130 The Disease And The Cure

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The conversation covers the history and legalization of sexual activities, including the struggles of media and media actions, as well as the importance of preserving children and avoiding punishment for criminal behavior. The speakers emphasize the need for strong legal systems and laws, as well as the importance of following laws and avoiding false assumptions. They also touch on the negative impact of double-standing and the need for everyone to be married in a civilized way.

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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim wa salatu salam ala Naboo Rahmatullah al Amin and the Vienna Wahhabi Bynum. Hamedan sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salim Ahmed Rio Saba min Sherry Shavon Alfa Romeo. barbero. I'll more quickly

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hit Asha. Asha, Asha minchie March and Fein with Nana Schroon the vassal Dennison if you have the Kitab Mobarak at that you were

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as a Allah subhanho wa Taala anybody convener or fee man at our level? One young Pharaoh Luna is the last word for a limb Allah who were via direct ofI Allah Lee.

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So in sha Allah, we will continue from the statement of them are live even in Morocco hula Bahasa will have sought Subhana, who had the Zina min banal, who do the detail of the Kosice. If you look at him says, Allah subhanho wa Taala any specified I mean, the HUD for the Xena, Allah subhanaw taala specifically make it different from other dude in three ways. Allah subhanaw taala gave three things you know, he attached the HUD Zina with three things which he did not do with the other Hadith.

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I had a Hummer Alcatel and all of these three things that allows me to attach them to the head designer, they are showing how evil is the attitude and the behavior of the Zanni The first thing is I'll Katelyn fee be ash in there and let you know Allah subhanaw taala killed the one who is committed Zina and how did Allah is going to kill him the worst type of killing worst type of killing last Malhotra imposed on him

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you know, how is it you know, imagine a person being kept in one place and

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According to some scholars, to avoid him running away,

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we have to dig a hole and then we put him inside you know, the leg and from the waist up to the

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the feet they will be covered by the by by the by the Sunday you know put him inside that hold and we cover that part. So the upper part will be exposed and he remains like this people will be stoning him from every direction, you know, from

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all angles, you know, until he leaves this life. Imagine how much this person is going to go through a punishment because Zina usually the whole body is enjoying the whole body's enjoyment. So the punishment also comes in that in that way. So if your claim says this is not done with anything, you know, you might find some dude you know which they might carry something almost similar to this but Allah did not mention this in the Quran, or from the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah so much except in the case of Xena

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why hate to have FIFO Gemma IV bended or Kuba TRL, Bethany, were Bill gel, the wall and Kobe beach are very busy and what he said. And if Allah is monitor reduces the punishment, he will combine between the physical punishment and there's the spiritual punishment, physical punishment whereby he has to be beaten, he has to be launched 100 times, you know, by, by the authorities, and also that the physical punishment and also another punishment which is to to send him out of his own territory to stay there for a period of one year. So that's emotional punishment. So he's emotionally punished by Allah subhanho wa Taala and also psychologically and also physically punished by Allah subhanho

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wa Taala and this is the lower kind of person I am in punishment of Zina. The first type and the harshest one is to find that person being stoned till till death. So ALLAH SubhanA wa Afia

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found it so that's the first thing I'll cut. And the second thing under who Nihari by the who and whom Xena and telco the hombre Xena, Fortune fini. mizuna, Tara 14 pdna

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behind the term now who made a comment and had the alley and all subhanho wa Taala Sati warahmatullahi beam Shalom Hadid or Hoba for our hammelmann Combi smart Allah

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one of these issues that Allah Muhammad tell us

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specified Zina with is that he told the slaves, you know, the community, the Muslims, nobody is allowed to have any mercy towards the Zanny, the one who's committed Zina in the way that mercy might deprive him from

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carrying out the punishment. Yeah, because sometimes out of the so called Mercy, we might stay away from the punishment. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says, We shouldn't stay away from the punishment out of the Mercy, you know, that we show to that person who committed this.

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As well, like, if you look at the evil consequence, then you will understand why mercy shouldn't be shown. And if you look at him, he's going to talk about the reason why people are showing mercy to this to this person.

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As I always mentioned, how many people here know their lives were destroyed because of the Xena a lot, a lot, not just in a rape situations, even in normal circumstances, whether they agree or they don't agree, you know, many people's life is is gone. The life of the girl especially, and the children who are going to be born out of wedlock, their life is is gone.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says, No one is allowed to have this kind of mercy which might deprive him to stay away from the punishment.

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Because Allah subhanaw taala prescribed this punishment

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against the the people who are committing the Zina out of what mercy.

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And Allah subhanaw taala, as mercy is greater than our mercy.

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So it is a mercy from Allah subhanaw taala, actually, to have this punishment. And as I always, always mentioned, if we don't understand this, you know, I'm sorry, if the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not get it properly, we do understand it properly, because we live in a time which Subhanallah is very, very corrupt,

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very corrupt, I was just

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listening to a message, you know, we have

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a school that we established another, you know, our school Hamdulillah, the schools run it

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very good. So

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somebody was sending a message, not to us, but this message somebody was sending to the community to be very careful

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with the terbium of the kids here. So it's my Allah, the message also came to us we're listening to what is happening in some of these schools were children at the age of three, you know, three years or so you understand what I'm what I'm talking about.

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being corrupted by who, by their colleagues in the classrooms.

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So we're living in a time which, you know, subhanAllah, it's my Allah. And when you talk about this thing, people think that you're exaggerating, you're going beyond the limit to

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realize a very, very, very, very dangerous situation irrelevant,

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as they say, in that message, you know, and this is what, I guess I always mentioned that

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you as a father, you as a mother, you really need to be very close to your your kids, you know, that was exactly what they concluded with the father and the mother, we really need to be very close to your kid.

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Try remove all the barriers No, so that they will be honest with you. And they will take what you're saying seriously. And that will help them be in the light as the agenda to have a strong protection. And whenever something happens, they will come and share with you.

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And that's really what you need. Because you don't need to check with them to have doubt in them every single day. What did you do? What is it isn't that you don't need to ask. If you train them very proper training will lie they will come by themselves and inform you about the issues that are taking place in the places where you sent them by yourself.

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But if you are an easy person to be approached as a father or the mother or anyone who happened to be the guardian to the children, that will keep it with them. Either they agree or they don't agree they will be punished until the time the tragedy the real one took place.

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Because according to this one, the the one who witnessed the thing you know, it's not somebody who heard about it.

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The case happens in their own territory.

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So that was an occlusion. So I really advise all of us to open our eyes. Don't just send your kids to school. And anyhow in any kind of school, you know, opening your eyes first select the best school to send your kids and also follow up follow them up with monitoring. Yeah, that's That's why double point you

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Do not trust a school, any school? Yeah, in a way, you will think that your responsibility is handled by others. As one of the Moorabool scholars of therapy, I said, you should see, you know, the fact that you are struggling to give Tobia to children at home.

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But now you are taking them to person who is any how many children you have, you have two, three,

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you find it very tough sometimes to control them. And now you're going to send your child to be mixed with other children who are having different mentalities, different approaches different therapy, and some of them are extremely corrupt. Your child is going to be meeting with the mixin with them, you know, you don't know who they are.

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And who is given therapy to those kids, you have 20 of them in a classroom, 25 of them in a classroom in some schools that I know these schools, you know, you have around 15 a classroom.

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And who is given the tarbiyah one teacher?

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So if you tell yourself,

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you're done.

