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what is my position with them? What happened to that claim and the accusation from them against me. You say, I will not go out until cleared force from those acquisition and then go out, as well as Allah some asset. May Allah show mercy upon me. If I were to be in his position, I will just go out the time you tell me go out with this. Then I will settle the case afterward when I'm out of the Jeep.

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So usually Salem also passed this test Alhamdulillah number 12. Carla and her to either to decidual saga. She promised him that if he doesn't, she threatened him that if he doesn't submit to what she is looking for, she will send him to jail because she said well.

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She said if you don't do what I asked you to do, she said like Khurana minutes, Minister heading right he will be allies, Jelena hola Conan, Amina Sargon, I will send him to jail and he will be among the humiliated I would really disrespect them, humiliate him and put him in jail.

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So you can see all of these threats, you know, is a young person, she is a woman that is so beautiful and also belongs to somebody who has authority and YouTube is in her house as a maid, or asleep under her control, and then also the threat that comes from her that if he doesn't do what he wants, what she wants, he will go to jail. Karlova no a crime. Were what added men aged 11 and manipulable Avani ma who did heavy

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manual labor Oliver NEMA, who did ma had to be fired determined without a shower to that. Yes, sir. I met him and Vicki a surgeon was Sarah. So he says this is a threat. You know, she's threatening UCLA Salaam. So you see there are a combination of things because she is trying to force him, you know, using this method that if you don't do I will send you to jail. So now the shower is there, the desire is there because he's young, and also not doing what she wants also can amount into him going to jail. So two things each one of them can push you to do that which the woman wants, even if he doesn't want to do it, but still Alhamdulillah because of that Berhanu so, so he managed to

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escape this, what he called trap of the Umbra two classes, a fairly to Asha number 13 And the Zojila mu the remedial Aveda to inequality. Now you heard the biggie by Noma, Squire Columbian, Houma and sahi belt can dry it carbon heavy and commonly use of Aragon hada. But it is definitely the big image a contaminant account in a sheetmetal gravity, labor Julie mean Aqua ammonia ohada la Lemonnier Camino Raya, vallotton Ahmed, it says also the husband,

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it looks like the husband is somebody who doesn't care. He doesn't mind these things to happen in his family.

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Because when the woman accused us of committing or trying to commit illegal relationship with her, what was the response of the husband?

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He says use of Ativan however, he says use of just forget about this. Don't think about what she says. And that's it. And you know that man they have this rare, this jealousy, which is unique.

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And that's why for ask you this question, who is more jealous? Male or female?

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female or male?

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Who is more jealous? When you mentioned jealousy? Who comes to the mind? Male or female?

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But realistically, whose jealousy is more? Man? Oh

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you're shy of answering this question.

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Realistically, the man's jealousy is more than a woman jealousy.

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And the woman jealousy, the reality just just come out. And also they have circumstances which is being repeated that can provoke this jealousy to come out. Versus when the husband married another person. You can easily see jealousy. When she realized that the husband is having somebody that was in his mind, he can see this jealousy coming coming out. And this is natural. It's not something that we call good or bad is natural. And it's good to have this jealousy actually. is not good for a woman to live without Genesis.

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Is that Is that understood? is not good to for women to live without jealousy? Because this jealousy

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helps them and also to be protected. If he's married to a loser who doesn't care.

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Trust me tomorrow so you can bring another woman to the house and she doesn't mind that.

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This one, I think we have to

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change.

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Whose internet is stronger than mine?

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Yeah, it keeps on going

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in and out

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you're strong? Yeah, sure. Do you have a name?

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So my name is.

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So what I was saying is the reason why the woman's jealousy comes out because

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she has circumstances that can provoke this jealousy, which will bring it out to good idea. But in terms of head, strength and power, you know, in danger, the man, the jealousy that comes from the brothers is worse, because that one kills

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that one kills. That one is bloody. And maybe that's the reason why Allah smarter gave him the leadership in the House to protect those sisters. The man will accept death, rather than seeing his wife, or his daughter's been in trouble.

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He can compromise and tolerate death and any evil to happen to him, but not that one. Yeah, so if a person knows that, yes, the husband is there, usually, or the brothers are there, usually the person will not say any bad thing to to the girl.

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It could be a good idea whereby if she's alone, he might say whatever he wants to say. But if the brothers are there, he might not be able to open his mouth. That's why they said the jealousy of man kills. But you have some people who are the youth, the youth mean somebody who tolerates evil, you know, in his family, for instance, the person will meet his friend and tell him, you know, somebody told me that a person he met a person, you know, with his wife, and that person

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look at him and say, This is my wife, what do you think?

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So I didn't know what to reply this person I

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do understand what is.

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So that's the youth. Real man will never do never do that. You know, some people in fact, even to ask them about their family is an issue.

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That shouldn't be an issue. It's okay when somebody asks you how to families, okay, but to be honest with you, some some man, you know, the jealousy is really bad.

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How's your family?

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He will start asking you what is the connection?

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Yeah, that's wrong. Because even somebody asked about your family, this should be very normal. But you have to be very careful. Some people might might be very sensitive concerning this matter.

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So I just want you to understand what he was trying to say here. He said, the jealousy that comes from the brothers is very strong. But there are some who don't have this jealousy, or is somebody who invites his friends and

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permits them to come to his house, even in his absence. And stay with his wife in the house.

