53 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu


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Speaker 1 discusses the negative impact of a woman losing her job due to addiction and acknowledges the importance of finding a balance between her personal and professional life. She emphasizes the need for a woman to show her true values and believe in herself. She also mentions the importance of trusting others and respecting boundaries.

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Well salatu salam ala nos Rahmatullah alameen and Avena. Were happy when I'm hammered instead Allahu Allahu Allah, Allah. He was happy he will sell him. I'm about

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Today in sha Allah who will begin from the scene of more Alif

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What are you? Are you What are you either been ushered demeanor coffee will help me well, hasn't what they could solder pain was discussing the matter of the consequences of democracy is a witch punishment. Which punishment is greater than

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the punishment of asthma or data that is based on casting? I'll have you know, fear will will hum worry, you know, well hasn't and sadness, what the southern and the southern means to have your southern been what he call contracted or congested, you know, last month, they will make you so tight in the way you cannot breathe that much. You know, it doesn't mean physically happening to you. But, you know what, you know what I mean? You know, sometimes you feel like,

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like you're in a very small area, although the the world and the place where you're living is too big.

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So all of these might be from, I mean, it's not even my it's for sure a punishment from Allah subhanaw taala for some of the attitudes were having,

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were Ravi and dunya. When we were early and Allah He would that will occur and also which punishment is greater than having a person staying away from a lost one who are to Allah and also the hereafter, and he will live is a very big punishment, you know, to have a person you know,

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taken himself away from Allah subhanaw taala and the hereafter that is no punishment similar to this.

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What are local human rights law and also Alaska will test a person to be put in his heart, you know, on other than Allah subhanho wa taala. So it is really, really a punishment. And you remember last time we talked about the Selenium RC or Sunil mousy? These are the

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also sorted now see, these are the three things mentioned by Abraham in one of his writings when he says, are suited Mr. Mouse elf and these Massey that are taking place in our life, there is a punishment from Allah subhanaw taala

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the worst type of

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punishment is the one that is based in the US Wilma, Marcia that is based on the local CaliBurger associate

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at a local Columbia Hadler has origin or coercion one year alcohol haldwani These are the three things that are the basis of democracy in the life of a human being. The first one is that a local CaliBurger be ready to have your heart been connected to other than Allah subhanaw taala your heart being related you know hanging around evident last Mahato dependent on other than Allah subhanho wa taala.

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So that's the source of shared care. There's also of Raja to other than last one Rotella all of those things of that nature, you know, when you are supposed to be dependent on last monitor, but you find yourself dependent on others. This is based on the fact that you your heart is dependent on other than Allah subhanaw taala you hang you know, connects your heart to other than last Mahara. That's a local club

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you know, you're holding upon the heart is holding upon evidence the last one I'm trying to put in the bet in the better you know, way to understand the second one is alcohol got the money Yeah, alcohol got the money. This is the

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the angry force, you know, the angry force, what do we mean by that? You know, that then the nature that usually happen to you when you are and when the action that are produced by you based on the anger that is taking place in you

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Yes, many of things and you have the capital, you have the fighting. You have the murder, you have the fight and you have so many things which are based on other.

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That's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, in my own mother is not about how much you can wrestle other people Tao is not about how much you can take people down when you do the resonate with them is based on how much you can control your soul.

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So to our local caliber gorilla, well, cool. Got one Yeah. And the last one is coercion when

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the force of the desire person is submitted to his own desire will ELT biller Xena, you have a relationship you have so many herbal man taking the rebar these are all part of almost all of the rest of the sins other than the shake. They are based on Alko Shania following you desire and that's where Allah subhanaw taala base their success in this life on their following either one mom and half AMACOM or the one I have signed up for indulgent Anita Hill, Marwa, you know Allah subhanaw taala based the successful human being on this idea, which means if you are not to observe, you know the meaning of this, if you will never succeed.

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What is the mean of the if you stay away from following your desire, submit to Allah subhanaw taala and make sure that whatever you're doing is in line to that which Allah subhanaw taala wants.

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So Emile Kareem says, one of the punishments of Allah subhanaw taala is to make your heart dependent on other than Allah Maha Rotel one Keita yeah and Allah be equally worthy mean our deity be equally worthy mean who should and this is what I said, Be the light Allah I will, quote The Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which mentioned this in detail. So it gave me a few moments so that I can quote for you the Hadith in the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned it

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this hadith is authentic

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narrated by Abdullah Massoud are the Allahu Anhu and you can find it into MIDI and some other images sorry, um, some other books authenticated by Sheikh Hasina Al Bundy. Very important Hadith very important Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said menjaga who Muhammad wa whoever you know, whoever you know, can manage you know, to make all of his home you know, your worries, you can put them into one place you can make them one you know, you have a lot of worries, you know, we have a lot of worries, worries in work worries about completing your job, you know, worries about how to I mean, please do family worried about how to take care of them worried about losing you know, your

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job or even about losing your family members nowadays, worried about the sicknesses and diseases also that are around us, you know, so many worries in our life. And this is human being wherever you go, these worries are going to remain with you. The good idea, everyone has these worries, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said, if you can make all of your worries, you can make them only one worry, you know, all of the worries that you have in this life, which are a lot, a lot, a lot, some of them you don't even know them, you know, because sometimes you might be just sitting out, you feel that there is something inside you which is bothering you. And you yourself also

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sometimes you cannot tell you know, a person will ask you why is worried, you know, and you might be like I don't know, you know, what exactly is going on in my life. I don't understand, you know, so these are all punishment from Allah subhanho wa Taala the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam said, if you can keep the worry aside, you know, try your best. make only one worry in your life. You know, all of these worries, you know, keep I mean, put them in in one place and make them only one. What is his worry? The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said Magellan Houma Hammond, Hammond wa hidden, who humbly rod he said if you can make the real word you have in this life is the humble Ma, Allahu

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Akbar. The worry of your situation and a position when you need Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Please listen to this and improperly right? Because all of us are addressed in this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam because we are living on Earth. And for sure we share

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In the same feelings that other people are sharing will lie in this life My dear brothers and sisters, you know, it just people are not telling you their life you know? It just people are not telling you their life, you know? Yeah. But

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But, but to be honest with you, every single one of us has something you know what you're there to share with others, you know, other other people's things you know, they will that I mean if they had to share with you, you know, your worry you forget you know, you will forget any worry that you're suffering you will feel that you don't have anything

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that's why

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relaxing and thanking Allah smarter all the time is always good. It's always good it's always good.

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If you are not like this, you're gonna get into trouble Wallah you get into trouble, you know, I'm telling you out of experience, you know, you will get into trouble.

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I sit with one of the good brothers one one day, you know, we sit down we talk talk, talk talk one day

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and then I shared with him some some of the things that I experienced. And then you look at me and say and you're still smiling in this life, you know?

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I was like, Okay, well, why why? Why can't I smile?

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Because all of these things if you were to keep on any chasing them, focusing on them, although there are a lot each and every one of them are like I'm telling you, people might be collapsing you know, when they are tested by some of these things, they might be collapsing.

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And you Allah subhanaw taala test that you would so many, some of us, you know they have so many tests in their life. Take it positively, take it very positive and ask Allah smarter to make it in the way you are expecting. Because according to the Sunnah of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam if you have too much test, most likely, most likely in sha Allah Insha Allah, that's a sign of love from Allah subhanho wa Taala because these are acting as expiation. Allah doesn't want you to come back with I mean to him with burdens, so put on you so much so much in a way people when they see the pity you the wrongdoers might be understanding that this person really is in trouble with Allah

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subhanaw taala

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but that'd be a sign of love you know when you meet a last word to Allah with patience, a try to repent to Allah subhanaw taala a lot because wherever test comes, try adopt this method. This is my advice to myself first and foremost, whenever you are tested by any test, the first thing that should come to your mouth is Alhamdulillah and do is think for a lot do stick backlot take it as a wake up call from Allah subhanho wa Taala for you to reflect and to remember that most likely something is going in the wrong way. And I do advise you to check your life. Is there anything wrong in your life?

