The Etiquettes Of Hijab 3

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work on la vida, $18 dolla dolla dolla TV now,

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the rules regarding the Muslims, women and men's attire

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are derived from now other

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than the perfect, excellent, glorious, uncreated, noble sacred word of the Almighty Lord.

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And the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet Mohammed, Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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In sort of know.

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The Almighty Lord gives specific detailed information

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as to what a lady should cover away in the presence of Hernan Manhattan, whether it's indoors or outdoors. Let us see. Let us hear the words. The beautiful words of the Almighty Lord photophobia Mustafa.

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Oh, don't be shy Polly Raji.

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wakulla Mina, Tia

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Dena, Xena,

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Xena, Xena

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Xena Xena

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Bernie

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Bernie.

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Oh, nice.

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Are we

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do we

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miss

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one I believe

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watch

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me on.

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translated

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to the believing woman to lower

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their gaze

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and to guard their private parts

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and disclose and not the adornment except that which is a parent, and that they should draw their cloaks, the veils, over, measure your their bosoms the chest, and that they disclose not

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their adornments, except to their husbands, or to their fathers, or their fathers of their husbands, or to their sons, or their sons have their brothers or the sons of their sisters or to their woman, or to that which their right hand possess, or the men who are male attendance, who have no ability have sexual desire or sexual instincts

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or the young children who have not yet attained the knowledge of woman's privates paths and that they should not stamp their feet. They should not stamp their feet list that wish they are hi adornments be known. And all of you turn to Allah returned to him. So you may be successful.

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In this beautiful verse,

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the lady can display her decorations to the following people

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to her husband, to her father, to her father in law, to her son to her stepson to her brother, to her nephew, to the woman, now he according to a stronger opinion, it is the new woman both Muslim or non Muslim, as long as they have no evil character. However, if they are of questionable or doubtful character, or if they are notorious on accounts of their evil deeds, with a Muslim or non Muslim, then they are excluded from this permission.

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And we know that the holiday adventures in Amati burisma al Bukhari Rahim Allah, that no woman is allowed to embrace another woman,

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and then go and describe that woman who she embraced to her husband, as though she or he is looking at her. This is how long any woman that you have dealt in our sisters who may tell their husbands due to their evil ways. You are not allowed whether she's a Muslim or non Muslim, uncover yourself before this person.

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Likewise,

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to that which her right hand possess, if a lady has slaves, she is also allowed to display her decorations to her slaves, but not the slaves of others. She must be the one who owns the slaves. So she is allowed to display her decorations in front of a split slaves. Likewise, the lady is allowed to display decorations in front of those young children who have not yet

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attained the knowledge of woman's private parts. Maybe they are of six or seven years old. But they understand they are discern they understand between what a woman's path is the other paths found that which is not. These children are falling under the category of mature children who are not allowed to be her decorations exposed to.

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Likewise, in other areas, a lady is allowed to display her decorations to his son in law. She's also allowed to display decorations in front of her paternal and maternal uncles. Likewise, great uncles, like her mother's uncles and fathers uncles that her mother had him so she is allowed to display decorations in front of them as well. But one thing he must sort of mention

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is that the man

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to his

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uncle's wife,

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if she is not his Auntie, she is not your mom. And we know for a tradition or culture that is

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Just a lamb, the ankle, the maternal uncle, the wife of the maternal uncle, you see the men kissing her forehead or hand or embracing her. She is not your Muharram You are not allowed to do this, unless she is your auntie.

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So beware the beloved brothers.

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Likewise, according to the stronger opinion, a lady is allowed to display her decorations in front of a blind man,

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as he cannot say that with excites him to haraam.

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And in Surah, Allah has M. The Almighty Lord commands the Muslim

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to weigh or cover herself of digital Bab

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which is a clinical coat and to draw it all over her body. Let us see what the almighty Lord says is totally there for the Fotolia Mostafa.

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Yeah.

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Holy

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cow nice aneesa Meenie

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miny, moe dee dee da dee

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da dee

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da they work

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for Rahim.

