A Path To Unity – The Etiquettes Of Differing

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So we are

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happy, we feel blessed. Anytime we get an opportunity to come to this Masjid, to try to continue to do what we've been doing over the past few years and that is to spread the sinner in this community, not just the people who come to this Masjid, the people who built this Masjid. But to spread the Sunnah to the outer community, the other Muslims in this community, as well as the non Muslims as well so that they can get a bird's eye view from us what is the reality of our religion as opposed to taking that narrative from our enemies who are in control of the mass media, so we asked Eliza gel to put it into the movie Xen of the husband, of everybody who made this possible. I was given a

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topic, which was the etiquettes of the life, the etiquettes that the Muslim has to have, as it relates to having different opinions from each other. We just prayed salata loved it. And

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when we pray, sold out the market it everybody didn't pray, sell out the market the exact same way.

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We then have a magnet in this mistake,

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or the comma may be made one way in this message, it is made another way and another msgid. Because there are different ways of doing things, and LS name and there are different ways of understanding things in Ellis land. So the topic is a serious topic. I don't want anybody to sit there. And when we talk about the etiquettes of life, you're thinking about the FT last between Andrew Hadid and Bradley's the laugh between Ethan deobandis. If the laugh between other IDs, and the 2d D people, that's part of what today's talk is about. But it's more general than that is more comprehensive than that. There's not a person here, except that he has the life with people who are even close to

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him. We have the life between the elders and the youngsters, we have fdlr between the husband and the wife, we have a laugh, because if the laugh is natural, normal can get away from it. And this is why this topic is a critical topic.

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Those of you who are aware, the Marquez of animal Heidi is in Birmingham, there's a lot of if the life if the life that exists between the people of that Marquez that sometimes doesn't allow Islam to move forward, or the community moving forward. I'm in a new community not too far from here. When I took the reins of that community, there was a lot of life, there still is a lot of life. If the light that is so bad, that it leaves a Muslim stuck on stupid. We have some serious challenges and issues in this country as Muslims, serious challenges and issues with the challenges that we have our children stand on the dean.

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The policies that the government is trying to pass to shut down this lab, not 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, five years from now, Allahu Allah, Islam as we know it is going to continue to change if we don't do something about dealing with these two ideas. Okay, so my point here is the act, the law exists between the Muslims in a way that the family can't move on, it will cause the quality of a person's life to be affected adversely, because the people involved in the life. They don't know about the etiquettes of the life, they didn't get an understanding about the life and as a result of that, as a result of that. I have nothing to do with the drama, The beef, the static that exists

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between my mother and my aunt, I have nothing to do with that. But I'm born into it, and I inherited it. But because I'm ignorant of my religion, while I said what the prophet said some of it was in my late doing. So what I do is I become part of the problem and the circle of life, it gets bigger.

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So today's talk is a really important talk. This mistake this mistake right here, it's gonna be the life do you people stay stuck on stupid to the point where the dour is prevented from moving forward? Because because you don't know how to have a laugh. And this is why we say to the Muslims over and over and we say to this community

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We have to take the Quran and the Sunnah. No doubt about that. But it's not enough for you to say that the companions of the Prophet are the one on one I let him Jemaine they are an integral part of this religion. They're not nice stories of people who made a lot of sacrifices that's part of what they are and who they are. But the companions are errands of the dean they are symbol of the dean there is no salon knows that cut no song no hygiene, there's no Islam without those companions rub the line him so don't look at the companions as Mashallah the companions, nice stories, no, they are more than that. They're more than that. You have to understand and take this course on the way they

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understood in where they took it, the sooner the way they took it with understood it, and they are hooked on us. They are delille against us how why many ways. The companion is read the Alon who just like us, they had a lot of empty life. They fit life before LS land was a shed dead than ours. They had some serious things that kept them apart the Arabs. So the religion of Ellis land cane, and it ordered us to do a lot of things and prohibited us from doing a lot of other things in order to take care of this issue of being united. But not uniting it. Just some Kelly Matt Ferreira elected elected unity unity. Nope, we're not here calling to that. Just as we're not here calling to an Al

