Bashar Shala – The Sahabah – Part 19

Bashar Shala
AI: Summary © The segment discusses the history and importance of Islam, including the use of negative language and the importance of privacy in public finances. The speakers also touch on the pride of Islam and the importance of respecting each other. They end with a brief advertisement for a church tour and a woman who was caught on camera and threatened to be executed by the police. The segment also touches on the origin of the title "Okman bought a woman" in the Bible and the title is not a man of Islam but rather a woman who bought a woman.
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How did he learn from Mohammed Lillah wa salatu salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi edge May, Allah Allah Allah Allah may have found out finally not lm Santa was also config Dr. Abdullah Al Ameen.

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hamdulillah that enabled us to come to this ministry to like hamdulillah and

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be part of his mentioned in the mention of His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and to learn and continue learning the history of the Sahaba, the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and we have started the last session hamdulillah the subject of edit, or the manners, a lot of Sahaba the behavior of the manners of the Sahaba hyrum for the law on how much money and we started some of their attributes that are related to their dealing with others. And we started the subject of a pallava which is the humbleness the humility of the Sahaba. Kira rubrum, Allahu Allah, he mentioned it. So inshallah, we will try to finish that today and go on into further attributes

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further manners of local habits are there or edit of the Sahaba Quran component, la Halley him on the Central Coast of Florida, the humbleness which is the exact opposite of the arrogance, boastfulness, that Allah Subhana Allah

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said in Hadees could see, and Hadith narrated on the authority of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the words of Allah subhanho wa Taala that he said, chroma kawhia calaca Thank you. Call Allahu Allah, Allah Kibriya arriva will allow me to izadi Salinas and he didn't mean Houma. Now, this is narrated in Abu Dhabi, what have been major and if it had been Allah Subhana Allah said, and Kibriya pride is my garment will a woman to izadi and greatness is my belt. Whoever tried to get one of them away from me. I will throw him in the Hellfire when he has a villa and the first sin that ever committed towards Allah subhanho wa Taala the first disobedience that is ever recorded. For

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Allah subhanho wa Taala was based on on arrogance was based on a verse from us as we studied the last session when Allah Subhana Allah gave his orders to the angels to Prostrate to Adam, after he created Adam, and he blow his spirit into Adam alayhis salam wa Salaam, Allah Subhana Allah order the angels to prostrate Adam and the old prostrated accepted please, please this obeyed Allah subhanho wa Taala the first sin the first disobedience to Allah subhana wa tada and why that happened? Allah subhanho wa Taala and sort of thing off as the beast when he did not prostrate Karla nomina is to that is our motto. What prevented you what stopped you from frustrating as I overview,

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a loss of Hannah with that as the nice and least answer Paula Anna Hale Minh. He said I am better than him. I am better than Adam, this I this I am better than someone is boastfulness is the arrogance that Islam and the religion of Islam recommends against and hate and strongly forbids that arrogance to go into the heart of human being at least said Allah hohman Halekulani not wahala You created me out of fire, He created him as out of mud, thus I am better than him. And the the arrogance can go into three levels and a human being in goes into the heart when somebody truly believes that he or she is better than somebody else. That is arrogance. Whether that is feeling

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that someone is better than one is better than the other based on more wealth, more more property, more belongings, more more more prosperity, that Allah Subhana Allah bestowed on the slave in the first place. And the second, it can be for more knowledge, more ways to attain knowledge, or more, more gifts that almost $100 bestow on his on his slaves. And it can be for

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sometimes as we see in these

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prejudice and people that feel that they're better than others because of their skin color, because of their national origin because of their social status, all of

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feeling that someone is better than another is boastfulness is arrogance is Cumbria It is, it is against the whole of authority.

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And that settles in the heart that is the the first level and the most important level of arrogance. The second is to show into actions when somebody shows them their actions, their arrogance against again against others. And the third is what what shows in the tongue with what they say, to show the arrogance to make people feel that they are little they are lower than them and status or an attributes.

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on Allah Subhana Allah to Allah and His messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he ordered him to be humble. I was hurt Allah said no Quran. waffle Jana kelemen said the occasional mini and lower your wings in humbleness for those who follow you of the believers, a lot of time to Allah first, when he is given his tuttavia with his giving his his his instructions to His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said lower your wings in humbleness to those who follow you have goober leavers

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and and on the in the Muslim on the authority of Yabu Hema, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in La La La, La, La La La La La La Brea hadn't had this hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah Subhana Allah Allah revealed to me for you to be to show humbleness. So nobody can be arrogant or boastful over the other. Nobody can be proud on the expense of others, and nobody can transgress over another because when someone feels that they're better than then then other than they can easily

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commit transgression against those who they feel that they are lower than them in status.