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Is there anything wrong in your life and if Alas, one whatever one good for you? Well, I will give you this reflection. Whenever you commit sin, you will never relax in your life. It will keep on each in in you. And wherever you decided to do something, you know, will never

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die I

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had this experience and I believe everyone has a lot of them. So I will just leave you with general feeling so try.

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Don't worry in this life a lot and whatever happens to you take it back to your own self. Don't blame a last one Rotella don't blame anyone. Just blame yourself anything that happens to you in life.

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As long as it is something that is making you annoyed, you know, even when you hit something, you know, you hit something accidentally. Or like when you hit something accidentally take it in that way. You know, sometimes you're getting something you hit something sometimes you lock your finger on the door, you know, sometimes accidentally you twist your hand, you know all of these things which we take them very lightly. They are connected to your life and your relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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a person was looking at a sister you know, which is not his Mahara and then he hit the wall. He was injured and the Prophet sallallahu Elisa said Allah loves you. That's why He grant you something to expiate your sin and there's a message to be sent to those people who said is okay, it is why I had you know, here's also lice Allah Azza we're calling it a sin. And Allah said don't do it in the Quran. But we said it is okay you know, we can just go ahead and everything is okay. Allah smart Allah grant is good. So what I wanted you to do is whenever something happens to you which is not wanted, you know, which you're not happy with it in your life, you know, which is making you upset

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which is annoying you which is hurting you if

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First thing you should be doing is to do is take a lot and reflect upon your life and relationship with Allah subhanaw taala and check and see if there is anything which is wrong, just fix it. Be in the light Allah, Allah will fix the situation you are, you are in. But this is very good you know these worries that you have in life, keep them aside, people are stressed, you know, the you are depressed, many people are stressed and depressed. You know, the best way is to follow this hadith if you follow it correctly, Israelite Allah that depression will be will be gone. He says, If you Manju Allahu Muhammad Wahida if you can make all the worries you have one, only one worry well, who

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are humble mad, and which is the the worry of how to meet Allah subhanho wa Taala imagine my dear brothers says every one of us is making his worry like this. He didn't have it's like he didn't have any worry in your life except one. You take like easy, you know, take it easy, everything is easy. As long as you depend on last one, I will tell you everything is simple. Because you have somebody who does for you everything. So take it easy, and make the real world that you have in this life, which is the worry of how to meet Allah subhanaw taala peacefully. And honestly speaking, if every one of us is thinking in this way, when do you think a person has a time to go and disobey Allah

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subhanaw taala you know, all the worries you have is about how to meet Allah subhanaw taala in a very peaceful manner. You know, any worry you have is all about this. How can I meet? Alas, martela peacefully? What does that mean? You're going to be monitoring and observing your life. To see what exactly are you doing? You know, if there is anything wrong between you and Allah subhanaw taala you fix it. Good idea. If there is anything wrong between you, Allah subhanaw taala, you're going to fix it. That's the importance of making all the worries you have in this life, the worry of the ACA,

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but how about the rest of your things and who will do them for you? Somebody might tell me, you know, I have to worry because my wife is sick, my husband is sick, my father is sick. I have to worry, I have to do this and that. Yes, I will say the natural worry is okay. The natural worries, okay, and sadness, but your heart shouldn't shake. You know, the heart shouldn't shake at all. Because my dear brothers sisters, you're wasting your time. You will law you're just wasting your time. You're worried you're shouting, you're screaming, you know, you shed tears as good. But you weren't doing things which are in not appropriate yet. Because somebody was infected by a disease

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because you are in a calamity. You lost somebody you lost a job, you lost your money, and you get into that strong depression. This is nothing but a waste of time. Why do I call it a waste of time? Because

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how can that contribute in changing that with Allah's material decree? Just think for a moment you know, all of the sadness you have all of the work that you have the crime that things you have, how can that contribute in changing that which Allah subhanaw taala degree 0%

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It will never be able to change anything. Allah subhanaw taala is for our Illuma read and he will still do what he decided and decreed to do. So if I cannot stop him from doing what he planned to do, what does that mean? submit to Him, be among his party that Allah smarter will make it as beneficial and a success for you. This is the secret actually. When you go back to him, Allah's motel will make it a moment of happiness. What turns to be, you know, bad, Allah's motto will make it excellent for you, you will come and say Alhamdulillah Hamdulillah. You know, as I said, Well Allah each and every one of us I do believe we have a lot of experience in this regard to share, you

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know, I do have a lot to share whereby something will be deprived, you know, from reaching us, but then at the end of the day, we will see Alhamdulillah we do not get it at that moment.

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hamdulillah at the moment, so imagine Allah is One who is going to do whatever he plan your last Allah smart Allah in the in the in the past, and then at the end of the day, you're going to get one Allah subhanaw taala planned for you at the time he plans for you. But if he did not decreed that you will get that thing which you're looking for, you lost the size of sight, sight of Allah subhanaw taala and you're also losing the thing at the end of the day, you still don't get it.

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I just want you to feel how I mean insignificant is to worry so much about the decree of Allah subhanaw taala because these are future things we don't know how is that? So instead of worrying, instead of being in a state of depression, why can't you just be with Allah subhanaw taala create a good relationship between you and him and depend on him collectively. And I mean completely and hope you know, good from Allah subhanaw taala and always think good about Allah subhanaw taala

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That's the best way to live. And this is the secret behind you see, some of us, your mind think that they don't have anything in their life. No, they do have a lot, a lot. But many of us might understand this principle correctly. That's why they relax. Other people think that they don't have problem in their life, though they do have, but they

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trust Allah subhanaw taala. And they depend on the last word Allah. So Allah granted them that peace of mind in this life, whereby somebody will be thinking that these people, they don't have problem in their life.

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So Allah, so it's a very nice secret and a very simple concept to be to be adopted. And it needs training, because we are not used to it. You know, you're not used to it, and don't also understand me wrongly, you know, go and do it in, in the way those people are doing it. You know, when a calamity strikes them, they laugh, you know, that's wrong. That's wrong. Been in the state of sadness for a while, you know, having the natural feeling is is good. You know, and it's okay. It's a part of supporting the nature Allah is going to put a new especially when you're losing a family member, you know, they found somebody who lost his, he lost his, his son, and they found him

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laughing. You know, he lost his son, and he was he was laughing.

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Imagine a person lost his son and the people know that this person lost his son, and he was laughing Subhanallah What do you think about a person who lost his son and he kept on laughing? Laughing laughing in the way everyone knows about, about the laugh.

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He was laughing in the way everyone knows about, about the laugh.

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So, I mean, what do you think somebody was praising him? was saying, mashallah, that this, he's so strong in terms of burying the dead masiva you know, in a way, he doesn't complain at all. He shows actually not just accepted but so much happy. It's like, if Allah Sparta wants, he can bring more and more, you know,

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somebody was praising him for doing this, you know, but the scholars scholars will blame him. As far as you know, can you blame him badly? He says this is console in the in the Eman this shows deficiency, actually, because no matter how much song he is, you will never be like, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam prophet is stronger than me Eman prophet is stronger than him in Zewde prophet is stronger than him in righteousness. But when his son was about to die, he did not love. He shed tears when his grandson was about to die. You know, the daughter of Xena, Xena, he was also crying, you know, he wept.