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Qaeda, Al Qaeda, hey, you establish the key life in your house. me I have to establish that in my house. I'm the middle meaning in my house and I'm in charge of my wives and I'm in charge my children. Let me be fairing Justin upright. And then if I establish in my house and your house in your in your house, Allah will law he will be 90 from the law he is going to establish it in the earth. So it's just can I'm fat it when people get before the mic and he starts screaming and Sheila fell khilafah stablish the key laughing your house everybody here. So we don't want these empty slogans LG handle Jihad and jihad is important. The hilife is important. Unity is important, but all

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three of them they have their correct understanding. They have their correct understanding. So what we want to do here today inshallah and shed some light on this serious, massive issue.

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We'll begin by saying whiny

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as it relates to the issue of unity, which is the opposite of the last and the photo, having these differences that split us up being people who are together. And the same understanding is one of those really critical messages of Ellis Lang no one should allow himself to be the reason why Muslims are having the life

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you don't want to be that person you'll find individual Mashallah is the days of an Muharram is going too fast Ashura, and he's going too fast the ninth of Ashura, and there was no problem form because you always fast Mondays and Thursdays, he's gonna do that. He makes the event system the first row, he makes Jihad to do good things in Islam. But although he's doing those things that are the sooner you'll find him a big problem when it comes to he's one of the reasons why the community is divided.

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Not realizing its wages to be united, and its haraam to have a happy life and a tougher road where we split up is one of the big sins in Ellis land. So we have the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam showing us practically how we can unite. So a number is a low tide I mentioned in the Quran in a levena for codina, who makalu Shia, less the men who fish a yam, honey, those people who split their religion and there are different groups, different groups, you have nothing to do with them. That's not the religion you brought. You have nothing to do with them at all. So one of the many Ayat of the Quran will add to Kunal Mennella Vina for Roku Dino McCann, who Shia kulu has

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been bimala de who for whom this ayat of the Quran shows our reality. He said Don't be like those people who are the mushrikeen the religion of the machine. Don't be of those people at the mushrikeen those people who split their religion up into schizont each group is happy with what it has. So this one is set up and he doesn't want to hear anything else and he doesn't even know set up here. That was a whiny get

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doesn't want to hear anything except that diamond to Blippi that was Sufi. This was a liberal that one is this and this one is that and the Prophet brought one book Salalah what he was sending them one sooner. One Qibla and above all of that one Illa Allah

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and you'll find all of these groups being happy with what they had not permissible from those meaning if not 12345 meaning if Allah tala told the Prophet sallallahu wasallam while testing will be happily law Hey Jamie, I'm mulata for Roku, with Kuru Mata Lai la cometh come to Ida for Allah for bainer kulu baconfest baton Benin Mati Juana, welcome to Mara shefa who frettin millenary Banco de Caminha Cavalli

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de la la quinta de dude, young HMI, you know, contains you and your followers, hold on to the rope of Allah all together, and don't be divided. And authentic hadith came and explained what is the rope of Allah? What is the habit of Allah, the prophet mentioned some of the love while he was on it was setting them up on who I am dude minister met him for domestic ob, he said that the Koran is the rope of Allah that extends from the heavens to the earth. So hold on to it. I do I even know he hold on to that Quran. So be united all together, and do not have the life and remember the name of Allah upon you when you were once enemies to one another. And you are on the brink of the Hellfire of

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about the falling to it. But I saved you people by listening. He saved you people in the hopes that you will be guided. So in j, Leah, and j via the Arabs of the Arabian Peninsula, they could never be united. Like for an example. We're a family right here. We're all brothers, cousins, uncles, and we're one tribe. This is our tribe. It could be from the airport. It could be whatever you want that tribe to be from. We're one tribe. We have our elders and our youngsters in Jamia, this tribe is going to break up at some point. Why? Because I'm not going to agree with what the Amir said. I don't even want him to be the Amir anymore anymore. So I'm gonna make me my son's me and my younger

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uncle me and my older uncle, we're gonna fight him and we're gonna make problems. And that's why the Prophet told the people so the lady was selling them. Anyone who dies and he doesn't have the beta in his neck. He died the death of a Jamia because you have to give the bat to the leader of the Muslims. And he said, If you come and the Muslims are united, and two people, they give the bat to one and then another one stands up to get the bat, they should deal with them. Why? Because he's working towards dividing the community. So the point here is, there are many, many, many I have the book of a lot, and many a hadith. As for the sooner for Hadith.

