Moderation in Worship 3

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why central? How do you how do you hammered in sir Allahu alayhi wa sallam for more than 134 kilometers in Mira, wakulla beratan Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Allah for now.

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Last week,

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we have heard the commentary on

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the scene of a last hurrah baja mountains and now Lika Khurana Leticia

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inlet at Carrollton Lima yaksha 10 00 am in Manhattan, at Lola

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and also the saint of Allah subhanaw taala. It is a law we commonly use when are you ready to be cumulus?

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So, this is quoted by Rama Noah we under the chapter of electricity, Fatah.

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We had introduced the chapter so today insha Allah will be the first

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time we will deal with the first Hadees mentioned by mama no and under the second chapter. Carla and I Chateau de la Juana, and then the DSN Allahu Allah He was selama de la la ha, we're in Doha, in Morocco. column and Howdy.

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Kala tada he falana tell kuruman salatu wa Taala la can be multicoat la la Jai Lai Amala ha ha ohata tomoloo wacana habla de la wacana habla de la la dama

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what kind of DNA a de la e Ma Ma sahoo Allah

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his Hadees of Ayesha he came back to the house of eyeshadow de la ronda. And he found one of the sisters who visited eyeshadow de la vida.

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So don't forget we were talking about electricity, Fatah how a person should be moderate and follow the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam exactly, precisely without going beyond the boundaries. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I met this woman with a Chateau de la vida, de column and

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, Who is this sister? Aisha?

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kulana Ayesha she said this is so on so on. So

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tell kuruman salata and she mentioned to the prophets that Allahu Allah who somehow our attitudes concerning the prayers, whoa, how does he pray? It means he does started praising the system. Because to them, as she is one of the unique personalities living in a time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, because she prays it's nice to Allah subhanaw taala all the night. She doesn't sleep that much. And so I was praising her she was telling the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam about this, what she perceived to be the most excellent attitude to be done to please Allah subhanho wa Taala calama Allah can be magic. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, ma was

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like, wait a minute, what are you talking about?

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Tell her to do that which she can continually do. What she can be consistent. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked her to do what she can afford. In terms of the night prayer. Somebody might say, but she can afford that she's doing that. That's why she does it.

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But once the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Allah can be matakohe he's referring to what he will set in. He will say in the last part of the Hadith, when he says for a lie, lie Amala hatakeyama know.

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The scholars said the meaning of lamb and will lie aka Sahaba ra Kumar Jazeera America as a commentary given by Obama and now he is Islam a new law. Alas, Montel will never stop rewarding you for the act of worship you're doing to please Him.

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until the time you've cut off yourself. So what does that mean? It means Why do you start doing something that you know you cannot make it continuous? Why can't you take something which is moderate, which you can do it even at the old age? That was a thing that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sinharaja That's why he says,

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lemon law had determine what can I have good de la habla de la medalla sobre la, the most beloved acts of worship and deeds to Allah subhanho wa Taala is, is that which will make it consistent? So consistency is needed. What does that mean? It means you think wisely, smartly, before you decide about what the quantity when you're talking about the action, know about the action, as long as the promise allows, or does it you doing you'll be rewarded. But you know, the professor last summer opened the door for you to choose the quantity you want. Right? So you can do to record good attendance record, you can record, you can go beyond that, what she was doing, she was going to be

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on that. And this is one of the reason and the evidence used by the scholars of Islam such as here from Islam, and many others to say that the night prayer, the night prayer has no limit in terms of the quantity.

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It says in one of his writings, shameful Islam that the self or Salah the predecessors, they used to decide the amount based on the time. If one of them wakes up early, he will pray precisely in the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam, I used to pray, and then you pray 11 recall because he's gonna make a long recitation. And then he will be able to place 11 record, he get it at night, and then sleep and take some rest. But if he wakes up, and he finds out that the time that remains, I mean to fudger is very little. In this case, he says they intensify the amount of the situation that occurred, they minimize their situation, they make a lot of suit. And also if you look at as one of

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our scholars was swearing about last March, or that limiting this type of in the night prayer with numbers to say that somebody cannot go beyond that. This is lack of understanding of the muscles of the heaviness of the profit and loss. Because there was no place whatsoever where the professor last summer said, you have to make it this. But why did he choose for himself he chose for himself 11 because I shall said he never increased, never decrease. And I'm telling you, this is the most moderate one. You get it. He didn't say to this woman because she prays the whole night at the live inhabitable ask was praying the whole night. And also another Hadees also that we're going to see

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also they're praying the whole night, the prophets Allah sama did not tell anyone of them. You shouldn't pray more than 11 record. He don't tell them but he told them be smart. When you decide, pray that which you can maintain because in your old age, you might not be able to do this.