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This he has jealousy? No, not at all. This is the youth.

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And there are some people who are like that. He will love the woman we just come out of her room. She knows that her husband is not around and then she sees somebody else in the house, a friend of her husband

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enter the house, in the absence of the husband,

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even your brothers, It's haram for them to come on. You're not allowed to sit with your wife alone is held for them because they are not Muharram to her.

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And only Allah knows what is going on.

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When this door is being opened, that's why the prophets Allah Azza wa said it is death.

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So it will carry him says this man is is not having a jealousy at all. Because when a case happened to a woman has might lose her marriage. Trust me with some people who are jealous. That might be the end of her knowledge. If you realize that she's she wasn't the one who's speaking the truth.

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But the husband said what he just told you

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So the use of just forget about what she said. And you hito look at his wife and say, just ask Allah to forgive

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since the Corolla, and that's it. And the case is close.

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Man not known to be like this.

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Yeah, although jealousy should be remain. And also she shows repentance a person should for him, you know, as long as you can trust because if you cannot trust her anymore then she will live in administrative, you know Subhanallah stress and depression

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because whenever he sees how you were, he will think that maybe she met somebody else.

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Yeah, that's why the very dangerous, you know, situation a woman can open up for herself and a man can open for himself. It's not easy for you to close this page. Not easy.

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So he told the wife, Starfield, let them be

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siesta

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because you're wrong.

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Carla was shipped to the rotary shed to look at the regimen a cold morning. And this strong jealousy that comes from the brothers is one of the strongest preventers, you know, of Xena from the wife side.

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Yeah, you Allah, strong jealousy, prevent a woman from Zina and prevent other people from committing Zina with the wife of somebody. Because he knows that she has a man living with her. And it is not a joke, if he is to prove I mean to do anything of this nature, he might lose his life.

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Sad even though we saved him while

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he never married a woman who was married before.

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Never.

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And he never divorce a woman and somebody there to marry her after that.

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They were scared of him.

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He said he cannot say with a woman and then she goes on say with somebody else.

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That's before Islam.

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He went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and said to him, he also Allah. I heard about what Allah smart Allah says concerning the law of Zina.

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Is it also law? Do you mean if I'm to see my wife committed Zina with somebody? I have to go look for four witnesses. And then he will take action.

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Is there a law here as well? This cannot happen. Is he also like will lie immediately I will cut off his head

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and then I will submit myself to you to go look for witnesses. No, I see him with my own eyes. I will cut off his head immediately. And then I will bring myself to you. You guys can do whatever you want. But he's he cannot away.

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As soon as Allah sama laughed, it says, Do you see this jealousy? how strong it is? It says Wallahi an agreeable meal is a Wallahi my jealousy is stronger than his jealousy.

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Because sad can even imagine the problem happened happening right? As soon as Allah sama even to hear about deny his own.

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He said my jealousy is stronger than his wala who agree with me and the jealousy of Allah is stronger than ours. That's why he prayed prohibit

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Alpha ash, Mahara minha Omata all types of orange are rejected but alas, warranted and prohibited.

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They told us let's Allah smell so I don't worry, sad is like that with us. It says he never married a woman except somebody who's virgins never stay with somebody else. He said he can't be with somebody who stayed with another person. And also, he never divorced a woman and she dare to marry somebody else. Nobody can marry her. Because of that they are scared of

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what kind of action is going to take against it. That was injustice. And but this is generally a different type of.

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So I just want you to understand the amount of jealousy that the brothers have, then you relate it to this, this man doesn't have this.

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So a woman knowing that the husband is very strong in this, I mean, he mean business on this matter, trust me, she will preserve herself and make sure that she talks to those whom he agrees with.

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And that's good for her end of the day as good for her. Yeah.

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And also people who want to talk to her, when they know that this is the wife of somebody,

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they will try to avoid approaching approaching her unless with his permission.

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One element of me Herman Rovira. So this man doesn't have this, which means use of have the chance to go ahead and do what she wants. Yeah, because the man in the house is not the you

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It doesn't happen.

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Even if you sort of does what she wants, he will not get into trouble as long as this man is the one who's in charge.

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Because all that he is going to tell you so say stick for Allah then do that again.

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You get the idea but still use of do not use this as a chance as a means for them to do that what she wants Carlo Maha to hit the why equally ha for Osama but Allah he will help and with all of these motivators, but still use who favor the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala and, and the fear of Allah.

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That's why he did not go he did not do what she wants, or Hamada, who habitually Allah, Allah and Tara cijena Allah Zina, because of that intensive amount of love He has for Allah. He chose to go to jail, rather than committing sin.

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Had Allah except prison.

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He says cijena Humbly Israel Allah Jade is better for me.

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Color beseiged Alhamdulillah me murder on any he said yeah Allah to go to jail is better for me than what they are inviting me. For a while the man who likes to surf American FC he won narrowboats lm Yasim who were certified who Qaeda who nut Saba Elysian better by he Academy manager here and used to realize that this type of plot,

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he himself cannot protect himself from it. That's what I have been saying, right? Don't put yourself into this. And say yourself, no, no, no, it just my friend, you stay with that girl that is not halal for you, Allah, you're ready to fall into trouble. And you cannot remove it.

