Bashar Shala – The Sahabah – Part 20

Bashar Shala
AI: Summary © The segment discusses the history and character of the Prophet sallama Alayhi wa sallam, including his mission to protect the people of the Middle East and his use of deadly weapons during battles. The importance of raising children and bringing them into Islam culture is also emphasized. The segment also touches on the legal framework for women to fight in combat, including the stance that women have the option to fight or not, and the legal framework for men to have the option to fight or not. The segment ends with a recommendation for further reading and a recommendation for a book.
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Allah we continue on the study of the Sahaba of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the ones that that paved the way for this tower to continue on became the role model for our own for our nation to follow in their tracks. And we have been studying many of us a habit starting with the tender given neglect outing of paradise. We also studied the life of zeytinburnu had ether, and studied the life of Abu Dhabi Fati and Abdullah having Massoud on top of that, and today sha Allah who would have a little bit different thing to do, we will start studying some of the lives of the Sahaba yet the the female companions of

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the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, the ones that not only were a role model for our women, but also role model for men and women, and their dedication and then their faith and in their truthfulness to the slam into the Tao of Islam. And inshallah we study the life of some of them

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today, and we'll see how many we will get through. But I would like to start with introducing one Sahaba, one female companion of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam to give a correction at the end of I think it was the session before last one of the brothers asked me that really the Sahaba right the sea and went to fight an enable army to conquer Cyprus. And I mentioned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has given neglect hiding of his companion, going across the sea, to spread Islam and an army. And that was what he mentioned to one of those a hobby and I mentioned that she was

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a woman. And it's actually it's her sister, that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said that to and that sister is almost how long been to male hand or the Allahu Ana, Omaha Ron Benjamin Han is the sister of homeselling, who is on my site, Benjamin Han, and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was in the house of Omaha on Benjamin Han, and he used to come and visit Omaha and almost le and the scholars agreed that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam went and visited these two Sahabi edits to female companions, and he was alone to them. He had the right to see them with that hijab because he had relationship her his mother, I mean, I've been to a hab and these ladies had a relationship

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and bla bla, so they are consider his aunt's in robot and they are from Medina, they are from alongside. So there is an agreement on that some disagreement about what is the exact relationship of robot between the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And that family of Mohammed bin Salman Han, and almost certainly been to male hand

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and into will hand and but however we agree that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam frequented visiting them, praying with them and teaching them and will show them a study of the some of the aspects of the lives of these two Sahaba yet, or Muharram insuman hand she was with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the Hadith that she had is the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, urbanization in amati, Yokozuna and Baraka elgible, the first army of my oma of my nation that in that conquers through the sea, that make your head on the sea and naval army eligible means they are all given the flattening of paradise. They are given algebra agenda, meaning that they have right to agenda. And

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Mohan said, I received a lot nfdm I might among them are super warm. And this is a lady she's asking if she can be with the naval army and the Prophet Somali ascendancy NTP him. You are among the

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And she was given the glass padding that she will actually be monitored in the way of Alice Hannah with data. And that's exactly what happened to Mohammed bin Salman Han. Omar How long was with the very first army that invades across the sea to have Cyprus to Cobras to the island of Cyprus in the Mediterranean and the eastern Mediterranean. And Omar Hassan was died on that island, and the prophecy of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came through and that was during the fourth man of your lifetime. And the tube of Omaha, Ron is in Cyprus and Cobras and is known as the tomb of the righteous limit. And it's recorded in history and inanda that have been on the alarm and said even

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non Muslims would come to her tomb and and have blessings because they know that the righteous woman is buried in that place. And that was a Mohan Benjamin had.

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The question is, is that film still exists there. It is narrated by linen The Hobbit and that was in Cyprus and and that's that I don't know if that's exactly still exist or where it is. The second

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the second Sahabi which is really the main one of the two main hobbies that we'll study in Sharla. Tonight, after that initial correction that we did is our Oh my saw, my saw is called also almost Saleem Benjamin

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and she is the sister of Mahara and she is the Sahabi that we will speak off to this hobby that we will speak of today inshallah. She is known in history to some people and many of the scholars, but her son is actually much more famous than her. Her son is ns Eben Malik, he is the servant of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I'm sorry. So this is his mother, the life of her of his mother. Then shortly we will study

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the history books said that

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her name is herbal my saw or and when I saw this is one of her titles either at home I saw a lot of whom I thought, or her name, her real name was settler Obama. And there's some disagreement about what exactly was her name? What exactly was his title, but she's well known and well documented with her. Kenya and mousseline. almost anyone you hear almost selling this is the person that we are talking about.