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Good idea. The choice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the base of the choices, the most moderate when we're talking about the exercise, right? This is why you should tell people not that you restrict them where Islam does not restrict, if there is a highest which says that then philosophy tell people this, but if you don't find anything specific from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam then he just leave people with that which they chose for themselves and their last mortality one weirdo, but what he should advise people is to restrict themselves to that which is chosen by the professor Lawson. I call it the most moderate one. And the most easy one look at our

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massages in the first part of Ramadan. How's it

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is like celebration come to the masjid the first day of Ramadan. You see Mashallah. He didn't find a space to the masjid is full.

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You get it? The second day the Muslim was started getting hungry.

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People reduce a bit the third day hollers now we're familiar with the fasting, the mazie will become abnormal.

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Attendance will be very low. And then look at the people after after eight record. What happened to the Muslim? Everyone goes

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together. Sometimes you just find a mom with some in some massage a mom with some two or three people.

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So why can't you make it 11 since everyone is growing, if you make it 11 people would get the best reward. You know why? Because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Salaam said, Mung comma, mera emailed me he had tion Sarris coochie Bella who came later Oh come upon into the selasa whoever plays with the mob until instead of the scholar set in Salafi means the prayer finish and in some people says no, we have different types of a mob if one finish then the person

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It's finished No. The professor last summer This is done the center of the scholars until the end of the prayer. So if I pray, you get demand which the vast majority of the people usually go out of the Muslim I pray that amount you get, I helped them to get that big reward which is prescribed by the prophets that Allah Allah Himself.

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So that's why moderation in this regard means we're following precisely what was done by the professor last summer is always the best. But as I tell you, when you look at the source, as the scholars mentioned, from the early generation up to this moment, you don't find any restriction from the browser last summer, but their advice from the professor of law is on that person should take that which he can, can maintain, what can happen Amanita Allahumma damata he saw Hebrew, the most beloved deeds to Allah subhanaw taala is that which the owner of that act of worship, he maintained it continuously until he meets Allah subhanho wa Taala. So, this we learn from this that as I said,

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a person should be very smart in everything you should be moderate on moderation, as I always mentioned, is to follow precisely as soon as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Palawan Annecy radi Allahu Allah wa Salatu Ratan Isla Mujeres as well as in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam. Yes aluna Nevada Chinnery Salalah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Fatima ofuro Canon takala makalu ionantha mina Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam de votre Allahumma

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salli wa Taala Amma Amma Ana de la de

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Allah azza wa jal Suma de hora

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wakawaka one zero Nisa Fela Aveda Fatah Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a haka and tamala de Nepal Tim Keller waka ama wala in Nila shaquem Lila watts alchemilla law club, but I can only assume all of that, whilst all suddenly you are part of the Virgin Lisa common vagabond suniti are so many

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very important

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which precisely fit the chapter, Mr. manoli courses had his wisdom is the three people came to the house of the Prophet salallahu alaihe, Salam

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ala, which as originally said alongside, yes, aluna, but it's in the visa laws. And they asked about the worship of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam for the mouth view. So they asked about the DS and the attitude of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi semafo.

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So that's the proper set of laws. That's why the scholars said, You will never see somebody who looks like hammers and allies.

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There was no life of a man that is documented properly, like that are Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He permits the companions internally and outwardly also those people who meet him outside generate every single thing they see from him. So these brothers, they came to the house of the professor last summer, and they asked the wives about what exactly the professor lohardagan was doing at home.

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Again, they want to imitate the province that Ally's.

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Salama for Gangnam takanohana they told him what he did.

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To them it looks like this is so little. Online when I read this I always question myself what exactly they're looking for?

