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Bismillah

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amino salatu salam and NFV and

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he also have your domains of how Nikola Illumina Illumina and antenna and that can

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lead them to

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the journey of quality the respected brothers and sisters, we continue the pursuit of the Surah Surah

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chapter 66 Last time we started we gave an overview of the whole shoe and then we started to speak about the first if you hadn't the beauty metal

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debit of Mr Robot as well as the cola food over him we gave the explanation of the in details however, we did not mention the story. Okay, the story what is that that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam made haram upon himself? What is it

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just before getting into the story, my dear brothers and sisters, sometimes the Quran talks about certain incidents, he does not put attention to the incident itself that

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is putting attention to to the lessons taken from the incident

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Yeah. And hence putting so much attention to know what was the incident in details is not really that important.

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Okay. However, if it if

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there is an authentic Heidi

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that explained the incident to and then we take it, if there is no authentic audit, then we should not be much worried about the details of the incident we should focus on the lessons taken from the incident. For example.

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You know, Allah Allahu Allah

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mentioned

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the story of

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the story of doubt.

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A when Elijah and I mentioned that Houseman, yeah, bah bah, bah, bah, bah, bah. Yeah, when there are two parties, and they disputed over one another. And then our gelada admonished Deadwood for giving a verdict before listening, giving a verdict in favor of one party before listening to the other party.

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The lesson

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the lesson of that, when Elijah Allah Allah mentioned that the wood

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here

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didn't wind up one day he prostrated before Allah, Allah, Allah and repented. The lesson Allah Allah Allah wants to tell us is irrespective of the details, it is wrong for the judge to give a verdict by listening to one party without listening to what to both parties. And moreover if this happened, then as they would have a surgeon and he depended to alert the learner you need to repent to Allah.

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Now, what was it? Yeah, was it the story that was mentioned in Athena who discernment is una nada? Well, he and I did it for Nia was anything about Allah la cabeza de nada de

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La La Brea Babu mad about and the details of this.

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There are more details other than this. As I said, more details are not needed. But we stick to what Allah Allah Allah mentioned in what in the ER and that there are two parties. One of them claimed that his the Counter Party wanted his wealth in order to complete the 100 sheeps to be in his ownership. Okay, more details were not given. It is not that crucial to the story. It is not that crucial to what those details are not crucial to the lessons taken from the story.

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Yeah,

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a lot galala mentioned so many stories in the Quran.

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dakka dakka. He loved

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it.

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The story of the cow mentioned in sort of the bacala some details. Some details were mentioned in the story we take them more details if they are mentioned in an authentic hadith we accept them if they are not met.

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And then that's it. Okay. Now here there

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is an authentic hadith that explains a little bit about the incident However, having said that, having said that there is an authentic hadith that except or that gives not just explained, that explains that gives more details. However the meaning of the ayah is understood without that Hadith. Yeah, and the benefits can be taken without the Hadith. Yeah, but the Hadith it is authentic, we accept it. And we Yeah, I mean, the Hadith sheds more light to what happened. Okay. By what happened?

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What is the story? Allah Allah said to the prophet SAW Selim, you should not make what Allah Allah Allah made halal for you, you should not make it have a limit to have remember, Allah Allah, because you do this seeking the pleasure of your wives.

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Why do you do this? It is as we said, is Yani like admonition for the soft version of admonition, Allah Delilah is added using the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Then Allah Allah, Allah said to him, however, you have done this, but Allah Allah, Allah is what of forgiving Allah, Allah is all for most merciful. What is that that the seller made for himself?

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There are a number of stories that have been narrated in the books of deficit, but the most authentic history is what was mentioned in Sahih. Muslim Yeah, I should have

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said the following. And it is an interesting story. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to pray ourselves and his the houses of his wives. were next to him at the masjid. So after praying outside the process, and amused to visit all the houses, have the message of his wives, and I shall not be allowed to and has said that the process that led us to get closer to each of his wives. So one time, the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam stayed with one of the wives we will mention who are letters mentioned that he was a Muslim, that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam

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stayed with Xena been to gush about the loudhailer and a little bit more.

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Yeah.

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Okay, a little bit more. And then

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shut up the dial and I was waiting and she said, Oh, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam stayed with Xena more. Why?

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Okay, so she became jealous of the Lakota. So, she said, let us plot so the prophet SAW Selim does not do this again. Yeah, so I showed a lot. She was a very wise lady, very intelligent lady, and about the amount of data and how she used to have leadership qualities. And as the most beloved wife to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, she wanted the processor for her alone. Yeah, but of course, you cannot prevent him or stop him from giving rides to other wives. She cannot do this. But also she doesn't want anyone else. Any of the wives of any of the other ones have the prophesized to take something more from the prophet SAW Selim and she doesn't take it shall be allowed. Tada. So when

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she noticed this, then she said, let us plot. Yeah, so she went to have Ramadan

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is the daughter of who?

