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The Etiquettes Of Hijab 2

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Feiz Mohammad

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In the hamdulillah motto wanna start you know who wanna stop Pharaoh?

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When I want to be like him in Cerulean fusina was a yachtie Medina, Mejia de la hufa mo de la la. Mama usually the other

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one in La la hora de la sharika. Why shadow? Mohammed Abu hora solo?

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wahala kamin has OSHA

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in Houma, Louisiana Kathy manisa what taco la la de de una de Waal or ham in Allah. How can I Li Kumar Akiva?

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Yeah, yo la de la mano Taku la Haku sadita useless coma Malecon young fella cuando no back home. Woman

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Rasulullah Hakata falls on Adina

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in a hierarchal Amica Rama la he azzawajal What have you Mohammed in sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was shuttered Amorim data to wakulla data to

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walk on collaborating dolla, dolla dolla latifi. Now,

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Satan, he may use the criminal law,

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penetrates,

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penetrates the soul of a human being

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through to two major entries

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juby asleep

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and desire.

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The motives

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behind any person's disobedience

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do not deviate from one of these terms

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which seriously hinder,

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prevent, stop

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the believer from performing acts that the almighty law this plays with

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there are many replies.

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When you ask

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our beloved sisters in Islam

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the female servants of the Almighty Lord

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about the reason why they do not cover their modesty

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many replies Do you hear

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the first duplicity we can say or reply is

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faith is in the heart.

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Faith is in the heart.

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Among the most common replies that you receive.

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From our sisters uncovered sisters, when you ask them about the reason why they do not pertain the commitment to where the jab is, fe is in the heart.

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restricting faith to the heart will not commit a believer to paradise. No, we would save him from eternal damnation.

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The scholars of Islam

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have the find faith

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as

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the belief in the heart. This is the mean of faith brothers and sisters. This is the meaning of faith.

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It is the belief in the heart, the speech that the tongue utters and first the acts that conform to its pillars. If these three are not met, then your testimony to sane faith is in the heart is invalid. nullified. Useless. It's free Villa tea, you are wasting your time.

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These three must be met for your faith to be accepted. They believe in the heart, the speech on the tongue and the acts that conform to its pillars.

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Contemplate

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you read the Quran.

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You see the Sunnah. You read the Sunnah you implement in sha Allah the Sunnah

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In the Quran, the glorious word of the Almighty Lord, whenever you say faith, what is the followed by?

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Word

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and action?

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alladhina amanu.

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Song

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it does not say alladhina Amma no and stop period. No.

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It says that those who believe believe in what they believe in Allah, Allah, Allah.

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Allah, what else do we have to do for our faith to be accepted?

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I let one Latina

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when they believe, in order that your belief is accepted is genuine, it's authentic, and they performed righteousness.

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Let us consider this situation.

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You work as a bricklayer,

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your boss comes to you

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and requested

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a special task, you know, maybe to put a special an extra pillar for extra support.

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The day goes past. He comes the next day.

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He comes the next day

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in special work

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with the pillow.

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I can't see anything.

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He looks at you. He's about to question you.

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You say to him immediately, I can believe me believe. I believe in what you said yes, you say to him, I am convinced deep in my heart that what you requested of me is true to you.

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But

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I don't want to do it.

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For you.

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He believes

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Oh, he said I believe he's convinced that I want to do it.

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Imagine yourself in such a situation of your boss. The awkwardness, the embarrassment, and ultimately the punishment that will be inflicted upon you by your boss.

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Put your toes down and get lost to say.

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Why? Because you're not fulfilling though the desire to work.

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Is you going to be happy with you? Absolutely.

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This, then

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think that you will be before the hands of the Almighty

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God Beloved, you will be for the hands of the one that created the very hands the magnificent, perfect, excellent hands of Allah on the Day of Resurrection.

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Without anything no anybody to fend for you except the deeds. What are you gonna say then?

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Allah pester you come to the land the first pillar, the testimony is performed.

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Open the page. Where's the where's the fasting? Where's the pilgrimage? Where's the

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where's the prohibitionist?

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Where's the other commandments? Where Where were you gonna say? Oh, I believe? And I'm convinced that what you said is correct.