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Because once this thing gets, I mean, into two of them and they're alone. Trust me, only Allah smelter can interfere and protect them. That's why I use what he found himself into that situation. The woman is alone in the house. And this is his house, actually, he was growing up in that, that place, and that she tried to seduce him and provoke his desire and force him to commit Zina without

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you know, all of the the what he called the means were that the motivators while I still use with Ali Salam realize that this is a very critical moment that he needs support from alas monitor. So that's why he quickly went to Allah subhanaw taala

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asking him the support and he says yeah, Allah if you don't protect me from this plot of this, these sisters Yeah, Allah I'm going to, you know, incline towards them acting like a savvy, you know, savvy little boy follows his his desire. He said, I'm going to incline incline to them and do that which they want me to do. And if I do that, I will be among the ignorance. So when he realized this, that's where he went back to Allah asthma hotel and ask him for the protection. Allah subhanaw taala says, Lola Robert Han Robbie canaliculi nurseryman who sue all fascia innominate Bettina, Elmo classy. Allah subhanaw taala says, when he comes back to us, we protected him from that evil, do it.

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And this is what we do with the righteous people. He says he's among the people of a class. That's where Allah subhanaw taala protected him from that thought of that woman and the rest of the sisters in the community are their main commodity malefactor. Higurashi what I've seen understand himself properly and he understand his Lord properly. Allah subhanaw taala so that's why he used the right channel and he got the support immediately he went to jail

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is a test right but some tests are worse than than the other ones. Yeah, so it's the lesser of the two evils go into jail is a test

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to get it but committing Zina is is worse. That's why he he chose to go to jail rather than going to his desire. If you hadn't salmonella very well for a while hiccup, mais en el Viva la luna in will * and Allah and flee the happy masala him was stalking. Allah Akbar even came says this story of use of Ali Salam has not less than 1000 benefit lessons.

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It says he is he has in his mind, you know, 1000 lessons to be taken from this world.

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He says in sha Allah, Allah will give us chance in the future to write a book on these benefits. I've never come across a book written by him about this benefit, but there are some scholars who write about tavsiye Surah to use, I guess abdominus it

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also has an approach concerning so to use of and he has started a lot of benefits in that industry

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for certain man hack Allahu Anhu alleged. So this fossil will talk about those people that Allah subhanaw taala narrated this ash pursuer and this kind of love. What do we use to translate a

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crush crush crush crush? That is very strong love that usually take a person you know to be out of control. And this is always bad

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when it takes a person to the path that is wrong than it is bad.

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But it's a person Ashika xojo

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His wife

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is it wrong?

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Is it right? It was to have

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isn't it the weakness was present to love dunya

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anyway, it

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still has a lot to say was asked who do you love the most? He said

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it's okay for a person to say to his wife. He loves her. Which many don't hear these days. You know, one of the scholars said, how many times I hear I receive a call from sisters who are complaining that she never heard this word. I love you.

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And the funny funniest part, she says when his friends call him

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Hello heavy. Yeah. Have you ever called me?

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She never she never heard the word heavy with you. But when his friend call him Yeah, heavy, heavy call me you know.

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So that's why some sisters in the wrong way also because he never heard of this word Myskina living in house like that. But when his sister called him,

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he called her heavy duty. Was he right? Yes, he has a lot of his family members. But there's a closest person to you in terms of living right. But she never heard this from you. That's why sometimes they have this jealousy in the wrong way. Here Allah, lots of people are very big jealousy against the sister of the husband. Jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy,

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which creates a lot of problems. And that's one of the grounds of the request for the divorce.

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They can stand

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so maybe there is no proper distribution of love in the proper way. Right? That's why she sees it there. But she doesn't see it in her own territory. So the problem is a lot of so it's not like that. You will not feel shy of telling people that he loves his, his wife.

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She say nowadays, yeah, we can more than more more than just kind of mentality, you know, the old people will

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free themselves from from you. Right? You become a bad person. So don't worry about anyone. Worry about you doing the correct things, right. This is a big protection that you have for the family rather than letting them doing something in the wrong way. Usually who got distracted more?

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When the two genders meet, meet each other? Who got distracted more? The guys? Yeah, that's right. But this has to do they get distracted? Also? Yes. You Allah, they do a lot actually. I remember a place where I used to teach to teach in that place.

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group of sisters came. She told me stuff, is it necessary that the brothers also has to dress in this way? So Allah, I didn't do that. But I think this the school requirement, you know,

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subhanAllah, they were telling me that if if it is possible to communicate with the management, that we get this town, You Allah, I still remember this. They say we get disturbed in the class with some teachers and the brothers standing in front of them. So most likely, you don't know what they are going through, you know, out of looking smart. They call it right, looking smart. And then he puts those people who you are teaching into into trouble

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as we have the library live in Omar's head.

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He said I dress nicely. Because we always complain that the wife is not dressing nicely. Yeah, for sure. She cannot always decorate herself throughout her life. She remains like this. The know there has to be a lot of break user will get bored of that.

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Again, but we always complain. But then we don't care about ourselves. He smells all types of bad smell. He doesn't care. She has to handle that. Right? He wears whatever he wants to wear. She has to handle that. The she if she has to wear something

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which is not, you know serving his interests.

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What happens he returned the dunya against the library almost said I just well for my wife because the same feeling I have towards her she also has towards, towards me. I remember one of the funniest case I heard concerning this matter is a case that happened during table one of the Allahu Anhu. I don't know whether you read that or not, but

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they said is a person that his wife brought. She was Carrie, she was dragging toma de la and the way she was just saying I want nothing except divorce and I want to be with you.