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So she said, Have you noticed that the Prophet sallallahu sallam, spend more time with Xena

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then have said, Okay, so what she said, Listen,

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when the prophets of Allah is Allah next time comes near to you. You should say to him, I smell

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Rafi. Mahathir is kind of herb that has a bad smell. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam by nature sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he doesn't like any bad smell to be detected from him at all. Even food. Yeah, a smell of food, let alone

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any other kind of smell. And it's about the data and who said what measurement to the hand.

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appear bad Mary Hello sue the law is a law.

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I have never detected any frog grass better than the smell or the fragments of the profits of the law to use.

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So, she

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knew that the prophesies and we didn't like this. So the next day

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the Prophet sallallahu Sallam have eaten spend some time with Xena. So he came next to help she said they have a cinema What is this smell? The purpose I send them now he doesn't like the this to happen. So he said what she said maybe I had enough I feel the smell of mafia this

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then he said no. I have eaten some honey I had some honey. Yes. And the house of Xena

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then I shall told them yeah to help sir. If they say to you, if he says to you this then you tell the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that Joseph Lu

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Jani the bees of this honey have eaten from

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from kind of flowers that this flowers yeah create bad this metal even create bad this metal in the honey.

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Yeah, Java Sedna, who know who the beats

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so the bees have eaten from this, which is Jani lll herb that has another bad smell. So when the professor sent him said I just had some honey. Okay, Xena was gifted this honey. So, I had some honey then they said okay, maybe give us

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that this having had the bad smell because the honey the bees have eaten from the these flowers. So, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam when he heard this from help saw

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Yeah, and then I shadowed a lot and he said the same thing. He said I will never eat honey after that.

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Yeah

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I will never eat honey after that means as if he made it what held on upon him.

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That is the story mentioned in Sahih Muslim It seems that it is the the best explanation given for this.

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Yeah, there is another rewire that many books of Hadith mentioned it which is similar to this, but the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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there were more wives involved in this conspiracy.

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I should have

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said in one video that I used to be along with soda and Sophia as one party

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and the other ones of the process lm used to be another party so one time have saw now the story is what that the process and I'm had some honey with who with help Sabine to aroma Yeah, and the same story. But I showed you a lot this time at this video I according to this narration she wants to sell the mean to them out of the law and said soda you know this and that and this and if the process and outcomes need to you tell him what is this a smell? If he says Well, I have I had some some honey then say to him give us maybe the bees have eaten from this bad flower? Yeah. And she went to Zainab she went to so the Sophia Sophia been to create Yeah.

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And said to her the same thing and the same story goes on. Yeah. So the prophets of Allah to send them with this narration or the other Malaysian as we said the first narration is more authentic, it is in Sahih Muslim and there is also Jani some points that make us choose the first nation we will mention them in the in the in the surah. So

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So when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said, Well,

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yeah, and I will never do it again. I will never have some honey again. Then Allah Allah Allah said, Yeah, you have to be Ulema to help you mama Holla Holla just because of your wife's doctor Mr. bata as well.

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Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,

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okay. There is a part of the mentioned two other reasons for the revelation of this. They are to be honest with you, we we should not be any.

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Anyway there are Week One is that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had

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intimacy with help sort of the log data. So he had intimacy with his slave maid.

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Marian bleah in the house of helps us and helps her came to know this she became angry. And then the prophesize lm said, I will never do that or she is held on upon me. Yeah, man is gonna say that this is weekly wire. And also, the other reason that was mentioned is that there was a lady who offered herself to the prophets, Allah, Allah, the prophet SAW Selim didn't want to get married to her just because of his wives or one of his wife. So Allah, Allah, Allah said, you should not have done this. Okay, but again, this is a week at wire, babe. So a weekend edition, I mean, so we should not really put much attention to both of them. So as I said, Okay, the most authentic rewire is the story of

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Ayesha and helps. Why do we go for this rewire? Because Allah, Allah, Allah spoke to them in tattoo law, if a solid blue coma, yeah, if you repent both, which means that there are two women, two of the wives of the Prophet SAW Selim were involved in this so called conspiracy. Also the added that we will mention if we have time, the long added added an ambassador, the lowdown on who, when he said I stayed for two years wanted to ask

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that I know about those two women that Allah de la vida mentioned in this.

