Ibrahim Nuhu – 153 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu
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the signs of last hour that we discussed before

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just waiting for me

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he was he was salatu salam ala Rasulillah Amin and you know have you been harboring sort Allahu Allahu Allah Allah He was happy he was selling my bad yo a seller really Sharon I mean share the

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Allah Hello Alfa Romeo comm suitable role more ethically rational missionary overs, alpha and Salafi motion do all cylinders and if you have activity Mobarak day will work so Allah subhanho wa Taala anybody can you know a few minutes when you're feeling that way feel leafy where I got to Chattahoochee really. So today inshallah we will continue from where we stopped and I think

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well my book is money. So, we will stop. We will start with a new chapter Shala which is about

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mu being this man, Alma boob the loved something that she loved

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Look at him says there are two types of things that people love. A Kelowna Rahula while Mahoba is money, mobile, NFC, mobile there any there are two types of things. Human beings law

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number one mobile Linux see something that you love.

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I mean, it's up because of itself. And you love the thing the thing that you love

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an object human being, you love that thing. Well Mahabali right hit something that you love because of something else you love. Because of something that's not technically you don't like him if that thing does not exist, because but that is a goal you are trying to reach. So you know that you have to love this one for you to reach that one. So you're loving this because of the word Alma humulene FC means objects that you love because of itself meaning meaning you love the thing itself. And that is a man who believe at something that you love because of something else. And sometimes you might love children because of their father because of them ill of something because of something else.

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No, because it is made by something else. Shala he is going to explain this in a bit more detail in the near future inshallah. So he says, Well, my hope is money. Mobile NFC one will live at Walmart mobile in Haiti, he LeBeau Daniela, here LM boo Linux see the one that you love because of something else. It has to end

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to that thing that you love it for it.

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You love something because of something else. What are you trying to reach when you love this one, you're trying to reach that goal. So it must take you at the end of the day to that one or the YT otherwise your love to this thing will be useless. Why do I love it because I love it. Believing that at the end of the day I will be able to get that thing. So he says Google already hear the thing that you love him for something else. It has to be something that can take you to that thing which you love in the thing for it.

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Carla was googling it lab and yenter here lol bouboulina FC

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definitely deserves a little Mohawk because if you're loving something for the sake of something else maybe you don't love it in itself you love it because of something else. So it has to have an end you know you're trying to reach that well otherwise you love this one because of this and that one also you're loving it because of something else and that one also you love it because of something when are you going to finish Yeah, that's when he said there has to be an end to that he loves something for the sake of something so it has to be one thing that you're trying to reach and which you believe that loving this thing particular thing can take you to the love of the main goal.

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So the main target is not this the main target this is something else and we have this a lot in our life. We will be in

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Venezuela kind to people to others not because of them because they want to come closer to those people who those

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people affiliated

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in the workplace you have this a lot. Yeah.

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We'll call no mas Wilma will hack for Homer who will already so you can set to cut the story short, anything other than the ELMO who would have you know, the loved the thing that you I mean, the true loved one. Who is that Allah who believe me? Yeah.

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The one that loving Him is the truth. You know, the real love you know? Is Allah subhanaw taala he says anything other than Allah subhanho wa Taala for whom booboo lady, you love him for something else, not the thing itself, the only one that you love him.

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himself is Allah subhanho wa Taala Hello?

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Carlo Elisa che when you have lien FC Illa Allah who

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we love companions.

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Why, for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala we love Rasulullah Salah sama to get closer to Allah subhanaw taala you love Halal to get closer to Allah subhanaw taala so whatever you love in this dunya is for the sake of taking you to Allah subhanaw taala easily. So it will find says you have a mobile NFC Walmart mobile liberty.

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Liberty is only one and that is Allah subhanaw taala alone. moolah that he is only one and that is Allah subhanaw taala you're loving him something.

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You're loving him he himself. You're not loving Allah because of reaching

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Something else that love is fake. If somebody has it, it is not actually true long, you have to love Allah swatter he himself not because you're loving Allah subhanaw taala because you're doing business with him. I love him because I want him to take me to this. If he is if I know he's not going to take me to that thing, I will not love

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that one you do it with others, not Allah subhanho wa Taala good idea that doesn't negate the fact that we love Allah subhanaw taala we practice whatever he wants, because we believe that he deserved is the first thing you should have in your heart that he deserved to to have this from us. And also, other than that, there is incentive also he promised to give us but at the first place, we are winning and we believe it is a must upon us to love Allah subhanaw taala even if there is no compensation known to us, because he deserves to be worshipped, he deserved to be loved, because we are all his creation and his is property is ownership he owns us. So he is the only one who has the

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right to control us in the way he wants. But Allah subhanaw taala is Abrahim so he did not make it so rigid. Allah subhanaw taala told us also that is an incentive. It is our job to do it but still Allah subhanaw taala is given us something for that. You get this inshallah correctly, it is our job to worship Allah subhanaw taala and when you are doing your job, there will be no compensation for that. This is your work, this is your responsibility. This is your obligation. You're doing it. You're not supposed to expect any any reward for that because this is your job. Yeah.

