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Have we been hammered in sallallahu alayhi wa early he was so happy he was telling him about Elio the manufacturer.

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Allahu Akbar baguette in Aruba to have our own and more ethically. TISA venturi February Alpha Salah says more about the situation. The wall saludar Santa Fe had and Kitab Mobarak

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they were they were sort of last run without anybody convener of humanity. Number one you don't feel alone as a lot work really well if you were father legito fi. So in sha Allah We continue from where we stopped last time. And I guess last time we

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we stopped at the scene of the leaf which MLK for color for the Yes. Will be used here will be yatish What am your colourful yes ma wali user

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only you absolutely you have to even have time says if you look into the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I could see

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Allah subhanaw taala says for me, yes ma'am. What we use it for the EM fish. It says Allah subhanaw taala did not say Foley yes ma

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wali user, Wali, Allah sponsor do not use the word li a lamb, lamb is not used. Allah subhanaw taala use the bar.

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He says what Obama Donavon

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you know, somebody might think that the best is to use the lamp and the lamp outlet. If you haven't mobile, mobile. He said you might find somebody who will think that using lamp is better. Because a lamp, Allah, Allah says us in here it will have a little more Linda has had a husband will call it heavy. It says because using lamp is more direct in terms of

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showing that this action is then

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absolutely for Allah subhanaw taala without any partner being associated with him.

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Yeah, if you use a lamp

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in somebody might see it as there's something the thing that is more direct in terms of showing that sincerity is there. And this action is absolutely done for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala alone without any any partner. So somebody might think that it is better than saying with Allah subhanaw taala he's doing that.

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For Allah is better than saying with Allah He is doing that is doing it for Allah better than saying he's doing it with Allah subhanho wa jal so if you look at him says somebody might think in this in this way Kawahara mineral,

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mineral Huami well, well as

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it relates to the Ohana the Majora Dilys Tiana inherit cattle every one foot Jerry were either our character him in them or he'll be my own at Lehi level

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we're in level Baja Hoonah little mo Sahaba it will came says no this is wrong. Wrong in thinking wrong assumption and this the mistake in terms of approach aided by because but it is not just

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I mean it is not mentioned here to indicate Alistair Anna is the enemy's looking for support from Allah subhanho wa Taala

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to get idea or doing it for Allah subhanaw taala it is not

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it will it later till Hoonah be materialistic, Allah materialistic, it is not just to show that a person is looking for the support of Allah subhanahu Bucha Allah in whatever he is doing.

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Why because all of the the actions and activities of human beings whether they are righteous or they're not righteous, they can only do it if Allah subhanaw taala let it happen. If Allah subhanaw taala give them ability to do it, then they can do it. So there is no difference between Muslim and Kafeel and the righteous and the bad person. Everyone is the same because Allah subhanaw taala if he was through the support from us, what can we do? Nothing. If Allah is to withdraw his support from us, we can do anything cannot move. He cannot speak he cannot talk you cannot do anything in this life. So if you look at him says the word that is used in that hadith, it is not for esteana It's

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Deanna means looking for support from Allah subhanho wa Taala when nama Halal Musa it says this bar is there to indicate Masaba Masaba means companionship. Allah subhanaw taala is with that person in whatever he does. In nema. Yes, Mo where you will see all the way up to Schwamm she wanna Sahiba Who am I love

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Allah subhanho wa Taala meant that this person listens. And this person sees, and this person catches

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when she and this person walks, you know, he walks what Anna Sahiba who and I am his is companion, Wilma, and I'm with law college.

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And

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the mother Karani would have liked to have a cat V.

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Chef.

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Allah subhanaw taala says

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I'm going to be with my slave. I'm always with my slaves as long as

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he is remembered, and also his lips speaking with me.

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So what does he mean? It means um his in his companionship when he's picky

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why do they matter your heel Marissa to house sakiko The heater Anna Lakhta has an in the La Hermana and this Maria but he says ma who? Right? I'm with b Yes, maybe.

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So this my here is the male house. You have two types of Maria Maria alarm and you have Maria casa. Maria means togetherness to be with somebody companionship. So alas Maria is divided into two two categories. Casa and Amber Arma is a general general means everyone is included a lot smarter with me is with everyone.

