A Path To Unity – The Etiquettes Of Differing

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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The importance of the Prophet's rule on women is emphasized, including the need for respect when faced with negative comments and the importance of avoiding negative comments and finding one's mind. The Huns were a culture of fear and fearless behavior, and the need for respect when faced with negative comments is emphasized. The speakers also emphasize the importance of learning and practicing rules of conduct for children, particularly in parenting and parenting at home.

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So we are

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happy, we feel blessed. Anytime we get an opportunity to come to this masjid, to try to continue to do what we've been doing over the past few years and that is to spread the Sunnah in this community, not just the people who come to this masjid, the people who built this masjid, but to spread the sunnah to the outer community, the other Muslims in this community, as well as the non Muslims as well so that they can get a bird's eye view from us what is the reality of our religion as opposed

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to taking that narrative from our enemies? We're in control of the mass media. So we asked Allah azza wa jal to put it into the mawatha zine of the Hassan out of everybody who made this possible. I was given a topic which was the etiquettes of the life, the etiquettes that the Muslim has to have as it relates to having different opinions from each other. We just prayed salata mother, and

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when we pray Salatin, Margaret, everybody didn't pray salata McGraw the exact same way.

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The Yvan and mercury in this masjid,

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or the karma may be made one way in this Masjid is made another way in another Masjid. Because there are different ways of doing things and Allah SNAM. And there are different ways of understanding things in a listener. So the topic is a serious topic. I don't want anybody to sit there. And when we talk about the etiquettes of if the life you're thinking about the afterlife, between Hadith and brainwaves, the life between as a hadith and deobandis, if the life between Hadith, and the metodi,

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the people, that's part of what today's talk is about. But it's more general than that is more comprehensive than that. There is not a person here, except that he has the life with people who are even close to him. We have the life between the elders and the youngsters, we have FDLR between the husband and the wife, we have to laugh because if the laugh is natural, normal can get away from it. And this is why this topic is a critical topic.

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Those of you who are aware, the Mark has of annual hadith is in Birmingham, there's a lot of the life if the life that exists between the people of that Marquez that sometimes doesn't allow Islam to move forward or the community moving forward. I'm in a new community not too far from here. When I took the reins of that community, there was a lot of in the life, there still is a lot of life. If the life that is so bad, that it leaves the Muslim stuck on stupid. We have some serious challenges

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and issues in this country as Muslims, serious challenges and issues with the challenges that we have our children stand on the dean.

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The policies that the government is trying to pass to shut down his slab, not 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, five years from now. Well, Allahu Allah, Islam as we know it is going to continue to change if we don't do something about dealing with these to her dit. Okay, so my point here is that the last exists between the Muslims in a way that the family can't move on, it will cause the quality of a person's life to be affected adversely, because the people involved in the life. They don't know

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about the etiquettes of the law, they didn't get an understanding about the life and as a result of that, as a result of that, I have nothing to do with the drama, the beef, the static that exists between my mother and my aunt, I have nothing to do with that. But I am born into it and I inherited, but because I'm ignorant of my religion, what Allah said, what the Prophet said. So the lady was in my late hearing. So what I do is I become part of the problem and the circle of life. It

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gets bigger.

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So today's talk 20 is a really important talk. This Masjid this Masjid right here, it's going to be the life do you people stay stuck on stupid to the point where the Dawa is prevented from moving forward? Because because you don't know how to have a laugh. And this is why we say to the Muslims over and over and we say to this community

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We have to take the Quran and the Sunnah. No doubt about that. But it's not enough for you to say that the companions of the prophet or the Lama when I met him Jemaine, they are an integral part of this religion. They're not nice stories of people who made a lot of sacrifices that's part of what they are and who they are. But the companions are a rums of the deen they a symbol of the deen there is no Salah Nausicaa no song no hydrogen, there is no Islam, without those companions read the Alon

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hum. So don't look at the Companions as mashallah the Companions nice stories, no, they are more than that. They are more than that. You have to understand and tick this Quran the way they understood in where they took it. The Sunnah, the way they took it with understood it, and they are Hijjah on us. They are delille against us how why many ways the Companions read the Allah and who just like us, they had a lot of empty life. They fit life before Al Islam was a shed than ours. They

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had some serious things that kept them apart the Arabs so the religion of Allah slammed Cain and an ordered us to do a lot of things and prohibited us from doing a lot of other things in order to take care of this issue of being united. But not uniting it. Just some Kelly Matt Farah elected elected. Unity unity. No, we're not here calling to that. Just as we're not here calling to an LP. LP Baffa Hey, you establish the key life in your house. Me I have to establish the key VAFA in my house I'm

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the mirror meaning in my house and I'm in charge of my wives and I'm in charge my children. Let me be fairing Justin up right. And then if I establish in my house, in your in your house, in your in your house, Allah Allah He from the benign people with the law, he is going to establish it in the earth. So it's just Can I emphatic when people get before the mic and he starts screaming at Akiva for alakina stablish the pilaf in your house everybody here. So we don't want these empty slogans,

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Al Jihad Al jihad, Al jihad is important. The key life is important. Unity is important, but all three of them they have their correct understanding. They have a correct understanding. So what we want to do here today Inshallah, and shed some light on this serious, massive issue.

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We'll begin by saying Cleany

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as it relates to the issue of unity, which is the opposite of the life and the photo, having these differences that split us up, being people are together, on the same understanding is one of those really critical messages of Ellis land. No one should allow himself to be the reason why Muslims are having the life.

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You don't want to be that person, you'll find the individual mashallah is the days of an Muharram. He's going to fast Ashura, and he's going to fast the ninth of Ashura. And there was no problem for him because he always fast Mondays and Thursdays, he's gonna do that. He makes the event he sits in the first row, he makes jihad to do good things in Islam. But although he's doing those things that are the Sunnah, you'll find him a big problem when it comes to. He's one of the reasons why the

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community is divided.

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Not realizing its wedges to be united, and it's haram to have the life in federal where we split up. It's one of the big sins in Al Islam. So we have the companions of the Prophet Salah Salem, showing us practically how we can unite so a number of ayat Allah Huhtala mentioned in the Quran in a Levina for Roku Dino who can who share less the man whom fish shake, yeah, Mohammed, those people who split their religion and they are different groups, different groups, you have nothing to do with them.

