The Forbidden Gaze Two The Cure

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In Alhamdulilah

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who want to start fiddle

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when I want to build a game ensure all the unforeseen our say yeah Dr. Medina

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mejor de la mo de la la when my father

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was had one in La la hora de la sharika what a shadow Mohammed Abu was solo

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yeah yo holidaying Taku la haka Ducati wala automaton in Tomas de mon. Yeah Johan hora de como la de la la kakum. Enough soon

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wahala come in has Olga oberstein who Marija Kathy euro one he said, What de la la de Luna he was our ham.

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In namaha can Allah Kumar Akiva?

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Yeah you hola de la Haku colon sadita you slay La la

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la

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la la la vaca falls on Adina

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in the hierarchy, Michelangelo has the virgin

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Mohammed in sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was shout out

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to her akula modesetting

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wakulla da ting dolla dolla dolla TV now,

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we continue insha Allah to Allah was at intermission

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with the remedies, the treatment against the Tibetan gaze against the unlawful look, and how

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with the rule of the Almighty Lord,

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we can eradicate obliterate break those devilish arrows.

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We have reached remedy number nine.

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One of the greatest remedies or treatments against the Tibetan gaze is indeed marriage. As our beloved Prophet Mohammed Abu Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned in a narration collected by Mohammed Abu Ismail al Bukhari and Muslim

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on the authority of Africa law hypnosis road rhodiola to Allah and that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, our young men, whoever among you is able to marry should marry, as it helps him lower his gaze and guards his modesty. And whoever among you is unable, then let him observe fast as fast diminishes one's sexual desire.

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Muslim males and females

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are enjoying to marry.

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However,

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if one does not have the means, to get married, this does not entitle him or her to foreigner, Kate,

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rather, a bill lever, a Muslim, a Muslim, enjoins upon himself. chestatee he perseveres patience. He seeks Allah's aid, assistance and help against the cursed

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for The Guardian ones. chestatee is one of the greatest Charles trials exams that the almighty Lord has imposed upon men.

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And yes, it requires extreme discipline, extreme willpower, patience, but no oh believing servant of the Almighty Lord.

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Therefore, he who succeeds today in your mind, for he or she who succeeds in avoiding fornication or adultery,

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your actions will not go in vain. Instead, the Almighty Lord has prepared forgiveness and a great reward for such a person.

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cares careful consideration of the Quranic injunctions and the golden authentic traditions of our beloved prophets. Allah

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Whether he was clearly mentioned, that it is compulsory for every single man

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to get married, if he has the ability to pray, dowry, to support his wife

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is healthy and full and lost. If he feels that if he does not get married, they will fall prey to the evil, satanic whisper and thus fall into destruction. Likewise,

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a lady who is unable to maintain herself

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and feels that her sexual urge would drive her into destruction into fornication, then this obligates her to get married, he there is no

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excuse there is no exemption, you will fall into this category if this fits you. That which we mentioned.

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We asked the almighty Lord to protect us because

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procrastination towards marriage or pro money in marriage can ignite the fire of lust can ignite the fire of instinct of desire and what happens then? That forbidding gays can easily lead you to a destruction.

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So do not

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take them lightly if you are able to get married, oh young man or young lady, do not wait till you finish your university Do not wait to finish your HSC Do not wait to finish your trade no get married.

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Because

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pro learning or delaying or deferring or whatever your marriage due to some reason, well, the reason could lead you to ultimate destruction in this world and faster next.

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So do not take the metal lightly.

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Do not take the metal lightly. And it is hot on for a parent in Islamic law to delay his son or daughter's marriage.

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by claiming he has not finished or he has not finished his prestige degree or his trade, he is not allowed to interfere with this child's marriage when the child needs to get married.

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And if he does so, then that responsibility is taken away from him and given to the next person who's considered her guardian.

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So we asked the almighty Lord, to make it easy for us and bless us with a righteous partner in order to be

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strongly encouraged towards the love of the Almighty Lord, Allah M. Aloma M. Another great remedy treatment.