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Is Allah smarter with the kuffar? Yes with everyone all of his creation

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but that is a year which is called my year cancer. This is based on what support protection you know, control

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put a person in the right way you know guiding the person Yeah, this is only for the for the good ones. So, Allah subhanaw taala says large has an in Allah manner. This is not my ear. This may Akasa Allah is speaking to who

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam informing him informing us about what Rasulullah sallallahu selama told his friend Abu Bakar when they were in the great cave right? Run away from the Quran.

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Let as an in Allah man is his mother look at me funny Allahu thoroughly filmer. What do you think about to people and Allah is that is a third one. So this Maria in the La Hermana is Maria Hassan laser Maya

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is a specific kind of Maya, which Allah subhanaw taala only give it to the righteous people.

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Carla Cohen Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam my mother and Nene Allahu felafel Houma were called the heater Allah in Allah humma albasini Allah subhanaw taala is to get a swift Martini who are the Masino

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the monsoon they are those people who are worshipping Allah Sahaja with full sincerity as if they see Allah smarter if you don't see him Allah smart Allah sees this is a sir. So Allah says in Allah mal Masini was you know in Allah non personal, Allah is with the with the Masino

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we're calling each other in Allah Molina taco Valentina Massino. Allah azza wa jal says in Allah, Allah Allah, Allah subhanaw taala is always with that righteous people, and those who are more sinful in that in the act of worship.

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We're calling you to Allah false bill. First was, was beautiful in Allah and Allah Subhan, Allah Subhana Allah says, be patient because Allah subhanaw taala is always with the patient. People.

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Walk out the Huhtala color in Nairobi say howdy Surah to Shuara Musa alayhis salam when the the Jew, you know, they reach the sea and Musa alayhis salam, you know, couldn't find any man but because in front of them is the sea behind them is ground.

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So which one are you going to choose which is the sea death? Go back to ground death, you know? So they started talking and blaming him. So he told him in Nairobi say howdy, Allah subhanaw taala is with me and he is going to guide me

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and Allah subhanaw taala commanded him to hit the the sea with his stick and hit it from falak Africana Kulu. filkin Capote Alawi so the C split into two pieces and each part it just like a huge amount of and they cross it you know very peacefully

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are called the Holy Musa road and the Saint of Allah's monitor to Musa and Hara in an email coma, asthma. Wow. Go to the route in an email coma

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I'm with you. Asthma, I hear we're on an icy minute my cos is good to be around Don't worry, nothing will happen to you

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because they have to be scared you know it's frowny face as well.

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So bad so bad. So when they are told that they are going to go to ground and they invited Islam and they wanted actually at the first place the other has been looking for them to kill Musa Ali Salaam and now he's going back to around to invite into Islam as well he wanted so much but I lost when I told him that as an Alaska Hunter told him in an email coma Asmara

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no worry. And here's an essay

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for how to heal more Qaeda, Lima and I had in my ear doing so this bar is going to restrict, you know, this my Yeah, the meaning to be extended to everyone else that will not do that. I'm sorry, lamb will not do that. If you have the lamb will not give you this specific kind of togetherness that Allah subhanaw taala is telling us that he's going to be with with a good one

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will tell you that Abdullah was somewhat Toku Wuornos Zulu goofy man as booty 811 Heavy, heavy and that is no way for a slave of Allah subhanaw taala to be at the peak of F last in anything he does to please Allah subhanaw taala and also at the peak of patients and Torquil for Allah subhanaw taala and also to be positioned in that the highest position of other booty services to Allah subhanho wa Taala Ellerbee having been except with this book, because Allah is masa so you can say except with this kind of masa Ohana he might hear this type of Maria from Allah subhanho wa

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Taala fermata canel Abdullah, Han Allah HIV, Michelle, you Allah, it is wherever you are with Allah subhanaw taala if you reach this position, all of the difficulties and hardship are going to be very simple to you. You will not face difficulty in your life, things which are very tough, but you will be very, very light. You will be thinking that you don't have worries in your life and you know what you're facing, but somehow it to be very easy for you to maintain the success in life.

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Matter candle Abdu Billa Hannah dalla Hill Masha well calibrated Mojave happy a man and

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peace for him and for others it is their fears, but for him the peace

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Fabula here Hulu co Lusardi and with Allah subhanaw taala every difficulty will become very simple. You would like you will see the application of this look at the past you know the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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as well a lot how Allah smarter meet they live very easy, very simple.