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Almost Salim is from El Medina.

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And she had the son, ns. Eben Malik and his father was Malik Goodman novel and overselling proceeded to slab when her husband was not in with her he was on a journey and a travel and Malika mother came to his house and the people in Medina started telling him that your wife has become a Muslim. So he went to his house angry, and he asked his wife about it. Is this true? Have you rebelled against the religion of your father's against the worshipping of idols? She said muscle due to a lack of amends? No, I didn't rebel, but I believed in the religion of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then he looked at his son, and he heard his young son and as say, an eyeshadow La ilaha illallah wa

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shadow, Mohammed de sola. And that made him more angry that now his his wife and his son and Subhan Allah, amen. Faith does not enter into the heart of Malik, and another. And he leaves his house angrily. And he goes on the second trip that he had scheduled to a sham, and he dies and that trip and he dies as a non believer.

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So he said he was left as a widow, a Muslim widow with a young son, who is Malik, who is NSF invalid. And what can she do with this son? How can she trust, she's a new Muslim, and she wants to raise her son on the Islamic tradition on Islamic virtues on Islamic manners. So this intelligent, smart, shrewd woman thinks that the best way to raise her son on the virtues of Islam is to let him be with the Prophet salallahu, alayhi wasallam 24 hours a day. And she is an older woman and she took her son and she went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And then she said, This is nice. This is your servant. Nice, a nice, little Ennis. It's making ns a belittling in the name and

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sometimes it's used as a loving way of calling someone and she said Heather Oh, nice. This is Ennis or Oh, nice. I think to be here. I brought him to you, too.

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serve you in law Hello, pray to Allah subhanaw taala for him and Allah subhana wa tada said Allahumma XM Allahu Allah, Allah Allah have blessing in his money in his building and in his children, and in one narration and his armor and also in his life and his age, and it is known that NSM nomadic was Catherine med. Well Catherine Willard, and he died over 90 years old. He had too many children and he was a rich man, the servant of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, because of that, of that famous the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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that widow and Medina now that Muslim widow in Medina, with her son in the custody of the best of creation, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he comes a man, a Muslim man.

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Excuse me, here comes the man who asked her hand for marriage, but that man was not a Muslim. This man was I will call her I will call her came to Sally and asked her hand in marriage and she said yeah, I will call her was known and and Medina as a righteous man, not a religion but a normal man who's got virtue and manners and good behavior and he's a noble man. So said, Yeah, but called Hi, my name is Luca Raj, and man like you cannot be rejected. Well, I can go on Kapha but you are a nun? No, you're not a Muslim. You are not a believer. When a Muslim, and I am a Muslim woman, well, I

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can I cannot marry you.

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I will tell her was done. He is one of the nervous man and he is going through this widow was an orphan and he expected her just to

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basically accept and be very happy with that offer. And here, she is rejecting for one thing. He said, We you don't have the faith that I have. And she rejected him for that reason. So he went to the prophet SAW Allah Holly who wants to see what's going on. And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam saw her coming and that is after Hydra. And he said Jericho will call her Islamic na the Al Hakim and the light of Islam is between his eyes, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And so that Islam is coming to the heart of our boots on and he came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, would you accept Islam for yourself and I will call

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her became a Muslim. And then the Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam said, this is your this is your gallery tomaselli so the gallery of Constantine was an Islam.

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That was her gift that was the gift that He gave His wife is an Islam and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam accepted that and said to Islam, he is a Tabby he said, My semana de Dima Harun kana, me Mario missiny and Islam. He has said we have never heard of anything that was more precious than the devil at the moment of almost selling because it was a slap. And that's how that Muslim family gathered together almost any and open house and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam consummated their marriage and made their contract of some of Mohali.

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There's some many incidents and stories that happened between this family the family of almost selling herbal palha and an ns lb Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam we know and as had many Hadith he was the narrator of Hadith because of its closeness to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so many of these stories and to get to know this woman and to get to know this family of the Align edge Mary, we hear some of these stories narrated by us.

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And there was many stories that married the blessings of Allah subhanaw taala put on this family. They brought she brought her son to the Prophet, and she accepted them she brought a man to Islam, a man who became a regenerative step. So this woman is blessed the alesund Hannah with that and blessed by His Prophet, because of what she is giving and what she is doing for this doubt. And one time she said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a bag sack filled with butter or ghee, that's housemade seven, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said, give this back tomaselli he had some and he said, Give her the rest of it. So almost Celine said, I took that bag of butter, and I hang it and I kept eating from it for a month and two months, and this will never be depleted it just every time we eat from it, as if it never ends.