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To break the evil satanic arrow

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is pondering over the ramifications of the unlawful

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how it can lead to destruction in the life of this world, and how it could lead to ultimate destruction. And next, and we have a beautiful story to relate to you

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a story that was narrated by one of our pious predecessors or mattala they will have a phenomenon.

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He related a story of the People of the Book.

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He said

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there was a pious worshiper,

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a devout worshipper

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of the tribe of Israel.

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He was the most pious of his time.

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During his time, there were three brothers who had a sister and the sister was a virgin.

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He continued.

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The three brothers wanted to adventure leave the town, but their epic was for war.

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So they started thinking with whom are we gonna leave our sister? She's a virgin. She's young.

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She's attractable

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who can we leave with? Who can we trust? In other words, they started thinking and thinking and thinking until finally they all agreed to label with him. The pious worshiper, being the most pious, obvious people. You will not find a better person for you.

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Nice job. So they all trusted him.

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They approached him and asked, Are we able to leave our sister with you?

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Is this a great not a problem? Get her Alon. I've got a beautiful room, beautiful bed for her ready? No. pious worship, I would not want this. They immediately said, No.

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I do not need this problem. I do not need this obstacle before my Lord. I am a worshiper, and that is all I do. You bring her in my life. She's an obstacle.

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She's a problem

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between me and my Lord. So he refused their request.

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They persisted and persisted, please, we do have neck we have no one else but you. Please can you take care of our system, until finally he agreed on one condition. I've got my house of worship here. She does not live in my house. She gets placed in another house near my house. I don't want any interference, any disturbance from this creation.

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So they placed it in a house next to his place of worship.

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And she remained there for some time. Every single day, saying he is the caretaker now is going to cater for her. Everyday He will make her food placement on a tray. Open his door, his house his door, place it immediately in front of that door, close the door, lock it up, got that inside and worship there.

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This is the way he did, how he worked.

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Now we all know Satan, all the men who

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he had texts man how not immediately know step by step approach. Once you have

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once you see as you're comfortable for one scene, one step he will come and attack you for sharper arrow or for a different step.

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So this satanic whisper the saving liar is to haunt ugly based approached the devout worshiper softly

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he was encouraging him saying to him,

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you should take care of her.

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She's a young yo young lady.

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It is not proper for you, he said, to allow her to come out of her house.

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Now all the way to your house during the day, where men will look at her and they may come upon her they may harm her that might hurt her. It is not proper for you. You will develop worshipper. You do not want it to be harmed. He whispered in whisper then whispered

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the first arrows down its position in his heart, step by step approach. At first paper far away from me I don't want anything to do with I don't want to even see her. But now Satan has convinced him to take the third straight to her house and place it at the door of her house and run back home

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and worship them.

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This happened for some time. He kept doing this day after day, day after day, day after day. Who comes he's still comfortable now. dispells arrow is hit him. He's comfortable. He has no problem. He chooses no negativeness nothing Quran. Satan, his companion comes back

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and says to him

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if you were to take this tray and place it inside her house, inside the house, yeah, she's got to open the door. She could expose herself and pick up the tray. Take it inside her house. It is more proper. There is more reward is said in the wind. So

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whisper whisper whisper.

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Arrow number two has found its place.

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He made her food placed on the tray Not in front of his door nor in front of her door but opened her door and placed it inside and ran back home. locked the door and worship there in a row number two has found its position. Its mark. He kept doing this for some time. He was comfortable. He was relaxed.

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And then he his companion

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came back with a sharper arrow this time.

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See every time he sharpens the arrows, the first arrow is weaker than the second arrow. The third arrow is sharper than the second arrow and that's how it works. You know when you go fishing if you want to get a spaceship with fish, you know put the small hooks do you get the big hawks to get a big fish? Small it's not gonna work. The small hook is small. Who cares? What's more, oh guess mostly small bream,

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fish, Pantone, this one is poppin. But if you want a big fish, you want to shock you get a big hook and get a big shock.

