Prophet Muhammed – Role Model Of Compassion

Ibrahim Nuhu


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AI: Summary © The Prophet's legal system is becoming increasingly dangerous, and the success of his actions and his flexibility in finding solutions to problems is emphasized. The importance of protecting one's emotions and finding solutions to problems is emphasized, along with the use of the symbol salallahu for socializing Islam. The journey of the Prophet's life, including his personal and family life, is also discussed. The speakers emphasize the importance of living healthy and achieving goal reminders for one's life, balancing work and personal life, finding one's true passion for what is passionate about, and finding a balance between work and personal life.
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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim o salat wa salam ala Musa Rahmatullah al Amin and Abhi. In our Habib, Hamid insert Allahu Allahu Allah, Allah He was, he was selling a mobile ad.

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First of all,

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I would like to thank the one club for granting me this opportunity to talk about this very, very important topic in this contemporary era.

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We're living in a time where there is a strong detachment between the OMA and the Prophet when it comes to the application of his sunnah, which gives the vacuum leaves the vacuum for the enemies of Islam, and as well as the enemies of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, who I will call them also the enemies of the prophets of Allah subhanho wa Taala not just Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam had to find a way to start saying what they say nowadays, because if the Muslims to be holding upon the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, properly in the way Allah subhanho wa Taala wanted them to do, this vacuum will never be open. The more you respect yourself, the more you

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respect, the respect which you have, the more other nations are going to respect you. But if you don't have that much of respect, you're also looking for a way out you know from that which is given to you by Allah subhanho wa Taala you're doing nothing except opening the door for somebody to criticize the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the most critical, you know, issue and the most, I mean, a difficult part of the religion, you know.

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I mean, I'm talking

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to you, you know, relating to you the way the enemies or the orientalist or those one who, whose job is to fight the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam or Islam, you know, they see the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam out to be the most difficult part of the religion to be destroyed.

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And that's why you can see they don't sit down since long ago, because they do understand that criticizing Quran will be a joke. Because whoever study Islam they know that Quran is something that is untouchable, the only book that remained intact since it was revealed and if you are to modify Quran and to put something into the book of Allah subhanaw taala it will be easily detected by by the Muslims because it is just one book. As for the Sunnah of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam it is too big, it is too vast, so they can swim inside and put their disease or you know, their deception inside without being detected by the layman in the community. That was the idea actually,

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why the targets is the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, because it is the explanation of the religion. And on top of that, it is very straightforward. Quran is not that straightforward. It gives you principles, which you need clarification and explanation and then sunnah come and do the job. That's why they see it, that this is the most important job they should be busy with, to destroy the Sunnah first because if they succeed in destroying the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, they will easily succeed in destroying the deed. So I'm just having this introduction to myself first and foremost, and to my brothers and sisters, you know, to

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understand the importance of the topic before we jump into the topic. So thank you very much for granting me this opportunity to be present before you're speaking about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam ala Rasulillah Houda or Rama said Allah subhanaw taala anybody Kofi como you Baraka Faema Netta lemahieu

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When talking about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, to be honest with you, I don't know what exactly am I supposed to be touching? Because that this side of the life of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is you talking about if you're talking about love and compassion, you know and mercy, you know, almost every aspect of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam or you will see several example being given to us. Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran, Wilma arson neck Illa rahmatullah wa Alameen. Allah subhanaw taala told us that he has not sent the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam except as a mercy for for humankind.

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Do we get the qualification of this statement in the Quran? Yes, we did.

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If you go back and see the life of the Arabs before the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa selama was sent. And then after the Prophet said Allahu Allah who say migrate

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See, tomochain he spent those 23 years, you will understand the meaning of the IR RS and Ihlara material Alamy they used to live a very terrible life, according to the what, according to what the history have spoken about people who are living a life without any proper guidance, you know, you could be killed for silly and shallow reasons, you know, it's very easy for somebody to, to be killed just for simple, simple thing, you know, they're scattered, you know, they're divided, you know, they're based on this tribalism and racism and all of these things that history's had, you know about, about them, that look at what the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam did within 23 years,

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the Prophet said, Allahu Allah, who sort of managed to remove this attitude completely. In Medina, they used to fight each other, you know, they were both brothers and sisters hazard will, will house the answer, as you know, they have been fighting each other according to what history informed us for 120 420 years, SubhanAllah 120 years, they have been fighting each other, they're coming from the same source. They're brothers and sisters coming from the same family, you know, they're, they're all Arabs and coming from the same route. If you study that the lineage of both tribe house and has rich, they're coming from the same route, they're going to meet somewhere or the other, you

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know, in the in the lineage, but they kept on fighting and each other simply because that is no system to judge them and to deal with the injustice that was taking place, you know, in that community so that chaos will not will not happen Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has solved that problem. Allah subhanaw taala talk about this because it is a very big matter. Allah subhanaw taala told them in Surah two Al Imran he says we'll come to Malaysia for her for it. millenary Franca de Caminha.

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You know, they were at the edge, you know of na Allah, Samantha saved them from it.

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That community was supposed to be entirely gone, you know, but Allah smarter protected them with who, through the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So that's the reason why I said if you look at every single aspect of the life of Rasulullah, he said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam, you will find the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Most Merciful entity you can ever meet and see in your life.

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The most profound and the Most Merciful person amongst the human being that you can ever see in your life is Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So what are we doing in sha Allah in the in the next few seconds or minutes, that is, that are given to me. I will be taken from examples. I will not go through the history of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. I will just take from the example of the life of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, and that shows the Mercy how merciful, you know how much merciful is Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So I'm going to talk about the Dawa.

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The way the Prophet said, Allahu Allah who said, I'm gonna give the Dawa. I decided to start with this because that was the main job of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. How did he make out? What makes his Dawa different from our own data? How can he succeed it you know, and his religion is prevailing and taking the lead on Earth up to get in the way he said that Allah Subhana Allah Azzawajal

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Allah subhanaw taala shaving, you know, unfolded the earth for me Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, and then he told me that it's for it mashallah Coahoma Riba and I saw the East and the West. And Allah subhanaw taala informed me that the kingdom of by OMA is going to reach Mizzou really mean ha. Whatsoever Allah's Mata has shown me the kingdom of by OMA is going to reach that place. So the main job of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the Dawa. How did he succeed? He succeeded through the mercy in the Dawa. So I will start with this first, and then I will pick up some of the examples of the mercy of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam or it comes to the battles

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and some of the mercy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Sermo when it comes to the family life, and then I close the session in sha Allah for question and answers if you guys have a slot for that.