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That's not the religion you brought. You have nothing to do with them at all. It's one of the many ayat of the Quran, we're allowed to call Numenor Lavina. Farah to Dina whom Lacan who Shia Kulu has been demolished. Dae Hoon fatty Hoon, this ayat of the Quran shows our reality. He said don't be like those people who are the Mushrikeen the religion of the mystery King. Don't be of those people are the most should be keen. Those people who split their religion up into schizont each group is

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happy with what it has. So this one is set if he and he doesn't want to hear anything else, and he doesn't even know Sedef here. That was a whiny it

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doesn't want to hear anything except that diamond to Gliffy that was Sufi this one was a liberal that one is this and this one is that and the Prophet brought one book sal Allahu Allah, you will send them one sunnah, one Qibla and above all of that one ILA.

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And you'll find all of these groups being happy with what they had not permissible from those meaning if not 12345, meaning if Allahu Taala told the Prophet salallahu Salam, WA tesi mu B Hubballi la Hey, Jimmy, I'm Elijah for rapoo what? Kuru net motto Tila here I like to make quantum Ida for Allah for Bellina Kulu be confer spat on Vinod Murthy. Juana will come to Mara shefa who fritton millenary Banco de Caminha could then it could you be in LA who let it rot look into the

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dual Yamaha me, you and your companions, you and your followers, hold on to the rope of Allah all together. And don't be divided. And authentic hadith came in explain what is the rope of Allah? What is the hobble of Allah, the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting them in Quran Hua hub loving them dude minister met him for domestic will be he said that the Quran is the rope of Allah that extends from the heavens to the earth. So hold on to it. I do I think he'd be no aged

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hold on to that Quran. So be united all together, and do not have the life And remember the Name of Allah upon you when you will once enemies to one another. And you're on the brink of the Hellfire about the falling to it. But Allah has saved you people by Ellison and he saved you people in the hopes that you will be guided. So in J Lea, and J via the Arabs of the Arabian Peninsula, they can never be united. Like for an example where a family right here we're all brothers, cousins, uncles,

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and we're one tribe. This is our tribe. It could be from airport. It could be wherever you want that tribe to be from. We're one tribe. We have our elders and our youngsters in Jamia, this tribe is going to break up at some point. Why? Because I'm not going to agree with what the Emir said, I don't even want him to be the Emir anywhere anymore. So I'm going to make her Rouge me and my son's me and my younger uncle me and my older uncle, we're going to fight him and we're going to make

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problems. And that's why the Prophet told the people SallAllahu wasallam, anyone who dies and he doesn't have the bat in his neck, he died the death of a jet here. Because you have to give the bat to the leader of the Muslims. And he said, If you come and the Muslims are united, and two people, they give the bat to one and then another one stands up to get the bat, they should deal with them. Why? Because he's working towards dividing the community. So the point here is, there are many,

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many, many I have the book of Allah, and many a hadith as for the Sunnah for Hadith, well our heritage, that Prophet told us in an authentic hadith sallallahu alayhi wa ala it was salam Yara de la Kamala, who fell Atha Well, yes, her to La Quinta. Natha three things Allah is pleased for you people. He wants these things for you. And 333 things he hates, he doesn't want them. First when he said and toggle do who am I to Shree Kobe he che.

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We're into NASA who men will love hula hoop American. When testing will be Habibollah he joined me and when I tell him three things Allah loves is priests. And that is you worship Him and Him alone. And you don't worship anyone else along with him. Number two, anyone who's the leader amongst you, the Imam, the administration, the husband, the emir, anyone who's in charge of the Muslims, you give them the free ha. And there's a way to give him Naseeha you don't get the Imam of the masjid and to

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see her in front of the people and you put them down and you talk bad Adam and talk bad with the administration. You don't do like that.

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Number three, he said Allah loves or he has a rubber. He likes for you. To he likes for you to be united and not to have the life. You know when that let's learn. The most important action in Islam is the salah most important action. He says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a Salaat Hiral mole door. Four minutes to tighten your stick fail failure stick theme salad is the best thing you can do. So anyone who can make a lot of prayer make a lot. There is nothing more important than the Selaginella

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slam from your fists.

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is a call to actions. The only thing more important than the slot is you are key than what you believe in. You have the wrong IP that all the slot in the world won't help you. It won't help you. You have the right Aqeedah Inshallah, your slot and Shala is going to benefit you. But in terms of actions, most important action is the salaat. He would pray five times every day. And before he would pray, we're praying in the Jamaat unity, unity, and he wouldn't just get up and face the

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pebble and say Allahu Akbar, he used to look down to make sure that the people were straight in the lines. And he used to say, every day over and over again, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lied to Teddy foo, protective Apolo, Boko, don't be divided in the way you're standing.

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And if you are divided, is going to divide your hearts. So you look at the army with the non Muslims, that people in the army, they know the importance of everybody being synchronized, everybody being disciplined, everybody being straight.

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There's some benefit from that. If our bodies are not together, our hearts are not together. And this is one of the reasons we got to try our best not to allow our kids to eat at different times.

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But we have to make an effort of making jihad, we want our bodies together and share hidden mineral Karen, the Prophet was saying Salah he was setting them every day, like to study

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don't have this empty life. You're not even talking in the Salah, don't have the life in your bodies, you have to be tolerant today for Fudger. And between him and him for the Quran between him and him, find some between him and her for and on and on every day. I'm like that. So now with this being the case, with this being the case, I'm going to start to learn my brothers who they are, they're going to learn me, one of them. The Prophet used to tell the people don't be tough when you

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put your feet together Leeloo balay, the 20 Come, take it easy and be soft and gentle. But there is one person from the community, you don't have enough guys put his foot on your foot. Gotta do the Sunnah. One of them kind of guys, whenever he is on my side, I know I just gotta be patient with this brother. And I gotta be patient with that one. And I gotta be patient with this one. Because when he prays he's, so my point here is my point here is, this is one of the many practical ways of

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having unity in the religion. Then the madhhab comes, and the madhhab says, Don't stand next to each other.

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And that's what the madhhab says. So whether you realize it or not, the madhhab is going towards creating the life creating the hearts that are a problem. Although the imam who came to the understanding, we're not going to throw him out and say he wanted me laugh. He's a baddie man. And we'll come to those issues of the HDX had an AMA, before moving on in Shalash 20, the Prophet salallahu it he went on, it was sent on board of religion, that put a lot of emphasis on unity and

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talk bad about the life because there's a price to pay. When we have the life. This community right here will suffer, you guys are gonna suffer, your religion will suffer. As long as you remain stuck on stupid about those issues that Allah He did not all that complicated. I'm not going to understand everything, you understand it, you're not going to look at things the way I look at everything. Impossible. If we were to travel from here to Mecca, I'm gonna have to laugh with you people in the

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dean in the dunya. And you're gonna have me laugh with me and the dean of the dunya. But we have a religion that answers those issues. We have a religion

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that shows us how to be so the RAF is a problem. The life is a problem. What's the problem? A lot of problems come from a lot. They're very serious. Allah will try to mention in his books and panel who, what the Allah

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or the Prophet says Allah Allahu Allah, He will it was setting them in the My Holika men kind of couple of Khumba Catholic laughing em, those people will be for you. They were destroyed

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because of the empty life that they had against their profits, destruction.