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But still Allah subhanaw taala is rewarding us and Allah smarter is granting us so many things in this life because of our good behavior in doing our job which is benefiting us, not him. Yeah, in doing our job which is to benefit us not, but still Allah is his reward. So the only Mabu li that he we have is Allah horrible Allah is Allah Allah Allah. Allah relationship when you have good enough See he in the Allahu Illa Allah, what is it that is nothing which is loved, you know, because of him himself, you know? That you just love him himself? Not because you're trying to get something except Allah subhanaw taala

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Carla will call Luma Siva who may you have in who for in

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muhabba to who Tebow Lim Huberty, Allahu Akbar Kota Allah he says anything other than Allah subhanaw taala that people love for mmm, habit, whatever only habit as though you are loving that thing. And you're loved that thing is connected, or is do it is because of your love to Allah subhanaw taala that's why you log anything other than a law. You know, you're logging that because of your log to Allah subhanaw taala at least for the for the believers, at least for the for the believers we're talking about the added dunya you know, they have other

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I mean space to discuss that matter. But Carla comma harbor to come I have Betsy Mala Katie, one day you love and angels. Why?

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Because of the love of Allah subhanaw taala because of ALLAH SubhanA wa Bucha you don't even see them, but he loved so much he loved me. And you think they are so perfect? You respect them?

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What Ambia and his profits and for us, we don't even see them. We believe in them and we love them all.

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Because of what Allah subhanaw taala what Oh, yeah. And the earlier of Allah subhanaw taala who is only somebody who fears Allah subhanaw taala and act righteously doesn't really have a last monitor very simple concept that is made complicated. However, in maha turbo Lima Huberty he subhanho wa taala. So I love Allah subhanaw taala therefore I should love what Allah loves, and my love for Allah necessitate loving all of these above mentioned

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creations and jewels Ambia n the OD of Allah hotel and Eros of the good ones.

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Allah in the high Tebaldi, Mahabharata who subhanho wa Taala were here Mila was somebody

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you know last name is something that is necessary. Meaning if you accept this exam, you can and toquilla When you accept this, then you have to accept also other things which are attached to it. So it necessitates loving those creations of Allah subhanaw taala and the things that Allah subhanaw taala loves

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Carla, we're here Mila was the name Huberty. But in nama hub

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better movie to Jubo Mahabharata, my Hebrew because loving Allahu Allah home is something that you loved to gebouw but have better

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my Hebrew you know it necessitates you loving what he loves.

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Yeah. And this is this is who we are in this life. People that you love, you enjoy knowing what they love and they like and you also love it because of that.

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Aloha the mole the year jaboulet. Tina will be in the home. Hello, for Connie, banal Muhammad Ali. He habitability labs and belts however, it is a very, very, very important topic that a person should be very serious on it. Yeah, it is a very important topic. And it's true. Yeah, it's true. Because if you are to apply this into your life, you will be laughing laughing at yourself. In most instances. Yeah, how many times you favor what Allah subhanaw taala I'm sorry, what? Allah you favor what Allah subhanaw taala hate. And if you are to be asked, Do you love Allah? Yeah, of course. No. But then you don't do what he asked you to do. He loves something but you don't do.

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In our time. We have a lot of he had that right. The prophets Allah Azza wa said yesterday who had him Allah He didn't hear

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people you know Subhan Allah modified the laws of Allah subhanho wa Taala because they don't want to favor them. But Allah has voted on to go with that that dunya law.

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So at the end of the day, they end up legalizing what Allah subhanaw taala reject and made haram using very simple silly tricks, you know, just like the like the juice and Allah subhanaw taala

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me made

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the fat haram upon them.

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What did they do for Gemma Liu?

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Boo. You know, they melted you know, they get the oil and they sell it they get the money

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you know Allah azza wa jal make it haram for them. So what did they do they melt the fat it became oil and they sell it

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to them

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it's gone this

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whose hotspot is strong

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it's wireless.

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when they see my interest okay

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you been killed

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Okay, so it says

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you know the province a lot Alyssa said Allah subhanaw taala made it prohibited upon them but the melted and eat the company

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thinking that they can play a game you know, wait Allah subhanho wa Taala but this is wrong. So in the last month I made something prohibited and Muslim is supposed to stay away from it.

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But I'm trying to say here is if we are to apply this concept, you know, this issue that will KMC is saying that this is the most one of the most important topic to be to be serious on. You know, it says because it is the place where you can see the difference between things you love, you know, that can benefit you in the future and things that love in them is harmful to you.

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There are things which loving them is beneficial and there are things which loving them is really harmful to you.

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So we have to check and see what exactly Allah smarter loves and you love those ones. What Allah subhanaw taala hates we stay away from those, those one hasty,

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all of that. And the whole law you have bullet that he man can come on who Miller was me that he locked. He said he should know that nobody deserves to be loved. You know he himself except one and that one is the one that came out hoomin laoise in that what is coming perfection is perfection is part of him. Something less it means something that is attached to him connected to him cannot be separated from it. One of the SIFAT a lazy man Ilana Azzawajal is come up.

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Allah subhanaw taala is always coming. There is no time when Allah subhanaw taala is not basically as a builder at Allah.

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under current law Kenya, so this is super Lazy, Lazy Malema has Georgia and you have a lot of civil which allows him Allah azza wa jal like knowledge

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is always always there. Like cool. It's always there. And you have our other civil which has fat

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failure, Listeria, like Mudgee Allah subhanaw taala come in, he says he comes to the lowest level of the heavens, you know, every last third of the night and you're welcome. I will come like a bike last quarter laps. You know, it's not as if Atlassian although the possibilities there if you look at it from this sense, you will also call them that ELA so djellaba is not sci fi that is always there if alpha that's what they call them. SIFAT at area, Allah subhanaw taala is doing them what matter, but I shall wish

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so I'll come on, I'll help there's help. I'll help whenever I lost my hotel, I want to create a great

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if you look at them in the sense of ability and power and core, then all this effort of Allah's motel as

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Yeah, because the ability is there.