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And the on the on also in Muslim, Muslim on the authority of Abu hurayrah that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Man nakazato dichotomy man, one Azad Allahu abdon df one Eliza, one na talaga hadden de la Ilaha. This Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said there is no there is no time that is slave humble himself to Allah subhanaw taala except that almost pantalla will elevate the status of this life, that Allah Subhana Allah by showing humbleness in front of Allah subhanaw taala to others to your brothers and sisters and other people in the society. Then Allah subhanaw taala elevate that person in status.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the example of humbleness with his family on the authority of Isaiah of the Allahu anhu meaning and this is narrated in Sahih Bukhari she was asked what does the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam do in his house? And she said, Can I a coup fee meekness de la yaku female fader havarti solidaria toda la sala. So what was the situation of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in his house? What did he do in his house? He said he was busy serving his family. He was busy doing things doing chores and affairs for his family and when it is time for the Salah, then he will make abolition and he will go for the salah

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and also in on the authority of Ayesha in the backend whether you're low on the site or in the Kitab Tomasi, she said cannot assume why some Allahu alayhi wa sallam yes soon Allah to Salva Well, yeah Medici they see he came a meadow had a coffee beta. She's describing the best of creation she's describing the prophet SAW a lot he was selling. She said, he used to fix his own shoes. And he would sell his own clothes, his own garments, if something happened to it if then he would repair it. And then he would work in his house like any other human being work in his house.

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And then on the authority of MSM nomadic phobia Lahore and in Muslim lead, he said McKenna shuksan, about the Sahaba of the Sahaba Rama La La him, he said McKenna, Shoshana hudbay, la Hindi rasulillah She then then there's nobody that is more beloved to their heart and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam what can we do within the akula but when they see the prophets of Allah, Allah and send them they would not rise they would not stand up. You may Allah Muna when he leaves Alec, because they know that he hates for them to show that to him. He hates for his companions to stand up when he walks into the measureless into the place and under the party, also in the inside of the party, the

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Prophet sallallahu

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SLM said that the trainee come up to us in nasai 70 Monday and say Nana Saku Abdullah he wore a suit. He said don't elevate me Don't exaggerate in my status like the Christians did when he sat with Jesus Ali Salaam, but I am a slave to Allah Subhana with Allah say he is the slave of Allah, and he is His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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and an Bharani that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam out of humbleness, he would sit on the floor, he would eat on the floor, and he would make his own sheep his own goat. And when somebody invites him, he would respond even if it is for love of oat. So it's a load of rough bread.

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And he also some aloha de la sala, narrated in Sahih al Bukhari that he was a shepherd and he said, Come to urahara Santa Ana karate for a mecca he said I was I used to mine sheep for a few basically what karate is is just a very little field little little, little money through for the people of Mecca, and on the authority of Abdullah

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Muslim Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said now yet hold Janata man can you call him call?

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said he will not interfere guys, that who has in his heart, one

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atom of arrogance, one little weight of arrogance. And one men as the Prophet sallallahu ascended. He said in the legendary Bani akuna savasana when Allah who hasn't, he feared for himself. He said the man likes to wear good clothes, blow wear beautiful clothes, and to over choose is that arrogance and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in Allah jameela Buddha, Allah subhanho wa Taala is beautiful and he loves beautiful things. It's not good appearance is not arrogance, when are Kenyan and Cuba but the arrogance as described by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Baka will help wonderfulness. He said to deny the truth, to deny the right things, and to belittle the

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affairs of other people to know to look down on other people. This is the arrogance.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, as we said was the example of arrogance. And one time that a man came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and as he sat in front of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he filled the presence of the Prophet and he became, he was taken by the the heart by the the status of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And he started shivering in front of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the Prophet said hello when I like. Take it easy, fellas, to me less to be Melek I'm not a king in them and abou law attainment. caddied, I am a son of a woman of Quraysh that used to eat dried meat, the meat jerkies that she said My mother is

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an ordinary woman and I am not a king. So take it easy, don't shiver in front of me and he was the best of creation, no doubt sal Allahu Allah your center.

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And on the authority of and very happy on the authority of nsmb Malik. He said, The hola Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and that curtailment was aku who Allah Allah He led to him.

