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THE AGED_ THE HONOUR OF OLD AGE IN ISLAM_ [PART TWO]
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Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Allah by the
time hornist a few min we wanna talk Allah Allah when all the we love him and sure all the fish you know and see Dr. Marina may yeah the Hillel phenomenal dilemma Who am I up to father had the era when I should have Allah Allahu Allah shady color, when I should have made an Abdu, who are Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallahu alayhi wa ala early he was happy woman God without what he
adored beloved brothers and sisters in Islam Assa Romani. yquem warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
This is the second part of our lectures on the agent and the honor that Islam bestows on the agent in Islam.
The first one has already been uploaded to YouTube, but go there and listen to it, I decided to do it now and tomorrow time this one because this one is extremely, extremely important lecture. In fact, all these lectures are very important for all of us. Because all of us are going to get old. So it's better to know before the time what it means to get out. So that you will be you will understand that
good die young is not part of the Islamic edit just one Islamic Maxim that the good I am no, it is the aged benefit the most. The most honor is by allows families to be stoked on just being old. Nothing else just being old is a great honor in Islam. So it's really important for us also to know the folk of old age. What happens if we can't allow or who do or what happens when you go for higher education somebody else carbohydrates word about fasting and many other issues on salah and the
relief that Islam provides for us in old age not to make life difficult for us especially our spiritual life our religious life
because there is allows for the receipt and Ibiza subsystem Hadid
useful, useful the religion of Islam is is is
you read a lot you could use analysis no Quran you read along become when you serve Allah you really do become awesome. Allah does not want to make things difficult for you allows Allah wants to make things easy for you. So today inshallah, the second chapter
the respect and honor that the community should show
the old people
not what not just because we say they
and the world says that we must respect old people now. Because Alan is profit talks about the respect of all people in the south.
Those who respect old people they're following the command and encouragement and advice of who of Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The Navy says Alan had
told the whole of the community and everybody to
to respect the old people in the Hadith.
And every salon says al Baraka to fee Academy Rico. The Baraka
lies with lies in your old people. Your Baraka lies in your people. So if you want to have a lot of Baraka in your life, you must honor and respect the agent honor and respect those who have been already on it with gray hair with a black haters gray and
the honoring of the old people is each
each is each of the each line of alows Pinewood ohana and what is the each level of allows Hannah Montana? It is the glory and the greatness of a loss. Hi Natasha. If you honor the old people, it's like glorifying and showing respect to your Lord Allah subhanho wa Taala Nafisa Salim says no Hadith reported by a Buddha Buddha
and Mr. Naui they say that then these are seldom said in them it's largely later either economic or the shape battle Muslim
of honoring and we still in great
respect to a loss of hydro Tyler is to show the speak to the agent will hamdulillah put an end to show respect to the person who carries the
lane Allah highly fee those
Refer to do not exaggerate in reading the Quran, they do not exaggerate the letters lalani feel Quran, Willa Jaffe and who know Do they forget the Quran we said memorized.
So a half an hour. And a ordinary sharp, ordinary young person who respects an old person. They're in the same category. And number three, economic the social fun and losses
the respect that we give to the rulers to those rulers.
Wow, just in the room, so adjust ruler. I have read that for
any young man who respects an old person I in the same category Subhan Allah. So just by respecting older people, you are like a habit opponent, you get the same reward. And you get the same reward as a ruler who rules justly. Look at the greed, honor that allows rather bestows upon he who honors and who is honored.
And so Nafisa Salam then put this all into one basket, shows the love the nerissa Sallam have for the agent and for people. And then every saw Salam had warned us about not respecting and not honoring all people, the Nabi sallallahu wasallam
tell us in many a hadith that those who do not respect older persons and don't do not honor older persons, later Allah D is not on his ID is not on his path. He's not on his manage
while I'm your zero Allah energy and he is not going according to the knowledge manage of the Nabi sallallahu wasallam there is a way of life not manage is their way of life and the no way of doing things of Mohammed Salallahu alaihe salam in this becomes very clear the Hadith lays Amina mala Mia Hamm, Selena, Willem you Aki acadiana
Let me say Sallam said he is not of my own mother who does not have mercy on the small ones
and do not have respect and honor the elders.
