The Forbidden Gaze Three Intermingling

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Our beloved Prophet Mohammed Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam honestly reports that he when he entered Medina is we think within a minute Medina illuminated. And then when he died, everything in it became bowl dark. And as soon as they finished burying him, as Anna's mentioned, their hearts began to grieve, due to love for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Indeed, those who lived with him and loved him, loved him dearly.

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To the extent that they would not care if the next were cut off.

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As long as not one form pricked Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we asked Almighty law that he unites us with the prophets, the saints, the righteous and the truthful, on the Day of Resurrection.

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Tonight insha Allah to Allah, I was approached by some brothers reminding us that we were on a certain strategy last year, which is

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four weeks on, which is lessons and one week open forum, which is the fifth week, every fifth week is an open forum. And I said please, can you once again, I said no, no problem in sha Allah to Allah.

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However, as I was, in the bookstore,

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I was flipping through some books, and I caught

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my eyes caught this book, which is only a small little summarized book, which consists of approximately 10 pages 10 pages, however, there are golden rules,

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issues regarding the intermingling between the two sexes, and saying that our lesson,

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our previous lessons related to this topic, which is

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the devilish arrows of Satan and how to destroy it,

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we will inshallah to Allah like to mention the issues that the scholars have mentioned and explained very briefly, each issue regarding the prohibition of mingling between two sexes, what is allowed or what is not allowed. So, inshallah we will try to do this very quickly. And then we will inshallah open the, this the the room for discussion.

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And we should understand that this is the work of the scholars, most of the scholars. In other words, the majority of scholars opinion, is mentioned in here.

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So we'll begin in Charlotte Allah.

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As the author mentions, it should be borne in mind that the following forms have a lot which is mingling, mixing bulls and females, the following forms of FTL art

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are forbidden, not disliked, listen carefully, are forbidden. Let us say number one.

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Number one is woman mingling with their paternal male cousins, or woman mingling with their maternal male cousins. In other words,

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both types are hard on.

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You are not allowed to mingle with your cousins. Oh lady, the beloved sister, the beloved brother that falls on you as well. You are not allowed to move mingle to mix with your male

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relatives, nor are you allowed to mix with your female relatives without any exemption. I

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mean, if you go to a gathering, you don't say they're my cousins. It is alright. I can sit, talk, laugh, joke and play with them. You are not allowed to do this. You are not allowed to do this and Islamic sitting.

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Segregation

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is that the male's sit separately, and the females did separately. They did not mix together one big bunch collectively,

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as though they all had him on each other.

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Any person that is not your Muharram key far away,

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keep far away. Even though he's your cousin, even though she's your cousin, because you are allowed to marry this person. And any person you are allowed to marry. They could

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Be ignition there from Satan. He could ignite

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the Tibetan gaze and first lust, instinct. Desire will be created in the heart of yours. And all these weeks that passed the last three or four weeks will be mentioned in this warning against this to not say they're my cousins, there's no problem. There's a major problem that a major problem

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your cousins you can marry.

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So you are not allowed to mingle with them with the excuse, oh, they're my cousins, they My beloved ability abilities there is destruction and it can lead to all illicit promiscuity.

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Number three, the wife's mingling with her brother in law.

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And that, as we mentioned last week, as the Hadith says a year Komodo hola Allah Nisa, Colorado, Milan, sayeda, Sula, LA,

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eight Alhamdulillah

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Alhamdulillah mote

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beware of approaching sitting

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in audiences, where there is only a woman or woman, and the Latin American dancer said, what about the brother in law, the in laws.

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He goes, that is this, there is destruction. And how many people today are lenient towards this, but it's only my brother in law, or the husband is only my brother, they can take around, for example, on a journey to the doctor, he can take a shopping, he's about to enter my house, my brother is not allowed to enter my house and I'm not home. His house is like my house. This is the the poison arrow that he throws at you.

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That my brother, he cannot enter my house. When I'm not there. It just says sister in law, it's my wife hit my brother, big deal. They say big deal. You can lead that person and that person, both of them

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to destruction. That's what he says. I'll have more remote death destruction. It can lead you to an eternal punishment. If you're not careful.

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There is no leniency here. There was no leniency. Your brother can end up being

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with your wife in the worst of ways. And how many times has this happened? How many situations in cases that come to you and say, Well, my brother done this to me? Or of course he did this to you. You allowed him to do this to you.

