The Disease and the Cure #164

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Salam sunnah

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is Smilla Rahmanir Rahim

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wa salatu salam ala Rahmatullah Nina de Now have you been a Muhammad instead Allahu Allahu Allah Allah he will serve you

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and you

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comes into my bone and more perfectly

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turbo and finally worth as much as

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last man who were down anybody can fina a few minutes our little boy one the network for the loony came with the digital fee really.

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So today tomorrow we'll be dealing with a new chapter which is about

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all of us.

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So, we have been talking about love. So, what are the effects the consequence the results, you know, that emerge

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from that love whether it is good or bad

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what would you generate from that if you look at him says well habitually

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it has it it has attachment, you know, it has necessities be integrated happens, there must be something which will take place because of its current account, and also that

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sometimes means lowers the consequences. So, they will claim say certain kinds of muda muda

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whether it is good love, or hate one

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has to be consequences, and these consequences might be good, might be bad Nafa over whether it is harmful, or the one that benefits.

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So, these are

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the range from a YG was, Well hello, it was well it is fine with me, we'll call Boom, you know, what's the feeling?

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is a feeling that kind of feeling that result from that you have

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Yeah, that's true, right? Hey mahabhava that good or bad?

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There must be consequences

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or taste or sweetness or a shell having strong interest to meet that person. Well, Ellen's been in the state of comfort when the need has been mentioned.

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They mentioned you know, some of these people who reach liberal young delimitation,

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Ashika Imara loves a sister. And she doesn't even know about.

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But he loves us so much in the way he got sick, doesn't eat and no medicine works.

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So had a lot, they brought one of the doctors and he said most likely this person is having some problems, psychological issues based on maybe some love or something. So he said let us try this. And they kept on mentioning the name of the sisters in the community.

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And to Allah, believe it or not, they say when the name of that particular sister comes.

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A guy started moving his eyes.

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And he recovered and he ate you know, so the doctor saw them The remedy is to convince that woman to manage it.

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But how can she marry a loser like this?

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Yeah, we're going to see him in the past. We passed a lot of conditions but even Okay, examples of these people who died mentioning the name of their hobby rather than letting

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the tragedy

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so what show when a person does that which is around sometimes you might be having a shelf to meet that person this shop might be correct or wrong, you know, because when you have the shop to meet the good ones to be with the good ones. Is that okay? Yes, that's okay.

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You have the shop to meet you to be with them so that you can take the knowledge of the shop to the knowledge and you have other people who their Shulk sharp is showing interest to eat or to have something they're sharp is to eat something that is how

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you can see the differences. So the first one owns and then instead of comfort and some people mentioned that person they love they will not be sad.

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But let's say Sally been

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the result of that love will motivate some people to go and connect themselves to him and prove themselves closer to him. I will emphasize you will go downhill or sometimes because of not

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that person you try to disconnect yourself and stay away from from him.

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And sometimes we block him from reaching other people when you know but then you block

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come from Licinia

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in call some deserve this well hey John and your forsaken person because of his attitude and his behavior while Faraj was too and sometimes the result is to make you happy or to make you to make you happy you know automate user

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while Buka sometimes you cry a new weakness sadness already very committed can't be how well it was me. So, I

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love that you see in this way whether good or bad there has to be a result for that When you love somebody or you hate somebody that must be

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a consequence attached to this caller well my habit to heal habit and now here allottee tragedy Melissa heavy Hi myInfo houfy duniya will call our

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he said the muhabba and Barbuda

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the lot that is praised the good one, it is the muhabba that brings you you know something that is beneficial to you in the dunya or the

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later Nassif happy

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that the real muhabba the one that is praised the good one is the one that you generated something that is beneficial in the dunya or in the

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otherwise most of them are hardware that people are having it harms not benefit. You will love even the one that is supposed to be the correct one because whenever we talk about muhabba isn't Habana Radziwill Allah Most of it is it a good one on the Bible.

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So it brings in

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the destruction that you have in your heart is more than enough to take your person away from this type of

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habit here

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to declare this

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is the one that brings what benefits the junior and the

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well having

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on one side. Well, they do have here literally one side behind who feed me our ask them to work in it here in one hour. The route of success. Exactly. That is praised the one that takes you to success in the dunya and the one that brings you what benefits you and takes you away from that which is harmful

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units and the opposite is the root of the Chicago. Chicago has been a loser in this unit.

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And the person has the habit to do anything not necessarily man or a woman or even the dunya the normal dunya wells or whatever.

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The person doesn't do the right thing, you know, became blind, it might take you to

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the Wrath of Allah subhanho wa

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Taala Omalu Anil high yield Archana leftarrow, my booboo is key. And he says everyone knows that a person who is religious consciousness can mean a sane person.

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will never agree to choose that which is harmful to him and put him in a difficulty and hardship.

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After an alchemy a

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person who has always tried to choose that which brings good and benefit to Him and stay away from anything that is harmful to his life.

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So even though Kareem says he doesn't choose that which is comforting.

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If you look at so many people, are these you call the no caller or destitute? And they're not necessarily prodigal.

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Yeah, the second one,

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whether we like it or whether like it is like that. Because when you choose something that you love, and that love is taking you to

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other than robbing the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala that's when there is something wrong with the person even if he thinks he's the smartest person

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then the wrongdoers and non believers who go to hell in this life they believe they have they have when they find themselves in the hell.

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What is the comment? Local Nana.

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Now they say they have occurred. When they talk about the truth. They say we wish we have alcohol.

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So, alcohol is something that takes you to focus on that which benefit if a person is not doing this, trust me this is equal to imagine

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although he called himself, but this person is

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wherever does things which are harmful and he knows that these are harmful to him but he still does them. This person has problem with his

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claim says under higher

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Who HP?

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When am I used to Rosalie can Jatin Lavon a person can only choose that which is harmful to him. It is ignorant. He doesn't know.