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Is that what you're gonna say?

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Is that what you can say on that day?

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Faith is in the heart.

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I believe I'm a good person, I smoke.

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Still, I drink and slander. But I don't want to pray. I don't want to do this. I don't wanna do that. I don't wanna wear hijab.

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I'm got a good heart.

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Imagine yourself in such a situation on the day of retribution on the Day of Judgment.

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Brothers and sisters, fulfill the commandments of the Almighty Lord. The lady is not just to say I believe

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if you really believe you will apply and that which you believe otherwise you are lying to yourself. It's a false accusation.

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Belief can only be believed.

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When you show evidence, physical evidence to that which you believe.

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This is the belief.

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This is Amanda most common replies that we hear from our beloved sisters. Allah guide us and guide them to that which you

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Another reply

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that we hear when you asked

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our beloved sisters, why do you uncover

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why the sister

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should reply?

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What is wrong?

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She'll reply

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I would love to

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I would love to put the last and guided me yet

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please do the hat for me that Allah guides be pleased at the at the de

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la de la Dini

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Alaska.

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Alaska Did you this sister,

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Anna soprano line is a Shea, who mentioned the beautiful example of this type of guidance.

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He said this guidance is similar to a person who's seeking an address. He's looking for an address,

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but does not know where he's going.

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So in order to find his destination, he goes to him a traffic warden

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to get the right directions to go

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to his right address.

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After he received the right directions from the traffic warden, the man faces two choices. How many two choices he either believes in this Warden and first moves in accordance

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to what he received from the traffic warden.

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Consequently, if he does this, the farther he goes, the more guided he is.

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And the closer he is to his destination. Logical, common sense reasoning. If at

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all, he might say no, I don't believe in this warden. I am away with these directions

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and tests he goes opposite direction than that which he was given.

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Consequently,

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the farther he goes, the more misguided he will be, the more lost he will be and the further away you will be from his destination.

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The Beloved,

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what have we got?

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What have we got before our very hands?

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What do you read every morning and every night before you go to sleep?

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What do you read every morning every night? The glorious word of the Almighty law. The criteria between success and failure. The book that the almighty Lord bestowed upon you is the guidance.

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does not say in the Quran cover yourself.

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If you are a believer, cover yourself, is it not a legislation

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is another commandment.

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There is guidance for everyone who wants this guidance. It is up to you, our Muslim, male or female. The more you add depth is guidance. The more you are towards paradise and salvation, the more you distance yourself from this beautiful book, the more distance you are from Paradise. And the closer you are to

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the goddesses there.

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It's up to you.

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Today not say I'm not guided.

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Every single person

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was created like this with an innate an inclination to faith, knowing that Allah to Allah is his Lord, knowing what Allah loves and what Allah is pleased with. It is up to you to say I am guided but I don't want to be guided

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by being misguided D data, only Edina.

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Allah has shown you the guidance you accepted now it's up to you to accept or reject

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Another common reply

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that we hear from our beloved sisters, when you ask them about the reason for the non commitment to hijab

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is I'm not convinced when I am convinced that a hijab is a good reason behind it. I shall wear it they see.

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You are not convinced to what you want to put the reason for.

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What do you think this is the word of man the command of man

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This is the word of the Almighty mom telling you this is not your father or mother or your uncle, your auntie, or your grandpa or grandma. This is the word of Allah. He is the commander in this wear the hijab, you are not convinced, and when you are convinced you wear it

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as many to give me an honest one of the greatest imams in Islam said

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the word of man can be accepted and rejected. The word of man can be accepted or rejected except the word of her of Mohammed. Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Why? Because his word is divine. It's not his word. It's a divine command, or they buy a lot.

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So the word of man, you can claim non conviction, you can say I'm not convinced not a problem. The word event is deficient, it can be wrong, it could be right. You don't agree to it, not a problem. But when the word of Allah or the blank command or they might the almighty Lord, I'm afraid the Quran or the Sunnah. No one has a place.

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No one's allowed to declare non conviction, you are not allowed to say I am not convinced. You have no right to say I'm not convinced.