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You allowed me giving him the key to do this to you.

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Why did you allow him in the house without you being there.

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But it's my brother if he's your brother, but take the advice. Take the golden advice from this beautiful narration

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there is no excuse. There is no excuse. You will be the cause of this and you will be considered our person, the husband, if he allows his brother to enter the house while he is not there while his wife is there you will be called a youth

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and other youth is the one who does not care whether men talk to his wife, she talks to men. This person in English is called the what I call cold and they off

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and he's cursed.

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And the Hadith mentions he will not enter Paradise.

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When a man allows his wife to be talking with other men, men talking to her not a problem. They're my brothers.

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Or they're my cousins or they're my friends. She's your wife.

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She's your wife, she's a weak person, they're weak people. Anything could partake anything. The venom of Satan is powerful.

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It's powerful. If you are not careful, he's not take care of that precious coal of yours, that Ruby. You could lose her.

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You could easily lose her

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goes the toys and arrows of Satan

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are very, very sharp are very sharp

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number for

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the wife sisters mingling with her husband

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and this is another case that we see

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in our

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society as much as Muslims are talking about not that your father could find like a father, he cares what they do. They do the most evil, filthy things, but they're not accounted for because they're not Muslims. We don't look at them, we look at ourselves

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how many sisters?

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Ah, the wife,

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talk to the husband.

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To him, it's her his sister in law, asked me my sister in law, I can share a complaint with her is a game that's called bulrush, or knife you've heard it was in my days in my olden days.

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And bulrush is a game that we used to play where you can fight an arrest of the person. And whoever puts the other down first, yes, to race to the end of the line to the line sorry and come back to the place when you put the person down. Now this is played. I actually witnessed this being played by sisters and brothers.

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On one occasion, when I approached them, now the sisters he

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were the sister of the wife. She was playing with her brother in law. And I said, What are you doing?

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To the brother? Who was playing with the sister in law? anymore system? What's our problem? She's only 1617 years old. 1617 years old.

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That is the worst of all ages.

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Because Pat, Haden Sharma Sharla.

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But what you are doing, he's been hired.

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And he tried to justify his actions and this and that and whatever. This is destruction, this is a evil. This is an Islamic is not allowed in Islam.

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Because she's your sister in law does not permit you to go and play with her. Touch her, go out with her, take it to the shops, or to the doctor. options. My sister in law, she is not allowed for you in any way to be alone with you to talk annual you have to talk to him even to talk to her, you have to have a reason to talk to her. This is the misconception that we have

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allowed it to be

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without understanding or rectifying this problem.

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It's me my sister in law. I don't want to know more than that. I don't know what I don't want to know what's hot on it is hot.

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It is hot on my nose how to keep away from this. You have no reason to talk to her. Don't talk to her. You have no reason to see her than see her.

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That's the way it is.

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This is Islam. You are the Muslims, the Muslims. You don't like this talk? Allah subhanaw taala sees what we are saying tonight. And tonight you are judged. So you came with a lead and this has been passed on to you. You are accounted for it because now you are not ignorant normal. You're no longer ignorant farmers the sort of life Yeah, well, I hope so.

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Number five, you know, don't I can see somebody that stand up and go.

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They don't want to continue the whole

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session.

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Is there anything more beautiful than light, the light of Islam?

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Number five,

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the meaning of a woman's brother with the Sisters of his foster sister. And this is one that many people have not understood because they don't understand the situation of foster home.

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Foster relations is of two types.

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Understand this very carefully.

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You got one type which is

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the parents have a daughter have five daughters.

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You're born you're male. You're born a man he was born.

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The mother of these five daughters

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succos allows him to suckle her breasts in other words from her

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how many times

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five times five separate different times. This young lad young child, breastfeed from this mother five different times she becomes his foster mother,

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foster mother, he becomes her maharam.

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Every single person in her family is related to him through foster relation

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is understood. The five daughters that she's got become his first become

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his foster sisters. He is allowed to be independent

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He's allowed to talk to them. They can take them out wherever they want on their own. He is not allowed to marry them.

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Likewise, his foster mother, her sister, which is his Auntie, his Auntie,

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he she is likewise his foster Auntie, everyone in her family becomes related to this child.