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When they reach over,

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a man says, relax, relax, what happened? She said, No, I don't want. I just want him to utter the divorce and he doesn't want to give me the divorce. Or look at him.

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He says come on. It all has said please go to some houses, go to the neighbors or wherever you want to go. Come back to me after like an hour

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or more. Look at him. His head is dirty, currently and dirty, dusty, you know the clothes. That was the smell is one set cover. What is this?

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What is this? He asked him to go to one of the houses and take shower and dress well wear nice clothes and come back. He went he took shower. They're surprised when I screw he come and he said comb his hair properly. You know, he sat down next to Omar give loan and keep the conversation with the rest of the believers. After one hour, the seeker of the divorce comes back. So Omar asked her

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okay yella Are you still holding upon that opinion? What is your husband by the way? He tried she couldn't find him in

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the lie this is the first time she saw him taking charge she couldn't she tried to sit with us here.

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And then she managed to say almost look, is that you? He said yes.

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So she told them what I cancelled that application, I want to go back with my husband.

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That was how O'Meara de la han was resolved the case. So it's really necessary for a person to think in this. This way that you're living with humans in the same way you have feeling she also has feelings. So don't you ever be greedy. She's one who's supposed to provide and you're not supposed to do and marital life is all about cooperation and doing that which will bring comfort to to both of both of us.

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So Allah subhanaw taala narrated this, this.

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Having this strong lob that takes a person away from the right path narrated to the practice by by two people.

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You remember the first the first one right in rattle as he's right. The second one. That concludes the first one is the wife of ISIS and the sisters in the time of use varicella. Right, because as I said, after the event when they couldn't stand that beauty that Allah subhanaw taala put in use of Isola, they cut the

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some part of their fingers, you know, and also they couldn't relax the houses in the city, every success talking about us with us with us wherever you go use abuse of useful. Yeah, that's why the authority couldn't tolerate this. They sent him to jail, to protect the community. Yeah, it's wrong to send him to jail because they ask him to go to another city. You know, like what Omar did. In Medina, they said there was a person who the sisters got disturbed by him.

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Very handsome person. So Omari realized that the sisters are in deep trouble with this guy.

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Everyone's mentioning him and all this and this will be really problem.

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Omar Brodie said you don't do anything wrong. However, the way Allah smart Allah created you, and it caused some sisters to be distracted. And it's our responsibility to protect them. And therefore we might take a little bit action against you interest. So we will ask you to shave your head. You have to be bold

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Yeah, maybe that's the kind of hair that you have. The style you have is making you somebody else in the eyes. Omar shaved his head

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and then unfortunately Moses is also get involved now the beauty became more than before was than before.

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So now what to do.

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Omar asked him to move from Medina to Iraq to the place where nobody knows him in that place.

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So that's why I said they should do this with us. Alright, send him to another place rather than putting him in the jail is too harsh. Yeah, but that was a test last winter tested us with to see which one would he be choose, that will she wants or to go to jail to accept the test and

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pain of being in jail and he chose to be in jail. So the second type of people that last mile generates that story about them loving images more than

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I mean, the right way.

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They're the people of loot Alice. Cold

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Karnavati toy but a fan. Yeah, I live in a hacker Allahu Anhu and Homer Luthor. Yeah, that's the people who are committing homosexuality. And these are people who loot Alice.

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Right? Allah subhanaw taala says, We're

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Medina TSSM she rule that people of Medina came when they hear about the visitors. These are the guests of Ibrahim Alice, Luca La Silla. We hear about those guests. They came to the house of luthiery salaam, you know, a lot of them and they rush Yeah, because those angels they came in the form of young people. These are angels, you know, angels, they look like that. So they come up very handsome, young people. So when they saw them, they rushed to the house.

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So Allah they rush in Allah Subhana Allah subhanaw taala set where Medina test of shoot they kept on giving good news and evil news actually. Yeah, they just have shown me meaning informing others that we have people come into the loot house and therefore you should we should need

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what was the intention? Of course to use them in that evil evil way so when they rush into the house of loot Ali Salaam and there are many they kept on coming loads Ali salaam look at them color in Howler by he fell out of the whole intro them please be my guest. Please don't embarrass me in front of my guests.

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What tabula would like to do is it please don't disrespect me. Don't embarrass me in front of my guests. Fear Allah.

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Call our eminent hacker Angela Alamy didn't we ask you didn't we tell you not to receive guests if you want to protect your guest don't receive them here.

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Can't hold a banality and contemporarily luta listen to them. These are my daughters. Please, please. These are my daughter's Yeah, he has how many daughters too, but he's not referring to his daughters. Yeah, he's referring to the sisters in the community. Because they are like his daughters. Why can you go and marry sisters? It says Who not Harlequin base are clean for you. It doesn't mean that the other one is clean also because when you say up hop is it means cleanup. So establishing the purity also to the other one but in this regard. No.

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Who not Harlequin means they are the only one who is pure and clean for you. The other one is not clean.

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is all about disease that might affect you in the future and also going against Allah and doing things which even Haiwan doesn't agree with that in most instances.

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Allah Allah Abernathy and controlfile it Why can't you go and marry my daughters?