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He doesn't talk every single time talking, you know, continuously he did not tell us this. But we believe that the ability to speak is always there and will never leave Allah subhanaw taala from this sense, this is if Allah Allah has to

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get it under the mercy of a loss motor and and punishment is that also that if you look at them this as if that if the area fairly well as evenly as

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any Rahmatullah as original as possible as as the origin

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whatever you see a loss more or less do it if you look at his property is properly is mercy for the humankind is mercy for the creation

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so there's a very long

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topic so let's just leave it like that. So I'll come out is the secret lousy Manila as the origin Come on, so if Eliza Molina huzzah gel which means it is always there, perfection, you know, the most complete is always complete, there is no way for Allah subhanaw taala to have Nachshon in his that

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milliwatts Zb

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that he will adhere to he or will be at work in our home in LA was the modality so there wasn't that Allah has. We're here at what is law here. The Vinit you know, Allah subhanaw taala been Illa Allah here means he is in a well Illa who who will Malou well Malou who hold my booty back? When you hear the word that it means the only one to be worshipped. That's why nobody deserves it except Allah. Why don't we actually

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Allah is taking from the word isla. Back to that meaning that I have just mentioned what movie it what is it a movie? Yeah, believing that Allah subhanaw taala is and Halleck

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al Malik al muda as the rupee of Allah by saying this then you include everything.

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All the actions of Ullswater will help.

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Allah says Allah Allahu halco One Amma

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How will milk What did beef

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and how will milk what

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is the creation, milk ownership and to be the control? Yeah, everything is under the control of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Caller will be at he was here now. Again, it means be in a state of not needing anyone. That's good.

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And everyone is in need of you. That's good. You don't need anyone and everyone needs that beginner who is like this?

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Nobody, no matter how much rich he is, he is not like this. He needs somebody to help him.

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Yeah, is rich did you ever find somebody who is rich but at the same time, medical doctor former you know

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manufacturer you know, all the all the things we did this dunya these guys do it nobody's like that.

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Even if you have somebody who's like this, who is controlling his his life, he's breathing. Allah who has given him ability to work Allah. So he's always in need of Allah and Allah does not need

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self sufficient. self sufficient but his is unique. Because we also define the people trying to achieve self sufficiency. Yeah, but that's restricted to our own nature. Still, I need somebody to make dress I need somebody to make rice I need somebody to cook for me. I need somebody to

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So many things

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so that's why Allah is the only one who does not need anyone and everyone needs him what is the the idea that supports this

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apart from the idea that says

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you another animal Pokhara hola hola hola vana you need

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that is the name of Allah subhanaw taala that contain this

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a summit yeah summit last summit Allah Samantha salad a salad and let the testimony in a hair color echo Kula Fujimi hijack the word as Samad means a seat you know the one who every creation is always in need of him is always going back to him in a neat

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color. Well he now who Mila was me that so Hina Sefa

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Lassie Melinda has origin you know, last Emanuel has which is always Allah is always ready. Always ready.

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So if Allah Zima Illa hazard were mas Yahoo for in NEMA Uberaba where you Corrado limoneira Fatty limoneira He had the he one mother Omada to heal whatever is other than Allah subhanaw taala you hate him because it is against what Allah has hurt and loves. Yeah.

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It is opposite contrary to what allows Martin loves.

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Beaucoup Walker here to be has to be caught to have Illuminata what Barfi he thinks that hatred is supposed to be based on what you call

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the the strength you know of that one Alpha. You know, I hate it. Because it is away from Allah. I hate it because Allah hated

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to get idea there are things you know, hate and things you know in Sharia is not equal. We Allah Sparta hates river is not the same way he hates

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some other transaction. rebar is worse than those that we alas Montilla hate and it is different from the way he ate Zina with Sharia hate this is so anything you are loving, are you hating it? Absolutely you're headed in this dunya is supposed to be based on that. What you call rejection or difference that it has between it and the Sharia of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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to get it there so you're majoring the hatred of the Sharia on things which will will influence your hatred also towards that thing. According to how much Allah subhanaw taala hated. I'm going to hate it like that. According to how much Allah subhanaw taala dislike it I'm going to hate it like that. So that's why what he meant when he says well, merci wha hoo in nama ubicada well you could have limoneira refer to him happy,

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happy one modality or Mullah dirty LA or Bogota who work around here to work out how to be has to be caught he had the element of hat or

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so if something is just a slightly in Sharia you also dislike it.

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Yeah, if something is hated about Allah smart Allah you hate it. Something is rejected by Allah you also rejected

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according to the level of that hatred, you know, from the from the Sharia, you also go like that, it is very good. It's very good. Because there are things which you might dislike is not hated or rejected. If you come and put a strong barrier on people, you're gonna put them into difficulty because she did not put that difficulty on them. Yeah, a lot smarter dislike it or waver from the resource of the Sharia, it doesn't reach the level of tyranny.

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So when somebody does it, and you come and tell them no, since Allah swatter hated, you have just stay since Allah dislike it, you have to stay away from it completely. No, we check and see first what is the level of this book in the Sharia, then we go with that, according to that level, that last month I put it because sometimes you might be in a state of need or necessity of that thing.

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If somebody is to stop you from it, you will be talking on behalf of the Sharia, you know, in the wrong way, which will put people in in the state of difficulty

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and this is very important topic. Yes. Why rigidity on some of the opinions, you know, as long as they don't have any strong thing to back it up. A person shouldn't go for this

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caught up for Mr. Khanna I showed them an alpha Lima hobby he can ship the karate mineral iron and he will ask

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So if you will fit well era that were very hard for

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me then I didn't choose to be more of a caterpillar Maharlika to who were more or to whom or other to Allah, it is whatever you are hating in this dunya you wait with this Misa how much Allah subhanaw taala hate it you love it according to that what they call hatred or the book, how much Allah is monitor Love it, love it according to to the.