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The DA, which is the main job of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, you know, Allah subhanaw taala sent him in, in muck in Makkah, you will not see the example of the mercy of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam at that much because Allah subhanho wa Taala told them not to fight back. They have to maximize their patience for wisdom.

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First of all, they were at the minority if they are to take action and to take revenge they could be

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easily, I mean swept by, by the by the Mexicans. So it is not easy for them to take to take action at that at that moment. So Allah subhanaw taala asked them to cool down and also to teach us a lesson because you might find yourself not being able to make a migration to another place which you have more peace, to practice your religion. How are you supposed to live when you are a minority, the prophets that Allahu Allah himself and his companion, they left for us the best example you can ever see.

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Example A patient's wisdom when dealing with matters of this nature.

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But when it comes to Medina, this is where you see the manifestation of the mercy of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam

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the best of their art you ever see is Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam,

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one of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I call, wow, even al Hakim, a salami.

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This person, he has another story also very interesting.

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But let me just focus on this, which is more applicable to what I'm talking about.

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He went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He prayed in the masjid of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam

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somebody who was praying next to him sneezed

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and the person who sneezed, said Alhamdulillah when he said Alhamdulillah, ma ma will hug him a salami told him your hammock, Allah

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you know,

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now he was praying. And the man also was praying. So Maori was telling him your hammock Allah. So people kept on hitting on their

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thighs, you know, they are showing him that you did something wrong. Because Alhamdulillah is part of the prayer is dhikr you have Alhamdulillah in your prayer. So you're conversing with Allah subhanaw taala that's the reason why it is okay.

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But when it comes to your hammock, Allah, I'm speaking to you, although I'm making dua, but I'm speaking directly to you, your hammock getting involved. So it's like I'm conversing with somebody. So that dua of mine goes to you first and then to Allah subhanho wa taala. So you're conversing with somebody and in the prayer, you cannot talk to others. So that's the reason why people found it very strange for him to speak in his prayer. So they kept on hitting data indicating that you are doing something wrong.

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So now we got an annoyed and he told them what happened. What's wrong with you? Why did I do you know? So when he, he saw the reaction of the companions, so he finished a prayer with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he thought, that is going to be really bad. You know, when the prophets of Allah Allah Who sir meet him is going to be in trouble. Because if this is the reaction of the companions, that what do you think will be the reaction of the leader himself?

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But after the prayer, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I call him is miles Had Allah was very easy person to be approach. He founded totally different from that which he was expecting.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I told him, I just want to inform you that this prayer, it is inappropriate for somebody to speak in it. Allah subhanaw taala just kept it for remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala and the recitation of Quran and the Quran and the tech Pierre. You know,

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you know what Mario said? And this the reason why I brought this story and I started with it, he said Wallahi ma at noir Lehman cobbler who will Abadi who taught me flow? He said, Well, Allah He I have never seen in my life, before azul Allah or after Rasul Allah, a teacher that could be compared to Rasul allah sallallahu alayhi, wa sallam. Subhan, Allah can see the leniency and the mercy, they were shouting at him, but the prophets that Allahu Allahu selama was very lenient and gentle and soft.

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And there is a great lesson a predecessor we should learn from this which we will hack him as soon as he taught us. Because when Rasul Allah is Allahu Allahu selama was very gentle, and kind and soft, you know, a lenient with him,

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but are we was having the comfort, he relaxed. And what happened was, he started directing to Rasulullah sallallahu, ala who said about the tragedies that were taking place in his in his community,

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which are really, really sensitive matters, you know, and he was telling the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam are looking for answers, which confirms and should confirm to every one of us that the more lenient you are, the more closer the community are going to come to you and

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This is when the community is going to share with you the tragedies and the things that are happening inside the community looking for solution, you will be able to make a success within a short period of time. And we need this acceptance by the community. If the community realize that you are the merciful person, and you are lenient, and you're just gentle and you, you use your wisdom in your data, you have love, you know, and compassion towards the community. I'm telling you out of experience in data, you will definitely get coupled in the data. I live sometimes in a place where I can say I technically lived alone, there was a time I live in a place which I can tell you I

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was living alone. Living alone means almost there is no buddy who is like you. It just like you feel that you're so strange. And that place, the place doesn't belong to you. You know, the place doesn't belong to you. The place where if you apply the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam. I'm talking about Sunon, which which are so famous, you know, and they don't harm anyone. But just because people didn't like this approach, they will see you as an extremist. You don't have nobody, you don't have anyone. But what helped me in that place is the man is of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam or to live good with everyone. They realize that so we managed to make a success,

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which, at time will not permit to share with you some some of them. But it's a very good an important lesson that we have to learn as a day, you must make sure that you do as much as you can to make sure that the community is feeling comfortable living with you.

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That's one example. Let's move to another example, which shows the mercy and leniency and kindness of Rasulullah sallallahu Allah Who set them out when it comes to when it comes to the Dawa. The Prophet said Allahu Allah who said about sitting in the masjid

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sitting in a masjid and a bed when k and this bed when it gets inside the masjid.

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so people sit in there, a look into the best place to him. And he started passing urine.

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He started peeing in the masjid. The companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I shouted at him.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, led to the removal of Allah I love these words, you know, he's allowed to anymore. He said, don't you? Don't you ever cut off his urien? They were shouting at him because if you put it in our own concept, yes, he deserves this is measured. When it comes to the budget. Even if you come with the shoes and the some people they might throw it through the window. You know, somebody said that by the way, if you see somebody who is praying in the shoe in his masjid, is going to throw him through the window.

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But this man, they were shouting at him. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told them,

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he said led to the removal. Done cut off his urine. So I want you to to ponder this. Don't cut off his theory. Not even stop doing what you do in note, don't cut off his urien which means let him go ahead. It's highlight. We couldn't say anything because this is Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was speaking.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I let him after he finished the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I called him.