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Allah,

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oh Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the woman of the believers that they should draw the globe, the veil, over There's your your, their bosom, or their chest. Why? that it may be that they may be distinguished, distinguished and not molested. And indeed, Allah is all forgiving, Most Merciful. Here in this verse, we can see a very important derivative, that it has an effective rebuttal and effective rebuttal.

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To the argument, some Muslim woman have against hijab, saying that wearing Hijab will make them recognized. And when they are recognized, they are attacked, so they do not wear it due to this

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claim. But the almighty Lord, according to this verse explicitly

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tells us to issue the beloved sister that it is more proper that you wear the hijab, why? So you may be distinguished. And then what does he say? Obviously distinguished is recognized, and that you may not be molested that you will not get attacked. So this is a beautiful, effective rebuttal against the scheme or this claim that there will be recognized, distinguished and then be attacked, not molested.

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The thing that we got to understand we should not feel anything with anyone. The Almighty Lord, in this verse is telling you to wear this no matter where you are. So you are distinguished. And though

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you are distinguished, you will be protected, safeguarded of these people whom,

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not by your father or your brother or your son or your husband. No, but you will be protected by the almighty Lord because he is the one that has revealed this verse to you commanding you to wear the hijab. So you will be distinguished, recognized and not molested.

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law here the whole world

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animate and in animate, gathered, accumulated together. Why so they can harm you in the most minute way. They are unable to do anything except that wish to Oh mighty Lord has written for you.

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Security is From whom?

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Security is from whom not chump. No. Security is from the almighty law.

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He is our protector. The protector of all believers. So when we see now what no one but him obviously, we have ultimate security.

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system, never fee people's eyes fee the one that created people's eyes and narration by Muslims

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from

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the Sahaba hora de Allah to Allah and that our beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, there are two types of hell, the willows, I did not say he said, two types of hoe dwellers, I did not see. In other words, he did not see in his time. And then he mentioned the one that we are after, and women who are paid to be dressed, they look like they are dressed, yet they seem to be naked, they appear to be dressed, yet, they appear to be naked, bent, they are and that caused others to bend, their hair is styled,

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like that tilted, or the crooked the humps of camels,

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they will not enter Paradise, nor will they find its scent, despite its scent

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could be found in such and such distance. In other words, from a far distance, this beautiful Hadith

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he is describing to us, our Muslims, especially to you own Muslim sister, that these seducing woman

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look like they are naked, even though they had dressed, why because they are allowing they are letting their attractive inner parts of beauty

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be publicized

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and subpanel alone. It is as though our beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is looking in our time and describing this image and speech in it.

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It is as though he isn't looking in our time in the 21st century.

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And describing this hobby by looking at the way the Muslim woman's attire is today,

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quite close transparency

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the hand like Hans as though it is the back of a Bactrian camel the hump

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is this not what he described 1400 years ago, what we are explicitly seeing today Absolutely.

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Let us get into the requirements then in order that the system may say or might say otherwise. Well, I don't know what the requirements are. So let us inshallah allow them to understand under the Islamic umbrella what the rules are the requirement is for a proper Islamic woman's attire. The first one is that all the body must be covered the whole body

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as the almighty Lord sees while the other ebenen beho Marina Allah as you will be hearing and that they should

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draw their cloaks

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Virgil Bab the Hema over there New York. Now here the hemara means the head cover the head piece and it gets drawn not only over the head, but over there as your your and as your is the plural of djabe which is the Muslim area the chest area and that includes the neck includes the neck and the ease. Many sisters we see they put this hijab and they can they show or expose the bottom half of the E and they put earrings there, this is her arm or others they expose the neck This is haraam or others have a small handkerchief, a small hijab, this is how wrong it is not cover the neck and the chest properly. The correct attire is that the head cover should be in reality one whole piece that comes

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past her bottom section

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locked to her for hot boys.

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These the correct head cover him on one piece to her thighs. And the other piece likewise is a big skirt or a barrier, which is the same color as a top which is much much much better.

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Likewise, the narration If only we had examples here tonight, we should have sort of prepared some kind of examples. Obviously in picture form with no face

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We are not allowed to get a model here and model the clothes for us.