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Is this first scenario Understood? The second picture

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is

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you were born

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you see a mother whose only is only a foster mother but not the real mother of that child. In other words, you are male another girl was born she a female two of them

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at the same time

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soco from that lady?

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She's not their own mother. It's not their real mother. She's a foster mother. She breastfeeds both of them.

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When they age had five

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sockos age they become sister and brother, even though they're not related before that they become sister and brother. However, if she has sisters, if she has sisters, they are not your

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foster sisters. Isn't understood.

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Or the scientist understands it was a scientist. He's got that intellect. But some of us haven't got the intellect. Is that understood?

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Is that understood?

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I'm gonna ask one of you to explain

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this scenario, there is no relationship with that mother at all. She's her. She is the mother, his foster mother. But that child, the cause is not from the same. It's not her beloved child, she does not become her sisters do not become related to that boy, it's only her directly and no one else. But the foster mother, the foster mother, her sisters, her brothers, her family, her family, Grandpa, Grandma, they become related to this show. I have this understood that the show he is referring to which situation to the latter one, which is a sister of the one that is not directly blood to the mother.

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Number six, the man who has proposed being alone with his fiance, he's going out with her and her talking to him before the marriage contract is conducted. A man is only allowed to look at his fiance in the presence of her family, which is her father, her brother, her adult son and so forth, when he has firmly decided to marry her. Another situation today where you see many people committing but

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as soon as a person is interested in a lady, he goes to the people's house, and what did I do?

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So I'll tell you why is conducted. Now they believe that alpha l innovation, they believe it to be to be want to be a contract. A contract is not a contract.

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This is not a contract. It's a sinker

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syntax. That's what it's called. And not only that, it does not allow you

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under any circumstance to be allowed if this person after alpha, there is no allowance whatsoever

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in my day and I can leave off.

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So, here we get this problem today, which is a has arise which is what you see many brothers for example, law law, I can take around I can get out with her I can talk talk and this can that can whatever because let's face it, how has been conducted.

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This is not allowed.

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You have no right over this lady until the marriage contract

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has been done. And what is a marriage contract, you have a shape. You have two witnesses, you have the value of the person and then you do the contract. You mentioned the dowry, you mentioned the conditions. You are allowed after that to be with her alone, talk to her take her out do whatever you want to because you're married now. But as for the first situation, you are not allowed to be alone with her. You are not allowed to take her out under any circumstance because the contract is not binding.

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Because it's not a contract, it's only a verse that if you cited in a improper place in area

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understood under under.

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Number seven, the groom ascending an elevated bridal platform or stage with his bride in front of other women on his wedding night. Well, hello Hola, quwata illiberal. And I'm pretty sure we all witnessed this in our past, you know, hooligan days, we've witnessed this, but in our Islamic days, can we witness this? Of course, we cannot be wrong. Will you say especially the liberals amongst us? Well, you say it about a koala, the bridegroom dressed up with a nice suit,

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greased up hair.

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Nice tie, his wife is on the, on that ascension, on that big throne. And then he is presented before all the woman, all the woman

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and he sits with her.

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This is how wrong this is how long you are not allowed to do this, you are not allowed to be anywhere. In that place where there are a woman of such on mess, you must be away in the main section. They are in the ladies section. And this is the way it is.

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But to go and go before the woman and confront them. This is an anti Islamic approach and you are committing a sin. Likewise, Number eight, the ascension of the relatives, the groom and the bride on an elevated bottle platform or stage in front of other woman. And likewise you get it many times where the relatives will come and they'll want to sit with the the couple

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on each side. And in front of all the woman This is how long a man is not allowed to approach or confront

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the ladies under any circumstance, even if they're violent, even if the violence for him to be there is not a proper place. This is a woman section What are you doing there? You will be a woman you can go there, but you are not a woman so keep out of there. It's out of bounds for you. It's hard on

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even the husband, the bridegroom to be for him to be there he should understand better even if there was a chain was shackling him and try to drag him to that place he's not allowed to say oh the billet taco laws though agenda fear of law fear of law keeping the boundaries of Allah to Allah and keep far away from this this is the one who feels a lot to Allah not well let's I need the Knights or I hate mushiya there's no mushiya here you get many people for example the when this music or in a is a piece of people person is a part of Popeyes person that he says but you know the mother in law the mother the father in law they want this to say the night in Charlottesville gonna be over

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what's gonna be over

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it's all gonna be over

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before your very feet Is it over? It's never over that incident that part of that night is always there it's recorded it's recorded can never be over.