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Then, and I said when Malik said when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam walked into Mecca, on the best day of for Islam when the day of the conquest of Mecca and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was victorious going into the city that he was expelled from. And his head was lowered in humbleness, and his beard was touching the back of his camel out of humbleness. As he was walking, he did not go into Mecca boasting his victory and showing the people that persecuted him and transgressed against him and his companions for years and years and killed many of them and they fought against them that now it is time for the reckoning. Now it is time for punishment. He came to

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Mecca, with his head lowered out of humbleness in front of a lost parent that Allah will bestow the victory upon him.

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And on the authority of Abu hurayrah, da da da, da and that he was with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one time in the marketplace. And he said the hunter moments to come out sudima his alma lahari Center for jealousy members, Xena fisterra selfish Tara Sarah.

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battleline What can only me Suki was an Allah Allah who's in our

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lives Sarah we further head to the Angela and for Carla saw he was she a hardcore Rishi and Yamuna, who in a akuna by Isa say it is an ambu for you, whole Muslim.

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World The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we went into the marketplace. So he went to the people that will that sell clothes, so he bought

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something that's similar to parents today with for him, but the story is that he said, I went and I wanted to carry what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam bought for him, the product I didn't want the Prophet sallallahu to send them to carry the stuff that he bought out of respect to the prophets of Allah, how do you send them? And the Prophet sallallahu? Yes, and then said, No, I am the one will carry these things is stackable, she will be shaky and yeah, Mila, the owner of these things is the one that is more worthy to take to carry these things unless he is a weak man, then his brother can help him said I am strong enough to carry my own things that I bought. So even the

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prophets of Milan he was send them with other hora, who was one of

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his status among the Sahaba ins a poor man, he was a man that is lived by the messages on the suffer on the on the on the on the little place near to the masjid, and he was considered in the society by by the dunya standard every week, very poor man. But then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would not let him carry his stuff for him. He said, I am strong enough to carry it for myself out of humbleness.

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So that was the example for the Sahaba. How did the Sahaba take these lessons and how did they carried out in their lives?

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first ever Baka Sunday now humbleness brothers and sisters show itself. When not when someone is weak in and beaten down or poor. It's when somebody is in a place of authority. So that's why the examples that we will bring out of the Sahaba to show how they got the lessons of humbleness when they were in a place of authority when they were in place of leadership. The first man after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that took leadership of the affairs of this omo as Abu Bakr, Sylvia called the Aloha line. And when he first the first thing that he did, after he took the beta is he stood on the member and he gave his address he gave his speech, the one minute that actually

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summarizes what a good leader can do to lead the nation dilute the oma to the best of the best status that he can be. But the first thing that has to be said, after us after praising Allah Subhana Allah, He said he will literally come while is to be hiring, said oh people, I was given authority over you, but I am not the best of you.

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And he was the best of them is no doubt that Abu Bakr Sylvia was the best of the Sahaba as addressed by the prophet sallallahu wasallam time and time again. But yet out of humbleness, first thing he did. And when he took the place of authority, the place of leadership. He said a yohannes will lead to eloquent bonus to behavioral finance and to fine tuning why an asset to sock away money. He said, If I do good, then help me. But if I don't do good, then straighten me out. then straighten me out.

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Or the allow the second successor of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one time after the conquest of Persia after the conquest of Byzantium.

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He called people to a meeting to a gathering meeting in the Messenger of Allah to journey.

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This is

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and the people came to the Mr. Phelan, Mr. Martinez who are Kapha who then all people came to the masjid when they call a solid to Jamia to the masjid. It's for something serious, something like declaring war, like something of great importance. So people came to the masjid so he came out to the member and hammer the law how athletic he plays the last panel which was Sunday lnav Salah Mohali, McAllen and he said a yohannes or people

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that drives me

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a minute somebody was heavy for me.

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he gathered all these people need got on the member and he said, Oh, people, I used to be a shepherd, for my aunt's for my aunt's of mazu. This is the clan that he came from, and they will pay me a fistful

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Have dates and racing. And that was what I did when I was young. And he came down off the number. So, people were surprised by what why he did this, why he was showing people that he, he had this prove job, and he was poorly paid for it. So I better manage now for the Allaah, who came to him, he said, yeah, we need massive talent.

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He said, You did nothing, that you belittle yourself from this meeting this gathering, you just belittled yourself. And he said, way, heckard Now, let me tell you what happened. You have now he said in the fellows, I was by myself, I had the UFC. So myself started giving me so inspiring me, so call it M. Nero, meaning you are an earring, meaning you are the leader of the Muslims, a member of the lemming, who's better than you. So he felt that some arrogance may creep into his heart.