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Do you think you're being honest to yourself, if you tell yourself that that person will be able to give them a good Tobia Do you think being good to yourself

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so it's a very serious matter what helps you to

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succeed in this regard is to remember that a day will come where Allah smarter will caution you about your responsibility Kulu kumara I MRI or CO local Missoula yet, every one of you is is a shepherd and the profits are not the same asset. And you will be questioned about that responsibility that last one to ask you to handle

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it shouldn't matter to you. And that Amana should be taken in the right in the right way. So as I said, and I always mentioned, be the best friend of your kids. Yeah, especially in this time of ours, you really need to be the best friend of your children.

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And this has its own you know, positive consequences because when they attach themselves to you, or be so close to you, and they will share with you their life out of the house, you need that, you know, so that you can guide them, you know, avoid punishment and avoid battle so that you can gain that friendship and inshallah they will be shy to go against Allah subhanaw taala out of the house, and they will be shy to go against your word out of that out of the house.

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So, Allah subhanaw taala he prescribed that punishment out of mercy upon us, you know, it's none other than his mercy. And that is the only thing that can stop people from committing Zina that dog does the only punishment that can stop people from committing Zina. Any other punishments you bring, you know, you will not be as effective as that which Allah subhanaw taala mention.

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And since you rarely find a place where this law is being applicable, that's why the cases are in the increase Salah Salem or Afia. So everyone is Massoud. Since the government is not willing to take care of this responsibility, then your responsibility has to be really effective all the time, to monitor your children, and to monitor the place where they go in not only to pressure them, but watch over what they're doing. You know, guide them, advise them. And on top of all be the best friend to your kids.

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Carla, so he says Allah subhanaw taala knows no matter how much merciful you are, you know, Allah is far greater than your mercy. And in fact, he's the one who gave you that mercy.

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So it's more merciful than anyone. So that punishment is part of His mercy.

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He says, Who subhanho wa Taala may refer to you or Rama T Shalom hyvin or Cova for our hammelmann Come me while I'm telling you how to min Amory he'd have it over, you know, you see Allah smarter is more merciful than us. But that mercy is not, does not stop, stop Allah subhanaw taala from commanding the authority to take

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that COVID that punishment into into effect

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Philando come unto Maya como de colo becoming a comedy had Emery so you shouldn't also not let

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mercy you know, take you away from practicing and, you know, doing that which Allah subhanaw taala asked you to do

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in everything when there is something to be done and you don't do the thing, you know, thinking that you are showing mercy This is wrong. Actually, you're destroying that person.

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That's why the the poet says Wakasa Leah's digital. For me

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Jaco has a fairly young so Hannah Allameh Your humble. It says sometimes those has the moon you know those serious people in terms of Terabithia, especially the parent.

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Sometimes they become a little bit harsh.

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It says woman Yokohama Zeeman funny. Yuck. So Hannah hola me. If you are serious, you know, Tobia, sometimes you have to be, you need to be harsh.

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That's the approach of Rasulullah Salallahu Salam

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always leave it soft and gentle, friendly. Or when the laws of Alaska hotel are God, I take it, you know, progress a lot you said and I will show no compromise.

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That's why when one of the kids you know, did

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something that is wrong, he picked up from the timbre of the saticon he aided the prophets Allah has

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tried to get it back from him.

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Why? Because he's not supposed to take it. You know?

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He taught the kids from day one. You know, from day one, they can recognize the command the province a lot so I used to give tarbiyah to the children.

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So Hanalei can understand

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this Toby of Rasulullah saw me he was like that when there is disobedience against the last month that the prophets Allah summer really changed, you know, but at the same time, the closest person to the kids is Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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That's how we should do with your children. You know?

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You can see 99% of the time moment of Rasulullah Salah someone the kids this gentleness, softness, you know, tolerance, you know, but that's a moment when the Brahma Salah some blame them when they do things, but it's so insignificant, you know,

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that's why the blame doesn't deprive them, you know, they come and bring themselves closer to him, you know.

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And as Sula and he does that with everyone

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Carla wahala in Canada Arm and visa, it's her duty.

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Well, I can do care if you had the Xena house, she did have a law degree in law. Kim says this approach to tell people not to have mercy upon that person who committed the crime of Xena. It said this approach is everywhere is the command is in every heart. You are not supposed to

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stay away from

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the head just because you are showing mercy to that person. In every punishment, this is applicable. But Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala specific specifically mentioned it, you know, together with the punishment of the Zina because of the need here. But in the nurse allegedly not equal to the minimum capital costs with alexan. Imagine who anisotropy will call if you were sharing a camera or colloquium TR hamazon axotomy matter Halmahera Homi Bhabha, Jarrah will work out will share hidden Daedalic for low and telco the home behind the refer to middle Taotie handled in real time says because the reason why Alaska hotel I mentioned this, when he talks about the punishment of Zina,

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because usually naturally people don't have that don't have that mercy when it comes to the punishment of

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sorry, you know,

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when a person stole something, you know, people don't have that kind of mercy, you know, on it, it would be a little bit harsh. When it comes to a person who is falsely accusing another person, people are a little bit harsh against him. When it comes to the one who's drinking wine and people are a little bit harsh against it.

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Usually, the heart is a bit harsher, you know when it comes to the punishment of those crimes. But when it comes to the Zina the punishment of Zina, this is when the issue changes.

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A little bit merciful.

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That's emotional feeling towards him is always there.

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You know, naturally, that's why he said we'll look at childhood with that, you know,

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this is what we see in this society. You know, this is the practice wherever you go people usually have a little bit of mercy on somebody who is committing Zina. In a way they don't have it with somebody who committed the crime of theft.

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Was several body Rama and other than bone yokkao mineral Ashrafi well outside well elderly have in the fusi awkward do I add one more Shari goofy here. Well, I thought I was very

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well, I felt I swam here a while ago.

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Sorry, somebody called in the cut of a recording.

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It says what are

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Tell us where we are. Well kuruva mage bulletin Allah Rahmatullah Asha. Okay. Philomena, Nancy, you're doing Masada to patent.

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It. Look, I'm says, the reason why people usually have this mercy upon somebody who committed Zina, it says because the crime of Xena usually happens from all types of people,

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normal people in the community, you know, and the medium and the low level, you know, all types of people.

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And naturally, people have this natural desire, you know, being placed in them, you know, by nature people, you know, have this desire towards the opposite agenda. And those people who participate in in this punishment of Xena a lot you know, a lot of people who are doing well he has been what Phil especially Anish, and the vast majority of the causes of this Xena Ella, as a lash lash gets the kind of a love a college crush or something like that isn't one of the high level of love that somebody is having in his in his heart. You know, these are the situations when a person reached him, you know, finally law when they graduate, to stop him will not be will not be easy.

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Well, clue, magic bullet and massage. And usually, you'll find the heart

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is being inclining towards loving the person who is having this attitude of ash, this kind of love.

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So that's why when he did not restrain from submitting, you know, to his love and desire and went and commit Zina, you know when he's punished, that natural, you know, thing that exists in the heart of the people will

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try to

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stop them from applying the hat, you know, to have that kind of mercy towards him. And as such, they might not be able to apply that as well as Maharajah told them. You have to you have to do it and don't let the mercy that exists in your heart to stop and stay away from a blind head which Allah subhanaw taala prescribe upon you.