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So in ahaadeeth, collected by our Isa utter mizzi

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and even though he was a man named huband, that our beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said,

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a woman must be covered when she goes outside as Satan makes her noticeable

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and he and means the whole body. And there was a narration by Suleiman Abdullah Abu Dawood

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that has

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entered upon our beloved Papa salsa lamb with thin clothes, with thin clothes when he saw her, he turned his attention away from her, saying, Yes, ma'am.

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When a lady reaches menstruation, she's not allowed to uncover any part of a body except this and this pointing to her face and two hands. This shows that the whole body must be covered exempting the face in hand. Many scholars have said this narration is weak or other said no, it is not weak it is acceptable. Let's leave it to the scholars to say yes or no. But we have another narration from the late night bass or the alotau.

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In explanation of Serato nor the vs Ruta nor where he said that the whole body of a woman must be covered exempting the face in the hands.

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So, obviously, that strengthens the other narration. However, as we all know, there was a major difference amongst the scholars regarding the face and the hands and Allah alum without any shadow of a doubt, it is better, it is obviously better for lady to wear the niqab and cover her hands and Allah knows best. Likewise the feet must be covered.

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The feet the sisters, listen carefully to the proof, the fate must be covered. In other words, you have no choice, the fate

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you know what is mean? Is I just hat on for you to uncover just as it is for you how long to uncover the head and expose your head you are not allowed to uncover the feet as well. The proof is as follows. About a certain mosey from delayed normal, inauthentic chain, he said

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that Mohammed Abu Abdullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

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that Allah to Allah will not look at a man on a day resurrection, who tros his government out of pride. When on selama heard this narration? She said yes Allah. What should the woman do?

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He said she should leave it. One hand span. This is under her ankles. Were upon she said but that was to be uncovered. Listen carefully to the statement. After hearing this she further said but yet also allow. Her feet will still be uncovered. Now when he heard this salon, he said then let her leave it. The length of a four arm a four arm, forearm, that's almost 50 centimeters you can say 3540 stamatis is underneath the ankle.

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Underneath the ankle, approximately 40 centimeters of forearm and no more than that is it

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as long as the feet are covered. Isn't there enough proof out doubtful minds

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to accept these to say submit an award for the love for the past. But from now on I'm going to cover my feet

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and it is best to cover the feet not only which sucks but with the garment itself.

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Because the sucks in reality will can will shape the feet. You can still see this cheap Can you see many assistants for example, they're weird they do wear winter socks. Thick Third Bro style socks. And they say this is enough but it is not enough.

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They were up to the ankles the garment or up to the shin and wear the thick thredbo style socks. And to say this is enough No it is not enough. The garment is was mentioned and the garment is the one that should cover the feet according to the now ration. As for those stockings, this is not acceptable.

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This is not acceptable. These are not the

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means that we'll cover unveil your shoes, your shoes, your feet.

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Likewise, it must be roomy, baggy, spacious, in other words, it's big. You know, you're not trying to show your body, the shape of your body to the men or to other ladies outside. Look at me I'm skinny, I'm slim, some batik they call it No.

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The whole essence of hijab is want to safeguard yourself against fitna. In other words, when you wear the hijab, you don't want anyone to know that your size eight, or size 12 or 16 or six, that wouldn't have a clue in the world because it's so spacious, you could be anything and that is how it remains in their minds.

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So if it is tight, it is descriptive of the bodies or not. And that without any shadow of a doubt, violates violation defeats the purpose of hijab as it should not be transparent. It should be thick, thick enough that you are able to see through it. And obviously if it is thin and transparent,

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it's appealing to man's eyes. transparency, when a lady with transparent clothes, something that you can see through is extremely appealing to man's eyes. And then iracing clearly mentioned that the latest part of this owner

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will be dressed yet naked to juicing and being sent juice their hairstyles tools to block the humps of Bactrian camels, they will not into paradise. No, there's no it's fragrance and spirits can be spelled from such and such distance. Why because they look like their dress but their bodies the shape of their clothes, you can tell what size they are, you can tell how fat she is how skinny she is, what size chest he has, was faced by she has because her body is shaped. So what is the use of this clothes on your body you might as well be naked

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or transparent you can see exactly through to her flesh or to the shape again

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and again and repeat the narration clearly mentioned that you are not allowed the beloved sister You are not allowed to have that slow hump lot that backtracking hump of a camel on your head. In other words, you are not allowed to

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to fold your hair or gather your hair and accumulate it in a big bowl or bunch like this and put it on top here and then wear the hijab.