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Destruction be destroyed. Not a joke.

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No nation before this nation no nation remained in power. As long as they have equity that gonna be a problem. It's gonna be a problem. So there's a serious issue Allah mentioned in the Quran, WA T law

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wha wha sudo who will attend as Ufa tough, shall we take Highbury Hoko

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obey Allah and obey His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and don't have an Eliza, don't be arguing and splitting up over issues between yourselves don't do that. Because if you do that, if you do that, you're going to fail. And your strength is going to leave you,

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your strength is going to leave you, what Spirou nulla my soldering, but instead be patient. Allah is with those who are patient. So now look what happened in the Battle of better because this is the action of the Manasa T. That prophet is going to better better serve Allah, he was sitting with his companions, and the chief of the moon after King, he decides, you know what, we're not going to fight with you, we turn it around, and he took a third of the army took a third of the army and they

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went back a third of the army in the middle at the time when you really need them, a third of the army breaks off and they go the other way.

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weakening the army, weakening the army. That's what happens with the life. We don't utilize our resources, whether they are monetary, or whether they're in our minds, this individual. He is a blessed brother. He's a professional. He has a profession that will help our community but he can't get along with me. I will Simon I'm one of the board I'm sure a member so he goes his own way. You go your own way, and I go my own way. It's a problem. If the life is a big problem, so I want to

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bring to your attention and 20 Islam is a community religion is a religion of communal religion. We don't have this thing where you go and you worship Allah by yourself. Unless it's the real really time of fitna, there will come a time where a man has to be by himself and he has to hold on to a tree and eat from the leaves of the tree because the fitness so bad, he has to make the event on top of a mountain by Himself him and his sheep. But this is not that time.

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He told us Allah who it was setting him and movement levy you had to nurse well yes be true other than whom cradle min and movement and levy law you grind it to nuts. Well, I just Bureau

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believer who mixes with the people, he sociable with the people, and he's patient with what annoys him from the people. He's better than the believer who doesn't mix with the people. And he's not patient.

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That's the description of the movement. He says sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam and movement. Yeah, love or you love what? Allah, Allah you love. The believer is a person who he connects to people. And he accommodates them when they want to connect to him. And because no good in the one who doesn't take the initiative to connect, and when people want to connect to him, he doesn't reciprocate. That's a sign of the movement. He's individual, he's gonna get in his lane, and he's going to get away fits

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in and he's going to try to bring good to the table.

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That's what he's going to do. He's not going to jeopardize the issue of

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the life and unity second issue, and this is critical. Second issue when he has that marvelous land. They used to put a lot of emphasis on the knowledge of the life. There is knowledge of how to pray, knowledge of zakat, the fear of Islam, how to perform Hajj

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there is knowledge or the fic of how to get married, how to get divorced, how to make this step by all of the new child, first of all of that flick of how to sit in the masjid.

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There is the flick of the last, the marvelous lamb past, present and in the future in sha Allah, the renowned marvelous lamb. They have a special position. They are the wonderful NBA. They are the ones who inherited from the NBA.

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And as a result of that, they're not normal. Allah asked a rhetorical question in the Quran that doesn't deserve Vinnie answer because the answer is clear, Paul, hallelujah still will live in a Yala Moon Well, leadin Allah, Allah moon, are they equal? Those who know and those who don't know?

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The man in Islam he doesn't know is elbow from his ankle bone in the religion. He doesn't know.

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And he is a man with knowledge of the religion. He's sitting on top of a mountain and when people come to him with his knowledge and his insight he knows the fitna before even

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comes. The people come to him and say, Sheriff, what's your position about this distance that he say don't do it? Don't do it. He knows what this guy is asking about. It's going to destroy the whole country. It's gonna kill people, a whole country everybody.

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But the one who can't see him except in front of his nose, especially from the younger people that are wavy, and the Chabad those people say no shave, he don't know he's shaved scholar for dollars. The point here is the LS lab. They didn't leave any stone unturned for this ummah, everything you want to look up everything you want to research, the scholars of Islam talked about it. Even issues that were not present back then you're going to find from the canon and the thick of the dilemma,

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that which will allow you to make PI's you can make it symbolic from what they said and what they did. For things that were not even present back then. Like this mobile phone.

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Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam didn't have a mobile phone, y'all know that right? He didn't have a note anybody doubt that? Anybody here think the prophet had a mobile phone, three dri or iPhone, anybody think that? And yet the Quran and Sunnah showed us the adab of this mobile phone,

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the adab of the mobile phone, and how to deal with the mobile phone. If the people knew the idea of the mobile phone, this fit in there with our brother Norman Ali Han, people would know what they do to shut up and stop being a part of the problem. Just shut up.

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This is part of the musket with the life. Too many people are talking who shouldn't be talking. And as a result of that, the issue gets more complicated. So the scholars of the slam scholar the slam, they wrote about the importance of empty life. Some of the greatest scholars, they said that the very first scholar wrote about an ft laugh was that Muhaddith from the high nebula Imam Abu Abdullah, Mohammed Abdul Nasser, and mer was he this man, he was the business nitroglycerin. He

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wrote a book he called his book, Fick and the life after hail. All of the scholars came and they named their book this as well. All of them, all of them. Or many of them. Al Imam Muhammad in Geneva, Tabori, same book, tremendous Eman in Al Islam, even on Monday, they're the size of the book Kitab turvy with Tara heap. All of them used to write this even before then, Imam Malik in his book and that book of water is a book that contains for us the statements in the positions of the

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companions that have the life of the tabby 18 that have been asked, Why am I mentioning this to you? I'm mentioning this to you and why number one to let you know, number one, that the scholars of Islam didn't leave us to be by ourselves to figure stuff out. And when I say the scholars of Islam, that doesn't mean that a scholars my assume, when someone says where's the deal? You say chef Roby said that AMI delille

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the deal is what Allah said what his messenger said, what the companion said and did Ridwan Allah, Allah him. The Hawk is what Allah said, what his messenger said, and what and what the companions said in depth. Don't be of those people. What's the proof of that? What's the proof of that? An Imam Abu Hanifa said, that's not a W.