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What cathedral milanesi Yasumasa added to that and will call back you have some people, especially some sects and groups without mentioning names, they believe you know, Minimates is so within they believe that having the risk is part of the provider. You know, somebody even mentioned that if somebody died because of HIV is dying as the Shaheed

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Subhanallah imagine you tell the community if you die because of that, that kind of love which you cannot even control it might take a person to love the same gender to live the same to love the same sex you know, to marry the same sex you know, this, this ash can lead to enable, you know, to go and commit Zina to go and rape to go and do so many things. Imagine you will tell somebody who is not able to control himself that if he dies because of HGH he is Shaheed

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imagine he told him this, you know,

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what do you think will happen? You know,

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for sure, you know,

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you're putting this ash into practice to him will be an act of worship.

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Yeah, that's why some of these are quiet. They're not just corrupting, you know,

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the Aqeedah itself, but they crafted therapy also in the community, they participate in the increase of the crime in the community.

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We have somebody who says, sins have no relation.

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With the Imani there is no relationship between the Iman and this and the since you're committed.

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So the actions are not connected to Iman. Iman is

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stagnant in one situation, it doesn't increase and does not decrease. And un Jabril la salam your equal. Imagine you tell the community this, the gangsters and the bad ones they know this, you know that action does not affect the email at all. How many people are going to go and engage in the commission of the crimes?

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So these that's why you see the self assigning a very serious concern in the matters of Arcada.

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So many people think that supporting somebody who is upon the edge, this kind of love is actually an act of worship.

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We're in Canada sort of to the marshrutka Mohammed Rama wala Thank you had a camera. He says, even though if the picture the image because those people who have in the edge, you might take an image and enjoy looking at this image until he satisfied his desire.

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That's why they said when a person wants to marry a sister, he should go and see her. It's not about him requesting a

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The picture what is he going to do with it? And sometimes if he is not able to control himself he won't be using that picture to satisfy his desire.

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Nowadays you know smila what he what you hear from people, which they Shabbat but doing Subhanallah Subhanallah if not because we hear it from trust worthy people you will never believe that we do have Shabaab we're doing this

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Allah Salah mafia

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so people turn to show mercy upon him and look at him as a person who is committed.

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Who's doing what he calls something that is right wing nothing against Alaska hotel and actually what he does is an act of worship.

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So people don't find what he's doing to be strange or something that is

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but Islamically but in the homeless time everyone and dementia,

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masha Allah Who Minaj by an arm workout hokey lnM indelicato Okay, here, what I felt whom in Napa CLR Oh, well, at the end or Coda will hold them one this is the vast majority of this age, you know, and this type of design, you find it where? The animals? Yeah, this is the part of the animal side that human beings have

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to get idea, the animal kind of mentality, you know, that's

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not being able to control the desire

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that Allah subhanaw taala talk about those people who are having this type of love.

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Yeah, that sister who tried to seduce us have at least have the people have looked at a Salaam and the vast majority of generation of the people who are having this kind of issue, you know, the vast majority of these narrations are about those people who have a deficiency in their brain in the UK and

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the UK is deficient. And they have deficiency in their core, they have deficiency in their in their religion.

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You know, and sometimes you find it from WHO, the slaves, you know, and so many sisters who agree not to go with the Sharia of Allah subhanho, wa, Taala And subhanAllah up to date, when you look at the society in the community. You see, this is taking place, you know,

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how many maids and how many

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sisters became corrupt, due to lack of the turban, and I blame first the parent, you know,

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I blame first the parent. And then my this is my own observation, you know, the vast majority of the destruction of terabit that we have in our daughters and our sisters nowadays, parents are the cause

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not just the daughters and their sons also both.

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So please monitor what children do it is your responsibility. And Allah Samantha is going to ask you about this responsibility. You can see that they have to have a freedom to do whatever they want. No, they do whatever they want, as long as it doesn't go against Allah subhanaw taala. But at the same time, that is always a better way to convey the message to kids, there is always a better way to maintain the good relationship and put them in the right in the right way. And don't you ever send them to a place where that Tobia will be will be corrupt?

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So the vast majority who are suffering from this and you know they are from the wrongdoers especially from the sisters and the maids and those people who are having deficiency in their, in their akal and their religion, because the main cause for this issue is the deficiency in the religion. If a person has a strong, you know, adherence to the religion of Allah subhanaw taala he will never be involved in this issue. So Allah subhanaw taala salam ala Hiya, Allah, I want in harder them valuable markoma tarawih mineral gentleman, he said another fact you know, about this mercy, you know, because this is a sin that usually happens by the mutual agreement from both sides.

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Both sides agree. That girl agree, and the boy agree. Yeah, usually is like this. That's why you can't convince me that a girl submitted herself. You know, I'm just referring to some cases that I heard

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whereby people will be saying, No, she's innocent. He's innocent. She's innocent. You know, I don't understand what are they talking about? The first question I ask is, did he force her? No. Did he raped? No. Did he threaten her that she is going to kill? No. He asked her for it. And she agrees

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while she innocent?

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No, she used to be a good person. He's the one who provoked her and all of these things happen.

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Allah Subhanallah let's stop making jokes. You know, wala Huggins herself is at jokes.

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You know, this is ridiculous. Ridiculous. I do believe if a girl does not open the door, usually this thing is not going to happen, except in rape cases made last month to protect our brothers and sisters. But the first person who is opening the door, she opens the door. She talks she accepts him when he talks, you know, she dressed not in an appropriate way. And when they offer in something she accept, and then tomorrow we say she's innocent. You know,

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you hear cases, you know, whereby sisters are sexually harassed by people, you know. But then Subhanallah at the end of the day, you realize that they themselves, they open the door, you know, they started talking to them, they started playing with them. And then at the end of the day, when they act upon that nature, then somebody will come and say, Oh, this is wrong. Why did they do that? You know?

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No, we don't think like this. Allah says put precautions preserve your honor and dignity, maintain your decency, you know, then this evil will not come to you why Allah is going to prescribe the hijab for the sisters is a delicate addenda and you're often a fella, you think this is the most appropriate way and the only way for them to be protected, and nobody's going to harm them when they're wearing their hijab and the best hijab is the Taqwa of Allah subhanho wa taala. They are brothers sisters, you have to understand this, you know, a sister might wear the hijab, the niqab and everything, but she's corrupt. And you might find her getting involved in the Zina although

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these are rare cases, but it happened.

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It happens, you know. But you have to ask, what exactly you know, you don't just judge you know what exactly happened? How is how is it happening? How does that happen?

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And believe me, you will find that he has Taqwa is not there are less in cases but Taqwa of Allah smarter, less not, is not there.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says Carranza na alaykum Lieberson you worry so article Malaysia, Wali Basu, taqwa. Velyka, hi, Allah smart Allah says We gave you two types, two types of clothing. Two types of clothes. Number one is the physical one that you take and cover your body with it. And the second one was the basket Taqwa. And the clothing of the taqwa the closure of Taqwa and Allah smarter say delicate Hi, this is the best. Yeah. And that's why when there is no Taqwa you will be naked, even if you have 1000s of cloth on top of on top of you.

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So, my advice to all of us is to make sure that this Taqwa is there, and we put them in the heart of our kids, you know, to say that a person is innocent, that exists when there is a rape. You know, but if somebody goes in a sister goes to the place of the brothers, and she goes to them, and sometimes she visit them in their place, and they give her food to eat. And it's everything happens. And later on when something happens to her people will say, No, she was innocent, she was deceived, no Allah, he was, she wasn't deceived, she deceived herself.

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He deceived herself, she goes to the police force, that is no deception at all. Both of them are criminal, the main and defeat both of the battery they have to repent to Allah subhanaw taala. And if the authority know about because they have to punish both of them, they have to punish both of you really have to be seated on this on this matter. So since this is how it happens, it happens because both parties agree to come and do the crime. That's why people used to have mercy upon them, you know, because this is happening based on the agreement. Fella coffee minute I'd run with some mud to not feed on the horse middle and equally if there is no rate, you know, people done seed as

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strange issue you know, especially in our time

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the other villa in some countries, it becomes rampant.

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You Allah hell about countries, you know, Zina is normal thing, you know,

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because almost everyone is going through it before a person marry, you rarely see a person who married straightforward. And the system will have any lot of children, all of them out of wedlock, and then they will come and marry look at how the Szczepan is playing with that.

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And they accept that and they agree with that. It will see a sister will tell her friends that she wants to have a child marry, no, they're not ready for marriage.

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And children, they're not knowing who their parent are,

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is one of the consequences. And what is hidden, is greater and I will come as long as those people they don't stop the crime. What is hidden from the eyes of evil consequence of the Zina is greater than

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what we are seeing

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Carlos de SHA watching Kalibata who for you so Gula who daddy Kaeleen FC feta como, Bihar Ramadan terminal Accommodator had, so he will, he will, a person will be trying to compare, you know himself with that person to put himself in the shoes of that person,

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you don't want the punishment to happen, they will be thinking, Oh, you have this also strong amount of love and desire and all of these things, this will highlight this person was not able to control his and now he's going to go through this punishment, I wish they would give him one more chance, that is a new type of therapy, you know, we can give him you know, for him to stay away from it. So that's why because of this type of, you know, feelings, you know, and thinking Allah Spa Hotel, tell the believers do not stay away from the punishment just because you think he showed mercy upon that person.

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And as I said, the situation is more critical in our own time, whereby in every few minutes, you know, we're talking about 20, I think now is lower than that. There is a sister who is in trouble on Earth, every single moment there is a sister who is in trouble.

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Okay, and nobody's talking about this, right? Nobody's talking about this. But when marriage take place, below the age, which they prescribed by themselves, you know, even they're not even in consensus. Every country has their own age, you know, they're not even in consensus when the marriage happens below that the government will not recognize the marriage and the human activities doll will talk, you know, and a sister can go and have Zina at that age, you know, and before that age, actually in the school or in wherever nobody is talking.

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So parents should be very, very careful.

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And Tobia is your responsibility, not anybody else. Make sure you preserve your kids

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and your progeny.

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Karlova Kulu, human dolphin, Iman all of these types of mercies that you're having towards the person who is committing this crime of Zina is a sign of weakness in Iman that the person has what commanded Iman and Takoma B he co watching your chemo be amarilla. The peak of

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the completeness of Eman is to have a strength and the power and the ability you know that will help you to do that which Allah smart Allah is commanded you to do.

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Well Ramadan Yahama we had minute and also you have the mercy that you show the mercy upon the person who is receiving the heart that the head for your call them logical their behavior and Rahim Rahmatullahi so you have the power to to apply the head and also the mercy upon that person. Yeah, because after we apply that if it is a capital punishment in the way he has to lose his life, we're gonna pray for him to make dua for him. You know, these are the mercies we're going to be having on him. You know, if he has some loans we set in the loan, we try to do things that will benefit him, you know, make some sadaqa jariya for him. You know, especially when we know that this person

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repents to Allah subhanaw taala

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is a purification that punishment is acting as a purification

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that's why you see that woman who came to the province of a lightly cinnamon she said jasola He

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sub two had been Fatima Allah yet she has committed Zina, please apply the law of Allah subhanaw taala on me.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

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he changed that way, you know, he asked her to go he turns away from her and she told me how to Allah. Listen, you're just trying to stop me just like the way you tried to stop nice even though Malik that was a man who came and also confessed that he committed Zina the prophets Allah Allah selama turn away from him many times until the time he confessed four times against himself then realize Allah Some ask them to stone him to death. So she said yes to Allah. It looks like you're just wanting to chase me away in the way you were trying to chase mais Malik

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he said the IRIS will lie he right on I'm pregnant and this pregnant is out of wedlock. I don't have a husband when I when I have this pregnancy.

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So she told me also a lot.

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I did not marry, you know, I wasn't having I was not I was not married when I have this, this pregnancy.

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So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I commanded people to go and and throw stone on her. You know, that's after she delivered the child because she told he told her go and deliver first because the child is innocent. He did not do anything wrong. Why would we kill you and he is going to be affected also.

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So she said no problem. So and she went she delivered the child and then she came back to the professor Ali Salaam. And she said, Allah this is the baby in the Bronx Allah so I said no, if

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We take action against you then who is going to feed the baby, he needs his mother's milk, milk.

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And she took him back. After she when the child she came back to the professor last summer with the baby eating Hubbs bread

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with his hand.

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So he said arugula, he now you can see he can depend on himself. He doesn't need me at all. And then the prophets, Allah Azza, in some region, he said, No, still, you know, some scholars said the Prophet was trying to reject her so that she will not come back. But she kept coming, you know,

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that accurate examination, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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told somebody, the one who was taking care of her that the Guardian after she finished everything, he should bring her back to him.

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But anyway, she doesn't need anyone because she was the one who brought herself and she kept on coming back by herself.

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So the professor last summer told her, we need somebody to handle the issue of the baby first, if we take I mean, if we kill you, then who's going to take care of the baby?

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One of the components ADRs, will Allah no problem, I will be responsible of the baby. Maybe he's tired of the way she kept on coming. She's also I just want to be purified.

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And subhanAllah the thing kept on coming in their heart she couldn't. In her heart, she couldn't forgive herself, you know.

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She was supposed to us to close the case, the case, you know, to close the case and repent to Allah subhanaw taala and worship Allah Subhan Allah to Allah and that will be the end of it inshallah. But since she reported herself to the authority, then they have to take action. So they stone her till death, while they are throwing the stone, the blood comes out of her and spell on one of the companions. So that companion curse her looking at what she did. And that was very wrong. You know, the prophets Allah sama got angry with him. And he said, You are cursing. You know, this woman who repented and that repentance was so perfect and excellent in the way if you are to distribute it to

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70 people among the people of Medina, it will be enough for them to go to paradise. How Allah, how repentance. If you're distributed to 70 people among the people of Medina, it will be more than enough for them to go to paradise.

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Your crusade

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and in some narration, the province Allahu alayhi salam has said Lakota but Toba and lo tablao Sahib will maxilla Will Ferrell, she repented repentance in which if MCAST MacArthur is somebody who take the taxes, which is not justified, there are evil taxes with no justification that some of the government in wherever they are taking

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those one that committed a major sin according to the statement of this hadith supporting that.

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So you can see is a Confira you know, for somebody, it's a mercy from Allah subhanaw taala, that a person, if he is patient, he will be going back to Allah subhanho wa Taala with no sin of that nature be even Allah has voted. But this doesn't mean that if a person committed Zina in the past, he should go and report report himself to the authority. This is a mistake. And this is very, very wrong.

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The problem is a lot so mindset if you show the thing to us, after Allah subhanaw taala has concealed your affairs, we are going to apply the hat on you.

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If you don't feel Allah subhanaw taala on the shoulder thing, you know, to us, we are going to apply the hat on you. So he says if Allah has been to consider it a First, keep it like that, repent to Allah subhanaw taala do not expose this to anyone.

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That's another mercy from Allah subhanho wa taala. Yet so a person who committed Zina or any other crime he is not supposed to share this with others, is supposed to repent to Allah subhanaw taala and close the page and in sha Allah, Allah Squanto forgiving, as I said, the prophets Allah so I mentioned that the punishment when it happens, you know, in the case where a person reported himself, it will be acted as like a Farah for him. And I believe this is an absolute mercy from Allah subhanaw taala because the real tragedy is to go back to Allah subhanaw taala with with these type of issues, is really, really really tragedy. punishment in this dunya is easier to be handled

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than the punishment in in the

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color with lethal and also Hannah, Tara Amara and your corner had to humor the image had a middle minister for Iacono Halliburton, behind Solera, whom I had with Ali Abdullah, who famously had it had do a Hekmati as surgery. Allah subhanaw taala commanded the OMA to do the head in public. We are not allowed to do the hand in in secret. We have to do it in public.

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A person has no

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Not allowed to do it in secret he has to do it in public.

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So the government is supposed to publicize it, they are supposed to bring the Zanni and design Yeah, whoever is receiving the HUD, you know, in public, you know, Allah azza wa jal says we should open it so that people can see. And that's served the real purpose of the head, because the head in itself is not intended, you know, the main intention is to stop the community from doing the same, because if you are to see the punishment, you know, this guy is to be a few minutes ago, he used to be alive like us, but now he died in this way you know, every single part of his body was suffering until the time he leaves this life.

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So, it will not be easy for somebody to think of committing the same the same thing.

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What had the Zanni Elbasan Mushtaq committed COVID Hola Hola. Hola. Hola, como lute and Bill Cosby Bill Hey Jarrod, you see the Zania Lawson The one who is Moxon Watson mean somebody who married before and he had a sexual relationship in a legal marriage. You know, the head for this person is, is taken from the head of the the luthier. The one who is committing homosexuality, because Allah's motto when he punished them he threw stone on on them until death

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will radically Chirac is Zanni worldly WA. Zina will live out of inversion because both

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equal in a nature somehow although the word is worse than the Zener but they share something in common, satisfying the desire in the wrong in a wrong way.

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If you call them in Houma facade, and you're not going to hikma to live, you have a robbery is a very important point you know, each one of them contain corruption that contradict and go against the wisdom behind the creation of

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the human beings you know, at the command of Allah subhanho wa Taala the wisdom behind the creation of human beings and his command in his creation.

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You Allah, it goes against the wisdom behind our creation, filthy wealth a minimum opacity myofascial Hustla theory that it loci him says in homosexuality you have corruptions and evil consequences which are far beyond our calculation we cannot even count them so many there are so many

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well i and yoke talent of older behavior love women and youth

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in locker room says to have the one who is the one who then what homosexuality is committed you know on him

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he said to have him been killed is better than him been lying down and somebody is on top of him committing

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you Allah later *ing rather

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late they understand this. It is beyond

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the realm of stupidity you know, the way Alas martela created this life you know, this is totally going against it to have a sister Marian a sister and a brother Marina products.

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Animals you know, usually don't do that.

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But I know you've seen a facade a liar German who bad who's on Alberta is it homosexuality usually destroyed that person that another person is committing that lewat with him, you know, kind of facade that you don't expect this. This facade this corruption to be fixed abuddin

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Where you're the evil Jairo. Kulu you know, it might take the good that you can ever find in this person entirely.

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To move out of MMA with the muscle of the model, higher immune Waje fat is the Heba Daddy can mean Allah while I'm in hulky Subhanallah the earth is going to take all that the shine is that this person is male, which means signs that this person is having is going to be taken down by a fine this person in the future because of that negative, you know, effect of this evil attitude of the world. The person is not having any shyness of Allah subhanaw taala and he doesn't feel shut off the creation. What Tamar if you're called the hero Hey, not fertile valley, my Amelie Summerfield by then. And the money there's this poem that was cast inside him from the person who is committed and

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you out with him will destroy his soul and destroy his heart quicker than the way the poison destroy the body of a person.

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But who understand this except the people have a cold? That's why he says those people who are committed

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In this usually these are the people who are having deficiency in the in the actual

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work or the television. So, highly add hold Jannetty of allambee Allah Colleen severe to Scheffel Islam in Tamia ki Hema in no time says there are two opinions, you know, among scholars about the person who is committed that the world I'm sorry the person who did the work was committed against him. Is he going to go to Paradise or he cannot go to paradise. He said I heard these two views being narrated by my chef chef listen Ben Taenia Well, Latina cannula and congenita god mode. Those people who said this person who is receiving kilowatt will never go to paradise. One of the evidences is the scene of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lied Hello Jana Tawana do a Zina.

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The person who is I mean a child who is born out of wedlock will never go to paradise. Subhan Allah

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Alhamdulillah this hadith is weak. You know, I said Alhamdulillah this ad is weak, you know. Otherwise, you have many people who are born out of wedlock, and they're very dedicated and very righteous and very strong in their knowledge, you know, very committed to benefit in the community. Imagine this hadith exist Subhan Allah.

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So the hadith is weak. And I repeat this hadith is, is we learn called Janetta wild Zina. There is another Hadith that says wala does Zina chevre Farah

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this hadith is authentic. The child who was born out of wedlock is the worst among the three, the three means the father and the mother and he himself hears the words. This hadith is authentic, but this caller said this is specifically meant, you know, and directly directed to one specific person in terms of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who, whose parents are Kfar and he is also a Cavett. You get he's also a confidant, but he is harsher against Islam than those two parents. So the prophets Allah sama said, he is Chevra minimum, you know, at the same time, he's one of the Zina shadow Theravada. And he's the worst.

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You know, he's a caliphate. But apart from this, he's also was born out of out of wedlock.

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Otherwise, my dear brothers and sisters, what are the Zina is innocent?

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Yeah, is innocent. If your claim is going to talk about this? Good idea. That's why when it comes to the marriage, you know, this question shouldn't apply. You know, I have received so many questions, you know, of this nature.

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You know, the same goes to the people who committed Zina, are they supposed to tell somebody, imagine if somebody says he committed an underpass? Who will agree to go with nobody. So as long as a person repented, that sin which allows her to conceal that he has to keep it in secret, is not supposed to share with anyone. Imagine if a sister has this even if she is raped, if she's to share this with somebody, believe me, my dear brother, she says most likely nobody will accept

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to marry her. And at the end of the day, the community will suffer from this because she is a human being who has a desire, whenever this desire, you know, is provoked by something that she will look for a place to satisfy her desire. If there is no Halal means being provided for her because of that old allergy she committed although now she changed she's very dedicated in her religion to Allah subhanho wa taala. If there is no halal, don't be surprised if she goes back to the same attitude.

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So it's not advisable at all for somebody to share the past with others as long as you close that pass, and you repent to Allah subhanaw taala do not share your evil attitude and your your sins that you used to commit in the past, do not share with others at all, no matter what.

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Keep it in secret as long as the person repent, then he doesn't need to tell anyone. So this hadith is weak. So those scholars who said this person is not going to Paradise and the prophets Allah so he's talking about the one who is committing Zina, right. So pray that kind of had that had what it is Zina ma I know who led them but the houfy radica were lacking mother, Medina to coalition or hobo sin. Hua Jun, Allah.

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Allah yo, yo G I mean, who hired on Abba, Noma glucomannan not forgetting how visa way they're kind of just like the Taliban or haram and now we'll be here for capabilities. So let me not forget how they said look at this hadith you know,

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why this wallet is Xena deserve this and he's innocent. He did not commit the sin that sin is committed by his parents, unfortunately. But why is this because this person

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It is in a position whereby there is a great expectation of him being corrupt in, in a way that corruption will lead him to be acting in a way of the people of hell. And at the end of the day, he will be going to hell. That's why these type of people, sometimes they end up, you know, looking and being in a situation whereby you don't expect any good to come from them. Why because they were created the essence of their creation is what look for 10 Habiba very evil sperm that was cut cast in the womb of the woman out of legal marriage you know, out of illegal marriage I mean without having the legal courage

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for that kind of just to delete the tab bar al haram and now all I believe okay for me to just sit back look, meet me look for Tahara in locker room says these people they will tell you that if the body that is fed through the Haram, the body which is fed by the Haram, you know, has no place in the hereafter except hell, you know, it deserves nothing except hell. What do you think you know, this body is created from the loofah as from that is correct. But unfortunately in the future, he was fed by haram

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a good idea but then Allah is going to put him in hell because of this. It will kill him said what do you think about the person who the essence of his creation the origin of the creation is based on this not for the sperm that is evil? That's prom which is taken from from zero

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and then this group of people they say, Oh, well Murph, Aruba he shared with me one of these dinner and the one who is receiving the word homosexuality is worse than the wallet Zina what x what Akbar Akbar you know more disgrace you know more evil and more ugly than the person who came out of out of work wedlock

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or who are dealing a lot with faculty hire this one deserves we're talking about the person you know, who agrees with all of these you know?

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So this group of people who said he will not go to Paradise they said he deserved more than anybody else, you know, not to see any higher coming from him.

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When you have a beta who albedo and also to have a barrier between him and Kai, Aquila milholland Priya Allahu Allah, who may have seen you who are cool but allow whatever this person did something good. Allah subhanaw taala will bring something that he will be doing which will destroy the good he is doing.

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What color Antara mechanical Delica facility he Illa who have you Cuba he shipped to me makan in blockchain says we rarely so somebody who is like this when he was young, committing homosexuality or submitting himself for somebody to commit to commit this homosexuality with him. We rarely see a person who is like this when he was young, except that you will see him in the future when he grew up being worse than his childhood. He will be among the worst in the community.

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walla Tolbert in the sore, and you rarely see these people being guided by Allah subhanho wa Taala to have the correct knowledge, the knowledge that it's beneficial. And also, you rarely find these people being guided by Allah sponsor to participate in righteous deed. You know, you rarely see these kind of people being participated in the Tober.

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That's how much you know, the Zina is having, you know, this strong negative effect in the life of somebody who's committed. So homosexuality is worse than the Zina That's why Allah smart Allah told us to punish the Zani. How did he ask us to punish, punish him by stoning him till death, we do it you know, we do the punishment, but the homosexual, those people who are committing this act, Allah has been to punish them for us the punishment that nobody ever heard of it, whereby he taught he, I mean, he told us that he took the Earth at our land, you know, that that country and last month I took it up to the heavens and then turn it upside down.

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All our tech equal So, this is the conclusion that is going to be given by the blockchain is a very excellent conclusion. And I guess this is the best place to stop Inshallah, in the next class on Monday evening, Allah here as usual, I will talk about the best opinion concerning this matter mentioned by by Iluka insha. Allah, Allah small to protect our community, but as I said, My dear brothers, sisters, please, please realize that many of us who are attending this class a parent, you know, please watch over your kids. Please, please, please, and try your best please make your children the best friend you have in this life after that.

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For us, we realize that a lot, make your children the best friend, be very close to them, be lenient, be gentle, be softer, you know, be very kind to them, you know, and please sacrifice your time with them, please, they deserve this, please don't let your job you know, as that sister also was saying, she said, nowadays, the parent, you know, sisters, we really she said, sisters, we really need to be participating in this, you know, we let the husband doing the job, and they are busy with their work, you know, dunya is taking you know, the time, you know, you know, we pay more attention to our dunya than our kids Subhanallah throughout the life, you're out of the house, when

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you come back to the house, you're intolerant. Also, you have no time to the kids, you are very exhausted, you know, sometimes add to that both parents are working, she's exhausted and he's exhausted, you know, when they come back home, the children don't have that, you know, time to stay with them, and also the emotional feeling, you know,

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they will be very sensitive, you know, to the kids, you know, because they're tired, the brain is tired, you know, they can't tolerate everything. The lie, this is, you know, heavy responsibility that we're going to be paying the price, in this dunya if we don't take action will be paying the price in this dunya before the hereafter. So my dear brother, sister, this is my personal advice out of love, for all of you for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala to make sure that you do take this responsibility seriously. And you give the vast majority of your, your time to your children first to your family, first, to guide them, to teach them to educate them, you know, and to show them all

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kinds of love, you know, so that the Israelite Allah, this will be acted as a strong deterrent, when they go out of the house, they will be able to preserve the honor and dignity and they will be able when they come back, you know, after resistant they are able to share with you what they see. So that you can make the right decision whether to keep them in that place, that school you are putting them or to take them out of out of it. May Allah smarter grant is good and Tofik and be with us in our journey of the tarbiyah of our kids in OB college Emilian caffeine. And this is also applicable to those who did not marry yet, you know, you have to take lesson from those who are married and

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have children, you know, that's good opportunity for you to start preparing from now to make a plan for yourself to make a plan for yourself. Don't you ever be deceived by what you hear in this life, that you have to take your child to school, no matter how how much craft is the school, but he has to go and educate himself because education is important. This is clearly meant to happen early that we have bought in the statement is correct education is important. But you have to give them the education that will benefit them any education that will corrupt the target of a child that education is devil that education is the job that education is evil and is going to be what bad

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masiva upon the family themselves as well as the child who is involved in that environment. Allah's Mercy grantee good Subhanak olam will be handing a chateau La La Land as the property we like

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in a canal Mike

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I mean

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I mean, given tomorrow Alhamdulillah Allah subhanaw taala has given me his mercy that I will be listening to the hotbar tomorrow in sha Allah

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La garantie Tofik are there and you also have oh you have light message in sha Allah I am still thinking of an appropriate time to visit that place I love that place and inshallah I will come inshallah I will try to see how I can make it before Ramadan inshallah Cha is Is it is it is the university open if I go they will not put me in the quarantine force

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so if it is if it is if it is negative insha Allah abdomen please

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no problem we'll go for that inshallah

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get ready, let us visit them inshallah one day

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was a question

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I love you and your family

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and YouTube

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is a fit for mentoring

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married persons

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and their needs when When, however, there are cases where women find it hard to find a good husband and

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this can be challenging as implement

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what is your

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Advice to these struggling diminisher to be patient to be patient this is part of the test especially in this type of hours you know

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how many brothers says that good sisters finished already?

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This is a wrong wrong statement.

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They are not finished there are a lot millions of them in sha Allah the same goes to the sisters who are complaining that to have a good brother is not easy. Yeah, there are a lot a lot a lot a lot yeah yes, sometimes a lot smarter mind test a person you know, looking in the environment and the community where you are living in you will not find

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but they were there hidden slowly slowly if I lost my hotel as is your intention and you are looking really for good partner be even lie as though Jenna last month, I will bring you the good one. So, we are yes, that's the question. This is part of the test in this life to be tested in this way that you are looking for a partner the good one that you can trust but unfortunately it will take time for you to see that one. And I really advise a person to maximize their patience or less if they are in a situation whereby they no either they marry or they commit they will act in this case they can marry anyone even if the attitude is not that good to protect themselves because protecting

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themselves and not going against the last one hoteller is more important than waiting for the one that most instances the most circumstances we can be patient so it really advised us to be patient I will never advise a sister to take a person anyhow

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yeah sometimes sisters just close their eyes oh Masha Allah he's so strong in his

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study and you know, she just look at the physical you know, appearance you know, that this person is a student of knowledge and this person is a chef and this President is this this and that you know, and then just go without any any check in you know, and that at the end of the day cry

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Rasul Allah, He never asked you to do this. So the fault is, is yours the mistake is yours you know,

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as well as Allah Allah is some advise you to check the religion and the attitude and manners even if you're going to marry whoever you know,

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Scott would never advise because many sisters cried and they are married to who student of knowledge, you Allah, some of the things that took place, you know, from the student of knowledge students, students, so that you know,

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you will not be able to hear the story twice.

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That nobody expect that they will do this, you know.

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So we should check about the religion properly. And we should check about the manners and attitude how is the person living in the community, with his friend, its parents with his family, you know, how life is then we can trace you know, the kind of life we're going to live with that person. And don't you ever deceive yourself by the statement that comes from that person, I want to live like this, I want to live like that these are all fake.

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I call them fake because a person might not be able to maintain that attitude, you know, if it wasn't his attitude, if it's something that he wanted to adopt, he might not be able to maintain it.

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And you know, everyone can say whatever you know, but when they marry you know, they're going to be living with each other for

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24 hours sometimes, you know, this is when that their true picture of everyone each and every one of them was going to be revealed.

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And literally I'm telling you many sisters cried you know, and wish they did not do and many brothers and even if they don't cry, but

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I heard them regretted one of them told me it says maybe this is the test from Alaska hotel that we tested about last night and not to have a good spouses.

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So all of these things I relate them back to lack of

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I mean,

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what I mean negligence when it comes to choosing the spouse and the partner

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and the person has not been careful when he was looking for the partner. Either we focus on the beauty and handsomeness you know, that's the vast majority of us, you know, person talks wisely. You know, I can tell from his ankle, he is very good, you know, be very careful.

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That's before the marriage. After the marriage is different story. You want somebody who understand who you are, respects you and makes you as one of the most valuable people that he is living with. That's what you need. That's why Saban will say you told

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us he says, Don't you ever take your daughter and give her to somebody except somebody who fears Allah? Because he is the person whenever he he he likes her

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He loves her, he will honor her. And if he hates her, he will never harm.

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Nowadays, the least is when they when they hate, she is going to hear a lot, a lot a lot. You have a person will open his mouth and tell that his wife that she is not appealing to him, you know how the villa Wallahi, I will the villa.

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And I will blame her if she just look at him in a very shallow way before the marriage, you know, look at his wife and tell her that she doesn't look. She's not attracted to him anymore, and he doesn't have interest in staying with her any anymore. And sometimes, you know, some of them they don't stop at at this

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end, you know, because and because her family, you know, so all of these things, a person have to think about them, you know, it's a very serious matter, don't let somebody destroy your life and then think about, you know, fixing it afterwards. Allah smarter did not want you to do this. So is there any way out? Patients? You know, that's what I will say, you know, patients, patients, patients, it is better to absorb patients and stay years, you know, looking for somebody who fears Allah subhanaw taala and who will, who will live with you in the weight loss martela words from both

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physical apparent appearance will never benefit you at all.

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A loss volunteer grant is Tofik. Next question of this drama.

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Get married.

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What is the family is referring to his parent or his wife?

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But what kind of relationship is this person having if he is to marry without informing the parents? You know, what kind of relationship? Well, I don't understand.

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Yeah, unless if the parent don't want him to marry, and he knows that he will be committed sin if he doesn't marry, this is different story. And you have a parent, and you believe they have right over you. And you go and marry without informing them. What kind of life is this?

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Or is this a SubhanAllah. At the same time, also, I blame first the parent, because I can understand why the child is hiding his marriage because the parents are not doing their job.

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They are supposed to take care of him and let him marry whenever he leaves the marriage. But you know, I'm telling you the truth. Most of the parents are not like this. They prefer to see that child hanging around with a girl. We don't even know what is he doing in many instances, they're committing Zina, and the parents are not worrying about this. But whenever they talk about marriage, you know, from the brothers and the sisters, no, you don't have to finish your education first, before you married.

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What is this, so that's why the good one amongst the children, the boy will go and marry without informing that the children if he married, you know, if he married, you know,

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and the wrong one is the one that will not marry and one commit Zina. And you have from the sisters also, she insists he talked to the parent to let them married, but they don't, they don't want to let them marry

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you know, subhanAllah there was a case brought to me, you know, I told many of you this this case, you know, it happens and these are the cases that comes you know, a sister wants to marry but the parent will never agree with her marrying somebody out of the family.

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She married somebody from the same country, but according to the policy of the family, you know, she cannot marry you know,

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somebody out of the out of the family members.

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So Subhanallah when they were talking to me, she came with that

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circle husband.

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Somebody sent them to me from other big universities because they have problem in the marriage. So that I can help to solve that problem, you know, so out of curiosity, I asked them because I see I saw that this is the I taught her in the secondary school.

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So out of curiosity, I was asking you guys how did you marry? And they told me Yeah, they just went and married, you know, and somebody in one of the massage you know, not mentioned the mercy because some of you who are living in a place you already know the Masjid. They want and get one share. And he arranged a marriage. Nobody knows among the parents, and among the family entirely. Nobody knows, I guess except her sister.

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To hear it from the parents. Imagine a sister Marian and her parents are not aware of this marriage. Subhanallah and guess what? I remember, long before this

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marriage took place her, el Amin, her sister, which is older than how

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she came to be also, when I was teaching them both in the secondary school, I remember she came to me she was crying, you know, Why is he crying, she was telling me that the time for me to get married, has arrived. And she knows how much she's going to engage in fighting the parent to agree with how to marry somebody, she wants to marry from the same country, but not from the family.

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And subhanAllah, she was able to be patient, you know, to submit to them, you know, at the end of the day, she loves the battle with the parents, she marry whoever they want her to marry. But her younger sister Subhanallah, she did not submit to that. She went and marry somebody who she wants to marry

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in a wrong marriage.

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Without the informed information of, of the parent. So let's assume I said, Any woman who married herself without the permission of the Guardian, and that's the father if he's alive. This marriage is Bob and Bob and Bob in the profit and loss of assets.

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And then care about which madhhab is making it legal. But the vast majority of this call is based on this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said this marriage is beautiful and bought and bought. And

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that's why I said the first person I blame is the parent first. This is their responsibility to make sure that when the child shows the interest of marriage, they should let them marry, they should support them is better than doing anything.

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If they had to stop the education to go out of the University of Mary, this is honor for the sister, this is honor for the boy.

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It's better for him to do that, rather than letting them go in and committing the Zina in secret, and we don't know what exactly is going on.

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So it's wrong for a person to live in this kind of life.

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So as for the children, it is also wrong for them to marry without informing the parent. If it is a male, if he married, this is evil. In terms of Tobia and being obedient and dedicated to the parent, everyone is a woman that marriage is illegal actually.

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As for the person who married if the question is asking about that, a person who is married with that they informed me without informing his wife, he married again.