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You get trapped by enemies but they will manage to come out of it you know they managed to come out of it.

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Things you don't think somebody can survive but the weather

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so that's why he said Fabula here cool your whole Colusa

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were so cool as it were caribou Coronavirus. It says with Allah, every difficulty and hardship are become very easy and very simple. And with Allah, things which are too far, they will become very close to you.

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Are we lucky to Zulu moon? Well, Gumo well,

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and with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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the worries and the sadness, you know, and the difficulties in terms of thinking, you know, all of those things that will make you discomfort, you know, we will put you in a state of discomfort,

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there will be gone if you will, if you will the last one, the person who is with Allah has no worry and no sadness in his life.

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Fela Fela hammer Mala there is no worry with Allah's attack.

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So how Allah Allah subhanaw taala and if again FET welcome mo Allah Hosanna in Hi Thimphu to whom Allah had

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a block time says there is no way for you to be in a state of worry. It will be the last minute

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most Allah ceremony so the magician's

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that was he scared of them.

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At first he was praying and of course he was because when they came

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They brought the sticks and the ropes and they put them to the ground. You know 80,000 According to some, some scholars

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and they turned into snakes all of them.

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Allah subhanaw taala says internally from inside Saturn having the fear because the way the snakes are moving, you know,

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Allah says so who are you the less was terrible

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people are traumatized by seeing those snakes the way their mortgage

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but Allah subhanaw taala told the most alleys you know, it says lack of inner Contrada

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while Kima via media can soak up NASA NOAA in nimasa Okay this ahead while I was saying Allah subhanaw taala you know, spotlight is like there is nothing actually going on.

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So Musa let us off don't be

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in a state of fear you know, don't be afraid of them relax last month or two of them relax

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in the cannula why the worry you know why they said this? Why the fear you on top of them why?

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They should be like something that you didn't even see.

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Well welcome a few minutes later capacity. Annie, Allah did not send angels to come and get those sticks and things you know, when he says you have a stick, just throw it.

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Just throw it at you and wait and see what will happen. That stick was able to swallow all of the magic that those guys did.

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That's why okay Sahara to suggest they also did never expect some something to defeat what they proved. That's why they bow to Allah sua tendencies of sujood. Even the expression of work is harder to see today. It's like they broke down. They couldn't control their themselves.

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So that's happened when a person is with a loss. Mirjana worker was very scared of what can possibly happen to her as well as a lot is Helen. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I told him, No eventually.

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It is Marvin who can be clinical along with OMA and said Allah was the keynoter who it was a year who began with lambda roja which Allah kilometer Latina couple can follow suit. Now, can you put in law here Hello, Allah subhanaw taala brought the Sakina tranquility to the heart of Abu Bakr

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sola, sola somos given that tranquility, so he told Abu Bakr no need to worry. Just relax.

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Have a look at Rock Ironman, so that every Malik was trying to get the prophets Allah, He can see them but he can reach them.

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And smila they're not running, they're working, you know? And he couldn't reach them. It's like the Earth was stretched. So he realized that he's going to keep wasting his time. You know,

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he shouted, he said, I promise, if you stay, I will not harm you. They stop.

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And so Hala and the promise allow the server to then give you a word. And don't tell anyone about us. And the prophets Allah Zuma promised him something. Is it what do you think they will come when you are wearing that? The Suarez car, the bracelet, the thing that this is put on the hat?

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Is this when you're wearing those ones? What do you think

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that name doesn't cut doesn't go to his brain, you know, Kisara maybe if you you say the Kaiser Rome, the Roman

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Empire, we're going to defeat them you can think about that. But Eddie Kinsler, those people, they they have no mercy at all. Very, very, very harsh.

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So when he told them

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Kisara you know,

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it doesn't go into spring and that exactly what happened during time of the law when when they defeated them.

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Mr. Collins Raka.

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He told him come up with these things and go around the people. When you everyone, so that they will know that yes, the merge is out of the province a lot. So what happened?

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So this is the meaning of if you are with Allah subhanho wa taala. Everything is going to be simple.

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What is supposed to be too far Allah Sparta will bring you closer. The word is the last part. I will remove that.