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Can we say that Rasul Allah sama is lesser than that person that will be a joke, you know, Prophets Allah sama cry, and he says we're sad. You know, we're sad We're saddened by your by the news about your demise you know, and by seeing you die anyway, aside for that, as natural even some of the companions said Dr. Su Allah you cry for this? He said, Yes, it could. This is the mercy that lost my hotel I put in the heart of the slaves. You don't get mercy from Allah if you didn't show mercy to the human guides. So do mister I mean, do understand correctly. Don't misunderstand my word. When I say remove all the worries, I'm talking about that worry that will take you, you know, to be

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complaining against the clutter of Allah subhanaw taala or that worry that will not make you productive in your life. You know?

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You know, there are some worries that I worry so much in the way that I collapse. I didn't do anything wrong with my job. You know, I stay away from anything. That's wrong. That's wrong, be sad. But move, keep moving. You're still alive. He died. His actions is tough now. Now's the time for you to learn the lesson from him, that you're also going to hate towards that which he went to. And he might be somebody who did not complete that which Allah azza wa jal asked him to do. take lesson from that look at yourself. What exactly are you doing? Did you finish that which Allah subhanaw taala gave you the assignments that homework and that the requested the last one to the house upon

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you, you finish all of these if you're not done with them, then take lesson from this one he has gone in the way he left this life. He might not be ready for sure. 99 990 9% you know point nine you know

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he's not ready

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to find a person who is ready for the death to come and he's ready to meet Allah smart Allah this is not easy. It's not easy to find a person who completed and he is ready to meet Allah subhanaw taala amongst us all of a sudden you have a couple of them you know, like monsoon means that as Dan you know,

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this monsoon even rather pay said if this they used to describe him, he never said that by himself. That he I'm ready. You know that will be the same

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action. But people know in him they say that this man they think, and they believe if the Angel of Death, if somebody is to tell him that the Angel of Death is waiting for you next to the door, he's going to get inside just in few seconds. Imagine one of us if the angel of death if we're informed that Angel of Death is around the corner and is going to going to come to us.

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Long ago you said you said salaam to your family alien, salaam no salah, just quickly go back to the masjid ot room, keep on praying to Allah subhanaw taala you know, you'll become so righteous, not thinking of anything.

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And you can you imagine the pressure that you have at that moment, knowing that you have just few seconds to live in this life. Subhan Allah, you can imagine how much pressure you have. And you know that now you're going back to who? To Allah subhanaw taala How would you try to fix yourself, you try to make sure that death reach you when you are in the best situation. But this man among the seller Masada, they said they believe the community you say that they believe if the angel of death come to him, or somebody told them that in few minutes Angel of Death is going to visit you. They said he cannot add on top of that which he is doing.

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They understand that, you know, you can imagine how many display this president has been. It's been caught by people to be, I mean, obeying Allah subhanaw taala people monitor the monitor him and they, they observe his life is like almost everything in the life of this person is an act of worship. They said there is an angel of death next to him in the way we will jump and go and try to do as much as we can. Sometimes also, we oppress others. You know, that's why you find somebody when he is about to die, he will I mean sacrifice all of his his his wealth to others for getting his own heirs, which is a Sydney which is injustice and unfair. But some of us do that. But they're about to

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die. This is the time when they remember charity, they will say sometimes all of their wealth should go to charity, which is absolutely wrong, they will forget their own heirs. And that's the reason why Sharia and, you know, happened to interfere and stop the person from doing these type of visceral fat, you know, and restricting or limiting this person to only a third of his wealth, you cannot give more than that when you're about to die,

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to get it and the way we are like this, this person that the community is the thing that he cannot add a single thing

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in his bag, his account is full,

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he cannot do more than what he is doing

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for the Chabot, Atlanta, coulomb Islam, even if you are not like them, that we try to come close to them, you know,

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last Muhammad Allah grant is good and success in life. So I guess inshallah you go out with a better understanding what I mean by not worrying, you know, don't let worry distract you from being protected in your life. In whatever situation you have, you found yourself, don't let worry distract you in your in your life, in whatever situation you have, do not let worry distract you, I mean, many of us as I said, they will not be productive, you know, for so long. And then you know, things will be accumulating, you know, accumulate at the end of the day, you will come back to the next stage of the worries, which is you have a lot of job that you neglected. And now you have to do that

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because you don't have anyone to handle those responsibilities. So live a good life, as I said, when you lose a family member, or they lose somebody who is very dear to you, you know, understand that this is a fact cry, if you want as good the prophets, Allah so also cry, shed tears, there's no problem with that at all, but do not let the sadness and the worry, you know, I mean has a great impact in your heart in the way you think that you are neglected. And you will never succeed you know, sometimes some people when they lost some of those close family members, you will hear them say St. I mean cursing themselves, you know, some of them will be saying that, you know, they are in

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trouble starting from now, you know, why is that? Because the one who is providing him with food, the one who is providing them with money and expenses now and is dead. They will say they were in trouble, or definitely they're going to be in trouble. And you know, this thing might be might be might be correct, you know, that's why we're law you have to be very careful when somebody die. In that house, angels Allah and the prophets Allah sama said, usually Allah wants to send angels to that house, your amino Allah dryness, basically. I mean, if a person says I'm in trouble, they will see Amin,

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what does that mean? From that moment you will start getting into trouble, trouble which you are not having before you start getting into trouble before God who was protecting them who is providing the father who is providing them, Allah, you know, and who says

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If the if the father is gone, you're in trouble. If your brother is gone, you're in trouble. If your husband is gone, if your wife is gone, you're in trouble. Who is provided for Allah? And that's us deficiency actually, you know, our iman efficients are human, they said two different different things, you know, two separate things, you know, they are not related to each other, they're not connected to each other at all. You know, law support everyone allows me to provide for everyone, His death is not related to your sustenance, you already have what the last one to prescribe for you and nobody can stop it no matter what. Very good faith and very good belief. You know, nobody can

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stop the risk that Allah subhanaw taala prescribed for you no matter what. So I really love you like I love you so much all of you, I love you for the sake of Allah and may Allah smarter guarantee you love and be with you wherever you are. That's why I try to exhaust you know, myself, you know, to bring out everything that I know Insha Allah, even light Allah will benefit you and I hope you guys will try to look at it positively and try to apply it in your life gradually, if you really want to succeed, because these are the extracts from the from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that every one of us need to that every one of us need to do in order to live a comfortable

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life in sha Allah, Allah Allah, Allah subhanaw taala grant to school. So he says

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how many mod so I was saying somebody might say but at the other worry is who will do them for me?

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Listen to so let's allow some acid karaka hula who have Madonia in some places, he says Maha Maha Maha Mudra denier, Allah subhanho wa Taala as long as you can unite all the worries you have you make them only one worry. Allah subhanho wa Taala will take care of the rest of your worries. Allah subhanaw taala will take care of the rest of your worries. Allahu Akbar if you can make it only one word, Allah smeta will take care of the rest. So you know I'm telling the truth. The best of the caretakers is Who is Robert Alameen

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How is it possible for you to get into trouble if Allah is taking care of you?

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How is it possible you know?

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So like Sally said Emma was in the cable fell when he was migrating to Medina. He and Abu Bakr Adela Juan

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and Abu Bakr told him Jada's will Allah No, no another AHA doom that Academy the polyp Jha in Eleazar the search reached the reach the key. So one of them, one of them will say, one of them will say I mean Abu Bakr was saying to the prophets, Allah Salam because the search the people who are looking for us who Allah, they reach the cave, you know, they were next in the front in front of the key.

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So Abu Bakr when he saw them he said yes who Allah

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these people are really here. It said if one of them is to put his head down there will see us so he worries so much about our solar light doesn't care about himself that much.