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So, if Allah's mother hates something very strongly, you know, you also should go like this. You also should hate it like

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color, what either shocks will qualify for either

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shocks and you Hibou micro who are rubber, where Chroma Chabot, alumna and Nephi he made that up because we like

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it says if we see a person who

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loves what Allah hates, Allah hit something. And this person loves what Allah hate. Well yet Cara whom I Hibou and he hates what Allah loves.

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Alumna and Nephi he means that he has to be like, so we know that this person has some enmity against Allah subhanaw taala according to that level of that quantity of that love and hatred that he has towards the thing that alas Martina hates. Yeah, this is this is true.

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Allah hates something and this person loves it. Allah loves something that this person hated.

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Yeah, what is that? Who is he hated?

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The one who loves it. If he knows that Allah's mother loves this. At the same time, he's hating it. Yeah. So he's not hating the thing itself. He's hating the one who loves that.

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And that's Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah VEDA Aina Shuksan. You have micro who are Roberta Allah, where Chroma Hibou alumna and the fee meanwhile that he has been alaka whether it shocks you Hibou my shibaura Boo, we're here Cara homemaker who are Kula McKenna Shahabad Allah humbler Arabica hub la he was thorough in the whole coulomb I can either he can up for the interview about a woman who alumna and if he had been more or less robbed, it has to be delicate. It said the opposite also supposed to be to be applied here is if you see somebody lot who loves what Allah loves. And he hates what Allah smart Allah hate. And he always favored that which Allah loves over what he wants.

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It says we know that and when when Allah subhanaw taala hates something. He also hates that so much. Aquila, McCann, Abdullah la can Abdullah elaborate, if Allah's want to hate something, you also hate it so much. And he tried to take it so I mean far away from you.

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Even your claim says we will understand from this, that this person loves Allah subhanaw taala you know, and his law is based on how much he hates what Allah hates, and how much he loves what Allah loves. Is that indicators, right? Whether a person loves Allah or not, then we will check his activities and his deeds. There is an ayah in the Quran where Allah subhanaw taala emphasize on this. He says Colleen can talk to him about Allah for Trione

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Kamala and filicudi

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if you love Allah subhanho wa Taala it says, follow the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, yeah, I said, I love Allah subhanaw taala then how do I know whether I'm truthful in my love or not? When somebody tells us he loves Allah, how do we know whether he is truthful or not? We check his actions. They in accordance to what Allah has maharatna loves? Yes they are.

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And he hates what Allah smart Allah hate. What does that mean? This should be a clear indication, you know that this person loves Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Allah Fatima says, we had an awesome enough seeker of a Vedic, he says, You have to hold upon this principle, you know, to apply it on yourself and also in your relationship with with others

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is the man has, as soon as

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they look at this principle and they apply it in themselves and in their relationship with us, fellow Wilaya to abiotic Morphettville religion have made him happy what must occur to him? What is Willa, Willa is

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the closeness to Allah subhanho to Allah, you know, a person to be close to Allah subhanaw taala this level, you know, this title is given to somebody who loves actually you will have it and that's Allah subhanaw taala and only you'll have it

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The one who weren't earlier where are they? Are they the one who loves his earlier and this log is a log of what protection care you know, Allah smarter does it with his Alia and who is the only somebody who feeds Allah and maintain his esta karma in every aspect of his of his life. He say what is what is Willa, Willa is nothing other than loving what Allah subhanaw taala loves and agreeing with Allah subhanaw taala in anything he wants, and

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getting angry with anything that lasts one or two days angry, he's angry with

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somebody says, hey boca de la Ali Abdullah Abdullah Omar says one aka hookah villa. It says I love you for the sake of Allah and Allah Allah says but I hate you for the sake of Allah

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Subhan Allah to different dimension. It's an I love, he says I hate you for the sake of Allah. He says it's really an architect who the Allah Danika agilon Because you take reward for you other than he demands reward for his other. So that's why I hate you for the sake of Allah.

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So, what is Willa, Willa is based on a green with the Willie and Hemet and this is a last man who to Allah in whatever he loves and hating whatever he hates will lay set because TCM wa salatu wa ala Tomas Zukin wall area it is not based on so many things you're doing you know, activities Salah you know, your behaviors changing, walking very slowly and crying, shouting, screaming you know, doing some exercise is not a specific area. We have a he's talking about here tibial muscle within our area. So he says this is not Wilaya because nowadays he sees Han Allah some people jumping, you know, dancing, doing so many silly things, but they call them out. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I have seen the

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documentary you know,

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these people you call them a journey, you know, Madonna and insane person, right? And the hair is currently and they're jumping up and down. But they think this is what Allah subhanaw taala wants from from them.

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Allah, Allah salam ala hiya Well, my boo will eventually hit this man either. So the only one that you love Lena Lee that He is Allah, Allah who will add things that you love for the sake of something else. There are also two types huduma miles total Mohab Bo B A, B directly he was really the first one is one that when you get it you enjoy

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it No, you're gonna get get some enjoyment by by getting it with Fannie Mae yet level up? Well, I can you tell me who live what he will do. And some of them only get it, you know, you're going to suffer a lot. But since you believe at the end of the day, it will take you to a pleasure. You agree to suffer

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to get idea. Color. Cash shouldn't be the wild. I'll carry some of these adware. Most of them actually.

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If you are to take them, you know, they don't have good taste.

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They don't have good taste, other than honey and even Black Sea doesn't have that much good taste. But honey is different. Yeah, other than that medicine is nobody likes it.

