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The speakers discuss the importance of practicing Islam, forgiveness, and finding the right book for one's clothing. They emphasize the need for acceptance and love in public, and the importance of shaping culture for women. They also touch on the negative impact of "harn't be around" movement on women, particularly women who wear black clothing, and the importance of women being seen as manipulated and manipulated in a way that is seen as oppressed and manipulated.AI Generated Transcript ©
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The beloved brothers, feed the almighty Lord, the beloved sisters, feed the almighty lord
and be conscious of his watching.
Be conscious of his watching. today.
There is no reckoning, no retribution.
There is no judgment,
no accountability.
But there is
a chance for you all
to perform as many good deeds as possible
to perform as many good deeds as possible. But this indeed will come to an end.
Tomorrow
it will come to an end and tomorrow
there will be judgment
there will be retribution.
There will be a reckoning and accountability.
But there will be no more chance to perform any good deeds.
But man
continues to play,
to waste time to live in jest and mockery
until the inevitable befalls him until death befalls him and then and only then he wakes up from his deep sleep
the beloved
Soon your soul will reach your fruit.
Your soul will reach your fruit and your legs will become twisted around each other.
And then
you show the path from your mother and your father, your brother and your sister, your son and your daughter, your uncle and your auntie, your husband, your wife, your relatives, your cousins, your friends, your loved ones. They show wash you shroud you pray, funeral, pray over you, and then carry you on their shoulders
into that hole
and leave you all alone in that ground. Nothing but the darkness of the grave.
We shall await the three most important questions you shall ever be asked.
And first your destination will be.
Do not take the matters of the dean lightly.
did not take Islam lightly.
It is heavy. It is important. Do not abandon Pres. Slave beyond its stated time, divided beyond his stated time.
Do not be heedless of the hereafter.
Do not disobey your parents do not spread rumors, fairy tales lies backbiting did not cause defamation.
Therein lies about your brothers and sisters, defaming them, oppressing them hurting them.
Today you've got a chance to work.
But it is only today.
And then tomorrow you will have no chance to work
in the glorious book of the Almighty Lord.
Allah Allah clearly states
that men and women who practice their principles of Islam
men and women will receive equal reward
will receive equal reward not because you are a man you're more superior than a lady
not because your lady you're more superior than a man No.
You both practice the study of Allah tala and you will both receive reward accordingly.
Let us listen to what the almighty Lord says and sorted them for dunya Mustafa
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Muslims, men and women, that believers men and women,
men and women who are obedient to Allah,
men and women who are truthful. Men and women who are
patient, men and women who are humble men and women who give sadaqa men and women who fast men and women who preserve who God that chestatee men and women who remember Allah to Allah much both by ton and by heart. Indeed, we have prepared for those two men and women
forgiveness and a great reward.
As you can see men and a woman in every aspect, and he says the almighty Lord for the
men, Amina saw me
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and whosoever performs righteousness, whether men were the man or woman,
whoa, he or she is a true believer,
then we indeed shall give them a good life in this world, and we shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion in accordance to that which they used to do.
And you can say the almighty Lord, He
did not say that a man is better than a lady. Nor did he say that a woman is better than a man.
And the acts of worship
is as important for women as for men,
and there is no differentiation and reward.
The rise for example, to learn to seek knowledge to become a learned person.
It is as important for a woman as for men, as mentioned in a narration collected by albino hockey or Camelot, Allah, seeking knowledge is mandatory, is compulsory upon every single Muslim men or woman.
Likewise, in Islam, you get many critics out there. Let's say a lady is forced into marriage.
They say that as Muslims, force, our woman, our daughters, our responsibility into marrying someone she does not want at third ludicrous, maybe they do but we do not.
Maybe they do, but we do not. Islam disallows this
Islam does not allow a marriage contract to bind to be accepted, while that poor servant, female servant rejects this person without her consent, there is no marriage or concept contract binding place sisters, we are listening to a lesson.
So let us inshallah listen if you do not want to listen, do not be here.
So as you can see, there a way to not get forced, or no do we force any woman to be a partner or a spouse or a
wife to any men.
And there's a narration to confirm this.
In IGNOU handbells collection from Abdullah bass, a girl
came to Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and reported to him that she was forced into marrying someone.
So when he heard this,
he said to her, you have a choice, either to accept this marriage, or to invalidate to nullify this marriage.
Another narration is mentioned.
She said, I actually accepted the marriage, but I wanted to let the other woman know that
your parents are unable to force you into marriage.