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It can never be over did not take minute issues but to what you believe minute as easy

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this is severe This is a V there was nothing minute in slam Hello minute haraam.

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So it is not over keep far away from this. No music no mixing no platform no baby in their final. You don't like this My love keep away from me. You're gonna watch this person. So what is

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your I agree with this is dynamic war. Tenants keep away from me. I don't want you when our three of them and I say the site is better than last.

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And then when you have kids, yeah, they share that and then

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she draws you into a mental institution.

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Because it's only the night that night in tails and then tails and tails and anything can break loose after that.

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Mike Why is the bride the bride herself if it's the man's like that if he's a cuckold, and he wants to allow his wife to do or expose yourself in front of men or have music, she is not allowed as well. And if she sees this deficiency from him,

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but it is why I would never allow my daughter to be off man like this from the first stages

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using male servants in the woman section at parties in some of the hotels, as is the case at some wedding parties. And this is another situation that we see

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That they say the only waiters and the nose is not a problem the house, this is a major problem, this is a major problem. And if you know of this and Tasha allow your wife or your female responsibilities to be in that place, you are considered the youth to be where

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some women mingle with men who are not directly related to them under the pretext that they are from the same tribe or extended family that is not the clan, or the tribes, that because they believe they're from one clan, then it is not a problem, to allow the mingling to partake, this is how long it is exactly the same as the paternal and maternal cousins mentioned earlier.

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Number 13, being lacs about allowing teenage girls to mingle with young men or older men, who are not related to them by claiming that they are still young. This is very, very, very dangerous, very dangerous. Brothers, sisters, you have daughters, you have sons of age, which is adolescence. This is a very, very crucial age, a very dangerous age. How are you

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able to see men around your daughter at the age of 15 1614 1718. With their experience, they're only young, they're teenagers.

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This is not allowed. It is not Islamic. Do not take this lightly. Men use them as prey.

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Men today, a lot predators towards women.

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And that's the reality. There are many evil people out there. Do not take these issues lightly. Take them with full conviction and acceptance, acknowledge the situation and implement what you're here.

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For when you know this, and you do otherwise you are judged for it. In How can we allow our 16 year old or 15 year old daughter who is just a flower that has not opened up to be with men to be with young men, older men.

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Is this logic? It is dangerous, very, very dangerous, when it's meant to be buckling rhodiola to Allah and Huma when she entered in Mohammed's room salon. He saw her with clothes that were transparent. You can see through because yes, man. When a woman comes of age, she's not allowed to show except her face and her hands.

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In other words, cover yourself your age now she could have been four years old, 30 years old.

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So he warned against this.

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And lacasa today.

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It is very, very dangerous.

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Regarding the issues of

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teenage children, beware. Because a lot of young men like to experiment things that haven't before. And they prey on young girls like them, if not them

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to older men.

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So be careful. She's your daughter and treat her like a precious golden

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thing.

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The taxi driver or chauffeur, being alone with a woman in the car.

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This is not allowed. Our taxi drivers you are allowed to taxi drive. But when are you allowed to taxi drive? When you are doing it in an Islamic way, you must understand the etiquettes of taxi driving. And it is very basic and simple. That you did not do harm. How easy is that? and Amanda How long is when you allow a lady in the car. on her own sign you're saying there are people around you in driving in the car is this the excuse that is mentioned by the majority text drivers. But there are joint cars just side by side in front and behind me and whatever.

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In your independent tier. You're alone with her in the car. You're underneath the same ceiling. It's enclosed, it's closed, you're captivated. You're seduced. It's not a claustrophobic room.

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Nothing but your breath and her breath.

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Your eyes and her eyes except one other eye

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which is Satan

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through

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eyes now not to the eyes in

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a shape

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except that the third of them is the devil. Now when you're with this person, Where do you work? How are you going? Are you sick of descending?

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Where can I drop you off and you know you enjoy that place you go into and into the talk begins. And then we mentioned that beautiful today from last week which is the devout worshiper. Slowly slowly the arrows became sharper and sharper and sharper.