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And he said to me,

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I wanted to show myself who should who myself is really is who myself really is. He's just a shepherd, that used to work in Mecca for a fistful of dates, and raisins. And that was the humbleness of American hip hop. And also Mr. Moka pot one time One day he was out and and he wanted to ride so he saw a young boy on his donkey on his jackass, going back to Medina and he said yeah,

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would you give me a ride and see when boy and he is a new woman, he is the leader of this nation. So this one way out of respect to hip hop jumped out jump off the back of his donkey allamani female for cornucopia and go on and get on this donkey and then he said let me cut our cable No, no you go you stay on your own Duncan I will stay our wives behind you. Now the front place on a donkey is the most comfortable the back is the one with the bones. The back is the rough ride. So I'm not gonna hop off road and the back and he said the human adult mechanic will say don't put me on the soft place. What that can entail and modell question and you relied on the rough place. So I'm not a hot

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tub road on the rough spot on the donkey and he let the boy ride on the soft spot. And that was of the humbleness of American support.

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As nanomedicine the third successor after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and this is narrated and I've been sad and mad and even asaka he said Can I can I was nanobody Allahu I'm young you do

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not have not fun as we know was a was a wealthy man had wealth before Islam and he had more wealth after Islam and he was one of the Great's

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charity given in Islam, and then his khilafah he also had servants and he had slaves and he was wealthy. And then he was also an elderly man and his Philippa he was in his late 70s and early 80s when he was so he was not only a very wealthy man, he was also men needing physical help if he can get it and he could afford it. But this all these books narrate one thing that I smell nothing he gets up to pray at night, he would do his own will do now we'll do and in the times of the profits of the lobby and send them in the Sahaba is is somewhat of a chore. There is no faucets that you can turn and water with come there is a heavy pot heavy ball that you need to carry, and somebody needs

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to help you with the withdrawal to make your withdrawal But this man will do all of that by himself. And he was 37 if you asked one of your servants, they would help you. He said in the Layla homea study hoonah Fie. The night is for them to rest, and I can do my own. I can do my own model. And that was just to show the humbleness of us man I'm not a fan of idea law one and the stories are many. But inshallah this shows us the importance of this manner the importance of this edit of Atholl, the humbleness of ask Allah Subhana Allah to is to

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make a lot of space between us and arrogance and to make us as much as possible far from being arrogant in our hearts, in our actions, and in our tone. And

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the second thing that we will shortly talk about today is the understanding between Sahaba of the Brotherhood in Islam and the rights of one brother to another brother in Islam. And I will start with that one Headey that one Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu taala

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that narrates and we decided that we narrated that before we spoke with that before, but it is a summary of what are the rights of one Muslim over the other Muslim. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said on the authority of Abu hurayrah, Roger law and Carlos Sula, he said the la de la has less energy Shu, Walla,

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Walla de la, la dee da, una vida de la Juana and Muslim, Muslim, la limo while I while I throw a taco ha ha. hoonah taqwa hoonah taqwa. hoonah has been written in a short and yeah. Muslim, Muslim, Muslim Heron demo who Ahmed who is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Polycom Salam Rahmatullah seven this beautiful Hadith to the Muslims so they can regulate their affairs, and the manners among them said letter has said, Do not envy each other. Do not put the envy between you and your brother and sister. Well, it's a large issue Do not lie and cheat each other. Well, it's adorable don't turn your backs to towards each other means don't have animosity, don't have enmity

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between you and your brothers and sisters. Once

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again do not dislike each other do not have hatred towards each other, when I will be available comala they report he said do not

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do not have competition and and selling goods to each other in an in an unlawful way.

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Well, como Eva de la one in three brothers and sisters to each other, and mostly more often Muslim, non Muslim is a brother of another Muslim, meaning Muslim isn't also

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Muslim is the sister of a Muslim and this is the same thing. In Arabic When you speak of a gathering you use the masculine form that you mean both and Muslim, Muslim Muslim is a brother to another Muslim law of women do not transgress over another Muslim Villa and do not turn down another Muslim when he's asked for help. While I call and do not deliver the affair of another Muslim as dakhla hoonah half piety here by it is here in the heart and He pointed to his heart three times the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then he said, The has been written, Minna sharp and yet Muslim, enough evil enough evil for one Muslim to belittle another Muslim to look down on another

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Muslim. And then he said call the Muslim, Muslim Haram. The entire affairs of one Muslim is sacred towards another Muslim his blood, the blood of a Muslim is sacred. The money will Maliki belonging of a Muslim is sacred. We're out of the heat and the honor of a Muslim is sacred.