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So people can say about a color she has long hair, or she has hair. No, you just let it loose or put it in a way where you are unable to determine whether you got here or not.

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Likewise, the hijab should be plain, plain, not decorated, not colorful.

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Again, the whole purpose of hijab is why what's the reason behind it in order to conceal the details of a woman's body, and especially the finery which employees to the hand to enter to enhance the appearance. But when it's decorated, it's colorful. It's become a decorated attire. Again, people will look at it and say it about a cola. Okay, beautiful this hijab is we don't want people to look at you and say,

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you know, ask the people to say this. You ask the people to look at you and say, Oh, hey, shabby, move away.

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Because the whole aim of his job is want. When a man sees you stuff that alone, just for a husband, he's dressed in a manner to say, keep your eyes away from me. This is the Muslim lady's hijab and incentive that she's wearing to Asia for one sole purpose to please the creator and to keep the eyes of men away from her. This is why she whispers Yeah, if you are ready for any other reason, take it off. It's not it's worthless, it's useless. It's not gonna help you. You have to have the incentive of doing it for now other than to please the one that created you not for your husband or your father or anyone else that for Allah to keep the eyes of man away from you.

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So

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if it is decorated and colorful, people will look at you and think the Batticaloa Look how beautiful this latest trendies because today, they have even models who are modeling the latest niqab and hijab and you don't know what are these reality? What are these allow on them.

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Likewise it should not resemble the dress of man, as mentioned by

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Madonna terma z from Abu huraira de la to Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah has cursed the man that dresses in woman's clothes, and a woman who dresses in man's clothes. A lahoma Stan, as you can see today, this is very, very, very, very vast to the extent where you do not know if this person is a man or lady. Likewise, you are not allowed the beloved sister to dress in a way that resembles the kuffaar as mentioned by Buddha Warden, Abdullah Abdullah Ahmad, that whoever copies of people without a doubt is one of them, and use them as strictly warned us against following the foals of Islam and imitating them in order that we love them. Ah, we want to be like

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them. And indeed when you imitate a comb, a people a nation, you indefinitely follow their character, their manners, the ethics in them. Likewise, the hijab the sister should not be conspicuous, no ostentatious In other words, it cannot be for fame, as the Hadith mentions from Abu Dawood from Abdullah Abdullah Omar that any man who wears a dress out of pretentious show, Allah to Allah will make him wear on the day of his erection, a garment of humiliation and then it will be set on fire. What does ostentatious being What does conspicuous mean? It means that you wear it so people can look at you, it's an eye catcher, you want to be the center of attention for

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boastfulness. You ever say you can be distinguished from other people. And there are many people like that out there. People like to do things just to be the center of attention. Don't always be on the stage, they will say to better go look at this person. So they want to wear clothes or drive cars or do things that no one does. So that can be the center of attention and eyecatcher we don't want these things to slam we want the eyecatcher of one division of the Almighty law to be on us. So you can be pleased with us. And unfortunately today,

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if you look at the garments or the hijab, you will see that the majority of Muslim sisters are not fulfilling the conditions already mentioned. Why they are taking only half way measures. Look at the Muslim as you mentioned last week, the Muslim boutique stores who are flooded flooded and flooded with outdated forms of barouche under the name of modern hijab, modern hijab what is modern?

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What is modern hijab?

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A Kufa style hijab

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wearing did the time even come from they actually call it the modern hijab style. Where is this from? It is not in the Kufa hf style,

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a compromising innovative ignorant way of hijab, not hijab of Islam, then call it modern hijab got a modern Cooper style you're better off

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get to the Muslim boutique stores go to those who saw jabs well law you'll see a majority of them like this. decorations flowers colorful on the hijab, beautiful looking the material is so soft, so beautiful, sort of. It really destroys the heart and it appeals to men as well.