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So like the last time I look at the tranquility, alas, multicast in rasool Allah is like that is nothing going on. Salah can imagine what kind of a token and and depending on the last one, whatever that is that is that you know, the Prophet said Allahu Allah who said Mr. Toole Abu Bakr, it says Yeah, but he looked at him as if there is nothing going on. He says yeah Abubaker mother Luca with Nene, Allahu Allahu Allah. It says Yeah, but what do you think about to people? Allah subhanaw taala is the third one.

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What do you think about two people? But alas, Martin is the third one.

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What do you think about two people? Allah subhanaw taala is the third one.

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Can you see that Iman, you know, it says to people, Allah subhanaw taala is the third one amongst them.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says fans that Allah who is a kindred

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spirit Allah there is no way for you to get into trouble if you're with Allah. No way, no way for you to get into trouble.

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You're with Allah, there is no way for you to get into trouble. And you have to wait no matter what you have to when you know

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that Subhanallah why we why we don't see these things. That hammock Allah why we don't see these things, these things in our life.

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Because our trust in Allah subhanaw taala is very low, or the wise.

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tell you

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otherwise, in that in that in the time of

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checklists, I maintain, yeah, they have that strong.

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What do you call this strong Imana and chocolate last month and trust in a lot. You know, that's why And subhanAllah he was engaging in debate. You know, it was so amazing the way he has that

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dependence on Alaska how Rotella and tokra Alaska

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is in Abu Salam, you know, of the scholars of that time, you know, when the leaders said in a standard or before him, the shiver. I'm talking about the apprentice, and he was just one person he's not holding a weapon He's not holding anything, but they cannot stand living with him

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till that wake up the boy police

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so they cannot they cannot stand you know, looking at him. Why is that because of the strong dedication you know, Allahu Allah and he has to be the last man of war to Allah strong dedication he has.

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And we know in Islam when he took Allah that Luca Shut up Allah subhanaw taala everything is going to bow and submit for you.

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So, so Allah azza wa jal will take care of your worry and please do believe in this you know, if you're with Allah, you have to eat alas muhurta says Khattab Allahu Allah ugly banana or sorry, Allah subhanaw taala has written that I mean he decreed that he must when he and his he and his he and his prophet, he has to win. And Allah Khattab Allahu Allah ugly banana honestly, Allah smart Allah says he must win he promised himself that he has to he and his messengers and those who follow follow him. So if you make all of your worries one worry Allah subhanaw taala will take care of we take care of the rest of your worries Hello, mentor Shabbat be healing como la HomeStart you have

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the other category, the Shabbat be with him, he focused on so much worries, you know, so much worries and he doesn't pay attention on fixing the good airmen that the relationship between him and Allah subhanaw taala and that's why it shall be removed. Yes, 1000s or hundreds of millions of worries you know, and each and every one of them is capable of distracted his life and he is not willing to fix his life with Allah subhanaw taala so that Allah will fix it for him.

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The Shabbat be normal, you know Subhan Allah.

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God omen to Shabbat Vida removed via how to dunya lamb you bad Allahu beefy i o deity, he Halak. Allah will never care about him. Allah will never worry about him.

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Wherever you goes and diet Allah doesn't care. Can you imagine a life like this Allah smarter doesn't care about a person. Please don't sleep boy. I should

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wear cloth and go and help him go out and take care

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no problem. Whoever is going Chico.

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so he says woman Tushar, but we'll move on to dunya let me Valley Lo, Fi audio to hear Haluk

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you know, the prophets Allah Allah sama is talking about the opposite. He said if you can unite all of your worries, and make them only one word, which is the word the worry of how to meet Allah, Samantha peacefully. It says Allah azza wa jal will take care of the rest of your worries.

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But if you're not like that, that means you're going to enjoy your life in the way you want. And you will keep on disobeying Allah subhanaw taala and Allah will never take care of any of your worries. You have so many worries in your life and they will keep accumulating.

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And at the end of the day, Allah smarter will remove his support from you. He will never support you. That's why he says lay you by the law who beat him in a Odyssey. I mean, me I want you to dunya Halak, you know, any wherever I mean, you're going Allah doesn't care. You die in the space Allah doesn't care about you.

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Imagine the good ones. Allah take care of their worries in this life and in the hereafter. In the hereafter last month, it will take care of their worries, and not only taking care of the worries in this in this life, Allah subhanaw taala is concerned about even their feelings. The professor of law as I said,

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last month is concerned about their feelings to the prophets of Allah. Allah Himself has said for the believers when they are dying, Allah subhanaw taala says mirth are dead to fish in nfra Whoo hoo.

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Tara doody, Allah subhanaw taala says, I have never hesitated as hesitation illegal bijela Lila has Georgia. You know, he said the only time that I hesitate in doing something that I I told myself that I have to do it.

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Which is to take the soul of my slave, one of my good slave who doesn't want to leave now. It doesn't want to leave now. But Allah subhanaw taala says one ACARA hope is

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so beautiful, you know, so beautiful in Allah smartglasses and I don't

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Want to hurt his feelings? Allah is not because of this is the decree Kony that Allah smart Allah says he must do it in that way and definitely a lot smarter will not disappoint that person who will give him a longer life.

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Last modular grant is good. So this Hadees is very important. Talking about that

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big you find and this person you call him with a Shut up, you know, because you are the minutia. You know, every place is there, you worried about everything, you know, Allah is mortal and make him to be scared, and to be afraid of everything. You know, he has so many worries, that's the reason why I remember that hadith of the Prophet sallahu Lismer, which I believe, if all of us, you know, to put it into practice and action, life will be excellent as well. This depression that nowadays people are suffering from even the light Allah it will be taken away, or it will be reduced to lowest level in shuttler auto

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pilot were called Lucia in dalla kabhi he has been doing a lot here in the hood, you assume who swell other it says naturally whatsoever you hang your soul, you know, connected to it, other than Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, you attach your soul to it other than Allah subhanaw taala you are going to be punished by that thing.

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And that's correct. You know, whatever. You know, you depend on other than Allah, you your punishment, you know, you might be in a state of difficulty because of that thing.

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For Kulu, Manohar Bashir and Allah Who are the baba Murat, whoever loves something other than Allah subhanaw taala, you're going to be punished with that thing. Three times.

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Allah smart, Allah will punish you with that thing three times.

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It doesn't mean that you shouldn't love anything. You know, when when we mentioned you're loving something other than Allah, that means that love is contradicting the love of Allah, to get an idea, otherwise, you love your parent, you know, their children, you love your wife, your husband, you love your family members, you love the Muslims, you're not going to be punished by them. You know, but we're talking about the love that contradicts the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala to add them will be handled a little herb, Philip Murata, please make dua for the boy,

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you're going to be punished by this love three times.

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thermadata via Dida three, three times in this dunya

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number one, oh, yeah, there will be a couple of hirsuta he had to ask, you know, you see a person Yashka Wait, Yashka Wait, have you suffered so much before you get it?

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You know, that's true. span a lot to get that those people who loves

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their love is in other than the way of Allah subhanaw taala

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they suffer a lot, a lot, a lot. Some of these sisters when you see them, so Hala, they fell in love with somebody in the long run, you know, how I tried to eat some of them and like clean them up, you know, some of them they had that their life turned into.

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I mean miserable, you know, the same goes to the brothers both trapped by the shaytan and disregard and the they really punished themselves. So why they have themselves in that way because they are making it in the wrong way. Otherwise, if you make it in the right way, you will relax in your life, you will marry sister follow the correct channel. You know you are rejected by the family, tell them which you are the best and go look for somebody else. The same goes to the girl, she wants to marry somebody and that person doesn't want wish you all the best. A lot smarter has a lot in this life. But to connect yourself and your soul to somebody, if you don't get that person you think you are,

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you're going to lose in this life or you're going to life is going to be terrible in the way some people be having this expression that either get this person or commit suicide. And some people did it as well. Some people did commit the suicide to take off their life just because they can they cannot reach them.