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Lie is a very serious, dangerous statement. That can lead you throw you out of the fold of Islam.

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As I

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mentioned, as is Hawk of La Jolla mentioned as Mohammed Mohammed Mohammed mentioned as somebody who hasn't mentioned as many other previous SS righteous faces mentioned. You know, is one verse of the Quran.

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Always sound Hadith is on the brink of destruction on the edge of Islam is going to fall down to

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other said that whoever denies one howdy if that is sound, mis authenticity, or one verse is a disbeliever is the same. Other said he's a deed is questionable is he and was the one up Allahu Allah. How dare he denies not how they deny the verse or the hadith of Mohammed Salah by saying I am not convinced, what are you doing?

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Why are you not convinced?

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Gina who you're talking to him about what you're talking about?

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It is better for the sister

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who is unveiled to say, I am disobey Allah.

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I am disobey Allah jus to my irresistible desire, and my lack of faith. such statements such words are definitely more advisable, better,

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easier, whiter than declaring a non conviction.

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We as Muslims the beloved, we don't stand as a judge before the commands of Allah Allah criticizing them or correcting them.

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Meaning what am

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either coda law What a fool who? a moron, a

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woman.

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dolla dolla

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is no 50 for a believer, man or woman. When Allah Allah when I met that has been the assignment Allah and His Messenger, do you have any option about their decision

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about their decision to have any option? In other words, you have no choice. You have no choice to say except I accept your law. When it is a good reason. Whether we can understand that when there's logic behind it, common sense. It is not up to our human logic to judge the commands of Allah.

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And whosoever disobeys Allah and His Prophet, then indeed he's clearly misguided analysis.

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Instead, a true believer, a true believer, the one who loves a wow.

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Who believes in Allah who loves paradise and physical fire.

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He never put human logic above divine command. his immediate reaction when he's a command, or prohibition sanmina wattana

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is a true believer

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We we obey we seek of forgiveness elbowed

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into you is the end of our journeys. The end of our endeavors to you is

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Why? Because he knows the believer knows that in the commands of the Almighty Lord lies,

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our best interest,

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our happiness, our salvation, our joy, our beliefs, our victory,

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in this life and the hereafter,

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in this life and the hereafter, is, you know, what our Creator is in real manufacture, it is not our originator is he not our fashion designer, you see not to see

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them logically, he knows best, what is good, what is bad for us. So, whatever he tells us to do, it is good for us, it is proper for us. And this is what we should do, without question.

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Another reply,

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that you hear beloved sisters say when you ask them about the reason, they do not wear hijab is I fee will not get married.

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What did I say? I fee that I will not get married. This stems from the fee that

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no man will come and seek her hand for marriage unless they can see her hair or the shape of her body.

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You Satan.

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Allah uses this fee to stir up this obesity in the hands of the female service of the almighty lord and thus create this problem this predicament, this catastrophe, this calamity, this erroneous wickedness, because then she unveils then she unveils the beloved sisters. Even the beauty is one of the main reasons for marrying a woman it is not the only reason it is not the only reason

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Mohammed Abdullah

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Salim said clearly don't care for Morocco, the Arab araba Lee Marissa

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leading her family, her father.

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The woman is married for four reasons. Her wealth, her family, her beauty, her deep. Listen to what he says, After that, be sure I'll do your best better words, do your best to marry or to win the highest one? Why your hands be soiled with dust? In other words, may you attain salvation victory. By doing this.

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This Hadith clearly indicates clearly indicates that a woman is married

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for other reasons than just for beauty.

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Instead, today, men insist on married ladies who cover the modesty.

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The logic is that if this person carelessly and our person carelessly ignores

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the divine command of Asia, then she's likely afterwards

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to disregard other divine commands as well.

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Isn't that beautiful? What you

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need to understand is logic. In other words, if this person

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who is seeking a hand is under the old

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pay fees because of the carelessness towards

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ignoring a divine command, which is the veil, not veil, then she is likely at a later date to ignore disregard other divine commands.

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Many times and the brothers asked me phase you don't need a woman for marriage. You know what to ask. I want her to be covered, only covered if she's not covered. Don't even mention her.

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They see every right to fee

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every water fee.