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If you're really truthful when you said you want to relive your desire

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CalU Mallanna haemolytica made happy wedding Nicola Tallinn manual it they told him we don't have any any interest in your in your daughters. And you know what we want Subhanallah imagine this tough, you know, tough situation look, you have a guest and these criminals are coming to your house to attack us. Salute Ali salaam told them please go on Mary is better.

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They said Marlon, if you're going to commit,

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we don't have any interest in having the right in your daughters. We don't need them. We're in Nikola Tesla manually. You already know what brought us here. And we will never leave this place without getting one reward.

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That's why LOOT Alexa ramset low annually become covert and our we lucre shady. So that we should have a power to fight you back? Why can depend on a pillar and this pillar is Allah subhanaw taala honorable Alameen or any support that can help me to defeat to chase you out of this place? Rasul Allah is Allah Allah, Allah. May Allah have mercy upon our brother Luke Alehissalaam Faqad Kana yet we in Iraq initiated he was the one who was dependent on the strongest pillar, actually. And what is that pillar? Rubble? Alamy That's why Allah subhanaw taala said here, in the book we're studying is a lamb rook. In the Homeland Security in Yama. Allah swears by life of parameter lies.

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He says those guys are drunk.

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At that time, they were acting like a drunk person who doesn't know what he was he invited

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put himself

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in normal ifisa Katya Mo, at that time when they are acting in that way, Allah has power to seize. They are similar to Medina who doesn't understand the danger that is around him.

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Because those, those three people, they were angels. One angel has the capacity to topple the dunya upside down.

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But since they come in the form of human being young human being right, they think this is an easy prey, for them to, to to harm. So Allah subhanaw taala says in normal a pizza karate Yahoo. Allah subhanaw taala says, When the fragile comes because he says in the more Edo a summer project and they will be destroyed. Allah subhanaw taala says during Fajr time Gibreel la sera turn this country upside down Jalna Alia has suffered. Right? He took them up to the heaven number one where angels can hear the screaming and shout of the people in the city and then he turned them upside down.

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That's how Allah subhanaw taala kept them all so you can understand why Allah's Montes is in Nam, Lucky security Yamaha and why Rasul Allah Allah sunnah set, Lutz Ali Salam forgot that he's the one who is holding upon the strongest pillar, which is the pillar of Allah subhanaw taala and you can see the impact of this pillar, Allah subhanaw taala de mer Houma Cobo he might destroy them completely they and the city. None of them exist at all Allah smart Allah says we're in Nakula temple rune Allah him, most of the Hina for will lay Allah put them in a place where people can observe and watch them and everyone knows about that. Their stories and Why did Allah subhanaw taala

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destroy them so that we will take that story as a lesson for us? Right? But nowadays, we even brought the concept of this GV something Q Right, right. Those people who don't know exactly when they what they're doing, they forgot themselves.

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You were like, that's the best example of somebody who forgets himself.

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Even people who are not within their consciousness, you know, the majority, I think, will not agree to have this description, or person to know to say that he doesn't agree with his gender.

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Same way a person is created. He said he doesn't agree with them. He doesn't believe he's a man. She doesn't believe it. She is a woman.

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Yeah.

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And they have a lot of upgrade. Just like the way you upgrade the apps and things.

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And just like that, you know, the person can tell his Alhamdulillah we live in the Muslim COVID community, Allah. Muhammad Shanna classes, somebody told me this, I don't think I can control myself. laughing I will cancel that class. Not because I want to teach because of him. But I don't think I can teach anymore. My student just tells me that I'm a cat now. And you have to address me as a cat.

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Oh, my student just sent me down. I'm a baby, two year old.

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And he will start crying like a baby. And I have to address him like that. And I have to tell him, sorry, you know, and take him and just handle him. Would you say that a lullaby?

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Does this thing that we say to the babies?

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Every culture has their own words, right? So I have to deal with him in that way. If I don't, the government is going to take action against me. I might lose my job because of that.

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Because he used to be a human being but now he's a cat.

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Our Villa villa. If you call them animals, they will say no.

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But Alhamdulillah Allah smarter, let them call themselves animals. They have more than 4000 According to the statistic human dogs in the UK.

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Literally they design themselves as dog and walk like dog and they have pigs also I don't know how many pigs they have living in a cage.

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Here I see them in a cage just sitting down there with Elsa

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and they might be professors you know.

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But then his chairman told him just act like a pain during the break they want to forget everything so they said it's better to act like hey one, which one is the best for them and see

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which Muslims are understanding this correctly? Right those people who are thinking that they are the role model right? Yeah, there are some people who think that the best life is their own life.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says for Jalna Alia has

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to mean CG he just saw those people completely. So you can see these are the first people who went against you know, their of the ridiculous in terms of loving image, right? It caused them to even have the same

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Six you know sexual approach which Allah subhanaw taala did not take that allows me to destroy them immediately.

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Carla for how to heal uma I should cut for her cow subhanho wa Taala if at any time if at any age co coolamon Kuma Maha Ramallah him in a sewer while you barely demarcate HP him in a dar, Allah subhanaw taala told us about the consequence of those two groups of people, you know, who end up loving those images in the wrong way. They never care about the harm, you know, in terms of usable insulin she'd has this strong the crush against use of La Silla, which led her to even take off her clothes and chase him and fought him and tried to force him to commit Zina with her.