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That is some of the blessings that happened with him sending him and narrated with almost any.

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And then she came to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and she said, something is happening this is never ending this bag of butter is or ghee is not ending and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said Yama sallied, attach avina and can mama Obama comma Tom Cynthia, are you surprised that Allah Subhana Allah is feeding you like you said his prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam could eat and bring this is a blessing from Allah subhana wa.

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Once I'm in and it has narrated in some books that this happened during the Battle of Hunter, during the Battle of the as the Sahaba and prophets of Milan, he was sending them were digging the trench around Medina to protect against the Lazarus. They had a problem with supply and food, and they had almost a famine and they were hungry and they needed food and sustenance and I will tell Hakeem to his wife almost selling all the Allahu Allah. And he said look at Sameer Torah Soto Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Oba I heard weakness and the voice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam exhaustion and hunger

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to see in June, I recognized hunger in * in the cache. Do you have something that we can give to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam?

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And she said, Yes, I have. And she asked him to bring the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and bring few people with him. He said, we only have she had four loaves of

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bread, and she had some meat

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and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So I will call her coming to him. And he came and whispered in the prophets ear, he said, I would like to invite you in Sharla to our house and bring a few people with you. And the Prophet sallahu wa salam was in MSG, and MSG, delivery. And he said to everybody in MSG, to get up, Paul has inviting us

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a few loaves of bread, and this just a small amount of food. And here's the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, inviting

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everybody to come and eat in the house of Sally. And the story goes, as noted on NSF and Malik, and this isn't even set, by the way. He said today in IDM. And

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Ms is the step son for bufala. So he ran to the house and he told his mother, he said jharsuguda

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as a whole has a lot to celebrate everybody. And while

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we have nothing to feed them, and this believing woman, she said Allahu Allahu Allah. See, don't worry, Allah and His Prophet noveske

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salaam knows that what we have that he brought them, it is fine. It is okay. So she did not panic. She did not yell at her. She did not have any distress over this situation.

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And the Prophet sallallahu wasallam came to this house and he said hello, NEMA in Dec el mursaleen. Give me what you have your own city, she brought this bread, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, cut and cut the bread and pieces. And he brought butter or against some sort of grease or fat. And he put it over it. And and he said to the people start coming 10 by 10 he gave permission to 10 for Heather to come to the house and he said eat and then we'll eat from that wall. And they would be saturated. And they would leave and he said that then after them and then after them. And then after that until the entire Sahaba that were in the masjid that day or working that

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day. They all ate from that bowl of homoserine. And at the end he said yeah, mysoline either has an insomniac enough for me. Tell me and he gave the birth to him send him an apple Han ns the family the host and he said tell me is this similar to what you give me and almost selling said be at the end Samia rasulillah now the end. Me aku nothing to manaka salmon Pamela Shay had I not seen him with my own eyes eating. I would say this bowl has never been touched, as if it's never been touched. And this is one of the miracles that of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and it was a blessing and it was an honor to the house of unsullied that had the generosity to share whatever

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little they had with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his companion.

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And one of the things that

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Salim radi Allahu Allah, she had a son and Allah, Allah gave a we'll call her and almost setting that one son and his name was Abu Romeo. I bought a maid was young child. He's like according to

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The narrations, probably five to six years old, and he was beloved to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he had a pet his pet was a bird, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so may at one time and he was

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sad. And he asked what is going on? Why is it sad? And they told him that his pet died, that bird died, and he came the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself. And he said with abou mayor, the son of Heron have mostly been to Manhattan and he said, Yeah, about a meth Island Malaya, or Burma, what happened to the new writer, he started condoling, this young kid, and if you read this, this hadith of a boy or may have fallen away, maybe like a story that may not

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be of many significance, but many Foucault has said there is about 70 lessons that can be learned from that one heady. Some of it is you can give a title to young children, like a boy or man, usually abou something is given to adults. But you can do that for young children. The other thing is, children can have pets. And birds can be kept as pets with children, and many, many lessons that are learned from that particular incidence.

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this young child of

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a boufal had almost become sick, and becomes,

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has a lot of illness and becomes feverish. And one time about one half leaves the house. And Obama was very ill. And during his absence on mousseline sees that her son is dying, and her son, Obermeyer dies in her hands. Now this is her young child dying, and she wants to see how can she behave? How can she work and she knew how much I will call her, loved his son of oromia. And she wanted to bring it to her husband in a way that would make him a believer more of a believer of Allah subhanaw taala and cause the least sadness and distress and his heart. And that is one of the stories that are well documented and well narrated in Islamic history. When I will tell her came to

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his house, and his son is dead and he doesn't know it, almost Saleem was and her best fears.