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And some even go to the extent where they don't want the handkerchief veil. They want the Rubio

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not just very Oh, they they want to sort of describe the type of value they want the Islamic value, not the handkerchief traditional value. What do they want?

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Is lennoxville

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in this is the majority of righteous men today. Now do you love a sister? Do you want a hooligan for husband? Do you not want a righteous man? Well, the righteous man is that you got to ask for the lady who's covered islamically.

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So if you want to go with the righteous man as you should, just as we are advised to take a righteous lady, likewise, you're advised and commanded to take a righteous man and a righteous man will always take a lady who's covered

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modesty to the extent where men today sake the Islamic proper veil, and as soon as they hear that she's dressed islamically with the Polo bio, please let me see her.

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But when you're telling us this beautiful sister, she's a good girl, she's got a lot of potential. She's unveiled, please, please, don't get me in this problem now.

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Because they're scared. They're scared. So a system that let Satan use this fee and place it in your heart. Instead, use your ally, and will lie alone give you the best man, the righteous man, the pure man. And we all know the story of that lady that wanted a pure husband. And she married a so called pure husband when he had a bead. The story is mentioned numerous times. And when the night of the consummation he went to shave your beard off.

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Man, it's time to get lost. This is the way we want our believing

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female wives as well.

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Another common reply that we hear from our sisters, our sisters. It's is not from the sisters this time is from their parents.

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A common reply

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that a trucker says VIERA they say

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they say to you, it is not fair to prohibit this young child

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from enjoying her life. She's still young, she's 20 years old.

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She's still young, she's still in the cradle. She's still young.

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She still enjoys the beautiful hairstyles, makeup,

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dresses, the Elton's. Why do you want to restrict her for

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this is the response you get from many parents, many parents

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according to Sharia,

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when I go begins to menstruate, she is obliged. She is commanded to cover her modesty.

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We remind ourselves especially to us, our parents,

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develop of the parents will lie we bear a huge responsibility.

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We bear a huge responsibility before the almighty lord. If you've got children, to not be light, do not take it easy.

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Do not take it leniently. take it seriously. To Batticaloa look at that young girl to Batticaloa. She's vowed at the age of probably eight years old, seven years old, six years old. He's got other girls medical that four years old, they got rejected. Is that correct? and Barack Obama? What a beautiful example is what a beautiful example.

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Not to say to his daughter,

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please What do you put on

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the outside.

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He knows he's got a responsibility for a law

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fulfilled his responsibility. While they're under his care, he takes care of them Islamic Lee

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could look

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at every single one of you is a shepherd in every single Shepherd to be asked about his flock. And the hobbit mentioned that the first Shepherd in the house is whom the Father

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and on the day was erection, he'll be asked about each and every person of his flock and in his absence, who's the shepherd. The mother has added mentions the mother. When he's not their own mother, you are the shipper then you will be asked on a baby's erection while your husband was absent about agent a person of your flock.

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To be the reason

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to distance your child

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from Paradise because you will be punished for it follows

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If we want to be as good parents, if we want to be good parents, we are not allowed to pick and choose pick and choose what aspect of his town we want and throw out what we do not want. We can never enemy good parents if we are of such status. And the reason I say this is, is a story about this girl called Hina

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Hina was an attractive 15 year old with a slender, attractive figure. She used to go to the Islamic weekend classes, dressed in short dresses, short dresses, and

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skin tight sweaters. One day when she was being picked up by her mother.

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The teacher approached her mother

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and said,

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please encourage your daughter to cover herself to cover her modesty as she is causing fitness in school. Obviously, this guy's there as well. And a person were in such clothes was going to cause a problem in school.

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So unlike film, the mother goes to her daughter Hina normal short dresses in mo skintyte the sweaters you have to dress islamically scolded the mother

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in a book Tara

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What?

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Have you seen yourself?

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Have you looked at yourself in the mirror?

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I can see everything about your shape.

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Obviously all your shins and knees. You have nothing on your head angrily spoke.

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You're telling me to dress when you're out naked in the streets?

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Why do you think I dress the way I dress? You are my role model.

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And I'm dressing much you know imitating you

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double personality.