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So the arrows is getting stronger and sharper as it goes along. So now we sharpening the third arrow.

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He treads slowly to this person.

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And he starts whispering to him.

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If you were to talk to her,

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just talk to her. The poor little thing is lonely. She's in a state of fi she needs company. His company

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just talk to her just a bit of talk. That'd be long. That'd be just something basic.

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whisper whisper whisper

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error number three

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is Mark Caray Khorasan. He is what? He's hot, making it darker and darker. You know, when the rust hits what happens

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at eight as the rest of the path, whatever it hits, when cancer hits what happens as the body within slowly and these arrows, the heat in his heart, and is slowly growing and growing and growing. Why? Because he's accepted the former arrows. Once the arrows are broken from the spot, Satan's got no ability on you. But he's finding himself an easy catch. He's accepting his arrows, and he will continue

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talk to her for a while.

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That will put her to ease and comfort. He said to him, the whisper and the whisper. And thus the error hit his heart. And it grew darker and so he took the field inside her house around his house locked the door didn't worship went to the top of his building, that was a condition that is based only from the top of his building. So he calls out to our Yeah, falana I am speaking to you come and speak to me or from the window or from the door. So this kept going for a while it continued for a while.

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And when they feel comfortable with each other.

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Satan sharpened his fourth arrow. So he came back to this devout worshiper, this devout worshiper, you know, the belt worshipping is he's a person that worships 24 seven. Were there any sleep whether awake, whether it's at night drinking is always worshiping. This is a devout worshiper. This is how he was like, but he's getting weaker and weaker and weaker. Because the arrows are finding their target.

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He comes back to him and says to him,

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you got us you're talking to her from the top of the building. You're gonna scream out, you're gonna yell to her. Why?

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Why don't you come down to the bottom of the building stand at your door at your door don't come out to the street at your door while she stands up at her door and then talk.

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He's trying to put logic in him.

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satanic logic.

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So the whisper was carrying on the whisper the whisper and hit him. The Fourth Arrow found his target. Growing darker and darker and darker.

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He was comfortable with this is not a total for me is though. Well, she came out at her door. Yeah for Lana marhaba Hello salon.

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He felt he saw them comfortable. Now the shaitan comes back again. This deceiving liar and ad tech Sima for another sharp era but sharper than the full Pharaoh. This is number five. He said to him, what is it coming from the door of your house, get to her door she can sit down at her door while you stand at her door and just talk to her.

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There's no yelling involved. It's more mild. It's more comforting for her. You know her salt is out all

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she can be heard by people.

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The whisper carried on the arrow found it's

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the heart is growing darker and darker and darker. And when it grows darker what happens

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the faith is becoming

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Less. And when the faith gets lesser and lesser what happens then you are subjected to any evil after that anything can happen to you. So he came from Utah went to her door, she said that he stayed there all day talking to this creature.

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And then when light film, he went back home, locked the door and worship there in see the thing behind this is, what did he do every time he left the scene that he committed?

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He went back home and worship worship

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Allah, the cow, or Buddha he worshipped.

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And the shaman could not bear or tolerate him worshiping the one that created him. So he's trying to lead him if the sharpest arrow and the sharpest arrow is what came meeting, Chuck. Is it going to lead into that there is he?

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He found his position. Error number five, has found its mark. The heart is growing darker. The faith is becoming weaker. He's becoming less devout to his Lord.

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He's so comfortable talking to her on a daily basis. When Mike falls down it goes back can worship still in the shaitan comes back to him.

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When he's talking to her this time he adores her. He beautifies her he makes her look sparkling. Especially on this he sparkles he dawns in beautifies the sin

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the hat on especially ladies so you can fall into the major predicament. So he beautified her hair don't her outward from him or word from her Dini yet but small he on a smaller than happy be happy at

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what happens then he kissed her

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kista and ran back home stop for a while What have I done? He locked the door and

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replaced Nintendo. He worship they're in phase two worshiping Allah to Allah regardless of what he's doing. These are seen Yes, but they're considered not as major as ultimate sin.