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And in this book, we are going to see that across the end of the book Abraham will quote certain examples of people who lost their life. You know, can you believe that there is a person? Can you believe that that is a person who was sick, cannot even move from his bed. You're going to see this in sha Allah sha Allah I read it from one of his writings that I believe in is in this book. And I heard it also from the scholars quoting the same story given it as an example of evil love that can lead a person into a punishment in this life before the punishment in the hereafter. So can you believe that this person has been loving this guy so much so much, and the family don't want to give

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him and that's why following the Islamic method is always good. Before you talk to the sister

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After the family first, ask them permission first. Whether they can let you go go in or not, don't talk to that girl, daughter of anyone, this is wrong Islamically you can do that. Unless if there is no way to connect to the family, then you go to her. If there is no way, then you start with her.

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Good idea, but the best method is to talk to the family first. If the family agrees, Alhamdulillah, then the next is the girl.

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If she doesn't agree,

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I mean with you is okay. Alhamdulillah. But if she agrees with you, Al Hamdulillah. But if she's to agree with you, but the family did not agree with you, that's the evil consequence of talking to her first before the family, what happens after that, you will be in trouble, she will be in trouble, you put her into trouble. And she put you into trouble also, and you put the family into trouble. And it's going to be a battle between, you know,

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I mean, between her and her family members, we have heard you know, cases whereby that the boy ran away with the God or the law, they both run away from the house.

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That's what evil love is taking people. So this person, he loves this girl so much. Until the time he reached the situation of

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my, my kids dummies crush or something like that, you know, l know that they say there is love this SQL, crush or something, something like that. That's beyond the love you think that you cannot live without somebody. Think about him talking about him, you know, they have they have somebody whenever they ask him, he will say animal, you know, animal, all of his speaking is about animal you know, whenever he speaks, he has to conclude he has to look for a space to put the word Amyl in it. And then somebody asked him right away. Why is this word? Almost always here it is me this is the name of his girlfriend. That's ish. You know what kind of trouble is this you know in your life, okay, if

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you remember last part and that it will be enough insha Allah to go to Paradise, that's only Allah that crumbled. Alameen Allah in the same way some people are loving others. This is supposed to be done for Allah smart Allah alone. It wasn't supposed to be given to anyone, nobody deserves it except Allah. So back to this person, you know, so he got sick, and he was bedridden, he cannot move at all.

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They brought some of the scholars, some of the scholars and some of those doctors who are experts in this field, you know, he realized that the problem of this boy is it the issue is the evil love that he has, his heart is 100% connected to a system. That's why he got sick because he's he realized that the family of the system are not willing to give him the goal.

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He became sick, all the love. So that person that doctor or share whoever, he said, No problem. He just the family his family should try and convince, you know, and convince the other family to agree that they're going to give him the car. So they went they told him this girl, this boy is going to die. Please, please do show mercy. For what you know. Sometimes when I read this thing will live I will say like Alhamdulillah May Allah has better not cast us in our life.

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How many sisters do you have in this life?

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Billions. How many brothers do you have in this life? Billions. If I live in Abu Talib is to say to Rasul Allah heroes who lie Why do you worry so much about Ayesha? Why Why? Why do you worry so much about Ayesha? It's like you're depressed the IRIS will lie because of one person. One is that we'll see what you feel. And there are so many other sisters why why why were you shy disturb yourself? Is it the hours to lie I agree with everyone that this is nonsense and this is stupidity. The criticism and accusation against Aisha is nothing but nonsense and, and and useless, you know and, and beyond the realm of the ridiculous you know, he said the isolation and think about this, but at the same

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time, why he keeps one word in jasola I know Aisha is free from all of this accusation. You know, so I believe like any other good Muslim this is far from the truth is I just the enemies of Allah has pointed them in Africa and they want to me tarnish your image also Allah but at the same time you have to lie I'm more concerned about you.

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And no, no woman will accept this.

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She respect him she know I live in Avatar it did not join that the non believers to accuse her. She knows that but why did he tell us who lies OLALIA Salado indirectly to stay away from Aisha. Of course no woman will accept this, you know? Because indirectly He's telling Rasul Allah is some I just leave and go look for some other another girl you know.

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And that's why I shattered the Allahu on her when she heard about what or even Evita

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If said she stopped talking to him.

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She stopped talking to him and Oh.

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Not only that, even his name she doesn't mention.

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That's why when Rasulullah sallallahu selama was about to die. It was carried by by Al Abbas and an Illumina Vitaly. And as I was narrating this story, he said before death, the prophets Allah says I wanted to go to the masjid. He said he put two brothers who are carrying him, one of them is Al Abbas, and the other and somebody else,

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even at this moment, you know, it isn't critical. As after rasool Allah, you know, even at this moment, you know, she still cannot forget that.

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So she said he was carried by Al Abbas and somebody else, I'm delighted. Ambus laughed. He said, Yeah, I know. I know the person she was she she was hiding, you know, that was Olivia. Without him. She doesn't want to mention his name. But Subhanallah the heart is clean. She doesn't hate him at all. But since that she got annoyed with him. And she doesn't mention his name. How do you know that she doesn't hate it. And I live in Abu Talib never took it personally. That's why during the battle, he was the one who protected her and take her back to Medina by himself out of respect.

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And she used to send people to live in a battalion to seek the fatwa when they asked her she will say the best one to give you this is going to be italic because he is with the Prophets Allah Azza in many instances.

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So if I live in Abu Talib will tell us who lies a lot in Soma, this for Aisha, and we know that there is no woman on earth, on earth, you know, and that is no woman that will exist on Earth, not just a woman, even a man you know, a woman or man, you know, nobody that can claim that he reached the position of eyeshadow, the line, no person, nobody male or female.

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Or just a woman. You know, I was using the example a woman because he's woman, but nobody among the male and the female that can claim that his Taqwa is like Aisha, his knowledge is like Asia. So my question is, if I live in Abu Talib is to say to Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, why do you worry about this one? One of the most excellent, you know, people that you can see in your life, you know, the wife of Rasulullah, Salah, some of dunya will occur in the dunya and akhira. If the prophets Allah Asuma will be advised by somebody to look for somebody else not to worry so much about them, you know, what do you think about somebody else, just because somebody says he doesn't want you and

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then you kill yourself for what, for what you look for marriage and somebody says is not interested. And then you go on and become in the state of depression for what? For what you know.

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So anyway, when they agreed to marry him the car and they, they so they came, they came, they said when he hear the name of the girl, that boy was not even eating meal was not eating, you know, once the cannot move, when he hear the, the name of the goal, and they told him that the family agree that you're going to marry her. He stood up immediately the sickness is gone.

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Can you imagine that? You know, and he ate immediately as if he was okay.

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Salah Salah Malatya. So, please do take this lesson, you know, properly, don't show ever love something, you know what, so everything and that love, you know, will contradict the law of Allah subhanaw taala you know, don't you ever accept to love somebody in a way it contradicts love Allah subhanho wa Taala and the love for Allah subhanho wa Taala so he says, If you love something other than Allah, you're going to be punished by that thing. By that thing. Three times in this life. Number one, you will be punished. You know, by it cobbler facility had to acid before you get it until you get it. So I was giving you that example how much people suffers depressions and sometimes

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suicidal attempt you know, they attempt to kill themselves, all because of the love between them and somebody you know when they realize they will not get it, they might lose their life. And you look for a job when you fail. You know you how much you suffer. You know look for some other one you know how much you suffer before you get it. All of these whenever you are doing it in the wrong way. Because this love is supposed this kind of love is supposed to be I mean given to Allah subhanaw taala let alone you're not supposed to be doing it for anybody else. caleffi The Hustler or the baby he had a persona he Bill COVID mean certain behavior for it. So before you get it, you're punished,

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depressed, so much pressure. Whether you get it or not, you know, you know I'm telling you through most of most of us who are walking when you walk, you know in a place where you are dealing with the contract you know, anyone who reached the age of

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On track where the job is not permanent and easily when you are living in some other places you go with this many people, if not all, they will become depressed when the contract ends, and they don't know the situation of the second one smile,

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there will be worrying, worrying, worrying, worrying so much you know, go in through so many depressions maybe will not be renewed, maybe will be renewed, maybe this this this and that. Different personal paths kind of punishment, you know, why because your heart is connected to it. I mean, you're dependent on it, where you're supposed to put it in Allah subhanaw taala and make the job as a sub in one of the sub in which if you don't get it use you have Allah smarter with you go back to Allah subhanaw taala who provide you with alternatives.