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The mind for the beloved sisters of online is business on them. And do not be deceived by these ignorant compromising innovative ways of the sisters who in reality are trying to hide their Deen didn't want to wear hijab, yet they don't want to wear hijab, naked, dressed get naked that whenever it but they don't want to wear it. Dressed but naked, exactly the same scenario.

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Let us adhere to the one of the Almighty law. Is it here to salvation? For a lie salvation can only be in color law, or call it a soul or Salalah are they also known as the Almighty God says in alladhina kalu Rob una la Tomas Docomo tetanus de la de Mola Mola, iica Allah Taha Full Wallet what apps should all be the Jin Attila T.

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Don't listen to this beautiful verse. Man or woman. Those who say Our Lord is Allah,

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and then went on the straight path became upright Muslims. At the time of their death, the angels Buddhists

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stand upon them. Do you don't want to be from those people?

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Do you not want to be among those who says our Lord is Allah and then they stood upright, straight. without compromise. on you, the angels were the same. Same to you when you will need this to be sent to you fee not no grave that receive, oh believer, oh must sin, oh not mean

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received the glad tidings of Paradise that which you have been promised, who had been promised those who did not budge the dean like wolves as almost opposite.

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Those who stood upright and did not take loopholes take the other way around it take the easy way out, when they are not allowed to. Because this is too hard, we have to compromise after blend, we have to be like this. We are in a 21st century, we have to have this modern style liberal, secular look.

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This is too harsh to the 14th century style of the hero is too harsh.

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So we got to understand

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this adopt the hijab, as the almighty Lord mentioned, likewise, it should not be perfumed the sister, you are not allowed to perfume yourself whether indoors or outdoors, knowing that non mahadi men are going to appear before you are next to you. And then that can smell you, as mentioned by medical shy but nice.

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And slim and Russia Buddha award from Abu Musab al ashari rhodiola Allen, that he said, Any woman who puts perfume and then she passes by people who in return smell her perfume is a foreigner, Kate,

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how severe is this? Well, allowing a non Muharram smell your perfume, indoors or outdoors, you are committing fornication. So do not take the matter lightly. And we mentioned this, that even if the soap that you use has a strong scent,

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perfume, you should not use it and then go out.

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There is underarm deodorant, for example. There are there are the odhran soaps that smell as though you have perfume on it on you and then you are smoked by other people.

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There are other prohibitions that it's important to mention here that refer to her personal appearance.

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So we say that a lady should not have long nails just as a man should not likewise. For indeed, that goes against the fitara that man was created with the innate nature of men.

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Whether it's artificial, whether it's grown Normally, you are not allowed to have long nails, as mentioned in Muslim the hijab collection that five acts of from the future of circumcision,

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shaving your pubes, clipping the mustache, cutting the nails, and shaving or plucking underneath the armpits.

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To further clarify this another narration from Muslim from aneurysm nomadic, who said the time limit prescribed to us in to do these things is that we are not allowed to neglect these for longer than 14 nights for longer than 14 nights. So you must clip the mustache you must shave the pubes you must clip or shave or pluck under the armpits and you must cut the nails and not let these four go longer than four t nights. If you go beyond this you are committing a scene

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you are committing a sin. So obviously in 40 days, you will not have a nail coming out to here

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you will not have a coming out to you unless you're faced with some kind of

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nutrients.

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Likewise, you are not allowed to put nail varnish

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the sister unless you remove this varnish five times a day or every time you perform Udo

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because the nail varnish will prevent the water from going to the nail and that is one of the obligate acts upon will do.

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However, if a person is in her menses, or postnatal

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Due to bleeding then there's no problem in having nail varnish but you are not allowed to show this nail varnish except to your my hair in except to my hat in this decoration, you are not allowed to take it outside

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or inside and expose it to those who are non Muharram to you. Mic wise you are not allowed to you should not wear high heeled shoes.