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So

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when you feel comfortable with this, Saturn return to Him, and He beautified him or heared on him or

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he made her look more appealing and more appealing and more appealing and to the unthinkable that he tests detestable distasteful. The immoral

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the disgusting scummy filthy Obama nated act of sexual intercourse Pathak

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that is destruction that needs destruction. He got a pregnant and she had given birth, or she gave birth to his baby boy.

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He ran back home, locked his door, what have I done and worshiped there in this global labor in Alabama, even despite he did what he did, but he still believes in the Lord Almighty.

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Satan comes to him.

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What have you done? Do you realize what senior has committed? Satan whispering now? Do you realize that if ever others come now

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and say that she has given birth to your son, what they will do to you.

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He fought and fought and fought. Satan said to him, you have to kill that child. You have to kill that child in order to conceal the affair.

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He suggests and makes logic

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and then immediately came back and said hold on.

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The thing she's gonna consider the affair with you from her brothers. Do you think she's gonna hide it? They're gonna hide what you did to her child. Kill her to

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kill her kill the child throw them in a ditch and conceal the affair.

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Hey,

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accepted the whisper.

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He killed her. He killed the child. He threw them in a ditch, leveled the ground, put a rock over that and he went back home, locked his door and worship didn't play PlayStation worship there.

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That was our number seven.

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Now, sometime when passed

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The brothers come back. They came back from war.

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Immediately they went to the house of the pious worshiper

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with her sister.

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He cried and sobbed.

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She was the best of ladies. You said she was the best of ladies. She got sick. And that is her grave,

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putting his head down and crying and crying, as though he had nothing to do with the matter whatsoever. totally innocent.

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He walked away the brothers whenever the grave, started crying, sought Allah's mercy and forgiveness for her. They stayed there days and days until they got tired, went back home and slept

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is a matter over now. It's not over. He's still worshiping Allah, Allah, He will not

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stop attacking invading this person until he destroys him.

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Yes, it's a major catastrophe,

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devastation, but it's not

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the ultimate sin.

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So,

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this time Satan goes to him.

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To the dead, no, the dead is dead.

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He cannot whisper to them now more than they did.

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He went to the brothers, the three brothers.

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Starting with the oldest brother, disguised as a traveler, he came to him

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and said, in a dream, what happened to your sister?

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The oldest brother said exactly what the pious man had stated, and how he had shown then her grave.

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Then Satan said, Well, I was dreaming, he is a liar. This pious man is a liar. He got up pregnant, she gave birth to his son, he killed them both and buried them both.

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Behind the door in the house, he was staying to the right of the entrance.

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Then he went to the middle brother told him exactly the same story, then to the youngest brother told him exactly the same story. All of them had the same dream. They woke up in the morning, being surprised, extremely surprised and amazed by what they sell.

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They told each other.

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And though in the state of shock, the oldest brother said, Isn't your dream. So only a dream? Don't worry about it

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is only a dream. Don't worry about it. ignore it. The youngest brother said no.

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I will not ignore it until I investigate the metaphor myself. I will not leave it until I go to that place I saw in my dream. So they all agreed to go together. They went there into the place where the sister was staying.

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Search for the place described to them in the dream.

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And after searching, yes, they found exactly where they were told the grave of their sister and her son. They immediately went to him.

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When he was worshiping, they stopped him and said what happened to our sister?

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He confirmed every single issue. point that happened to her sister, as they saw in the dream. They grabbed him, placed him on a cross to crucify him. But before they can crucify him, so he's doing the labor is he not? He's a believer still.

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Who comes to him? He's companion is good companion is a companion for Allah. Allah gave us far away from him. He comes to him and says I am your companion.

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On your companion. I am the one that tempted you of the lady until you fornicated with her and then she became pregnant and then she gave birth and then you killed them

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and throw them in a ditch. No one can save you today except me.

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Nick brothers now are getting ready to crucify him. No one can save you today he said except me but I will not help you.

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Only after you do one thing and be ally in the almighty Lord be ally in your former in your shaper in the one that created you.