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He came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he also received nothing but a smile from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I told him the same thing, almost the same thing where he told me how we will have a tsunami.

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The man was so happy. He went out of the masjid and raised his hand and say, Yeah, Allah. Listen, my brothers and sisters. He was so happy with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said, Yeah, Allah. Err, honey, you are Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Walter Hamana.

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He says, Yeah, Allah show mercy upon me and Muhammad. And yet Allah I want you not to show mercy upon anyone except me and Muhammad.

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Nowadays, a person might go out and curse above the Duat

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because of the way they put, you know, but Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam was not like that. You will never come to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you know, complaining, you know about this data or somebody is so rigid, you know, I mean towards you, and you find no place with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I'd never happened.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I call them out and smile. And tell him please take back that word. The Mercy of Allah smart Allah is so big.

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It is too big for me and you to accommodate to let everyone share.

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The last example concerning this bedwin visiting the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was

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Another example which some scholars said demand was called demand even.

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Some scholars said he was somebody else but whatever the case, there was a time when demand muta alibi came to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he came with his camel. Some said he brought the camel to the masjid and tie the camel inside the masjid does the fruit the first kill it added?

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It brought the camel and said there must be some scent. No he tried outside the Masjid. Whatever the case might be. The the man came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and he tied the camel in the place where they can see.

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So what happened was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I was watching and the companions were watching and he came to the Companions. And he said, with no edit. He said are you call Mohammed who is Mohammed?

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So they look at him, says Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam was there they cannot get angry, you know, but for sure inside them you don't know how much they burn in you know, the way he was asking is there a you call Muhammad? So people look at him they said how the Raju and the prophets Allah so macadam would tick and he was

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he was lying down putting his hand like this in the middle of the content, they were surrounding him. They were asking questions, they are enjoying their life, you know with Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam

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because when the companions were with Rasul Allah is Allah sama everyone feel mashallah comfortable, you know?

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That we share with you another one after this inshallah. So the man said,

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he went to the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, and then he put his head next to the head of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, another letter.

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He says, and even Abdulmalik Are you the son of Abdullah metallic?

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, Now I'm going to like it is now my told yes, I'm the one.

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The man said.

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He says that, I'm going to ask you questions. One was headed in Allah COVID masala. He said, I'm going to ask you questions when we shed did an alcohol masala and I'm going to be very harsh in my question. Subhanallah you can you can you can you can imagine how much the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam had to do to control their emotions.

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This word you say to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he said when we shut down a given muscle, I'm going to be very harsh. In my questions.

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He said for lethargy. Daliya. He said, Don't get attitude on me. So this is my condition. I'm going to ask you questions. And I'm going to be very strict in my questions, and please don't get angry.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said go ahead. Hon Allah.

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He said go ahead. The mindset and shoot you Kabila. I asked you by Allah, Allah who are CELAC.

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He said I asked you look at the question. The first question is really harsh. Is it I asked you about Allah?

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Is Allah I mean, the one who sent you.

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Were you sent by Allah I asked you by Allah are you sent by Allah Subhana Allah to Allah.

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Allah Allah Allah.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I told him, Yes, he sent me. He kept on asking him every question he asked, you will tell him as a Luca and he Luca Billa.

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Allah who comes to Salawat phillium or Leila Allah Who America and

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you know Allah subhanaw taala was the one who asked you to command people to pray.

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You know, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam answer all of his question one after the other, patiently with no anger on his face, until he finish Subhanallah look at how much we benefited from this, this attitude of Bahamas ally seller and guess what the man said? He said, Yeah rasool Allah, I'm so and so and so person developed, we thought about hope. And he said, you know, he said, you also lie, I am an agent. You know, my people, I'm representing my people they sent me actually to come and check about you. And whatever. He said, Yeah, Mohammed, he said and whatever I got from you, I'm going to relate to them.

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Imagine if the prophet said Allahu Allah who was similar was harsh with him. What kind of message is he going to send to the people back there?

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wisdom, wisdom, Allah He you have to understand this is a very strong message to all of us that when you're giving Dawa, you have to differentiate between people, you have to treat each and every one of the people that you're calling according to their own mentality and alcohol. There are things you can say here that you can say that there. There are things you can say with this person, but you cannot see them with another person.

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That's Rasul Allah is Allah Allah Himself.

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By the way, he dealt with the bad winds, knowing their attitudes and their manners and their cultural practices, you know, he managed to conquer those people with attitudes and manners.

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That SR whom the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in need of water, you know, he said, I live in Abu Talib and some somebody to go and look for water, they found an old woman.

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And this was narrating the story to us.

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Look at the mercy. This is an army. This is a judge. She was a woman and she was a calf era. She wasn't a Muslim. You know, I look at the respect they do not do anything to her. They beg How can we have the water because we're definitely in need of it. He said between me and and the water is three days. I have to spend three days to get water.

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I cannot sacrifice this water to give it to you. They said Please, if you don't mind, please come with us. To Rasul Allah.

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She said the one who ASABE it, the one who neglected and rejected religion of his people. They said yes, the one that you're talking about here. Don't say to her, yes, yes, his name is sorry, that was wrong. But they said the one that you meant, the one that she meant, because according to the non Muslims in those days, they call Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asabi Somebody who rejected the religion of his four, four parents.

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She went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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How did you learn this? They could have just used the mentality of some of the army and take it by force, that if they do not kill her,

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but they beg her to come and she agrees to go, she goes to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I told them, please can I get the water? So Hala, he made dua and even Malik said, I you people witnessed the water pouring from the fingers of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I use the water and the Companions used around three hundreds of them. And after that Subhanallah look at the Rama, they gave her back her water intact without taking a drop of it. They just use that water as a sub, because Allah subhanaw taala Jalili coalition semoga Allah can just bring the water just like that Allah can do that. doesn't meet this. But this is also a lesson for us, which time will not permit to go through this issue of the ASVAB. And also it is not part of what brought us here. So I will not go through it. But I just want you to know that in this life, everything has a cause. You make effort depend on Allah subhanaw taala and

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then you see, the good result is in light Allah on your way. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, I use it returned back the water intact in front of her eyes. She was monitored, this was not enough. No, we have benefited from your water. We're going to also benefit you, you benefited us, we're going to benefit you also. The prophets Allah has asked the companion to fill the bags, you know the empty places on her camel with food.