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And then one time, when we were traveling together in

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about one to two, unit a unit to relieve himself, when he came back, I put some water, then

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I found it a chance to ask him then I said, Yeah, I mean, who are those two women whom Allah, Allah refer to in Surah to him, and then on top of the Lord Iran who narrated a long story, very wonderful story, we will come to it in sha Allah, one time in that study, he said

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that they were helps up and probably a lot of data.

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Okay. So

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Allah, Allah, Allah said to the prophets, I send them Why did you do this? Why did you make what Allah Allah made? For you? You made it happen for you Nima to every moment has allowed that because you are seeking the pleasure of your lives. And then Allah Allah Allah said Hua Hua Rahim.

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Allah gelada is of forgiving and Allah is more merciful. Then Allah gelada said for the father of Allah hula Kuta he letter Imani come now Lima to Henry Mona. Hello la hulak. Okay, what is the solution? You made? What is Havana? Hello? Yeah. What is the solution? It is mentioned in the second ayah Allah Allah Allah has already ordained for you or men, the absolution from your own and the last year Nevada is your mouth Allah, Allah Allah Allah is your Lord is your master is your protector, and he is all nor all wise, he is all acquainted and he is all wise. Now, the meaning is clear that Allah Allah Allah has ordained the way for you. Yeah to

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to absolute that they mean that you have taken you to come out of it. Yeah, the inlet the manickam means to come out of it.

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Okay.

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Now, this

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the scholars said

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AC DC this ayah addressing the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Or is it addressing the believers? Because here it is not clear that it is addressing the prophets Allah Allah, Allah, Allah who lack whom? A letter a man a comb, does it that is the props I sell them, or it doesn't. Two views.

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One view says that yes

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It is added using the prompts are similar and the other view that no it is added is in the believers but Allah Allah Allah is taking that opportunity or allegan ohana is mentioning it taking the opportunity Allah Allah is mentioned in gate okay after after the ayah that talks about what that talks about him, yeah. So, this illusion if this happens with any one of you is known is as follows. Yeah, which is what that there is a solution certainly that there is a solution for this, but follow the letter A manickam.

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So, as we said, there are two views.

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Now, those who said that,

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those who said that, no, this ayah is addressing the believers but did not addressing the prophecies and them they said because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has what all his sins and mistakes and yeah, have been forgiven

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by Yeah.

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Liang Farah Allahu Mata padam amin, Ambika Wanaka, where you can manage all your Leon Farah in order for Allah Allah Allah to forgive all your sins. Yeah, the previous sins and they coming since the scholar said Leah Farah here means

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that all the sins of the prophet SAW Selim, what

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have been forgiven this man. here when when the scholars mentioned this, they said that it doesn't mean that the prophets Allah is Allah, what has committed sins, and it is absurd to discuss what kind of sins The prophet SAW Selim have committed in order for Elijah Nevada, to to mention this, they said that maybe there are some minor sins maybe, maybe, yeah, this is not confirmed. But this is a sign of more purification, a larger Nevada grants to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that Allah Allah granted him that you have no sins you are so pure, that Allah Allah has forgiven anything that has happened from you, and may happen and there is nothing that will happen doesn't

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mean that there is something that might happen. So, they said because of like Allah has forgiven the sins of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, then there is no need for the prophets of Salaam to come out of his

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his oath. Okay, some other scholars said no, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam did

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make a photo, he did make a photo and he freed one slave person as a photo for this. Now, once we mentioned this, this color said but was this a mean an oath or not? Because here there was no oath there was no mention of any Oh, what was mentioned here, why did you make what is halal haram Lima to harima has allowed it was not mentioned that he has taken any

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agree.

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It was not mentioned that he has taken any Oh, yes. This leads to another discussion between the scholars will not get into it. But they said that if a person says it is haram for me, yeah, it is haram for me to drink, for example, up in juice.

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Or it is haram for me to eat the chicken

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or I will never eat the chicken not voila, he will never eat lap. He used the

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pipe. All he said

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to his wife You are haram on me.

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Yeah. So they said the word para to make her arm on you what is valid for you?

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What is the ruling for this two views again? One view says that it doesn't mean that it is held. Yeah. Because allegan Nevada said what? In the Villa de de la liga, Mia. Yeah, so he made it hard for you. It cannot be made for you. Yeah, and another view says that no

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In fact, when a person makes it, how long is he saying that what law he This is how long it takes the ruling for the ruling of what? oath, an oath.