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And the sisters also in there saw him also they went in the wrong way, you know, those guys even cuts themselves when they couldn't feel you later on when you said leave them when they come and go for medication, you know, but during the process, they couldn't realize what danger they're putting themselves in.

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And you Allah, this situation up to date. So the people glued also they never think of it to go in this way. And Allah subhanaw taala destroy them completely.

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Do we have disease, new diseases that are emerging in our community every year new ones, right even now, this also yesterday, I was hearing about some new ones. Imagine somewhere there last winter protects the corona surely enough for us, you know, people suffer a lot, many people lost many people die. I mean, people lost their business. You know, many people became a journey. Many committed suicide is really a tragedy. Allah subhanaw taala not let it come back. But I don't think those guys are willing or willing to let us relax.

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But anyway, so last summer, I said, there is a role we can play also there, which is to block the promiscuity from existing in our communities, then we will be protected.

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And to live a natural life, righteousness and natural life.

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There are food that we eat food we drink, and there are strong resistance and you know, subhanAllah immunity in us an artist in some countries, somebody was telling me that they are targeting those kinds of

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things, removing them from existence.

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They don't want good for us. They don't want good for us. In the past, they don't have even hospitals.

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But the people have noticed that they have medicines, yes, the natural one and they're very effective.

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But they managed to convince us that those ones are useless. We're gonna live in for those who are which we are receiving the side effects now from time to time.

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One of the the one that I heard I've heard is a side effect of the medicine we use. They said by themselves, that is the side effect of what what we'll use.

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So we have a role to play which is not to let the promiscuity take place in our community and be righteous and advise everyone to act righteously. Personalize Allahu Allahu celibacy, men t shirt and fascia to view Carl COVID Hat euroline will be left pressure to fill him with power.

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It says a fascia which is promiscuity and it will do it Zina, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, and all of those evil things that we hear nowadays, if they are openly practiced in a people is a plague and anguish and a calamity will take place in that community. And also diseases that the people never heard of,

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in the history of that place, they never heard of them. And their grandparents also never heard of them.

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When did eight start?

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So many other diseases also, which are related to that, you know, in our time,

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where Zina has been legalized in some, some places, as long as it was done by the consent of the partners and the parties. In Islam, we don't have this. There is no consent here. Islam says no. With consent without consent is when somebody wants to relieve himself he should go for marriage. That's it. That's the only way

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either this or a person should face the consequence. And these consequences are heavy if he married before he has to be stoned to death. If he did not marry before, you will be lost 100 times and send to jail for one year.

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That's how serious is Islam concerning this? This matter? Allah says well, Atacama Zina, in who kind of officiated wasa

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So, EDA is fascia that is also a means that opens the door to all other types of types of evils in the community.

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You have illegitimate children

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will be in the community, and also those ones will not be given the property because nobody will agree to claim them properly.

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Right, we end up looking for the father, who is that and the father also will not claim them that much, you know, because he knows he did not get them legitimately.

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At the end of the day, they will end up going around the community with no proper tarbiyah. And that's really dangerous for for for us. Is that clear? Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So he says, This OMA was having the issue. And the amount of usable it's Rhabdo sisters, also they were having that kind of issue, which took each and every one of them to do in that which Allah subhanaw taala made prohibited of those images that they cannot have H towards them. And none of them is concerned with the borrower, the harm that can exist in this kind of issue. So even Kareem says this type of risk, when it happens, it says it's one of the most dangerous

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sicknesses that can take place in the life of a person. And it is not easy for the doctors to give remedy for, for this. So Insha Allah, this explanation by immune pain, we will be taking it in the next class be the right answer as our ecologico let's see in the any question to be answered.

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But if you live in a community where there are certain people that are homosexuals, what can we do to help them to engage in Dawa to them.

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There are programs

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many organizations you know, organized, which are aiming towards looking for those people

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who are changing their nature to man or woman if they're not, woman, or man or woman to man, or man to a woman, or any of those ones. And unhandled I heard that many of them are succeeding, bringing a so somebody who went in to hatch

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this picture when he was imitating girls, and now his picture on his in his three image.

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It succeeded and there's very good thing to be to be done in this time of hours, you know, because if this thing exists, trust me, the evil consequences is going to affect everyone. Not them alone is going to affect everyone. Yeah.

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So thou with hikma with wisdom doesn't show them you know rejection? Yeah, of course we don't accept within tolerated but when you go to them Be humble code. If you go shouting, fighting, they will tell you go to go do you think we don't want

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to sit with them? And see how to explain to them the danger of this

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inshallah they will accept

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these brothers.

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They always surround themselves with sisters.

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No problem. give that one to both.

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Seriously, what can we do we have to give the Autobots

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Why did he say he is ago?

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Why?

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Because he wants to legally enjoy staying with girls.

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That's why he wants to get into the bathroom with the sisters. He can see what they're covering. Because he thinks he's got and have the line. Oh, we see even videos, you know, from those countries from the US and those countries, the biggest place of distraction. sisters fighting those criminals who are entering their bathrooms.

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Yeah, it doesn't make sense. You know, it doesn't you don't need Islam for you to understand this.

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I heard the debate in the USA Senate that was shouted very harshly. It said we have to do something because one of those criminal went to the bathroom, claiming that he's a woman. He went to the bathroom and he raped somebody in the bathroom.