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Later on when he knows he will say I wish

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I was told about this thing I will never choose

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or a valid enough see somebody who oppress himself. He knows that this is harmful to him, but he still does that because of what would

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because sometimes we oppress ourselves. When you do something wrong, the first person that you are oppressing is yourself. Yeah, because the consequences are going to be really bad against against slowly

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qualifying the left SATA Maya Valhalla, and because the soul naturally, you know, desire that which is harmful to it, and doesn't help with the soul in any way. Or radical insanity, NFC. Don't want insanity. And this is the example of a human being harming himself.

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Allah says, from our collectability I mean, everybody no criminal volume on Linux, the human hope. baccata Silverman home Sadiq Khan miltary, right.

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Some of them are valuable enough, see, who are they? Who are these, those people who are committed, because when I commit sin, I'm oppressing myself first and foremost before anybody else.

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Valuable in a box, bocce

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courts are very happy with this, because a lot of all of all of them he said he will forgive them as long as they

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have been home savvy.

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And they say, it will say which will go into

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agenda. Inshallah that's one of the evidences that we

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take to confirm to us that our Gemma that a Muslim who died Islam will not remain

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contrary to or test the

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product. Well, that becomes even more menial is LFC immobile intercooler journey that behind him a movie in Tahoe, a shout out to him who will

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be in Hamburg email in Milan,

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My knowledge is, whatever you want to be with, you should know about that, first, that when they produce things, they give you the manual, right so that you know how to deal with it.

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And in choosing friends, this is really necessary. Check about them first to see who they are.

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And then you conclude whether you agree to go with them or to request

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lack of knowledge or put you in the state of tragedy. I

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have a lot of examples in this life. You know,

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in one of the countries somebody was saying that somebody lives with people who are drugs

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in the winter drugs, and he doesn't know.

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Yeah, when it comes to pack everyone, including him.

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Yeah, that's all he regrets, you will understand the danger of just being with people you don't know who they are.

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In this life, there are some people who are like that, you know, in witness offenses, you

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know, check first and see if that person has some behaviors, it's better for you to stay away from him. Because if something happens, naturally, people will keep on chasing those people who are closer to him. And this is very natural.

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Yeah, because usually we share these type of things with friends, right? We share with friends,

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husbands, wife, you know, people that you know they will side with.

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So that's why it's really necessary when you decide to take somebody as your friend, to study that person first.

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To study them first. And this fit us a lot. Being in an international environment where you have people know who they are different mentalities. Don't just randomly choose a person just because you think he's smart.

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You might regret Allah, he might be the person who will take you from the right way to the wrong path at first, and if you see that person not having the good manners that deserve to be with and stay away from him with no apology, when it comes to friendship, not select to be on your side, if not that you will be in trouble and that friend will not benefit you right will not benefit.

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So he says people sometimes you know, humans that which is harmful to them out of ignorance. He says sometimes they become Jai Jai Hello.

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The nature of that person that's why they chose

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when the metrical generator we have

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what do you

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typo here it must be must have material Malala how to handle money?

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This is the nature of the situation of somebody who follows with desire without having knowledge.

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So, yeah, so it should be the base and the scale that you were the person that you want to take as your friend. Yeah, these are serious magazines. Who should be next to you?

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Who should be next one

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shouldn't take somebody who is not righteous. He says I'm also Hilton comma, first hero.

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Whenever you decide to take people as friends take the best ones.

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Oh, Shafi humidities have Asahina that's to me.

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These are righteous people, they always

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try to tell people that they're not that position you put them in.

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Only in our time we think we are

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in the past

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when we hope they will accept us. Yeah, that's the best way to make it not to be so sure that everything is fine. And sometimes you have these people who believe everything is fine, but the worst in terms of actions Allah subhanaw taala says, will help when a deal can be accidental Lavina Vaughn messiah will have a vignette on Jezebel and Omeo Sinhala.

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The vast majority of integrators whether their innovation, take them out of Islam or do not take them out of Islam. Do you think they know what they're doing to be wrong Islamic

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leaders that's called

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trust me, some of them know exactly this is wrong. But because it brings money

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one of them was telling his people in secret and Subhanallah the vast majority of the photos of this man he did not know about this. But they just discovered

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in some part of his biography he wants told his students is it

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a pattern or is it you see our method the way we doing things? He said we're not to get smelleze now.

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But who knows this lovely people hanging around there shouting and he brought a lot of things which are not part of the Sunnah of Rasulullah Salah Salem, out of the claim that he also got connection with Rasul Allah from time to time.

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Worst of joke I heard that, personally.

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Even yesterday, I saw this

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one of these people. So I had a lot to talk to him.

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And he told the journalists, they were doing research about this type of method, and they reach the guy and they don't let them meet the chef.

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Allah says whenever you come to Him, that one,

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and they told them they have to give them how much? One again? No $10,000 For one meeting.

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Instead, after long negotiation, you know, we managed to see here laughs

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and so Hala look at some of the Quran that was telling them that the shape allows he said the chef told us that

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yesterday, he was just on conversation with rasuna last summer through the phone, even the journalist was saying how to feed you and how to feed repeating the oil through the phone. He had a conversation with him. And he told he told him that there is no problem you can beat them and they can even have pictures if they wish.

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How to like

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they have followers.

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You will love whatever useless things a person brings. Nowadays there will be some people who will follow

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that's why it's necessary for you to weigh the affair of a person before you accept or reject no Shafi says if you see a person flying in the air

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in our term, we see what this is what the right yeah, you see him flying in the air. You see him walking on the on the water. And people say Allah What do you mean? Oh, yeah. And you'll see everyone come in Hispanic people drink and speak to heat they take his shoes, and things you see. They bring their children also to get back to their lungs.

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They call him money. Mama Shafi says do not trust anyone who brings these things until you weigh his affairs with the Quran and the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu.

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These type of people the best thing to do, just go next to him and recite it.