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That is the Hadith that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam narrated and the Sahaba and cyramza Sahaba. Rama Halim understood this and there is more instructions from the Quran from Allah Subhana with the ad, Allah Subhana Allah said and has a lot in them and

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for us, we have been away from what the why Allah Allah come to him. But Muslims are brothers to each other in every Muslim unit. There is true brotherhood there is through fraternity, you know, this is a relation that that is above the biological brotherhood. It's above the ballad biological links, the kinship that Allah subhanaw taala gave us this is more important and Allah Subhana Allah is documenting that in the Quran he said Islam and Aminullah Muslims are brothers the believers are brothers. For us the proving that Hawaii can rectify the affairs between your brothers. Make sure that there is no enmity between your brothers with the whole lot and fear Allah you may have mercy

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from Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and then continues Allah subhanho wa Taala and sort of levina which can evoke a theorem in of one in Babel one isn't all you who believe avoid suspicion towards your brothers and sisters in Islam. avoid suspicion in Babel one isn't some of the suspicion is is soon for what's happening with ad related your session and you're not spy. They're not spying instead or do not follow the faults and flaws of each other. When Baba Baba and do not backbite each other. Do not speak ill of your absent brother and sister.

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Have you come yet. He made sense to you like to eat the flesh of your dead brothers and sisters.

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And you hate it with the law in the law whatsoever for him and fear Allah, Allah Subhana Allah, Allah is repenting. And Allah Kanata Allah is All Merciful. And the scholars said that this similitude that Allah Subhana Allah gives for backbiting by eating the flesh of a dead person is because when when someone commits the sin, this great sin of backbiting, he leaves no room for the other person that has been dead, that room back there to defend himself or herself. It's like, like attacking a dead person that have no defense whatsoever, because somebody is absent, they cannot defend themselves. They cannot show their excuses. They cannot tell you what you are saying what

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you're saying is wrong, though, right? And that is attacking somebody who has who is totally defenseless, like attacking and eating the flesh of a dead person and the other girl The other issue of the similitude of this example is the ugliness of this of this cannibalism of eating the flesh of another human being, which is a disgusting act, as as much as backbiting is disgusting in the eyes of Allah Subhana what that

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and then Allah subhanaw taala also an individual if he prevented Muslims, he ordered Muslims not to make fun of each other not to make to make a laugh on the expense of another Muslim, Latina and Elias Haru como si yaku Hiram in home, while I'm on Nisa. And as I mean, who are you who believe, do not let group of people make fun, make a laugh on the expense of other they may be better than them and not Women Against make fun of other women as they may be better than that than them while our film is on fusa calm and do not be sarcastic. Do not Do not be sarcastic when you deal with each other, while other neighbors will hop and do not throw nicknames that are ugly or not respectful

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towards each other. But servicemen for Sukkot badly man Do not call each other offensive nicknames. Indeed, these are the worst names after the names of the believers or manlam, yet of Fela, ecohome of walima, and those who do not repent, they are the true transgressors.

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So the Sahaba understood this, these instructions, they made that their way of life, respecting each other, love each other, protect each other's back when somebody is absent, and correct each other when somebody deviates from the right path.

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And we will shortlist some of the stories that are reported in Hadeeth books and history books about these manners and this edible Sahaba.

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One time, I will hessen and he was one of the unsought and this is Ronnie, and he was one of the people that were in the bay out of combat and in the Battle of bitter, I would have some of the Allahu anhu said couldn't let you loose and also de la sala la Holly he was selling them for Hamas drugs human when se en la de la jolla modular data. So Google is a profit from them. So one man walks away. And he left his shoes in place. So one man took the shoes and hit him wants to play a joke on his on his brother. And the man came back and he said man rose my shoes for color Connemara. Now we don't know where they are. So they were laughing they were having a little practical job a

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prank on the Sahabi and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was there. And then after they laughed, and they they did, they made the prank on him. They started laughing in the prophets of Allah, how do you send them prevented them? And he said for K febrero at the moment, what do you do with this distress that he was in? This distress he was distressed? He thought he lost his shoes. This may be an important issue for him. He said that is something that you will be asked for. And the Day of Judgment, this distress that you put your brother in by playing this prank this joke, put him in some type of distress. He said this is how long this is. He said that case that'd be it

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moment. And the man said Dr. asuma, in Mr salata who live and also I was only joking, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam repeated, kay said that Oh, man, what do you do with the distress of your brother?

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You cause distress to your brother? This is no joke. And this is how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with teacher Sahaba and then he said laughter we are Muslim in our can Muslim even when we do not put your brothers in distress. It is indeed great.