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Because the province that Allahu Allah who sent him out of the house, he knows almost everything, preparing for jihad, preparing for the prayer may consider who Akali Who am I? Who am Robbie tapani when there is no raha in the life of the Prophet Alison, as one of the scholars said, the prophets Allah never tastes rest. Since last March I revealed to him Yeah, you have more death there, combine them never relax. Even when something that panics people in the society I mean happened they will come out before they reach the place the prophet SAW some already came back. He went before everyone to check and see

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Can he the prophet SAW someone never get dressed at all? And when he comes back home, you think he's going to sleep? Yeah, he's asleep, but it's not like the way we sleep. They mentioned that he said, I mean he stand before a lot smarter for three to four or five hours. The prompts are some pretty solid. In one record, he recited certain baccala we have heard this Hadees many times, right? So tillbaka earlimart alima made Nisa in one record. Second Becca how's it gonna be? But that's the first record is like that. Even Ayesha was was worried about him. He prays like that.

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This is the daily life of the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, and also sometimes the bit, he get to rest to relax, you get it jabril will come and take him out.

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And he prays like that it just go back to sleep and God will come and tell him how much less go there is a mention of last month I want you to do

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like in the heads of Russia, it once fulfilled that which alas much asked him to do and then he came back home.

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That was some of the activities of the prophets Allah so much hope. But then when they were told this, what did they say? They said this is a little that's what exactly exaggeration and gloom means tight if you don't do it like Mohammed Salah Salem, how are you going to do that? He took he could bring something much greater than that of Hamas Allah is Allah.

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Cala haddow

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Carlo na na nanana Milena bisa la hora de cada warfare Allahumma condimentum do Mata.

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They said no, we can be like the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he is totally different. He will not they were right. But that interpretation the way then the sign is wrong at that. I mean, just because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam received this forgiveness from a lot smarter. Does that mean he shouldn't be thankful to a lot smarter? That's what he told I shall she said Yasuda law to suddenly How can you pray like this? You look at your feet.

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You get it? They became so big.

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So she was afraid of that, that I mean something happening to the professor.

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He says Yahshua because you told him Yes, we'll let you do that. Knowing that last mahalo tada after you know that last March, Allah forgive all of your sins. And he granted the best position in Paradise and you do like this. The province Allah said Ayesha, just because Allah subhanaw taala granted me this favor, then I just relax, I can be thankful to Allah subhanho to Allah, Allah hawkwell. And that's just appreciation, right? And if Imagine if he did not receive this good news from Allah smarter, how is he going to make his life better? So these people when they came to the house of the Romans last summer, they made the wrong interpretation. together. They said, Allah

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forgive his sins, you get it and a lot smarter, forgive his mistakes, and he's protected by law smarter, he is given the best place in paradise. We are not like, therefore we have to go more more than that. They forgot to realize that more than what is done by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam could lead you to a guru.

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That's why the Prophet said a lot. That's why one of them said, Carla, Hello. I'm Anna for Sunday, Elaine Abba. of them said I will never sleep at night. I will pray the whole night.

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Masha. Allah,

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wa Suma de la vida, the other one says, I will never eat in the daytime. I will always pass for the sake of the last monitor.

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wirkkala were tested in the last one says I will never marry

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marriage will distract him. He said he will never marry

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for that is our Java it will never marry ever that forever.

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But Joshua meiselas

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I came, he found them and he heard what they said

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right sakala and Tamil Nadu in Appleton Cara waka is Were you the one who was saying this and that

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Allah Allah Allah, Allah Allah says yes, Yasser Allah, Allah, Allah Allah.

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Look at the the guidance, he says Allah will live in need of shall come the law.

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I mean, what is that thing that is motivating you to go beyond that which is done by the

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taco for last hour Tada. Right. And the hash of a lot smarter right? pipe. If this is a case, who is that person that has more taqwa than the professor Lawson will lie that's a joke. If somebody thinks that his talk was like that of Mohammed, that's a joke.

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The joke of the year somebody thinks that he can even reach the prophets of Allah hottie So, no matter how much this person is,

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some of the angels they were commanded by last martyr to weigh the heart of the prophets Allah or to weigh him with the best person they do. And the prompts are some became heavier than that. And then of the day to do with this with that with this with that, at the end of the day, one of them says if you are going to weigh him on the scale, with the whole hit all of his FOMO he will be better than them. Even Abubakar is a man is better than all of us. And above all, cannot be equal to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam that's the belief of the companions. That's a belief of our work. That's what we do.

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came and Abubakar was the one who was leading the prayer. The province Awesome. All right, Abu Bakar came behind me came back word to give chance to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Look at the comment.