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Trust me, he will fall down. And because many of them are carried by the devil

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all submissions. When we read Quran the

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first one they they turn no friendship when they get into shape and brought them to the place of the battle buddy. When he sees the angels, what did he do? He said I'm with you. He said no anybody have been? He said I have disconnected myself from you. And the other half allies that are here Allah,

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Allah who she did, and he ran away. He brought them to the place but he ran away he left them so please open your eyes whenever a person ventures trust, where his affairs with the book of Allah, Allah and the Sunnah of Rasulullah Salah cinema if it is against us, look for somebody else, get his best Tomohisa and this because if you don't do this, you will get into trouble and that person will not benefit you. Although they said, don't worry. We will help you when you go to the grave.

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And I hope you managed to live in this if rasool Allah is going to talk with Allah one

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second to Mohammed selenium in Mali machete Nila oni. Alicia is it fobbing asked me from my wealth, whatever you wish

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that you have to know that economic benefit surely meet a lot more to teach me how to do cheese. How's it possible that somebody will come and convince me and you that Michigan worried whatever you want, I will stand for you when you go to decree

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and they don't do what they're supposed to be doing all kinds of stupidities, because the truth is that

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you can see how bad is this right because these people might be doing everything that is wrong in the city. Why? Because somebody is standing for

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and will apply all the questions when they reach Allah Subhan Allah, Allah, Yahweh, Allah. So Asha, please make sure that you check about your friends to make sure that you are taking a good person. Hello, hello Manitoba. In this situation and a condition of somebody who follows His desire without any knowledge

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or limits and did nothing happened to him

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lacking to feel how,

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sometimes the person will know that yes, it is harmful to follow this person is harmful to meet this person as a friend, but he does out of favor in that desire over that which Allah subhanaw taala wants, so he neglects the knowledge he has and follow his own

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law we have some people who will tell you we know is not good. But we don't have any other choice.

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Last time, you say he knows it is not good, but he doesn't have a choice.

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This is there is always a way out. In circumstances when the last one who I knew and there is no way out then everyone knows that this state and the conditions of necessity right. Haram will be will be heard. These are rare situations and exceptions as well as in time. Karla Tara cover

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Kabul, Humberto Amin and marine you know this

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love that a person is having to something might be based on two things Number one, he pardoned fascinating well how long have you either wrong belief or following the desire? He knows no but he's

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one will matter will emphasize a lot smarter and talk to talk to us about some people therefore there have been speculations or what I will emphasis on whatsoever there so desire.

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The moment your life is built on this trust me my dear brothers and sisters in life is going to be missing. Well that's a fella called bow and they can and I will talk about how we can fall apart

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you will be negligent in almost everything. If you're following that is as long as that design is not following along. You're not supposed to follow that design.

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For letter code number two fancy the three been juggling to hide in fasten our own

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What shall we sure will heighten up. Yesterday we'll be talking about

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for showers and

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for HSR. They should

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provide our challenges acculevel Iman will

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even call him says this is the nature and the condition of somebody who follows of speculations of bad thought in wrong thoughts or matter what unfolds and his desire.

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He will face that habit and fantasy that will never happen except based on ignorance or wrong belief, false belief that

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Somebody has

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adversity. He believes that this person is okay. And he loves him because of that. Yeah. These are the people who have in shallow thinking, right? I see him in the masjid. He's the righteous, right? Yeah, you didn't we do like that. Yeah, he prays with us. And then he's good. Especially nowadays, you know, one thing that a person will do this is capable and in this is enough for us to give a very good recommendation about him.

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I have seen a lot when you ask a person to tell you oh, this person is very good, very good, very kind. But how long have you been with him?

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Just in the budget when they come to the class. Of course, when he comes to the class, he's always humble.

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But what does he do out of the class? Allah Allah so that being with him in the classroom shouldn't be enough for me to judge his attitude and his behavior.

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That's why whenever a request comes to me about people who I know are used to come okay, I shouldn't talk about this

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Yeah, I always have to say that yeah. What I know from this is the knowledge between the teacher and the student.

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And everyone knows that usually this is a very good

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relationship right? But when

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if you asked me to just that one I will say yeah, he's very, very kind person dedicated student of knowledge. However, what he does outside Ireland

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because we have people student of knowledge pretty good student of knowledge, we get a good recommendation about them but afterwards

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you don't know what happened it turns into some somebody else. So if you go and say yeah, he is What do you mean earlier in law you know, and then that person got into trouble because of your recommendation

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puts them into into trouble so that's why when we recommend read the test here, what do we say then?

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How the man thinks what we know about it okay, you're writing Don't you ever write a test can see Yeah, this person is really

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very good person, righteous person and keep quiet. No, don't do that. Let's say that we know him to be good to be kind to have good manners to be upon the manager fissara And then at last you say this is what we know about him. Or la hassy

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have to say this Allahu wa Cebu Allah is a key Allah

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he will lie there are people who you know physically when you see that Masha Allah but reality

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devils, right to be very careful because this pesky is going to be recorded. This is Shahada. Allah subhanaw taala says, I shahidul Calco. So took temple shahada two ways I know it's not so took double shahada tomb is there going to be question about that shahada, the angels the daughters of Allah subhanho wa Taala when he has Villa Allah says were they there when Allah cryptid ebooks

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in the witness that

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there is a weak Hadith and just mention this because we this is a magic cell week narration. Somebody asked the profit and loss of about testimony. So let's assume I told him according to that hadith is it covers ships? Do you see the sun? Is it? Yes. So if we have

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probably witnessed something that you see like this,

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then based your testimony on speculations and thoughts. I think he is okay. No, tell them the truth. I don't know him. I only met him once. And during my meeting with him he seems to be okay. But I don't know. This is just one meeting that I have

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to get an idea that many of these activities perfect shouldn't talk about somebody unless if you have the correct etiquette about about him. So he says my humble faceter is based on

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ignorance or fast having the wrong information about that person

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to get idea so so many thoughts even claim says about who we're talking about about and then Shubha will emerge and based on that Shiva also Shaohua is there. So you have sugar is fighting in order sugar, right? That format which is most confusing to you, but at the same time

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you can idea the battle take place between the sugar and also that nature that you have which is telling you that you have to be very careful. So the immune team says fair to Saturday, she shouldn't have to check which allergy she actually will even Welcome back to the Aqua coma. So the two armies with

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the army

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and smartness and the aka and the army

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The shower shower means desire. And Shiva is

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a disease that affects the heart.

