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while, he was happy he may have brains was due to a large degree the Peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved Prophet Mohammed Salah la Marlene he was sending me the peace of blessings of Allah be upon all the prophets and all of the messages that was sent to mankind must be respected brothers and sisters in snabb salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Today, inshallah Tada, we're continuing on with the book of manners, bye by email now we, in his great book, to solid in the gardens, or gardens of the righteous, and today inshallah Tada. Our focus will be on the book about the etiquettes of at the book about the etiquette of eating keto, find keto edible, find the other than that the matters that are related to a bond.

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Now before I go into the hobbies, that email now we're looking to Thailand included in this chapter.

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Prior to this email now, I'm loving Tada, he has a chapter that is titled bamboo stick that bamboo stick bag holds up the million equally now what I mean bad exactly, he said, the excellence of using the right hand for performing various food acts. Now you remember him on Long Island, he opens up this chapter with

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some verses from the end. That mentioned the right that mentioned the right or the right hand. Now More specifically, we have the area in sort of half of verse 19 Allah soprano Medina says

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ooh tip 10 kita Babu be Amelie for yaku

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Italia. here Allah azza wa jal is referring to the righteous people on the Day of Judgment Yama, Yama, those who will receive their keytab The Book of deeds, the actions in the right hand, those people when they received the book in the right hand, it's a glad tidy it's a push up for what is about to come. So by receiving it in the right hand, Allah azza wa jal is honoring those people. And so these people who say hi omocha Okita via take read my record, so he's very happy.

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Now elsewhere Allah Subhana Allah says is suited to work there are in verses eight and nine, Allah subhanho wa Taala says for us have remained tema,

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China, he says the US have which is the companions or the people of a layman. Now, the main manner is another word for your mean and mean when other people have the right. So here Allah subhana wa Tada. He says

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that Assad will mean the people of the past have been maimana meaning how fortunate are the people of the right those who received the record in their right hand. Allah azza wa jal then says

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he says what else have we mesh Mattila

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mesh and the mesh and other people who have received a record or the book with a left hand How unfortunate of it

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are you from amongst those who receive the recording the right hand?

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Now even will know in this chapter includes the heartbeat of atmosphere, the water the water that is originally found in Bukhari and Muslim and it's the Hadees whereby she says

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he saw a lot while he was sending them your ijebu who, Telemundo Fisher he equate people who really, truly he what

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he says she says I showed his wife, a loved one.

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And he says that the prophet SAW Selim, he liked to use his right hand in all matters in turning his head in wearing his shoes, now we have another heavy body

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armor that is coming sooner

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The Messenger of Allah was used to using his right hand for performing boo boo and for eating his food, whereas he was used to using his left hand a solid, and for other similar purposes. So what we learned from this sooner is that when it comes to global warming, when it comes to also, washing the right hand side of the body takes precision. So you, for example, you will go when you're washing your, your arms, meaning from your fingers, from your fingertips to your elbows, that you wash your right hand first, in your left hand, when you come in to do for example, your feet, you would wash your right foot and then your left foot. But when it comes to the removal of impurities from your

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body, when it comes to, for example, a distant jet, or a stitch now, when purifying yourself after having relieved yourself, then the sooner that is to use your left hand to use your left hand for the removal of impurities. Okay? There is some difference of opinion amongst all of that regarding the car or brushing your teeth, because when you're brushing your teeth, you're actually removing impurities, right? But then the question is, it's also an act of worship. I mean, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he first spoke about brushing your teeth, or SC web specifically, he said, as he went to Morocco, in Morocco, the rub that using the seawater is a means of purifying

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your mouth. It's much harder, it's but it's purifying for your mouth, but it's also pleasing to Allah. So it's an act of worship, right? So then they said, well, when it comes to see what, that's the exception that you use your right hand, and this is called the difference of opinion.

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The next caddy is the hadith of Omar apollyon. of your loved one. What about her? She said that the process instructed us at the time of washing the dead body of his daughter saying that, but their loved one How about her to begin with her right side became even when you're washing the dead person became with the right hand side and from the parts that are washed in blue to begin with that.