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That error became too sharp and thus destruction.

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And this can happen right?

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At the end of the day, you are not allowed as a taxi driver to be alone with a woman in the car. You are not allowed. There is no excuse. You are not allowed to take a man if you're a taxi driver to somewhere that is unlawful for him to go even though the copier

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You are not allowed to take him to place Watkins cross or to a pub or to a club or to a disco or to I any devilish place. This is not allowed to the taxi driver. So in reality, can you taxi driver it's very restricted, very restricted. At the end of the day, mantella kalinda ha an hour who hate me, Hey, you leave something for Allah, Allah exchange that which you left for something better put the trust in Allah to Allah and Allah indeed will give you that which is better.

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15 women who get to hide and travel with Adam, a harem husband or mature male relative.

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As you mentioned last week, a lady is not obliged to go to Hajj unless she has a Muharram unless she is able to go and among the conditions of her having that ability is to have a maharam. If she has no maharam you are not allowed to travel. You are not allowed to go will lie even if it was just to Melbourne from Sydney by aeroplane

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to go to an open one hour flight, she is not allowed to go on her own. She is not allowed to go.

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Anything that is considered travel. A lady is not allowed to go unless she has a home to go into. on her own is forbidden.

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Even though she's got a billion prize ladies and a billion men who are righteous if any of these none of these men are Macron. She is not allowed to go finalisation the Islamic law and that is what we worship.

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Number 16 mingling between the male and female students in the classes in the universities and schools muscle a lot. He mentioned this one but it's a very dangerous one is that not

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is another dangerous one.

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stuff but

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this is a matter where every single one of us have taken lightly.

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have taken too lightly.

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You want to educate your wives in a devilish way and you leave the Islamic way but but but this is the excuse as always, but but I need her to be a doctor a teacher B's about a shaitana

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Who's that? Oh, she's

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that Oh, she is no matter how pious she she goes to university and you Oh man. Allow her You are a cuckold. That's all you want.

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There is no other word for her for you. And there's no other way for her.

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To

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think about it be logic, be rational. have common sense. Think about the situation. A lady sitting here. She's your sister. She's your mother. She's your daughter. She's your granddaughter she's your niece she's your wife

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and then next to her

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with the infant behind there there is a man is a man is a man is a man is a man with an eerie

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whatever he is a man it's gonna eat on

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and he's faced with a man.

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Can you allow your sister or your wife? other female responsibility to be in that class? Can you really think about it your Muslim man? Do you care about your female? Why responsibility? Do you care about her? Well, my if you're allowed to go there, you don't care about her. You're a liar

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and

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nothing goes

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And beyond that you are a cuckold as well.

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Because if you allow your female responsibility to enter a room where there are men in that room, who she can see, and they can see her and as a man teaching her even worse,

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who is likewise pyogenes 501 denim jacket.

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air is coming out of his head.

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And then he's teaching your wife. He's teaching your wife, person like him.

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You're saying he wants you want her to be taught by a person like him? Now,

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what have you reached? What have you reached?

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There's a group out there called

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the female liberation, liberators.

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And the other Muslim sisters were talking about it's just as it just has come up. Now. It's a innovated sect in Islam. And you sect, this is genuine. And these set, follow one idiot without mentioned his name, who he himself allows them to have beach beach, or swimming parties at his house.

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In my bathing suits, costumes.

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And they're destroying our sisters in Islam, the sisters, they are learning from this evil source. And the sisters are becoming modernized to what they believe is Islam liberation. It's allowed. We are allowed to learn we are allowed to go out we are allowed to be free. We don't have to listen to our husbands. We can be whatever towards our fathers and our brothers.

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And they are full.

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These sisters

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taking over the universities today.

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There are many many cases that have come to us recently about these people

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who are twisting the truth, distorting the facts of Islam in the sisters minds. Sis brothers Think about it.

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Just the fact that your sister goes or your mother goes or your wife, your wife, allowing her to mix with men. Is it right? wing Islam is this just be one nail ration one that allows one

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when I should would walk to the masjid to cover his store from the main cutter her face?

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Feeling the MMI Look at her.

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When 14 I was asked by her husband Holly.

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What is a good?

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What is a righteous way for lady? He asked her what is a righteous faithful lady. How can a lady be pious she responded to him that she does not look at men, nor do they look at her.