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So even okay, this is one of them has to wait.

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Good idea one of them has to ask these situations. Trust me if Allah subhanaw taala does not interfere, a person will get lost. Don't you ever agree to put yourself in a place of just because you have

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some people say it's okay I have the mannequin protect myself and then he put himself in the morgue in a shootout. And what do we see from them? They got

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they got sometimes the deviation crops they became worse or insight

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and idea, so don't ever trust yourself when it comes to Shewhart it's the use of SLM right use of face who was he?

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Profitable All right, we're assuming Russell

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only gets into a place where there is nobody except him.

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And a miracle as his format right? What happened?

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She tried to seduce to deceive.

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And so Hello everyone. I always enjoy this related to the release of Rasulullah Salah Samantha says in your comment hola Nyssa

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use about Islam was a prophet of Allah.

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So how long will he get into that? provenant Allah subhanaw taala is Cali Cali colonists live and hosts work while fascia

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protecting from that

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loss. We interfere immediately to protect them from that when it goes into action. Because it's very critical moment which you should always ask Allah supporter to protect your law. Because when you get into that situation, you rarely come out. And even though you didn't do anything,

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and the community knows that you're righteous and somebody's lying against you. Trust remains something

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because of that used to even think about him because he was a messenger of Allah and Quran says and there was no law protected, but an individual, no, we are not use of

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only way left for us to stay away from it.

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Stay away from it. So let's Allah, Allah said, I want you from being in places where there is nobody except the opposite.

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They said Yeah, rasool Allah. Alright.

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What do you think about Alhambra? Who is

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the cause

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of consumption? Actually, originally, Henry

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is a curriculum.

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It's somebody who's very close to the woman, but then the Arabs, they took the word, they use it as either Caribbean, or Caribbean is one of the parents who is actually Muharram to the system.

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But then the custom, we use it to address the sibling of the hospital.

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Because almost all the cultures, when when a brother married, his brother also can visit his house and sometimes he is not there.

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And the wife will tell him to come. And they're alone in the house. And with the young people in the house and alone in the house, and she is not his wife, and he's not the husband, she made for him cup of tea, Allahu Allah.

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If Allah Allah Allah, that's what he told the province of him because the custom says this is okay. Nobody can come to the house without the permission of the husband, but his siblings come to the house without the permission,

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according to the custom,

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as well as the last set of ammo and mode is set is equal to that.

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New Allah is worse than death. Only Allah knows what is happening. And it's very dangerous situation. Yeah, very dangerous situation. Because if that is what he called the child comes, because he's related to the husband also. Similarity might be there, you know, they will not be able and husband also had a relationship with her. And if she committed something wrong, how do we know?

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So let's allow some I said, I want you from being in a place where there's nobody except the opposite gender.

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Nowadays, right? The person who has office and that's nobody, except a sister who is the personal assistants and they live alone. In some situations, they're married. These are good words.

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Some situations and that's the best actually keep it

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real in some circumstances that I know happens like that. That's good.

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Other than has to be committing sin throughout their life or being together in one.

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Do we have any exception? No. Given the medical doctors also don't have exceptions and they should know about this.

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Some people wrote about this unethical

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behavior that were therefore adopters, which is to Zina commission of Xena with the patient because you can do anything. Yeah so that you will understand why she says this law is applicable on anyone.

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Exactly insha Allah so don't put yourself in the, in the place of the Shiva, always tell yourself I am weak, I cannot resist.

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The moment you tell yourself you're okay and you can resist I'm telling you, you're going to be interested

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to be tested in the way you cannot resist. And you know that type of shower once you get inside going out of it is not easy. So the bestest is to stay away from it as the progress of

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No imminent Habitica who has a much more

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firmer habit to muda allottee on what sad is it Abdi what's

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called Hana? Allahu hahahaha. Much boy.

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He said, if you understand what I'm saying, then you should know that the consequence

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the end of every muhabba has the same hokum of

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that thing that you are.

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Okay, target the target the result is following that, that habit that you're having. So if the muhabba is what do you call

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if the result is going to be a gold habit also you're going to be having to that person will be will be he says fatawa we'll call him you know Houma.

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Fade out if I had a photo of you cooling or immune and wipe habits, the Hohokam moments boy

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each and every one of them will get

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help that will be according to the results that you are going to have. If you will be ended up loving somebody whose love is going to put you into trouble then that will be

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muda here on organist

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and therefore them Habana is not beneficial.

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The one that is the base, you know, the essence of your success in this life, even claims is what all the results that happens based on that Mahana also an athletic and good and as such, you should consider a Hakama ha ha convertible. If the result is good, then the mamba is, is good. And this doesn't mean that

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we don't believe in that, that is a principle which some people created.

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Meaning justify the means as long as you are reaching to a good end, then that means awesome to be.

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Which means tomorrow you can go and put your money in when you call conventional banks to get more and more more lever to get more about. You can spend the river in Islamic activities or you go and join the gambling

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and get me it will tell ya we want to use that money to support Islam and the Islamic

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Is that correct? No. That's how

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Yeah, and the way the I mean, the goal has to be correct. The means also has to be correct. You cannot use the wrong mean to reach

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there used to be a thief who takes money from the rich people and distribute it to the poor.

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He still and give it to the poor.

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What do you think about that?