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And please do understand this correctly. Karla Walla, Walla, Husna Illa, Haiti, Fuji Houma and I have the Himba and there is no fear there is no sadness there is no worry, except if you lost this but the middle of this bar which is the mania, phase zero kobu Haven Calhoun at the far Calma year February in Colombo had your order in your heart is going to be

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Just like the house like the fish when you remove fish from the water what happened with chokan suffocate you know and has keep on jumping anyhow to see how to go back to the

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mean in your life you know it's on this where you lose this base of the mania of Allah's mercy there will be no life in your in your body

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Carlota masala Tabby Hill more Africa Minelab lira the femur ha ha ha select More Patil Rabelais Abdullahi Howard eg from autonomy, Allahu Akbar, it will time says

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when you have the agreement between the

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the the love of the slave of Allah subhanaw taala with what Allah smarter likes,

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you know, they coincide they agree with each other. Whatever you're thinking is growing side by side with what Allah Somerton loves.

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Allah smart Allah wants you to be doing

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that's why has a lot more Africa to rub belly up the heat we have a geopolitical

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Yeah, that's why Allah subhanaw taala agrees with all of your needs, and all of your demands, and all of your request, whatever you request from Allah Swati get it elsewhere in the Hadith Allah subhanaw taala says in ceremony that oh, if he asked me, I will definitely give you a look at the beginning of the Hadith. You see what a slave was doing to earn him this position. So since he is like that, Allah subhanaw taala says this person whatever he asked me I promised to give him

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while it is they are then there know either though, and if he is to ask me to protect him from something, I promise to protect him.

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Right come up with for Kenny Femara. DVMT 30 AlAmiri What takanobu elior the Mojave, just like the way he agrees with me in Rakhine is translating the statement, just like the way the slave agrees with with me, Allah subhanaw taala. digitally or maybe in a way he follows my commands. What occurred will really be my heartbeat. And also he can close it to me with things by doing things that I love

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for Anna or people who Thiago but he wanted her but alas Martella is like telling you I'm going to be with you and support you in your fears and your prosperity. You are in a state of fear you find out that you're in a state of prosperity you have lost my hotel at the females are lonely and alpha will be wasted easily any and

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everything he asked me to do it for him. Or he asked me to protect him from I promise to do it for him.

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What can we do have him work aka banal Janee been hacked October delicate raw data from piece of hardware to Allah. Fie ematic Allahu Akbar. And that's good and excellent relationship kept on being stronger and stronger and stronger. Until the time he reached a position where Allah subhanaw taala says, I hate to see this person being upset.

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Allahu Akbar, Salah Samaritan Angel I mean, how will I know?

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Until the time Allah subhanaw taala will declare that he hates to see what is making you upset.

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In the way there are things which are part of the decree of Allah smarta which must happen because it's County.

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Remember in County, there is no way for it to stop it has to happen.

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Even if Allah subhanaw taala hated as long as it is a county It must take place. That's how he made it. So this death is color coded. It's color coded Allah subhanaw taala says

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it will claim says fee match up the healer and who yeah come out when it comes to the death of the slave of Allah subhanaw taala and he doesn't like to die at that moment. And Allah doesn't want to meet. Allah hates anything that will make him upset.

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What are Bucha Allah Yeah, Karhu micro who Abdullah waker homicidal Allahu Akbar can see this position that is personal reach. Allah supporter hates to see anything that is making him upset.

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I mean, how did he how he acts we Amala you meet from Yeah, how he

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he actually Allah you meet who? What I can the muscle, muscle atrophy matadi

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from this, if you look at the relationship, and Allah subhanaw taala doesn't want to upset him. What should be the result? This person will not die. But a low point I want you to

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To maximize the benefit,

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and Allah knows that the Musleh the benefit for this person is to die.

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Take it a year. That's why Allah He doesn't like it and Allah doesn't want to upset him but Allah knows that what is waiting is far greater than what he has now.

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And he will be happy that prison will be happy with it.

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Carla in the Houma Amato elderly here, because Allah's moto did not cause him to die, except

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that he wants to make him alive. Because for the good ones when they die, are they going to be alive? Yes, because when they go to Allah swatter they're like, Well, I'm horrible ill is hell and Allah azza wa jal did not give him sickness, except that ALLAH smarter wanted to give him health. Yeah, because illness, you know, smila really rectifies and removes a lot, a lot a lot.