There's one level buddy who always respect the elders. Not just because they're all ama or they know because now that all this because they're all
and will Yeah, and the first lecture will tell you what old 80s it started 40
and in every one of those ages 4050 6070 8090 there's a special gift that Allah gives to the person who's gone gray.
Whenever he saw Selim says my grandma Cheb Mark Rama Siobhan chafin you see me he Isla Tejada loca de la hula who my ukri more and se me than me. So a lot of them says,
a young man will not on an old people, an old person or older person, except that allows to have a high note Allah will give him young people under him the day when he becomes old. So the same respect he shows to all of you so to speak, the old people in your old age, younger people will show respect for you.
And so the young person you send him as a hero, Alka de, the young person greets the old person first.
Not like today Today you must greet greet, greet the opposite is to the young person greet greet, greet me. So
we must teach our children to greet all the people in your person, Muslim or non Muslim doesn't matter.
Well marajuana guide and the person who's walking greets the person who is sitting while Allah Allah Kathy, and this few
people, honors and respects the greater group of people and greed first.
The next heading is
that Islam shows to older people in its laws and regulations to be carried out the leniency that Islam shells
and just one example I want to give is the example of expiation of a sin.
That different kinds of expiation, cafe Bharat for example, if you
eat in Ramadan on a day What must you do to fast in the day can you force in that day
So for them on their mini things example, you make a vow, or you make a promise and you break your promise, there is a expiation to pay this penalty to be paid. So for many things, there are penalties
for you to be forgiven, or for the sin that you committed to be reversed.
And but for old people and for older people, this expiation, or this penalty becomes less or becomes easier. They're going to give you example of a sewer and mu J Dilla.
Sudan majority line for an allowance handler in the beginning verse and we also call the surah cut semi Allah says Bismillah R Rahman Rahim at Samia Allah cola t to Jacques De Luca feasel. Jia what ash tequila
Listen, let your heart listen to this sentence a lot longer. This is Allah years. Allah yours in this from the 77 Allah Yes, Allah tells them to be some loss Allah hi Yeah. The complaint that the lady is bringing to you about her husband.
So when women complain, complained to the nannies or Sullivan when they complain about their husbands or the behavior of their husbands who listens to them allows you to listen to them you the mom or the the counselor ever you don't only listen to it on the first listens to it.
What is Shakira and she say to the Lisa she's complaining to your Mohamed Salah Salah What is your complaint?
What la Esmeralda how what are coma in the last me on the sea? Hello Sandra says Allah yes everything Allah sees everything and levena you thought he wrote I mean coming he said he come Marwan Amati him. Now in the time of the jury Leah there was a way of divorcing your wife by saying to her your back is like my mother's back. Now that what you know your total for me I actually I don't want you anymore to wife.
So saying those words would break the magic if I had been in at the time before Islam.
And that rule wasn't yet changed when this ayah was revealed. Better was still in emotion. There is no more
a valid way of divorcing your wife.
So allows 100 says
those men this woman came to complain about the Nafisa Salam about what that a husband said to her that your back is like my mother's back. So what did it mean? It mean that he divorced, and she was very upset about it. She was crying. And she was for long, and she felt forsaken. What is she going to do now?
How is she going to resolve this issue?
Because up to then there was no Quranic idea or instruction from allowes hunter as to how the Prophet should deal with it. What happens if it has been teased to his wife? So now, you are like my my mother in law says you can never be your mother, your wife could never be like your mother. Your mother is the person who gave birth to you. That is your mother, Alice
allows father says.
Now let's review Susan evisa solemn whose nappy also didn't know what to say to her, because he didn't know what the solution was. I'll reveal this sort of modular analysis. Number one, the first thing he should do
the top thing you should do, the priority thing you should do is you should set free a slave meal probably on the atomizer before again touches his wife, so you can't even touch Yes, you say please slave.
Number two, if you can't see it for your slave.
For my lineage, it can't find the slave was able to safely a slave for a Yahushua ad Matata behind him in public yet amasa you should fast for two months consecutively.
In other words, you should fast every single day. I have 29 days or 30 days, two months. If he skips one day must start all over again.