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So we also learned that women should wash women, okay, women should wash women men should wash men, the only exception would be or the only allowable

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circumstance would be if a woman wanted to wash the body of the husband, that would be permissible. There is one of the must haves who don't allow this but the more correct opinion Allah as owners business that a spouse may watch the body of this past.

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The hobbies of other whatever a loved one who discarded will party and Muslim now he

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is talking about shoes wearing your shoes and taking off your shoes. Now, he said well I said that when any of you puts on his shoes he should put on the right one first.

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So he put him on the shoes you start with your right and when he takes them off, he should begin with the left removing shoes so kind of love this is how specific his plan is his plan regulates every aspect of our lives. And especially those turn on turn and serve a regulator even in a which should take off which she to put on first, which led etc.

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So the Heidi is

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fighting and Muslim now the next we have the heartbeat

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of HubSpot worldwide.

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She says that the messenger bots are seven he used to use his right hand. He used to use his right hand

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for eating, drinking and wearing his clothes and used to use these left hand for other purposes and in the happy hour. Whatever your loved one is found also incident of their award.

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The prophet SAW Selim said when you wear your clothes or perform a lot begin with your right hand side lots of emphasis on the right hand side.

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Now let's move on to the heartbeat of ns ns of your loved one who a lot that is founded Buhari and Muslim, that when the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam he went to Milan Mina is one of the places that the project should visit is the starting point for hedge Mina followed by an out of fat

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followed by Miss bennifer and then back to medical. Now Amina is where the jamara when the stoning takes place of the pillars with shape on a pea, or the devil appeared before prophet Prophet Ibrahim alayhis salaam when he came to slaughter his son is married.

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So the promise I send them he

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Went to Vienna and he came to Germany to Africa and three petals. After that, he went to his lodge in Milan and sacrifice. Then he called for a barber. And he pointed

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his right side to him. So he's pointing to the right hand side, shave from here, shaved from here, then he pointed to his lip and said, Take hair from him, then he distributed these hair among the people because the hair is cut. It's blessed. He can, you can perform

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as attorneys with the hair, the promise on my body for seven. But in any case, even when it comes to shaving your head, or cutting your hair, you know, you should be informing the barber, okay, to start with the right hand side, this is the son of the proper solomani. Who said, Now we come to the book of at keytab, a double find the book about the etiquettes of eating. And so that really is amazing, because it really is something that you know, who would ever think that a religious, a religion that includes the mannerisms related to relieving ourselves which folks should go to the toilet first, which foot should come out which hand We should eat with wash we how we eat. That's

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how a lot this shows how the universality the comprehensiveness of Islam. And hence we say it's a way of life. Now, the chapter is mentioning Bismillah before and saying Alhamdulillah after eating, before you eat, you say this will lead you to say Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim that's corresponding for this millet. And likewise, when you come to slaughter an animal, it's just Bismillah.

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It's actually not befitting to say Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim, the Most Merciful, the most compassionate, and then you slaughter an animal. It's not it's not this, isn't it? The context is not correct. To say that always most important, always compassionate. And then you're slaughtering

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to write.

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Spam is very sensitive to these areas.

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So we have the hadith of Oman even sent him out their loved one humor, that is fundamental fighting Muslim.

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The prophet SAW alarm while he was sitting. And he said to him, he said to him, suddenly, suddenly left what couldn't be anything. What could it mean? He, he said to him, say Bismillah before any levels before eating, and eat with your right hand and eat from what is needed to you. Three execute today, say Bismillah h with your right hand and eat with what is in front of you. So before you eat, and before you drink, make sure you stay disciplined, like you have children, we see that eating and drinking, recent Disneyland reminding getting into the habit of St. Milan Pronouncing alized George's name now.

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Also, there's another etiquette and the eating with your right hand.

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And we're going to talk about that in another Hadith. But if a person Sometimes a person may be left handed, if a person is left handed, that's probably most have to do with their writing. It's very difficult to write with their right hand for whatever reason that is, if that is the case, that there should be no that shouldn't prevent them from eating the right. Okay, sure, you can write but there's no harm in eating with your right hand drinking with your right hand. Now

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let's move on to the next Huggies.