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So after you get it, this is before you get after you get it what is the next punishment? It says, We're offering the hustler earthday Baba he had hasura he will have him inside the university. When you get it, Allah would you might be punished, you know, after getting it because you will be in a state of the fear that everything might change.

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How long everything might change.

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Before the Coronavirus that was the life after the Coronavirus comes, you can see how many companies collapse how many people lost their job. And every time many people are thinking of I might be the next one

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can see the reality of what evil came is mentioning. Whereas if the heart is with Allah subhanaw taala Allah, you will not worry,

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the end of that contract you're living in will come and you might not know that you reach the end is so much relaxed, you might know that it reached

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and you're going to be a very calm, you know, a look for the blessing from Allah subhanaw taala and the protection from Allah subhanaw taala himself.

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So that kind of punishment also is there after you got it, the fear of losing it is is going to be following

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by the house, or the Barbie, he had a hustler, he'd been coffee, and suddenly he was at what 10 The what what increase what 10 key the only

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one, why Minella that he Almara that for either Suliban who is Ted data here DABU Swagelok you might go into have deficiency, you might go into have, you know, a lack of comfort by getting it and so many types of punishment that are going to be attached to getting the thing you know, you know,

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I'm just having an example of work in place you're working with the company, you know,

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that the fear of making things in their own way, the fear of going against the discipline, the fear of not fulfilling the conditions, the fear of this and that the fear of not doing it in the way the desire of the boss even though the the articles and the conditions said this and that but you know, the boss he has his own interests, you know, against the, against the contract, you know, and you know, it says he's the one that that will that will recommend, you know, whether people can accept you the management accept you or reject you, you have to please Him that worry also will meet with you in that. So that's happens when you attach yourself to that. I'm into loving other than last

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month or whatever.

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When it's happened that you lost the job. Carla is shut down Abu Ali and the punishment of losing the job you know this one I don't think any one of us need any explanation. It's like somebody's losing a family member sometimes.

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But highly and this one is not the job in anything.

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You love your wife so much. That's excellent. But you love her in the way that that love is almost similar to the love between you and Allah subhanaw taala

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you're going to be punished the day she leaves you. You You will suffer a lot.

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And the same goes to the wife that loves the husband in the way that love is simulated love for Allah subhanho wa Taala

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she also gets into trouble. The same goes to everyone anything you love in this dunya the time Allah smarter decreed that it has to go from you. You will get to be punished because of that thing.

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So all of these My dear my dear brothers sisters, they don't mean that you shouldn't love things you know that natural love should remain. But as I said the love that is rejected. Here is the love that contradicts the law of love of Allah. The loves that is similar to the way you love Allah subhanho wa Taala he gets angry because of it you get so

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Add because of it you will get happy because of it. You know you accept because of it you reject because of it. You know these are only supposed to be done for Allah subhanho wa Taala

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Alabama Filbert Zaki father but you're caught in who Allah monotherapy, Lady Leia who qualify the facilitator, while others, if you haven't had to Dounia you had a DA, these are the three punishment that will take place in this in this life, punishment before we get it, punishment after you get it and punishment after you lost the thing.

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As for the buzzer, when you reach you know, the punishment, when Abraham says in the labral, Athena in Fujairah, fija him the ayah that he coded it remember he said, You shouldn't think that this is only in the, in the akhirah is it these punishment, the Nirma, and the Nicoma take place in the dunya. And in the Darrell BUZZA, and in also the Atka, three houses that you're going to go through.

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As for the birds of this is the barrier there between between the dunya and akhira Karlova either your current level therapy Lila you out there who had a lower level for YT MMA fighter who made a nine mil of me better than he'd be the day.

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And he says, As for the other of the punishment in the Baroque, he all of a no other your Cardinal who LM Wolfie, Rocky, Alain de la la la la you out.

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He says this is a punishment, that is going to be connected and attached to another pain. So this is the punishment that will be attached to the pain of leaving the life you know, live in this life. And that pain, nobody will be happy to see it again.

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Well, I'll move forward to my father woman in an email of me which together he beat the day and also it is going to be attached by another pain. What kind of pain is that the pain of you worrying about losing the sight of Allah subhanaw taala which will earn you the Nirma you know the greatest Nirvana but now you lost it. Because in the light before death, you're busy doing something else.

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Now we don't remember though Allah here I'm telling you, those people who are about to die, they will have this feeling if they are on tours, they will remember this. If Allah give them the chance, they will remember this and now they're heading towards Allah smart Allah and they know that it wasn't a joke anymore. If they used to think that this is a joke, you know, it might not happen, you know, but now they understand that isn't a joke because they see the angels. So they're going to be worrying and they're going to be in a very strong pain, pain of what pain of

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losing the name of Allah subhanaw taala in in the hereafter.

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What Allah will hijab and Allah and also noun he will be in a strong pain of having a barrier between him and Allah subhanho wa Taala why Allah will hustler tility to cut through Acrobat and also he is going to be in a strong pain of the Hazara has there is regret and the loss, which is so much in a way it has the capacity to break the the liver of a person, you know, and the heart of a person to make it into pieces

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will have more like a moral hazard to it hasn't. Tamar a funeral for him? The Vera Maya humo, what the Allahu Al Hawa what didn't apply, if you have Dalai

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Lama Stan, you know when a person dies, the soul will be detached from the body. So, now the focus is on the soul, not on the body, because the body will deteriorate and will be eaten by the worms and the insects found that in the grave. So it will occur human says you have another island, which is so bad, and so big and so evil, that the soul will be in a state of worried and fear and sadness. And it creates regret, you know,

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the one that will be dominating the soul, you know, in the way the insect, you know, and the worms are two minutes in the body, the body will be dominated by those things, and your soul will be dominated by those kind of punishments.

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Bellarmine will have in the full Sidda M almost a mirror. It says

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I will have induced this type of punishment that you're going to get in the soul is forever, it will never stop. Contrary to the body the body the insect would eat it and then finish

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hetero Alajuela exceria Until the time Allah smarter bring it back to the body for Hina even yen tequila, other Illinois who add one and after that when the soul is taken back to the body on the Day of Judgment, then mount the punishment will move to another type of punishment which is worse and more bitter than the one that person was in the

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Carla for another minute Amy Minh yakusoku elbow para bhanwar Farahan Sandra B was Dr. Ken la he were to have her be with Nina and medically had to call about whom he had known as a he, while Taraba were co occur in Canada, early Dunia famously handle Halle Berry no lithiation by even, it says make a comparison between this person and the person that Subhanallah the heart will be in a state of you can say and it's something that looked like dancing out of happiness is you know, the person dance, you know, and I'm not saying dance is okay person does accepting a wife dancing for the husband that will be okay. Shaohua

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but it's usually happiness bring dancing, happiness being passive. So it's like the heart is placed in a position whereby it is dancing, not dancing, dancing physically, like it's so happy, so happy and so excited to that which it is going to be receiving from Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, last month I will grant it comfort and love with granted you know, strong interest, you know, to meet him on the day of judgment and also it will be addressed at ease, SWAT Allah, and Allah smarter will grant the heart tranquility in this life and also it will be so tranquil to meet Allah Smartline the hereafter

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it says compare that scenario with this scenario, you know, they finally even one of them was saying what Taraba is just like the description I have given this now, there are only two misunderstand it, you know, but it means that the heart is so interested and he feels it is like the heart is so interested in knowing meeting Allah subhanaw taala and one of them used to say, this is when he was about to die, and one of them is to say in Kerala Jannetty famously Harley had had in normal aviation time and one of the means to be placed in a very strong tranquility and comfort in this life. In a way imagine one of the Muses say that if the people in Jannah they have something similar

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to what I have from Allah, definitely they are in the best place. I can imagine how much nearer My Allah has Mattila. How much comfort Allah smart Allah has given him in this life.