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But why do we accept to take medicine? And in our time we have the injection, right? That's the worst. Yeah, but why do you agree to go for it? Because you believe that at the end of the day, if you accept it in sha Allah, you will get health and then you will enjoy living peacefully. So you love the medicine, not because of the medicine. And the medicine is my crew something that is hated to you because it brings LM pain to you?

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Yeah, but at the end of the day, you accept it, you know, how do you go to the medical doctor and they catch you know, and you agree with that.

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When they're cutting you might not feel it because they put those drugs in you. But the aftermath of the surgery. Yeah. You ask those people who went through it they can tell you

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after that, you know you need to keep receiving the painkillers you know and these painkillers they have limited between the bread before they bring the new one is a lot. Yeah, so you know that you're going to face all of these consequences but you agree, because you know what comes after after that is success and enjoyment and happiness.

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Allah subhanaw taala says quotevalet Kumar Patel who Quran Allah subhanaw taala has Piske prescribed a time opening for this guitar here yet open. Oh cool.

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We'll look at people that like jihad. Why?

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Because they're going to, it's very easy to lose your life and Islamically is not a loss, but it's very easy to leave this dunya it's very easy for you to lose some part of you in order to come back and live. You know with that deficiency

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you have no clue how life is going to be you know, when you lose your eyes, you lose your nose, you lose your your arms, you have no clue.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says, well who are komolika You don't like it? And then Allah says we're Assa and tecra who Shayan or who

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Allah, Allah as much as he is perhaps you might hate something, but it is good for you.

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Once again to Hibou che and Rahul a shadow liquid and you might love something but unfortunately it is evil for you.

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What Allah Who Yeah, LM one, two Natalia. Marie love desires will lie it tells you how to live in this life.

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Accepting the decrees of the last 100 to Allah and putting your hope in Allah and whatever Allah has chosen for you, you just love that and you go blindly believe in that. Yes, it is always going to take you to success as well Allah subhanaw taala as as well as anticorrosion or hydralic. You might hate something but it is good for you. What has happened to him Wu Shan Hua shuddered. And you might love something but it is bad for you. Allah subhanaw taala says, who Allah Who Yeah, lm hantam letter.

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So I have a lot you have an example of this

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a lot in this life of ours.

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So that's why I put your trust in Allah subhanaw taala, or whatever Allah has chosen for you just just take,

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especially when doing business.

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This is where the difference, you know, in our time exist. Who is really really with Allah subhanho wa Taala and who is not? Because everyone claims that he's with Allah, but who is truly with Allah.

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In our time, when it comes to choosing the correct business, you will understand who is really with Allah

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and who is making fun of himself.

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So Allah says, who Allah Who ya Allah want to let Allah Allah knows that you don't know

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for Africa subhanho wa Taala and Italia mcru know how you will normally if that healer of movement or anti Allah told them that Pitta McCollum, you know, people like Peter,

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Miranda who hire love

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but at the same time, it is better for them.

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Why is it better for them because it leads to move something that they love, they love it, you know?

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130 something that brings me on fire for that success and easy life

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but in a full suit to hit Baraha where their work whatever here

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and so loves what resting is in if

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you know

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and prosperity

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Do you have these in jihad? Jihad itself you know going to fight now just yet any fighting in this dunya? Is

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it something in itself it brings one tragedy, death, you know, bumping and doing all of these things, but at the end of the day, if it is correct, meant in the correct way. If we're talking about the jihad, if it is meant, I mean it's made in the correct way. It ends with what success so let's Allah so my engage in a few of

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the that's why the amount of Islam survive up to this date Allah subhanaw taala says, well Lola def Allah He NASA Barbone divided the facility out

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and up to date also this is a principle you know, that one that country has nuclear weapon, the other one also has, who's going to use it?

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Nobody that's how to maintain the balance this dunya otherwise trust we will get into trouble if only one has.

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So nowadays we have those people who legalize it for themselves because they believe they are smart. And they deprive others from having because they believe they're dumb. And those people who don't care.

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They just have that's how we maintain the balance. nobody's using it against any, any anyone. So Allah says Allah Allah, Allah hiddenness about own development as soon as

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Allah plays in this life, some people who are there to scare the other one from using their force and their power in the wrong way.

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Then William,

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Allah says lucha de musoma

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Yo what's Salawat Roma Sajida youth curfew hustle like if not because of this fact of difference. Allah says many of these places of worship you know where people go and approach a mass market and I will be destroyed completely.

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So people that like these type of things naturally we're like

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well, Erica Sharona Holly Vahid fit Haven't you know this this this era resting lack of you know a courage to go and penetrate you know those see our difficulties you know when they are defending the religion of Allah subhanaw taala and the Muslim territory This is sure as evil this kind of attitude or behavior of being lazy in defending Islam defending your religion friend in your family country this is less this kind of laziness never bring good be what he left for what you haven't marble because it ends by tragedy you know they got this maboob allow them you will not get it in in the future

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it could be easily snatched by recruiting loss parlor fell after you lie on it I love that movie. Jennifer unify save a smart person somebody who has apple

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will never focus and pay attention to the current enjoyment. Yeah, those people who look at the three the three companions of the Prophet Allah sama who did not go to the Battle of taboo right why didn't they go was it because they have excuse No, they just want to relax carbs is between his two wives you know presenting him with food and nice fruit. It was in his favor you know?

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Yeah. Progress

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no further further further, this is not even delayed.

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There is no intention you know, you know when I favor resting, you know, I'm not I might not pro procrastinate, you know, in the sense that okay, I will do it later. No, I just want to

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what am I going to do it inshallah we think about that.