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Just command and how to do good or herself. She's doing evil.

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It's not gonna work. It's not gonna work. You are responsible for your children, you bear this burden. You bear this burden, you be the role examples, there is a genuine authentic role models that lie deceive and cheat your children be the role models.

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Another reply that we hear

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from our beloved uncovered sisters, this time

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they say

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my husband does not let me wear the hijab

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or he can means me not to wear the hijab.

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Now come which has been

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a Muslim believing Muslim which men who feel Allah will prevent his wife from being covered from loving Allah or getting closer to Allah.

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Which men would want his wife to uncover in front of other men.

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Shame on you. If you are so Shame on you.

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Well, why if this is the person who needs to be

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flooded and float,

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the basic concept we must understand the beloved

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is

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that obey Allah. Take this very, very importantly, and put it in your life. Being a law has priority over being a human being no matter who she or he may be.

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Law Attorney mahalo female CEO Tinder there was no obedience to creation if amaze disobedience to her tala, no matter if he's your father, your mother, your husband, your wife, your son, your daughter, marry him he may be who she may be. You never, ever disobey Allah to obey a creature.

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In fact,

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disobeying a human being, no matter who may be in order to obey Allah is a great reward. A great reward will lie you will be permitted for it.

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Unfortunately, today, shamelessness immorality. immodesty are extremely rife.

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You know, to see one's daughter, wife, mother or sister without a job is something small

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It's a small matter not a problem. Easy the land of modesty does not boil in our bodies it should be. You may see your wife talking to another man

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and you don't care less.

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You see another man saying your wife

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as

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you see another man look at the shoes of your wife You don't care what

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that other person

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cuz you need to revive and revitalize your deen. Sit down and we learn your deen. Sit down and we learn

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the system

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in the days of the companions, or should say the brother and names of the companions, their modesty was

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so strong that one of the companions On his return home one day he noticed he noticed his wife unavowed, in the middle of the threshold, the middle of the door. Upon seen her on bail, he lost his temper and other powered by his sense of

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he aimed his feet he ended

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with the intention to harm his wife. But she called out there's a snake in the house, the snake in the house. He did not fulfill or execute resignation.

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Know what are you doing what's going on straightaway? And before you could shoot that speed, wait, there's a snake in the house. Please, do not shoot.

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deeply moved by immodesty. I'm not saying you guys do the same thing.

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You know, I'll be locked up tomorrow. I'm phoning.

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I'm not saying this. And I will never say this.

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And people can misconstrued words today. I am not saying this I am showing you or giving you an example. This is an authentic narration

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and authentic narration

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of a man has been deeply moved by modesty. And thus he almost done something dreadful.

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We say to your sister's

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Paradise is expensive. And like everything expensive. What do you learn? You gotta work hard. So if your husband or your mother or your father can manage you to unveil, do not listen to them.

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You are not allowed to listen to them. You must disobey them.

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And just know one thing.

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Hadith in Abu Musa attend Moses

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with authentic transmission.

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Hannah salaallah alayhi wa sallam says something beautiful to all of us. Who ever seeks the pleasure of Allah for the wrath of the people alone, we hope him or her against the people. In other words, if you seek the obedience of Allah, despite the people being angry with you, I love to help you our service I'm a lot and not up people against those evil wicked people.

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Then you say is the next phrase, but to me, this takes the pleasure of the people through or through the role of Allah, Allah, Allah will leave you all sinful servant to the people

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choice.

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And I asked the sister if she

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is not allowed to wear the hijab because of a husband. And he proves this that to seek an arbitration because this man does not deserve you. This man does not deserve you. You deserve a better person than him. And you are allowed you to go and talk to an arbitrator and thus arbitrate between the two of you.

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We don't know when we're going to die, you don't know when you're going to die. The system is no expire with that on your body. You don't see the back of your shoulder and it says expiry down to date, June 16 2030. For example, we don't know when we're gonna die. Is it after a month? Is that after a week? Is it after a day? Is it after an hour or second? No one can guarantee you that you're going to leave for a few additional seconds. No one can guarantee you and we'll end this talk this beautiful story. Some of you have already heard it, but inshallah be patient with us the story of Adam and

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because many sisters say when we asked him about the reason why that was

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He shared, they said we're too young. And he when they say they're too young, they mean that they're still around between the ages of 15 to 25.