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So if it takes the ruling of an oath, then it needs What? expiation or Kapha. If it doesn't take the ruling of an oath, it does not take the ruling. It does not need a cup Faraj this is what this color samskaras many views. I think I've probably mentioned a team view the team views Yeah, they said we differentiate between a person saying how long for his wife? Yes, and how long for other things, then we need to discuss. Yes, the other views. So they're differentiated between

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the statement when it is added is regarding the wife and the statement when it is that is regarding anything that is the statement regarding the wife.

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They said yes, we have to why are we mentioning it in particular because there is something called VR?

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And will this

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takes the ruling of the heart or not? Yeah, this is the discussion between them.

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Okay, so we don't want to get into those details. But you should know that when a person makes how long something how long for him, then we should ask did you make your wife hold on for you or not? This is one thing. The other thing is what is that that you made?

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for yourself? And then if you made something which is more back, which is helpful for you as alum, then to be on the safe side? Okay, make a photo of me. Yes, baby mama. Mashallah Sakina and also tomato tomahto como que todo o

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raba. Thermal limited for cmo Saraswathi a dedicated Monaco

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Babu, amen. This is the godfather of the amine.

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Okay.

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Allah Allah Allah said here for Allah Allah.

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Allah, Allah Allah has already ordained for Bob

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which means that if there is an oath, you have to make the cup fara because it is forever it is not.

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It is not optional. And then Allah Allah Allah said, well long who moolah come look at this for the Ferber La la la la la

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la la Whoa, h moda. What does it mean? Why it is mentioned here? That Allah Allah Allah is your protector, Allah Allah, Allah is your Lord, Allah, Allah, Allah cares for you. Allah Allah, Allah doesn't want you to commit Haram. That's why if you commit Allah, Allah will find a solution for you. And if you made something hard on upon yourself, Allah Allah Allah because of protection that he granted because of the protection He granted you. Allah Lala doesn't want to make it completely wrong for you. So Allah has given you a solution, because he is what he is your Lord He is your Savior. He is your protector is a declare war la Mola wa who will allemaal Hakeem, yes, he is all

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Noah all acquainted all Noah Lim and Hakeem the wise, yes, all wise, and him he knows what is better for you and what is not better? Hakeem, he has the wisdom to decide. The lavalla is not for you. So leave it to him. Yes jell O Allah, Allah.

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Then, Allah Allah Allah says

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See?

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Look at the NIDA, the Quran

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methodology in narrating the story and

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yeah, he's Yeah, you wanna be with him? I

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told him about

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him but for the local

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como la Mola Mola, demon Hakeem

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in Arabic, it means

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Haha, there is a move here.

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Yeah, there is a move and why there is a move wherever whenever you either about the x, y z

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The story is the same is connected the story is connected, but it gives kind of attention now, pay attention to something in you yeah well if

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it gives that that impression that there is something new coming and

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and listen to it, pay attention to it, whether it be you elaborate the as what he does or what is here man is gonna say what could it be any remember a yes yeah remember is if and or narrate, narrate what will come Yeah. narrate the following a story what is that? Okay. Let us read the first one does everyone

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remember when the Prophet disclosed solimar xlm disclosed a matter in confidence to one of his wives?

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Yes, he disclosed a secret to one of his wives.

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And then

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she disclosed that secret she told another wife that secret that was told her

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yeah

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phenomena bad behavior.

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Allah told him that so until this clause secret your secrets, the nama

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V

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of Holla Holla Holla. He,

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he want to her

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and he

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made it known to her that she has disclosed part of the secret.

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Yeah,

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he she, he told her made it known to her that she has disclosed this

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he did not tell her that you have disclosed all the secrets that I have told you. That part of it. Yes.

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About he kept he kept quiet regarding the other part of the secret that he has already disclosed.

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Why did he do this? Yeah, we will come to that.

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When he told her for a man about a hobby he? Yes.

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She said Who told you this?

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We will come to it that the two wives that to one of the wives was told this secret?

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Yeah. This wife has told another wife that listen, the prophet SAW Selim told me this and that two things.

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Allah Allah Allah told him that your wife have this has disclosed the secret. So he went to her and told her that you have disclosed this secret.

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She said Who told you she thought that the other wife? Yeah. whom she told her the secret is what has mentioned it to the rest of them. He didn't say this. Yeah. He said

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the Banila the Mojave?

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Yeah. Subhana Allah. Allah told me,

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okay, all in about an eel and even hobby by what is this story? This

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as we said before, this confirms that the story took place

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between Anisha and helps us.

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So, the story goes like this, that either

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so sorry, I made the mistake. Either this is a continuation to the previous story or it is a new story.

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Okay. If it is a new story, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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said to help solve the law secret or a secret of two elements, that her father and the father of Asia will be the hollyford after him.