So we are not
a people who force any female into a marriage she does not want. Even if she is forced, she is allowed to break that marriage.
Likewise, in Islam,
a lady
has a right to her money, her real estate inheritance her properties.
She retains the full rights to buy sell any or all of her properties.
And this right undergoes no change with it.
She's single, she's married.
And if she's single, and she's got these four these assets, and then she gets married, it does not transfer to a husband at all.
None of that money
is allowed for her husband to come and snatch to take. It retains her belonging. It is hers and not his. He is not allowed to touch that money unless she really gives him that money.
As her maiden name remains the same, her money remains hers. Likewise, her wealth.
She's not obliged under any circumstance unless she willingly again accepts to support her family, to provide food, drink, rent, paying the bills, whether it's a telephone bill, electricity bill, or any other bill.
The man is fully under obligation to pay all this and not her, she may have a million dollars tucked away, and you might have $1,000 is to his obligation, not hers. You get many people to today that when they see their wives got a lot of money. And they they've got enough to pay, but they know that the wife got more than them, to try to manipulate his wife. The bill came today beyond that's a phenomenal bill. It's beyond recognition is too much for me to burn,
the rents coming up and he mentions this in that and he makes a mountain of reasons in order for her to feel sorry for him.
Now, you are not allowed to manipulate your wife in any way in order to take her wealth. Now she gives it to him to you with only a layer of elevated fear.
Not a problem, but do not try to steal it or manipulate her in order to give her to give it to you. And you'll be judged.
Nowhere in Islam, does it suggest that a woman is a minor simply because she's a female. Now we're in Islam.
So those that claim that we are oppresses abuses, accusers, suppresses, they are false. And women are more liberated than them any day. more rights than they have any day. We love and respect that woman and Islamic person says more than they will ever will.
In Islam, we understand something very important that the best of us is not the best among men. The most pious of us.
She or he is the best of us.
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oh man client, indeed we have created you from a menu and a female. And we have made you into tribes and clans wine in order that you get to know one another. And the the most honorable, the best of you.
In the sight of the Almighty Lord
is the one that has more taqwa, more tacos, and data lays all wise all the way.
You can see the best of us who is the best of us, the one that has more. She could be a lady he could be in.
So what we should reflect upon
is to achieve the best of
the sister, the mother, the daughter.
We call you a red rose of Islam.
You are not only liberated, respected, dignified in Islam, but you are also a great member. Amen.
of the great Nation of Islam, the greatest nation produced for mankind. No other nation produced woman, like the Nation of Islam, and they should have guidance,
leading humanity to righteousness and truth, transforming men from the worship of slaves to the worship of the lord of slaves, your ancestors, the female companions
rhodiola dalla Han, great woman of Islam.
Now one of the main reasons what is great nation
to find its great place someone or nations
that were the counterparts of their men, courageous, strong, fought for, and they were willing to sacrifice anything and everything in the path of truth.
These selfless, noble female creatures
were found on the battlefields
not on the back of the battle, not in the middle,
in the four most racks of the battle
in the four most racks, and there are many examples of such Zoo and determination in the Battle of offered,
when only a few devoted fighters remained, because it was getting too critical, too scary to theists. So a lot of companions withdrew from the field.
And a few remained in the intense fighting a lady, a female companion by the name of Omar Amara
law.
She's shielded Mohammed Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Nova, Nova Saud but with her flesh.
It's the lady female companion.
She shielded her beloved teacher.
So he was alone with her flesh and warded off the enemy with her sword. I mean, maybe we can not even carry that sword today. She held us from the end, Ward them off kept him away from
a lot. Just a female companion, a female we call them inferior.
They put us to shame. Well, why they put us to shame today if you listen to the history of those female companions in the battle against will say number two combat.
She fought so courageously
that she lost an arm and suffered more than a dozen words to the body as female
include many many of the enemies
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Sofia a smile, Isha and Hakeem Hakim hand will lie all this believe extraordinary fella.
When they accompanied Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his military expeditions. Many of them female companions were memorizing the Quran. How many of the women how much have we memorized? We think we're big shots when you memorize half of
15 sword and it's about two verses on a 16 sword in a charter sort of,
you know, be boastful about the silhouette.
Many of the female companions not memorize any designer, they memorize the whole
hopsital been to Rama Karim oma Salama, O'Meara calm we Sham hen been to say it and many more female companions memorized the whole group.
As far as Isha and onsala. They were exceptional masters
of interpretation and commentary of the Quran in Islamic jurisprudence is vertix. Her vertix vertex could fill several volumes. And she was so well versed in the Islamic inheritance that the most renowned and respected companions,
male companions will come and ask her and consult her and seek advice and counsel
in the finer points of Sharia.