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What kind of the message she went and tell her people. He said you guys you should know when she went back to the village. She told them that you should know that I'm coming to you from either us how to nurse our Rasulullah either Rasul Allah or the biggest magician that ever existed, because he has seen that merges are in front of her eyes.

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So she informed her people what happened. And this mercy remain. The Muslim kept her from remembering this this kindness which came from the woman you know, they returned back the water to high you know, but whenever they fight people they kept on skipping her village. Whenever they go to find the people they will keep her village. At the end of the day she she got those home she can gather and she told them people have an advice to you. These people they have been skipping us for wisdom.

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I think they're just trying to return back the goodness we have done to them. It is better for us to go and accept this religion

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Subhan Allah mercy from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Look at where we go. That's why everyone because of this merci from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when they have a problem, they take it to rasool Allah, including the non Muslims. They take it to Rasul Allah is Allah Allahu Allahu Sama, including the numbers.

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One of the funniest stories that happened is a story of that Bedouin

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one of the people in Medina or from the Korea

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in Ramadan, this person had a relationship with his spouse.

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He approaches What wife sexually in Ramadan

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in the day of Ramadan, not in the night.

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So he talked to the people about what happened.

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He told him definitely you're in trouble. You're going to be in trouble.

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And when Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam I know about this

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Definitely intro pas que him so much.

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And subhanAllah the man went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are in a state of fear.

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He went to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in a state of fear.

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So they said he was dragging his government. He couldn't even have time to fix his hair. When he reached Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam and he said, Ya rasool Allah, Allah to Allah act. He said the IRIS will lie I destroy somebody, you know, I destroy myself and I destroy somebody also.

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yialos will lie I'm in trouble. He kept on repeating this. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I told him relax, relax.

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Melody, Melody, a HELOC. It's a What? What? What? What? What is it? That thing that destroyed you?

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The man said waka to Allah, Marathi, fina and Ramadan. He said I had sexual relationship with my spouse in the deal from Allah Subhan Allah. Imagine, I do believe if this question is supposed to be taken to some of us, they open for him a lecture, you know? Why did he do that? Yeah, he can't defeat Allah subhanaw taala all of these things that we have seen that example of them, you know, but look at Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, the man was so afraid of what is going to happen to him, you know, he went to the prophets that Allahu Allah was I mean, he said of fear. But what did he get from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam hope and mercy? He did not even dwell on the question. Why

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did you do that? Why? Why can't you be patient? And what makes you do this? You know, the Prophet said, Allahu Allahu sama did not even ask him a single question of this, of this nature.

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But he told him how to test appears and

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it says, Is it possible for you to free asleep? You know, he is even asking about his possibility. His ability to do that? Is it is it within your possibility to free asleep? Karla lair rasool Allah He said no error. So like I can't

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you know, that's also another issue because if it comes to one of us, you were telling me Okay, are you looking for a solution or not, you know, we're giving the solution and you're saying you cannot do it then why do you come to us? But Rasul Allah, He was not like that. When he asked him this question and demand said no, the prophets Allah some are close that file is it helps us to do and

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so much Sharon, widget RBI, can you fast to two month continuously?

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Can you fast two month continuously? He said no. Rasool Allah. In some narration, he says the IRS will lie. I got into trouble because of this. If I couldn't even fast one month, you know, I couldn't be patient and now you're giving me two months. So how can I do it?

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The professor Allahu Allah has moved to the last option.

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With no question. Why can't you do it? Can you go and borrow money? You know? I mean, can't you can to try and control your emotions and control yourself. The prophets of Allah Allah Himself, I did not open that file.

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He told him about the last option. Can you feed 60 needy people? The man said, No, Yasser Allah, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, or close the page Subhanallah he gave him comfort, he wasn't angry, he wasn't annoyed with him. That's why the mind relax. He didn't even go anywhere. And he sat with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and to continue enjoying his life with the Companions, you know.

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Subhanallah he was with his people, they gave the cause him to lose hope completely. He came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I found that the case is simple. It's not simple for a person to break the fast, but this is our strategy. You have to keep our two people you know, you have to do anything possible. Use wisdom, you know, to gain the heart to people. And this is Islam. If he is not going to be I mean if he's not able to do it, why do you make it mandatory upon him? Allah subhanho wa Taala says like live Allah when Epson Illa was.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he kept quiet and he kept quiet. So he sat next to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam waiting to see what will happen. Somebody brought a sack of timber, dates for charity. The Prophet sal Allahu Allahu Semaan. He got it. He told the man, where's the one who is intro? It said, Come, come, come, come. We've got a solution for your case. You said here is the sag in the back of the timber, take it and go and feed somebody. And then you get out of the problem. The man looked at the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and said, Allah of condominial Rasool Allah, it said, You mean I take this terminal and go and speed spend it on

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somebody who is poorer than me and Medina? He said, No way. Rasulullah he said, Well, Lady Bertha COVID Ma Ba in a lab but a lobate in Africa. Ramona.

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He says Dr. Su

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lie I swear by the one who sent you the truth there is no house in Medina which is poorer than my house. The most destitute house in Medina is ICRS villa. And now in the timber comes, and then you tell me go and take it and give it to somebody else. He said he also like Norway. They say Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam found is so funny and so interesting he loved had the ability in our Judo until the time they see his teeth is more or less.

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And then he told the man take it and go and feed your family with it. Omarosa que la Rahmatullah Alameen nobody came to the Prophet sallallahu Allahu Salah alone and lost hope. You can go to everywhere I lose hope but you didn't come to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I lose hope.

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Sisters when they get into trouble, they have nobody to come and report their case except Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. We have several example. To mention for this. I would just pick up one

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day told Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a man's beating them.

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For now Hanabusa Allahu Allah whose husbands are beating the wives. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I told them, You shouldn't beat anyone.

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The Companions, they listen to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, and they stop beating anyone.