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Yeah,

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abou key, boo ha, they will become the hollyford or they will Jani them sorry he did not use the word califa sR kulula homall amuru

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That

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means that they will be in charge of the affairs of the believers have sort of the allowed data and went to Asia and said, Have you heard for what the prophet SAW Salem told me? She said what? He said that my Father and your Father they will be what in charge of the Muslim offense? Yeah, Allah Allah, Allah told the process that hafsa your wife told this secret to Asia?

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Are we following this? So the prophets Allah, Allah is the loved one to help, sir. And he said to her, yeah, have

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you told her about a boubakeur? He didn't tell her about Irma? Yes, he didn't tell her that you have disclosed the whole secret. This is one interpretation, the other interpretation that he told her about their fathers and about Marissa out of the something about Marian, his slave. Yeah. So, half saw this close both points to Asia.

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And then, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was told by Allah, Allah, Allah that hafsa have disclosed your secrets, all of them, he wants to have some and he told her helps, did you say did you say this? Did you disclose this? One of them either that her parents will be in charge or the issue regarding Marissa. Yeah, this is

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as we said, this is if it is a separate incident, some scholars said it was not very clear from what they have said with this incident was a continuation of what

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of the previous incident that we have mentioned. Anyway, the matter is clear, whether it is a continuation, or it is a separate incident. Okay, now

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the story is clear. Is it clear? Yeah. Now, as we said before, the key thing is what we take from the story rather than

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the details, was it half saw that who said it is or someone else from the wives of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and what were the secrets? Was it Abubakar Omar and the issue regarding Marissa or another wife? What was it? That is not that doesn't affect the stuff that does not affect the benefits and the lessons that will be taken from what from this story? The main benefit here or there are some lessons to be taken. One of them is if

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a secret has been given to anyone he should not what disclose it?

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By Yeah, in fact, many scholars considered disclosing the secret as piano of America.

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Yeah, being treacherous to the one who what, who have given you what this secret?

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And they said In fact, some of them said that in fact, it is what was done treachery. Why because it might lead to

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bloodshed, killing and other things.

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Yes, so the person has to be what has to be careful and not disclose by any secret that's why the authentic hadith says is there in What about you, how do you communicate man, if you want to do a very important matters, yeah. And you are afraid that if it is disclosed, then what you should you should be any seek

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what you call help to accomplish this matter by what? By making it confidential? Yes, and no one else if it is confidential, it should not be disclosed by any one Yeah. You know, the story of an SUV nomadic probably a lot of time.

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And as Malik wrote a lot and I know he was a young boy, and he said the Proxima do Salah. Yeah, he said hadham Torah sudo y sobre la Yes. And I'm actually listening. I serve the prophet SAW Salem, 10 years. He never told me off. He never told me for something that I have done. Why did you do it? He never told me about something that

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did not do, why didn't you do it?

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Yeah,

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definitely he made so many mistakes.

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But the profits on the line to send them the best of mankind the best of humanity. He never told him.

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And he said one time, the prophets I send them send me. Yes. With something a secret, then I want to do that. And then I became late. Yes. My mother was waiting for me and I was late. When I came late home. She said to me, Why are you late? She said, he said, I was doing something for the processor. She said, What is it?

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He said, Sir,

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it is the secret of the profits of audio.

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Yeah. The mother didn't tell him. Yes. Come on. I have your mother.

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Come on. Yeah. She said yes. Don't tell don't disclose the secret of the prophets, I send them to what to anyone.

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Look at this, this is part of the tabea that the whole society is what is

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is giving to the members of the society by they, when the whole society is cooperating in giving this debate, then we will see this kind of Yani leaders.

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Yeah, so anyway, there are many stories regarding the I, Danny, I remember she

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told us the story. That

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one of the kings, one of the kings,

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one of the kings he bought, what is the austra? This Nana was the

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ostrich ostrich. Yeah. And that was a strange, then one of one of his.

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One of the people who work in in the in the palace. Yeah. He told his son about it. And his son killed it.

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Yeah, killed it.

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No one knew about it. No one knew who killed it. So the the king said, If I catch this person who killed this ostrich, I will kill him. So everyone was afraid and everyone was looking for that. The only one who knew that this boy is the one who did it was who was his mother.

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By now sisters will become angry. By nature. Women can't keep this by can't keep secrets. So she was me. She wants to tell someone. Yeah.

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And then she went to her friend. And she told her, you know, who killed the ostriches of the king? He said, Who? He said, See?

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Yeah, you need to promise me that. You don't tell anyone?

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She said, Yeah, of course. Of course. I promise your promise. She said my son.

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Yeah. And then that lady, of course, he cannot keep it now.