In the finer points, she wasn't a male. She was a female
I love that courageous, thoughtful, strong lady, obviously.
I example,
from the time she lived to the last second of this earth, and there are many examples of many female Muslims past and present, their fulfill their obligations towards the law. And then when you see some girls today, our girls, our daughters, you see on the wall when you go to their homes, actresses and athletes,
actresses and athletes, who are nothing but dragos in reality,
and they're on their wall pinned on their wall.
sisters, brothers, let your daughter let your wife let your mother or your sister peanut paste is not on the wall on their hearts of our Isha abama Mara of Sofia.
Salama O'Meara kinda likes on the hearts, meaning their lives, be their role models that are penetrate with their souls and be engraved on their souls.
This is the way we should be teaching our sisters
stories of such people a lot. They're not males to females.
out there again, there are the critics.
There are people
who claim who say
he's fabricate that I Muslim woman is the generated,
disparage disparaged,
is abused and accused, oppressed and suppressed is looked down at downtrodden is even considered by the Muslim man as an evil person out of it.
A woman has received so much attention in Islam, that the almighty Lord revealed our whole surah in the glorious word of his called Surah Nisa are not seen anywhere else.
There's no sort of a shell in the Quran. But the scrutiny said
the chapter of woman specifically relating to her law, her rights, her principles. In Islam, a woman is a mother, a daughter, a wife, a sister, that has rights to take, and Judy's deserve. This is why Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ordered the the nation of his to take extreme good care of women and to respect her highly. I don't see anywhere wastage to man respect the man. But we spent the woman and take good care of why
because she is the source of happiness for her husband.
And she is a soft, tender loving mother to her children.
This is the reason why the almighty Lord ordered her not out of oppression
backed out of protection and safety ordered her
to cover herself
and thus remain as much as possible in her house. As he says what corner Phoebe oticon while at about Regina terbaru jLj Lee Lola and remain in your homes, your protected places, your safeguarded prices, your security, and do not display yourself like that of the times of Jay Haley of ignorance. What does that mean? It means do not display your charm, do not
display your body features. Do not move your body or walk in a show off way. Do not talk in a soft way in order to entice or tempt men
to borrow which means every form of beautification displayed by a woman in order to look good to strangers, other than her had him in other words, to look good to other than her hearing. That is
the question he comes
if she wants to leave her house can she leave her
house, she can't leave her house.
But how should she leave the house? You know, look, Darla is older than us he, the female servant to be he's to remain indoors.
And if you leave, do not display yourself like that of the times of ignorance.
So what should you do?
You know, when we wake up in the morning today, what do we do
when one of us wakes up male or female,
but females are known that they you know, if you want to go somewhere, you at least tell them half an hour before you go at least half an hour. because they'd half an hour to get dressed, if not more, and then a half an hour one door talking. So make sure you tell them half an hour an hour before this needs to be done. This is the exiting of the home.
So as soon as we wake up today, what do we do?
What's the first thing we do? Generally before the cup of coffee before watching reading the newspaper or watching the six o'clock news? What do we do? We go to the cupboard, and sometimes take as long as one hour to decide what are we going to wear today?
What are we going to wear today? You start scratching your head? Then why are you gonna wear you look, you look you'll make it easy for yourself. One day, for example, for the men and have one of the ladies you can never you can never go wrong.
But when we open the cupboard, you think of your employer, what is he gonna say? What is she gonna say? How is he gonna react to she gonna react if we want this. You think of your friends, your colleagues, you think of your mother and your father, if you got this you think of that.
You think of everyone in the face of this earth but he or she will react to if we will this upaya but getting the greatest authority
forgetting the greatest authority, the Almighty all away or seeing or hearing or knowing
before we decide what we're going to
stop I big red sign stop.
Look at the sign and say what pleases the master of masters the judges judges the Lord of lords the King of kings are fascinated designer our originator our Creator
what pleases Him
Noah please don't point out to our colleague a friend what pleases him the almighty Lord
so you
get a big sign on the inside of the door what pleases you Oh Lord
that way you have no confusion of thinking of this and that
you got only one the almighty law before your very eyes and no one else
next time we go shopping for example, again the same issue again do we gotta say his work?
Do we got a stake in what we'll get the latest fashion designs or designers of the famous fashion books? Do you get a clear Oh, all the TV day or whatever other garbage do is out there?