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The Prophet told us in authentic hadith sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting up yo de la como la who felt I thought, well, yes to la confianza three things allies please for you, people. He wants these things for you. And 333 things he hates, he doesn't want them. First one he said and taboo who would like to shriek UI she

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went to NASA who Mengele hula hoop American when testing will be heavily Let me tell you

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three things a lot, loves is pleased. And that is you worship him and him alone. And you don't worship anyone else along with him. Number two, anyone who's the leader amongst you, the man the administration, the husband, the Amir, anyone who's in charge of the Muslims, you give them a free Ha. And there's a way to give him now see how you don't give the Imam of the masjid in the sea high in front of the people and you put them down and you talk bad at them and talk bad with administration. You don't do like that.

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Number three, he said a lot loves or he has a robot. He likes for you. To he likes for you to be united and not to have a laugh. You know when I was slammed. The most important action in Islam is the Salah most important action. He says I love what he was telling us a lot hirundo blog for men is to try and get stuck fearful. You're stuck theme salon is the best thing you can do. So anyone who can make a lot of prayer make a lot. There's nothing more important than the selaginella slam from your physical

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Aku actions, the only thing more important than the salaat is your key than what you believe in, you have the wrong key that all the slot in the world won't help you. It won't help you, you have the right aqeedah inshallah, inshallah is going to benefit you. But in terms of actions, most important action is the salaat, he would pray five times every day. And before he would pray, we're praying in the Jamaat unity, unity, and he wouldn't just get up and face the calculus a lot. But he used to look down to make sure that the people were straight in the lines, and used to say, every day over and over again Salalah while he was selling them, lighter tanning food for 34, pulu buco, don't be

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divided in the way you're standing.

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And if you are divine, it is going to divide your hearts. So you look at the army with the non Muslims, that people in the army, they know the importance of everybody being synchronized, everybody being disciplined, everybody being straight.

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There's some benefit from that. If our bodies are not together our hearts and not together, this is one of the reasons we got to try our best not to allow our kids to eat at different times.

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But we have to make an effort of making jihad, we want our bodies together and share hidden manilkara the Prophet was saying sell a lot. He was selling them every day, like they

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don't have this empty life. You're not even talking in the salaat don't have the life in your bodies, you have to be tolerant today for fudger. And between him and him for the run between him and him. For some between him and him for and on and on every day. I'm like that. So now with this being the case, with this being the case, I'm gonna start to learn my brothers who they are, they're gonna learn me, one of them. The Prophet used to tell the people don't be tough when you put your feet together, lean balay the whiny Come, take it easy and be soft and gentle. But there's one person from the community, you know what I'm rough guys put its foot on your foot gotta do the

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sooner one of them kind of guys. Whenever he is on my side, I know, I just got to be patient with this brother. And I gotta be patient with that one. And I gotta be patient with this one, because when he praises, so my point here is my point here is, this is one of the many practical ways of having unity in the religion. Then the Mad hat comes, and the madhhab says, Don't stand next to each other.

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That's what the men have says. So whether you realize it or not, the method is going towards creating the life creating hearts that are a problem, although the Imam who came to that understanding, but not going to throw him out and say he wanted the last. He's a body man. And we'll come to those issues of the HD had an AMA before moving on in Sharla 20. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam bought a religion that put a lot of emphasis on unity and talk bad about the life because there's a price to pay. When we have the laugh. This community right here will suffer you guys are gonna suffer, your religion will suffer. As long as you remain stuck on stupid about those

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issues that lie. They're not all that complicated. I'm not gonna understand everything you understand it? You're not gonna look at things the way I look at everything. Impossible. If we were to travel from here to Mecca, I'm gonna laugh with you people in the dean in the dunya. And you're gonna have a laugh with me and the demon the dunya. But we have a religion that answers those issues. We have a religion

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that shows us how to be so they fit life is a problem they live is a problem. What's the problem? A lot of problems come from it a lot. They're very serious. A lot of the time I mentioned in his books who panel Who? What are Allah

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or the Prophet says Allah Allah Hawaii who it was setting them in them I highly recommend Canada kubla Khan the Catholic life in India in those people who went before you, they were destroyed

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because of the the life that they had against their profits, destruction.