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She said that the messenger of herself said when any of you wants to eat, he should mention the name of Allah in the beginning and they would say this. And if he forgets to do so, in the beginning, he should say Bismillahi r one who were who were zero, a one a one

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a one a one a zero. So,

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if if you forget, you know, you, you got carried away being overwhelmed by the smell of the food in your hand, you know, and then you just basically dig in and then

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we left so now in the beginning in the middle University specific left, he said this meal, R Rahman r who was

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I was Bismillah for the beginning portion for the beginning part and assalamu for the latter part for the end of the day. Bismillahi r one r one r zero. Okay, so remember this because it happens to us every now and then. So Bismillah AR what we're after. And this hadith is found in a Timothy and a Buddha will illustrate

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with you

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on cancer, the heartbeat of Jagger will be a loved one who

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he said I hope the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying if a person mentions the name of Allah upon entering his house or at shavon says, Stefan says, addressing his followers, you will find nowhere to spend the night and no dinner. He says, Let me tell a homeowner Asha, if somebody mentions a last name when they enter their home, and you say Bismillah the shaman says that worry about this household there is no room for you to have any accommodation here no accommodation for you tonight here and there's no food for you, because this person has said this meal.

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But if he enters without mentioning the name of last shape on stage and goes to his followers, you have found a place to spend the night in an EP does not mention the name of Allah at the time of 18 he says he had found a place to spend the night in as well as food. So then the shape on will take away and grow grab a person or a household of bark of listing.

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So there are every year there are applications that you say upon entering your home memorize them from from fortress of the Muslim and one of the effective to us Allahumma in the US Luca. Luigi was for hire and mythology This means that you allege that what is the lack of courage now one the Athena token in

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our love I asked you for what is good of entrance and what is good for exits With the name of Allah do we enter and With the name of Allah Do we need and upon our of law have we put our trust always, always remembering Allah azza wa jal, there's Subhanallah a supplication I do have for almost every act that we do. When you enter your home when you leave your home when you ride your vehicle when you enter the boat when you leave the toilet, before intimacy. When you enter the question in the question after boo, boo boo before, we have a supplications of Palawan for every situation, now

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we have the heartbeat of FedEx to have Khadija

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ancova when we attended a meal with the Messenger of Allah sallallahu wasallam, we would not stretch both our hands towards the food until he would start at first.

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Once we were with him, when a little girl rushed in as if someone was impelling her she was about to lay her hand on the food with the Messenger of Allah lo it was set up for her hand, then a big one came in rushing in as if someone were pushing his body he was telling his hand also and he said, Satan considers that food local for him on which the name of a lot is not mentioned.

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So he Satan brought this girl to make the food local through her but I caught her hand. Then he brought the big one to make it local through here but I caught his hand to buy him in his hand my soul is now Satan's hand is in my grasp along with the hands when he mentioned the name of Allah and began to eat.

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So shaitan is is wants to eat from that meal. And he pushes people compels them so that there are say Bismillah and then because if they're excited with that

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we move on inshallah we'll tie that to the Hadees

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to the adhesive is about a lot more I

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inserted Timothy, the Messenger of Allah wa sallam was eating with his six companions, his six Sahaba

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when I tasted Arab cane and ate up the food in two methods,

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there was six of them present. And this man he comes out of nowhere, and he eats it all up in two knuckles.

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And then the process will allow him say had he mentioned the name of Allah, it would have sufficed for all of you to the park, I was removed because the name of ally soldier wasn't mentioned.

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So the pronouncement might be brothers and sisters. The span of a large land brings, it's what brings the blessing to the moon. Okay, it brings the missing and otherwise not pronouncing it or emitting ourselves a judgment. It robs it robs the blessing takes

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away. Rex Cadiz is the hottest member of the above one who he reports that whenever the messenger of a loss of a loved one and he was sent them, he finished a meal he would say, and handily that he can see your own play even mobile rock and see why you rob McAfee in what, in what during one

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is basically operations due to Allah praise which is abundant, pure and full of blessings, which is indispensable and to which one cannot be indifferent. Now, there is another hobby for a simple hobby. And by saying this hobby, after you finished eating, all of your sins get wiped away. Of course, this is a reference to your database change your mind, because major stains in eternity for sincere repentance and the conditions of Dover, putting a stop having remorse and regret intending to do it again.

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So, the hadiza

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even nsmb a loved one who

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he reports the process of love while he was sitting and he said man,

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who ever inspired to support and happen to the levy levy of harmony has what

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we have we will be

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So, the actual artist is to come to the lab and let me up to harmony. However, what does he mean? How many minima over

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if you see this, upon completion of eating your past sins are forgiven.

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And this Hadith, it translates All praise is due to Allah who has given me food to eat and provided it without any endeavor on my part or any power, all his past sins will be forgiven.

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The next chapter that has been included in the book of manners relates to the etiquettes of eating, he says, The prohibitionist of criticizing food, don't criticize foods, not from the Edit from the etiquettes let's listen to some Hadees here we have the habit of other whatever your loved one who above the Messenger of Allah, Allah wanting to send them

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next never found fault with food.

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If he had inclination to eat, to eat, he would eat and if we disliked it, he would take it. So if you had the inclination to if you didn't like to

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sit there and complain or whatever, like this, not my preferred food, you know, take it away. Why did you cook this today? Why did you cook this today? Why, you know,

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you should know better and start to criticize the food and this is not from the edit and the etiquettes of

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it, what you don't want to refrain from eating.

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And then we have the hadith of Jad about the loved one and

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the Rasul Allah It was said that he asked for source and was told that there was nothing except when

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he asked for it and began to eat from it saying how excellent is vinegar when eating when eaten as source? How excellent is vinegar with eating, as, as good as

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what this Heidi really throws light on the simplicity of the Prophet so long YT yourself. And that's a very important word as Muslims to be simple to be sin.

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And we also see the humility of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam regarding food,

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and how he would readily eat whatever was available to him, he didn't like it, he just refrain from the complaint.

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Now, this this body is in a chapter that

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he is titled, response to an invitation extended to a man observing fasting or song. This is a common question that some Muslims ask that. If I am fasting and heal by fasting, we are referring to up to voluntary fasting, optional fasting, not fasting of Ramadan. But if you are fasting, say Monday or Thursday, you get invited to walima you get invited to a feast. Well, from the the identity etiquettes of Islam is that you attend the wedding, or you answer the invitation, you respond to the invitation, but what do you do if you're fasting? Or is this cutting gives us the response and it's the heartbeat of

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Whatever the bar is founded by a Muslim,

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the promise of a lot of money he was said and he said either Doria, a failure gene, for in Ghana saw a man for you suddenly were in Iran.

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He said when any of you is invited to a meal, he should accept the invitation as the first thing except

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if he observed if he is observing, sown, he should supplicate for the betterment of the host. And if he is not fasting, he should eat

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it because it's optional, fast, you have two options is still attend, but you have the option to break your fast and eat from that face. Or you have the option not to break your fast but at the very least make dua for your host make to supplicate for your host say things like my life. So God bless his wealth, bless her wealth, bless his health, bless his family. barakallahu laka

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laka he Marika made to heart for this person, he thought of you think of him as well.

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So, again, we see how the study

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permits a person to break a voluntary fast. And we see the example of the prophet SAW a lot while he was setting them and how it clearly showed that is not binding electrocute your your fast. So you can break a voluntary fast. Okay.

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But should not refuse to, to attend, you know,

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refused to attend the time you should refuse really to attend a feast. You know, a

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feast where you've been invited to or when ILA was such a gathering is if there is haram.

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So if, for example, there is, you know, free mixing, very liberal, free mixing of the sexes of the genders, there is no music being played currently taking place that don't respond to that invitation. That would be an exception

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and advise that person and remind them

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not to attend that that not to go ahead even with this with it's chapter 11, number 11. That included in title seven, what should one say to the host, if an uninvited person is accompanied with an invited person? So you know, sometimes you have, you're invited, you're invited to a feast, to a wedding feast.

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Whatever it may be, now, the suit days to go, you might have somebody with you at the time. And he might say to you all Gee, what if I'd come along with you? Well, he hasn't been invited hasn't.

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So what does Islam say? Islam says he can bring him along with you. When you get to the host, he said to the host, look, I have this person with me. Do you mind if he comes in now, if he does mind, that person should he get offended, because that person has his reasons, whatever reasons it might be might be not enough food, it might be

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something else. Now the idea is the idea of having a surgeon or your loved one.

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He said that a man prepared some food, especially for the promise ourselves and invited him along with others.

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But a man accompanied him having arrived at the door the messenger will assert himself to the host, this person has followed us he may allow him if you like and if you like he will return. So he said a messenger of Allah I allow him to and the headache is found in provided. It's also found in Muslim. So it will be considered an expression of bad manners. If somebody participates in a face as an uninvited guest. And this happens, it could impact themselves help themselves.

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When hookah so introduce yourself to the husband say look, I've come along. I'm very excited about this party on his holiday party, and he have some food, find food. And I'd love to take part in that. And then it's up if he rejects you have to let just walk away. Okay. Let us please.

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The next Friday, or the next chapter, is titled this chapter in this book of etiquettes of eating, eating from what is in front of what what is in front of one or what is it

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front of you. And here we have the founding.

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It's the hobbies of Omar even seven of the loved one moves

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to recorded I was with a boy under the care of the messenger of a loss of a lot while he was sending them. And as my hand used to wander around in the dish, he for a long while he was sitting there, he said to me once, he said Dr. hulan, a young boy,

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it says some village Island neighborhood, some villages the injunction or the command to save 70 large island, what coolie be me and eat with your right, we're pulling in

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your rocket, from what is in front of you. So we have to be observant when it comes to our children and how they are eating. And are they observing these funny manners and etiquettes of 80. Now when it comes to eating from what is in front of you, yes, in some cultures, for example, you might have a big plate of rice, for example, and some meat mixed with some meat. And so the sooner he opposes or one dish you take from what is in front of you that eat from that side, and that side is eat from what I gather from what is in front of you. That's the swim. Now the only exception of being able to eat from different parts of the dish is if for example, you have a mixed platter. Again, whether

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it's seafood, whether it's pastries, whether it's fruit, now here you can take from different sides of the plate, because there is an invitation to eat with different types of different sides of the plate. Okay, so keep that in mind.

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Another heavy

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This hat is contains a lyrical, interesting, Heidi. It's the hobbies of cinema even acquire of the above one. He reported on the authority of his father, that a man ate with his left hand in the presence of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were upon his fellow law while he was sending them said he said couldn't be a mean it with your right. So that men out of pride, he said, Let us hear.

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I don't, I can't, I can't do that. I can't do that let us stop there. The professor long while he was sending became angry, became upset at this person's attitude. And he said less

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which means may not be able to do some. If you do so, our primary never be able to eat with your right. So it was Valentini that prevented him from doing that.

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And he could not raise his right hand up to his mouth afterwards. He was never able to ever raise his right hand

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can only eat with the left. So he will see a miracle of the messenger of a loss of a loved one he was Center, which supplications which were instantly answered. The help here we have another chapter

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in shallows either we have another chapter, what should a person say or do when he eats but he is not satisfied?

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Here we have what she even had. Probably a lot more on who reported some of the companions of the messenger have said we eat but we are not satisfied. We eat but we have not our our hunger is not quenched.

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He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said perhaps you eat separately the companions replied in the affirmative is it? Yeah, we do eat separately.

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And so he said, eat together and mentioned the name of Allah of your food, it will be blessed for you. So part of the blessing of

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a food and part of getting food is you eat together,

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eat together, even in the West, I have the same. The family that eats together stays together.

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eating together not eating alone. So if one should endeavor to always eat with with somebody else, there is more Baraka and make sure you save.

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The next chapter is eating from the side of the vessel, and I will touch on that but it's the habit of even at best but your loved one who met the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said blessing descends upon food in its middle. So equal to the size of the vessel and do not eat from

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attendee and this list hardy pretty much tells us how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam set to eat.

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And in part of his hockey, it says

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the messenger sort of sat down on his knees and rested on the soles of his feet. If you just imagine a seller,

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tucking in his lower legs, sitting on his face, and now these buttons is on his,

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on his, on his heels

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on the soles of his feet, a good one said to him, what sort of sitting is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Verily, Allah has made me a 30th slave, not a feast time. In namaha Gianni I've done cutting length one of the adjani or one of the a giant need jumped on it that shows again, the simplicity and the humbleness of a focus on selling and how I didn't sit back reclining. Okay, he wasn't aggressive. He wasn't a tyrant. He wasn't in any way giving out to show off.

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The nice Happy is the undissolved. The next chapter the undesirability of eating in a reclining posture.

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And here we have the Halley's that is firing up the

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piece of paper will have given up the law the law one reported that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it no eight reclining, goes against the pillar, sit back in in a recliner.

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kulu machete and enquire

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now there is some differences between of of what is meant by the reclining here, but even hydro

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commentator of it he says that one should sit with the right knee drone up and the left one bent down as one of the etiquettes that has been mentioned.

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of each and when you have you sitting down and your right knee is now up against you and your left foot is down.

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And he says the analyst report I saw the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam at some dates while sitting on his buttocks with his legs raised.

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The next chapter is the excellence of eating with three fingers and licking them. And by briefing this we mean the thumb, the index finger and the middle finger. So here even our bears are the one who may record the messenger of the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam. He said when when one of you finishes eating, he should not we should not wipe his fingers until he has leaked them himself or, or has given them to someone else to look for him.

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Now, what does this mean?

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Okay, the heading is authentic. it's valid for five years.

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before we go into that they mentioned the next

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tab is the medical biller, one of the reporters I saw the Messenger of Allah sola body was under

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18 with three fingers. Okay, leave them after having finished the food. Now here licking the fingers in it before washing them or wiping them with a towel because again, each with a barcode with a meal there is a blessing somewhere in the middle, you don't know where it is. So the sooner we can hope to have someone else to lick them and hear what they've mentioned is someone like your wife like your son, okay, or a very close friend provided

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provided he or she feels no aversion to doing that. If he had that in your nest Do you have an aversion to that if you feel like you

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have someone else doing it as

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it is?

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Okay, you're not obligated to show but it is there for you to enjoy.

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Now regarding that actually so pauwela

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the promise I said that he said

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we can edit the link in the fingers and the cleaning of the dish. Camera the lack of saga lack is the the licking of the fingers wah wah a softer Baka

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You don't have a plan if that's why it's done. Okay.

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Also, by the way, regarding eating with fingers, the there has been studies that shows that when you eat with your fingers, there is something that is produced some oils that are produced from your fingers. And when you eat, and it goes into your digestive system that actually helps with the congestion. It's actually been proven scientifically as well. So there is Baraka Baraka with eating with your fingers and eating with your hands, but more specifically with the three things.

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As for food that drops to the ground. This is another question what do we do with food that drops? There's a hadith about this gem about the other one who Allah reported that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, when a morsel of any of you falls, he should pick it up, remove any of the dirt on it, and then eat it, and should not leave it for the shape bond. No should wipe his hand the towel until he has picked his fingers, for he does not know in what portion of the food The best thing lies. And it's funny.

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Because to show the humility of Islam,

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the humility of the Prophet and his teachings

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are recorded that the messenger of assassin have said shape on a piece at everything done by you, he appears even at once dinner, when a morsel of you falls, you should pick her up and remove any third party, then he should not leave a push upon notion he wipes his hand with a towel until he has picked his fingers for he does not know in what portion of the food, the blessing lies. So again, so many hobbies regarding the licking of the fingers and eating with your fingers. And, you know, removing any harm if if the food falls to the ground.

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The next chapter is the merits of sharing food, the merit of sharing food. Here we have the Hadith, the hadith of a word or a gala.

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Originally from Muslim, the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said

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he can

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work on Amazon Alexa cafe, and he said the food of two persons, the food of two people suffices or is sufficient for three feet.

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And the food of three people suffices for four persons.