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After a few minutes, and a few days, I'm sorry. Sister started taking advantage. You know, she does whatever she wants and the husband raised his hand to be to tell him Allah rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah who is

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not the one is that those those those community they are what caffeine in the Umbra in the visa Allahu alayhi salam, they always stand with the command of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam they didn't do. So when he decided to smack her when she told him color Azula said Allahu alayhi wa sallam, the Prophet said, the man will stop.

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So today, the next day the man went, Man, they went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi sama to complain that now they also lie that our house is gonna be controlled, because while they do whatever they want, and if I decided to smack her, you noticed Subhanallah and some people didn't have a middle, middle way, either smoking or

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Yadi I don't know. But there is no middle ground.

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Where as the manager of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I was not like that.

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We'll come back, come back to this be delight Allah. So let me conclude that dour

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say, I mean dimension, and then I come back to the family, and then the kids and then I close inshallah I know I've given only 45 minutes, and I have taken now 37. So let me just conclude that with the story of five, I think that was the most important thing we should know about the mercy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and not just with the Muslims, but even with the enemies of Islam, those who have harmed the Prophet sallallahu sallam. That's why the companion said mentor Carmen Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam Malinowski, he came to Atlanta and Takahama to ALLAH, Rasool Allah salAllahu alayhi wa sallam and never took revenge for himself. If you see the Prophet

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sallahu, WA sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are taking revenge, you should confirm that. I mean, you should conclude, you know, you must conclude that there was something somebody was violating, which is the right of Allah subhanaw taala, not the right of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam alone

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the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was rejected and by when he was in Makkah,

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he went to the

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I'm sorry, what's the rejected by the McCain's. So he went to the time looking for support, as these are the closest neighboring city to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam five is about 90 kilometers from Mk I visited the place, very nice place and cold place also. We are suffering from the temperature and McCobb and we went to die if we got sick, because of the temperature that is a bit colder than then then.

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So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I went to that place looking for support and for those of you who have opportunity to visit the place in the future, visit the place you're using that the land you know, use a car so that you can see that those Jeeva you know, and Derek which is what era very difficult road, you can understand how much the Prophet said Allahu Allahu sama encounter are difficulty to reach the people of life.

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He went and he met up the LA

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Subhan Allah. They spoke to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in the in the very, very disgusting way. One of them said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Are you trying to convince us that Allah subhanaw taala couldn't find somebody else to send as his final messenger except you

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they were on three of the each and every one of them let the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I hear an evil word from them against those who live their lives.

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Was that enough? No, it wasn't.

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They gave him a very bad response. When the Prophet sal Allahu Allahu selama, went out to go back to Makkah.

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They send those mean element, and the wicked and the stupid among the people of that community in those days, to carry stone and stone, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he and his freed slaves, they've had it. There was tone, and they blend. In some narration, even his shoes are full of blood, although there are some question mark, but he bled because of that. You know, he was almost going to be killed and the prophets that Allahu Allah who some have found it to be the most difficult moment he ever encountered in his life. Because I told him after the battle or hurt, because the Battle of the province and Allahu Allah You said I was almost going to be killed.

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Until the time Allah sent special angels to come and protect the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we believe Allahu Allah and they were Gibreel and mica aid, because somebody said he saw rasool Allah said Allahu Allahu sama would to man, you know, they put him in the middle one of them I mean, both of them are wearing a very an extremely white cloth called in swords. And they said they never saw them in their life. You can see the angels they interfere Allah's martyrs and the angels and use those special angels to come and interfere, you know that yes, the situation is very critical.

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So that was better heard the prophets Allah Ha, listen, I was told by Aisha, did you ever see a moment like the Battle of hurt? A difficulty like the one that you face in the Battle of the province that Allahu Allah who said, um, I said, Yes, ei Shah. And then he narrated to her the story of five salah. He said, This one is worse than what I met in it.

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So they were almost going to kill the province that Allah Allah Who set him on Allah asthma to protected him.

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And so Hanalei, guess what? On the way back to Makkah? Gibreel. tuft him

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for sure you really angry, and he came along with him with the angel of mountains and debris told him Tuesday, salam, O Allah, rasool Allah, the Prophet, Allah Azza wa saw him and he recognized him. He says, this is up with you. And alas, mahalo. Tell us so what he heard what was said to you and he, he saw what was done to you.

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And Allah subhanho wa Taala sent along with me, the angel of mountains, the one, the angel that takes care of the mountains

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and the angel said salaam to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said to him, yeah rasool Allah, Allah subhanaw taala sent me to you.

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And moto levy Manisha. Just give me whatever you want. But I have a proposal elsewhere. It's a My proposal is let me take the two mountain the next five and just bash and smash them would

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just kill all of them.

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Somebody among us mice blame the angel of mountain you know, why do you need to tell me just go and do it and then tell me what happened

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is it's too late. It's supposed to take action.

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But Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam knows that he is mercy for humankind.

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So what did he tell the engine of mountain? He says, No, I don't want that.

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He says he needed.

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He said, I have a hope. That if these one did not accept me, Allah Spa Hotel, bring out of them somebody who will worship Allah smart Allah, Allah Subhana Allah.

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can see the angel came to take revenge on his behalf. Rasulullah salAllahu alayhi salam, I told him no, I don't want that.

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He said I will keep on trying to see maybe there will be a time when they will accept him and I hope in sha Allah, if they reject me from their children, Allah subhanaw taala will bring somebody who will accept Allah subhanaw taala

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did that happen? Yes, it did happened. The people of time after Fatima QCCA they came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam by themselves to Medina and accepted Islam. Subhan Allah.

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Allah Muhammad Rahmatullah Valerie. So as I said, my brothers sisters, Wallah who ever talk against the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I did not know the Prophet salallahu.