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At a coulomb, we want you to know, number one, the scholars, the scholars, the scholars, if you find a I'll just sent me a brand spanking new Muslim. If you find someone in the community, talking bad about Allah, then you run away from that person, the way you run away from a lion.

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Now, I know some of you are very inquisitive. And if a real lion came in, some of you will say, wow, look at his lip here. Wow.

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And he says, I think I just think I can touch him. Lion bite your head off. You run away from that person, the way you run away from a lion. You're gonna be like me, you're not gonna try to wait to see if the line is gonna cool out, like call out. I'm going out the window as soon as he come in the door. That's how you have to be with the one who talks bad about throwing a motherless lamb. And it's usually from these groups that are political, the JAMA art. I see I see CRC.

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They're the ones they got to put the scholars down so that they could put themselves up when the scholars are out of the equation. Now the thing is easy for them.

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do what they want to do. Second reason why I'm bringing to this is the importance of the issue of knowing the etiquettes of the life and knowing what the scholars have locked in.

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They said to Abdullah Bemis owed about a man who was teaching, he asked, does the man have knowledge of the the life between the people they said, No, he said, is destroyed, and he's gonna destroy other people. If you have some knowledge about, well, this issue it has the life and this is the life. All right, he's doing this particular thing, like the Molad of the Prophet sallallahu. It was setting them as an example. This is an example. I don't believe that the moment is permissible. I

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think it's an innovation. Personally, I believe it's an innovation. And I'm with those scholars who said it's an innovation, but also know that I remember CLT Al Imam Ibn hedger, an Imam, an nawawi. Another scholar said it was something that was okay.

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The de Lille is not a no we said Abu Hanifa said Abu Bakr said, The delille Allah said His Prophet said the Companions collectively said something Ridwan Malloy, mind. Now when I know although I believe the moment is not right, but Oh, am I gonna call this brother you are deviant because you're doing the moment. You believe in the moment so you are deviant. And I won't give you a slap synapse. And you don't love the Sunnah.

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If I say that to him, and I looked at him like that, what am I going to do with those Imams who took his position?

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Doesn't mean that position is correct, doesn't mean that I'm saying is correct. But if you got to give him this ruling, and you won't give it those Imams, where's the fairness in that?

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Where's the justice in that? So when the person knows the, the life, he'll know how to deal with the people based upon the fact that exist. That can make a big deal goes into an Masjid where they don't say I mean, after the Imam Reis Surah Fatiha. They don't say anything that Masjid. Okay, I know where they're coming from. So I'm not going to go in that masjid and make trouble because I know the issue.

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So that's the second point that we want to mention. Third point and 20 concerning this issue of the life before we even get into the DAT, the different etiquettes of FB life, we want to share this introduction with you the third point in my introduction, first one

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first one, the religion call for unit unity. And he said, The Life is a muscular

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and there's a price to pay. Number two, the scholars of Ellis land, they talked about this issue. And the real the real, the real person was rarely worthy. He's worth his weight. He knows he has some knowledge about what a marvelous lamb has at life and he's a nice speaker. He gives a nice hug. And as his lane would it call in which Hatton whom will leave her for steady, Hira. That's his lane. No problem, young guy.

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But he's not a Mufti

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know the difference between the guy who gives a nice talk. And the guy, the chef, who you're going to bring your issues to share? I want to get a house and the house is with a mortgage, the mortgage, I have an opportunity to get it from the Islamic bank or to get it from the regular bank. What do you think I should do? Share? Don't go to any ordinary I'm a bucket and Zaid from people to ask those kinds of questions.

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Don't go to regular people, those issues about your life, those issues about marriage, divorce blood, private parts, your money. You go to people who know this religion. This is one of the big problems we have everybody who can say something in front of a mic, we put him there and he's talking, especially here in this country. And I wish Shabaab are being sent a straight. Third point in this introduction and then we'll get into the issue in sha Allah is that there are different

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types of the life one not all if the life is bad. There is the empty life a levy, Allahu Al Huck, the afterlife came as a result of the truth. It's not bad. And then there's the life that came as a result of desires. That's the life that's a problem. There's the afterlife that is Mooster side. This FB laugh Yeah, we understand it.

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Although I believe the correct position, the Kota Roger, I believe it's this one over here.

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But the other opinion is Mr. SA. We performed Hajj this year before the lie he to Allah. And there are many lessons to learn from Al Hajj many lessons we can deal with the issue of the dab of the last as a lesson from Hutch

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from the lessons of an homage is that the Companions Ridwan, Allah I laid him, they had a lot of different opinions about hydrogen, that if the lab so many things happened with the Companions, when they perform Hajj with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam were Radi Allahu Anhu. He mind as you'll see, inshallah.

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So I just give you a very quick example, very quickly.

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A person wants to stone, the JAMA rot

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and installing the Gemma rock, he has his father with him, who's an old man, his mother with him, she's an older lady, his wife is not feeling well. So he wants to go and stone the three gem route

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on behalf of his elderly mother or father, so he's going to do for him self and he's going to do for his father. Some of the scholars said, when you do that, you have to throw seven, go to the next one, throw seven, go to the next one, throw seven, and then go back and start all over for the one you're doing it for.

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Other scholars said no. Shall near you throw seven for yourself and then seven for that person. And you do that with the other three? whatever position you take in that issue. Is it the life that's more tuber? It's an FE life you can understand. Because there's no iron. There's no Hadith saying do this or don't do that. So both opinions, they have their point of view. Don't be of those people coming you and Sis, you got to take it my way. It's my way or the highway. That's how some of the

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people are but the Companions Ridwan will lay. I named him in the things when there was not any knifes and it wasn't going to be a problem for the community. Their chests used to be wider than that. More IWEA Eben Abbey Soufiane Radi Allahu Anhu those people who in this month after a few days on Saturday, the day of Ashura, they are those people who there if the life of this religion is not acceptable, by no stretch of the imagination, can you curse the companions? By no stretch of the

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imagination? Can you have a dour towards any of the companions? While we already have those companions? Well, we're going to say if they live on material,

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that's not a Rama, that's

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Wallahi there's no way for that. But on the ninth and the 10, these people are going to come and they're going to curse Musa ibn Abi Soufiane. I'm here to tell you, Hey, don't get it twisted. And think that I'm telling you that we have to live with people and we have to accept what everybody is saying. How's there there's nothing that you're me. There's no way I can that will be never die sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he knows the elemental vape there is no laughing there. There is

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nothing that is considered snom or tuber. Someone comes some just imagine this. Just imagine this. We all believe collectively. Muhammad Rasool Allah, He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, some man comes from outside, European white man comes from outside. And he's drunk. He comes in here with a bottle of lager and he says, I'm rasool Allah after Mohammed, we're going to look at him, no one here is going to say, Okay, this issue of the life.

