Eight at Eight #015 How to make your child love Muhammad SAW

Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh over Smilla hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah. Welcome back to eight at eight. This is Amazonian coming here live from Milton, Ontario, and Alhamdulillah we are back on our 15th day in a row, as I told you, this is a promise to myself, I want to go live every single day, hopefully down another 15 days down the road, I'm already thinking of like starting something that is more structured. So if you've noticed, and if you've been following the eight at eight, it's just been a very fluid conversation. And the whole idea was, I needed no prep to come and do this. But having said that, now that I'm getting comfortable with all

of this, I think that it's time that we apart a little bit, so maybe another 30 days or maybe another 15 days or whatever, and then we will want something that's going to be more consistent and on a daily basis insha Allah to Allah. Now, having said that, today's topic is something very important and very, very dear to my heart. And that is primarily about Sierra off in the visa lottery Salam. Now what I wanted to focus on today was a lot of times welcome salaam so just how are you how are you? What I wanted to focus on today is you know many times we ask ourselves this question that was in the end so I'll get to happening about choco your opinion under in ourselves in

our kids

something in which it allows them to be able to love rasool Allah so salami allows them to be able to to follow Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in their daily lives. And the same goes for us, how do we do that in our lives for you and for me, and for every one of us. And a lot of times, what I noticed is how Nepalese in the job, you know, the way we have understood

is 90% of the discussions related to Rasulullah sallallahu it happens in the category of etbr so, Hotaka what happens or Hamina Mississauga follow Karna Jaya great career Foreign Service so I'm cool no problem go ahead. You want to follow up Salah Salem Bismillah Be my guest. But then what happens is that it diva becomes a burden on us right? Because they have ro Swamiji Karna Rosa Fajr Kizuna de Bernie every single morning I have to pray the Sunnah, that now there's like 12 Sooners that I need to pray daily, and how am I going to keep up and and we start getting fatigued and we start getting bogged down with this and we're like, why is this happening? Like what why do I need to do all of

this like isn't just doing far enough? Like why do I need to put myself in so much difficulty

and the problem is that we we got the formula wrong. So most of the discussion that is happening around the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam in the religious spectrum in the religious sphere is all about it the Barnaby Salah Salem never simply tobacco ninja you and that's a great thing. But that's not where it starts. We've got the formula wrong, you cannot force it divide or you cannot force following besides LM on somebody's throat, you cannot shove it down their throat

it divide is a net result of something two steps before that and let me explain how this is going to work. So, the dilemma they have said there are three things that are we that we need to understand about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is life. Number one, there is something called you know Malefor that we must know about him. So there's something called Madoka then in the middle is something called muhabba which is love. So I must be aware of Nagisa Salam, then I must have love of Nerissa Salam and then I must follow on episodes from so there are three categories Meriva muhabba etbr Knowing loving following

now we focus on the following part and we forget the first two Okay, so if you want your child to love Nabi SallAllahu Sallam if you want to love Nabil Salah Salem if you want to be inspired by him inspired by his life inspired by his his example then you need we need to focus a lot on Maddie for about knowing Nabi SallAllahu Sallam and in MA herefor there are so many things that we need to learn about Nabi SallAllahu, Sallam not necessarily battle of brother and Battle of org, those are great events, but they do not talk about Nabi SallAllahu Sallam they talk about an event in his life. And for that you and I need to focus on Shama Ale, we need to focus on the characteristics

they call it holo and Hulk. So the characteristic physical attributes and dab and the internal attributes of Nabi Salah Salem, and that is a science called Science of Shama ale. Now, a lot of our youth are struggling with Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam and believing in them and I mentioned this before, too, that like one of the you know, parents brought one of the youth to me, and they're like, Oh, why should I? Why should I follow Nabi SallAllahu sallam, he's dead in his grave. What benefit do I

get from him, right. So, those are very important aspects very important things for you and me to realize that the child is questioning the legitimacy of Prophet sallallahu Sallam what is the della L? What are some of the delille what is what is the lead for me to believe that Nabi SallAllahu Sallam is true. So you have Shama in about prophets of Salaam in Malaga in the category of Marisa you have Shama in and then you have della el things that prove to us that Nafisa Salam is authentic and he is true and He is the true messenger. And then you have Fatah El, for La Isla basically things that tell us that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam is better than everybody else for Allah and

then you have phala L of Nabi SallAllahu sallam, then you have Hustla is of Nabisco. Salam, there are certain things that are only exclusive to Prophet sallallahu sallam. So many of the youth they read a Syrah or their you know young people, children, they're going to read something about children, they're going to be like, Oh,

but this is wrong. Shediac in the 20th century, you're only allowed to do this for x, y officers aren't doing it more than x, y is also la Selim, you know, not making wudu after sleeping, those are called Hussites. Those are things that are pertaining to Rasul allah sallallahu Sallam and then you have SEER which are events in the mighty phi chapter the five categories that I mentioned which is you know, you have Shamaya of Nabi SallAllahu Sallam you have CASA is going to be Salalah Salam you have della L of Nabi Salam. So things that are characteristics then you have Hussites, exclusive things that are related to Nabil Salam. Then evidence is related to interview Salah Salem, then

superiority of Prophet sallallahu Sallam and then you have events in his life. All of our discussion is always on events and these four categories never ever do we have discussions upon them. And that is what we are missing.

Alhamdulillah Musab Rama and give her like like I will hear heavy hamdulillah and be Pharaoh Lila Hill, Hamed Masha, Allah, it's, it's good, I hope to see you man, that's good. hamdulillah so these are the things that we need to focus on. And these are medica this go all goes into medica. Now, for those of you that are wondering, Where do I begin, you begin by the book of Shama L. There's very good translations available of Shambhala Tirmidhi. Those are around 436, or 463 Hadees that the mountain musi has collected, all you got to do is read one Hadees every day with your kids at home, you can find the PDF versions of those books to no excuse for you and me to start focusing on the

medica so that our child can start loving nebi Salah Salem, and then the following becomes a natural process. Let's not work backwards following abuso Salam so that you may love him that doesn't work like that. Your child is inspired by the NBA players, they're inspired by whatever singer they're inspired by whatever Instagram personality, they get to know about that personality and every single little detail about Him and follow Him and read and see what food and what drinks and which restaurants he's going to and then he falls in love with him. And when he falls in love with him, he starts following him. So then you get the hairstyle and then you get the color grading and you get

the different color fades happening. All of this was happening by the way, there's not a faith, this is natural. So you get all of this happening, why you get all of this happening because they got to know about somebody they fell in love with them and they got so much in love with that person that now knew what they want to follow them. Okay, I hope that helps everybody Inshallah, too, in terms of the high level process of learning about Nabi SallAllahu Sallam do let me know in comments like if you would like me to cover some of these concepts in zero because Sierra is one of my specialty

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