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The prophets Allah, some are selling him stays, they say he was coming back. It's coming back until the time the provinces are he he went and he stood next to him.

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After they finished the prayer, the province Allahu Allah who said um, I said, Yeah, Baba, what deprive you from maintaining the position when I asked you to stay in the new position, how to pray behind you. Look at the comment. People who know their position. You know what he says? He says Mark and I live in Abu hanifa. He didn't even say Abu Bakar look at the way he belittled Islam. He says Mark and I live in Abu hanifa it is inappropriate for even Abu hanifa to be the imaam in a Muslim where I was from Lhasa Lhasa is the Mahmoud cannot go like that. He was praying without the lightness old one, I'm sorry of the light when I buzz. They were praying side by side. Abdullah

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bascom, backward. The professor brought him forward. He went back again, he brought him forward, he went back again. You know this little bot. Whenever the Prophet brought him he will go back again. after they finish the prayer, the prophets Allah someone said, even a bus was over with you. I brought it you went back I brought it you went about it says jasola whenever I come, and I see myself and then same line with you. It doesn't smell nice. I go back. These are the components of the process or some other way they look at the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. But he might have some exception even these ones also they have the same perception. But then they think in terms

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of a Baghdad they should go beyond that which is done by the province of Lhasa because he already received the forgiveness. We are watching in the last month in this life looking for his mercy for his forgiveness, Mohammed Salah sama got it. That's why he relaxed according to the talking about it that is relaxed. So what we are doing nowadays that

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like one of the righteous people said when somebody described him the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam prays, he says if this is the fray of hammer, that's Miss I never pray again, I never pray at all in my life.

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To get it does the best way and the VOCA already mentioned the way the profit and loss of free it just we just don't go on read. Get it? And the way we are praying nowadays, if you look at it and you compare it with that which was done by the prophet Allah, so a lot of these discrepancies, and is it difficult for us to learn No, has nothing but laziness.

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You get it. So that's Mohammed said Allah Allah He was Salah motto. So they try to go beyond that which they were told the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I used to go to Thailand and he said, Allah Allah, Allah will lie. In the lack shall come, Linda, what can he say? Well, I I have the most taqwa. And I'm the most person who feels a lot smarter who have the telco than any one of you, he will love and he says, I have the pleasure of Allah smarter more than any one of you, he will, there is nobody who can claim as I said, takua similar to that of Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wasallam because he has seen the reality much more greater than what what which we see.

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Color shockingly language calculi Arabic So it means what if you're looking for taqwa I have taught for more than you should follow my guidance to see how to please the last part. I should do it in your own way. If you love My love to rebar that is much greater Daniels, but I didn't do that the province Allahu somos, indicating

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well I can do Sumo after

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of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a fast he said I fast and I eat very good life. Fast sometimes. Sometimes.

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You have some people even when the last one to give them blocks. I didn't take the rocks up.

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That's what gooloo an exaggeration. But a lot smarter grant you roxa He wants you to take it and enjoy it. I just said mahira Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam banisher any Eleuthera is aroma. Professor Lawson has never been given a choice between two things except that the professor so much choose the easiest.

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Get it very simple religion as a professor losses are also often one of the components of the profits or loss of asset. Sometimes if the profits are so fast, you will conclude that he will never eat again. But then he will start eating not fast and he will conclude that maybe he will never fast again. There's the life of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam get it and you want the best with the last Marcela should imitate the profits or loss. That's why he does Rizal but he doesn't want the oma to do without you know without is too fast two days continuously without breaking the fast bits Oh, and what and if

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they see also let them know.

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And then we saw

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I wanted to ask

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Ursula you always tell us don't do with Albert you do that without

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we want to do like use the prophets Allah said no don't do that. It's a new episode I want to try. They kept and push and push and the prophets Allah someone said, Okay, let's go the first for the first day. It was nice Okay, no

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second day the professor last summer said we sat right let's go the first the second day

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I mean bill cat was a really it was so difficult for them to learn the components of the process. Some of them are like our own time, our own time What if that comes? Mashallah, if I always gather food, that's why the fasting doesn't work properly the way I used to do with them, right? prophets, Allah said, If you cannot marry will come to the shower. He says fast right? Many people are complaining, how come I fast but it doesn't work.

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I will tell you why shall.