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We're going to look at this guy and say, Hey,

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we have to go and help him to find his mind. He lost his mind somewhere. Let's go help him to find his mind.

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So the point here is, I'm not here telling you, every happy life is considered. There are different types of life. The end result comes like that, for certain reasons, and the beginning of the life for certain reasons. Again, with experience with knowledge, a person begins as he gets older, especially he becomes more tolerant. But when he's young, when he's young, and he's newly practicing, it becomes a problem.

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Because his lack of experience and his lack of knowledge or he that he's sincere, so he'll come and he'll accuse the man. He'll accuse the administration. You people don't want the Sunnah. Hey,

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Slow down and pump your brakes, slow down and pump your brakes and relax. So I just want to make it clear, there is an empty life that is natural, the one that comes as a result of being the fitrah of Allah, the fitrah

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no two people are going to think the same and understand everything this thing's not going to happen. Hola Hola. Todos I mentioned in the Quran in surah today, he said in the Quran Subhanahu wa Taala willows SHA Rob Booker le Jia, Allah NASA, mutton Wahida Well, I use Aluna mokhtari Fein LMRA, Murad Booker, Woody Danica, have a

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listen to this I

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had your Lord wanted. If your Lord wanted, he could have made all of the people want.

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Everybody is on Islam, everybody is on towhee everybody is doing the right thing. He could even make them in Africa where they don't even make mistakes. Hi, Joe Lord wanting you to pay attention to this if he could have made all of the people one Allah. But they will not cease to have empty life between themselves, they will not cease to be divided, except the one that Allah had Rama upon. And for this reason, they were created.

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Few things in this ayat, number one, number one, the eye shows people were created to have a healthy life.

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To have a happy life. So as a father, my two wives are not the same. My children are not the same. I got to deal with everybody in different ways. This is a boy this is a girl that's older this way. And this one is easy to understand that can deal with everybody that same way. He's older. He's been in the slam longer, he's more knowledgeable. This one is sick. This one is challenged mentally.

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He said because of that they were created. He said they will continue that if you live in Lamin Rahim or roadbook, except that the one that Allah has Rama, and that goes to show the life on mateesah Rama, that hadith is fabricated. It's not true. The Prophet never said that Salallahu Salam, and this is said, being united is the Rama

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and having the life is an eye that the FT life becomes a Rama. It could be a Rama in that. The religion allowed you to do things certain ways in different ways everyone knows you can make the hygiene of a tomato or you can make the hijab and a Quran or you can make the homage of La fraude. That's a Rama that you have a choice you have a choice. You want to pray your Sunnah prayers, like the Hanafi is do after salata, Aisha, some of them stay on their knees and they do those to rock.

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You want to stay on your knees, stay on your knees and pray those two records. You want to stand up and prep stand up and pray those two records. There's a Rama because you have a choice. As for you say what you want to say I say what I want to say you think but you know this is that.

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And the Arab Spring, the Arab Spring is a clear indication that if the life is I that if the life is I that when the BU sallallahu alayhi wa ala Ali was sending them concerning this particular point as well when he he said an authentic hadith SallAllahu it was sending them an RWA. julu mucha NEDA my to Ara for minha telefone were Maya Tanaka the minute telephone. He said that the souls of the people are like train soldiers in the army conscripted soldiers. He said the Urwa people's souls,

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their souls like train soldiers, there are some souls when they come together, they harmonize and they mesh and you just get along. And then there other souls other people when they come together, they clash. He just doesn't like you. You ask them why you don't like him? He doesn't know.

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He himself doesn't know some people know his skin is black. I don't like you know, some people know but some people don't know I just don't like them.

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And then they have this is the person who you meet them. You like me? I don't I know you feel some way. No, we just met but that's how it is you get along with them. And I hope and pray those of you who are not married you get a wife like that. When you marry your wife you just like you have NC jam like that. You have NC jam. It's like when the lights go off. We all go to put our shoes on. We don't see the shoe. You put the shoe down you put your foot in. You say this is not my shoe.

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This is not my shoe and maybe two

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smell too big and maybe my size, but it's not my shoe. Whereas in the darkness, the person puts his foot in his shoe. He says, This is my shoe. Some people like that, very easy to get along with. I mean, even when they start talking, you kind of know what they're about to say already, you can finish the sentence because they're easy. And the noodles people are just very difficult. That goes to show 20 That some empty life, it's just natural. And that's why we have and that's why we have

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pay attention. I need you to understand this point. That's why we have some of the best people have in the life.

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Some of the best people

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our father, Adam, had a laugh with Musa Salawat to lay he was salam ala Hema. They had a discussion.

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And they both were bringing their Hajaj.

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Musa was saying you're Adam, Allah created you with his own hands. You're the father of the human beings. Allah put you in the Jannah. He told them Allah academic sedge did to you. You got us kicked out of the Jana

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Musa said back to him, are you going to hold me accountable for something that was written on me 50,000 years before the Heaven and Earth were were created? The Prophet said SallAllahu wasallam. He said,

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Adam overcame Musa in his argument, in the discussion, the argument that they were having Sulaiman in the old, the Hadith in Bukhari and Muslim of the two ladies. They had two babies. The older lady put her baby down, and the wolf came and ate it and ran off. The younger lady put her baby down. The older lady took that baby. She said, It's my baby. They said, No, that's my baby. No, that's my baby. No, that's my baby. They went to download to the Father that get to judgment. They told him

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the story. He looked at the delille that the wheel was in the hands of the woman who wasn't her baby.

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He said, that's your baby. You gave a ruling. That's your baby. It's yours. Because he asked the judge based upon what's apparent

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to her baby. When they left the room. They came upon his son soon a man. Soon a man said okay, just bring me a knife. I'm gonna cut the baby in half. I give you half I give you half. That lady who wasn't the real mother said okay. All right with me. The other lady said, no, no, no, she can have the baby. She can have it. So they might say that's her baby.

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The ruling of the father was this the ruling of the son was that they didn't give the same ruling because circumstances changed.

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And that happens in the dunya when

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they say Al Mustafa it or move the Assyrian Musa 50 The Mufti is the captive of the one who's asking the question, beware of these brothers on this Hulu agenda with the ideal who don't have this Rama, where you can have the life I don't have to follow everything Shakra be says or any chef in the dunya don't force me to take the HD out of the arena marvelous lamb is the HDI. So these brothers will say you're out of the Sunnah because you say that. Don't Don't, don't, don't be like that.