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To Grant's transgression, even if the intention is somewhat innocent just to want to play a practical joke on your brother or sister, so Rasul Allah in the sentence said, this is a villain, this is a transgression do not put your brother or sister in a state of distress.

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And this I had to learn how not to belittle each other, no matter what happened. One time, it is narrated that I was only 40. And Beloved, we're having a heated argument. We're having a heated argument, and they're arguing with each other, and

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it'll be a lot more fun, and they're both great Sahaba the observer the party got angry, and he called Delilah name. And he said glibness said that you son of a black woman.

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And the land stopped and he said, lastly, Escuela de la rasulillah, I will tell us a little lie. And he told her so masala la Holly, he was settler, and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said after a year ago to me in negombo. And he, he said, this is trace of ignorance. This is a trace of Jacqueline.

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And that was enough for a Buddha. And the Buddha put his face on the ground on the floor. And he told me that he said well, why I will not lift my face until you step with your own foot over my face.

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He wants to humble himself in front of the land, and to give the land the right to step over his face. So he could be forgiven from the word that he said to be led by Guardiola and homogeneous.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam among the Sahaba he told him not to curse each other, and not to call each other names. It's like the instructions that we heard and sort of,

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don't send them this isn't in the body. This is inside Buhari on the authority of laquan that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam there is a name called Abdullah.

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And this man used to drink, drink alcohol, drink, wine drink.

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And listen soon as possible. And he was a moment that he would do this and he would be brought to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he will get his punishment. And he'll go back to drinking again. And he will be brought back and he will get punishment and he will go back to drinking again. So the Sahaba were just discussed it was with Abdullah and his nickname was Hema. They will discuss the good work he is doing. And then he was being whipped one day, big punishment for his drinking was public drinking. And the man said he said Allahu Allah curse him.

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Because he's the former x Liu said, He's always been punished. He's been repeatedly sending the signal is not learning his lesson. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he said, Do not curse him. Do not curse your brother. He said for law he now added to the law, aloha solo ally. I know he loves a lion, His Prophet, he has a weakness he has a problem. He has a drinking problem in the day syrup. So Bill Kherson and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Let the coolroom shall Tanya Allah.

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Allah. He said Do not be helpful for the shaitan against your brother.

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But say Allah Almighty Allah guide him, while law help him Don't say, McPherson, don't curse him. He said allow him to help him.

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He said this is how Don't be an ally to at least shaytaan against your brother by cursing him because that's what the show or listening is to be cursed, is to be kicked out of four guys like he was.

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And this was the teaching of the prophets of Allah Holly your center.

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And muslera Khaled on the authority of Abu huraira Allah that a man came to when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was sitting with Abu Bakr, radi Allahu Allah, and the Prophet was there. So the men started cursing abubaker Stein saying bad things to aboubaker and Rebecca is being patient and he's listening. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is grinning. He's not saying anything. And then he continued and continued and continued. Then the doctor got angry, and he cursed the man back and he cursed the men back then the Prophet sallallahu wasallam walked away from that. Abu Bakr felt that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was being silent, and he tolerated this man's

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ignorance against Abu Bakar. But when Abu Bakar just called them back some names, then the Prophet sallallahu wasallam walked away.

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And then he walked behind the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he said, Yeah, Rasul Allah, can he move on to Janice Filmora he bought the Holy

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Prophet to follow and he was cursing me. He was saying bad words.

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To me, you're sitting, but when I called them back when I said bad words back to him, you got angry and walked away. What happened? And the Prophet said, in the whole kind of naka melech, yada. He said when he was cursing you, there is an angel behind you responding to him. Allah subhanaw taala was not letting that go. So there was an angel, there was an alakmalak next to you, and he was responding to that man defending you. lm la Waka shavon, when you started calling him back names, then at least Cain, Pinochet thyme King. So he is happy now to Muslims are calling names against each other. That's when the shavon is happy. So that's why I left when you started calling and

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started responding to his bad words.

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there's this beautiful story on the rights of Muslims, about how Muslims respect the privacy and the rights of each other. And this happened in the time of hip hop,

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then that this is an canceller mad This is in a very great book of Islamic history in really nice stories about the especially the four hour that Bob used to go at night and checks the affairs of his subjects as we learned when we studied his letter. So he heard a man having a little party in his house, he heard the sounds of singing coming out of one house, so he knew something was not right. Something was not what's happening in that house. So

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he got off the wall and got into that house. And he caught them in red handed having that Liberal Party in his house, and he said I do a lot of Atlanta and La has took a while and the female sia you thought Allah subhanaw taala will fail you while you're sitting in your house. And then the man said

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Well, I mean, let it like he said,

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Don't hurry. Don't haste into punish me. And coupon Sultan la Hawaii this I committed a sin. You committed three sins.