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So that's the attitude of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he has sometimes and sometimes also he, he

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cannot assume all of them will suddenly work. And also I pray, and I see. So in the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sometimes he fast, and sometimes he eat. Likewise, when it comes to the prayer, the prophets that Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he doesn't pray the whole night. I never come across a text from the companions of the prophets, Allah someone saying that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I ever prayed the whole night.

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I never come across the whole night the prophets, Allah Salah, I mean from Asia until further, I never come across. Maybe it does exist but I never come across because it opposes the continuous Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So he told them, I eat and I fast. And also I pray. And I also sleep. Some part of the what is the word Elisa? And I also married, right? Very good son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said, I'm married, because the last one said, I will never mind.

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This is part of what the in innovation which was introduced to the Dean of the Christianity.

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Nobody will believe that this is part of the religion of Allah smarter, because we didn't find that mentioned, any place that Allah told them don't marry, where do they get it. And after this moment, look at the news, read the news and hear the news and see all of these tragedies that have taken place in their own places of worship by those people who believe that they are so pure and clean. In such a way they think marriage is deficient. They don't marry by the end of the day, they have the law, what is mentioned in the news, and they confess also some of them didn't finish it, they come and talk about that. Because that happens when you decide to go against the natural disposition

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which are lost power tiller created

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by nature, we like that. That's why a person has says he has no desire to do things, either. This is the way last month I created him, which I doubt or he is sick. He has to go to the hospital. Because the most pious person was Mohammed said Allahu Allahu Selma he married. And the last one to say is we send our messages and our Prophet, and we we gave them as working with Ria last month as if marriages efficiency will law he the one the first person to stay away from it is who is the prophets and the messengers of Allah because they're the best of the creation of Allah subhanaw taala, but they did not.

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Which means it is not good for a person who needs it, and to stay away from it. That's why the scholars they categorize marriage into different categories, the one that is wajib This is what a person who needs the marriage and he knows if he doesn't marry, he might go and fall into sin. This person must marry as long as he can afford it. If he can't afford it, then he has to resort to what

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what is affordable, this is too fast, which I said unfortunately many people are complaining nowadays the fasting doesn't work.

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How come the prophets Allah sama said it works? He said yeah, Mashallah Shiva manasota min Cumberbatch affiliate is a watch for in about Boone Basile was on the verge. He said he talks and he addressed the youth is the whoever can afford marriage sexually, is capable of sexually to marry and also financially, the profits or loss of assets, let him marry.

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Because it's the most and the strongest thing that can help you to preserve your eyes to lower your gaze and to preserve and guard your modesty. That's marriage. It helps you like this It relieves the I mean, relieve you from your desire

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and then the society will be protected from from your ego attitude though that might come from you. That's one of the wisdom of the marriage right? He says from alumnus that they follow him he saw whoever cannot do that. Gonna he saw me for in the hula hula

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let him pass if you cannot afford marriage financially and you're incapable second I mean sexually to approach a wife the profits that allow him so as a family can be so you've asked in the hula hula is going to be protection like he says ASEAN within the scholars agenda in two ways, john, from hell insha Allah to protect you and intercede for you in the hereafter and xuejun now also though, that is going to be set up as a barrier between you and your desire

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the prophets Allah say in the shape on 80 millimeter

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shaytan runs through the veins of humankind when you fast those veins are going to be very narrow. That's why I looked at people Ramallah what is the status of the Muslim and the situation of the Muslim? Even the gangsters am telling you in some in some places they become righteous? We are told that is one of the gangsters every Ramadan he is Mashallah mo

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when they talk to him he would tell them after Ramadan

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so this is this is what Ramadan does. Right? Allah subhana wa says La la la la quinta tacos, right? It brings up what you but the question is, how is it possible that people nowadays are talking about it fast, but I don't get that.

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I'm telling you question the way you fast. That's the first Are you really fasting? Are you enjoying your life? Because we fast? And I'm not saying don't eat? But what fasting is that? after Ramadan? You are let's say

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what is the kg? Your your weight?