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Destruction be destroyed. Not a joke.

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No nation before this nation, no nation remained in power. As long as they have FDA that can be a problem. It's gonna be a problem. So there's a serious issue a lot of mentioning the poor on what he loves.

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Ha Rasulo who will attend as a Ufa, Tasha

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Coco,

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obey Allah and obey His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and don't have a lunada. Don't be arguing and splitting up over issues between yourselves. Don't do that. Because if you do that, if you do that, you're going to fail. And your strength is going to leave you.

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Your strength is going to leave you what Spiro nulla my satiating, but instead be patient, allies with those who are patient. So now look what happened in the Battle of better because this is the action of the municipality, the prophet is going to better better serve a loving setting with his companions, and the Chief of the moon after King, he decides, you know what, we're not going to fight with you were turning around, and he took a third of the army took a third of the army and they went back a third of the army in the middle at the time, when you really need them, a third of the army breaks off and they go the other way.

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weaken in the army, weaken in the army. That's what happens with the life. We don't utilize our resources, whether they are monetary, or whether they're in our minds, this individual, he is a blessed brother. He's a professional, he has a profession that will help our community, but he can't get along with me. I will Sam and I'm on the board, I'm sure a member. So he goes his own way. You go your own way, and I go my own way. It's a problem.

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The Life is a big problem. So I want to bring to your attention that Islam is a community religion is the religion of communion religion. We don't have this thing where you go and you worship Allah by yourself. Unless it's the real really time of fitna, there will come a time where a man has to be by himself. And he has to hold on to a tree and eat from the leaves of the tree. Because the fitness so bad, he has to make the event on top of a mountain by himself, him and his sheep. But this is not that time.

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He told us a love while he was setting him and movement lady. You had to last? Well yes be rather than home. Hello men and Milton levy law you highly tuned as well is

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the believer who mixes with the people. He's sociable with the people. And he's patient with what annoys him from the people. He's better than the believer who doesn't mix with the people. And he's not patient.

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That's the description of the mortman. He says I love what he was selling them and men. Yeah, love what you love. When I hate a female I love. The believer is a person who he connects to people. And he accommodates them when they want to connect to him. And because no good is the one who doesn't take the initiative to connect. And when people want to connect to him, he doesn't reciprocate. That's a sign of the movement. He's individual, he's going to get in his lane, and he's going to get away fits in and he's going to try to bring good to the table.

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That's what he's going to do. He's not going to jeopardize the issue of

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ft live and unity. second issue, and this is critical. second issue one is that though a motherless land they used to put a lot of emphasis on the knowledge of the last, there is knowledge of how to pray, knowledge of Zakat, the fisc of Islam, how to perform Hajj

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there is knowledge or the fic of how to get married, how to get divorced, how to make this step by all of the new child, first of all of that fear of how to sit in the masjid.

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There is the thick of the last, the marvelous lamb past, present and in the future in sha Allah. The Rena marvelous lamb, they have a special position. They are the word of the NBA. They are the ones who inherited from the NBA.

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And as a result of that, they're not normal. A lot of extra rhetorical question in the Quran that doesn't deserve Vinnie answer, because the answer is clear quote, hallelujah stone levena Yala moon Valentina, Laila moon, are they equal? Those who know and those who don't know?

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The man in Islam, he doesn't know his elbow from his ankle bone in the religion. He doesn't know.

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And he is a man with knowledge of the religion. He's sitting on top of a mountain and when people come to him with his knowledge and his insight he knows the fitna before even

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comes, the people come to me say, Chef, what's your position about this distance that he's saying, Don't do it. Don't do it. He knows what this guy is asking about is going to destroy the whole country. It's gonna kill people, a whole country, everybody.

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But the one who can't see, except in front of his nose, especially from the younger people that are way better. And the Chabad those people say, No, Chef, he don't know his shift scholar for dollars. The point here is the aroma of LS lab. They didn't leave any stone unturned for this.