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Of course bad. But distributed money to the poor people is a good yes, but he's doing it in a wrong way to do the wrong. That's why the correct guide is one that is

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gold doesn't just

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means has to be okay. You kind of seed money and go for Hajj and tell us that I want to do Hajj because that is one of the pillars of Islam you can do that. You cannot do haram for you to reach a goal when it comes to love, love and things that are confirmed by the Sharia to be beneficial to you that love is also beneficial and okay good idea. How do we know that that is beneficial based on that principle? That is wrong. But based on the acceptance of the Sharia for that kind of result which is generated

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right either but can

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we see a person who loves something and that causes him to cry? You know, he's going to get

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where either has an NFL

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because of the good bambus attempts to become sad.

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Is it possible? Yes. When something happens you are which is bad. Or you went against the last point and you come back you know you are so sad for what you did and European to Allah subhanaw taala is going to benefit you. You cry because of the last round that you cry

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When we lost believers, which is wrong, that is going to benefit you because you're suffering your heart has found a way that

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only becomes happy because of that long term benefits.

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We then cover then

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you become Kody because

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up in a state of comfort because of that which happens, this is going to benefit you.

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For instance when you wake up

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in the morning during budget time after budget

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and you do not do the gambling

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what usually happens

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good people who are really good and heart is good and pure clinical used to do that. Trust me

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you will be moody

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that's bad mood.

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That's where the profit and loss

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yeah okay the shape and

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ethical philosophy, shebang, type three notes on your head. If you wake up at night and make notes in November last month

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you know when you wake up that is the car right? So, the first thing you mentioned not

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you mentioned a last

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one not where we go.

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When you when you go to one of them will be gone.

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When you go to pray to Allah subhanaw taala

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the prophets Allah Azza wa said when you work model for Frasure you will not shoot

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very happy having good mood. However, if you wake up after version those who assume that the prophets Allah sunnah said use people in South Habiba.

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probably the other words, but he says Even

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something like that alcohol cannabis, the person will be moody and instead of sadness

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you Allaha mudgeeraba Sometimes only Mr. pMLN if you're doing when you wake up, you will not wake up in a good mood. Shake up Johanna savvy he woke up one hour before

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his family thought that somebody died in the house. They heard him saying in Melilla he went

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to him what happened there was

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one hour left.

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And you want to address earlier Allah in our time who wake up one of the properties and pray to Allah.

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The good ones Alhamdulillah is one who wake up with the karma.

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students have knowledge according to our mentality. So if a person wakes up without pain that they emulate, sometimes you will be moody, but that's moodiness that you have. Doesn't doesn't benefit you?

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It does.

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Yeah, it does.

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It does benefit. Because tomorrow

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what that person is going to do, it will take all the precautions to make sure that

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I have a daughter usually when I go to sleep, they asked me to wake them up

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in practice,

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so they got so sad last night, until the camera lens

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so that exactly the benefit even look at him to see if he kept moving. And that helps you to take precautions the next next time. Because that's beneficial. Yes, we don't bring it we didn't look for it. But when it happens sometimes also it puts you in the right way. That's why I will say sometimes Massey that somebody commits and repent to Allah subhanaw taala might be the reason why he became more righteous than before the time he was committed in the past.

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And I guess this one is much because everyone has this you did sin by mistake and you repent to Allah whatever you use so much. Sometimes you compare your life after the repentance is better than life before the commission of this

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increase lots of precautions you know that these things put you into trouble so you put a lot

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that's what is produced by them habit of Allah subhanho wa

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Taala for who it's a colloquialism habit to Academy happy visiting wherever you are, all of us so he will be going in and out in this you know, beneficial.

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The result of the hub and

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all around the country and hunger to borrow and move at Robbie. Oh Ha ha ha. Lisa Hibiya move on to level.

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He says the country takes place when a person has them happy. That is harmful.

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of the things that are the result of this marhaba harmful to the life of the person. Number one harm he got is that it takes you takes him away from Allah subhanho wa Taala when you love that which Allah smart Allah hate, it takes you all

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came from article 31 Is that a female, female asilia Who failed Kasara to abort wherever he goes, in whatever circumstance he found himself, trust me my dear brothers and sisters, this person will always be in a set of loss and being away from last month.

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That is no way for you to be in a state of comfort as long as you're not

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leaving okay mentioned something very interesting.

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He says we have a show called failing toilet and potty Amasya and this is the condition of action. That is the result of a righteous righteous the righteousness or

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the action that is the result of righteousness is beneficial. And the action that is the result of evil. evilness is harmful to your life.

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Any result that you generated from righteousness is good.

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Even though we might see it hard, but it's good for us. Allah says rasa anticorrosion or

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perhaps you might like something, you might hate something but it's good. You might hate something but it is bad for you. Hola. Hola. Hola, mon to lateral Colombian, okay. For condyloma at the minute party for who was the editor Is it

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anything that is the outcome of the behavior and righteousness for him as the editing is an increase for the one who is doing it will cover and something that brings him closer to water.

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Please take note on this mentioned

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as a very nice quotation from Serato October. It says anything that any any anything that you know any anything that is the result that happened to be the result of righteousness. It is something that will bring you closer to Allah and takes you away from functioning.

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According to mythology and Ignacia for Hassan Lisa Hubert and whatever happens to be the result of sin is going to enter by putting an ad from Los Reba ritual and all of these things that makes you wealthy, that at the end of the day,

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a person will lose and get into trouble.

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He says Have a look at the sale of Allah. Allah Valley can be a lifesaver, Volvo wala nasaga Whatever Mark massagin fees, what are the multi annual Hebrew Grafana Allah and Neyland in equity veligandu hammerless.

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In Allah Allah have mercy Wala.

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Wala your own Awadhi in in equity by law who? The agency

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Okay, he says Ullswater says the reason why I'm treating them in this way

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is simply because like superhuman vomo talking about the Mujahideen

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they will never be affected by

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Osama bases first.

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Well, I know some Oh fatigue because they're going working on their foot

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you know, weariness and tiredness you know, never be affected by this well I must massage or hunger.