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No crying, no sadness. She received her husband with a smile. And he first thing I will tell her I

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said is he asked how is Amir Masha Allah, what happened to my son? And she said, Who else can you Mecca? He is resting. He has He's the best. He's got the best dressed, he is resting. He didn't tell him what happened to his son. And then she brought him dinner. And he ate dinner and she was with him. And in that night, they had marital relations. And then the next morning, she wakes up, and she asked her husband, and she said, we had neighbors, and they gave us something that we bought from them. And now they want to come and take it.

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Should we be mad at them? And I will tell her I said no, no, just give it to them. If they gave you a trust idea. She said if is that oh Diana hadn't idea?

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Can we be mad at those people who want to come and give their trust? And I will Paul has said no give it to them.

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And she said I will call her Allah Subhana Allah has taken back what he has trusted with us. He said in the law, God destroyed our data that Allah subhanho wa Taala has taken back his trust has taken back what he has given us. And he knew that aborto may have his son has died. And he went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he didn't know he said, This is what almost Selim did with me. She didn't tell me and she let me have the night with her. And she gave me dinner and then in the morning, she told me about about my Sunday. And the sun masala Holly, he was Selim said arastoo Laila, did you have relation last night? And he said now? Yes, we did. And then also Lhasa, Mama

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Holly, he recently said Allahumma barik lahoma Allah bless them. And from that night, Allah subhanaw taala gave the blessing of son called Abdullah and Abdullah who was brought to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he took him and he prayed for him. And it is narrated in history and on the authority of obey a neurotic. He said that this young man young child, Abdullah, this newborn, I believe

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No Abby Paul has lived and he had seven children. All of them recited the Quran and all of them are half of all of them are half and for the Quran carried by the prayer of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and by the patience, that was exerted by almost any for that will sleep for that calamity that she that she was narrated, that she was afflicted with.

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Almost Salim was also reason for one of the famous Hadith about an ombre we know the Hadith that says Omar from fear Ramadan died, you looted.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said the oma in Ramadan equals heads with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on Salim is why this Hadees is there, because what happened is when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam performed his head

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he came back to El Medina and he said, Oh, Saleem wasn't with us wasn't in a hedge and he asked her why Why weren't you with us? And almost said to him said y'all are so long my husband has only two camels, one of them he took with him to hedge and the other one he left it to help with to irrigate the the palm trees so they use the camel or the for irrigation. So it also masala to sell them said when come Ramadan comes then go to hombre in now Moroccan Ramadan, Daddy aloha Gemini so he gave her that so she would not feel like she was she was very sad that she missed the header of the Prophet solani lesson and that was the only hedge that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam did. And he gave her

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that blessing and the blessing for the rest of this owner. That if you perform the underwriters Rama bond, then the reward of it it does not

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satisfy the requirement for hedge. We still have to do the volleyball of a hedge. But the reward of that ombre and Ramadan equals hedge with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Only Saleem had also another aspect that was well documented in history that is her jihad. She is one of the few women with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam that actually performed the duty of jihad and an NSL yellow and he said, cannot assume the law his whole Allahu alayhi wa sallam was will be only Sally Rogers Allahu

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wa homina on for your screen Allah while you Davina jaha. He said that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam took on selling and some women of the onslaught with him to battle. And what they will do is they would bring water to the soldiers for to keep them fighting. And they would also help with the wounded they would nurse they would take care of the ones that

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and on the man of the Hubby, he said that almost everything was in her name. And she was also in a hard

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cabinet caribou Malik narrated the famous wahabis I'm sorry, he said I saw Emma Celine and Asia or the Allahu Ana, almost setting and I had the wife of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam on the day of carrying water to the soldiers and to the wounded. They they were doing their duty by carrying water to the soldiers and to the wounded.

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When she was pregnant with Abdullah, with the son that came after

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the Battle of her lane, cane, and she went out with the Prophet sallallahu he was sending them despite being pregnant, and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. So her husband, so a dad good with her. She had a dagger with her. And he said, What is this? Why are you carrying this dagger with you? Yeah, almost suddenly, and he smiled and she said, This is my dagger to defend myself. So he went to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he was laughing, and he said, I am Tara elomi salema My wife has a dagger with her she wants to fight with us. And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, What are you doing with this weapon? What are you doing with this dagger? And she said if one of those

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enemies come to me and I will stab it with it, I will stab him with it. I will defend myself and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam smiled and did not object to her carrying that dagger during the battle.