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Even if you

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just stop the fact that illness for the good ones, you know, is a source of expiation and Confira it removes the sins that a person is overburdened with, in a way that hereafter when he goes to Allah subhanaw taala with them he will get into into trouble.

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Carla will have Karhu allele Gonio and Allah Swatara did not make him poor except

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with the fact that Allah is moto makes you want to make him rich and Hina and this richness of the heart which is the true richness and the real world.

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Well Amanda who allele Europay who Allah sponsored did not deprive him from anything except that he wanted to give him other things which are more beneficial than what he lost. While a new creature who menial Jannetty fees will be heavy allele or either who la ha last month I did not take him out of Jannah when he was in in the backbone of the of his father Adam Ely, really, except that he wanted him to go back to that place in the best way.

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But how the whole heavy ol happy catalyst This is the real heavy somebody who loves another person. Lets you not any other thing.

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Below kind of equally remember to shout out in

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middle Abdi muhabba. To tama to Lila like kind of bow but my aesthetic what are the Lord

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you Allah, it will look at him says if you have and every root of your hair you have humba for Allah subhanaw taala this is just going to act as just a little bit of what Allah subhanaw taala

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deserves from you.

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What Allah has wanted deserves from you is far greater than whatever you are doing. Every form of love that you have. If we are going to take it and quantify it it will be so insignificant in the imprint in the presence of the the right of Allah subhanaw taala over you

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so the real maboob Is who Allah subhanho wa Taala

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say we don't care even says just like what somebody says. Let calls for either Chi Chi Chi middle haha, but hug in lead heavy. And Willie

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Campbell didn't fill out the LFO whole setup handy in a button above the layer willy nilly

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you will enjoy this bait

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asking the world to enjoy this beta.

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Okay, if you want to enjoy it, then I will put the other part of it then you will enjoy it more.

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This is a person that married twice.

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Yes, two wives. And each one of them has a maid. So now the battle is not between the wives.

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It's between the mates.

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This made it say in my master is better than yours. And the other one is a no, my master is better than yours. So they started debating

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the slave or the mate of the second why? She made a mistake.

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You get it? She said about it which I will quote and because of that beta the second one reply, you know, don't forget those wives. They're demanding their business now. That's it is it? It's in those guys. So the slave of the second wife, she came to the the slave of the first one. And she said well Manchester will regenerate it

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regering satin with Rama V has demand official letter.

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She said there is no way for two legs to be equal. One of them is very fine, fresh and nice. And the other one is sick and also paralyzed. What is she trying to say?

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The first wife is already gone, you know the to all them paralyzed, you know? Because this that slave understood what exactly she's trying to

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the message is trying to COVID. So she told her, You should know that there is no way for the good and healthy leg to be equal to the paralyzed one.

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So the second one said, Yeah, you're right. But I just want you to understand that a napkin for either chi fishy to me and how much less heavy? Uh, well, she said, the fact and the system we dislike is that you can let your heart go to every place wherever it wants to go. But the love is always with the first heavy

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commitment didn't fill up the LFO Fatah wa Hanin who evidently they are, well, eventually

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you go to somewhere sometimes, right? You You live in that place and you enjoy being in that place. But do you ever forget the place where you're born and you're raised in that place and the place where you

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never, never never no matter how much he loved that place, you don't want to go back to your place because of the tragedy war and fit and and all of these things. But that place? Honestly speaking, the first love is always going back to that lesson. So this second, this first wife she said Cummins didn't fill out the LFO what Hanina whoever they are Williams V he said how many times you see the house that somebody

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in a newly have you know, which he loves that place so much that at the same time he always remember the first one.

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So I leave you with originals he had to

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save you look at this definitely the one who wanted the bait. Is that the slave of the second second person? Yeah, because this these are facts. These are facts you know, that's why almost seven, you know, in the headings which Aisha was telling the professor Lolly Salem, you know, she prays her husband and this husband divorced her, but she couldn't forget smila There was a story I heard you know, I in the past you know is for some of the cases more for can shower, some of the cases of 70 you know smile I try to locate the story shall I was buying it because it's so strange, so strange, but it confirmed this. You know, it comes from this person will divorce the wife and meeting you

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know, they might meet together one day, don't be surprised something is going to happen.