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Abu Sufyan when he talks about the attitudes of Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam, I go and get that hadith in Sahih al Bukhari in the early book of Suhail Bukhari in the first volume, get the Hadees of Abu Abu Sufyan when he met her reckless, the hierarchal, the Emperor of Rome. See that excellent conversation between the grid

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It is an entity in Christianity in those days. And not only that, that was the greatest power in terms of the physical power, the greatest power that exists on earth. Why the Persians, I'm sorry, the Romans at that time, because they have already defeated the Persians. So they're taking the lead. That's the reason why he promised the hecklers to go to metal market. This is on his on his food he walked. If you don't want to ride as an appreciation to that which Allah smarter granted him during his journey, the letter of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam met him from the behavioral can be go read that letter and seeing the confession of her reckless and the confession of abuse Libyan

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who was then a Catholic, not a Muslim, but he said I have been trying to see a way that I can accuse and criticize of Salah is Allahu Allahu Salam I couldn't find because he said he knows that if he said anything bad about the mercy and the attitude and the madness of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he will be lying and his people are going to narrate this. Because of Zulu lights. Allahu alayhi salam it was not like that. The best method of Dawa was the Tao of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was gentle, lenient. That's why nobody has a room against the prophets, Allah Anna, who said in terms of our I mean critic to greet in terms of manners, and the attitude.

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So let's move to the conclusion. Talk about the family life and the life in the community somehow, if time permits.

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The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam is home.

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If you're looking for the Most Merciful, the Most Merciful husband is Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. The Most Merciful Father is Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam, the Most Merciful friend these companion is Rasul Allah He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam.

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At home, the wife of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, regardless of the nature of the house, they couldn't find a second thought in their mind to choose other than Rasul Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam or when Allah gave them a choice, they have two options, either to choose to live with Rasul Allah, or to choose to be divorced and the prophets Allah Allah sama can release them they can go and marry whomsoever they wish.

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But guess what was their choice. They do not choose anyone, and go and ask history to tell you what kind of life they used to live with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,

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the life of hardship in terms of material life. Aisha said sometimes we spent two months without making fire in the house to cook food. They ask her what were you eating then? She said Tambor, and water, date and water.

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And sometimes if we're blessed that last Mahana who were to Allah we get some additional milk we share among us.

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But when Allah smart Allah gave them option to choose to go to somewhere else where they can get the richness of the material life. They said, No. When the province that Allahu Allah who said about Ayesha, he said, I shall before you make a decision, ask you for the first he said he also like to stay with you. You are telling me she found it. Very strange for him to mention that. It's like criticism against her stayin with you. He also like I need to go and talk to my father for this.

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So go and see how did he live with them to understand why the wife of Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam, I believe that they have no option except Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and we cannot see somebody like him.

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I will give you one example. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam I came back home

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and I shall was sleeping.

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He took off his shoes slowly slowly. So that Asha would not wake up.

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Take this to the Ayesha will not wake up.

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We get angry when we come back home and the reception was not that

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And some of us will make some some some some man out. You know, they approach the house so that the wife will get ready or else dunya will be upside down in the house. The kids will stop playing because the monster is coming back to the house.

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But Rasul Allah is someone who came to the house. He's entering the house at night. He knows he has died in the room so he was taking off his shoes in a very slow way. gentle way, the narrator says so that Aisha will not wake up the prophets Allah salAllahu alayhi salam I get inside the house gets into the room of Aisha and he lie down to sleep slowly, slowly so that Asha will not wake up. And Aisha she was the one who was narrating their story, you know? And she said, I was I was, I wasn't sleeping. I was awake, because he was waiting for him to come back. That day was hottie you know

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So the brothers that Allah is Emma just lie down, and then he stood up and went out again. So I had thought maybe he is going to stay with some other wives he thought she thought he is I mean, he thought she's leaving. So she followed him in secret to see what exactly is he going to do? She kept on following until the time the prophets that Allah is ever gets into the macabre, the Maqbara the graveyard of Bucky which is next to the to the house.

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And he makes a long dua for them.

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So I shouted Allahu anha. She when she saw that him going to the Maqbara and she waited silly, she doesn't trust so when the prophets that Allah Allah sama turned back, is coming back home, when I saw him, she ran away.

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The prophets Allah, Allah is Emma so something black moving very fast. But he didn't know what was that because this is not didn't have electricity for him to know who is exactly that one. So he didn't say anything. He just moved to his house. He and debris Larissa because he was the one who called him at that in that moment. So he went back home when he reached his room, because of the distance which is so short, I shall couldn't control her her breathing. She kept her breathing very hardly, you know, she kept him brief and very hardly. So the province that Allahu Allah whosoever asked her, he said, Yeah, Isha. What happened to you? Jackie che Pollock? He said, Yeah, Aisha, what

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happened to you? Did you shut down visit you?

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He's, he's a new Arizona.

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She's mad. She said nothing else Allah. He said, No, there has to be something how can we just breathe and just like that? She said, no error. So like, there is nothing you know? He said, Either you tell me Oh Allah subhanaw taala is going to tell me what exactly is going on?

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She said yes, Allah, that's the problem. We cannot hide anything, whatever we hide, Allah is going to tell you what happened you.

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And then she started talking. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi summary realized where he where she is going. He hit her shoulder hitting the shoulder is not like he gave a punch, you know, there's a bit

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that how they you think in this way, you know, he said, Do you think that Allah Subhana Allah and His messenger are going to deceive you?

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And subhanAllah Guess what? That was the end of the discussion. Subhan Allah. That was the end of the discussion. The topic completely was forgotten. And she started asking him jasola When I go to the graveyard, what should I do? Yeah, rasool Allah, that topic that, that that I mean, thought that she has about the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam or which was bad, you know, it was gone the case is closed.

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Pass Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam.

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During the Battle of bundle was telic when she lost her necklace, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked the army we're talking about Jaysh please do remember that these are soldiers. So just don't respect who they respect, you know?

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These are soldiers you know, and the army and they will under wave from the battle you know.

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The prophets Allah Allah sama told them that they have to wait and look for her necklace.

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The necklace and they stop for it. The army stopped because of this.

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And they had to wait.

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So you can see the mercy the prophets Allah Allah sama did not want to break her feelings.

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He said he told them she has a look for it. And it wasn't hers. She bought it from her sister asthma.

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While they were looking for it, somebody went to her father, Abubakar and told him, did you see what I shared with their loved one had it

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to the Muslims and to the Prophet sallallahu sallam? He said no, I do not know what did she do? They said she stopped people in this place and that is no water to be used in the place

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of work. I said, did she do that? Say yes, he went he left them in a very angry mood.