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Don't be like that. Take it easy. Just relax.

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There's a lot between the scholars the person comes and he says to the chef, Chef, what do you have to say about the person who did this this this this? The Sheikh is gonna give his fatwa the Sheikh is the captive of the guy asking the questions because he's gonna give his footwork based upon how the question was given to him. And then that person comes in he takes that and he says chef, so and so said that this Masjid in Huddersfield isn't deviant Masjid. He never mentioned anything to the

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chef about Huddersfield

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now never mentioned anything about Huddersfield but the one who has that disease in his heart. So my point here is the NBN the prophets, there is a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu settleman Imam and telemovie get collected in this authentic inshallah from the Hadith. See,

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Allahu Taala said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sending them Yeah, Mohammed a deadly female Tassimo and metal Allah. Do you know why the angels who are up above are arguing?

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The angels are arguing? Do you know why? The Prophet said, Allah? Why them I don't know. Allah azza wa jal put his hand on the prophets back in the dream Salah

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While he was setting up, he said I felt the coldness of Allah's hand. And Allah has two hands, they right hands they both fit his majesty. He said, I felt the coldness in my chest. And then Allah said, do you know why the angels are arguing? He say yes, the argument about the data Jack. And could Farah, they argued about those things that cause you to go up and they argue about the things that will cause you to get your sins taken off.

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Namely, walk into the Masjid.

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Namely, sitting in the masjid from one slot to the next a lot. Namely, making a good whoodle

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This word and mahasamadhi and Maha sama and the Arabic language it means argument. One group a person is saying something, someone else says something back. Now I'm the man I Don't disobey Allah azza wa jal, but the monastic are given their points of view, why are they making this mu kasama between themselves why they have in this thing? So some of the really marvelous lamb they use this particular Hadith to go and show Allah subhanho wa Taala is the only one He's the only one who knows

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everything. So as a result of that, everybody and everything else in his creation, they're gonna have different opinions about different things based upon what information came to them is going to be what they say what they do what they believe. And that leads to natural life because he heard something here or something else he believed some other thing he read it in another way. So the afterlife is something that is normal is something that is normal don't think if the life is

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inherently evil, no when we don't have etiquette, this is when a problem is and these are things we want to speak about right now. Okay.

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And there are a lot of edits of the

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first one that we want to bring to your attention Inshallah, who data is

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personal hollow,

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just having good character as a release to the life that's a general statement. Having hospital holo

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he says some Allahu alayhi wa and it was selling them Earth Kullu che through his annual mukaiyama husband Hello. The thing that's going to be in the skills heavier than everything you'll know Qian is good character.

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Salafi al Hadith and Sunnah.

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Good characters from our religion.

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The one who knows that Allah's Elbasy he sees he's SME, he's outgoing. He's al Jabbar and Avi

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for him to parrot off this ayat and this hadith but we don't see that reflective in the way he's dealing with us. He's not gentle He's not crying he's not patient is not clean. He's not truthful. But he's going to stand up beating a drum set if he said if he I'm here to save Allah He has said if he is the truth, but what is the salary fear? Is not my property that I come is my club. My club I will Hadith meaning on my blog we do Bundy no Sal if he is taking that Quran and the Sunnah, the way

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the Companions understood him in practice instead if he what the media telling us a Salafi jihadi via ca ie the Boko Haram Shabbat these guys are the selfies No, so that said if here Salafi is Allah SNAM and Mustafa that we shouldn't be shine, embarrass, or afraid.

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Somebody say to me, Hey, are you a Muslim? I'm so scared. I'm gonna say no, I'm not a Muslim. I'm gonna tell you people in the Muslim. What kind of Muslim are you? I believe you got to be on the Kitab in the Sunnah, the way the Companions understood those two sources. That's what I believe. Call it what you want to call it? Should we run around beating that drum everyday all the time, put an emphasis on the Quran, and not on the essence of the meaning. No, we have to put essence on the

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meaning and from the essence is the way we act.

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If you're really Adela Hadith, then work by the Hadith and be gentle. Don't talk so much. Don't be hard. Don't be Hassid Take it easy.

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Anyway, when I say good character whiny.

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The arrogant person.

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He's going to differ with people because it's high. It's his way of the highway.

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The one who thinks he thinks I'm always right, and everybody else is wrong. That's going to lead to more if the life good character. love for your brother what you'd love for yourself have Hudson oven.

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Do you think he hates the sun?

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You think he took that position because he's the bad guy hate the sooner you want to be a troublemaker? He took that position because that's what he believes. He believes that

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another thing from the hospital hello is in our slam in our slam. What is big we make bake? was little we make little

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so I'm praying next to a brother who's leaving the masjid right now he was moving his finger like this in the salon. I don't need my finger

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at the salon Am I gonna grab his finger and break and snap his finger

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and say to what are you doing?

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I'm not gonna do that. Because what he's doing, even if I didn't hear about live funny noise, good Hello.

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Don't be in haste coming x the brother? Why do you do that? What's going on? Just take it easy, and be relaxed when people disagree with you. The reason why I say that, look at this.

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few incidents happen they will The same happened with Allah and another companion to other companions where the man was reading the Quran Surah Al Hadid in a way that Allah wasn't taught that Quran and I said I got ready to grab them when I heard him he was praying. And he started reading certain Hadith I almost grabbed them. I was gripped him up.

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But I let them go. Respecting the prayer. At the finished praying I grabbed them thinking he's messing with the Quran. He took them to the Prophet sallallahu we'll set it up Yeah, Rasul Allah, this man is reading the Quran in a way that you didn't teach me from him and say, let him go on. He let him go. He told them and read it. Man started reading the Quran, read the ALLAH and he said now you read it. I must start reading the Quran. The Prophet told both of them sell Allah what He was

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selling them kala Kuma sin, both of you are correct.

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One issue and both of you are correct, correct. So the hack can have two sides to it.

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Or three sides, or four sides.

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But if you ever again and you think that you, you, you have collected all of the religion, your Med had collected all of their religion, your chef collected all of the religion, you're going to be a problem.

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You are going to be a problem.

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So deal with people in a nicer way and an easier way. Don't be one of those people who's real rough and tough. My way or the highway. Ah dad al Hakim for ASABE edge Iran. When ACTA follow agile, why, if a human being and which Dead Island, he looks at an issue and he makes he had, if he gets it right, he gets two rewards. If he gets it wrong, he gets one reward. That's the Rama Allah, the look of Allah, the apple of Allah.