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What happened? You know, he said he is a woman. So now the intention comes out. You know people don't understand the intention, but now they should understand.

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Can you can you also of course, if you see him, if he if he says he's not a man, you know? And he started behaving like what?

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You know, and he goes and sit with a woman. What do you expect from him? Of course that was

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said

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Salam aleikum.

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So where do you expect to see him?

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Of course with the sisters because he says he's a system. So when you give that out to him, Where do you give them out? In the same place, keep all of them and try to tell the sisters who he is not to agree with that. Because at the end of the day, they might end up being the victims, right? They might end up being the victims. Allah grant has tofi.

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Getting in the house

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No, he was given the the, the one that we know Allah subhanaw taala gave the the prophecy was

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when he was young, was easily sullen. And also we had music.

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But he seemed cruel. And he says in in jail also for long. And we didn't know how long.

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But I've never come across a place where it has mentioned that he was a prophet at that time. But he was a very righteous person I lost,

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control his life and protect.

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Later he became a prophet.

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Second question,

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gentlemen, no, that's

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right righteous offspring.

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With let's say that high level. So

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by just family members, at a higher level, then

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you'd be reunited, like, you'll be able to move up to the same level of dogs.

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And it was,

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like us it worked, let's say he worked really hard for it's what is for someone else to come along and join.

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Because that was done just to make him happy.

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Now we see it in this way. But when you are in Ghana, you wish that your children I also in this level, they wish that your father is also in this level, you wish that your mother is always in this level. So Allah to complete your happiness he bring your family tries to make you happier. The happiness you have seen, the next few is more than their happiness, because you already have the thing.

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You already have the thing with you, they're not going to live in your house, they will live in their own house, but in the same level.

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And if you go to the houses, are they like you know, you know,

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somebody will be like you accept somebody who's better than you in this dunya

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that's how it is.

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It goes to your house and see things and come back to his house and ask Allah to give him those ones. Allah gave him Let him go tomorrow to house also, it will see millions of things most likely which he doesn't have.

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If he asked Allah Allah will give him because he says whatever you wish you get.

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Yeah, but can he reach never

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already pass? So him asking is also improved for your case?

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Yeah.

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But at the same

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same time, as I said, it's better for a person to do it to be the one who will intercede for for others. Yeah, and also thinking in Indiana. Not everything will come to the mind of a person.

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And also who will keep on going everyday going to the house of others to see what they have and then come and ask Allah subhanaw taala you don't have time to enjoy your house. And Allah subhanaw taala made it in the way nobody would think of another person because you see the lowest level in Jana Lewis Persinger is the poorest person *in missing if a kid but you're not asking at the gym.

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But this *er, he has more than 10 times of this world, the world not UI the whole 10 times have been given to him and the province Allah sama said it is not easy for him to see the last part of His kingdom in general.

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Do you think you will be thinking of other people, he has all of these things? And whatever he asked, it will be brought to him instantly.

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And Allah subhanaw taala will ask him, What do you want to ask ask ask ask until the time he gets stuck. And then the last monitor will tell him how about this. You forgot this one? Yeah. And then he will keep on asking he remember other things also when he gets stuck, Allah will tell him how about this.

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Until the time Allah is monitored, I want to stop with him and let him enjoy his life in Jannah. Allah will tell him I give you this one and 10 times of it also I got apart from what he has in the house. So when does he has time to think of something that

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So yeah.

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So aimbot for those who don't accept any other agenda except for those, when I say don't accept me doesn't mean this is your choice, you know, to reject, but I mean, don't agree with your activities and doings and deeds except those that can take you to get those. Always perfect your relationship with the last monitor. And when you asked Jana asked for feeders

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your wife is jealous of your sister, what do you do? She is not, but

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because you said, I know that I'm just teasing you. Because you said if my wife says she's not.

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Otherwise go no, go to my stick, you know?

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Anyway, I'm just kidding. If somebody's wife is jealous of his sister,

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he has to check about his relationship with the wife first. Trust me most instances he's not happy with the way he lives with.

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If he has no problem, that means she has a problem. And this is not a good person to live with.

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Yeah, he's dealing with somebody who can come and separate between him and his family members.

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Some cannot talk to their systems

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freely, they cannot lawfully speak to their sisters.

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In others, your sister call you joking. She's joking you do that cannot in front of her.

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To her this, you're talking to another woman?

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Yeah, so that's disease. Yeah, but as I said, in most instances, it might be that the right of that woman is not being preserved properly. So he has to give her all of her right. And also come and tackle the issue after doing that, before doing that, it will not work, no matter how much you try to fix it, it will not be fixed.

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Because she believes and she has a right to believe in that that her right has been taken

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by and she's the one who lives with him, who knows him more than anybody else.

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So he has to fix himself first if the problem is from his side, but there are some situations, you know, I know a person which, according to him, that we know, is a very good person, very kind person. And I know some of his struggles actually to preserve his family and to provide for them really, really suffer really suffer in life.

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But the wife has strong jealousy even against his system.

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So this this disease,

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because these people there will be wondering what else I can do to this person.

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So if it is not going to be stopped, it's better for him to grant is going to look for somebody else, and he should look for somebody else.

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Because what does he want, you know, you become very dry when you converse with your with your family members. That's a joke.

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That's why I advise all of you guys, the brothers and sisters, when you marry in the future, if you decide to go for it.

