Ibrahim Nuhu – 123 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu
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Hello Hi Rahim wa salatu salam ala and what was Rahmatullah? alameen and Vienna? Where have you been a Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, my bad. And you know now Should I mention it Raja Alfa Romeo with Ella 13 Barbone. At Work ethically.

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The last Tasha, Tasha Mishary Febraury and find out who actually Newcastle there isn't if you hadn't Kitab in Mubaraka, Allah subhanho wa Taala anybody can feed off him and it's our level one Yeah, the feeling isn't as alert. Well, if you were either rejecting Ophelia Lee, sorry for the delay.

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It was busy trying to fix something and Abdurrahman had examination to the last minute they'll accept you and grant you more patients. Last Mahalo to Allah reward your patients. So, today, Inshallah, we will be talking about a very, very, very, very important topic, which is about a love word. You know, he talks about the hyperoxia love, a love,

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a love of art. So, this is the second one, how about we talk about that the force that comes to the mind of a person. So now we will be dealing with a love for that, that's the statement, which are the interpretation or the means,

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that interprets that which is in the heart, you know, you have been thinking about it. So now is the time for that, you know, discussion, you know about how to execute the plan, talking about the matter, which will be followed by the execution blomster so he says, Hola, Carlo Emma Lovato for Hibou Ha, be hola yo creo love of attend baya. It says, As for the love of art, these are the tongues and whatever is produced by it produced by the by the tongue, the way to preserve the tongue and to protect yourself from falling into error in this matter, is to make sure that nothing comes out of your mouth. Except that which Allah Splinter is happy with. You know, you shouldn't have a

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missing word, I mean, a Kalama that miss your tongue, in a way you try to

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stop it, but it you know, slip from the tongue and goes out by itself.

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And this is a very important point, you know, what does that mean? It means you control your words, whatever you are saying, to make sure that you know exactly what is coming out of your tongue.

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There is no way for the believer to say that No, it just goes out of my tongue without my permission. Now you're supposed to control it, you're supposed to be at the door and check whatsoever is going out to make sure that only the truth is going out. To make sure that only the truth is going out.

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The alert to kill lemma, Ellerbee my yard up here live while it is out feeding. Please if you have the book, highlight this point is very important key to success in this life, not to talk or not to say anything except that which you hope to bring you closer to Allah subhanaw taala and also to bring you more profit in the religion here Allah that's how a believer she lived.

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She live in

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not saying anything except that which he hopes that Allah subhanaw taala will allow her to loves it. And Allah sponsor will accept it from him, you know, whatever you say it should be in this in this way.

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So how to protect your tongue to make sure that you are becoming a moron, but next to the tongue to make sure that nothing is going out of it except that which is bringing good to you to

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And subhanAllah I think the best to to begin with concerning this matter is the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I will begin with that hadith and also the statement of for one of the scholars, you know, you put it in front of you, you know to judge and to govern whatsoever we're going to be saying in the in the future.

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The prophets of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said mankind you mean Billahi while your mill failure called hyaluron earliest what? If you believe in Allah subhanho wa Taala and the hereafter, you should make sure that you always they always say good or you keep quiet.

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Very simple principle, you know, that everyone can apply. Make sure that only good is coming out of your town or just keep quiet.

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That's why sign

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This is important, my dear brothers, sisters, when you don't need to speak, do not speak. If you speak, you're going to hold yourself responsible. That's why even if you watch the the cases in the court, sometimes they tell the, the accused person, but be very careful what you say because whatever is going to come out of your mouth, it will be placed on the table and they will judge you based on that.

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So they advise him if he's not sure to be silent, if he's not sure, just be silent, as well as a lot some already tell us this, that if you don't have anything good to say, keep quiet. And you know people value you based on what you are saying and based on the way you talk, you know, sometimes you say one word, but Subhanallah that word will cause you to lose credibility in the eyes of the community.

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So, silence is very important, you know, when when Shafi says our IT security manager and filters them to who, in LM if it rip handfuls to the How silly is that I have seen my silence to be manager, you know, manager means the place which is so conducive for investment, the best and the most appropriate place for me to invest a silence. He said, I realized that in silence, either I gain a profit or I don't lose anything.

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That's why we have this guidance. Client Sabol is getting cold. The one who is silent, you cannot hold him responsible for any statement because he did not say anything.

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That's why it's not easy to deal with a person who is silent. You want him to say one word so that you can hold him accountable for what he says but he doesn't want to speak at all. Subhan Allah so Imam Shafi talks about the silence you know in his

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Ashar you know, he was given one of the best example I like he says, we'll also do tuck shower here Sabita while Cal yoga lamare wahana bow smila He says you see the opposite of those two, these are the lions took shower here submitted to lion doesn't cry all the time, when you see them screaming, shouting you as a for the for the asset that means there is some problem in that place, either hunger or something that is pushing them to to scream.

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But when they scream, you know, everyone is afraid of them. Even if it lion keeps quiet people have this prestige when you meet a lion, you know, something would appear in your heart.

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So Imam Shafi says look at lions, they are silent the vast majority of the time, but everyone is scared of them.

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While caribou Casa Loma de Oahu and a bow at the same time, you see that the dog being disrespected, humiliated in most communities where it goes, you know, the exception of those communities where dog is having more or equal value than human base. Because those ones the person might give a will and make it to his dog leaving his children, his daughters, his sons, you know, suffering, his family suffering. But a dog can take everything as well. Life of human being doesn't matter in the way the life of animals matters. In Islam, the life of a human being is more valuable than the life of animals that is no even remote comparison. But we protect both wherever it is necessary. We teach

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them how to respect a one, you know, if they want to be humble and come and learn. Tsunami Shafi says usually the dog wherever it goes, you see even the kids, the kids just throwing stones on it, you know, doesn't have that much respect by the screams, you know.

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You know, in the vast majority of the time of the dog, they shout, scream, yeah. But still people are not paying that much attention to to them. So he's given you an example of the comparison between

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the silent person and the one who talks, who talks too much, who has more respect in the community than the other one. The other, this is the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. The other thing that I wanted to mention here before we move forward, is a saying of the poet. And this one, I really want you to listen to it, especially those of you who are writing you know, especially those of you who are giving lectures, especially those of you who are advising others, you should understand this by it, you know properly. It says Wilma, meaning rain, illness Hefner, we're Tabqa marketer but Yoda who fanatic to Bic African Naira che in your suit Ruka Philippi Amati and TA la

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haka. He says mommy namely in India, wherever there is no human being except that there will be a time where this person will be and will finish coolamon and have fun wherever you are, because originally for the crowd, everyone is going to die. No soul will remain

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at all.

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So, web karma Cotabato, so what you you live will be ended and everything will be finished but that would shoe right will remain.

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And that would she say, you know tell others sometimes it remains until their death.

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That's why the bait is talking about writing but I use it also to address the matters of the tongue.

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He says for letter to be careful of a Russia in a suit Brooker Philippi Hemmati And Taro, he said Don't you ever write with your hand except that wish you will be happy to see it? In the Presence of Allah smart Allah.

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Allahu Akbar Aqua Subhan Allah found it to be one of the most excellent nnessee Has somebody is given his brothers and sisters extracted from the new source of the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam led tech to be critical of Arusha in your suit, brookeville, PRT and Tara, who you are somebody in the field of the academies, you know, and you are writing articles, you're writing books, make sure that whatever you put in your article is something that you will be happy to see on the Day of Judgment, you're giving lectures advising people make sure that whatever you are saying is something that you will be happy to sit on the Day of Judgment, a message came to you

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from the Facebook, whatever book you know, and then he just followed it without checking, contemplating and verifying, you know, whatever happens based on that you will be responsible. And the moment you have forwarded it, so this is your writing to somebody asked who is going to make use of it. So let's check to be Catholic, okay, Russia, India, South Africa, Philippi, Amity, and tomorrow I will say the same thing, don't you ever forward a message just because you received it from somebody who you trust, check what is written inside first, then you think whether to forward it to others or not. Most of these messages that come in especially those one that a person will

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threaten their receivers that if you don't forward it to so and so and so person something will happen to you.

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Then forward and give him an A see how you know that's the best that he shouldn't do this and most of these messages, you'll find them fake information about Islam. So somebody just twisted something, write something and put it in Islam and say that this is what Allah smart Allah wants and it has no place in the religion of Allah subhana wa.

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So please, my dear brothers sisters, watch over your hand and watch over your your tongue. Make sure that whatever comes to your tongue and you are take whatever is coming out of your tongue, make sure it is something that you will be happy to see when you meet Allah subhanho wa taala. So it will claim says how to preserve this town. He says you can only preserve it by always observing the robot stay next day to make sure that no word is going out of it without permission. Whatever goes out of your tongue to make sure that you are the one who gave the green light for this word to go out that after scrutiny after searching after check in after verification, after making sure that yes, it is

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correct. And I I will be happy to see it in my book when I meet Allah subhanaw taala on the Day of Judgment, then you say it. Imagine everyone is doing this, you know

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how beautiful life is going to be. By the Arada Anita Kalama BILL KELLY Mati Navara healthy Haribo nuova amla so this person whenever he wants to talk about any statement any word you will think first What do I gain if I see this? What kind of benefit am I going to get by saying this word? Is there any benefit? No benefit he stays away from it if I let me configure Him Who Am Second if there is no benefit, he stays away from it. We're in Canada we have him home. If there is benefit in it. Nevada, handled the food to who be her Kelly Merton here at Birmingham. Fella yoga, yeah, heavy, heavy. You know, subhanAllah who thinks in this way? You know, he says a person who's who talks and

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whenever he talks he he thinks first What am I going to gain a benefit if I say this word? Okay, that is no benefit and keep it aside. Okay. Alhamdulillah that is benefit I'm going to gain the benefit. But then the smart person will not just say it after concluding that there is a benefit in it. What he does

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what he does, he he thinks firstly, is there any other benefit that is greater than this in a way if I get busy doing this, I will lose that greater benefit Subhanallah who thinks in this way you know, and this is smartest way of thinking because sometimes you might be doing things which although they're beneficial, but you will lose other benefits. You know, if you get busy doing this one

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let me configure it. Um Soccerway that are untested Allah Allah mafia calm

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The first dilla Hebei haircut in this

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lesson My dear brother sisters in law came has given you the best way to understand what kind of thinking you know you have inside your heart.

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He said if you if you want to know if you want to know the way the heart is thinking, you know if you want to know the way the heart is thinking, you know, you should always focus on that which is coming out of the tongue.

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The tongue tells you that which is in the heart

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all of a know you Tiller Ocala mafia called the Shah Sahib

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because Dhawan will definitely tells you that which is in the heart whether the owner of the tongue wishes or not, the owner of the heart wishes that on but the tongue will give you the correct interpretation of that which is in in the heart.

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Carla Hammond was on Canoga calculadora tells really the mafia or Alsina to her mother if

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you had been more said Al Konoba Kelkoo it says hard they're just like credit they there is a pot the pot boys

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we get it you need something you know to bring out that which is inside he said the the Alsina to heart the heart of the tongue is just like the bigger father thing.

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The big spoon sisters know that the big spoon that you bring the soup from the from the pot so it says that the tongue is just like that one so the heart is just like the power which you're cooking something in it so you need something to put inside the pot and bring that thing which you're cooking outside so the tongue is doing that job

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holophone energy healing here to kill them over in Alexandria who yesterday Teddy full akkermansia lb. So look at the person when he speaks you know the heart of that the tongue of that person is bringing out for you that which is in his heart.

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Halloween, Hamid and where I've been where we're headed that he says no matter how much you know, color that thing is that Tang would just bring everything that is inside sweet. Sour, you know

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tasty you know, something which is suitable for drinking or jazz assault, salty water, you know, fresh or salty? Whatever color that thing has. A heart is bringing you something the tongue is bringing you that which is in the heart. Okay, the Delica or even you know Lakota I'm kalbi el Terra fullest and he and also that the tongue will taste tells you what kind of tastes that thing has. Whether it is good or it is bad.

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A coma Tap Tap many SANIKA Palma mafia Kaduri Mina Tommy for to the record Alma be happy for Gallica Tom Murphy and Colby Rajan military for to Zuko magical behavioral design he come on to the Panasonic why why so just like the way the food that is inside the the

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the pot you know, how do you know the taste of the food you see it you know? But when you put it on your tongue then you will be able to realize the taste whether it is good or bad. The same goes to the heart. You don't know what exactly the heart is. Planning you know what the heart is cooking, but the tongue of the owner of the heart will tell you exactly what this person is thinking. When you see him the way he speaks the way doors we address matters.

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If he had easy answers in Alvor for lightest p mu Iman robbed in hot tire stuffy McCargo well as that we will caliber who had tested P Melissa and Hadith

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of Anis the one that he attributed to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and it says that the Eman of a person will never be straightforward will never be sound will never be correct will never be strong until the time his tongue is steadfast

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is to karma of the Iman is based on the is the karma of the of the lesson. This hadith is correct but it is weak narration to attribute it to the burbs Allah Allah cinema is weak, but the meaning is sound and correct and perfect.

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If the heart if the tongue is not straightforward, the heart will not be able to be straightforward. When he led the tongue go and just speak everything you know, with no contemplation, no thinking, then the heart also is going to be efficient. For Sumilon Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and at Fatima you just killed on NASA na Akaal Firmoo Well,

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that's authentic Hadees inshallah

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the prophets Allah Allah who said them I was asked, what is the vast majority of the manner and attitude that usually takes people to hellfire. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I will firm, the firm the mouth, Welford you and the private part is to fix private parts and the mouth that's mean the tongue on that which is done by the private parts.

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What can sell them was an ABS that Allahu Allahu selama and Amelie lady up to aL Jana, where you buy who Mina Akbar who Dara See he were moody he was it what you sent me he

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was even Jebel asked the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam to tell him about those activities and righteous deeds that a person should be doing in order to attain paradise. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Surma told them, you know, subhanAllah the biggest thing that a person should be busy with in order to get the paradise you know, Rasul Allah, you know, the roots of the things where our mood who derives Well, our mood these are all, I mean, almost synonymous to each other receives their head, a mood is the foundation it's a pillar that is holding something, well then what is anatomy is the peak of something, it's an arm is a hum. So these are all I mean, going back

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to the same thing, which mean the roots of those activities that can take a person to to paradise. So the prophets or Allahu Allahu semi told him those things.

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You know, if you go back to the Hadith in Arizona, nowhere it's a very, very great Hadith. But after mentioning all of those roots of Islam, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I told him, he said, Allah or Kobilka BB lackey that equally he said, Don't you want me to tell you the one that controls all of those things that I have mentioned to you? Column arguments, jibber jabber said Bella rasool Allah, He said, Yes, jasola Here I want for AQa Billy Sani be decided FC FEMA, Carla Koufax, the prophets, Allah so have brought out his tongue, and that he held it and that he told me he said, hold upon this control this one.

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Somalia was surprised, you know, those heavy activities which Islam is based upon, but now Rasulillah Salam sama is trying to tell him that there is something that is more important than this. So what asked him ya rasool Allah, we're in

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the monitor can he said jasola? Are we going to be responsible of the statement we are saying?

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Karla effect lelutka omocha. The prophets Allah Azza most surprised how come this question is coming from what it's like what they say no hookah kala. If somebody said it, I can understand but not tomorrow. Someone said Yeah, so like we will be questioned about Allah subhanaw taala and held responsible of that which we say the preface that Allahu Allah who serve and said thank you that komak Thank you. Let's go and look at is the dua by the prophets Allah Allah sama for him to lose. I mean to be a missing property of his mother mentioned the word property, it means the prophets Allah Surma is making dua, saying that may Allah subhanaw taala cause the your mother to lose you.

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So this dua if you look at it is a bit harsh,

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but as to be dead, the mother will lose him. What way and then if you study the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, you'll understand that this is not going to affect me in any way.

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That's why they used to consider the DUA that comes from the province of Allah Allah sama to one of the companions as a blessing and a virtue for him. Because rasool Allah said Allah is cinema said Yeah, Allah and human beings, You created me to be acting as a human being. I make mistake, the way that human beings are making mistakes. Yeah, Allah if I get angry also the way they get an angry, if I get mad at somebody and I make dua against him which he doesn't deserve that dua. Ya Allah turn it for him into mercy

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and Manfra and forgiveness from the inside.

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So that's why they don't care when the prophets Allah sama said that because it will be a mercy Mark did not did not die that way. That's means insha Allah dua of the prophets Allah sama was accepted it turns into a mercy for him

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to get idea like his wife, that the prophets Allah so mindset during the time of the hajj, he said, Let's go, we're done with this place. So they said no, jasola here why? They mentioned the name of the wife, I guess Sofia, they said she is. She is in the fast they are referring to hide nucleus. She has high the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said UPCA Helcom Hadees certainIy the prophets Allah Azza wa good vibe, he said Alcatra Helcom what is Africa hellfire?

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It's like dua from the prophets, Allah Azza wa mrcb to affect that woman, you know, in a way she will even lose her hair imaginable, see, but I will come and even make a person bold

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or the mercy but I will come and take a person down and kill, kill the person. So it's like he's making dua for how to be destroyed by Allah subhanho wa taala.

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But hide, is it her fault? No collaborated and the prompts the lesson or knows that

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you know, so he said, how is he going to stop us in this place?

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So they took that dua as a blessing for her

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and a mercy for her for the last month that will give her because of sola sola sama said, Yeah, Allah if I make dua against the person, turn it for him into into mercy.

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Good idea. So that's Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So when he made this dua, like what he said to

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Monrovia, Lashkar Allahu bazzano, may Allah give him the ability to be full when he eats food? And they took this and other scholars of Hadith they took this as a virtue for why we are the law one

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does the virtue of whom are we under the law?

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I just want you to understand this fact when you hear da from Rasulullah sallallahu sama to any of the companions and the DUA that was sent to him He does not deserve that thing which the prophets Allah Allah is so nice asking

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the last quarter that should punish him with a loss of a hotel I will turn it into Manfra and Rama for that person.

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Carla, Holly Akobo how you keep buenas Allah would you hear him? Oh mana hero, Amina Heaney, Illa Hassan, al Sunnah to him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said, Is there anything that is putting the people on their faces inside their health, you know, which is more than that which they have bursted with the tongue

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hovers of the of the tongue, this is the vast majority of the action that is taking people to help

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the salah salah, so that's why I said the best is the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mankind, Allah he will Yamanaka valuable Hiren audience but if you believe in Allah and the hereafter is you always say good or keep quiet.

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I mean, Elijah

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there's a very interesting comment. So Amina larger. And then in Santa Johanna, Allah had to have full knowledge Charles I mean, accurate Herradura volume was in our circle, or shoulder camera. He says it is so strange to find that any people find is so easy, so simple for them to stay away from Hannah. Ever he's talking about the people of the past. Nowadays alarms that.

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He said the thought is so easy to stay away from haram to stay away from oppression, to stay away from Zina to stay away from Sarika This is a theft to stay away from should will come drinking wine and warming another Hara Morgana Dalek and to stay away from looking at the opposite gender in a haram way.

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The font is very easy to do that. Well yes sir Allah you have for the Mihara catalyst. He can do all of those things, but it will not be easy for him to control his tongue.

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This tongue is with you. A person might find it very difficult for him to control it. At the same time he might be able to control you know, his gaze, he might be able to stay away from haram to stay away from Xena to stay away from this and that, but to control his tongue. It will be very difficult. That's why I'm saying this is so strange. So strange. It's supposed to be the other way around.

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Hatter radula. You shadow in a bit Dini was doing whatever or whoever Kalam will be the Kelly multiman cerca de la la la pila Berlin years zero kilometers wide. I mean, the other mobile machinery calm agree that hola Katya, la Vela, it says sometimes you see a person, poor people point at him. They are saying that if you're looking for a religious and a righteous person, go and see that person. The best among us is Falon.

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Pursue Hanalei Milaca him says sometimes he speaks the words that will bring him down to the lowest level

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you know Subhanallah he'll be taken away from Jana the distance that is between like the distance between the heavens and earth.

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Welcome Tara miraggio moto RN, and in for Wally Sandhu. Yes. Very well, um, what? What are you by living my accord

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Listen to this idea of resistance, you know, and I don't know whether you share with me the same

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belief or not, you know, in your claim says,

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how many times you see a person,

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very religious in terms of what appears to us very strong in terms of his dedication, you know, to Allah subhanaw taala praying, you know, studying, you know, sometimes as call also, you know, and he stays away from for Haish the sins and oppression while the Santa who have very few era the 1am What, but Subhan Allah has done is unrestricted.

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He talks not against the living ones, even against the dead ones.

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Nowadays, in the name of Jehovah, do you know how many scholars righteous scholars have been taken away, even from Islam?

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Do you know that somebody says that Abu Hanifa was a kafir you know that this debt is somebody who claims this. You know that somebody says that twice. They're asking him to repent from KUVO

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we have all of these lunatic fringes in our own, you know, communities, in the name of the religion, in the name of the religion, who is given them that tarbiyah Allah Allah but somebody says this is what they have learned from the setup of Salah

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and Subhanallah I didn't know which salat wa salam are they referring to

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which one the one we have read about why not like this, which salad for Salah had been fired, the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the righteous predecessors do not like this.

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Go and see what the sitter's callers are talking about when it comes to this matter. You see Subhanallah nowadays, you know, people are sharing the same aqidah you're sharing the same mazahub And sometimes the same manage but just because my chef is not having good mood with your chef, then we start clashing and fighting each other.

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What is this, but he should know that the scholars have mentioned this statement which is applicable up to this date, up to this date.

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And actually, it's more applicable in our time than any other time. The Hula lemma imasu you're a talk about people.

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If you cannot stay away from talking about others, Allah hemodialysis is a really advise you to stay away from talking against the scholars. No matter how much you can, you know, push yourself and force yourself not to talk against any scholar and to stay away from talking against the student approach. Because if those ones that you're talking about happen to be out here to Allah subhanaw taala if they only have Allah and you talk about them, Allah you're inviting nothing to your life except tragedy and destruction. Because Allah subhanaw taala says and Hadith of codici, Muhammad Ali Ali and then to get help, wherever hates and fights my Wali. I am asking him to prepare and get

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ready for a war between me and and I guess nobody would deceive himself to think of success if Allah subhanaw taala is vital.

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There is no way for this person to succeed if Allah subhanaw taala is vital.

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But our daily Willian forgot to get help. So the scholar said to her mother and Emma Emma smoothbore man Shama married woman, Akana, Hamid, the flesh of the scholars are poisonous. If you smell it, you will get sick.

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If you eat it, you will die.

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Where are the Tula Heafy hotkey as 30, Moon Cherkasy Maluma.

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And the system that Allah is smarter put in this life. In a way, whoever is disrespecting our scholars will never succeed and Allah smarter will expose their secrets, and the weaknesses and their privacy is known.

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In the past, nobody ever succeeded, as long as his attitude is to criticize and to oppose, and to go against the scholars and to talk against them in in public, private and secret between him and those people who he can talk to about those courts. So this is a very, very, very, very interesting and important statement said by in your claim, you know about talking against others. So he says sometimes you find people who are religious, but unfortunately, their tongue is not religious. They have nothing other than saying statement and lying or criticizing and backbiting the scholars, you know, and the student of knowledge and it's so funny, sometimes they even backbite the dead ones.

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In the past, when they have the jacket D in those days, you know, subhanAllah they intend

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tion was to make sure that the Hadith of the Prophet Allah sama is protected from the enemies and from those people who could could possibly insert something into it, which is not part of it. The intention was good. They had no intention to criticize the personalities or to go and tarnish the image of somebody even have this. That's why they talk against their parents. They talk against their children, you know,

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they ask a Buddha about his son. What do you say about your son? You know, he said even he conduct is that he is a liar. This is on Sunday. No, he said he's a liar when we lay him up, but at the same time he is him out.

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But that mistake which happens, you know, which for us, Abu Dhabi to say that he's he lied.

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He's a liar. He described him as a liar. You know, I live in Medina, he you know, the chef of Imam Al Bukhari, they asked him about his father, he said, he said, I believe, he said, You know what deep, he said, this is this is the religion of Allah subhanaw taala. My father is weak.

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This is called vain. But when it comes to the protection of the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and the religion, these type of barriers are removed, but they have that good intention. They're just doing it to preserve the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but they have the level of respect to everyone. They don't talk against them behind them, but they talk according to what they need to preserve and to protect the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, your heavenly mindset in Al Anon. Are there a Kwame Lanois? Haider Minho, Adhatoda Hatha who

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can help Tara Hello, hello, Phil Jannetty Mondo Mutasa.

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He says, sometimes we we talk against some people we say that is this one is,

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is one as weak is one is wrong in his memory. This one is this and that, you know, he said at the same time, we believe that some of them is already in paradise, but even Allah has Adela 200 years ago, even LaserJet.

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But since we are the remaining ones, we have to preserve the Sunnah of the Prophet sallahu sama wherever he makes a mistake. We talk about that, so that people will be aware of this mistake and look for the correct information from other sources. They don't affect the personality, because the way he believes he said we talk about them, but at the same time, we believe that some of them might be in Ghana right now, you know, and they were in Ghana 200 years ago.

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When it comes to preservation of the religion of Allah subhanaw taala this knows nobody. We do it in the way that religion will be will be protected and preserved. So my dear brothers sisters, please do put a highlight on this word, that sometimes a person might be so righteous but unfortunately his tongue is not righteous in the way he talks against the living and the dead ones also. That's Allah subhanaw taala to Vic was salam. So I will stop here in sha Allah for questions if if any, may Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. This is a bit long chapter that he caught it so many Hadith from the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam so we will be going through each and every one of them BarakAllahu

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sidekick Baraka Lumphini I guess you are asking whether I'm still in Nigeria

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for I came back to Malaysia I left a long ago almost more than a month I guess now back last week so keep me in your last Martina guarantee good and toffee.

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We have our first question from

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Barbara Kathy chef solo.

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really competent.

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There is an online payment method in the country where we use their card to pay online.

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The card is given for free.

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For every purchase you make with the card, the company gives 0.5% cash back to us. The company charges a percentage from the sellers merchants on every purchase made by us. One seller said is haram since the company charges the seller a percentage and then from that percentage gives the user zero

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In 5% cashback so the seller suffers more losses as he would have gotten for profit if the user paid the seller in cash

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so he's asking is this haram

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So, if I if I

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understand correctly this if I use the card which is given to me free I will be given a discount right. When I buy something, they will give me some discount, but there is an agreement between them and the company, the producer of the product and buying that if a person uses a card, you guys should give him a discount. Is that how it was? No, they charge him the seller to enable his customers to by using this method.

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For example, I am the seller, okay.

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So, I want people to buy from me in cash, and also using this card.

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So, I go to this company, I tell them, I want my customers to also buy by this card.

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So he tells me okay, if you want your customers to pay by this card, you have to pay me a certain amount per month or something like that, we provide the card and you are going to pay us the money for anyone who uses the card. The card is given to other customers, I know the card is given to the customers right but if a person uses the card, since the money is going to come through us and then we pass it to you. We will charge you Yeah, because the seller yeah the seller, but you have to give this count to the to that person

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No, he doesn't have to give discount they sell the same thing but then the company gives back 0.5% cashback to that the customers to use their car to use the card. Well I according to cashback if you say that it comes from the profit the company makes from the seller

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to pay the company that's what's wrong with that Jose because I guess this is they produced their things right and somebody wanted to use their own product and they charge him for that

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my my right

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so he's saying in this case the seller would suffer more loss and he would have gotten full profit but he agrees

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but he agrees right

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yeah, yeah I also then don't see the way they will lose you know because I don't think somebody will buy and sell you know to lose if there is a loss they will not

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I mean participate in that kind of deal at all.

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So I believe that they are gaining but it is not that much maybe you know in the way we see it but I see it that if they rushed to that system definitely there again is something

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so that's how I see it but if they already agree they're going to use the service provided by somebody and they should pay him some money they agree with that then the case is closed inshallah.

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Next question from Stan, and the card and the card itself as long as they're not going to buy it you know, it is given to them free isn't also there is nothing with that insha Allah hotel

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next question from Sister chakra

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was salam ala to Allah

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can shape please re explain where you mentioned that the flesh of the scholars is poisonous. Smell it or eat it and you will die. I didn't fully understand this point. They're talking about the flesh of the scholars to be poisonous. Mencia, Ma Ma Ma Ma Ma, married woman Akela much.

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You know, it's like a poison, you know that when you when you smell it, you will be sick.

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And when you eat it, it kills you. So he's just talking about backbiting the scholars. In know, thinking Ill having bad thoughts about this callers can cause the person to get into trouble with Allah subhanho wa Taala and also talking against them or disrespecting them or talking behind them back biting them, you know that's eating their flesh that can cause a person to die. So he is just referring to that hadith of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam or that fighting or having an issue with the Alia of Allah subhanho wa Taala can destroy a person because fighting with Allah subhanaw taala is equal to destruction.

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Yeah, scholars if you read the books of history in Islam, you might come across these type of moment where people disrespect this

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Call us and get they get into trouble. There are some of them who lost their life life instantly actually, since the shipper. So that's what's he referring to? Because it was called as fears Allah, it was called fears Allah subhanho wa Taala he is one of the, the top out there of Allah subhanho wa Taala because will is given to them with Turkey and it was called fears Allah. So he has some additional benefit more than a common and a normal person in society who will be as Allah, he got this one has the knowledge about Allah, you know, and he put it into practice and action he would never be equal to somebody else. So these are the great ally of Allah subhanaw taala on earth when

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they feel Allah smarter, they will get this quality. The same goes to the student of knowledge. So that's why talking behind them, talking against them back biting them is not an easy thing to be done. A person might put himself into trouble with Allah subhanho wa Taala instantly, Allah grant is good.

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next question from Sister Molly.

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Sarah, welcome to La Buckler Pico.

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Question is, as the heart is like a pot, the tongue delivers. What's the heart is about?

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If we see someone good and religion speaking using inappropriate words,

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what should we do to help them remind him in a nice way because sometimes these people might be very arrogant. So you have to think a lot, how to approach him how to remind him he shouldn't be he shouldn't do like this actually.

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Scholar should be the most humble person, you know, amongst the members of the community. But unfortunately, sometimes it's not easy for somebody to be corrected just because he thinks he has the knowledge. So, he has wisdom, if you can have somebody who is very close to him to talk to that person so that the person can remind him you know, if he has good mood with his family then talk to some of the family members to go on approach and maybe last month I will let him see the reality and fix his world and see the correct things inshallah.

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Next question from Sister alumna

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salam ala Kumar, to Chef,

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Baraka lofi comm

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Sometimes when people discuss Islamic concepts and family gatherings, or workplaces, they make a lot of mistakes in these concepts. And say things that are not true due to lack of knowledge.

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If someone who knows the correct information is present in these gatherings, should they always correct the mistakes they hear? Even if the people sometimes refuse to believe them into age gap?

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Or should they correct serious mistakes only, like mistakes in our data and keep quiet about the rest so that people don't stop listening to them?

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Yes, they should be using the priority method.

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Look into the mistakes and categorize them according to their

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volume size. If they have mistakes in Arcada, a person should focus on those one first. Because if those ones are fixed be the law has no agenda the rest will be will be fixed, either automatically or it will be easy for them to fix it in the future. And try unnecessary mistakes now which are very light don't correct them because the more you talk, the lesser value speech will have. So categorize the mistakes, mistakes and aquadex Shouldn't be compromised, those will have to be corrected.

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And you use wisdom in your connection and make sure that you're humble when you correct and try refer to the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah so that you can find it or the Quran or the statement of scholars who they agree with. Yeah, I try to refer to scholars who they agree with, so that they will not always refer to you as the owner of the statement. Because they are going to say, yeah, look nice young, my chef is, you know, how old you know, how can she know more than to get idea but when you refer to some big scholars, they they respect and they know you know you're living in the Maliki environment use the statement of Imam Malik if you can find one of those big scholars in the

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Maliki school. The same goes to the place where you have the vast majority following the Shafi mother use the staging of Imam Shafi.

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So now the prophets Allah sama the Quran and the statement of Imam Shafi they will respect it more they know that this is not yours. This is from the share who they respect, you know,

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us wisdom. So what I'm trying to say is start with the most important one for us.

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and overlook a lot of small, small, small, tiny mistakes that doesn't affect their feed. And it doesn't affect those pillars of Islam where a person has to get the correct one. And sometimes if a person says something which is really harmful to him, you know and they realize that the situation is not I mean suitable enough for you to make the correction, leave the correction first and go and meet him separately corrected

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and convinced him to rectify the problem in the next meeting. And don't refer to you you can just say he got it from somebody that this thing that he said last time was wrong and please delete that which I have to do in sha Allah so try minimize your corrections except on the important things and go slowly slowly so that you will not be talking to them too much and they will not get bored. You can either as you said in the last part of your question, or Koloff equals a scarlet

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next question from SR shafa.

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Do we consider snow and rain the same with regard to do and dua as Ian would do with snow and Tao when it snows

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I don't understand how much

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she means can we make will do it smelled like to make water with water? Yeah, if there is water in it

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and also do we make dua when it snows like when it rains? Because we we have we have we have to wash not to rub

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Yeah, that were supposed to wash so if you can touch the snow in a way it will create water because of the the temperature in your body then it's okay otherwise you will be ended up rubbing the places where last one it'll ask you ask you to wash them and they do outcomes during that the rain. If that takes

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the snow also take the same thing. The same concept is coming their way the rain is coming then it takes the same effect to be the land soldier but to my knowledge the province a lot so my talk about the rain, you know but this is what comes according to the norm.

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But if it does know also it's fallen down the way I have never witnessed this. But if it is coming in the way the rain also is coming

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guess is my be the rain I have to somebody has to explain to me what is the source? Is it the rain? get dry somewhere or what exactly is happening with Allah Allah, but what I know is it came for the rain.

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If the snow is similar to it, then if somebody applied the same concept and make dua, inshallah she'll be, she'll be fine with in my hand. So my

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next question from systems as earlier,

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said Alikum chef.

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If a scholar is involved in a scandal, do we leave him and his teachings or do we follow whatever that is good from him in terms of knowledge and leave the bad is that?

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It depends. It depends.

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If he gets involved in something which, after that there will be no trust in the religion of the community the best is to stay away from him.

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But if things which are very simple could be rectified. Scholars are the same as anybody else. Once he fix himself and make Toba people should want benefit from him. But at the same time, they should be very careful. Very careful.

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So Allah Allah, Allah, Allah protect us is a very important question you know, but

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Allah subhanaw taala Ania for the Nigerian.

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The next question from Brother Ibaka.

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Salaam Alaikum share this up below harem.

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What is the ruling on family planning with regard to

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family planning in a way it is introduced to us by the non Muslims this is wrong to even think about it. We didn't have this. But you and your wife you just decided to have child every three years every two years you know that's after a person if he doesn't want to make the progress a lot so am I happy? You know he wants to stay away from this

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sunnah of the Prophet Allah Salama to have more children, you know, but he's making this decision not because he hates Rasul Allah or he hates his sunnah. But just as some issues you know, the wife is having some health issues so they decided to give some gaps so that he can take risks, these are all up to them, but to go and get football from those enemies, you know, telling you that this is always better is is wrong and against the Sunnah of Allah subhanho wa Taala and it is a blessing to have more people in the house than having only a few in the in the house. Allows is halal.

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When a person doesn't want his wife to be come pregnant, he can practice the acid. You know,

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as the person who has relationship with his spouse, right before the discharge, you know,

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he brings out his organ and ejaculates outside. That's as they used to do it in the time of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and Javid said we used to do it and the Quran was given to the Prophet sallallahu selama. But he did not say anything. That means, Allah Allah and the best opinion of the scholars that azules Khaled azules is Hala. Allah grant is good, but I really advise the person not to follow the family planning at all, the person is taking the same advice and the hotbar given to them by the non Muslims, the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala this is what this call is called family planning that is that is haram to good idea, but between him and his wife, he decided

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to make a gap that's between them. Allah did not say they have to have a child every single year, or every two three years is up to them to decide when they want to have a child and to depend on the last one and with Allah's mercy. I really advise that a person should live a normal life if his wife has a child every year has never showered, you will be proud of that when he meets him last one until on the Day of Judgment.

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The next question from brother was related to this.

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What if they keep forgetting to focus on each child still be

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the weaknesses in terms of approach.

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Because the problem we have is the wife is very negligent and the Father is negligent also as well.

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When the first child comes, they're supposed to start giving him the tarbiyah from day one, according to their ability.

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That's how it is by the time even if they are going to have a next the next one after one year. You know, this one got enough according to their age.

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Good idea. So if they do it gradually Inshallah, by the time they have two three children, you know, it'll be more than enough for them in sha Allah to participate in helping the parent in giving Tarbiat to the next one when it comes. Because they will be passing those you know, valuable information, a tool from the parent to the next one who is who is coming in.

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Last Mahershala grant is good. So is there I don't see this to be

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to be an issue at all. A person he and his wife whenever she can afford having a child, let them have a child and she should be very serious in terms of giving therapy and start from the from the beginning from day one. Start from day one. As I said the problem is the sisters the delay, keep on delaying keep on delaying until they keep having the children and then they have the whole Jaysh in the house. And then the issue will be what you have to give gaps so that you will be able to give tarbiyah to the children. But this is not the issue. This is not the cause of the problem. The cause of the problem is negligence and not doing things at the time they should be doing that Allah grant

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is Tofik

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hamdulillah or Bill Alamy

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does Aquila hair and hair loss Rotella grantee Tofik and be with you wherever we are wherever you are in the ecology meaning Kafeel Subhanak llama we have a shadow law and sexual culture Malaika salam Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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