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The aroma album I saw the intimate hand and we said even no matter how mad Han is considered as one of the people that are given the glass dodging of Paradise it's one of Alba shuttle, and that is narrated in Sahakian Buhari. There in football in as habit Navy in the in the section of the virtues of the Companion of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, all this life of almost any

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peace in that one heading.

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When she was given the glac dhading of Paradise, and that had Eve

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said right the hunter Jenna when I entered paradise and Allah knows best that may be during the trip of surah and Mirage during the journey of Hassan mirage. He said some miracle hush button baignade I heard the noise and I turned 30 that deliver my slot or bill home I saw Benjamin Hannon I saw almost selling I saw him I saw a woman hand in an agenda. And in another Hadith in Muslim the the part that is narrated in Muslim that he also heard the footsteps of blood of vilella and raba. And that is insane Heidi, so she had the Glatt siding of Paradise she gave was given this Bushra of Paradise and she was one of the Sahaba of the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wasallam

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any comments on the life of almost any inshallah we will go to the study to the life of the second so how do the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after that

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we make for javion. So, okay, inshallah, we will go on and continue with the second. So habia, the, the female so have at the lady Muslims, the ones that that that became the role model not only to our Muslim woman, but to lie to our Muslim men also to everyone and their dedication and their strength of a man and we ask Allah Subhana Allah to benefit us with with with all of these lessons. The second woman is is comes from a very great family she's also from Milan, far from from an Ohio dream.

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This is a more Amara, Amara and Faria, to say that been to cat Alma Xenia. He is very well known in history. With her bravery, her honesty, and her love for Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah and His messenger. She comes from a very good family of Muslims and Mujahideen, her brother Abdullah Abu kab was from the people that fought with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam in better, her other brother, Abdul Rahman bin cap was one of elder care in there are known in history as the crying Sahaba. And those are the Sahaba that are mentioned in the Quran, that when they came to Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wa send them into a book and they were poor. And when the sola sola, send them said, I have

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nothing to give you I have no arrived focus, also masala insulin did not let anyone go to taboo unless they either had a camel, a mule or something to write on, because it was 1000 kilometer one way at least, to get there. So it was really a very long journey. So that when he told them, I don't have rights for you, I have nothing that as you do, like Kamala Kamala, they went, and they were crying, and there were seven of them. And one of them was this her brother Abdul Rahman, even cat and those are given an honor and Qur'an and by Allah Subhana Allah and Sora to tell them

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Oh, Amara, you say that is very important for Javi and from Omar Ahmad there's so many lessons in football, so many listens in our religions to really be heated and attended to and and learn from

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there and in the bay out of Africa, you know, we have to Bay alfalfa de la basura aka Cobra, these are the two treaties that the people of Medina came to Mecca and gave the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. The the oath and the promise that they will protect him and they will believe in him and Medina. The first VEDA is called Silva, and he was attended only by men, although it's called Bay I can miss out. The first one that is attended by only men is called the pledge of women. The reason because the pledge was to believe in Allah subhana wa to Allah to not to steal, but not for indicate, but there is no promise of jihad. So the later on the historians call it the pledge of

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women meaning they pledged on what usually poor women pledge to do, and when they come into a slump, but this is one of the contrary the things that to pay attention to when you hear off a lack of a civil war. They actually sat there isn't a women in their butt battle, aka Cobra, there is women in there, and there's two of them. And Omar Amara was one of them. This is where it comes to significance with our, with our session today is this woman was one of the very first women to give the pledge to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that she believes in a lot, and she believes is His Messenger and she will perform the duties of this religion and she will avoid all the things

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that Allah subhanaw taala doesn't want

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She will protect the prophets of Allah Holly who was sent them. She gave the pledge like all the men, and here's how the story goes. And Alaska and Cobra 7073 men gathered with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and two men, two women, and this is narrated on cabin Malik. One of them were nice to say they've been to crab and messenia and the other one has now been to ordain from Venezuela. So you say that and asthma are the two women that are gave the pledge to Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. And walk with he said that men would go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and they would shake his hand with the bat. And then the Z was he is the husband of Mr.

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Amara. Her husband called he said, Dr. Salalah. We have two women with us, should they come and give you the pledge, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I give him the pledge to human Island, to comme la vida de la Sofia Nisa, he said, I will give them the pledge like you give me I will accept their pledge, but I don't shake hands with women. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not shake hands with nusseibeh or snap, but they gave the pledge of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Amara did not take that lightly. Although by the Islamic teaching and Philippa, she does not have an obligation to go and fight. And we will touch on some of that she

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doesn't have the obligation to combat but since she wasn't that they are, and it wasn't they are for protection of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. She took it upon herself that she does have that obligation. And she performed that obligation in jihad. He said he didn't learn as we will see in sha Allah.