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Because whenever they meet all of the

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the past is especially good one they will not see the bad one the girl will come this this this and that and then smiling with taking place and then after that letters and messages and then tomorrow, we are all invited for walima insha Allah Allah Subhana Allah has fixity.

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GOOD IDEA says Hala that's how it is you know, that's how that's how it is. So if we come back to apply the decision like one try to locate that story and share with you in the way that the the judge who was

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trying to decide the case was traumatized, you also will be traumatized. How does that happen? Yeah,

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that maybe you will not belittle the smartness of the sisters after that.

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Anyway so so if you look at him says not confer I like a high fishy terminal how much in lead heavy with a Willie commands it didn't fill up the hole. Well, I need whoever's in there. William. So Allah subhanaw taala. Two people said so the best Mohammed that you have and the Habib is Allah subhanho wa taala. And there is no way if we had to be a Trank hold, to be at ease unless if you are with Allah subhanho wa taala. So all of these even if he's trying to tell you, How perfect is that statement of Allah subhanho To Allah would he use the word but the letter but rather than using the letter, lamb for BDS, will be used here will be your fish until the end of a baddies. So I guess

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Insha Allah, this

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is the best

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place to to stop

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insha Allah Salia Berman I have my son in the school

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I have to go and pick him up before Sunday. So we can have a question and answers now.

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It will come either

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so in the next class B in La Jolla, we will go to a to tell you this is the the last level of

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you remember they will again was talking about multiple hubs right? Yeah, we went into the this level

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alleged Casa Yeah, so we went into the HQ and it takes us

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it takes a lot of our time.

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Yeah, that's even some of them said if somebody died because of ESCO who was shaheed?

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I like to hear that heavy

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love Stan

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so that's fake head is

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that correct head

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is there any question?

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He's taping

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question by

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in relation to the earthquakes in Turkey and Syria, can we give them Zika even if the time has not complete yet

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Can you switch over hire him as soon as you say about him Oh kilometer La La Nina. You know have you been on how many Sinhala one only he will tell him about.

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First of all, mate last Maha Rotella Grantham ease and accept any Muslim that died in that event as a shade. And those who remains May Allah subhanaw taala, take care of them and grant them ease and comfort and heal those who are affected by by the calamity.

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When it comes to the cause, aka is very sensitive. Whoever's given the car must make sure that the money is reaching the people who are intended. And what I know these type of things, you know, smila, whenever they happened, you have a lot of cutouts in the way people who are taking it as business. So we just have to be very careful, it can give from your own normal donations or any other money. But when it comes to the car, a person really, really really need to be extra, extra cautious and careful.

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I will never suggest a person to give the CA A less if he is sure

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sure 100% that this money is going to reach those people who are intended. So that means he is next to them, he will just pass it to those people who are intended, I mean affected. Or he knows somebody who really have access, he's sure that this person will go to the place and the money will reach Yeah, with no deficiency, then you can pass it to them. Otherwise, a person should feel a loss will tend not to give the charity to any place where he doesn't know whether it will reach them or not. If the money will reach them, this is the best place to send your money for the carpet is the best best place to send the cat money. But if you're not sure, you know, they're going to give it to

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those people who provide in Europe humanitarian aid, which sometimes the

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what is the name of the operational cost is almost half of the thing if not more. So who are you helping that? You help in their organizations or you help in the Yeah, that if the money reach them, actually

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I heard a lot you know people who are affected but they will tell you we don't receive anything

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and also looking at the news every day the same situation and people seem we don't see it we even see it

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so the question is why is the money going you know

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so that's why it's a car is a is very sensitive, very very sensitive if you give it to a place where you are not sure whether it will reach or not if that money did not reach you are responsible in the eyes of Allah on the day of judgment you have to pay it

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so a person who is paid as a cashier here last one alternate make sure that he put it in the right place and the place where he is sure that the money will reach the place in shall so my personal advice is the QA shouldn't be sent to that place except for somebody who is sure that he can take the money to the intended place shall

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receive

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with the new regulations

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in the harem that only people who are doing

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can enter the north or the southern area can I just wear the Koran without the need for a formula to be able to enter that that area in short?