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So that's hubiera loving what, rest and robot Rafa here and that means it just be lazy, not being productive and active, you know, in doing that, which is your responsibility. So if no carryover says, If this is your attitude, you are going to lose the ultimate success that alas Moto is preparing for you, which you need to sacrifice your rest so that you can attain the continuous rest in the in the future. When you live Allah's motto, grant you peace. And when you don't live you go back to Allah smarter you get the best life as a last minute Telesis will act as somebody within opportunities to be liked and what Allah held in Durban. So he said I'll ask him a smart person is

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not the person who focus on the dunya pleasure.

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Allow the Landry Lella that's the ALMA movie Elijah,

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who are alive in macrophylla, Arjun fire acabo fade.

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You know, it doesn't know focus on the pain of the macro photography in America cardio corner Shala because it might be evil for him.

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Yeah. And he focused on the mcru analogy. Forgive me, so I'm sorry for everyone who has read it in the wrong way. That's when translation was Fragoso Karlova LM LM in mcru arise in fair Gabon. He doesn't focus on the LM the pain.

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The current pain you know, fair Gabon who Raghavan who means you hate it?

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Yeah, because sometimes you go for the LM the pain, which you suffer now. But you know, after this pain is success in the future. So he's a smart person, somebody who tolerate this pain is not the one who will just focus on this pain and say, Oh, this is very painful, I cannot tolerate this, you know, and at the same time, he will not think about the future. What comes after this pain, you know, this is just temporary. So he said a smart person is somebody who doesn't pay attention to this temporary pain, you know, and he focused on the future again, you know, and as such he will tolerate the temporary pain to get the pitch the future Manfra

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California Derek Acharya Kunal Chava level, so that might be evil for him. But Belka the NCAA title ALEMI waiver, which will allow them a Liberty Bell or color or duniya yet to have maroon and Masha called Makuha. Lima Jacobo, who may live by the way in

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he says the alkane is not the person who is always looking at the current pleasure and then he accepted or the current on temporary, temporary, you know what he called pain and then rejected completely he said no, the answer is somebody is somebody who is always looking at the future. What exactly can he get in the future if it is good, he will favor the circumstance now, the condition now even if it is painful, he will accept it and go and go with it. So that he will not lose that the great success in the future. It says well Ocula duniya you can look at the smart people in this dunya and talking about the UCLA aka the smart people in this dunya sometimes they favor you know,

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difficulties because they know in the future they will get temporary benefit, even temporary benefit they accept it and they can agree with that the difficulty they're facing in the dunya so that they can get the temporary benefits in the future.

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Parliament okay you have here, Karla Mooloolaba

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called even there are four things here today to be remembered. Okay. Can be highlighted. McCrone Usila mcru Something that is the the slides and it takes you to something that is this license Villa much above Africa. The next one is macaroon. Usila Elam, boo, something that is more crude but it takes you to something that is loved.

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someday it will give you something that is mcru But you'll see like medicine that he mentioned the example well my mobile Usila Malibu, something that is loved and it takes you to bamboo.

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Anything that allows one or two loves and ask you to love it and it takes you to the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala when one use you Illa McCoo and something that you love, but it takes you to the to the mcru Yeah, anything that loves what they hate and we love it but it takes to macro, which is Allah subhanaw taala will take away his pleasure. Open us Carla filma Google Mozilla bobbin courage Tim Afy Danielle fear element G Hatay.

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And in the motivating factor, something that motivates you to do you know to act upon that maboob Usili them Abobe you have from both dimension and the Houma who

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one who use Rilla marble, it is something that is loved and also take it something that he loves. So what motivates you to do it? These two factors, you love it in itself and also it takes you to something that you love

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while McGraw Hill Mozilla McGraw Hill College demography, they're a telco in India, the one that takes you to macro macro and taking you to macro.

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You will stay away from it from to damage. It is Margarita like it at the first place and also the result is mcru

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to get it why would you do it? Yeah alkyl cannot choose this equilibrium in Woba Klk dismantle arhaan Yetta Delavan it that I add wahama market to live tonight. We have two left right now we talk about my boo boo macrophylla macro. So now I'm rubella macro macro dilemma boom. Yeah, he said this is the middle market the place where the battle exists will empty hand and the test for NASA to Accra, Bahamas you are naturally the sole favor the one that is closest to it.

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Anyone that is closer to it will hold it to one or two they get the benefit. You can easily get the benefit this is what we favor will actually Imana youth era and untha Houma welcome Yeah. So naturally favors the one that you see. I just get this benefit. You know when I do it I will just easily get this benefit. What happens after that? I don't care. You say this is our nature. But Uncle Uncle the correct and the sound uncle always study for us and favor the one that is unfair, the one that brings manufacturing,

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although it is too far, but he will agree to go and sacrifice and struggle so much in order to get it.

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What a powerful man the one that lost more.

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Yeah, you will not go for the one that just stays temporarily and then and then goes.

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Carla will call Booba in a day. And the heart is between these two factors that he loves for that yet.

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Well, who either had a marathon way to have the marathon sometimes this sometimes this. Allah will have when I'm helping

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If Taylor and Sharon work harder, this is the basis of the test. Sharon, what

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Carla for that year actually will Eman United cola worked in her yard further

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in the summer here model como Surah it says that your uncle you know the sound Apple whenever we say Apple we're talking about the sound Apple Iman and Iman is always inviting a person higher alpha come to the success meaning go to that which benefits you and also the benefit last longer.