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Gonna give the man a reward because he's qualified to make an effort. He did the best that he could. And he arrived to the wrong conclusion and he still gets the reward. Which goes to show whiny, every single empty live shouldn't be something that you wage war against it. Number two, is just as important. Number two,

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the regular people from amongst us.

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Don't talk so much. Don't be so opinionated.

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In the dean or the dunya Don't be so opinionated. Look what I even I be taught I've said it rubbed the Allahu Anhu The Prophet said about them. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Aquila uma T Ali ibn Abi Taalib he's the best party of this ummah. He's the best judge of this ummah. That's on his Hassan is and he said kinda let him looked at him. For DACA fee, he may Allah subhanahu fissara and an arriba. He said knowledge used to be just the dot. But then people started getting to knowledge who are not

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the people of knowledge. They started talking started writing started giving the opinions and then knowledge became very expansive and wide. Meaning what Allah revealed the ayat of the Quran, AR Rahman, Al a lot of sheer stone. When that I it was revealed, describing Allah the Lord of All the Worlds out of man is over his throne in the way that befits His Majesty. Not a single companion said how, why, when were not a single one. They had nothing to say. Just it's this lamb. They just submit

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it. I told you the Hadith called see

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Allah came to the Prophet at nighttime when he was sleeping Salah he was sitting up, touched him in the back, he felt the coldness of that, and his neck and his chest. Not a single companion said how, why, when, where,

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when now what we have with the Muslims is

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a rock man he came down, he made a steel up is the one the language it means this and that poet, he said that, and this that, and if it comes down, and if it goes up, then what happens? Well that, and you have to write an explanation of that, and then an explanation of that explanation, explanation and that explanation, and now we have all of the Quran.

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And that's why they said that the Companions, they had a few words, but they had a lot of actions.

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Today, we have a lot of Quran and few actions. And that's why remember the alignment when he saw the man, a man say, Yeah, middlemen, meaning you see that guy? He said, That's a good guy, put them in your office, put them he's a good guy. He said, You know him.

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He said, ya know, he's you travel with them. You sleep with them. You do business with them. Did you eat with him? He said, No. He said, You don't know him. Maybe you just saw him going up and down in the masjid. And you think he's good? Now, um, if we see him in the masjid going up and down, we have his loved one. But does that mean you loan him money? You don't know him yet?

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No, you have to get to know that brother.

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So those people back then.

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Not a lot of connection, but a lot of actions. So now now, from the I dab of an empty life,

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the regular people, the ignorant people shouldn't talk.

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I come to this message. This community I'm brand spanking new. I don't know about the problems that exists. This community says to me, you can give the hook but you're gonna give the talk. I'm going to avoid the issues because I don't know what's going on here. And I shouldn't put my foot down in a place I don't know if should go there. I love sending the Quran when I took full my lease, select Copy. I don't talk about that which you have no knowledge about.

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That's the way of the Manasa keen, especially as it relates to the community.

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Low tide I mentioned those Manasa teen that Jack min Hoffman and me I will hope that he will be he will not do it or Rasool were

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among the men whom the animal will lead in a STEM between the women who will Lola fuggle, Allah He left a whole lot to miss shape on he left kalila the monastic team, if something happens to the community in the way of public safety or public fear, when we laugh at people, the ones who talk about it, anybody that got something to say everybody got the opinion, I said, if those Manasa P ignorant people, if they just would have referred that issue, back to the messenger, salallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, and those who have knowledge,

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then they would have put the best construction on the situation. And if it wasn't for the Wrath of Allah upon you wouldn't follow che fund most of you except a few of you. So this isn't the dean, I don't know much about the dean, why am I giving my opinion? Why am I debating? I don't know much about the dean. The dunya is the same way.

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That's not my forte. That's not like the hustles. These are not my people. Listen, honey, in this country, as well as in Somalia, in Europe.

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I traveled to Europe quite a bit. And I did with Somali communities in the Somali communities because I'm not Somali, they were things that I did not touch on from the problems that they've had over the years. Because I met the man for that job. It's too sensitive. You got to let their mind talk about that. They're sure you talk about that. And I'm talking about the dunya is not for me to talk about what's going on with the problems of the administration, because I don't know. And by

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giving my opinion, and I don't know all of the angles, I'm just gonna make more problems. Let the people handling the situation handled. That's why I said about our brother that you people have heard about, don't pass that stuff out to the next guy.

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Don't pass it out. Because you wouldn't want that to happen to you.

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And we are people who are people of proofs, not people of, of, of you know the way the newspapers are the sun magazine.

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So the issue here is, from the etiquette of an empty life is for a person to just keep his mouth shut.

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and not to talk about things. Another very important issue from the etiquettes of the life Murad and Masada

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that you have to take into consideration the harms and the benefits of the thing that is on the table. Listen to this very carefully

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doing the homage

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doing the half of armor

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or doing the homage one of the hudge.

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Doing the life of Horace Mann

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and Mina, Earth man, he prayed so that the Lord for rakaat and Mina, all of the prayers are just too I got to be prayed at the time, Lord to Raka and his time I said to us at his time, and that's what you're doing the days of Mina, you don't combine and Milla Earth man combined because it was man pray for rocket after praying for rocket which was against the Sunnah. Some of the youngsters went up to Abdullah Dimas old may Allah be pleased and they said, Hey, Earth man with man he played he

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did the whole thing for us, you're gonna say something if you're gonna do something

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up to LOD, we must all said now, the sooner is to shorten and make two. And what he did was a mistake when I can feel sharp. He shouldn't make too. But this enough that you guys are doing is evil. So if I get up and I start talking to her flan, the Khalifa. And the way you guys are, there's going to be a problem. So Abdullah Dimas old, he let that thing which was wrong, he let go. Because to try to deal with it with the way these people were. Maybe it's going to lead to civil war. It's

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going to lead to civil war.

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So we are in a masjid. And the elders they think a certain way. Elders sometimes, as always say when a relay race, I get the baton, I'm running, I'm running, I'm running, I gotta hand it to you. So you're running, and you get it from me. And then that's how we do sometimes when you have running with the elders and the elders like this.

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And he won't do this. He just keep running.

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You say Sheriff, let us up, let us up. Although he's tired, he'll pass it off.

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He has to pass off the baton. The same way was passed off to him by those who preceded him.

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But I'm coming in, I'm coming into the masjid as a youngster. I gotta take it easy. I gotta relax. I can't clash with the elders.

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They're the ones who built the Masjid. They're the ones who purchased the Masjid. We have to keep working in a nice way.

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We have to be able to weight the harms. And we have to weigh the benefits. I mean, I message it. I want to get down on that message it as soon as I start saying in Al Hamdulillah the people gonna say as Wahhabi. So I'm gonna say

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I don't say I mean.