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She has to say something. So she went to another lady. You know who killed

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Who?

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She's said? Yeah, I'll tell you. But promise. Don't tell anyone. Yeah, of course. Promise. Okay. The second day, everyone in the city knows

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who killed those three. So they caught him and they killed him.

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The King caught this boy and killed him. Yeah. How? Just by disclosing what a secret. And Subhana Allah, you know, holding secrets. I don't want to say it is a happy skill. We need to get used to it. Yeah, if it is a secret house. And if you know that this person knows something. Don't push him to what to tell you. In fact, my dear brothers and sisters, especially those who are involved in any kind of social work or any kind of data, in many cases, it is better for you not to know.

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Yeah, it is better for you not to know rather than to know. Yes, this will help you a lot. Yeah, we don't have time to say why but it will help a lot.

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The prophet SAW Selim said

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You should not disclose the secrets of each other in front of me. Because I have an afro de la comme Sofia, I would like to see all of you with what with a pure heart, but if I know the this about this person and this about that person and this about this person and this about the person.

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Yeah, and the human being will be affected, he will not be with everyone.

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With a pure heart, he will lead with everyone based on a perceived idea he has developed because of what because of what he knew about him, which might be true and which might be what?

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Wrong. Yeah, or false. Clear. So don't push anyone to disclose the secrets. In fact, it's better for you not to know. Okay.

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Anyway, so that was this.

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This is a very important lesson. Another important lesson. Yeah. phenomena, but V.

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La Who? Lee.

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He went out of law Who?

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What does that mean? He went to have some, and he told her. Oh, have you mentioned this? Only? Okay. You mentioned this on the show. He didn't say to her, you mentioned this, To what? To Arusha.

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He didn't. Because this will create what

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fitna

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so

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yeah, and that's why when she said Who told you he didn't tell her what

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I should didn't tell him. I should didn't tell him, but he knew that he is the one who received this what the secret

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he avoided this and it was not even any he avoided this because of creating fitna and he was not told by shying away he was told by who? By Allah. Allah Allah. Allah, Allah Mojave. Even if he was told by Ayesha, Allah, he wouldn't say that told me about, okay.

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The key thing that no many scholars mentioned about this ayah is

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he mentioned some of it, and he avoid or ignore the other part. Why?

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Why he didn't tell her that you have said this. And that and this and that. Why? They said, and this is I mentioned it maybe before, this is panela an element of the beauty of Islam and how Islam

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runs societies, by which I mentioned as social engineering by

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they said that it is part of the wisdom to

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not to chase the mistakes of others.

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Yeah, don't chase the mistakes of others. Don't even try to know everything that others are trying to hide from you. Or don't even try to know what people are avoiding telling you. So if they are avoiding telling you don't to try to what to show them that you know everything. In fact, it is part of their wisdom to pretend that you are unaware

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It is part of their wisdom to what to pretend that you don't know. lace up say you didn't feel for me what I can say you don't owe me

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Bobby Yeah. The the Joby is not the only stupid person. Maybe you can say the stupid person will never be the master of his people. But the person who pretends that he is stupid. Yeah, he pretends that he is stupid, that he doesn't understand everything and in reality, he knows everything. He will be the master of his people.

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Yeah, Mr. Matt was asked about that.

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What is it about pretending that you don't know? pretending that you don't know? Maybe you can say ignoring but I prefer pretending that you don't know. They said at all for pretending that you don't know or you are unaware is nine

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Out of 10 of the flock.

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The good character having good character is 10 elements, nine out of them is what

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is to pretend that you don't know. Mmm and responded by saying no, no flop. All of our flop is pretending that you don't know. Not just nine out of 10 but 10 out of 10 which means all the flowers are based on what? Based on pretending that you are unaware that you don't know by

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here this awful it can be as I told you pretending that you don't know or ignoring the mistakes both the awful can comprehend both meanings pretending that you don't know or what ignoring what some of the mistakes

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and Subhanallah if you look at your life, you cannot live without often.

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Yeah, that's why it has an advisory used to say my stocks are Karima a noble person will never be chase your mistakes. The noble person yes will never chase your mistakes.

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In fact, the normal person will ignore your mistakes even infarct, the normal person will pretend that he is an hour of your mistakes.

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Is it clear?

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And this is an important character My dear brothers and sisters we need to implement in our life. Whether we as Muslim community, we as any couples, yeah, married couples, friends, brothers, whatever. Imagine. Imagine if you went with your wife, we mentioned it. We don't need to repeat it but just yeah, any.

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Any just reminders. Okay. Just a reminder. For example,

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let me say to the sisters, your husband came from work. Maybe he was sweating his. Yeah, but this man was coming.