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And obviously this goes against the concept of hijab. Can you imagine a lady with full hijab beautiful full attire and then she comes to a 40 centimeter high heeled shoe

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within sounds it makes

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it is not proper for lady to wear high heeled shoes because you are attracting the attention of men towards you.

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Likewise, you are not allowed to put makeup on even the antimony which is the

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the Quran

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is a deadly thing for lady in front of the nama Howdy.

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You are not allowed to put

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all the makeup

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or wear any kind of jewelry whether it's the newsmen, the Irene the bangles, the bracelets, the necklaces, the read on the finger, the anklets or any other kind of jewelry. You are not allowed to wear this in front of your non hiring. Not allowed. Whether you're at home or outside the house, you are not allowed to allow the non Muharram to see you in your ring even many people say it's my wedding ring wedding ring is your integrated wedding ring.

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You know how to use the HUD home to show this man you are waiting in the innovation team where do you fit in with the concept that is the ring of engagement has I'm engaged now he can't talk to me

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is one sister said what's the point of waiting when Sonny wants so no manual asked for my hand and I should be looking at you.

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You should not look at you. And once you look at your finger

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You are not allowed. You are not allowed to wear any kind of jewelry whenever you Will dean as enough to one

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and that they should disclose not their adornment except that which is apparent.

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Muslim women are not allowed to disclose their

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adornments to them. They say that to the non Muharram. However, they are not allowed as well

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to draw or act in such a way as to draw man's attention to them. The way they walk, the way they act, the way they look. So it's not only the hijab where you have to cover the body of a garment, but it's an everything in your speech and your etiquettes and your ethics and your morals in the way that you walk down the street. Oh yeah the front of the guest in everything this is

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one

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we are Julie hinda Lee you Allah Ma Ma yo feanor means enough to him and that they should not stamp their feet less that we stay height of adornment, the noon the noon to turn on the heading.

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So do not walk in away. mentioned we're on high heeled shoes and just walking down like that. You are calling man's attention. Look at me. I've got high heeled shoes on. Look at my anklets here it. This is how long in Islam.

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This is how many Islam

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as it is how Romans vote to wear a hairpiece or a week you are not allowed to wear a hairpiece, which is to connect hair to your original hair or a wig if you got no hair at all, because the hardest mentioned for Muslims from a snap into Avi Barker who said a lady came to Muhammad SAW Salaam and said to him yes all along. I have a daughter just married. She contracted the measles and then lost all her hair. As a result of these measles how alone.

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She said to him, Emily alone to give her a week to where

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he denied her request. And not only denied her request, he said Allah has cursed the wig makers and those who wear it the week.

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However, we can say that our lady is allowed to cut her hair. According to the stronger opinion she's allowed to cut her hair but

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she does it in a way

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in a way that is pleasing not only to her to her husband

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Cuz he has to see her to, you know, your husband might want one hair. So you should not cut even though you want short hair. So discuss it with him that just come and say I want to surprise you.

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You know, they think they're surprising and she will surprise you in a negative way.

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You might get a Whoa, why is this healthy?

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So you are not allowed to cut your hair unless you at least seek your husband's permission This is not gonna say no inshallah.

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But in a way that is pleasing to you and to your husband. And that was strengthening charlotta Allah the bond

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to each other.

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As she is not allowed to put a tattoo, nor pluck your eyebrows, nor is she allowed to file her teeth and they used to follow the teeth for what? For purification. This was common amongst the Arabs in the pre Islamic days. And we mentioned the narration last week, did we not have Abdullah Abdullah road when he said, Allah has cursed that are two annotated and the plucker of the eyebrow on the platform. And those who follow the tapes, or they tape and those who get or who follow the tape of others, or those who are older the creation of Allah. Now when this was said by him, a lady from the tribe of Bani Assad

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came and approached Abdullah and said,

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What is this tradition that I hear that you are saying that Allah has cursed such and such and such and such and such and such? Who are you to curse these people? He said, Who am I not to curse whom Allah Mrs. Allen has cursed and who is cursed in the book of Allah to Allah.