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Everything you want to look up everything you want to research, the scholars of Islam talked about it. Even issues that were not present back then you're going to find from the Canon and the Adorama that which will allow you to make prs. You can make them but from what they said and what they did, for things that were not even present back then. Like this mobile phone.

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Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam didn't have a mobile phone y'all know that right? He didn't have anybody doubt that anybody here think the Prophet had a mobile phone 3g or iPhone? anybody think that? And yet the Quran and Sunnah showed us the adapt of this mobile phone,

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the adapt of the mobile phone, and how to deal with the mobile phone. If the people knew the adapt of the mobile phone, this fitna, with our brother Norman Ali Han, people will know what they do. Just shut up and stop being a part of the problem. Just shut up.

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This is part of the mosquito with the last too many people are talking who shouldn't be talking. And as a result of that, the issue gets more complicated. So the scholars of Islam scholar of Islam, they wrote about the importance of life. Some of the greatest scholars, they said that the very first scholar who wrote about an afterlife was that he had death from the nebula Eman Abdullah Mohammed Abdul Nasir, and more was he, this man, he was the business nitroglycerin. He wrote a book he called this book.

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And if the life after him, all of the scholars came and they named their book this as well, all of them, all of them, or many of them. And Imam Muhammad in Geneva, Tabori, same book, tremendous Eman in Al Islam, even among their the size of the book, Kitab, Evo Turkey, all of them used to write this even before that, and Imam Malik in his book. And in that book, open water is a book that contains for us the statements in the positions of the companions that have the life of the Tabby in the life. Why am I mentioning this to you? I'm mentioning this to you why number one to let you know, number one, that the scholars of Islam didn't leave us to be by ourselves to figure stuff out.

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And when I say the scholars of Islam, that doesn't mean that a scholars might assume when someone says Where's the delille? You say Sheriff Robbie said that a DLL.

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The DLL is what Allah said, what his messenger said, what the companion said and did dwama lie to him. The Hawk is what Allah said, what his messenger said, and what the companion said and dead. Don't be of those people. What's the proof of that? What's the proof of that, and the mama Abu hanifa said, That's not a W.

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Allah coolin, we want you to know, number one, the scholars, the scholars, the scholars, if you find a, I've just sent me a brand spanking new Muslim, if you find someone in the community, talking bad about Allah, then you run away from that person, the way you run away from a lion.

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Now, I know some of you are very inquisitive. And if a real lion came in, some of you will say, Wow, look at his layer. Wow.

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And he says, I think I just think I can touch him, a lion bite your head off, you run away from that person, the way you run away from a lion, you're gonna be like me, you're not gonna try to wait to see if the line is going to cool out like cold out. I'm going out the window as soon as he come in the door. That's how you have to be with the one who talks bad about this lab. And it's usually from these groups that are political, the JAMA at a CRC.

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They're the ones they got to put the scholars down so that they could put themselves up when the scholars are out of the equation. Now the thing is easy for them.

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They do what they want to do. Second reason why I'm bringing them to this is the importance of the issue of knowing the etiquettes of life. And knowing what the scholars had at last in.

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They said to Abdullah beginningless, owed about a man who was teaching, he asks, does the man have knowledge of the class between the people? They said, No, he said, he is destroyed, and he's going to destroy other people. If you have some knowledge about, well, this issue that has the life in this life, all right, he's doing this particular thing, like the molad of the prophets, Allah love what he was selling them as an example as an example. I don't believe that the moment is permissible. I think it's an innovation. Personally, I believe it's an innovation. And I'm with those scholars who said it's an innovation, but I also know that only mammoth CLT Alli mama no hace

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la mama No, ie, another scholar said it was something that was okay.

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The delivery is not unknown. We said Abu hanifa said Abu Bakar said, the delille. Allah said his prophet said the companions collectively said something Ridwan, like my Nana when I know although I believe the motive is not right. But am I gonna call this brother You are deviant. Because you're doing the movie, you believe in the molad. So you're a deviant. And I won't give you a slat synapse, and you don't love the sooner?

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If I say that to him, and I looked at him like that, what am I going to do with those m&ms? Who took his position?