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And they always say in the saga, Yamuna calm as well. Because Because usually these things you need to sacrifice and you need to serve struggle, they don't come just like that. There is a price to be to be paid. That's why he mentioned this method in the ceramah taco

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store. So these are the people who travel at night. Right, a trouble at night and they don't Jonnie favor the rest and sleep they keep going when the federal comes and they look at the Mostafavi a penetrator they will say Alhamdulillah

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it a managed to especially at night, the earth

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Allah subhanaw taala as the Hadith of the prophets a lot of the same assets you will be laid out in an orb Topo and this can This is physical, not spiritual is physical of the total sum set no is just spiritual because at night everything cools down, you know, you know time that is no traffic jam, you know? Yes, yes.

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And honestly speaking, it's it's physical. You will feel it. Yeah. So

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so it says under Saba hammer the comb Sarasa is referring to those people who sacrifice the face difficulties in in struggling you know, to get that book, you know, but at the end of the day, when they got it, they enjoy, okay, he said well, filmer mighty Majid Abdo Atoka when the person reached death, he will say what Alhamdulillah Allah Allah taqwa, you will enjoy you TBWA when you see death,

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Carla instead the vulnerable lady, for inish for instead Villa Molina muhabba What haccombe assaults on a shower? Whatever your call is very. This is the righteous person somebody who has Aculon Iman, when

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Subhan Allah has the Lambo hubba the llama lady muhabba WHAT THE HECK comes upon a shower is talking about the habit of other things of the dunya you know so strongly you know and Shaohua is dominating the heart and irida the strong will you know to go and get that maboob of of the dunya your kuleana is very he tells himself be patient

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but my head less out information coffee you know in just an hour you know a moment you know and then it finished

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well haha the cooler who is you learn all of these things

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will go completely and disappear. You know, look at the example of this.

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Of this person probably is a lot so moderated his story, the one who

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loves his cousin, remember those three people? He's in the situation whereby nothing stopping from committing Zina, except those words she may she mentioned, which brings them by three EMA and he was able to move away from her and favor Allah subhanho wa Taala is pleasure.

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We know that yes, he was sincere because he says yeah, Allah if I was doing that, for your sake, open the place for us and it open.

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It says yeah, Allah if I was doing it for your sake, open it anyway. So he favored the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala over this and, you know, the pleasure that he might be getting of this dunya which will enter you know, how long does it last? Very few minutes, few seconds, few minutes. And that's it.

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And the person will become very normal, normal. You could use Valley Salem.

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Every day of doing that haram thing was there was young. And she also if the history is correct, that she never her husband never approached

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if the history is correct, and her husband never approach and also she's in the authority, whatever she he did with her most likely will never be discovered.

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Unless if she is pregnant, then this is something else. And the minute they know how to hide it, you know, but still use valleys says no. Yeah, it's my last so this is an egg

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sample of whatever okay was saying that smart person is somebody who looks at the pleasure that remains an enjoyment that remains forever and ever. And he favored this over his own, what he called temporary desire and temporary enjoyment of the above the dunya. Allah subhanaw taala grant is good and to fix the most important thing to take from this lesson is talking about the scale and the measurement we we have been in the future. How do I know whether I love Allah subhanaw taala or I don't like Adam love Allah subhanaw taala I look at my behavior and my attitude. Am I that person who always follow follows that which Allah loves, and I hate and I stay away from what Allah

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subhanaw taala hate. If I'm that person then I love Allah small.

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Eden lazuli, if I'm doing that sincerely for his sake, that means I love Allah, my love to Allah subhanaw taala is, it's true. Yeah, but if I am not like this, then my love to Allah subhanaw taala is fake, you know, according to the level of that, you know, attitude and behavior of mind. Good idea because sometimes we do, what Allah subhanaw taala loves. And sometimes we do want Allah subhanaw taala hate so sometimes Iman is there sometimes.

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Unfortunately, the desire of disobeying Allah subhanaw taala is there. So that's the most important thing that whatever we do, I mean, when we want to know whether we love Allah subhanho to Allah, we should major our obedience to Allah subhanho wa Taala and we should always love that which Allah smart Allah loves and we hate anything that Allah subhanaw taala it's so this is the main lesson to be taken from this chapter. A person should be very smart and always focus and base his decision on the future month that is everlasting, which is the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala that end in having that person going to go into June? Allahu Allah subhanaw taala and will be Ambika shadow La

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La Land, as tech records will be late Sara walakum Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh.

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Welcome Yeah, yeah, she's

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loving something from this dunya that is

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staying away from anything that will

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that is not benefiting your IRA

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a good idea and love in it can, of course, make your heart weak. Yeah, because anything that is against the Lord will make your iman and your heart.

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So you study things that you love in this dunya.

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And you do that, if they are going to add value to you.

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There they're going to add value to you. You love them and you practice them. You stay away from them, although they're halal, but you stay away from them because they don't add any value to you. Yeah, they don't add any value to you.

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Any dunya that is not going to add value to you after you stay away from it.

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And how do I know it is based on my class and the purpose and the reason why I'm doing those Halal things because Hello remain valid. And if I do it correctly in the weight loss module once it will add value to my

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age Good. Good intention because Allah made it good. Appreciate what loss monitor did I say this will I see Al Hamdulillah after I finish you know, I get the sauce from Halal way and I use it in the in the good way. These are all things that are adding value to my you know, so doing them

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and staying away from them. This dude also loved going to school.

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We have a question from Brother From Another

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LaGrande good. I'm about to have a meeting with a sister and her family, which is her brother in order to know if she is compatible with me or not? Can you please elaborate on what I should be doing and what to avoid?

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First of all, you are there just for looking to see whether you will be satisfied with her living next to you. That's the most important thing actually.