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Make sure that your spouse is well informed about who your family members

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should be a red line, the families.

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Yeah, I really believe that family should be the red line.

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No disrespect from the spouse against family.

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This one should be a red light that cannot be crossed by anyone.

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If you do that be the light Allah and the wife see the amount of the respect you have to family. She also join you in that respect. And that's good for her. Good for you and good for her.

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Right because the family if she doesn't like them, they're going to know. And when they know who will be suffering, she'll be suffering because she cannot approach them. Wherever she goes to them. They will not be interested in seeing how she will be technically living alone.

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And we depressed. Yeah, it's good. Sometimes you call your sister and she talk. They converse, they laugh, you know, they joke she sometimes doesn't even want you to come back because he has a nice partner that makes her laugh. And it's a very strong protection also for her because transmitted as so many people who are about to divorce their. Their wives, but the reason why they don't is because they're not sure about the reaction of their family. He doesn't know how his mother is going to react.

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Because he knows how much the mother loves his wife. He doesn't know how his sisters are going to react because he knows how much his sister's love his wife.

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So this good relationship between the wife and the loss. Is it good for her? Yes, it's good for her is a strong protection if she loves her marriage, but there are some people who are very dumped from both sides, the male and the female.

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They interfere between a person and his mother and his father or her mother and her father

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belie their stupidity and dumbness. Although she has a right over you, I'm sorry, you have a right over her more than right of the parent, but it doesn't mean any disrespect her family member, nobody should accept this actually.

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So when a person has a wife that is jealous of his family members, he should inform her in a nice way. But at first, as I said he should look into his life first and see what exactly he missed of her right, which he is not given properly. If everything is perfect, then he shouldn't worry. You should advise her if she's not willing to stop. And he realized that the barrier has to be open between him and his family members. Otherwise, the life with her is messy. In this case, the best is to to give her relief.

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Let's have a look for somebody else who can tolerate that.

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Exactly, inshallah. That's how it should be done. But as I said, at first, a person should blame himself first. Maybe he is not giving her her right, which caused her to have strong jealousy against any anybody else.

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We have some people who are jealous of the children of

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the husband, the husband has another wife, maybe she passed away, or she's still alive, but they divorce. But they are very jealous of the children of of that person just because they are not from from her. Yeah, this one is very big issue. And the husband has to be very serious on this matter. Otherwise, there's got to be strong separation and division in in the family. And subhanAllah. Once she does that, who is going to be in trouble in the future?

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Guess who will be in trouble in the future?

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The wife? No,

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no, not the husband. Her children have children.

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When she dies, especially when those children they are older. Trust me, we have cases whereby when the husband, the husband died and the wife died, the children of that wife who used to punish the other children, just because they're not from her, they get into trouble. Because the oldest siblings, it really put them into trouble. It happens with one of the prophets of Allah. Right? Who was that? Use varicella? Right. And when they realized that the siblings realized that the Father loves him more,

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he was almost going to be killed because of that. Right? So we have some issues whereby children hate each other. And trust me, the reason why they hate it is because of the treatment they're getting from the, from the other wife of the father, who is not their mother. And so Hala, you have good examples. Also at the same time,

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wife came to the house, and she found other kids Subhanallah she took care of them. Because the first one is gone. Either she died or divorce or whatever, you know, and this one took care of them. In the future. You ask them who is your mother, they point at this, this one, the second one? Or like there are some who doesn't even know they don't know their mother. They believe this one is the real mother. Somebody has to inform them know your biological mother is not this one.

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But they want to they don't want to believe

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why because of the way she took care of them. She doesn't make any discrimination. They set a good example because these ones are innocent, right? If she's going to fight somebody who should fight who the husband who marry again and the other wife will join

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but not the children because the children are innocent.

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Exactly. Allah grant has a good okay any last question?

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Llama I mean

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is it allowed to say behind someone who's playing obligation and the intention of giving the person Gemma charity

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to somebody who? Somebody who

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isn't allowed to pray sunnah behind someone who is obligated. You can pray behind him. He's the Imam and pray like his prayer. And your intention is sunnah. That's correct. You're giving charity to

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question by Assistant if we are on good terms in some way, but it gets spoiled for some reason. The relation gets broken, not the relationship but social.

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Until what point are we trying to fix definition and ask Allah to fix it? Or when exactly do we simply walk away and let that answer this question, I guess.

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That time it came I think, either the other side or as well.

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Yes. So if you can ask her to be more specific because this one looks like the same question I received last time so if I give an answer also I'm gonna give the same

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and then she will say, she's he does he doesn't so if she can clarify it and message it, anyone can forward me the message or she can just send me the question

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because

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they're the closes opinion they're the asphalt.

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I know not all of them.

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Maybe some of them Allahu Allah, the only one that we know to be the Prophet was usable.

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But those ones because they are the children of a prophet of Allah smarter they made a mistake at one point of their life and repented. Then

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the names of

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if if we can trust the chain,

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then we can take it if not, then we remain neutral. Last Sunday cohomological Dibble, rasool Allah sama said, we say it is mentioned in the books that are given to the people before us that this is the name of swans and we just go with that. That's the thing we have if somebody says Are you sure we tell? No we're not.

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But this is the available information we have a we don't have anything to contradict it in in Australia.

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So how to Colombo, we have the cashier Hola, hola. Hola. And it's time to go to the lake Assalamu alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh