The Fragile Vessels – Rights and Obligations Between Spouses in Islam

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In Alhamdulillah Hina mother who when a Stein you know when a stock a funeral when I was with lemon Cerulean fusina was the Medina. Manuel de la Ferla medulla or my youth little fella. Deanna shadowline that in the mall, the whole Sherry Can I shadow ana Muhammadan Abba do who want to sue? who seek my ein our unbeatable law for both files and with a boon Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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All praises belongs to Almighty Allah, the Creator of all things, the sender of all Prophets and Messengers, from Adam to Noah, to Abraham to Moses to Jesus, and the last messenger of Allah

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to humanity, Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and the revealer of own heavenly books,

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the so forth of Prophet Abraham,

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palms to profit dB, Torah, the Prophet Moses

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Injil, the Bible, the Prophet Jesus, and the Last Testament Quran, the Prophet Muhammad, some of us I

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mean the blessing and the mercy of Allah be upon all of us as seeker of knowledge.

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Young and old, male and female.

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Among noble Allah mean, the Creator of all things remind us with his

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saying in the Holy Quran,

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but they'll only be left and shaytani R rajim. Yeah, or Yohannes

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Yeah, Johan Nasser Takuro Baku Millennium cada Kocoum enough su Haider. wahala caminhadas Jaha. What best mean Houma region theory wrong when is our top law? What luxury does Luna be he Wareham in Namaha Karna Aleikum or Akima

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the meaning or people, Allah is talking to every one of us, as fellow mankind

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along you're not, who has created all of you from one male and one female, from Adam, and from

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Allah is telling us how

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is the beginning of mankind from one soul, because when He created Adam, he created item by his hand.

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And Eve was created from Adam

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from the rib bones of Adam Alayhis Salam

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and he created

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paths because he wanted us to have a family to grow without that, they will no more production human production will die.

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You can see from time to time when people are trying to have family planning.

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Then you see the human production will decrease. And nation will suffer because of that.

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Because development need

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without human, whatever you want to do. You just can't do it.

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That's where everything in China is cheaper.

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And also is well developed because of the population

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from both of them meaning from male and female, Adam and Eve, then

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he had twins teach them when if deliver, he did he delivered twin a pair,

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a boy and a girl

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and from the the law of God in the beginning, allow brothers and sisters, to get married.

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But with one condition, not the same between the first can marry the second third of all, but not the same dreams.

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Then that beginning of this, there is no race, there is no tribe, there is just children of Adam.

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In a time of no on a Salem

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Allah decided

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to make this into nation and tribe. That is the beginning of what we have seen today. Even this morning, we have different different background is because of what Allah has

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created, and he would then do happen in a time of Noah to his three children. Men, they speak different language

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and they travel different parts of the world. And Allah said, Xu oboe or kabbah in

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and I make new Indonesian and tribes

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to do what the belittle one and

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the fight with one and

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to say that I'm better than you because I am better than you. I'm taller than you.

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I'm more beautiful than you now.

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Allah said Shubin, Wakaba ala Lita are awful for you to get to know one another.

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Work together as a family

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and move forward.

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Learn how to live harmony

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by respecting one and complement one another.

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That is the purpose get to know one another Lita are awful.

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That's why it's very important

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to have a good piano so that we can survive wherever we go.

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I've been

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in general, all of us love different kinds of foods.

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If you are not

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particular with food, you can survive everywhere better and cheaper.

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But if you're very particular, just with one kind of food, everywhere you go, you want to look for Carry, carry carry, then the carry can be expensive in certain country. Because this is not their food.

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But if you're used to different kinds of food, and hamdulillah it can be cheap.

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And it's easy for you to survive.

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So when you travel, please have this open mind. Open heart, open spirit, get to know one another.

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And you should engage and interact with one another.

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This is the spirit of how we should learn

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to be humble and to get to know one another. And the best among you. Allahu Allah Allah Minh is telling us is those who have Taqwa who are righteous, nothing to do your honor.

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To the extend our prophets

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Oh children

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of Adam.

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You came from one God.

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And mighty Allah, The God of Adam, the god of Noah, Abraha, Moses, Jesus, Mohammed, the God of the world, or Buddha, Allah mean. You came from one father, from Adam, not from apes, monkey. There's what the theory of Darwin is.

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And our last Anahata Anna how he'll remind us the prophecy.

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The Arabs are not

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better than the non Arab. Neither the white is better than the black.

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The best among you are those

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war rages.

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That is the value that makes us different, not because of your color, your race, and your will.

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But your righteousness.

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Brothers and sisters, may Allah subhana wa Taala go on all of us to have a good life by having a good family,

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what is family, all of us are aware,

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families start with

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one man and one lady.

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When you are ready to be, to have a family, every man should learn how to be a good husband.

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If not, that mean, you're not ready,

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you must learn

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at least your right as a man and your responsibility as a husband.

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The same goes to the woman, if you're ready to have a family, you also have to learn and prepare yourself.

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It's not just blind love. That's why there isn't. What's

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the relation between male and female always is that blind. And is it love is blind.

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Whether you believe or not,

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but in reality, love is not blind, except if both party are blind.

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We have students

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who are married both obliging, that when you can see, love is blind.

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But after marrying, they have two beautiful children.

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one male, one female, grown up children was there to take care of both better.

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They very, very interesting.

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Both children are not blind.

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And allow give the mercy to them to take care of the blind parents.

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So then the the wife came to me and said, I don't know what happened to my husband.

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What he see in the other lady, that I don't have, because the husband got married with the second one.

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And the second

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woman also is why

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I say this is why they say love is blind.

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Some playing blind people also fall in

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is because of the feeling.

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The feeling is very important, how you engage how you talk to one another play a very important role

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and never never take life for granted. A relationship

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is very important to have engagement,

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the top to communicate, to share

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so that you will have righteous family

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because you want to have a righteous wife

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you must be righteous

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and the wife also must learn the how the husband have to learn.

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Later on. Then you can educate your children to be righteous children.

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When you have righteous children,

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you have everything in the world

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because righteous children and children who is always there for the parent. They are very grateful thankful to the parent.

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They are not here. They cannot be here without the parent.

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The parent has worked very hard day and night. The mother have given everything she has her time.

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Her health

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her well everything.

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We just invest on the children.

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They keep on giving. Mother never asked anything back from the children. The same go out to the Father. The Father will keep on giving and giving. But there's a limit how

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many children grown up

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reached the HDI independent so the responsibility

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You have the parent towards the pet the children financially stop. They don't have to proceed anymore because they have give them enough.

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the religious advice

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about religion is an ongoing responsibility until the parent died,

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to make sure that the children become righteous, that how could Jacob call upon His children, including profit use of the son of Jacob,

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to have

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sibling was summoned by the father. The father was very old, but still the father.

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Never stop

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talking to them, reminding them about God.

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So that the children will grow up with God fearing God loving God awareness guide.

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So that the next generation also become righteous. Because when you have a relation with Almighty God,

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the All Knowing, all seeing all living, you will never fail yourself.

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Brothers and sisters, it is very important for us to understand life is short.

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If you are not kind,

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grateful, especially to your parents today.

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That mean you're waiting for something that is worse to come.

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If you become righteous, grateful, caring, loving, passionate to your parents,

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Amma and mighty worrywart all of us caning.

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In a teaching of Quantico, Tama Buddha said karma,

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you want anything good to happen to you.

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You must be good now.

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Then the good thing will come to you. The good energy will come to you.

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On this good thing did not come.

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So easy, but everybody must do what they have to do.

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And allows it to us what are what are the barrier Taqwa of Allah, when Allah is me, one, always be ready have an open mind to help one another, to do something that benefit both party

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and help each other to get closer to Almighty the Creator who creates all of us in the best form and who have provided for us the best food

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so that we become the best.

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Right? There's an insistence. In the same time Allah Azza wa know Allah is me a lot, one. Don't ever help one another in committing hatred.

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In committing sins, we know we are no angel. We are all sinners, but we are not born we've seen

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even there are some religions that every child is born. We've seen because we inherit the sin of Adam and Eve, who ate the forbidden fruit that Almighty God commanded them not to eat.

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But our prophets are Muslim. Say Kulu Maori EULA fitrah every child is born pure and clean. We don't bear any sin because it's not our own doing. Done by our parents. Our parents permit something to use it that I'm also a sinner. If he's a criminal, I'm also a criminal. No.

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Every car is born pure, clean. And is the parent the upbringing of the parent that will mold them to be good, bad or ugly.

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If you want the best, that's why I start by as men.

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We become the best men.

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We become the best woman

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and all of us give the best to the children, then that you

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Children become the best.

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And that were protect the children from a lot of problem.

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This is how a family move on brothers and sisters.

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This way in Islam, when you pray, you must remind your children to pray. So that we worship Allah together. When you fast, you train everybody to fall.

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For the young one, just train them in the beginning, maybe one hour.

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The next day, two hour, the next week five, our might we must keep on training them to be the best.

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Without training is just like us. If you don't go to any training, we become very ignorant and we can become very arrogant.

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So we hope that Allah Allah, Allah Amin

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will make time, things easy for all of us.

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If we want to have a good life in the future, is that from now

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LBD you have to plan for the future

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is just like when you want to look for a partner.

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If you want to look for a good partner, you must go to a good area.

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If you go to area that is full of draft edits, then you get a draft family.

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Then you don't know what is going to happen in the future. Your life will be in danger. The police will come after you

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and the bad guy will come after you

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if you are in a good environment. That's why the prophesy and Morrow and that Dini and Khalidi for the yen's, or Manju Collier, normally, our lifestyle, our behavior, follow

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the environment,

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follow our friends. So look, and be careful with your friend.

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If you want to be good, always be friends with the good people.

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If you want to be healthy, be friends with the people who like to do exercise, to go to the gym, then you build out muscle,

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you build our energy,

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but you want to be strong. But you're always with the lazy people who just loves to eat and drink and enjoy food.

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And then you know what muscle is growing.

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After some time you see a lot of men get pregnant, but no baby. And

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the muscle that we do not want you to grow, grow by is

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the muscle that we want it to grow, it didn't grow, you have to work very hard to palm, your bicep, your tricep, your shoulder. If not, then you don't expect you to be healthy. This is just

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a reminder.

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Anything that you want to be good you must choose a good environment. You can see normally, we can easily become an become the bad habit when you are with the bad guy.

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Who are the bad guy and the bad guy normally or those who don't care about others.

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Very selfish the thing of themselves.

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Who are the ugly one the ugly or the hypocrite? In front of you they see something behind of you, because you

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they bet by the slender

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this is very very dangerous. Allah Almighty who created all of us and hamdulillah have shown us

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this tree three groups of people in the beginning of Surah Al Baqarah, the second chapter of the Holy Quran, because the Quran was revealed in this man Ramadan, Armand Barak,

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and Torah The Old Testament was revealed also on this man on the six days of Ramadan.

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The book was revealed the Prophet Abraham and the first night of Ramadan

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and teen of Ramadan. gone on this day have gone is the day God reveal the Bible to Jesus and the Quran was revealed on the 24th of Ramadan on the day

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A that Allah reveal the heavenly book have passed us because we have gone further than that. We left maybe yeah and then the five days

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then Ramadan is ending. So what is important brothers and sisters is to understand, the Quran says

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we reveal the Quran as Shiva, a healer, you have any problem, especially mental problem, depression, anxiety, just go back to this book

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and read, reflect

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and follow the SOP

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you will find peace

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and Rama

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Shiva Rama,

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Quran was

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revealed as Rama

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to bring everybody together

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not to divide

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people to unite fellow mankind, family, husband, wife, children,

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that is the Quran, the Quran was revealed. So who the Linares a guidance from Almighty God that will never go wrong. And nobody can live without following certain guidance. Everybody have to follow some rules

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and regulation, whether you want to follow the divine rule, or you follow men rule, only have two

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men meet law or divine law. We will choose to divine law fair and square and change an altar. Nobody is above the Divine Law. Very fair. Men meet line when it is men men, then a woman also come up with their law. There's no one fighting for their rights.

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You don't hear men fighting for the right.

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Or New woman's right woman right?

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Why? Why woman must fight for their right.

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And why men don't fight for the right because majority of the people say this is the man's or

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the men who make up the law that favor the men.

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men also come up with the law.

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But then when a woman become a prime minister, the woman also started to make some changes.

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That is human.

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Today's thing is so confused. When people want to talk about the third.

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The third one the third group of people

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we only know he and she

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got great he ng everywhere. Adam II

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is Ankara wounds.

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But now human play god they say no more he he

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so the agenda is not important anymore. They come with books from our primary school, from kindergarten trying to portray that there is no agenda. Everything goes

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we are going back to the worse.

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And this happened from the time of loot in not something new and God have destroyed

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and now we are promoting again.

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We are create another

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And thing is the sign is coming up very strong. If there's where you are going to hate, you're waiting for your own self destruction

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so divine law is simple. I make male female he she

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when you die People say he or she

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that's how we move on.

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The Divine Law is a basketball

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and Quran Allah says in naturalness Zico, were in Allahu La half his own. I have to address this because this is a last Sunday

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of Ramadan for this year.

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loves it. Indeed we reveal

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the Quran acid

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secure as a reminder, every one of us need to be reminded young and old, male and female leaders, the public, everybody needs to be reminded

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when somebody is there to remind one another, that show that they care about us.

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If the parent keep on reminding the children show that the parent care with us, if not, why must we waste my time, Carlos, you're big enough, bye bye.

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You do what you want, I do what I want,

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then there'll be a lot of disaster. And also, there'll be a lot of trial and challenges.

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And I'ma say, we're in a hula half season.

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This Quran

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that I reveal at the Last Testament, there's no more heavenly book after that. I want to protect the authenticity of this book, until the end of time.

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And that's the only book

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being a Buddhist before an a Christian. I became a Muslim on in 1968.

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I do experience the other books.

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You cannot compare with the Quran, an altar unto change even a word.

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From the day it was revealed until today, wherever you go, you go to Mongolia, you go to China, Taiwan, Korea, Japan, you go to Africa, Canada, America, Philippine New Zealand, Austria, Quran, stay intact, and altered and change.

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Allah said, I reviewed this last book

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as a reminder, and I will protect our authenticity. How did Allah protect

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by making easy for the believer to memorize the Quran by heart.

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Millions of mostly young and old men have memorized this by heart. You can take the whole Quran from the word Burnet. You just get 10 People from different parts of the country

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and order them to recite again.

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You see by one man

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or the Quran or come back

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together and nothing change. Same.

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Everywhere you see the Quran. The origin language is Arabic. That's why the Muslim when they pray wherever you go, they use only one language.

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The original language the meaning can be many languages but the Quran stay

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Yeah, in Arabic, anywhere you go you're caught off Amazon a more more Hmong.

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More like where you go to Philippine Allahu Akbar among will get pen among Allah all the same.

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With one word,

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the word that is in Arabic

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that is how it unite all nation and tribes.

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That made me very, very proud. When I start to become a Muslim and learn the Quran

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and in the Quran, the only book that Allah said, Allah Yo Ma Kamal to lacantina Calm today I perfected my religion.

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The Quran is not just like any other book.

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This has been perfected.

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What the Memento alaykum Mati I have completed on what you need.

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From the day you were born, until you die, everything is in the Quran.

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Amazing. is a miracle. Whatever you need, how to eat, how to drink, how to work, how to dress.

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How to become a good person, how to become a good wife, a good husband, a good mother, a good father.

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After you have planned to be to have a family something happened no more engagement no problem life move on

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if you cannot live together anymore you don't have to fight and have a bad ending have a good ending how you start good

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when you see that there's no room for us to find happiness together anymore

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then have a discussion again how you start in the beginning

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and then have a good ending and move forward

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how to the was can you imagine running system even how the Choose your partner is being taught by Islam

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if you are going to choose the ability their look their well their family and their religion look for the religion because that will hold you

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you look for beauty How long can our beauty last?

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You can go back and look into the mirror yourself and you compare all the pictures you have to 15 years ago and today do you look the same?

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You don't look the same

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once upon a time you're so cute cute cute baby people say Cute Cute Cute after that

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only God knows what you want to see it to the children

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this is like

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people change

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everything is that look for right partner?

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Can you imagine brother and sister in Islam when you want to have an ending? There are seven types to end the relationship

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not only idea what's your color by by? No, no, no, they got seven ways

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you want to do business what kind of business you want to find friend What kind of friend everything is in the book.

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The problem is we don't read

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a lot the Muslim have been reading but they don't follow

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whoever follow the old have peace

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no problem that we encounter in life that you cannot solve.

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Because problem is information problem is wisdom.

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You learn to problem if you have no problem that is the biggest problem

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Life is full of problem

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do you have problem what to eat something

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you wake up in the morning what to eat?

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Do you think you have that you eat when to eat you have the thing

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and that is live

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when you are not well what should you do?

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When you have a problem you are sick then only

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you look for medication then you know all this medicine good for this kind of illness. Because we have gone through now you have another knowledge the next time when your friend have the same kind of pain.

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I know I have that before. I got headache before I got stomach ache before. But then I took this with me. I recommend you so if you acknowledge

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everything that God ordained to happen is going to happen

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by he show you the way

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and that's why there's one prayer

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there's many prayers. One prayer is one

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A must an obligation to all Muslim

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can you share with me what is the prayer about

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we do a lot of prayer every morning a moment because now becomes when we travel we make prayer. Whatever we do when we eat we make a prayer. After food we pray, what is the prayer that is watching

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like prayer net is why you cannot

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yeah leave without that

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you know this last 10 days of Ramadan, what is the prayer that the Prophet taught his beloved wife, Aisha

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Allah Allahumma in PAF who into Hebrew Rafa when you look on the left in the whiteboard, you can see

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but it is not YG it is important to ask Allah for forgiveness.

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We got one or more forgive us brother and sister by using the phone.

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Meaning he will erase everything

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in the record,

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even with the angel will not remember

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colors, everything is been erased.

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Angel also cannot recall.

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But there are some scene that you commit.

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If you ask Allah to forgive you, He forgive you but it's still in the record.

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We have come to this prayer, nothing everything is clear.

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But the prayer that I say there is Wajid

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because every Muslim must perform prayer.

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And every time when you start your prayer, there is one chapter that you must recite, without reciting that chapter your Prayer is not valid.

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That is

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Surah through

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the opening chapter.

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And in that chapter,

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after you say to Allah II cannot Buddhu or you can have Stein, O Allah, to you, we worship and to you, we ask for help.

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And what do we ask for us? Dinners Sara, most happy. That is a prayer that is a mass.

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We are asking and mighty God the Creator, the All Knowing the all seeing, or Allah guide us all to the straight path. We want to be writing

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how to be right if you don't follow the right way.

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We want to thing right how to thing right if you don't follow the right

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Right knowledge. Pure knowledge is what God said. What the Prophet have conveyed to you this is pure, uncorrupted

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stay from the time Allah revealed and the prophets say anything is to be recorded and is they until the end of the world you will never change

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your opinion my opinion you're saying is not pure. It's just our feeling.

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Normally we follow a lot of feeling

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but our feeling can be very very corrupted.

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By annual follow the right way, the way that God show you

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God who sees everything knows everything he knows everything about all of us from before you were created

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until the end of the world

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and that's why when Allah says

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eat drink, he know that we have to eat and drink and he provide all this football but he said her Lanlan tayyiba

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to make sure that you benefit from the food make sure you eat and you drink halal and good food you are what you eat

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if you're not careful your food you starve.

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So everything God have created us and He provide for you and he show you this way.

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So when we ask and mighty Allah, Deena Serato Musa team, Oh Allah, guide us all not just guide you. guide you as a husband, as a wife, as a father as a mother and guide your children.

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guide you

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you as the leader and guide the country

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everything if you follow the divine law you will find peace, harmony

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and you will be happy

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and Allah respond when you ask him Oh Allah guide is all that's why our prayer even when you're praying alone brother and sister, you are not supposed to change the word guide me. No, no, no, Dina Dina Earth, Earth Earth.

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That when you Manuel pray you always pray for everybody. You are representing everybody. We are not just presenting yourself, your immediate family, you present everything together.

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You will present fellow mankind young, old male, female.

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You're praying for me then what did God say?

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He said, are under Huzzah. Serramonte Musa, t

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w h o malata W Subala but the Morocco become and sabini Allahu Akbar, how to the Word of God. You should ask me to show you the way I'm showing you the way I reveal all the Quran

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it's been revealed on the lawn the do's and don'ts everything is recorded as Opie radii

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and what the gods said after that since you asked him for guidance is I show you the way my way just follow

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that's why he said to follow we refused to follow until today stubborn

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my way your way so many way cos we am we go away. When come to product you can buy any product no problem.

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As long as it's legal.

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If the illegal one then you're waiting for your trouble and now sooner or later you'll be caught and people is going to ask you When do we get this thing?

00:47:27--> 00:47:41

Allah says you asked me for guidance I revealed my divine guidance to do and adorn my religion. Now I say all you don't follow it just lip service.

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As but you don't you're not committed we should prayer.

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And when you follow there are people who follow Alhamdulillah

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but what happened after you follow? You still have problem.

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Why wait?

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Because Allah says that be all follow my way. Walla wa Cebula Fatah for Rocco become unswervingly after you follow the way of God don't ever mix with other ways

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when you start to mix

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then you will be divided.

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So true. Why are we so divided?

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My way your way?

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God let us sit down together That's why Allah say for internal to ministry in Peru doodle Allah soul in quantum tominaga Billa Yeoman Arkin, if you ready?

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Is a believer, male or female, your character, your behavior, when you have problems sit down,

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that how we normally sit down and discuss sit down and discuss and let us be humble both party male, female, harder mother, everybody June sit down together. That is look into this matter. There's a lot of dispute this agreement among the family now. So how do we solve this problem? You just want to use your veto power, I am the boss here. Listen to my way, then people have no other choice but later on. People are not happy inside.

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They may follow but they are not happy. Now if you want to be happy, everybody sit down. Let all of us be humble. That go back for do who Illa was that as go back to the guidance of God and the way the prophets have shown us

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Win Win, everybody will have peace.

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Not my way, not your way,

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by the way of God will not feel anybody.

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Is that easy? Brennan says, do you think is that easy?

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is so easy for us to follow on the lawn that men have made?

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And this is God's No.

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You go to the court, if the court want to judge, or judge, please judge me, according to the law of God.

00:50:44--> 00:50:58

The judge also have a date now. Maybe they just have his own agenda. Sometimes. They can be corrupted too. But you will see, if you just meet according to jaws of judgment of God, I will accept.

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I will not fight and waste my money. Get the lawyer and then noble. If I'm right, I'm right. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. You show me where I went wrong? Did I do something against God's command? Show me then I say I'm wrong.

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But if you're going that's why the Prophet said there are three judges

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to go to hell.

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One go to paradise.

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Let me if your 300 judges 200 a show to go to hell.

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Only one group will go to Paris but the judge they fear nobody justice for all or no justice for

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and Allah is ready jazz.

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His law

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is for everybody and nobody is above the law of income the human law. The lawmaker always find a way actually the meaning of this is like the is now

00:52:12--> 00:52:23

you lay men don't understand. Only the lawmaker understand. So the twists and turns and then we can hit the cat lawyer you spend another kind of money again?

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Why must we face problem when we have a better way to solve our problem? Sit down. Look what God said. What the Prophet said not uncorrupted, and chain

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fair and square for everybody.

00:52:42--> 00:52:51

Sometime we may not want to accept the truth. But the truth is bitter. And anything bitter is good.

00:52:53--> 00:53:07

Don't keep on drinking all the sweet sweet dream Namjoon no sooner you have diabetes. You're more must also love to dream beater kind of dream. beater car is good.

00:53:09--> 00:53:10

Or bitter, bitter.

00:53:11--> 00:53:15

The only sweets, syrup for medication is Cough,

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cough syrup, sweet other than that it's not sweet.

00:53:24--> 00:53:25

To speak up, the truth is bitter.

00:53:27--> 00:53:28

But there is a best

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we have something display here. But I never touch it.

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We can try to go through Insha Allah,

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about the family of our province.

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To be the best men, you just follow the Prophet you become the best men

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and the prophets Kuroko Moroccan the Hollywood prayer room they had the best of men are the men who are best to the wife. Because she is the closest to you. She is like a diamond to you. She knows your secret. In an hour nobody know a person better than the wife.

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So only a wife would have to confirm that you are a good man or not. You can be good to your friend. You can be very kind to your friend. But the value is from the wife

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any of the men here have received a card from your wife to see.

00:54:42--> 00:54:45

I'm so happy I have the best men in my life.

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Not yet.

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The men on forget

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and the sisters as I forgot to

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say something very constrained.

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The to your husband

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the same goes to the children the any of us receive a card from our children

00:55:12--> 00:55:15

to say that you are the best part.

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The best mother. Yeah. Those who have received an hamdulillah

00:55:24--> 00:55:28

those who never receive work towards it

00:55:29--> 00:55:30

give the best

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and the children who are grateful and thankful you will never regret

00:55:39--> 00:55:44

the best is not something that anything you want the parent will give it to you now

00:55:45--> 00:55:49

the parent who gives you what the parent view that is right

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we are young we do not know what is right and wrong

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on your Allah knows children are so hot temper they show your temper from young

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our time we don't know what his temper

00:56:12--> 00:56:25

we never dare to challenge the parent. From a distance when the parent looks at you. You feel the heat ready our time the parent can discipline from a distance they look at you

00:56:28--> 00:56:35

we know the message we control today. Children can challenge the parent

00:56:37--> 00:56:42

they can show their temper at that time no temper children do know what this temper just this

00:56:45--> 00:56:46

thing have been

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because of technology caught up

00:56:51--> 00:57:00

from a young age to three years old. This can scream at you because you take away their PlayStation

00:57:03--> 00:57:07

you take the smartphone from them call us wall

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the according to eat no I don't want food. I don't anything

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is a challenge. May Allah protect us? I mean, who enforcer come live Canara Allah say save yourself and save your family.

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So do we all have a good family?

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If you don't care about a family who is didn't care we are fan

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if you don't care about yourself Who's going to care about you? Nobody.

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Net as go to Ayesha

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Ayesha Binti Abby Buck

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I insurance marriage Aisha was the daughter of acidic

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the most truthful person the father abou Mata

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was guaranteed by our Prophet that he will go to paradise.

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A very righteous man

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now is Brian was revealed because of Abu Bakar.

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I will but Carlos

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Abdullah bin RB cuchara.

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Osman bin Amina been amping up bins had been tight bin Maura there is the type is there sad the time is like the Chinese also have this kind of tradition. They are always learning if you are ye or the N E coming e family Hui Hui Hui

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so this is the family tree.

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If you look at this family tree,

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Aisha was from one of noble branches of the Quraysh tribe.

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Meeting with the Prophet, the Prophet also have that kind of family tree. That is two more Robins

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among the wives of the province, she is the most knowledgeable because she was young, active, very sharp, in her

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mind, very alert about the environment.

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This way in your time of the Prophet when some people want to know further about

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The Prophet the Aza,

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they always ask Asia

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and if they will ask otherwise, the other ones they go to Asia

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the rest you just can read by ourselves. Yeah, that is from the Father site for the mother.

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They are from the Kwinana tribes.

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Now, brothers and sisters own Arab descendant origin from Yemen,

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not from Saudi Saudi is a barren land.

01:00:45--> 01:00:49

The history of the Arab came from Yemen.

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Aisha, of course was born in Islam.

01:00:58--> 01:01:08

She said I never saw my parents, but practicing the deen. She was about eight years younger than Fatima.

01:01:14--> 01:01:21

Now her marriage contract was performed between the prophet and her father, about three years before Hijra.

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The Prophet first marriage is a teacher before he became a Prophet when he was in the age of 25. Before he became a prophet,

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he became a Prophet when he is 40.

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He was in Makkah, the teen years, they mean when he reached 53, then he migrate.

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So before migration, after become a profit for 50 years, and for 10 years, then he married with Asia.

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That was the same year that he married Souder.

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She migrate with her parents to Medina and the prophets of salaam consumer is married with her immediately after the Battle of budder.

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During the month of shawanna, she was then nine years old at the time.

01:02:31--> 01:02:34

She remained with him for about nine years.

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Allah's Messenger married me performed the contract shortly after the death of Katya.

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Now this is something that normal people cannot understand why they got married to Aisha when she was so young.

01:03:00--> 01:03:08

But in general Brothers is the enemy of the prophet who hate the Prophet, Abu Lahab. Abu Jamal,

01:03:09--> 01:03:21

none of them criticize attack the Prophet because of this, because that is part of the tradition. At the time, there is no issue at all today people make an issue.

01:03:27--> 01:03:35

Sometimes parents are the one who mesh me and the parent is the one who will arrange everything.

01:03:37--> 01:03:41

And who is Abu Bakr, the best friend of the Prophet

01:03:44--> 01:03:48

and the age is not that far.

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If you look back the history, everybody who have a daughter, they just want to make sure that the daughter is being given to a person that they trust that they know that he is a good person, not just to any man.

01:04:11--> 01:04:17

Because at that time, the men don't honor the woman, the woman have no value.

01:04:19--> 01:04:34

That is in the Jehovah the woman is like an object. The man can make use of you and then chop you and throw you and then nobody will come and protect you for that. You are just like the Garmin

01:04:35--> 01:04:39

keep on changing. And women have no right at the time.

01:04:41--> 01:04:52

You have no right. You have no right to ask for anything. You are just an object for the man. Please the men if you die,

01:04:53--> 01:04:56

everybody would be very very happy

01:04:57--> 01:05:00

if your husband died every day

01:05:00--> 01:05:05

And we're cuz you, you are the reason that your husband died.

01:05:07--> 01:05:12

If you are divorced, also they were blamed or nobody blame men men

01:05:13--> 01:05:15

is like God at that time.

01:05:16--> 01:05:27

Everything right is men mens rea has nothing to do with women. Women have no right to inheritance, no right to the honor, they are like a slave to serve the man.

01:05:29--> 01:05:30


01:05:32--> 01:05:35

came and protect the right of the woman.

01:05:38--> 01:05:42

A lot of people are not aware about that situation.

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The rest you can read, for those who have the book.

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Of course.

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Normally the prophets Allah of the getting marry

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the Prophet, someone Muslim, normally will

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bring along a cup of milk. That's why I always recommend and newly met to follow this good practice from the profit.

01:06:22--> 01:06:27

After the job kaboom. They're normally the men who will bring a cup of milk

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and the profit we're doing and paths to the why pass to the white family.

01:06:37--> 01:06:41

Why choose mill mill is pure white,

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to show the family from Asia, I am coming to your family with a pure intention.

01:06:51--> 01:07:05

And then they will also take a sip to show that we accept you in the family with a pure intention, no hidden agenda, everything very sincere.

01:07:06--> 01:07:16

But this practice is not being carried out a lot by a lot of Muslims, because we forgot about this

01:07:17--> 01:07:19

teaching value mill

01:07:21--> 01:07:23

and normally there will be a prayer

01:07:24--> 01:07:30

that the Prophet will put his right hand on the forehead of the wife and make a door

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very short to Mohammed in as a LUCAM inquiry how remarkable

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what Alan's becoming Shari How was Sheree my gerbil today and the wife said mean

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all this prayer very short, but a lot of people

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are not holding anymore. We are so in warfare, our tradition, our culture, we forgot all the good values and the prayer.

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if you look at this,

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you will see that

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Asia is a very

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playful girl she was young

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so I shall use the Prophet saw saw the charges stay in Ayesha's nature during early yo with him and dealt with this, understandably. And she narrated. I used to play with dolls and some of my young female friend used to come to play with me. When Allah's messenger Prophet Muhammad came home, they would hide away and when he left they will come back and he used to send them to play with me. There are so many things that you can learn

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but one last thing that I like to share the rest I think it's not so important now because

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any woman

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one to look into

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how to become a good wife

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look at Khadija

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the number lady.

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Very rich, a billion.

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She's a very rich lady.

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When she got married with a profit, the profit was her sales man

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is just a normal person. He was not a profit yet. Poor

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die, and often.

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But then the noble lady

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when she found out that he is so honest, so trustworthy, it's not easy to get a man that is siddik honest and trustworthy.

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She quickly send

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a representative to ask for his hand.

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there is nothing wrong Islamically or traditionally for a woman to approach the man nothing wrong but today is not normal.

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Men must approach the woman

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because a woman normally is very shy

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but anything good don't wait

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don't think only woman is shy men also very shy today.

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They're more Shaiman than shy woman. Want a very Yeah. Professional today very active.

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Woman are very active in society in the workplace compared to men today so men are very shy today.

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But anytime you know that some good men is around.

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Of course you can look at the character of Katya even she is the number of Asian woman and Prophet Muhammad is a salesman nothing poor guy. But she never never humilate Prophet Muhammad.

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From the day she got married with him until when he became a prophet, she was there to support him all the way

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and that's why

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she was a very special lady.

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The First Lady

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the Prophet then married others after she passed away.

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I know brothers and sisters

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may we try our best

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if you want to be a good

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wife a good person not that bad. We are we are kangaroo we are kangaroo

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and therefore God.

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We are kangaroo

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I think the changes is good. That's how we organized the class. The practice was to sit in fun and as he says it behind you

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two brothers and sisters, we hope Allah subhanho wa Taala will guide us through to have a good life good family, by we trying to follow what is right. Not just follow our feeling. But follow the divine guidance. The Creator of all things and guidance is the best.

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And you will never regret

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by resetting good example. We hope that our future generation look at us as a good example. Then they pick up all the good value and they follow suit and you will see in sha Allah. There'll be a lot of peace or harmony happiness

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here to the hereafter. When we take care of the family in that manner

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and follow the divine guidance, we are not just happy here. We will be happy together either here after.

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That is the beauty of everybody. Follow the divine guidance, win win situation. If there's any question

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from the audience, and also online now we open for q&a and after that we have a revision in sha Allah. The LPD can stay on to witness how

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the revision will take place. Yeah.

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Any question? Online? No. Any question on site now for the mastermind.

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You can help

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Passing the mic.

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Sara Wallach guru Salam Rahmatullah Baraka deserve Aloha, thank you for sharing your knowledge.

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Today Hamdulillah

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I have one question. Actually, my question has two parts. Maybe she can help to clarify.

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In one of the

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IDT buyers of allah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, salam, O Allah said that there have been there are many people who,

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who passed during the month of Ramadan, but they do not get anything except hunger, in quietness and hunger and hunger interest in the other one is there are many people who do keep them at night. But the only gets sleepless night didn't get anything more than that. It also Allah subhanaw taala. The heart is mentioned also that during the month of Ramadan, all the deeds are being rewarded between I think 10 to 700 rewards except for fast, which Allah will reward himself because of the reduction. No, my question is, I think

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3d Traditionally we always accept first as holding outset from eating and drinking until

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the Iftar. But in between we in some way because Allah promised that the reward is from himself that such how important first is to to Allah subhanaw taala how do we have refinement of our first to not fall into that category where fasting, just purely, purely physical lamb hunger, drinks now said Alikum Salam Rahmatullah.

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A very interesting question about

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the profits and loss from didn't mention come in saw in late Salah Holman saw me in the Walters. How many people who fast but nothing, the gain from the fasting except hunger enters

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many we pray but they don't get anything except tiredness.

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Because fasting and prayer is not just the Mothman

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and not just refraining from food and drinking.

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It is more than that.

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Fasting is a train

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we have self control.

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To stay away from saying doing anything displeasing God Almighty.

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If halau thing is not allowed for you to eat and drink, how about haram thing?

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Number two, the prophecy. There are people who fans but they still bet by gossip, slander, cheating, lying that means

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his or her fans have nothing except hunger and

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fasting is a self control a workshop to boost your spirit to be more closer to Allah and always do what God wants you to do. Speak the truth do what is right no gossiping no backbiting No cheating you must stop all the thing that is bad

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so if you don't

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fasting is here to control your temper everybody have temper? Normally I was at Ramadan you can cannot control but fasting man

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I now saw him I'm fasting and not when they show my anger I must control

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all these is a package

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so if a person fast traditionally or lbds Posting I have to find then they don't get anything but when you pass with the right Iman that's why the prophesy mon sama Romana II man and

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the Saba

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with the right Eman intention and follow the SOP then you will be rewarded. The reward is unbelievable.

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Like what the brother was saying. Our Prophet have reminded us that God said the hem

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Kulu Amana Abner Adam laahu Illa so uh, so Monday we're gonna Zb

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every bitch that you engage other than fasting is for you

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And the reward will be 10 Time to 700 Maximum except fasting.

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you abstain from food that is halal drink that is halal, husband and wife that is halal just because of me.

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So you're doing for me purely for me, you've gone through all the difficulty for me, I will reward you with unlimited reward.

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That is what Allah says, unlimited reward.

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To the extent that Allah is saying that

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there will be a gate of paradise,

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with the name of Raytheon only for people who fast to enter

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a special gait and so on.

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So if you are just passing by, your character never change.

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You still bet by slender ly,

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that means your fast

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is just hunger enters.

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So it's very important to have the right intention and follow the SOP. That's how it goes. If not, just by a nurse, you pray at night is just like an exercise, you know.

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But if you do your prayer properly, be full of crucial concentration and follow the SOP of prayer. Then the prayer have value. If not the prayer, just another exercise.

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That's how the meaning of

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people who are fast, but they get nothing except hunger. And this pray they get nothing except tiredness.

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So may Allah give us the right spirit, right intention.

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Because Ramadan is when the end soon.

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If we don't change,

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then we have failed this year.

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And please, one of the important thing anybody who never pay the Zakat fitrah yet, please don't delay.

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Because we are worried if you don't pay before the Eat prayer is Vitra is invalid.

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You commit

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a big mistake.

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That's why the fitrah is

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to help the poor and the needy so that everybody will have some food

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to enjoy in the eighth day, normally, as opposed to back anymore.

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But the environment have changed, there is a time a lot of people will start to back the last minute. Don't do that. People have to prepare

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and continue on to do do it before we have done our first exercise yesterday

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from morning to noon, to help the poor that need these.

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And the last wave is coming on your audio surrenders the that will be the end of our activities for all the money we collected

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from our people

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in sha Allah and your last question, now.

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Is there over there over the militia?

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Yeah, good morning. I hope you don't mind me asking this question. It's something that I've observed. And thank you for talking about Khadija and Ayesha and the role of women in in Islam and when Islam came, that was the time of saying that we are equal.

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I have observed this in mosque and also here like why is it what is the reason of men sitting in front and women sitting at the back?

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It's very interesting when the we said women are equal, yes, women are equal when the right is concerned, but the responsibility is a bit different.

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It's the saying of our profit if our profit never say that we will never do it. The Prophet said hydrosulfite over the ritual of Aloha was shout over Archaea Hua, the best staff when the prayer is concerned for the men is in front

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and that was

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Have is behind, and the best stuff a woman is behind and not in front. Now this is to train the men take lead.

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A good man is a man who lead the family. You don't want to have husbands stay home, and a woman go and

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let the men work, you will go out, let me stay at home. I am your backbone. I'm always behind this what you call the backbone.

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The back by is very, very important. Without this backbone, the men collapse.

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That's why in every successful men, you see there's a little lady human behind.

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They don't have to surface but they play a very important role. And that's why the society is well balanced. When the men take lead. Take responsibility. Go out, face the world, woman. Just stay with the family. No, but they can go out together there's nothing wrong the Prophet even Allah said one more minute and well, not bad to come out. The Oba male and female believer complement one another, but the role

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that Islam want the men to be in front, anything you go and faceless,

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through the prayer a train the men take lead.

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It's not to doubt to downgrade the situation of the woman. No.

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But it's always better.

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That we want our men to be a real man.

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A man is a good man will always protect the family and the wife.

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The worst to happen today. You marry a man the men really

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play games smartphone know, the woman would

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never there's a lot of my friend came from overseas when he saw too many women in Malaysia are so active and doing work or doing all this styling and so on. Face the men do as well

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as the men is around.

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Because the men have failed to be real men.

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So if you look at all this structure,

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it started from what the Prophet said, the men must lead. So we come to prayer men in front

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woman, always behind but we've

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the role to pick up anytime.

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And that's why when the men call, the woman's going to come up.

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But now the men sleep

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they just relax.

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Men's World, relax, women's world work hard.

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So that is how Islam look at the system.

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We love our men to go out hardworking, that then pays all the problem outside. We just focus

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in the family look at the institution or the family. When they need us, we are always ready. But don't underestimate the power of the woman.

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The power is unbelievable. They can work

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better, they are more committed than men when they do things. They are more precise. They are more detailed than men, men is men.

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Men only like to be Superman, spider man all these men

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may Allah protect all of us but then says there is my answer to your question says I know there are some question but we will

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take we are going to proceed with an activities the revision today. So we hope everybody will stay on and inshallah May Allah

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make us have a good ending of Ramadan this year.

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We will enforce and restart prepare for the revisions of Chanukah. locomobi humbucker.

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A shadow Allah illa Anta

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step at federal car or to buoy lake

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the meaning of the prayer and the significance whoever recite the spray the end of the class