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Okay, and then another ration the food of one person suffices for two, the food of two suffices for four and the third of four suffices for eight to always one meal is sufficient for 50

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K, you can always if someone sends you a meal, you can actually share that and that's enough that one meal, you can actually share

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the etiquette of drinking water now we have a heartbeat here, ns ns record the process cell and he used to breed three times in the course of a dream. And so he used to drink in three goals. So the sooner you treat the monkey, let's say for yourself a glass of water, then responses to Scala or to just read all at once, as soon that is to have it in three cups. So you drink, breathe, drink, breathe and drink and then breathe. Okay, so three goals. This is the sudden

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three breaths to be taken.

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With regards to this.

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Another hudy do not drink in one Gulf like a camel. But in two or three thoughts two or three goals mentioned the name of Allah Hello essentially left and when you start thinking and praise names from the left, you have finished those Afghan finished

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the next study from Swaziland four babies breathing into the vessel while drinking. If you treat it from a vessel, then don't breathe into it you might have an illness

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that so again being considerate that some of our pick up that vessel and drink from

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Okay, any vessel you might have a vessel and put some water in it and then you leave it on the on the kitchen bench or on the dining table and someone seems to hold up and then that can take you to drink because drinking from other members of family but so don't breathe into Okay.

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Now, the next, the next hygiene answers

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another very important question that some people have. If you have some people in the gathering who should be served first, who do you serve first? Who do you offer the drink to first have the food first. We have some visitors

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that is an aspergilloma

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milk mixed with water was brought to the Messenger of Allah sallallahu. It was send them an onion, the right side was sitting at bedwin. And on his left was was good.

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And we know the position of

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the first collision, a trend from eight and handed the rest to the bed one saying one who is on the right has preference then again, the one who is on the right. So when you are handing something over to someone, you're in a circle who's sitting around, you hand it to the white, irrespective of who that person next to you is, even though it may be your father, your mother, your son, a close companion friend, you come to the right. And if you are, if you are hosting your visitors and you come with a tray of drinks or food, and you come to offer, you always start from the right, you work your way around from the right, this is the center and the etiquette of of doing this.

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We have another Heidi.

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Also in the fire a Muslim, a drink was brought to the mission from Osaka and he drank some from it. On his right was the boy and on his left was some elderly people. So again, young boy, elderly, would you give it to me first. But he was on his right, the boy. He said to the boy, would you permit me to give the rest of this dream to these on my leg. So the promise I sent him wanted to give it to the people on his trip because they are of that out of respect to them. But but the sooner that is to go with the right so what did he do? He sought the permission of the boy saying look, do you mind if I give to them, you have the priority to modify it today. Then listen to what

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the boy said very clever boy. He said a messenger of Allah, I would certainly not give preference to anyone, anything that might come to me from you. So I want I want to take the train to distract from I'm going to go for a woman. So you can make an offer for free to be handed over to the left.

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So the products are selling he handed over the rest of the drink to him.

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Okay, moving on to the next or the next chapter, the undesirability of printing directly from the mouth of a water skin or in our case in our base from from the bottle written directly from the mouth

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and promise are he preparing, turning the water scheme upside down and drinking directly from its mouth.

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Okay, for obvious reasons. The next idea the undesirability of blowing into the vessel while drinking. So let's say for example, you have a pistol and there's something on it you want to blow her away.

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It's undesirable to do this, based on the habit that is found

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in similar activity.

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If an artist and a loved one

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prohibited us from breathing into the drinking vessel or blowing, blowing onto the disk,

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the next ad for the next chapter the permission to drink while in a standing posture. So that's a common question. Are we allowed to drink standing? Or must we drink city?

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Now we have the habit of giving our best.

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He reported I serve the messenger.

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Messenger bots are selling them water. The Holy Water observed them to drink and he drank it while he was standing.

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Now there is another heavy and as for the other one who reported the call center forbade us from drinking while standing. compared the reported we asked him what about 80 he said that is even worse. For May be he said both the festival

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and another generation is a messenger of Allah reprimanded us for drinking while standing. Now when we have a look at an enterprise these are high tea.

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We see that as soon as as follows that when it comes to them some water because it's a blessed water.

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There is wisdom behind drinking extending and how it will go