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Just accept it. Yeah, pretend that

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smell is the bestest smell in the whole world. Okay. Don't say. Come on. Just make sure you have. Yeah, show up before you call.

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Why? Because he was the lead. Okay, no problem. I'll marry another wife. I will take shower and head house and that will come.

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Yeah, for example, even Mathurin the husband, one time he came home, the food was not ready. Maybe the children were not clean. The house was not tidy. Just ignore it. Yeah, if you want to catch every single mistake, and you want to pinpoint every single mistake, like we'll never continue.

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We mentioned this, I think in detail between husband and wife between even friends. Even friends. We mentioned the story of how similar some Yeah, you remember the story of how similar some hadn't the deaf why he was called deaf.

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There was the lady came to ask him a question. And that lady when she was there, and he something that smell came from her she broke the window something like this. So had some in order to show her that he did not hear anything. He said to her. Can you please speak loudly? Because I have a problem. I can't hear properly.

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Yeah, look at this word.

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Nobody noble status. Those people used to have. They mentioned that.

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Alcohol is

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one of the great leaders who fell Islam. great leaders who fell Islam. He opened most of the show malefic north of Africa. They said one of his when he was a leader.

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commander of the army, the army commander, one of his soldiers came to speak to him about something.

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And the tip of the sword was is catching the foot of Elmo halab Yeah, and he started to bleed. He controls

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himself and he didn't say anything to his soldier and he continued the conversation then the soldier left then they came to all mohalla his friends they said are you Amir? Yanni you've been a scratch and now one didn't bleeding. Why didn't you tell him? He said carry to an era Who?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, and I didn't want to tell him off otherwise he won't be able to what? To tell me what he wants from me.

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Can we see this noble status those people used to have? Uh huh. And please my dear brothers and sisters we need to implement this

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in our life Your son you know that he's doing certain things

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don't chase him every time you do this, you do this you do that you do this? No. Sometimes you might need to mention some of it in order to show to him that okay, this is wrong in order to advise him and sometimes

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pretend that you are unaware of it. new neighbor Yeah, your neighbor one time

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one time there were Mathurin shouting between him and his wife.

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Okay, and maybe some rude words something like this in the morning. You don't say to him what happened with your wife yesterday

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okay. Even Yanni you can pretend at all that you were unaware of it at all and so on my dear brothers and sisters, if you are methylone the manager in a company and one of your employees came late one time or he did something maybe it is wrong, indecent etc. don't disclose it to him okay. And as they say in Arabic either content equal Ativan

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lambda v to attivo. If you are admonishing in every single matter all your friends you will never find any friend to admonish. Why? Because there will be no frame for you. They will leave you

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is it declare? So this is an important the only character that we need to to observe. Okay, we can inshallah continue that zero this

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later inshallah because we don't want to take more than an hour This is an hour inshallah does Aquila roboticle have any question

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we have questions

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yes. Secret Tony one someone else they think you know, and they also told me the secret are allowed to lie and say otherwise.

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Yeah, it depends. Sometimes you can lie sometimes you can say Why are you asking me Sorry? I should not tell you and sometimes if it is it really something I don't know.

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Yeah, I

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guess stuffs

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gone online question as sisters have

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locked it with

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honey, is that classed as lame?

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When I showed you

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with upsell the low end, but the honey is this is that last line allow them allow them buy but I always say that.

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My dear brothers and sisters we have to be careful when we talk about the companions and in particular the wives of the Prophet sighs

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Yeah, with a certain things how she did this that this is what happened. Yeah. Ayesha is and Jenna we should be worried about ourselves.

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Seriously, by Yeah, even we say classified as lying. Then how did she lie?

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Yeah, okay, lied or she did not lie. She is the best of women. She is in general. But no doubt about it. So why do we need to be bothered with that? This is lying This is not lying. This is indecent. This is not indecent.

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Yeah, this is how we should approach it.

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That's why

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me what is the other conspiracy may be what?

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grant

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plotted to harm.

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Yeah, she did this. She became dead.

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But what how what did you see plant

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plant plant does not Yanni what I read in the translations is what plotting.

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Anyway if plotting is not the yen in English sometimes like this what we said? Yeah Allah admonished, rebuked all of them are a bit harsh. Yeah. So plotted maybe. Yeah. does not give the right I mean, yes.

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Brother

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aliko my question. year ago I was eating sugary treats uncontrollably so I made it out no longer to sugary treats. Recently my friend told me I'm making halaal interferon. I'm not convinced it convinced it applied to stop by scenarios. I'm not saying people it's basically asking if we can eat sugar.