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Because it's not for the discussion and the discussion. You can have it again without going to go into that. And

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you have to strive to be honest, that's why you shouldn't talk too much. Just about Tarot. If you have something that is very important and crucial,

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which you are afraid of them not agree. Then you discuss those

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Not so with him in that place. But if it is a first meeting, I will prefer just general introduction, and you will look at how she looks at you invested. And that look, it is supposed to be based on that knowledge, you know, you are trying to know who she is. That's not based on enjoyment.

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They said the OB Hello. Never really say alarm list list into

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a yes. And as it is supposed to be very simple. Yeah, simple meeting. And that's it. That's why too much meetings will not bring a good

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supposed to be one single meeting and that meeting should be done after all of the necessary search have been concluded. Yeah, he searched about the girl she searched about him, you know, everyone is happy, satisfied, then they call upon the meeting.

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To finalize and to discuss matters if there is anything to be discussed. Maybe during their search, they realize that this boy is this and that he has some issues. And they want to clarify, they call for the meeting and discuss this. So he sees her at the same time. They're also having a discussion with otherwise that meeting just supposed to be based on

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looking at her and she looks at him. And then they go and make the final decision. After the final decision and any other meetings just based on arrangement of the marriage. That's why I will prefer for them after that meeting. The marriage should take place very soon. They shouldn't delay. Sometimes they have the engagement. Also they put another year, two years, three years. And they're most likely in those. We call them bride and groom. Yeah. Misaki always looking for photos. Is it okay to message her? She messaged me? Is it okay to there are some issues we want to discuss, you know, I get some benefit in the class I want to share with her. Is that fine? You know, yeah,

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receive all of these things. Is that fine, we share all of this.

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Yeah, that's why just let him marry. And he teaches his wife in the way he wants. Otherwise, you will be putting the test. And if they don't feel a lot smarter, they were working together going around, you know, as if their husband and wife, Allah grant is good and to fix. So I believe as I said, this should be a very simple meeting between the families.

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This follow up question building on this.

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If let's say the family talk about this in our Tobia, please

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kind of Yes. For further to release it once you start sending people to that's

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just a follow up question to this is okay, if the family of the girl is not present? Can she speak to this suitor with other females around in a public setting? Yeah, if the family agrees Yeah, and that is a place which is conducive for them and they have that meeting inshallah It's okay. If the fam half family agrees otherwise he is cheating the family. Yes, apologize to the Father if the father did not know about that.

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So Allah this is really necessary. I know a person who lost a marriage because of this. He spoke to the God before the parent before the parent, the father told me that he agrees with everything. And he doesn't have a question about the brother that why did he talk to his daughter before he informed him and Smartbar he rejected the marriage because of that. He said I have no issue with his attitude and his behavior but the fact that he approach had before me if he talked to me it's very simple. So he says we have a principal in my in our house, that somebody who is looking for our daughter, he should come to us first. We are not going to make things difficult, but it's the process and that's

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good also because it's a very good way for them to make sure that their daughter is doing the right thing.

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No more question Alhamdulillah.

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So I can ask

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a question should be written you know,

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a lot of coffee co manufacturer

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should have a few questions. Shall few versions shall have a short job. The first question is what when is the time Aisha and midnight

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the account night from Margarita

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until fudge from Margarita Thursday divided into two. So Midnight is exactly when the issue of time finished, finished completed finish. If a person prays after that he's praised

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for less if he overslept or forgot, and he remembers after that, as soon as the prophecy lotsa says midnight.

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My second question is, if a woman is on her menses, and then at the time of Fisher she sleeps, and then she wakes up after a shot, let's say around 2am or 3am

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And then she realizes she's not on her menses anymore. Should she replace Asia? Or she should see first when does she think that the thing finished?

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If she can make this to hurry then she does it and then she just go otherwise she prays a shot to be on the safe side. Yeah,

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that says doesn't end just stop like this. It has a process that goes goes goes goes goes go until the time mid day even have doubt that's why in the time of Aisha the Mahana vases and cuttings and with some dots of blood in it, they think they appeal but she will tell them don't don't rush, wait for us until you see the customer by now that corner. So it goes guys slowly, slowly it ends it doesn't just stop just like that. Usually it goes gradually gradually gradually. So if she is

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thinking that yes, the thing goes, but she didn't know she slept and then she woke up after Isha time but then she sees that for the purity already there. So it might be in the night before the

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record before the patient finished right so it's better for her just to make up that bridge

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there's some people mentioned that just Allahu Allah

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has no dream or anything when somebody makes us to Hara they just follow what he feels satisfied.

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He feels okay to continue just continue

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some people

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difficulties in achieving what you want that means you shouldn't pursue it or or keep moving

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doesn't mean that any obstacle that comes with this conclude that this is no

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you're satisfied, you keep moving basically Allah if it is not good for you and last month I will block and what how much you try, those difficulty will keep increasing at the end of the day just blocked. So SSL hamdulillah and move forward.

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Keep moving until you cannot get it as long as you are satisfied to go. I mean, you want to marry for for instance, this is where we always make is to Cara not in business and other things. So you want to marry you study about this go whatever you you're looking for you got to be good.

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Her attitude, her manners, you know from every place you ask this girl is is good, very educated. And also, she gives Allah subhanaw taala according to the observation of the community, in and out. These are the things you are getting. But trying to reach high is very difficult. Very tough. The parents are making life very easy for me it's very difficult for you.

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Can we say this is a sign that this girl is not good for you? No, we can't. You should just keep moving because you're satisfied with her manners and attitude and the way she looks just keep moving.

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If at the end of the day it doesn't work. Then colors. You say Shala This is the choice of Allah subhanaw taala that's reasonable for me. Look for somebody else.

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Allah grant is good. So having a little more ligature Allah in Atlantis, I forgot to relate Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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