Or do we go to the most pure authentic genuine book on the face of this earth?
We open this book we sit down with sincerity with acceptance with love devotion, motivation, dedication to know about what is in this book. And you know Allah tala communicate your attire, what you should be wearing.
And then you grass, clean, for love and acceptance because you are a believer. This is not a normal book. It's not any book here. It's the word of Allah Allah. Allah Allah has actually given you the criteria between write and run your answers. This is the answers he didn't get to look for the answer but you were the answer is he for you.
So you open this book, with full sincerity or full love and acceptance and see what Allah Allah has to say about what you should wear.
Beloved,
what you wear speaks volumes about yourself. speaks volumes about yourself. This is why a complete stranger can surmise. your age, your gender, your ethnicity, your vocation, education, economical status, even your character and personality based on what you wear.
You know if you got a new temple exam
When you see those punks
you know who he is what he is immediately. It's not our business but I'm just letting you know an example. When you see him, you know who he is what he is what his life is all about.
And then when you see for example, a person to medical Latakia have a have a beautiful bead, a lady next to you.
both eyes down, not gazing left, right, whatever.
You can tell immediately who these people are.
So when you walk out of that door in the morning, or any afternoon, anytime
you want people to see that you're a peaceful, affectionate, loving, caring Muslim, peaceful Muslim, because Muslims are not terrorists. They're not terrorists. So apparently, it reminds me of a sister saying that, she said,
when I leave my home, she's fully evolved with the correct veil.
I get all these strange looks glasses and stares. I often wonder to myself
if people are looking at me as if I'm a radical fanatical fundamentalist muslim terrorist, packing an ak 47 assault rifle in what
this is statement.
So get all these strange looks all these glances.
Because I wear a hijab, she said,
I think that covers my head, chest and neck.
And I do it because I'm a Muslim. And she says, because I'm a Muslim. And obviously she's a Muslim. She's abided by what he has to abide by the criteria which is in the Quran.
And I do it because I love Allah.
Because I love Allah. And he will protect me wherever I go, this assignment to panelo will realize and trust
was the ability in firmness and steadfastness
and he will protect me wherever I go. Meaning even today for me, it's gonna happen regardless. But he's my security. He's my buddy God. In other words, he takes care of me no one else. They're gonna laugh Bob just Who cares?
I have to wear this because Allah loves it and I love Allah. And
then she says, to continues the extra paragraph she says,
and I believe this is my body.
This is my body, my own private business. And then she says they said keep your lustful eyes away from me. Because she's wearing the hijab for what reason?
For what reason? Not for stays in Westland adoration. Now she wears, it says you've been telling you are male.
I am a covered person for a reason. So use it not look at me. I belong to one and not only one to my husband, and no one else. What beauty is for him and no one else.
You can say this obedient servant. He is Pamela you don't want to meet her in a dark alley, would you? First of all better, better color. Like if there were sisters like that, you know, for the husbands are lawful and male lock
your own ones you have a model to better kalon Sophia and her likes. And then many out there will lay there are many out there
is believing sermons. The Almighty law did not discard hijab simply on the fee that
she will stand out in the crowd, because she knows that she's supposed to look different from the non Muslims and she knows their type of fashion. The non Muslims is not to cover as much as possible but to uncover as much as possible. She also seeks refuge in Allah to Allah,
from those female modern Muslims, or repeat female, modern Muslims, who have belittled the orders of Allah to Allah by insinuating hijab mean, they say,
to be a businesswoman today, and to be yourself and to be sorry, and to be a businesswoman today, or a teacher or a professor
in this computerized high tech world.
You must remove the hijab so your intellect can burst through.
explode in other words,
folk and explode. That's his best statements. That is this statements for life.
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Allah you feel sorry for these people nothing but poor, innocent, feeble, ignorant minded souls that need to sit down, sit down and rely on Islam
and then grasp it.
Why should
Marla forgive us and forgive them while I have guidance on us and guide them.
But this is the work of no other than the loyalist of Satan.
This is the work of the loyalist of Satan,
who wants to lead her astray and lead you astray
by inducing into her sweet Islamic fresh blood that she in hijab is captivated claustrophobic, it's too tight, too restrictive. You are living in a 21st century.
Not in the 14th century, that was then not now. We are in a world of technology they say
computerized high tech world.
Obviously they in a world where the devil has captivated them
and manipulated them, and they have accepted him.
I laid it in Asia, the beloved
is not captivation it is no other than liberation from what from the shackles of male scrutiny from the shackles of male scrutiny of the chains of man with scrutiny on captivation of male scrutiny. That is why hijab is
the beauty that Allah Allah gave you I believe in serving the almighty lord
is not meant to be shown to the entire world.