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Now

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obviously this person is in a state of Fie scared.

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Extremely scared. So in the state of fi shibir. You know what's going on? Hey belie any special.

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Hey Bill I did on Monday.

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produces phenomenal movement and Mohammed Elijah bow and Mata Kabir. He believed in the one that blessed his limbs, gave him his life, to all his life he prostrated to, but in the last second of his life, the last second, not if not a minute or the second

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pass, everything becomes vain.

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That one second

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destroyed all of that worship, all of that worship.

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As soon as he believed in Allah to Allah,

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crucify the brothers know, here's a kid not care about his death, his well being he ran a swift ring, he ran from him,

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as the as his method is shaitan is gone and Insomniac for, for them, Caracalla, anybody on mink in near half a law from

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the lockers of the devil. He says to men, this belief, this belief, oh, I hope you but when he just believes he was, so I am innocent from you, I see a lot of mankind.

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So immediately when he realized his Lord, they crucified Him. And that was his end, missile alone, alone in them. And

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as you can see, the step that Satan took with this person is a step by step approach.

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small arrow, bigger, bigger, bigger, until destroyed him.

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An example of this is today, when you watch TV, you know what you're watching at first, when you first turn it on? When you first stop watching TV, you may say, for a law. So what do you do? You turn your face away from the television.

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With that instinct inside you, I am disappointed unless you say something wrong on the evil screen. Half dressed lady naked lady is a staff with a law

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staff.

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But it's a one on one that's at first. And what happens after that.

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When you watch and watch and watch, and watch and watch and watch,

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he become desensitized. He become

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a lady, there's not more stuff on a law. It's a law.

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So it changes your your mentality changes

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your force change. Why did you not know because Satan has approached you and you've accepted him.

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Why? Because Satan has already struck you with that arrow.

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And it's fairly smart, but you didn't even realized it.

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We have become so accustomed, accustomed to morality, to indecency and obsessed absurdity that

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we have thing novel. It's become a norm to us.

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Brothers and sisters before you enter or you step into the theater, the movie theater or social function, or before you flip through the pages of the magazine or newspaper

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or before you surf the net, or gaze upon the billboard or the posters.

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Before you do any of that. Before you sit at night as we all do, spend our evening on that satanic screen. Ask yourself ask yourself am I going beyond the limits?

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Am I allowed to see this? Am I really in the hands of Allah Allah the boundaries? Does he like this?

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Does he want me to say this?

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Is he accepting of this? If you're gonna ask yourself, no Do you care you have been eaten and eaten by that Satan. The arrows are getting bigger and bigger and you do not even realize

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an example which is a gross example, which was mentioned by our beloved brother Talal

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dimension mentioned

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to me once, it is like the toilet,

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where

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if you are waiting for the toilet, someone's in a toilet someone's before you and they're doing a major job. It's gross, but it's very, very, very logical.

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Someone's waiting for the toilet. He's doing a major job. He can smell it from outside

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to be more precise, and then he leaves the toilet

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So when you ended up toilet,

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your hand is on the nose, you cannot bear the smell, you know, standard smelly rectum vomit, but you still gotta do your job. So

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slowly and slowly, well in that disgusting smell, what do you do?

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becomes so bad after

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you become immune, it desensitizes, you will lie, it's true, it becomes the norm does not become something, okay? Not a problem. I can bear it now. But when you first initiated it,

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earthquake,

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but then slowly become immune. This is exactly the same example, I'm saying. Slowly, slowly, slowly become immune to the surroundings that you are living in.

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Let's talk work. For example, how many of us go to work. At first, when he first started his job, he knows his hat on. He knows it had to mix up this lady to touch this lady to continuous look at this lady and told this lady he knows of her arm. So you feed Allah to Allah, he's got some feeling there. But the more the more, the more, the more becomes not a problem anymore. becomes easy.

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The environment that we are living in, you go outside today, you got to any shopping complex. If you're a believer, you cannot leave your eyes looking upwards. If you're a believer, you'll be too scared to look upwards because there's nothing evil. But when you continuously do it and continuously do it, it's quite a big deal.