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Allah Hafiz Allah. He's telling oma came to his house, caught him red handed. And how long? He said you committed three sins. I committed one but you committed three. And Omar said How? And the man said Allah Subhana Allah said laka just says you do not spy and you spied on me. That's how you knew that I was having a party. And Allah Subhana Allah said what to do. tamina Baba, you walk through the houses through its doors through the front door, and you jumped off the wall. You jumped off the wall to my house, but the hunt family Yeah, the lady isn't. And you came upon into my house without my permission. And Allah Subhana Allah Allah said, boo boo. And he called me sewer to sell him Oh

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Allah, Allah, Allah subhanaw taala said, You shall not enter houses that are not yours, until you ask permission, and you give Salaam to its owners said you made three mistakes, and I made one, and there must sit down in the canyon in Athens. And then would you do good if I forgive you. And the man said, Now, I will not do the sin again and a lot of your law and forgive him. This third just shows the importance the respect for for one's privacy in Islam, for the sacredness of the houses, the sacredness of the human being in this religion, even while they're committing sin in their own houses.

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On the authority of nnsa, that rock button the honor is so hard to do law and America, Keaton and he said talk about Nirvana.

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Nirvana, Nirvana, Hama, my neighbors drink my neighbors always drink wine, drink alcohol. Well, and I

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said, I will call the police and this was in the time of the loads of laughter of Madonna. withdrawn into the halifa. I said I will call the police so they can take them. They can take them and punish them. And what that says is that many said Latifah don't do it. Why? Why did he say just give them good advice? And if they don't listen, threaten them with the police but don't call the police on them. And the man said to him Philippians Oh, I told them and they did not respond to me. And I'm gonna call the police when

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the white hacker left if I don't do it, continue on given them advice for me, Senator Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yaku then cetara second mstn macabre, those who very

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Other people's fault.

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Like they brought back a birds girl into life, you know those girls that are older than they used to bury them alive. And Jamelia said like you revived one of them, like you saved one of them from this punishment.

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And I'm sorry.

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I wrote a mission to our dog that that was in the mesh.

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And he said, it took a year for soccer demystified the names of the sinners in Damascus. In

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another Barber, he said, Now the only for soccer Dinesh, Coleman adform. How do I know the singers in the match? How do I know them? The summer for the NRA for him. And he started writing names. He said, I know the sinners. And he started writing the names of the people that send drink and do the you know, the the sensors and the mesh. So I looked at his son, he sent me an email and how do you know that?

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I'm coming home. If you are not one of them, then you would not know who they are. If you're not the party, buddy, then you would not know who they are. He said, Enough sick. Why do you remain among those names that you are writing? He said then write your name. include your name in there, one of your cbs night and he did not send the names to Malia

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and so Formula One. And ebonised

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came upon a man that the the people of Damascus were around and they were cursing him because he was he committed the sin. And then he said if you find this man in distress, and the bottom of her well, would you kick them out? If you want to sit? Can you save this man's life? If you think that his life is in danger, would you save this man's life? He said Ethan logic to move your colleague lm Taku stuff eg if you find this man in distress about you know, would you help them? They said yes, we would. He said fellas Who? Do not curse your brother for the sins that he committed? Why am I the law lady?

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But and ask Allah Subhana Allah forgiveness and praise Allah, that you are not committing those sins. And they said, Don't you hate him? Don't you hate him for what he did? And I bet that said in a Bhagwan, Allah, I hate what he did, but I don't hate him for what he did. I hate the deed. I hate the sin that he committed. But I don't hate the man that committed the sin.

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taraka who for what he when he didn't lose the sin when he repents from this sin? He is my brother. These are the people that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam raised

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and finally on the authority of NSF nomadic Obama La La

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that he said that we will with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told the Sahaba Alaykum radula mean attention man of the people of Paradise will be coming to you this land that is coming to you as a fan of Paradise feroza typological Amina on saw one of the answer came out

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yet a woman oh boy he just made will do and his beard was full with water

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crocodile upon Allah He the addition is describing that he was carrying his shoes with his left hand and then the next day they were in the same place and the profits of the law he was in them so the man affair guys will come to you and it was the same man often saw and that happened again in the third day.

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Then when the profits on the left under Abdullah Abdullah Abdullah son of IMO glass followed this man and he told this man this Ansari

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he said and listen Saudi was named in one and then bizarre His name is sad but it's not known really who exactly which side he is.