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Wallah MCMA certain piece of video as long as they're doing that for the sake of us man hotel

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lad with a multi and these will go far and they will never make a move movement that will make a coup for angry or make them unhappy. They will never do set those enemies of Allah subhanaw taala well and I know the minute will nail and they will never get any victory you know, kind of you know approach to against the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala in quotevalet home be amurense Allah Allah Sparta will write a righteous deed for them on that paper

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to get this whole

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thing Allahu Allah up Roger and Muslim because

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and with the reward of the Masino

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that's the first group right? The second group Allah says well are you gonna never cut and they will never spend anything anyway.

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So here

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whether it is good

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or it is

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it is small while you're called the owner while you know the family

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could accept an announcement and great for them

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I'm going to solder that action that will be written.

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Meaning in the first scenario allows me to write, and I'm going to select,

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attend reg dt, in the second situation, and last winter will ask to enter to write this process.

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This person went to this place, this person does this. And you see the difference, right? When we're asked to write a righteous deed being done by this person, in the second situation allows him to write as certainly what he did, not the reward. What

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Allah says,

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The first one, we know that it worked, right. And the second one we didn't. Anyway, last month, he told me he just right action, on the Day of Judgment will be

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caught, I'm surprised to see how much Alaska is preparing for even as far as

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the HDHomerun cinema camera so that last month, I will make those ones as a benchmark, right? The one that is very word for it, and because the end.

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subhanho wa Taala feel older and the motor will lead them into and talk to him while on him, you will be able to see

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is the results of their actions, because all of those that I mentioned, hunger, and all of these things is the result of the efforts they're making. They're not doing those actions they're not doing

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it's a result that was generated because

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of these type of activities.

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Because they are the result of the actions.

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And literally, Barrichello talk to him.

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And he said in the second deed, which they do it directly.

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This one is going to be written in a way it is not as righteous deed, although they actually did that last month, just write them in the way they

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kind of went over, you know, an overall

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difference between the two of them, the first one is not part of their activities. He says well known hunger and all of these fatigue that happens to them, and doing something that upsets them, the action itself is their own action, right. But the result of that action is to have these enemies of Allah squatter being annoyed. This is not their action is the result of

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Yeah, but in the second, all of those that are mentioned, this is the effort, because the last month this is the they're making the movement work in the, you know, penetrating the valley and river, you know, and they're also spending for the sake of Allah, Allah says, We will write this one, this one in the way it is. So time says, and a workplace have been failing, the first one is not part of the action is the result of the action. We're in the metropolitan for quotable on the Amazon site, that's what allows me to write a righteous deed for them, because of that action with Fannie not only him for too long tonight, and the second one is exactly what he did, and the last one to ask

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them to write it in the way it is,

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to get an idea, so Subhanallah This is how we move in the blessings of Allah

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I do something which is righteousness, do I get reward for that? Yes, and what is it going to be written on my account, that righteous deed the salah will be read as it will be written, you know, the kindness will be written whatever I did physically, Allah will write it down

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after that, good result is generated from those date am I going to get some Yes, every good result also be written as an

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audit failure Tamil

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Lea, man who Imani he says I wish

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the poutine was a khateeb a person who is murdered by the law continuing Barbara we have people who are killed by the law Yes, a person who is killed by the law terminated myself he should understand this topic correct.

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So that he will understand what is

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and what is against him when

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he says lack of knowledge can put you into trouble right he says phonetics is topic correctly so that you will know

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what to do and what to stay away from.

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He quoted this nice bait face yeah, let me open up that in.

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Our in that was the mechanical

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He says a person will no human What is your minority there?

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It is horrible analogy that humans are that people are having the exclusion exclusion right? Everyone is bringing

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his product, you know to advertising and what he is referring to the day of judgment. So yeah, let me be

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the person will understand on the Day of Judgment, their presentation

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which products will be collected? And you don't pay attention? What did you lose? When that was the Macan house. And when the security has been fixed, a person will understand what exactly he generated from those fake love practicals in this industry. So basically,

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he's trying to tell us that whenever you decide to love something, or somebody, study that person first, and see how much benefit you can generate from that law, if that is no benefit, in fact, you're going to generate how harm to yourself, it is valuable for you to stay away from him otherwise, under the judgment you'll it will. This is applicable in all circumstances, right, between friends and friends, family and family husband and why that's insane. If you know that remaining with somebody can lead to conflict. It is necessary for you to stay away from the person. She came to the province a lot someone said to my husband.

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The state isn't right. Although that approach later on, they realize that is the troublemaker. Yeah, because it happens also in the time of Omar I guess the Companions understand that

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she can't live with every husband also the same result. And this one, she came having to face even Shammas this one we believe he's one of the only

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one of the audio because he

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afraid of him going to hell. Because of the Revelation which sort of certain

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medical was water can focus ultimately, his voice is a bit loud. So Allah says, Do not raise your voice. When you speak to Alexa. Five, it says, For high quality speakers like that, that is my righteous deed are gone, which means I'm going to help so even conclusion, so you went back to the house and cried and he missed the prayers, you know, he just

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was crying,

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as well as the loss of a missing

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somebody to go look for him. He went to the phone

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and he told him rasool Allah so missed you what happened. So he told them that I always reserve my voice. When I speak to the prophets, Allah Salam, he wasn't doing that intentionally because this is how Allah to create it. So that means I'm going to go to because Allah Monica want to let me show. You said I lost all of my good deeds. I'm going to help. When they told the prophets of Botswana he said, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said, no one is not like this. Say he has

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way more to show hidden. Wait for it.

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So let's alasa said he will leave us with a righteous person

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and he will die as a Shaheed and he will be going into paradise.

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In a few minutes, as we

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call lumen half a lot of

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you are like this is really nice to read that everyone should should remember.

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From this story, we learned that if you feel Allah, Allah will give you a man at peace.