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Let's say 2040 I don't think much more than 20 let's say his weight is 20 after Ramadan he became 30

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that he celebrate or he first

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that's what happened right? So I'm not saying that eat but look at the way we eat. Before Margaret come and see variety types of food that's Nima from Allah well like that's never that's good. May Allah reward those people who are giving but you when you come to eat the moderating the eating, don't eat a lot. It might harm you. It might not have you to attain the objective of of what of fasting look at the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I used to first

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get it they said the prophets Allah Azza wa sometimes his whole is what few days and water

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thammarat and water does it

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honestly speaking, you know I'm telling the truth. How do we make so

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eat, eat, eat, eat, eat some of us will be crushed is a make event yet still drinking a cup of water drinking? What is he trying to make sure that inshallah he will never get into trouble before Margaret.

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Muslim comes usually you have full action. And before maglie we have all types of food right? You're already okay and Margaret comes also you eat that's why you gain weight either lose it. And you know when you eat food desire comes right? You eat desire comes that's why the fast doesn't work. The look at the way the prophet SAW some I used to make it i'm not saying you punish yourself this one also is wrong. That's why you have this suffer. You'll be motivated in the sorrow. That's why you have the thought it'd be moderate in the left arm. And I give you one secret. I took it from one of our professors long ago. He says look at the syndrome the professor last summer which is

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scientifically proven that this is the best thing for a person to do after you fast. If you don't know this, understand it now. He said we are told by the professor last summer that when you break your heart, you should take root of that's a fresh type of date right? You ate it with water. The last time I said take a bit of root and drink water. This call us of ours as qualifiers he said it is better for you to always break your fast with that because they discovered that after you fast if you fast nicely, the by the vein they will become very narrow, they are not ready at that moment to accommodate heavy food. And naturally at that moment they need something sweet which could be

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digested within an hour. They said they found that the best thing to do this for you which is sweet is covered after one hour is gone. So what it does is when it goes to you be hemmed in law within an hour it will open the bay the veins and then they will be ready to receive heavy food. Some of us will experience sometimes when you eat eat a bit not that much but then your stomach is full. You'd be surprised what happened you were hungry all the day but now you eat a bit and then you cannot eat anymore. Sometimes when you eat you don't eat that much but you come to the margin like this because you have problem with the store at that moment. Yes. So Mark is not ready to accommodate heavy food.

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But who is that person who can be patient patient? He says he just be patient 30 minutes one hour then you can eat whatever you wish.

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But who is that person who can do that? Look at the Sunnah of the prophet SAW some of these when he does

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That's why they said one of the wisdoms behind fasting, although the Hadees is weak, but it earns you health.

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It earns you a health because you have in you things that they're supposed to be gone, the body is supposed to take them out. But if you keep on putting put in put in put in protecting the body is going to carry everything. Right. That's why I will say is, is good sometimes to vomit.

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A kurama comala. Right. But he says you have to be very careful, some of them kills.

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Why does he say that? You know, sometimes if you suffer from stomachache and fever, it will never go until you vomit when you vomit, then the thing will be gone. Finished. What does that mean? That is something in you which has to go out.

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vomit saves those for the last he mentioned, it takes it and bring it out fast and also does that with you.

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So the prophets that Allah has Thank you so much. This is the Shabbat. So the scholars sighs that they divided marriage into three categories, the YG one, which is somebody who can be patient, it is watching upon him to marry the must have is for somebody who can be patient, but desire is still there. And they provide also another category, those people who don't think of marriage

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what is the percentage of these people in the oma and never met one?

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I don't know about you, but I never met one. You know what is so amazing about this mentioned? Even though Kodama says when he talks about the the categories of marriage, he mentioned something very interesting, after he quoted a lot of Hadees that are like Korea, on the heads of those young people who can marry but they don't want to do they're waiting first until they become I don't know professors and whatever to get it after he mentioned everything he said when

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he said that one of the amazing thing is all of those scholars who prefer knowledge over the marriage, there are some scholars who says for the third category is better for him to go and get busy with with the article. So with the knowledge, they should have married,

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he said it is so amazing and interesting to know that none of these these callers who suggest knowledge should go first. None of them goes for the loads before the marriage. They're all married all of them. He says then what are you talking about that?

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They tell you go right and rich keeps on for us right?

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A lot smarter grant is good. So if you can see, I mean this hat is is very excellent. How did that teach you our moderation when it comes to righteousness? And what is moderation? Doing it according to the way the prophets Allah Holly, somebody first he has a lot more than us. He knows a lot more than us, and he knows how to please a lot smarter more than anybody else. We should always stick with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam following his sooner precisely barakallahu Pico satanic Allahumma vmdk Chateau la in Atlanta stock regarding religion