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But this man was followed by Abdullah Omar number one on my children in Nila. Hey Toby, I have an argument with my father. Fox sent to me that Alayhi Salat and I made a vow that I will not go to my house to the house of my father for three nights. Would you host me, Sandra itemset weenie, Laika hatami? Five? Would you take me for three days of the walk? Norma wanted to be with him to see why is this man a man of paradise? Why is this man confirm that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam three days in a row that he is deserved. He deserves the gardens of Paradise.

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And the men said, Okay, fine. Now, Carla, Ms. And let us continue the narration for Ken Abdullah. You had this in the back

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And now who lately Salah Abdullah spend three nights with this man, fella Nora who

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he would not pay too long at night. Her mo is at takala, Dallas Yoshi. The Corolla has a virgin what kabara had a woman he sold it for. You just mentioned a lie and praise Allah and his bed and then he would go and play. And I believe I said, it's not in the hierarchy. Every time he this man spoke, it's always something beautiful. It's always something nice. Always his talk, he does not is not aggressive in the way he talks. He does not curse anyone, he does not say bad words. And then

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after the three days

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I deleted his work. And I didn't see that he would read a lot of Koran or do a lot of CME or, or do a lot of pm he doesn't do all of these things too much. And then he came to him and he said, the law, my brother, my father, and I had no no problem had no argument and he's now coming clean with the guy. And he said, then I can you send me to Rasul Allah three times saying that you are a man of paradise. And I just wanted to see what are you doing? What do you do to deserve this status to deserve to be a man of paradise? So I do exactly what you do. So the man became very happy by hearing this glass hiding from the Prophet sallallahu your center, and he said not Hawaii numeral

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eight. This is what I do. I mean, he does his regular human being Muslim, good Muslim dedes fella. And he said, No, we're in La Jolla and ni,

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fi NFC, the A had a million Muslims. In addition, when I asked you to harden at a higher in La Jolla, he said I have no hatred, no mischief towards any of the believers in my heart, my heart is clean. I love everybody, all the believers, I have no hatred against any of the believers. What I have no envy towards anyone for something that Allah subhanaw taala bestowed upon them. I have no envy and I have no hatred or mischief towards anyone. And our beloved Norma he said happy lady but let's develop aspect that that's what it is. That's how you became the man of paradise.

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So of cleaning the hearts and having the good men are love the Muslim, they made this man, the one of the people of paradise.

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We ask Allah subhana wa tada forgiveness. And we ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to make us of those who follow the path of the Sahaba and follow the flock of the manners of the Sahaba and make that an example for us and for our families. And make them a role model that we can walk after and we can we can follow and apply that into our daily living. And meanwhile, handily Lego belie the need of double Salatu automata Simi alesina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi h nine

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waiting for any

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the Yes, brother it'd be just like a lie.

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I'm the last of the last

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eight hours of questioning in Arabic language and some that there's something called a stiff hammy question that you really need to know from, you need to know from the answer. This is not what a las panatela asked with a las pantallas or knowing. The second type of question is a list of listing karri if you ask the question and you wants to admonish somebody you wanted to tell, how did you do that? or Why did you do that? You know, you know why? And you know how but you want to call them for that. And the third thing is called so Allah will address the question of the one that knows, and usually is to show others what the right and this is that time is when he to show up to ask the

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police to make a police himself a witness against himself and to tell the rest of us what what wrote this sin why he did the sin why he committed this disobedience and by Allah subhanaw taala asked an obese and obese himself answering that question. There is no doubt what brought on this. This. This obedience to Allah Spano. dad and brother Nebula has something to say

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right. Ss thinkery

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What is this thing carry it in English?

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it's your

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Masha, Allah, yes.

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The curse, the curse. Right? Right.

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Right. The comment that brothers is making that the word Lana in Arabic has only one meaning it's really narrow meaning if it means nothing else when you say Lana, would we translate that in speech as cursing but it means somebody is kicked out of the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala somebody will not receive may not receive the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala on the Day of Judgment, that is the Lana and that's why Allah, Allah made a shaytaan at least Malone he received this Lana is he's not he's not here to receive mercy from Allah Subhana Allah to Allah on the day of judgment and that's what what the comment was about. So we have to conclude inshallah, one last comment. It's about next

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weekend. It's this Sunday's in the corner of the cannibalism gmlc funa salmonella mousseline hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen

Allah chose Muhammad, peace be upon him, above all creation to convey His message, and He chose the people who were around His messenger to defend and spread the Deen, The companions were described by the Prophet as being the best of generations, thus it is a must for every Muslim to follow and emulate their ways.

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