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Or is that you are generally less merrily May, Allah COVID Allah will never combine two pieces, you know for a person and two of us.

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I mean, if we have to,

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if he said of comfort, that nothing will happen and he does whatever he wants to do, even though it is against Allah. Allah says,

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I will make use in the state of fear in Africa when he meet,

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if he's afraid of me, which led him to stay away from evil deed. Allah says, I will give him the money in Africa and also the dunya. Allah says, Allah, Allah Miguel Ybarra whom devoleena Kula eco Raha Morton, if he Allah subhanaw taala and then commission by promise to give you a man in this dunya

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exactly in shallow and this is exactly what happened is that he died during the hook.

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Right, as you're here, because we see a shahid because of the loss a lot so much that he will be going to church and his wife came to the Prophet Solomon said jasola

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She said my husband I didn't have any issues, is upon the best of marks

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no issue with

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Why do you want to stay away from him? He said he Lanlan

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He could

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buy the whole foods. He said I don't want to become a candidate after I accept Theresa.

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She knows what she's going through. So let's not ask her did not ask her what is that?

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But he said yeah so I started to be afraid of going back to

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Allah Allah maybe she think that she cannot take care of his need and oh no, you know, Allah Allah she knows that justification because Islam seeking for the divorce is wrong. Unless if there is a correct justification if there is justification Yes, it's correct. It's okay because just like the last part of the giveaway out for for the brothers when they don't like when the brother doesn't like to stay with a woman, he goes for the divorce Allah subhanaw taala also give excuses the way out because it is not only the brothers always delight to stay with us so Can she also doesn't want to say

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is there any way out? Yes, there is the Hello Allah spawn templates guide for the Russian did an excellent job what he was talking about this matter he said this the way out that last month he gave the brothers and the sisters in in the same way. So she said, I don't want to go back to you know after accepting Islam, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call

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call people call him and then ask him to divorce.

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And he told him can you he told her first can you give him back? The Mahara he gave you? You said yes. Was Jada

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Do you know what this was?

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Yeah, there is Harry's essence but it is weak Irish he said I will give him was he either and also additional amount also

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but that that part is weak that's why the Mr P is one that he only has a right to eat

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when he call what

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what you gave us as the proxy lights and asked him to do

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that Allah subhanaw taala grant is good and Tofik and help us to make the right decision when you choose somebody to go with you know we call it a billion caffeine Suhag llamo

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table six good nobody sitting on the table sitting at a table with six good products and one guy you know he has been getting it yes but no one else knows the table everyone at the table back or like what should

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I just keep is better

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eat and then later on go and meet him and advice

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the moment you should start talking about his innovation is a time when he starts

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but if he between him and himself even

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just the moment you start inviting people to the innovation start promoting what he does watch him upon you to remind others

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it doesn't mean

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when you will be running away in this life you know wherever you go you know you'll find these type of people wherever you go

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to be with them

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in their meetings or programs or just occasionally it comes down to a person comes you know an event comes by he's invited the best is to decline

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but he's constantly happens that you sit in a place where he also

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can just finish talking and leave the place yeah

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you will come to the place and you find the discussions with them is like this

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place is better for you

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because when people can see with him then everything that you asked

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that's why we should learn this when somebody is wrong.

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And he is known to be like this if you're invited you on him for a program

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I remember one of the scholars has conditioned to appear on TV talk

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the channel

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they will never bring somebody who

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frequently said oh this place

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he said I don't want that but if you insist that have to come there this is my condition.

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So we accept that's not always the brain people who are

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good. Yes, it's good. Yeah, it's good. Otherwise we'll be confusing this the committee

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Yeah, it comes on to something I come after that as it's something else. People don't know who to follow

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the trust the channel and the channel is bringing people who are contradicting each other.

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That's why it's called should understand this also.

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It is not good.

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So, you need to contradict another scholar who is upon the same Manhattan's

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unless if it is something that you have to go for this, I think that you can conceal them it's better to go to him because if he has Eman he will be working with you and he will be willing to hear from you how do you see things and then you'll be able to resolve the things with he will go by himself and correct himself

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and then he will tell you no problem you can talk I don't mind you can talk please fix it wherever you

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because sometimes if you go and talk against him if you manage Akita wise and almost everything is same, but this issue, particularly issue eautiful and this is

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sometimes what happens is Adam they will start fighting each other this was calls and this will get into trouble. That's why mama daddy said

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you to our yoga is a collab with our current formula. The criticism and

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the change of word takes place between colleagues, mate classmates, scholars and their friends. He said usually when we come we just close we don't we didn't narrated

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it because if let's say magazine and up drama,

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I was called as opposing an abdominal fighting each other May Allah protect

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the three of us we study on the abdomen

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if we are going to listen to Martina Cena, but they're going to listen to what a man saying, you know, they are also going to get involved in this in the debate and the fight. And then the students would never study on that. This is what is happening, right? You see no problem with him. But the students of others call it criticizing that call and telling people not to go and study. And you won't check this app either perfect. And actually maybe it's better than that either of the other the other chef do it go and see his attachment to the Sunnah of the Prophet.

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He will try to understand what exactly is his problem?

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You see that maybe that is one issue and

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that he doesn't agree with that chef and then it becomes an issue and the student gets involved. That's why my job as a student of knowledge when my chef criticize another scholar who is okay my job is

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just to smile, try to convince me that check his manager

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has given Lesson What do you do? Go alert otherwise, we will be deprived from knowledge for no reason. You

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cannot account youth will

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you just listen audit keep it aside and go and study. Right but nowadays we don't do that we get involved in that's why we don't learn

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Alaska currencies

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shouldn't be accepted. If however is succeeded by now I don't have Adam in front of me here.

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Ebola is covered is believes that those are the talks about the enemies of Allah should be based on the belief.