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Now when you in that classroom, what is happening there? What is happening there?

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Brother brothers sisters, think about it. Think about it. Many sisters will lie have become

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an Islamic and have apostate it because of this issue. Many.

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So look, there's no really

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rule need for us to go any further in the topic. It's understandable. It's understandable. It is not allowed. It is not allowed.

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And it's not my saying it's the same as scholars scholars did not differ about a woman going to university, where his mixing of men, they allowed it to go away there is a university who is only for ladies, this is not a problem. Even there. They make conditions for that person as well regarded universities to go into and so forth. But they did not differ about a Muslim lady going to a university in the West, where there are men there or in wherever in Islamic lands where there are men as well. They decided that the man going to university the man not the lady, they give if a man's allowed to go University a man not the lady. So the man likewise do not take this lightly. But

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I need the sisters it's you yourself as well yourself. Not that you're safe from the situation. Just as the ladies are not allowed scholars have different regarding you.

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You're all Muslim as well, you got to condition the rights against you.

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Number 18 the mingling of some students who study in other countries

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with Western families and living with them in one home, I think they call the exchange student is it not? All there is another thing that's called the pin pals. Foreign Exchange. And that is an Islamic, where they allow students to go overseas or over from there, they come to here. And thus, they enter a family for a month or two for as long as it takes for them to finish the course. And they live with them as though it is their family. This is how long all the pen pals, likewise is not acceptable. 10 pounds or when you start, it's the pin when you start writing letters to a person overseas. Or she writes, he writes to you, this is not allowed in Islam. This is a coup for way, not

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an Islamic way.

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The code for sending women abroad for the purpose of continuing their higher education. This leads to the fact that these women adopt destructive Western ideas is another evil practice that we see. When she finished from the minor devil she has two major devil and they're all devilish, but it's like she's advanced into another devil now, and when our devils have different sort of levels, so from one devil to larger devil, number 21 mingling of male and female students at the higher levels of education, with the claim that this is necessary for specialized studies how long 22 these or how long he has not like sold out his illness the prohibited ways 22 male instructors been alone with

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female students in working on university thesis with the claim that this is necessary for supervision in conducting research and preparing the thesis. This is haraam, even though he's your professor, or he's a PhD person who's doing his thesis, and he's been, he has been obligated to take care of you. While you are doing your thesis. Whether it's the masters or a PhD or any other thesis, you are not allowed to be with this person independently, it is haraam. No matter what the reason is, under any circumstance, you are not allowed to be with dismay on

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the call to attend various lectures, poetry sessions, and conferences that are given by a woman or men and women sit by sit side by side with woman, this is an Islamic as we all know, ladies are not allowed to sit besides men, and they are not allowed to sit besides the men and honestly besides the woman and so forth. So this is his wall, her arm. And we see this in the actual the theaters, the lecture theatres, where it was not mixed, it's side by side, this is not Islamic. This is non Islamic, as the Hadith meant mentioned that the distance the lady is the more Islamic ladies. So the ladies in reality in Islam should be behind the men, the further the better, not close to the men,

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not side by side them in but far from the men. And this is the Islamic etiquette for congregating between men and women. This is allowed you are allowed to have ladies for example, the ladies in there today tonight, they if there was an area in the back that can sit in the back section without any veil. There was no harm, if that permitted it in this room. So this is allowed but you are not allowed to sit close to them side by side or so close that they can exchange the vision to each other.

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As one sister in university has done this, and then she gets to me, but how are we going to find our boyfriend's

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regime, this assistant in university

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a university student other words

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25 female nurses and female doctors mingling with non related men, even if those men are also nurses and doctors. Just because you're a doctor or nurse or scientists

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doesn't mean that you are allowed to mingle with the other party. It is not allowed. Is that excuse Yeah, you got no excuse. No matter what you are, how you are, what occupation you do. You are not allowed to mingle with the other six under any circumstance there is no allowance here. There is no allowance on this that which Islam allowed.

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The male doctor in a line with the female nurse or female doctor not allowed, not allowed.

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The woman uncovering herself or a male doctor without any need or necessity or while there is a female doctor available.