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We are called

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masa, quinoa dunya

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one of them said that people have denier their Messiah key.

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You know he called us Messiah Kenya.

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Your Allah, Cara jubin Amada quality that he he said the people of dunya those people who are busy enjoying the dunya people have tariff, you know,

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people who did not recognize the Last Mountain their wealth. It is he said these people are my psyche. They left this dunya without enjoying and testing the netminder last mental place in it.

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A mother quality of Amina they lost the beautiful, I mean taste their last month I put in this dunya they lost. What are they talking about? They're talking about their own medical and surgical. Having that tranquility and peace of mind when you remember Allah subhanaw taala

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will call our hablo allemaal marucho Abdullah Al glucomannan V Allah Jalla Duna Allah he receive. One of them is to say that I believe in the kings and the leaders. They know what we are in. They will fight us in order to get it with swords

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were called Accra in the fifth dunya Jana. Malamud Kula lemon halogen letteratura that is the agenda in this dunya if you don't get it, you might lose the agenda in in the hereafter.

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Call a famine but have the rally be up has it Thurman will will be in a cooler Guman if you have an orchid or whoever an orchid woman what could Islam year could like a kibra The key message Sarah was selling Morocco women in LM Nicola kibra became a DE SILVA in Morocco women in the locker room says you know what? neuroma you have that you can compare it with this narrow you know and what is the what what what is greater, you know in terms of loss, you know and Kasara that the Kasara of somebody who sells all of these blessings of Allah squatter in this life and the hereafter with abaca systemen in the dunya is all the good life to buy what to buy the dunya which is the worse

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will be in a cool little Google and he lost because you are buying that you are selling the ACA with the dunya you are giving the Acura to replace it with the dunya definitely this is the peak of deception hey look I'm says where Unaka Gubin and a person Subhanallah the punishment is so strong on his on his heart in the way he can see that the deception but he can't do anything

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so if you look at him says it element like a cobra became he said if I said

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if you don't have experience

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You know,

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experience of the value of the commodity and the product issue ask those people who are experts in the market to tell you

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so in other words, if you didn't know how to reach at Last Mountain and to get a good life as the scholars

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don't live a life of HD hat, you're just trying to do it yourself. That's very dangerous. were driven into the Arctic. Mark Allah who was Teddy has had a lot with him and a halogen little mouse. So if you live the Gera

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Yeah, the activity by World Amina Femen and mystery Horus was a lovely Salem or can be a happy guy to come out kind of caught in either can have that failure Abdun been FC Berman data who embody the liquor, incredible SWAT Allah. Well, I mean, you hear a lot of Mohammed mockery. Abraham says it's quite surprising and wallah, his great surprise. How is it possible for somebody to reject a transaction between him and Alas, Mahara data, rejected deal, and I liked the way he put it, you know, it's a rejected deal between him and Allah subhanaw taala and allows me to put it this way, you know, in the large ceramill moment and focus on one one on the envelope. It's like a deal

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between you and Allah. He said, How is it possible for somebody who has the consciousness and the uncle, but he rejected rejects the deal between him and Allah subhanho wa taala. And this deal is Allah is the One who is buying, you have a bitter, bitter,

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you know, you have the bitter you know, the goods that you want to sell, and who is by Allah.

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You know, what is that? What is the price, Jen?

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And what who is the who is the agent between you and Allah subhanaw taala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, he's the carpenter, his agent, Italia monolock. Do this other monolock

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The price will come. But at the same time, you see many people they don't like that. They want to go and sell the Acura with something else. Take the lowest, you know, the thing that will bring tragedy in their life and humiliation.

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That's why he says somebody spoke the truth when he says you can have a fade I've been I've seen

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for Mandela, who by the that mean by the delicate equilibrium. If you do this, if a person is doing this by himself, you know to himself, bring in tragedy and humiliation to help to yourself, is it who else will respect you in this life? If this is what they do voice of we also respect you in this life.

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Are you in love from Allah hoomin McAleenan

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he says, are making a lot of money and we're calling whoever is disrespected and humiliated by Allah subhanaw taala maloom mockery, there will be nobody who will grant him on in this life. If Allah subhanaw taala humiliates you, nobody will bring you up

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is a very scary I know. That's why a president should try his best to avoid doing things that will make the last one hotel or putting you in the seat of humiliation. Because you have a lot smarter put you in this position or lie there will be no place for you to get respected. You will never be respected wherever you go.

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Even if you see the physical respect, it will never work. We have seen a lot. So you have to be respected about last one I will tell at first than others among the creation of Allah subhanaw taala can respect you. So that's all inshallah for today I hope in sha Allah. The lesson the message has reached each and every one of us may Allah grant is good and success in life and make it easy for us to put what we have learned into practice action in the home ecology a million caffeine, Abdurrahman, electoral Mike Shaohua.

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with the use of

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loving response be counted as love with the sake of Allah. Yes, if they do it for the sake of Allah.

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But anyway, loving the spouse, if you want to get more reward is to make it for the sake of Allah, you love your wife for the sake of Allah. She loves you for the sake of Allah you do your reward will be more valuable than the normal one. But yeah, you just forgot to have that intention.

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But he just love you right? That one also is capable of earning you the reward although it it is deficient but it is still reward because if you have to love another person in the wrong way you know in the way alas Mata doesn't want you to do that.

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You will be sent in you will get sin.

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The same goes to that situation where you love them for the sake of Allah subhanaw I'm sorry, where you love them in the right way. So in both ways, be the light Allah. As long as you're not loving your spouse in the way alas MATA is not happy with that love. You will gain reward from Allah

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That's why I always say those people who stay in the way they are losers

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tell them that I'm drama Cha

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great night I have been with it

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yeah you can you can pray in sha Allah but you shouldn't pray with her again which is supposed to be prayed only once

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you can pray record you know

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I will prefer if you if you have already prayed 11 record I will prefer just to recap make them very long.

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But as cheerful as I've been to me I says you can pray more than more than that to every two years DSLR but try if you're going to pray later at night, try you make your night prayer.

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You divide your night pray according to your plan.

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Pray some in the beginning and then keep some at the end. But if you are afraid of not waking up then you pray all the night prayer the prayer you decided to pray but then later on Alhamdulillah you managed to wake up then you can pray to two but you shouldn't repeat the water again

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What is the difference between the hygiene and

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they're all They're all the same

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these are all night prayer. The MLA means the night prayer tragedy this also night prayer that we also use night prayer they're all the same

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the best is to pray the best is to pray at last part of the night as the best

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isn't that the wielding that difference? Because you're sleeping for example if you sleep and wake up and pray that the hydrogen and if you

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learn a new grade is that okay? So

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if I if let's say I go back to my house and then I just started praying my camera late

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they call it gambling. And if I sleep and I wake up what do you call it?