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So he sends the one year he has not eaten sugary

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cocoa sugar.

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Sugar the three

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a sweet Yeah, since one year.

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Apart from the shadow a ruling continue because it's better for your health.

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Apart from the shadow

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law you should not make sweet Gianni the prophesize and I'm used to like his sweet,

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sweet drinks by you should not make it Hello. And as we said in the earlier by, it's better to make a father expiation. Yeah, that is

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that puts you on the safe side, Shawn? Like Yes. Yeah.

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What's the Hickman behind him not mentioned by name?

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Yeah, this was any one point I forgot to mention.

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Maybe we can mention it next time. That the as we said the key thing is the story. So the that the the lessons are from the story, not the story, the detailed who is who etc, etc. That doesn't really matter much. Yeah. So that is the main thing.

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Yeah.

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By no let us yeah, the brother that Yes.

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I'm not going to eat this. Because

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Yeah, if a person says that I'm not going to eat this, okay, because of health reasons. By

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law doesn't mean that he's making it

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by doesn't mean but when again, even from health perspective, any one time if you eat once, it will not.

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Yeah, it will not make it to not make it health hazard. So, yeah.

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No, yes. So

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the profit generally, and

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can we say that?

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They can make mistakes, they can do what we would call since or are they monster if you do something that incorrectly cannot be held accountable?

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Is that possible? Okay, there is a question.

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I was asked this question a number of times that.

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Where is the brother who asked me this question? Yes. Last time.

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Yeah. In fact, this question was anyways, keep repeating. I don't know why. But there was a brother. No, he's not here yet. He asked me this question twice. And I received it number of times, the hour the prophets, do they make minor sins or major sins? By Sorry? Do they make minor sins or they don't make any minor sin? Yeah. And what is the position of the prophets Allah? Allah because I said, the prophet SAW Selim is in general.

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And the discussion that took place between these colors with the the profits make minor sins or no, is a very, very theoretical one. Yeah, it has no implication whatsoever. And even if we say that the profits or some of them make minor things, it doesn't mean that it is up to us to what

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law, it doesn't mean that it is up to us to pick up

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Point to those sins and to say that was wrong from Prophet Musa. If it is confirmed from other from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam or from Allah that was wrong, then we say, Allah said this, yeah. Which means that we cannot investigate the life of the prophets. To what? To find out other mistakes other than what Elijah levada or his prophet have confirmed, is this point declared brothers.

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Is it clear? So if they if

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if we go for the opinion that they had some mistakes or minor sins, colossal, those mistakes and minor sins are known how they are known to us?

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By Allah or His Messenger, same thing about the process of alliances? Is it clear? So it is not for us to try to find other mistakes?

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Those are the lessons that we can learn from them more than anything.

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Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Look for lessons that we benefited from. Not. Not more than that.

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By the brother in the back.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, the brother is asking a good question. He said regarding the raffle, how far we go. Yeah, how far we do this, pretending that we are unaware or ignoring. As far as this pretending or ignoring is not counterproductive. That is the limit.

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Yeah, if it becomes counterproductive, then

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we need to take certain measures. Yeah.

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We've got a question. The question there saying?

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What should the individual work on undefeated children?

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In terms of tarbiyah? What should the individual work on? children to develop? As in he's asking what you should develop on his children to develop any number of things. First of all, Jani the person should develop in his children, the love of Allah and the love of his messengers. Yeah, he should develop,

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to be confident of their religion, and Islam. And not to be inferior. This is a very important element that we need to remember here. Also love of certain Islamic practices.

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And to also help them to, to practice certain things, even if they are difficult to wake up for failures, sisters, young girls to work a job not to look at how long things to make it still far. Yes, these things

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and didn't

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like the brother the other question

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Should we?

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Yeah, okay. We don't want to get into this. The brother is asking if we know that there is a person who is doing certain things in public. Should we want other Muslims from this person or not? This is recording this online. By and people might misunderstand this question. This is a very, very critical question. Very critical. And again, it is a common problem. That's why we say each case has to be dealt with, according to its own merit. Yeah. Last question.

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Brothers asking what is the difference that ignore mistakes and something that is a moniker and

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yeah, mistakes and Moncure are the same?

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Any the brother is asking, What is the difference between mistakes and Moncure that we have to make in court? As we said, previously, the barber the ruling is, as far as ignoring is not counterproductive. So sometimes some markers or some sins or mistakes, is better for long term condemning

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or long term

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enjoining the good and forbidding the evil is To what?

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To pretend that you are unaware or to ignore them.

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Yeah, if that is the case, then it's better to what? To ignore them.

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But

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yeah de la parabolica La La La Land