Before he touches his wife, if you can't do that, I lost 400 assists for my daughter and wasn't able to do that fight. I was 16 and my skin I should fit 60 people
that actually took me to be lucky we're assuming
what to do the law he will think carefully that
allows for that as his feet 60 people that is for those who believe in Allah was trying to hold on the Muslims are father's law. To the Fulani messenger they must follow this law will care if you do analysis and the disbelievers
to them there is a severe punishment.
So the Prophet sasaram said to her, are you able to sit through a slave or is he able to has been able to sit through the slave on an IoT Dr. sudama she said O Messenger is crying. You're
He's a poor man he doesn't own any slaves. Poverty
for so for so much data behind, can you fast two consecutive months? She said the old man He's a great man great man. He can't even
come fast two months in succession.
Call a check on kabiru labissiere big man, old man confessed for New Times 16 and Myskina Can you feed 60 people? for lunch? He said mind that woman. She never said that.
She said Yasuda law
he's got nothing. He's poor. He can't even feed his family. I will be able to feed 60 people
all that she says for OTB arkin been covering the profit in came with a basket full of dates, basket full of dates.
And she said I say to the profit pool, there are so relax also Dr. Salalah for in need for a new era in
which citizen abyssus Allah Rasool Allah you've given a basket of date. I will also contribute and give also a basket of dates.
Carla pocket Asante prophecies are substitute Mashallah, you've done well. Excellent. Marshall. I give a basket and you give him Oscar. He that'd be fun Amy BIA and Lucy Tina Myskina take these two baskets.
And go give it to 64 people
What did you eat that evening and return to the son of your uncle. She was married to her cousin returning to the sun
multilevel a man with faith and so just as allows founder demands from us from the leaders the rulers the dot the judges, wherever is ready to be
lenient fif to be lenient upon HTTP everything. They asked Christina she had gone wash my feet or you know a brick map does very soon or can't do this. I can't bend or I can't mix a judo I can't many many questions
so we should be
lenient on the
on the agent. Let me sell some
one day Mark
Yeah, the name was in the Java panel on one of the on a map
of this harbor.
He wanted to make salani inlayed the salah
and he made very very long some people came to complain to the Navy so lots
of you saw someone said what are you doing Why are you doing this? You making trouble Why are you making trouble three times a property team I'm making it too difficult Why are you making things difficult I'm making it so difficult for Arthur Mora
follows follow follow now for later December his public washrooms water haha well either yaksha for inner Who will you suddenly wha Kabir water if water hydro, maybe Solar City? Why don't do a sporadic or shamcey will do ha what lady they are sure.
For inaho You certainly were up because behind you view the man behind you stands people were old people who are weak and people who have needs
if you will have to go to the toilet some people have an appointment, some people have to a very hungry they want to eat people have many, many needs many many things are cooled it should make you should make it easy.
But the question is, I want to ask you the previous question.
Why does it and we saw someone say sub base murghab because Allah Allah who sounds a receptor his Arabic Allah besonderen say read surah to Allah.
Be sound say don't they didn't say Rick was shamcey he said read was shamcey model Ha.
And he said what lately they actually didn't read what surah to Lael new also have to chumps or Sora to slaughter Allah knew he didn't you see, every time he said the first verse of the surah.
Why didn't you mention the names of the surah because in the time of the Nabi sallallahu Sallam the swore of the Quran, the names
This what the suitors there was no sort of Baccarat so the Alhambra No, no no names so much. I don't know. These were attached to the sewer after the demise of the Nabi sallallahu. Adios, Elisa. That's why I was given an emphasis on refers to a surah in the Quran for example he wants you to read to the class because it didn't exist he would say read koala had read that Colaba, NASSCOM club the follow up.
There is an emphasis on see. So it's an important point to them, you can read up when did this with who was to give gave the names of the sower of the of the sewers of the Quran, and when did this happen after this course happened after the compilation of the of the.
So, the nature and the status of the old person is the same status as the sick person and the weak person, three of them, I know
they play one theme, the three of them. So,
we should always look at what has been provided for a sick person or for a weak person. As an old person as a similar problem and assembly issue. We should apply the same ruling the same procon machinery for all three persons.
And then maybe some aloha to Salah is also so Han Allah, perfect carrot. People accepted Islam even today because of the character of the NaVi Salam audience. Sometimes nothing more and nothing if they read the character of the room is so messy. This is a perfect match.