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Many of us go to doctors positions we may need to go to see some kind of treatment for our sickness. However, we do not go to the female doctors if it's a male person and

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There is no male doctors, likewise, your wife or the female does not go away to a male doctor, unless there's a real need for that. And if she goes, she must have Muharram with her. If there's no maharam, she's not allowed to go.

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So if she goes to the male doctor, and there is no female doctors except him to treat her with that disease or sickness, she is allowed to go there. She has to have a walk around with her. And when she goes there, she does not uncover except that which she needs to uncover. For example, when she's in the room with the doctor, and her maharam, she's okay has it taken off. Now he's a doctor No, doesn't work like that. She's been allowed to do that. He is allowed and only allowed to say that, which he needs to. There was a situation that was taken that happened not long ago, a elderly lady, she has the cob on

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and she had an infection. So she went to the doctor, she asked me if I wanted to do this. Before she went to a doctor, I said, Of course you can get a doctor, there's no one else but him. She was it was necessary. And there was no female doctors at that time. And she was really in need to go to this person. So she went there. And pious lady, we think of a best, the doctor said, Okay, then can you show me can you take the hijab off? She goes, No, I wanted the hijab off, I don't have a problem with my face on my head is my eat.

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She She unveiled her he got he get, he can see what the problem is. And only here.

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He responded, that's all he needs to say.

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So you only limit it to that which is necessity, pleasure and beldi. And he treated him

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the dress off and this and that.

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And

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you know, my father.

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But ladies, many ladies, Dan Kay.

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Women and men mingling freely at parties and on other special occasions. And this happens just about every single day, where many people mingle, whether it's at home, whether it's in parties, whether it's out in the in the park, and even subpanel law, we see this a monster university students a game where they have excursions to certain parks, and they meet voila, he they mix. And I think there was a recent excursion in Sydney University, where the Muslim organization they

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organize some kind of barbecue or whatever, they went to a park. And they were mixing as they were brothers and sisters related. Related, brothers and sisters, talking to each other exchanging thoughts to school, what they're going to do in Islamic sort of an Islamic perspective in their university, this is not allowed in his panelo. Why are we doing these things? What is happening to us as people?

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We're in a stem does this allow us? Why have we changed?

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Why are we so deficient? Why are we so weak? Why are we allowing this to be? Why is not allowed? islamically? Have we reached that state of weakness? Yes, we have. Yes, we have. Because you get to the person's house. And you see the mixing

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of relatives together. And you'll see what I'm talking about the mixing where the two couches, for example, our families, their families, their his wife is with this person, the husband talking to each other, joking and laughing as though there is no

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brothers sisters, be Muslims, you will be asked about every movement that you make every movement.

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There are many more, we'll be taking Charles maybe five or six left. That will that look that look important.

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I would advise every brother and sister to get this book in sha Allah tala, which is called the mingling between men and women is prohibited. It's in the bookstore. But we'll probably have to order a couple more boxes.

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But it is a very, very, very important book

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mingling of women with men at medical laboratories and clinics with the claim that this is necessary for work understood, mingling of women with men at amusement centers and recreational areas with the claim that it is a

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Family Day around mingling of women with men, restaurants and cafeterias with the claim that they are in the family section. haraam mingling of women with men or women being alone with male store attendants and shopkeepers harangue me mingling of women with men in shopping centers, malls market, etc. haraam, the woman traveling alone by car plane bustle. Other than that without a micrometer haraam woman allowing male photographers to take their pictures around mingling of women with men on innovative special occasions such as the Prophet's birthday salon, the nada withdraw, and other innovated

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religious festivities haraam as you can see, there are many haraam and these any basically a minute part of it at the end of the day, what is allowed very basically, basically it is very simple to understand that you are believing male You are not allowed to you to allow your wife, your daughter, your sister, your mother to be in the presence of a man only only when she needs to when there's a necessity for it. And that is the only time she is allowed.

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is a pizza delivery man allowed to deliver food to a place that he knows is used for how long example a beautiful Oh a club

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that's a good question.

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Absolutely haraam question.

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Sorry I'm on not only is he not allowed to get to a brothel sorry.

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But he's not even allowed to go to a house where he believes he knows any lady there. She can't even exchange a pizza on the door between you and a lady when there's no one there to house but but her This is not allowed.

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So understand the situation very carefully. You are not allowed to be in the presence of any lady on her own.

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it's the pizza plus

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in good places.

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