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Demo sort of concern you don't clean ammo. This is a major, major problem. Well, I had a major problem, but only those

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who think that reflect, understand this. Realize the beloved,

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that Allah Allah is watching you.

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Seeing you hearing you

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the ramifications is extremely dangerous of the Tibetan gaze, we know in 100 collected by Buhari back in hereafter.

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When Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam ascended to the heavens, he accompanied whom gibreel me came.

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He said we went along to we got to a pit that looked like an oven, out of which were heard crimes and springs from.

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So we approached this oven or these pit glands inside it. And we saw naked men and a woman who screamed when the flames on the blu rays up high and touched him. And it took them up and up until they almost fell from this pit, but then as subdued the flame and they went back down. He suggests you know who these people

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are going through these fomentation he said these are people who use the phonic Kate can be adultery in a lot of this world.

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Today,

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sex is portrayed in various forms, whether it's on your TV, or your or the cinema or the magazine or newspaper or on the net. Look at the billboards. Look at the posters were images of sexualities beyond control. Beyond control, there's no word for it. Sex has become a topic where advertisers marketers have the outdoor and what

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I use in most effectively to sell their product is a market lady has become the woman has become merchandise. They are played with and sold as man pleases. And they call this liberation.

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And this

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is corruption. Whenever you go between men, what do you hear conversations about sex, especially

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when you go to the hair salon to get a haircut? The first thing you see in front of you is what magazines and many times pornographic magazines.

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You can't even go into the service station will lie without putting your head down today.

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Because as soon as you enter the service station, bad

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luck. That's all they care about.

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And this is one of the minus signs of the hour.

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One of the minus signs of the hour. We have been extremely trial examined here, wake up, reflect, ponder,

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contemplate, am I doing that which Allah is pleased with or not?

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And this leads to what they can do as what promiscuity

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fornication and adultery, lewdness, at least to raping teenage pregnancy to lead to all sexually transmitted filthy diseases. This is what a later today we have reached a stage

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where men

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offer effective marketing we can say

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men, individuals and society

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are justifying everything they do as sexual liberation. And modern times as you all know, que sera premarital sex, as I trained as a fashion with 15 years ago with not less premarital sex was abhorrent. It was the unthinkable. It was immoral. It was evil, it was filthy. It was illegal in the Western society.

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Now we'll even talk about though it is scary to talk about it then. Now it's not like that. Because the media, it creates the impression of what that premarital sex is fashionable, that homosexuality is beautiful with a trend.

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And anything that goes against that is old fashioned.

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A typical example of this

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is that when you watch a few episodes of that devil

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primetime soap opera that I see on TV,

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the impression they give you just a few not 56781 or two episodes, they immediately give you the impression that abode tree is beautiful, allowable. That premarital sex is fashionable. That deceit, trickery, lies, deception, manipulation, are most essential to get the man of your life or the lady of your life. No matter what the cost of harm, hurt suffering, others go for

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that call it sexual liberation.

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This is liberation. If this is democracy, if this is freedom, so why do we have so many examples of the following scenarios? High HIV, HIV, for example, how many young adults

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are infected with this virus at alarming rates? At alarming rates? Well, light it is get even mentioned on television these days. It's so high There's no use no more. It's beyond control. Beyond control.

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It has reached high HIV or AIDS.

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epidemic proportions worldwide, mainly targeting teenagers and young adults.

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If it's called sexual liberation, then why are girls from the age of 10 to 15 years old 10 to 15 years old,

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having sex

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first devastation, catastrophic consequence, partakes. And when asked, When asked about the situation, why, at 12 years old, you're having sex. What did she say? No one told me it's wrong.

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And now we're told it's run.

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She walks outside, she sees it. The TV's on she hears it.