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This is evil relationship, although Allah sponsored did not make it a condition that she has to know. But I don't understand what kind of life is this?

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I mean, how does how does he think this woman is here? What is she to him? You know, she just wake up and see another sister next to her, or she hear from the community that she has a co wife, what is this?

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What where is the issue? I've been out over that Allah subhanaw taala says why should we want to be normal?

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Last month, Tiller granted Tofik you know, but usually when we go against the law of Allah subhanaw taala this is when you have all of these wrong practices taking place in our community, you have some people who, you know, they marry, you know, and they will not inform the wife and they will not inform anyone and nobody knows about the marriage, you know, he goes to another state and marry he has another wife there, you know, and another wife here, you know,

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the next day when he died, there'll be a strong battle between the two families these ones don't know about those ones and these ones don't know about those ones.

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That's why this caller said secret marriages are prohibited in Islam.

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A person has to announce the marriage in the place where he lives

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you know people will should know that this person is married and this is lack of a shareable meroofer person to marry and he has a wife but then he did not inform the wife it for the marriage. What is this this is against the actual algorithm that allows me to ask people to observe with their with their spouses may Allah grant is good Tofik yes I'm drama

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looks like all the questions about marriage when do I talk about marriage in this in this lecture

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Okay, next question.

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fuchal much money

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with a much better

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people than most what a person would send the proper inside outside

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Yeah, the touchy touchy Tajweed is divided into two types. There is the third read which is wajib

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and that is the TeachMeet which is Monster hub.

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Tweet that is wajib is a must. When you read Quran you read with touch with

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when you read the Quran is a must you have to read with which

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you get it which one is as well as how to pronounce the letters correctly.

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To pronounce this this is what we call Mahajan proof

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and also to know how to start and how to how to end how to stop. The other one like the guna like the medulla, like the FR it is hard you know, all of those other types of issues of the breed these animals to have it makes the resuscitation beautiful and you will be rewarded when you read Quran in that way.

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Good idea. Allah subhanaw taala grant is good and Tofik just that he says will actually be really hot Mala Zeeman but let me deal with the Quran the Anna who would be Angela well how could I mean who Elena was

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who I even here to try it was in two other work karate. He says taking the test read and reading crowd with the dream is watching. If you don't recite Quran with the GED or committing sin, he's referring to the jury that that is

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that is what because Allah smarter revealed the Quran with Tajweed and he commanded us to read Quran with the judo so

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Allah grant us to feed Yes.

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in the law

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in the land that you're using,

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how would one guarantee that he doesn't?

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Know this hadith and also the statement of Chefman Salman Tamia concerning this matter is referring to the leadership

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to get it sometimes you might see Rajat who is Fajr. Allah Azza wa supports the Legion with him. And that support for of the religion of Allah subhanaw taala might be given through the original who is 5g. This is no recommendation and encouragement for a person to engage in negligence. Again, it as a Muslim is supposed to observe righteousness and to remain steadfast, you know, applying the law of Allah subhanaw taala in all circumstances. But naturally, sometimes Allah's matter might support you know, the religion by somebody who is wrong.

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a wrongdoer might be the reason why the religion will be supported, you know,

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it doesn't mean we should engage in their own activities. I remember in some places when the clashes happens between the Muslim and the non Muslims, you know, who are protecting the Muslims, and the gangsters and the wrongdoers? Maybe one of them never prayed in his life, but they will come and stand between the enemies and the Muslims.

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So, you can see the application of this Hadees but as I said, Every Muslim should make sure he is following a loss. I mean, the loss of Allah Subhan Allah to Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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given to me he has a nice statement, he says, sometimes you might see $1 A government that is evil, you know, but they are just an Allah Spano tell was supports them whereby a government that is based on injustice, Allah Sparta with withdraw his support from from the.

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Set out what happened to law.

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Marriage isn't

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the way

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he asked her to.

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He asked her to, he asked her to do

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he asks

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for a few years and is

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really good.

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It depends on who he is who he is. And her needs are sorted.

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It depends on who he is. And her needs to the marriage. Because my fear here is him to change his mind.

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What can she do?

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Yeah, some people are not honest. They might keep her sister waiting for them for ages. And then tell her go

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with no reason. No justification. Yeah, if she is changing in terms of manners and attitudes, no problem he has to change also.

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Or she disliked him. She told him that I cannot continue no problem, but sometimes she is still the same person, religious.

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And also

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in terms of manners and attitudes, she is still the same person. He knew she doesn't change. But then sometimes he might think that he saw another person he doesn't want this one.

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That's why God, I will ask the person to be very careful. Before she agrees to that.

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What I will propose is they should marry first.

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I prefer the proposed the marriage should happen.

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Even if she's going to live with her family, she should live with the family, but she knows that he's the husband from time to time, we can come and go around. And also the one who takes care of her is, is the parent, if the parent agree with this, that's much better. And she is waiting for us. And then at the end of the day, he might tell her, I don't want but if she trusted, and is a very good person that was waiting. Yeah, I repeat my word is very, very, very good. That she believes that evmp asked her to wait for 10 years, she can wait because of his character. You know, that one, be the law has a deal because people like this will never disappoint. He agrees he will keep his

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word. Yeah, that will be okay. Even like I said, I Georgia, last Mahalo to Allah grant is to speak, but if she needs to marry, rather than putting herself into trouble, then it's better for her to just look for somebody else. It's been a while to look for somebody, somebody somebody else, unless if they do what I propose, she proposed to him to marry now, yeah, let him be with her, you know, and live as a husband and wife, but then she takes care of herself through her parents, for instance, you know, it does what he can the rest she will support the marriage of both of them there is no problem with this inshallah.

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me just add a question, let's say five years ago

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that have made your life a lot

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separated due to personal issues. Now, the

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government doesn't know is that

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you mentioned to people No.

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No, it is not.

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It is not, it is not. Unless if somebody comes to him and tell him, please tell me about this person, because I want to do business with him. I want to give him my daughter, who he is, then you can tell the story exactly in the way that he cannot say he's a liar. When you say when I was with him a few years ago, 10 years ago, he used to lie a lot. But then we were separated for the period of five years. I don't know is that is now is he still lying? Or he doesn't do because I've never engaged in any relationship with Him that will help me to see the truth about him right now. So, given the story in a way it is, then let them go and check you know, by themselves, but you cannot

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tell them about his is his past you know, unless if there is a need for that and you say it in the weightless log grantors trophy.

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But as I as I said, You cannot just tell everyone this is when somebody comes to you and tells you I want to do business with him. I want to give him my daughter for instance, then you can tell him what you know in the past.

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I as a business

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General Foods as neutral, he receives messages. He replied to them.

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Yeah, she should. First I will advise a sister who is married, you know, a sister who is married, I will advise her when she has a business the husband should be involved.

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This is my personal advice.

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First of all, she if she's going to deal with the brothers, he has to know this he must know. She informed him first and get him above in the business, you know, unless he knows what is going on. Otherwise, believe me mighty assistance, you know, you will be having doubt, you know, and when this doubt exists in my head by having her losing her marriage, and that comfort she is to get business will not give her that she will regret a lot. She will prefer especially when she's living a good life with him, she will prefer losing that business and not knowing anyone in that business rather than losing that marriage. So I will prefer she she let him know what exactly is going on. He should

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be in the business you know.

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She replies them he sees the reply. You know what is going on? To avoid any doubt that can happen. You might say why would he have doubt you know, why would he you know has any