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Listen to this Hadith, or this incident that part of

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a man by the name of Ahmed relates, he said, were three companions. Three companions are common denominators was impetuousness and vanity.

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Were three human companions human. But Satan was our fourth.

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Our pastime was spent

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in picking up gullible goals, by sweet talking them and taking them to isolated farms, where they saw who we really

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human wolves have no hearts or feelings.

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Who did not he did a tease in the begging.

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This is the way we spent their life Mohammed said, girls, Camp speeches, farms cause the works. And to that unforgettable day

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as normal, he said, we're at the farm, isolated, everything was prepared for us.

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I pray for each one of us. In other words that go for each one of us that damn drink, and the nice atmosphere.

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The only thing that we forgot, he said was the food. So after a couple of hours, one of us decided to go and buy the food. But when four hours had passed, and he did not return, I began to worry. So I jumped in his car as he says,

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and he went searching for his brother.

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As he was driving, he noticed a car involved in an accident tip on its side and flames with shooting above the car.

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As he got near the car, he discovers that it's

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the cause of his brother.

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So he immediately parked the car and ran in order to save his brother from the burning flames. But when he got to the car, he found his brother

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to half his body has Chad, come back, while still alive.

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So he pulled his brother out of the car, and places him on the side of the road.

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And within minutes, his brother opens his eyes and cries out the fire the fire,

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started talking to him to soothe him, and promised him that he will get into the nearest hospital as fast as possible.

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But his brother said with a weak crying voice, it is no use. I will never make it to his blood, his vision.

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His vision, witnessing his brother dying before his very hands. Then suddenly

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he cries out

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what shall I say to him?

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He's

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What shall I say to him? His brother cries out what shall I say to him?

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Um, it says, What do you say to him?

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What shall I say to?

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What shall I say to

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the EverLiving? There the existing the everlasting?

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The one who is so that we did

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all that we said

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all that we did.

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And the one who would judge all that we did me and you you're mad, what shall I say to Allah?

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Now he's scared.

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He knows he's gonna die.

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So we can say what can I say? What shall I say?

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It's too late to say anything now. He's on his deathbed.

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Why he did.

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It's too late. His account is accounted for his judge. Panic struck his hand.

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And then suddenly Alon Shri came out from him. He's his brother.

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And he died.

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He said this picture I haven't seen never left my mind. Until one night I was sleeping.

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Thinking about

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The incident and how my brother died in my hands before my very eyes.

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Then all of a sudden I heard of them commencing for pleasure. Allahu Akbar.

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Allahu Akbar.

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Ahmed broke down. And T's on chip came running down his face. He could not bear the sound. He loves the sound.

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And then when the announcer proclaimed

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Good work, come here.

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It was. The proclaimer was speaking to no other than me.

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commanding me to abandon my evil ways and open the door of salvation.

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It was as though the proclaimer was commanding me to close the curtain of darkness and open the curtain of light to close the curtain of evilness wickedness, mysterious this and open the curtain of righteousness, to close the curtain of destruction, and open the curtain of salvation. To close the curtain on Hellfire and open the curtain on paradise.

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To close the curtain against the

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ugly deceiving

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speech rejected wire

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and open the curtain to the Most Gracious most

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acceptable repentance is banner unbelievers always repent to take steps to repentance, despair, not all believers

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and even the curtains Allah and Monica dos

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As salam, O

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Allah, Mohammed Allah has

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worked

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and thus

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should be offset

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100

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got up, then we'll do raises arms and saw repentance and from that day, he became a believer.

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We asked the almighty Lord, first and foremost for our beloved uncovered sisters in Islam. Be patient, be patient, be patient for death is awaiting you. And paradise awaits us all. We ask. And we pray to our sisters who are covered, might Allah bless you and keep you strong and patient against all evil. And we are so beloved by others to be strong, and to be wise and to be fair and just against their female relatives, and to love Allah. For indeed, he's the only one who's truly should be left. I call him with his phone for the 100