So let's see how the Navy sussan dealt with the elders of the machinery corn to paddler today, we wouldn't want to sit in the same company as a mushnik
So how did the Narcissus empty the elders of the bush?
We see in the history then we saw Salaam dealt with him. Mashallah, in a beautiful manner.
I want to relate to you one story
about autobahn era via autobahn even even a BIA was one of the leaders of the bushi. Cooler in in Makkah.
You have to had that Elan Nabi sallallahu, wasallam, you redo
or you said near and dirty.
He was talking about the Tao of Islam, trying to convince Navistar not to make this Dawa to stop calling people to Islam.
And all the things things he said to the Nagisa Salam was
under hiren and Abdullah.
He said to the professor, are you better than your father Abdullah?
And the heroine and Abdullah matale? Are you better than Abdulmutallab your grandfather?
What is gonna be due for Secretary interview Salalah herself out of respect for altova then evisa salon kept quiet
lessons from this very important story. It's a very beautiful story and there's lessons to learn for all of us from this listen to the story Charla
sakata duben What are other than Anil Jaitley he kept quiet.
As part of his add up, he's the manner in which he treats the journal.
So when a child comes to you and say something to you, what should you do? should keep quiet. Unfortunately, meaning I'm included, sometimes a child comes are such questions that really fires you up, but we should control it, control it.
So, Professor Solomon who was linsanity, philosopher, Carlin continued and he said, if you think
that those people your father and your grandfather, people will say this to you, they say this to me also your father and your grandfather did this and your father and your grandfather said this I hold on I could not have my father and grandfather said it was alight is Russell
solo Allahu Allah.
so on but say to him,
if you think that you are better than your father, your grandfather
our gods. Those Gods which you insult their worship those gods
and if you think
If you think they're better than you, then remember they worship these gods. So those better than you worship these gods when cantatas have undergone a minimum, and if you think you are better than that,
for Kalia Smar, they're colloca. They're very few people who listen to you
prefer people who listen to you, you think you're better than your father or grandfather or you, you maybe you think that but
very few people actually take notice of you
feel free to take notice of you. They take, they don't take notice of, you know, to take notice of the truth that you speak, basically, that he was saying that that is what he was saying, is what many people say today, your father and grandfather did this. My grandfather and man my grandmother did. grandfather and grandmother, everybody did this. And after all, is the majority of the people don't listen to you. So why should I listen to you? same argument, exactly the same argument.
So near these arguments, remember, the condition and the status of the de Sala La Jolla
and obviously a team you know what you have really insulted the great status that the Polish has amongst the Arabs.
And you have
made them say about acid we are lived, many of us are led by a soothsayer by by what we call a Duke of local language. Somebody who throw stones or who works with a test B.
And that coration just a lot of you know,
they just believe in black magic. That was the chorus believes in that is the image that we now have the rest of the edits half of us.
And what do you want us to do? You want us to take up the sword to kill each other.
You want us to work to kill each other? It's exactly what somebody said to me. If you continue preaching, I guess blood will flow in the streets of Cape Town. Exactly. I should say that to me. You preach against BIA, you preach against doesn't preach against that and you say
I don't say that. The prophets of Salaam condemned PETA.
So if you say leave us to do a beta. Then what are you saying?
What are you saying?
You're condemning that with an emphasis on them. That prevented us from doing heinola
the guy you're gonna shed blood you want to you want us to in the fighting each other's handler Wouldn't that be to keep quiet?
So in the Nafisa salon get quiet all the time on pass started coming down
there then he spoke to the Nemesis for last element. He continued, he said, You have it. Now it isn't me son, Oh son of my brother. Because you have come down. Now it's Santa Barbara.
He said oh my Santa Barbara, do you know if you came to us with this message show that you want to become a rich man like bushiri become a rich man.
We will get all the money that we have and we'll give it to you.
Until you are the richest man amongst us. I cannot tell you to be sharper. And if you want to be the most honored man amongst us, we will not make any decision except if you give us permission.
And you decide for us
and if you want to be our king, we will make you a king Moloch Naka will make you a king Alena over us.
And if you want us to visit Jean troubling you we will get the best medicine in the world to take the gene out of you.
to make you the richest man
we will make you our king.