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He went to the to Aisha and fortunately for him, he found the Prophet sallallahu it was so easy is like there is no issue with the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He found Rasul Allah is Allah and selama sleeping and he asked Aisha to sit down and he put his head on her thigh.

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her thigh was the pillow of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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I know my time is over. Before he gets me out, let me finish this and quickly conclude. So So the Prophet sal Allahu Allah has put her head, his head on on her thigh. And he was sleeping. Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Allahu Anhu met her in that situation.

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And now what can he do? If he's smart, he was cream and also last Allaha Izumo will wake up.

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He also doesn't want this. So he got into trouble also he wants to take revenge. You want to punish her for keeping the Muslim because of that necklace. You know, why didn't she tell him you know, you can just buy it for her.

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So Abubakar went to her and he pinch her on the waist. I just said it was very painful.

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I'm supposed to cry. I was trying to control myself. But then I remember if I cry I'm going to shed tears and it will fall under Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and Rasul Allah is Allah Izumo will wake up Subhan Allah.

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Look at the mercy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and look at the best example that woman I shouted Allahu Anhu. Again, to all the sisters on Earth, because nowadays we have a lot of claim that my husband is not like Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, but we forgot at the same time also she is not acting like the whites of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Camerata Kulu you Allah Allah,

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Allah subhanaw taala will let you join the person who is similar to you. Because if you are so perfect and so good, the husband also will learn from you and be able to light Allah it will be less than for him to learn how to be mercy in merciful in house living with you.

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So that's an example we do have a lot but as I said, I was given only 45 minutes and I have taken 10 more minutes. But if the moderator agrees, I will just conclude with this lovely story of Annecy, Ben Malik with Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam, and then I will pass the mic back to him. Insha Allah. And as you know, Malik was a very young person that was given to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam or to help and support him in his house. He said, I lived with him for eight years. Eight years he was living with the prophets, Allah Allah is here Rasulullah sallallahu sirmon never told me why did you do this? Or why didn't you do this?

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That was his life with the kids. It was given hotbar and Hassan Hussein came at the Prophet SAW must get down, you know, stop the hotbar and go and get the one who came to him and hold him until the believers I really love this. This this killed. He was praying one day one of them came and right on his back. You know, that was maybe the longest dude the companions of the Prophet SAW loss of experience. They started looking up to see what happened to rasool Allah is Allah is Allah. And they saw the boy on the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I did not want to disturb him. He let him finish his job first. And after he finished the prayer, you know, he

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did not do anything wrong. The prophets Allah sama took him and put him on his thigh. And he looked at the companions, and he told them a love, I love him so much.

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You know, you can see how the kids are not going to come to the masjid, if we deal with them in this way. When the child comes to the mercy, we chase him away. So listen to this conclusion of mine, about how to deal with the children when you are very merciful to them. Wallahi, I'm telling you, my brothers, sisters, your child will not lie to you, and he will be honest with you. And he will listen to you, and He will take you at the best friend. And this is what we need at this contemporary era, which almost everything is contaminated. You can control your children, and it shouldn't be have alternative. You know, they do things in your presence, but behind you, they do

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other things. And they're looking for a way actually to get rid of you. Because the community is given tarbiyah not us. Even if keep them at home, they take from the internet, they take from the friends more than the way they take from you. But listen to the manager of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how did he manage to catch the heart of the children and to become the most merciful father to the kids? He told us he will Malik you know other said he never told me why Why didn't you do this? And if I got blaming the house here to tell them, please don't blame him. makuti by your code, whatever is written by Allah smarter will take place.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I sent him. He said Anna, Anna said to the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, I will not come. And he said, I have in my my heart that I will go. But you see, he knows that the prophets Allah sama is very gentle and lenient. That's why he he told him this. And then he said, the IRS will, how can I help you? He took the things and go to the place where the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I sent him on the way and is even nomadic, he found kids playing, instead of going to where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I sent him. He stopped on the way to play with the kids.

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So what happened was the prophet said Allahu Allahu sama was waiting and he got tired of waiting. So he went to an assembler Malik. I mean, he followed him he found him right away, wasting time watching the game. The province that Allahu Allahu selama Look at him. And he says, here always, you know, subhanAllah even the name when he he called it, you know, with with with tasveer, which was love, you know, he's like Anna's didn't do anything wrong. He said, Yeah, Honest, honest look behind. He saw solar lights a lot so smiling to him

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okay, I believe that that was the biggest message that my time is up. So let me

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quickly, quickly wrap up in sha Allah so honest even Malik said I saw Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam behind me talking to me in that way and smiling. And he said, I'd have to hate America. Yeah, yeah. Oh, nice. Did you go to where I sent you? And then Annecy will Malik said

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Insha Allah, even in this time also, he will not confirm that. But he says the other way inshallah

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which I call one of the best remedy my brother, sisters, for us to tackle that issue of lying. You know, why is your child lying to you because he's afraid of punishment. If you're merciful to your child, you don't punish. It is you? I mean, hide that the whip and the stick. You know, you take it too far from them, you know, you have a life of compassion and love with them, even light Allah, they will speak the truth in every aspect of their life. So as I said, My dear brothers and sisters, the talking about the mercy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is Bihar Allah dasa, hallo. We cannot finalize it in a day or two days, you know. So I guess this is more than enough to show to

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us how Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam was and I really advise each and every one of us to have a time to read the spirit of the prophets of Allah Allah Who set him up with care. That is a book written by mubarak for

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equal Makoto to the sealed nectar. Very small, concise, and very interesting. Also read about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, and try to know who is Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam and have a love of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam and imitative and and the best the best

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Okay, sorry. I guess the problem is from my side.

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Sorry, I guess the problem is from my side. The best way to show love to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is to is to follow his sunnah really advise each and every one of us to understand this concept properly. That's the only way for guidance follow the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in every aspect of your life.

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Ibrahim Adham says in Sebata Allah tell us and Alec Illa, sunnah Farfan if you can make every single part of your life according to the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I do it. Allah subhanaw taala says we're into to, to have to do, be kind, be gentle, be merciful to everyone, believe it, use wisdom and always love good to the people. That was the attitude of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam throughout his life and ask Allah subhanaw taala to grant his good and to forgive whatever we have said in this platform which was wrong. And may Allah subhanaw taala reward the organizers of the event and put it in the middle of your Hassan ad

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Thank you.