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She walks through it, she sits on it. Everything today is related around this. How is the poor child gonna name

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those who have daughters who have sons Beware, beware, beware, your son, your child may fall into this predicament, as you say teenage pregnancy, phenomenal these days. And many of them abort the child. But

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the consequence at least this abortion for this child is not a child being pregnant with a child. So there is a child being pregnant with a child not another child, but a child with a child.

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And what happens in it leads to emotional to physical, to mental to psychological disturbance. It's cause the person for life.

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How many men or women have been divorced or getting divorced due to an adulterous relationship?

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How many females from the age of two to 18 years old, have been raped? This is sexual liberation now that claim it to be sexual liberation.

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All these dilemmas and they call it sexual liberation. Homosexuality is an increase every day you see them with new rights new laws.

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ADP has been legalized, even gay marriages, you are anywhere in the world. If you're against it, you're old fashioned and your fault.

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The issue of sexual liberation is in fact, enslaving those very people

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who are trying to free themselves from sexual liberation. It is of another word is enslaving them. The sexual labor writers have been shackled, shamed, in the chains of what disease, divorce, the status, dissatisfaction, discontent, deceit, deception, double standards, evil wickedness, and the lies becomes such. This is those who claim to be on the path of sexual liberation.

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And this is why we see individuals, organizations or even governments today

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searching, actively working to find solutions, they find they do work for this wave of immorality followed with its truck loads of problems, the answer is there.

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The answer is there for this dilemma. And for every Allah dilemma, what is the answer The answer? The solution, the cure, that the remedy the treatment, for every perplexing social problem is one is no other.

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No other This will give them ultimate treatment, the cure a word that is so cheap, so easy.

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You know, it's not gonna cost you billions of dollars to get this remedy. It's for free, always giving it to you. He's giving you salvation from all evil in this folder. The next a slam is your solution

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is your remedy is your treatment. Oh person who works day and night who is involved in the abyss of life and materialism. Islam is your solution. Follow your theme, and you'll be comfortable in what you do.

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Islam gives you the solution. For every single dilemma that exists on the face of this earth. Nothing kills

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from fornication is what does

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that look. And voila, you will not find yourself in that problem.

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That forbidding gays can destroy your brothers and sisters, but lahia can destroy it. As one Schaffer mentioned sister brothers before one shaves a scholar who was the Imam or muscle huddle. in Medina.

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He when he left his apartment to go to stand in the,

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in the chamber of Harlem, he would always put his eyes towards the floor as he walked from his apartment, approximately 50 meter walk to the Harlem itself, he would walk with his gaze towards the ground knowing that if you look up, and these are failed, ladies, these are very old ladies.

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But maybe their eyes are unveiled, maybe a face is unveiled because a lot of tourists

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so the shape would look down and walk directly like that lays to accompany this just every now and then. He said to me one time

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I fall into destruction one day, okay.

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He goes to me one day, or just to raise my head and glanced at a lady who was unbowed, only in the face. And that hurt me and harm me for three weeks. I could not do anything good for three weeks, three weeks she was affected by one single gaze. And those are either face

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because he has a man. He has faith in your mighty Lord.

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He believes in Allah to Allah, and that affected him.

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When

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we look and look and look

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and now we say Dr. Sophy asked so why is our worship demand so low? Why is our extra worship so weak? Why are we so the minimized is definitely why. Ask yourself.

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Ask yourself. The more you

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The more you adopt a man, the more you are obligated enough avoid that which has had on the more faith that you will get as a guarantee from the one that created you.

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Think, reflect and ponder the beloved brothers and sisters. The matter is in your hands of the Almighty Lord. It is up to you. Not up to your neighbor, your father, your mother or son or daughter is up to you. Reflect take a minute, ask yourself is this action going to be

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against me before me oculomotor

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we will continue to travel next week with the topic of the Tibetan gaze we still got two more lessons.

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Next week inshallah Allah we might initiate the topic of hijab, and that is like was a remedy against the Tibetan gaze or indeed if a lady is veiled in accordance to the Islamic guidance that prevents men from visualizing her and affecting his heart. So we asked the almighty Lord to bless us and to lower our gaze from all that which is forbidden