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When someone loves their spouse too much and it sometimes becomes a problem

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we

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had

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this call her and tell her my dear wife I love you 100% But

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it is costing me a lot and now I will reduce it to 20% inshaAllah or 10% Is it didn't say it's 10% and maybe in light Allah in the near future I will try to see how to adjust and then we'll come back to 80% So you're gonna see me getting angry sometimes. And you don't know why. It just like that because I just don't want to give you everything

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love shouldn't it shouldn't cost you anything. You should love your wife so much. So so much. So so much 150%

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So, so much. I mean my word should love your wife so much.

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But love has its own concept right conditions and principles. Yeah. If you don't understand it correctly, then it is not love. It is actually hatred. If the love the wife can lead you to disobey Allah Swati that's not a lot. Yeah. So love your wife. What does love means guidance.

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Kindness, showing good face good behavior. Making sure that the person is feeling comfortable and listening. Whenever your wife talks you she wants to talk justice

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Yeah, the problem that most of the brothers have is he thinks she doesn't have point

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and he's busy and she wants to share her stories without

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saying otherwise

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are alive these stories added know why even trust this you know is there anyone who can believe in this

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and she will be offended because she stays at home especially those people who are staying at home even if she doesn't stay at home she stayed in that house for you know

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yeah what not everything that fit you fit hot

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not everything that you find interesting she might find it interesting not everything that

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she finds interesting you might find it interesting but you in particular as a brother you should just find whatever she find interesting just find interesting.

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You're like this is this is this is a good way of life you know when she talks to you just listen and also participate you know sometimes Yeah, you have some busy schedule you want to do something else but you want to share just say okay

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yeah, whatever she said this Yes. Ah, that person Wow, who did it get to get involved? We also you know, in your heart you're like

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yeah, I'll bring some

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some some sit I mean situation that we can just talk but in your face show complete cooperation.

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Yeah, and also participate in in the conversation or make comments.

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Here are like this is very simple, but it's it makes a lot. Yeah, it makes a lot. So when I say love your wife so soon

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Much, much and a very, very much yes, I meant my word. Let your wife be thing that you are the only person she has in this dunya let's have believes that you are the best person better than her parent and whoever she has in this dunya

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and as such, you just really need to come down and understand that when you're at home, you're at home.

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Yeah, everyone should be having

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respect.

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I like that kind of life.

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Although you could face a lot of obstacles but you as a husband at home you should just make sure that everyone is happy. Wherever bring story is

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Allah subhanaw taala to fix that so Abu Bakr This is my advice. Love your wife so much. And my last point about grant you good one. Yeah, Allah, I've heard so much but as I said, loving somebody has his own conscience. You shouldn't do it in a way it will lead you to disobedience Allah subhanho wa jal

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and you go against the laws of Allah subhanaw taala. Because of no that is not the love. That is not love, love is what guidance, being kind, whatever she requested from you, if you can do it, just give it to her and do it the best. The best, you know, she wants little make it better than what she's looking for. You go out you know, sometimes you see something that she likes, just get it and bring it home.

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You know, write some good words on it, and pass it to them as well as Allah Azza doesn't hesitate when they ask Him Who do you love? Love the most? He says Aisha

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Yeah. As a reality.

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Was he happy when she heard that? Of course.

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Of course he has to

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I heard one of them. Mr. Shetty is saying you have sisters and fortunately who are looking for somebody who can tell them I love you in the Facebook and

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Facebook broke lots of marriages, you know, a lot plot Facebook friend because she doesn't have a friend at home.

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Right he sees her like Caboose

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when she speaks he will start saying oh she started

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Yeah, so she will if you have to go and look for somebody you know she's at home for you. So you have to let her feel that he or she has somebody who she is with

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Dennis checker worker a lot smarter grant you a good spouse Shaohua

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another question

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chef a brother asked Can a woman do a hedge and

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without

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provided that they're traveling to Morocco with them? Either they live in Morocco or somewhere nearby

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where it may not be considered as traveling? Yes okay inshallah.

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Okay, may Allah so how to like grantee good and voc wherever you are in the whole ecology a million caffeine into Hanoch hola como be Hambrick? eyeshadow, La La Land esta Furukawa to really re kumara to La he will occur to

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