You do not need your beauty your charms
to gain recognition or acceptance in society or to raise your self esteem.
You are in Islam or Muslims believe in servant like a precious jewel, immune, immune immune from being portrayed as a sex symbol and lusted after.
So be deceived, not from the media, TV, deceiving magazines, jewelry stores and the likes.
But when in lead hand,
despite all the incessant propaganda about the woman oppression, by Islam,
more Western woman today, when he laid hand, more Western woman today are interviewing Islam more than ever.
And they have come
for their personal experience and observation that there
is indeed a true liberation.
for all humanity that brings peace to the mind, contentment to the heart and dignity Most importantly, dignity to life. These ladies have come to the realization that a lady that wears hijab is in fact and listen to this carefully, is in fact and she is indeed making an identity, making a statement about the way she looks about the way she looks, that she's an obedient servant of Allah with good moral character, modest Chase, a Pew a woman who does not want his sexuality in any way, in any way to enter into interactions with men, not even in the smallest degree.
They have come to the realization that our lady exits in her home exits as a self confident part of the human race, not as a fashion plate, seeking whistles and stairs and other ration, look thin glasses.
Which the majority do today.
In order to raise their self esteem,
noisy for the holder to live upon and to use in advertisements selling everything from B to cars. She bought a merchandise she's a commodity. She's a human being. She's a human being
that has to be respected and dignified.
Today
look at the world of advertisement. Whatever you do, wherever you go, all you see is merchandise and
Always a lady naked next door.
Why? She's become a merchandise herself. And they call this liberation
that have made her inferior.
That's the liberation, that is oppression.
That is captivation. They using this lady is poor servant.
These Western ladies who have embraced Islam,
know that hijab which flex obedience to Allah to Allah and know the system in Islam, you wear your hijab, and while lie, you are at a sincerity, you will indeed achieve get a great reward from Allah to Allah, be patient, be patient, be patient, for Indeed Allah subhana wa Jalla sees every move you make, and he will reward you online for every second that you put that Asia
they have come to the realization that he
reflects innocence, serenity, purity, contentment, China's modesty, Allah raises your dignity for a job, because when people see you, they respect you, because they see that you respect yourself and how many times have I worked with my wife and non Muslim men? When they see you, for example, buying something, they talk to you in a beautiful manner and ask you why is this dressed like this and they respect you. They speak of ethics and morals. They say you need to look at this person. Why is he dressed like this? Why she just thought therefore, and they want to know and they want to know
or people in the street. They take one look at you they turn out what the face away. That's respect.
That's the reality of the matter. Allah raises your dignity. Because you respect yourself they'll respect you.
hijab reflects
Allah subhanho wa Taala he defines. He defines your role as a Muslim woman, that you are a person who carries an important duty role with very imperative responsibilities. Representing Islam. You are walking down our pool you can say are walking there our tool,
sophisticated, intelligent, obedient. And most important, you are recognized as a Muslim in Asia. Now when you got no hijab, as a Muslim, I don't know what you are.
You don't know what you are.
But when lady wears hijab, she's defined immediately who she is. Allah Subhana Allah, Allah expresses your independence, you are not a slave to your husband, or your father or to your brother, uncle, no to a nation, no to any other people, you are a slave to no other than the greatest master law.
For the almighty Lord, once your beauty to be reserved, preserved, for only one man, that is your husband.
And this indeed will increase his love towards you, he will cherish you, he will honor you respect you more and will lie, this will indeed contribute
in a strong and lasting marriage. You know, when a man sees his wife dressed up and no one looks at up, he feels more inclined to her. But when she's not dressed up, and every person looks at her, he feels weak towards her. It's not her it's not a he's fully normal. It's not his wife, she shared she shared between him and others.
So naturally, a man once his wife to himself, not to the rest of the world, not the rest of the world, for man to see otherwise is considered a what are called other youth.
And that is the absolute best term for it. So long.
Lasting Sharma to Allah we say
the beloved sisters, the beloved brothers,
reflects upon this person. For indeed, a woman in Islam is dignified, not dishonored. She's noble, not degraded. She is liberated, not subjugated. She's purified, independent and not a slave to except Allah to Allah. She is protected and not exposed. She's respected and not laugh that she is confident and not
You're secure.
She's a bedient and not a sinner. And most importantly, she's at precious jewel. Her red rose of Islam. I call them notice phone,
naming others