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Because saying I mean in that message is gonna create fitna.

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Does that mean that we're going to let the Sunnah die trying to please people? No. That's what the Prophet did SallAllahu wasallam when he left the door of Mecca up when the kuffaar Quraysh didn't want to write Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim.

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And he let it go. Because there's a bigger picture.

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So when it comes to the issue of the etiquettes of the life, the etiquettes, you have a position and I have a position. We got away the Masada. Hey, hey,

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you want to marry a girl?

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And your parents don't want you to marry her?

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Her hijab jilbab gloves and cops a lot, Kara. She's a good girl and the Sunnah. And she's beautiful.

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But your mother and your father are not with the program? Why? Racism?

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Or whatever reason. They don't want to marry from that tribe for that family.

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You have to wait, the harms and the benefits? How in the world? Is the girl gonna run off and marry this guy without a father? Or how are you going to run off and marry them? Despite your mother and your father? How are you going to do that? You guys have 15 different opinions. way what your father's doing is not right.

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It's not right, trying to force you to marry somebody you don't want to marry and not allow you to marry someone who may be the perfect girl for you. What he's doing is not right.

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But you're about to create a bigger problem when you marry without their

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consent and permission and without the support

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again and 20 from the etiquettes of the life this is one of the most important ones is we have to refer things back to the keytab. And back to the Sunnah. The Companions all of them felt that the Prophet SAW Selim loved them the most. He felt the Prophet loved them the most he felt he felt he felt, so they were bragging he loves me more than you. He said, No, you don't want law. He loved me more. They were bragging. They said let's just go to him and let's ask him. So they went to him they

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say, Oh, do you love the most? He said Abu Bakar

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they said but but we don't mean that we mean from the women from the he said he said I Isha. He said no that state so that's your wife. We mean from the men you said her father Abu Bakr

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so they didn't sit there fighting and arguing with each other. No, he loves me the most No, he loves me. No, you know and then we get into a fight.

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Go back to the Kitab and the Sunnah when Tina Zeitoun fishing for to do what Hola. Hola, rasool and contem to me noona bIllahi min ash, that you can hire us and

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if you people have a difference in anything, they refer it back to Allah and his messenger that is better and more appropriate for the final. The final determination. Look what happened in hygiene whitening I'm almost done here.

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Abdullah Abdullah bias was making to walk around the Kaaba with while we are given IV Soufiane.

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Whenever we went around the carpet he would touch each corner and make a Tabata with each corner.

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Edna bass looked at him and said, Why are you doing that? He said, Because the Kaaba is all of it is Herma all of it is all of it is sacred. He said But the prophet Sallallahu wasallam didn't do that. The Prophet used to touch the Yemeni corner. If you could touch the m&e corner the one before the Blackstone, if he could touch it, he would touch it. If he couldn't touch it, he wouldn't wave at it wouldn't do anything. And then when he came to the Blackstone, if he could touch it, he would touch

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it. If he couldn't touch it, he will wave to it say Bismillah.

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He said, Why are we above all of the Kaaba is good. He said But the prophet didn't do that. I say it's all good, but that's not the Sunnah. When while we heard that's not the Sunnah. Radi Allahu Anhu. He just said, Yeah, you're right.

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And that's the way the companions were. Abdullah, even a lot of said that salatu Doha, put your hands up if you heard of somebody to do, if you heard of it, so that the Doha, so not to shut off at Doha, everybody, Abdullah Ahmad said salaam Doha is an innovation.

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So innovation, don't do it.

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Don't do it. But when he heard the deal, he accepted it and that's how the Companions work. So I want to conclude here when in we can mention a lot of other things, but time is done on us. If the life is normal, it happened with the best of the people. The companions had the laugh, and salah, zakat, a song Alhaji they had me laughing it Tafseer of the Quran I had left right and center.

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They had the life they even if they live in the most important issue and that is the RFP that generally speaking the the life that they had an RFP that is small in comparison to the the life effect that happened a few issues, just a few not many. Some said the Prophet SAW Allah, some said he didn't see Allah Some said that wattage will confer some said, no, they're Muslim. Some said that it is the yard is the job. Some said no, he's not the job. Some said that getting punished in the

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grave. The one getting in the grave will be punished by the crime of the one outside those companions and the life and a few Messiah ill will get the best of the people. So you think that we're not going to have a life? Just have good o'clock and relax and I end with a statement of an imam Shafi. He said, anytime I have an issue. I believe that I'm right. But I believe that I'm right, and you're wrong. But I also know that it's possible that you're right, and I'm wrong. But

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you have to prove that to me. He's not a person who I'm not gonna listen to what anybody says, anybody. This is my position. I'm saying no. Instead, I believe that I'm right. I believe I'm right. And I believe that you're wrong. But at the same time, I believe that I can be wrong, and that it's possible that you can be right. So already when you come to the discussion table, he's open for discussion. He's open with that type of mentality with that type of mentality. And that's why when

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it came to FDF, he used to have those beautiful positions his book he tapped on, on and on his student ribbon to suit a man and Moradi took

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That book showed that the life that Imam Shafi had with those other scholars from the Threema that had been other than that,

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and nobody makes a big deal about it, except that people will see boon to mocassin as my midheaven mountain and that was the right one. So 20 and concluding, just relax yourselves inshallah and learn the etiquettes of if the laugh, have a chest and a breast that is open and remember, remember, we're living in a very tough time. This is the worst time for the Muslims so Benny Adams is the tough time with a knowledge of the religion is a little bit so people are going to make mistakes from our

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ummah. Where's the Rama with the Rama Atlas sunnah are the are harmonized, and the Sunnah have the most Rama and the people because they're the most knowledgeable people of the harlot allies Gentoo ALLAH is forgiving Allah pardons Allah loves the excuse. You have the Sunnah. Why are you so mean and nasty man? Why are you so mean and nasty brother when you go to his mother's his grandmother's janazah because she was a breath away.

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I said Are you serious? He was serious. Who does that? Your grandmother can't read or write. She can't reach can't write. She's from the r1 who we ask Allah Tala to have mercy upon her to put on Jana without any other boy he said she didn't know what she was doing.

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So relax and take it easy. Okay, Acquainted. We're going to stop here and want to thank the administration, the man for allowing us to give you these words of this important topic. And we ask Allah Tada Bismillah and allow them to continue to guide you brothers Inshallah, by your normalcy and bring you people closer ever so closer to the middle path, and the way of those companions Ridwan ye I lay him edge main Suparna Coloma will be Ambika wa shadow Allah ilaha illa and a stark

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