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She rebuked him saying, or tried to rebuke him saying, I have read the Quran from cover to cover. I have not seen what you are saying. You should not read the verse Then women attack modra soul for hoodoo woman kumanovo Fanta Who? Whatever the Papa gives you take in whatever he told you to abstain from.

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Keep away from it. When she heard that, she kept silent. She could not rebuke diversity almighty lord. But she tried to argue with him saying what I have noticed your wife yob the law violating some of these politicians? He suggests

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coming,

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coming to say for yourself. She entered his house and looked at his wife then came back out. I have noticed nothing on your wife.

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Is it had you noticed anything on my wife would have have divorced her

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husband later if

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he does not fulfill the conditions of Islam

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longstaff.

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So obviously, this narration is very clear that you are not allowed to tattoo or pluck the eyebrow or follow the teeth. Likewise, the beloved sisters and the beloved brothers, you are not allowed to shake the hands of a girl who has done more harm to you.

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And there's a hadith mentions an essay about the award, Ahmed IGNOU, manager and others with authentic chain that when the lady is the female companions when they were giving the pledge of allegiance to their leader Mohammed Abdullah Salam. He said in Nila osafo Nisa, what a beautiful statement. What a beautiful statement. Indeed, I do not shake the hands of women.

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I hope we do not shake the hands of woman as well. If he's our parable, if he is our example, if he is our teacher and role model,

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and you are shaking the hands, they've been a bit cross and take someone else as an example.

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Because he told us he does not shake the hands of women. I just said his wife rhodiola to Allah and human

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that the hand Auto Salon never ever touched a hand of another lady other than his wife's.

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The narration authentic narration that says it is better for a man to penetrate an eye and run through his head than to shake or touch the hand of a lady non hunting.

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So what is the hugs and kisses and shakin for now it is the shaking but hugs and kisses

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hugs and kisses

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On hmm and I could beat and I'm big man.

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Salsa lamb was 63 years old. He gave the Pledge of Allegiance at the age of approximately 50 years old, in occupied all awkward thing

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is any of an aged man at the age of 50 and over

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but you still get the hugs and kisses and the handshakes, respect me on the chef's placing the checks.

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However, you are allowed to greet the woman and they are allowed to greet you. If

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the speech is not of questionable nature, no of soft speech

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will excite or entice or tempt the man who has a disease in his heart to fall into a major catastrophe. As the almighty Lord says for their darkness Donna bill Cole for yatimer I lead if he called me he modeled for colon colon

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and let the speech not be soft. Listen carefully sisters, when you speak to them in a letter saying to you let that speech not be soft speech less than man who has a disease that is has been removed with the desire and then this will be his destruction

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but say or speak in a way that is honorable and honorable manner

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so as you can see, when you want to speak to a sister or sister wants to speak to you in the necessity for is a reason behind it speak normal speak normal brothers to them as a lady as the sister should speak normal to you know changing the tone you know you are allowed sister to answer the phone if you must, but the tone must be the way you speak normally.

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No sweet talk to him. No prolonging the talk lengthening the talk more than is needed. You ask him now is your husband home love his home? Put the phone down Go get him

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not well. Let me show who we

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know this

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is Dr. Ahmed I've told you about security Sandy Be very careful.

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Nina, this subspace can actually excite a man's heart what you're trying to do is you're trying to flirt with me it can easily be fought by a man so our last panel to Allah warns against this so there'll be no entry there's no entry at all it's always blocked sued from Satan that occurs in the rejected the ugly do on feast. Oh, it's shot. Otherwise just to haunt ugly line you're saving one

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and that Bernie will be destruction.

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So you're going to be reverse recurve

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so as you can see, the time is flying and the brothers are sleepy.

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So when Charla allow it. And we complete that the hijab is not only the covering of the body, but it is in fact everything. From clothing, to speech, to etiquette, tomorrow's to ethics, integrity, everything. And you wear the hijab, the beloved sister for one reason.

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This is for the sake of Allah

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to draw the eyes of man, not to you, but a way for you. I call them my test my own way. Hold on, let

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me