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We as the students, you know, we really need this kind of speech from time to time. And before we open the question and answers time, I would like to announce that you have the chance all attendees to get 100 Malaysian ringgit

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I would like also to give a brief about the profit of the series initiative, presenting by having a chapter aims to increase the knowledge of our Prophet peace be upon him and by presenting some several competitions

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like testing knowledge with Gumroad, we already did it, beginning of the week, and be the voice and sketch sorry, we could figure out more Instagram account. And now if you have

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any questions to the time, feel free to just raise your hands. And we will pick up with a front of chat or you can express express your question

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is what our systems

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one of the better was messaging in the chat was that I have been, I have questions.

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I have question. Okay, how as we are the students and III, I mean, you know, the pressure, you know?

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So how can we balance between the academic life and the spiritual life?

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Okay, Bismillahirrahmanirrahim actually, there is there is no contradiction between the academic life and the spiritual life.

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Somebody asked me

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a speech that I'm supposed to be delivering about live after the graduation. So I told them, I prefer to twist the topic to live before the graduation, you know, because we talking about how to succeed after you graduate. So and I do believe that success should take place in your life before you graduate. And in fact, I see the life in the university as a big opportunity given to a person to reflect because most of us were away from our families, even if you're here, a Malaysian usually you come all the way from another stage to UI, you left your family. So technically, you are given 24 hours, which are all yours without being snatched by anything except your education in the

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university. So if you look at the university, you know, as I always mentioned that, we just don't want to be realistic, you know, to ourself, the university takes average, Li five hours from you in a day, I think, average the, the classes take around five hours, five hours, five hours, you still have 19 hours left from the 12 hours, take if you're going to follow the excellent strategy learning, you know, take two more hours, you know, to revise that which you learned in the classes, which almost nobody is doing except a few.

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And this is a very excellent method. That's why we suffer a lot during the examination. You know, because you let the whole semester to be accumulated in one time, and then you come and study everything in one night. It doesn't go like that. And then sometimes when I fail, the first person to be questioned and to be blamed is who? The lecture of course. So so so if you want the good strategy is take two hours from those 12 hours given to you by Allah subhanaw taala added to the five hours, you have seven hours of education, two hours is more than enough to revise. And if you take two hours from 19 hours, you're going to be left with what 17 hours 17 hours, what do you do

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with them, you know, take eight hours from them, you know, take eight hours from them, you know, you still have nine hours, eight hours for you to sleep, nine hours, what do you do in them?

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These nine hours, your prayers, you know, sitting down in the masjid, attending some of the classes, you memorize Quran if you do not memorize Quran yet, you see these nine hours because nobody among us will tolerate playing for nine hours. Although sometimes we do with the existence and advancement of the technology. We do waste more than nine hours actually. But I think this is not the way of a believer time is very valuable. Wallahi My dear brothers and sisters, one of the most vile, valuable thing, I mean item you have elements you have in this life is your time is very valuable. And as a Muslim, you don't have time to waste. So that's the reason why I said there is no contradiction.

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Accommodating a good life, spiritual life being good. I think people who are living back home because you'd have less opportunity that we have in here. You're going to meet friends, you're going to see people who are having different approaches. If you're looking for the righteous one, there are some people who went beyond the limit actually in righteousness. You know you have every type of choice that you can get in your company that can help you to remain in touch with Allah subhanaw taala spiritually. So Honestly speaking, I don't see contradiction at all. I see an opportunity given to us but unfortunately we're not using it. We spend the full

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us going back home sometimes sometimes my last month to protect as a different person not in terms of righteousness but another person which our parents sometimes regret for sending us to where we are where we are in May Allah subhanaw taala grant is good

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we have

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an inquiry I guess Okay leave asking you for finding your

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videos lectures so he couldn't find in

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Yeah, brother Islam review. Okay. So he's asking for your lectures

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good. He couldn't find it

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I didn't know what to do. But so Hi, can I ask him to link with you?

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Okay, says I'm here with so Hi.

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We are almost together in all of the classes we have four classes in a week.

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Every every Tuesday I have read the side here at

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five 5pm Here Malaysian time and every Saturday, Tuesday we have the salah Hain and every Saturday I have a blue boomerang also the same time and every Monday I have very interesting book, the Book of Abraham had done what they were talking about sickness and diseases and medicine and the illness is very good book every Monday and Thursday. So these are the five classes weekly that are taking place every every every every 5pm inshallah so be the light Allah Suheil might give you his contact if you want much detail about the classes, the class is open for everyone. If you think it's beneficial for you, you are highly welcome join us in this Saturday inshallah.

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Inshallah, sisters, if you have any questions, don't hesitate

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ask questions.

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Can I ask something?

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Just a very quick question. Did you guys record this?

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Week such as me? Did you record this session? No, unfortunately.

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I think so. So hi. So how did

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does YouTube channel? Okay, thank you

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okay, anyone have a question or inquiry?

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Feel free by the systems

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message with the

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link for the classes to the group, please.

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I think

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Cynthia, since the government

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Yeah, using the Google meet, he sent him the link this that link is the permanent that link is the permanent link for all the classes

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that's nice.

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All right. I think we

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coming to the end of this session.

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Really glad to have you Dr. Brahim. On behalf of Halloween shelter and running club. We are really glad that we have you today. And I hope this series will continue on sha Allah

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thank you everyone for attending this session. I hope everyone gets something today.

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Thank you all the committees as well.

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Posters I send you the process maybe.

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Thank you, if you have any questions of us, contact us. You could find the information

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in case somebody has a follow up question be the light Allah at any moment. You can send me a message. preferrable voice message that's easy.

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for me to understand and also you to express yourself more in sha Allah and then I will answer you as 018 or if brother Hafeez can put it in the chat that will be good inshallah. 0182709817018270981701827098179817

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Okay, thank you very much. May Allah reward you all. I really appreciate it and allows me to help us to pass the test in this life and meet Allah subhanaw taala peacefully BarakAllahu Li groomzilla Wallach, Marathi Allah