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so the best is to sleep the reason why sleeping you know is good because when you sleep you wake up your brain will be will be fresh.

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Okay that's the reason why it is the best

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otherwise they're all night prayers gamma Lai tahajjud. Cara we all night for years.

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But the best disappeared last part of the night and the best is to sleep first and then pray stand up and pray.

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Is the reward similar if we sleep and wake up in the day before sleeping? Is it the same way?

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That depends on intention of drama. And it depends it is not based on the sleeping itself. It is based on

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a lot of Salah Mohammed it is based on the time you're praying

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they get it

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it is based on the time you're praying.

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If you're praying the last part of the night the reward is special.

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question was just

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in the last class I think we asked about the virtue of Fridays in Ramadan.

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But she was referring to the last Friday Ramadan which we will call it

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no solder there is no such thing.

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As is just a Friday like any other bright Fridays.

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There is no Giamatti, whether all of these things may or may contribute in the laziness of the people whereby they don't be productive until the last last last last Friday or last days of Ramadan. And it's very wrong.

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Question was just

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what is the ruling on entering the EU with food offering? Is that make the eating of that food and drink around? What is that ruling

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on entering the harmonica along with food offerings. Does that make eating that good anything? No, not at all.

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Of course, he said I think he didn't because he expects so many things, but sometimes you have no option of drama.

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I didn't know about I don't know about about about about vodka and had these days of drama and you can tell although I know sometimes people in Makkah they're very lazy making Hajj you know,

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people who live for ages, but they will tell you we never made Hajj in our life. And then Mark, you know, I don't know how to understand this.

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Anyway, somebody was right when he says nobody knows the value of a Nirma except somebody who is out of it.

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May Allah smart Allah grant is good. So in Maccha, in those days, when I mean longer, when we used to go Salah, the bathrooms,

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it's not easy to find a bathroom and you will find it you'll find so many people that you will be scared of you think's been taken, you have to go with everything inside the bathroom, and then come out. So I mean, there are situations whereby you just have to, I mean, take it in the way you know, it comes, you might be forced to go inside the bathroom with everything. And sometimes even have Quran in your bag, you have to go back you have to go inside because we keep it outside. You have people who stills in in, I mean, next to the camera next to the cab and extra cover, you know, that was documentary done by the Saudi government. You know, they have the cameras taking pictures in, in

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harrow know the civilians, civilians, those who are CCTVs, you know, they have inherent to make sure they protect people and they do so Hala, you see amazing, amazing things, you know, somebody is stealing from the pocket of those people who are sleeping, you know, and see somebody is taking things from people next to the Kaaba.

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So if you have somebody taking people next to the Kaaba and he doesn't feel Allah for sure. For him to take it next to the toilet is more applicable here.

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So people might have no option they get inside the bathroom with their things. So in this case, but other than that, for sure, I will be inappropriate toilet and bathroom. But since the question is about whether it makes it halal or not, no, it doesn't make it halal. I'm sorry, it doesn't make it hard on it is still valid.

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Question that stimulates.

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I'd love to respond the way it should be. When I look at the situation of Aisha the alarm that she was founded, was very emotional for her

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to the point that even after a few years when she was narrating, it was very emotional.

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So for things that happen to us, for example, their husbands or family

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members were very close to us. Is it allowed for us to be flagged as such, like for a long period of time, no, just a correction to be made system only Ayesha after a violation of the idea that we'll see what that mercy but turn to be Nirmal from Allah wa.

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She was praised. That case was close.

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She never get upset by the thing at all. But she was just reacting to the comment made by some people when she was in that trouble. And that's natural, natural, that's very natural. And that's why it doesn't affect her heart at all. It just like Like sometimes you don't want to talk to somebody you know.

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But from your heart, you love him so much. If that person is in need, you will be the first person to go and support.

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And he will send people to him, and to go and get guidance to him. So I was not worried at all.

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After the revelation of the verses, he was so happy. She was so happy. She was so happy that she said I never thought I never thought that I will be revealed, revealed because of me. She said I thought maybe Hadith will come from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam But Quran. She said I never thought that. So when I hear that Quran is revealed because of Aisha, that that punishment was gone completely from that day, I shall never become depressed because of that situation. Because she knows now who steps in, in the fighting is Allah and you can if you can go and see the surah Allah Allah is really harsh, so harsh with the believers, even you know, not just the non non Muslims in

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Africa and even with the believers.

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Last month, I talked to everyone, those people are among the believers who turn to agree, you know, or support or to keep silence Allah subhanaw taala blame them so much, you know, and threaten also those people who talk against Aisha and he said they're going to say

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offer, they will pay the price on the Day of Judgement. That day their mouth gonna talk and their skin will be talking, their leg will be talking their hands will be talking. And they're going to tell us Martella What exactly did so Aisha so happy after that, and the issue was closed completely. She was so sad. She cried until the time she said, I thought, crying is going to pop my heart. My heart is going to pop and get destroyed because of crying. She said, I cry until the time the tears is finished. You know, I cry but the tears doesn't come anymore because I already finished all the worst enemy.

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She has it all, you know, a young young girl at that moment and very defenseless.

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In the province, Allah Azza he moves based on what Allah tells him so he keeps quiet. Her father keeps quiet, her mother keeps quiet. Nobody wants to talk because Allah doesn't say anything.

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Everyone's waiting to hear from Allah smart Allah Allah decreed that she has to be tested, and she passed the test Alhamdulillah and look at the results are yet around 10 is all because of Aisha la guerra. So after that system, only she closed that page, she never worried. And we are also supposed to imitate how when a calamity happens the progress a lot. Someone said if you lost a family member, he said don't go beyond you're not allowed to go beyond three days of sadness, even that one is not recommended. But you have a right to get sad for three days. After that the prophets Allah sama said you should go back to your normal life. Except for the wife, she can stay for four months 10 days

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you know when this one has a limitation. And why does the prophets Allah sama wants her to be in that state of

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not grieve, but a state of lack of I mean, I don't know how to put it but a dad where she cannot beat by herself, you know, these are all to protect the right of the husband the one who died because fish to be if she's to beautify herself, for sure she's going to find somebody who is interested. And this might go against the rights of the husband who is not there to protect his right.

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Good idea. So that's what allows me to step in and make it prohibited force anyone to propose to propose marriage directly to that person until the time she finishes data. The system only is very important this question of yours that a person should stay away from

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what he calls stay away from worried you know, worry a bit you know, but make sure that you don't lose the sight of Allah smart Allah and keep moving, you know, be productive in your life. Don't let a housing sadness affect your productivity. This is very wrong. Allah grant is good

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socially, he's asking if something does affect

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should we be making this much?

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Yeah, asking Allah subhanaw taala that dua of the prophets Allah sama that we have in the book Allah how many I wouldn't recommend Samuel has an or middle book that was given I mean as you will kiss him Okay, well I'm gonna bet Danny will carry Reja This is very good Allah smarter to remove the worry from your heart

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cushion by Selena

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should we also the salam from some moments when we are in the midst of reciting the Quran? Yes.

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We should

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be resetting and presenting each is a longer

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just complete very complete complete the eye and then tell them what they consider

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second question is

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should we say

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we should say Alhamdulillah but very silently, especially when you pray in JAMA when you say Alhamdulillah loudly they are going to they're going to say our hammock Allah do

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you are right but they are wrong. But who provoked them you are the one who provoked them. So if you say and hamdulillah but very silently you use your tongue to say it but very silent.

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about things

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is it recommended that we say send them to them or it's better to just let them when you when you pass them is okay. Say salaam to them. It's okay.

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Some scholars even believe that it is okay to say salaam to somebody who is praying.

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Although I didn't

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see that opinion, you know because a prayer that is shoveling it.

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You should avoid it. But if somebody said it he doesn't know you