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Haha, and in women and combat in Islam, and we will touch on that, as it is written in this book. And it is written by Colleen Juma and this book is called for seven men also in Nevada. And the opinion is to the author here. He said, the research that he did about what is the ruling on women fighting with men in combat on combat field in the fields of jihad. He said, First, the two rulings on that number one it is allowed.

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And he said the first the the allowable can take two forms.

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A woman can go with her husband into the battlefield and the battlefield war used to be months away and travel. And they can if they have a place of the men decided that they can take women with them without jeopardizing the well being of women, then that is allowable to be with her husband, if the battlefield is far away. The second thing he said to go to serve the army, like bringing water and to take care of the wounded like and and the evidence for that the delille for that is the Hadees that we mentioned that I shall only allow Anna and mousseline used to bring water to the wounded during the Battle of Gods. And he said that is the other allowable. The second one. The second

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condition it is not likeable for women to go out and fight in combat. And the four kaha said the M the hobbyist of the hero I change face to Hello namaha Ramallah Well, at

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least he and how are you up Allah when he said women are not made to fight for physical fighting. And then when they come into combat, then that can weaken the army because men will be busy by trying to protect this woman and they get distracted by their main objective on the battlefield, which is attacking the enemy. So they go from the fence to the defense when they have their women with them on the particular battlefield and said in that condition, it becomes not allowable to bring women right into combat and Battlefield. The other thing is if the enemy would

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defeat the Muslims, then that will put the women and great danger of losing their honor and losing also their life in that battlefield.

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And then finally, he concludes that there is an agreement that if there is a necessity for nurses for people to take care of the wounds is and people to bring water of there's no man or blue bring supply, then women are allowed to go into combat and I showed you alone

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came to the Prophet sallallahu ala you send them and she said, Yasuo Allah no jihad, Iman Flm jarhead he said we women see that jihad is the best of actions can we go to Jihad also Rasul Allah to send them setelah after the Jihad Jihad john mabou best Jihad for you is the head that is given purely to the way of Allah subhana wa tada and in another Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said man sunlit for baja was so much Haha, what have you got from jaha were acquired Xhosa pleanala had clearly been a web in general it shows that the woman that prays her prayers on time and fast the month of Ramadan and protects her honor and and and obeys her husband, Allah Subhana

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Allah tells her on the Day of Judgment you can enter Paradise from any gate you want. And and then Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam said what Caledonian condemn and if Allah and few of those a few that actually do that, we know how hard it is, maybe to obey the husband inshallah, in the in the obedience of Allah Subhana. What that

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having said that, our

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Sahaba today had participated in a duty of jihad. And here's how it happened.

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Not all of you, Allahu, I'm happy to say that went with her husband. So it is one of those allowable issues that she went with her husband to a HUD to the battle for HUD, and her husband was because he took mom.

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And she didn't go to actually to start the fighting. She did not go with the intention to do the combat. And here's what it's noted in the history books and records have been said. And he said she went with a with a sack of water. So she her intention really was to provide water for the fighting army during that battle. And what happened we know what happened that day, and the Battle of odd things turned upside down. And the victory the that was initially in the battlefield for Muslims turned into retreat, and the Muslim army folding the chaos. And that's how Amara found herself on the battlefield. It was was an army that is in chaos and shambles and it's retreating periodically

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from the battleground. And she said, this is narrated from her he said in the very beginning of the day hospital and the hot water St. Paul FEMA, I had water with me so I was just giving the, the the water to the people. And then she said Philemon has a Muslim woman. When Muslims were with reading when Muslims were being defeated in history, Lara su de la, I ran towards Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was al Qaeda. And I started fighting. That's when Omar Amara started, took her sword, and she stood with very few. So However, with onslaught of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, she said,

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All she was doing she was defending the Prophet of Allah subhanho wa Taala with the sword. Well, I don't even close and I started throwing out his hat, the huddle sock, until I got wounded. And that is also one of the honors of say that she was gravely wounded in that battle.

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And she was asked my alma mater, who did you who got to you during that she said,

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if we remember from the history from the Sierra sessions, Colombia is the one that gave the woman who said I killed Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was the one that came to kill the Prophet from the law honey your Salah, and what he did is he killed Musab no male rhodiola and, and Omar was very handsome. Musab Norma was very handsome and he had his features were similar to the profits on the LA Harley he was selling and he thought he killed the profits. And that's when the rumors started that he killed the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that she said Connie came this man came and he said volumi Allah Mohammed show me Mohammed naman from from Niger should not survive if he survived.

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Ebola husaberg no man came up to him to stop me and we know that Musab was killed during that encounter. And he said and then we started fighting for garavani and OBO. Kamiya is the one that Wounded Knee and then she said, I hit him. He hits me once and I hit him many. I he he she hits me many times. But she said like in la de la Kennelly Duran, but the enemy of Allah had two shields, two shields on top of each other, so her stripes did not injure him, and he injured her

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after she was injured, she said after that there was only about 10 people around the profit center.

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Hello, Holly usnm, and among them were my two sons and my husband, and people were around us and a man came to me and gave me a shield and I took the shield and I continued to fight

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with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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After that she passed out in that battle, and she was carried by the Muslims. And she was rescued from the battlefield with her wounds. And the very first thing that you say back to blue cab, she opens her eyes. Now there was a woman, a normal woman, with her two sons, and a husband and the battlefield. The first question she asked, What is Russell, my wife? What happened to us over the millennia? This is the belief in her heart. This is the only thing I mean, we have to remember that these are not angels.

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These are normal people. But look at the faith and the heart. They love Allah Subhana Allah and His Messenger more than they love themselves more than they love their families more than they love their spouses and more than they love their children. And that was a true example of how you say that did that. She said a noticeable law and they said who are behind who are behind he is alright. He is fine. So muscle olalia Center, he said Alhamdulillah she didn't want to know anything else. All she wanted to do is to make sure that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is fine.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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also noted on the son of Amara that when she was wounded, she asked the Prophet send a lot. Now when she was wounded, she thought that she's dying. She was gravely wounded as we said, she turned to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and she said yes, una La Ilaha aka Jenna, as Allah Subhana Allah to be with you in Paradise, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allahu Akbar, if in general this is during the battle, and he said, Allah make them with me meaning the family of Amara with me an agenda. And she said, Matt will barely matter five any minute dunya I care less about what would happen to me in this dunya after the prayer of Russell muscleman Mahalia center, and some of the

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scholars said, this is a beshara this is actually glad tidings for Mr. Amara, that he will be with the Prophet sallallahu wasallam because the prayer of the prophets of Allah Holly you send them is answered.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in provocative inside he said, Matt, especially to Yemen and well he melon Illa Allah, wa Hussain, better dooney ever I turned right and I turned love and I seem to say that fighting around me on the day of it.

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And it seems after that that maceda of the Allahu Amara became addicted to pleasure of Allah Subhana Allah so she came out with so with the prophets of Allah to send them in so many battles he went to the Battle of stunning Cordova. And she fought she went with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam no the first pledge that she gives to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam first day hours they actually occur the Cobra now Allah subhanho wa Taala ordained for her to give another pledge to Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. And that pledge was mentioned in the Quran as one, she was one of the women that went with the Prophet sallallahu he was sending him to davia and she gave a pledge to the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Elko de Viet to fight with the Prophet until death. Again, she was one of the people that are given this honor and the entire

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group of people what 1400 Muslims are all considered of people of a gender by scholars, because Allah subhanaw taala said that all the Allahu

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Allah, Allah Subhana Allah is pleased with with the leavers who are giving you the pledge under the tree and that is they are probably one or may as well note or by

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many names for this. They are and Omar Amara was with with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The prize for the people of alpha davia was to go to Haifa, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said only the people that go to high bar are the ones who went to Africa the idea they gave the pledge of reward. So she got also the chance and the honor to go with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to Haifa and she was with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam during those battles.

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She also was in the second most important battle after Muhammad when Muslims were shaken and they were in great danger at that time which is the Battle of her name. She was with the with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and the Prophet said the law

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usnm was trying to regroup the Muslim army and the value of foreign aid. And he around him he will see again new say that to bring to Camp messenia fighting with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said al adhamiya was now the heat of battle starts. And she was right there with the Sahaba, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and in that battle, she actually killed one of the unbelievers. And that was the first and the last casualty that is recorded on Omar Amara. But most of her of her defending with the Prophet, she goes always with the Prophet, to take care of the wounded, and to help the supply for the army, but to two places that you fought for when she had to,

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and the Battle of our heads and in the Battle of her name, because of what happened during the battlefield. So from that the scholars took the the ruling that women have to be they are to go to the battlefield to take care of the wounded or to make the supply they also have to be trained on the essential skills of defending themselves if something happened and they have to take arms and defend themselves, like Omar Amara Raja Mohan headed

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after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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the red the happened the the rebels against Islam and during the time of Abu Bakr Saudis, and one of the most evil most dangerous one was to say that men could learn a lot and you say no man cuz that

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one had some correspondence with the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam chooses Habiba crusade. Habib Abizaid who is the son of Omar Amara as a messenger of the messenger of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam to go to Jerusalem. And here's what the treacherous men who say lemma does, he takes the messenger of the Prophet, and he takes him as a prisoner and he wants to kill him. Now messengers are not to be killed, but this treacherous lying Salem wanted to kill Habib, Eben Zaid and hadebe

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was brought to Salem and you send them ask them to ana Muhammadan rasul Allah. Do you witness that Muhammad is a prophet of Allah, and have you who was raised by Omar Amara? He said, Shadow Rasulullah Yes, I witness that he is Russell moonwalk. And he said to me, Rasulullah Do you witness that? I will say Nana Rasulullah and Habib said an awesome plasma. I'm deaf. I can't hear you. So he's making a mockery of Mozilla. And then he said, and we'll say lemma said don't kill him like this. And he said, Let's he started this numbering heavy, heavy was alive. He would cut him what one finger one hand one leg at a time, until heavy of the law and became a martyr with Messiah.

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The news come to nusseibeh Omar Amara, this heroine of Islam and she make a vow for last panel with Allah that she will fight Lucy lemma and film say Elena is killed and she goes with Khalid Abdullah lead with the army that was sent she wants to go and take care of that man that did that to her son dismembered her son alive for the Allahu anhu met Jimmy and she came to the to Khalifa and she asked for permission and he she said yeah, yeah honey Fatah rasulillah I want the permission to go was with the fighting army. And a severe crowd the Allahu and he said yeah, Amara man is lucky you had Aveda who have enough food. Not a woman like you can be stopped from going with that arm he knows

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her history he said out of snacky we know who you are. While Nigel attack even how we know you're daring we know your bravery. fuckery g this Lila go with them in the name of Allah subhana wa Tada. And she took her other son, Abdullah crusade and they went and they fought in India Nana, the Battle of alien Allah Subhana. Allah Amato was in these three battles that Muslims were shaken with because after the Prophet sallallahu was sent them one of the most dire places was NAMM Muslims were almost defeated as we studied, and he left alpha busuttil mama and he or she comes again.

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Amara nusseibeh and she fights and this time she loses her hand. Her hand is cut during the fighting in a manner and we'll say Lana was killed by washing up by washing is one that killed hams out of the a la one in the hood. He took his spear this time and he directed it in the right direction. And he hits Salem Al Khattab and also the one that stabbed Salem with the sword was

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Do Jana Abu jandal Ansari, the one that has the bendet the red bandana on his forehead and the Battle of art, because he saw

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what he did to his companions.

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Omar Ahmad Otto the Allahu anhu lived to the plaza format of Musab after her she lost her hand in the way of her last gala, when her hand proceeded her to paradise in sha Allah. She did not participate in more battles after the Battle of Allah mela. And she died most according to most account on the 13th year of Phaedra and the beginning of the laughter of Mr. Maha pop robiola one.

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So handler we mentioned three Sahaba yet three female Sahaba of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the two sisters of the daughters of mehlhorn Muharram Adam mousseline, and we mentioned also the life of Seder been to cabina, Xenia, you cannot even read the Battle of the hood, or go through Islam history, reading all the Sahaba without mentioning the life of Lucy that she was

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very well known with her love to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and her dedication, so inshallah we'll stop here and we ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to teach us more of what will benefit us and open the floor inshallah, for any comments or discussions. And one of the questions that I have for you is, if you like Sharla to continue with what we are doing, and bring some aspects of the life of the Sahaba or would there be any other suggestions about Islamic history or any other issues inshallah, that we can bring to this session is a common law

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or questions?

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If not, inshallah we'll make the dough out. Loma Linda Nyan founder of 599 lm center. Was it nine men was a confit Genie out of Valhalla Nene. alojamento Elena. Logic was the Halina dogmatically out of the island in Alabama, Elena Webb and Heidi Jamie horrible al amin, Allahu

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Akbar Amina

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Amina, Aleta Jan Lucy baton se de Nina salatu salam Elena mela hoffa Carla your habanero belani Allahumma Fernandez Illumina Jamia Hi, Li Li, Allahu Allah Subhana Allah, may Allah Allah Allah, Allah NTV alum we are a Bella alameen wa sallahu wa ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi ma

Allah chose Muhammad, peace be upon him, above all creation to convey His message, and He chose the people who were around His messenger to defend and spread the Deen, The companions were described by the Prophet as being the best of generations, thus it is a must for every Muslim to follow and emulate their ways.

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