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However, this believes that leadership is useless. We can go against the leader anytime the leader makes mistakes. And that's produced caves. That's what Muslims into trouble with during time of Allegan avatar live and

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up to date. If you go around the world and see the places where these protests and things are taking place and you look at the cities how they

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slept last and I said which Listen, we are leaders. He said

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karate says if a person commits a sin his coffee

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goes out of Islam completely. He will go to hell forever.

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It has so many other things. Person who is having mentors she can preach a lot smarter and fast.

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So when that says the tool, Ayesha, she said

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how it doesn't doesn't pay the price and she praised she she pays the fast.

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So I shall immediately ask her how to read coverage

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because this is heavy. And they have some Arcadia matters also that are inappropriate. But one of the worst thing they have is the I mean legalized the blood of the believers. That's why they asked her to go home Go for it, go for it. No minute coffee. Run away from coffee.

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Again is Rasulullah selasa call them killer

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Dogs of Hell.

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One of the most dangerous entities to exist in this in the Muslim community. They're Muslims, but the worst type of al Qaeda that exists the Muslim community yet so that's why they have been rejected and cannot be accepted in the polls. Lots of already talked about that

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They will say you will see them praying your ability your prayer

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when you relate it to this

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it pretty much better than us it comes from what appears

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to see the big sign on their forehead the eyes is extremely red you know because they cry a lot and all of these they're doing it sincerely currency Kabbalah

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but at the same time the rest of the Muslims

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they kill the best person on earth and the one who killed him they call him which I hate

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and they praise Him so much because the thing he was doing on

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the Panther came out and hit him on his backbone he planned to kill us also did

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they kill the wife of the

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art they cut her stomach and bring the child is pregnant and take the baby into

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this has occurred

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so lots more to

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say for

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you to be somewhere else do something

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you don't if you don't fulfill it

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okay you don't you don't someone doesn't arrive at this place

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oh he said if I don't come up exactly for that I owe people something

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why would he tell himself

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No, I don't control my

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control my life you know the things that happened last month that person shouldn't put in. We always do this I understand we always do but this is wrong and we get into trouble from time to time.

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Yeah, you will know that Allah smart is in control.

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I told you last time I was going to call it to Lima football on

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the eighth of July I forgot which one one of them I'll name I have around 25 minutes to the hotbar I'm here and you

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don't realize I told my friend please come out let's move on in sha Allah if we managed to beat the toilet you know that big target right? Within 10 minutes in sha Allah the rest of the 20 minutes is not too good. I do not say inshallah I just say I just need to reach that place in 10 minutes

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so hello I don't know how

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in few minutes we reach

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on time but then right after that we are confronted by heavy traffic on the highway when there's a traffic that means yet the pillow and the mattress and sleep

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well I told him Look letter couldn't the machine in the violin very competitive Indonesia country ever say that? Yes I will do some contain inshallah happens a lot that you see I would do something you forgot to say insha Allah something will come up and block

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so that's why it's wrong for a person to tell his friends that if I don't speak exactly if I if I will buy you kebab I wish them better you know also to enjoy the kebab

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who will give the thing he ordered? Who came it?

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Who is agreeing you are agreeing that if he comes late and he has to give you something

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Yeah and like us yeah I'm the one is away from us. And then we say he did not come we say well lie if you do not come by seven he has to give us something

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all of us

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wherever did not come

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you should quit

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your like she told them no. I will try my best.

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But if I come late, I will not give a single set.

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However if you people bring in Bob and olema

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I shoot him because you don't know what will happen if I don't put myself into this pressure

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to be there if you can do

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Okay, faster before people start coming

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I've been rejected by a potential spouse that I really thought was terrific.

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Problem. After learning about Skynet, I have developed a form of

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how do I get a

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say in Allah when nearly Harar June along.

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He said he loves somebody and he thinks he's righteous, but rejected right? As

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most of you should understand that not every time should be accepted. And the last one or two that might deprive you from getting something, but it's good for you.

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And the last one, so I might let you get something which you don't like, but it is

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good for you also.

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You love something which is not good, and you hate something which is good. So whatever last winter has chosen for you to be accepted.

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And my advice to this brother is to close that page and to understand that Allah subhanaw taala create, how many systems do we have on Earth?

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Only Are you sure the world are Muslim sisters? No, I think the Muslim Muslim Muslims are how many? To millions, right or 1.8. Right. And most likely sisters had

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more than the brothers right?

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He's rejected by one. I mean, he get moody, you know, Adam says there are billions of sisters right? Even like this is true. Why is it possible for assisted Prohaska we have situations like this, somebody who puts himself into danger. Why because he's rejected by somebody. Why?

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This is timeless is what I call them as how you have waiting, they're looking for somebody to accept them a lot. And this sister or this brother, no matter how much righteous they are, oxy or Billa, go out the 600% way back in business. If you're looking for beauty go out, you'll see somebody who is 100% more beauty than this one. Looking for Hamsun handsomeness originals, wherever you go, there is

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why you restrict your success to this person. And then a person becomes moody because he's rejected by your sister, or sister rejected by a brother, Allah Hi, I see as dummies, this is to say, I'm not addressing the brother, but this kind of behavior is, is normal. Muslim shouldn't be like that.

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Just close that page, and keep it aside and move forward. Again, you should be a man should be a woman. When a person says no, you tell them no. And to go back.

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I've heard it's inappropriate for a person to go and send people in the house of the family, the family of the sister to agree or they are sending this is worse actually when they send somebody to bet the brothers family to agree.

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Unless if a brother is begging I can understand because it says I'm not legal, but this is begging somebody to accept what is this is against the norm right? Right or right is against No. So my advice to my brother, please close this page. You know and don't open it again. And look for the pleasure of Allah smart handsome what else and tell yourself last month to deprive him from getting this for good? I might not know what Allah smart Allah is intending for me but I believe whatever loss moto has chosen for me is

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and close this page complete the look for somebody else. Is that difficult? No, it's not. If you open your eyes and look correctly souhan Allah, Allah Allah Allah in the end, a cycle accumulated salamati