And we will make you
get the business and few from wherever it we could have never was I was when I was about to had that Elena VESA salon. We had our Holly on but continued
and continued hot either very hot,
completed and kept quiet and said everything you wanted to say.
When he was finished and we sasaram say to him call Hello and we use
A lot of the editing
but then we saw someone say to
a barista been worried
Oh Father have rallied
Have you finished?
Caught enough adversities
Carla me sir sir I'm sitting is Mr. Mini
Listen to me, no adapt this is no substitute for
in muckety muck luck
and good habits and good manners.
So maybe saw some said a smiling Professor sitting, listen to me
call a fight. He said
for coronary Salalah II mean subra facilite
in some days the Quran is the best and
of course he was inspired by Allah to say this. So he did to Aruba verses from Surah facilite
Cora 41 verse number 13 a loss founder says hi tiny de Bella Hakuna Matata he read verses from Surah facilite until he came to the verse
number 13 where allows policies
fine are due for cool and to come saw atomic law Sorry, I didn't watch
the last verse. Profit rate order was
but if allows founder says but if they turn away
FIFA in Costa Rica and Chris say to them Otto was you were sent to NASA sent by the operation to ask this question to them.
And to off Becky me these offers? Well nothing What was the prophecy response Allah? Allah says if they turn away Oh Mohammed Salim say to them, I have mocked you.
Or I have warned you rather have a standing punishment of thunder and lightning like that which overtook the people have had and the people of the mood.
That was the people from the hood in the people of Novi Sad. Allah destroyed
because what I understood every word
and he knew what this meant.
He knew this was the truth on bus it has book his book
was versatile enough enough nine that they had I don't have anything else to say on electrolysis and said no I've got nothing else to say.
I'm going back to the punish the hollow they said to him
my rock What did you bring? What is with you?
For harbor said Tara matter up to Cheyenne are in Kentucky Laguna de la correct? Are the buses.
I have lived out nothing. I said everything to him that you normally say to him. Everything that you normally ask him and everything you normally say to him to stop preaching Islam. That is the what I what I told him.
They said to him for kalu file a jabbok did he answer you? Did he give you an answer to those questions that we sent you with? corunna adversities you he answered
what he would say Martha him to Shay and me mark on onbuy said I didn't understand anything is it
listen to the answer are they says
you know what?
didn't know what he was talking about what he was? He was talking
then I know I'm gonna come sighs this lad was except he spoke about the punishment that Allah rained upon the hardened for mood.
hollow the corner shattered by angry now. They said way luck. You can look up Arabi. yawata three back on this team. What are you saying? He spoke Arabic And you didn't understand what you were saying.
There was so so mad is it? What did he speak he spoke Arabic you come to Dallas he didn't understand what he was saying. Follow online my fave to share in one like
one like nothing. I didn't understand anything. Me Mako. Everything he said I didn't understand the raid.
Vic aside except when he mentioned the punishment
that he mentioned. Of course which allows it to be
So, this is an example
of the nature
of the many niche Bahamas as untreated. Old, older persons, even when they came to ask him to abandon this mission of itself,
you were still submissive and treated them with respect.
So now allows pantalla in China,
there will be of course, this is part two will be part three, Part Four and so forth and so on. We will deal with all the issues that deals with old people inshallah, and I want you to not only for you to listen, I want your children to listen
from drivers of the condition because these lessons can be understood by everybody and they are useful to everybody today because, as you know, there is a problem
in respect and honoring older people. So we need to bring to ourselves and to our children and to everybody else. The manner in which Mohammed Salah Sallam
told us to honor the elderly now last one I put Baraka in honoring the al-din last continent make us give us the reward of the Havas and of the kind and honest rulers 100 resin What are they measuring the honor that we have? So when you say anybody with a gray beard when a woman
copy, greet a salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah first, where do you see them in? Can you attend on the street? Wherever you see them? We see an old woman an old man and non Muslim.
Good afternoon, Madam. Good afternoon, sir.
Kindness pitches may be short. These will not these will not have the tab that he spoke to. This was the machinery corn panel, those who worship the real idols, and deservedly so Allah give us at the speaking the hearts inshallah. Walton Allah wa salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa Taala.