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Doesn't mean that position is correct. Does it mean that I'm saying is correct. But if you're going to give him this ruling, and you won't give it those m&ms, where's the fairness in that?

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Where's the justice in that? So when the person knows the afterlife, he'll know how to deal with the people based upon their beliefs that exist, that can make a big deal goes into a state where they don't say I mean, after the memories, sort of, in fact, they don't say in that mistake, okay. I know where they're coming from. So I'm not going to go in that question and make trouble

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because I know the issue.

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So that's the second point that we want to mention. Third point, honey concerning this issue of afterlife. Before we even get into the idea that the different etiquettes of life, we want to share this introduction with you The third point in my introduction, first one

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first one, the religion call for unit unity. And he said, life is a muscular

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and there is a price to pay. Number two, the scholars of Ellis land, they talked about this issue. And the real, the real, the real person was rare, worthy, he's worth his weight. He knows he has some knowledge about what the marvelous Lamb has left him. He's a nice speaker. He gives a nice hookah and that's his lane with a colon which heighten who will leave her for study. That's his lane. No problem. You

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but he's not a Mufti

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know the difference between the guy who gives a nice talk. And the guy, the chef, who you're going to bring your issues to chef, I want to get a house and the house is with a mortgage, the mortgage, I have an opportunity to get it from the Islamic bank or to get it from the regular bank. What do you think I should do? Share? Don't go to any ordinary. I'm a banker and Zaid, from people to ask those kind of questions.

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Don't go to regular people, those issues about your life, those issues about marriage, divorce, blood, private parts, your money, you go to people who know this religion. This is one of the big problems we have everybody who can say something in front of a mic, we put him there and he's talking, especially here in this country, and I was chabahar being sent a straight third point in this introduction and then we'll get into the issue in sha Allah is that there are different types of if the last one is not all if the life is bad. There is the SP laugh, Levy, Allahu Allah. That came as a result of the truth snapback and then there's the SP life that came as a result of

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desires. That's the SP laugh that's a problem. There's the SP laugh that is mooster sad. This SP laugh. Yeah, we understand it.

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Although I believe the correct position, the coder Roger, I believe it's this one over here.

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But the other opinion is Mr. Sir, we performed Hajj this year. Before the law he tala and there are many lessons to learn from an homage many lessons we can deal with the issue of the ad dib of the last as a lesson from Hutch

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from the lessons of an Hutch is that the companions read Hualalai. I lay him. They had a lot of different opinions about how much that SP lab so many things happen with the companions, when they perform Hajj with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam were radi Allahu anhu ajumma him, as you'll see in sha Allah.

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So I just give you a very quick example very quickly.

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A person wants to stone the Jamaat

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and in stone in the gym, Murat, he has his father with him, who's an old man, his mother with him, she's an older lady, his wife is not feeling well. So he wants to go and stone the three Gemma out

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and behalf of his elderly mother or father, so he's going to do for himself and he's going to do for his father. Some of the scholars said, when you do that, you have to throw seven, go to the next one, throw seven, go to the next one, throw seven, and then go back and start all over for the one you're doing it for.

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Other scholars said no. Surely, you thought seven for yourself and then seven for that person? And you do that when the other three, whatever position you take in that issue? Is it the life that's more tougher? It's an extra layer, if you can understand, because there is no if there is no idea of saying do this, or don't do that. So both opinions, they have their point of view. Don't be of those people will come in you insists you got to take in my way. It's my way or the highway. That's how some of the people are but the companions Ridwan will lay on him in the things when there was not any knifes and it wasn't going to be a problem for the community. their chest used to be wider than

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that. More Alia Eben Abbey soufiane radi Allahu anhu those people who in this month after a few days on Saturday, the day of Ashura, they are those people who are there if the life of this religion is not acceptable. By no stretch of the imagination, can you curse the companions? By no stretch of the imagination? Can you have a dour towards any of the companions? While we only have those companions? What are we going to say? If the life Almighty Rama that's not? That's

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a lie, there's no way to do that for that. But on the ninth and the 10th, these people gonna come and they're gonna curse while we are able to be soufiane. I'm here to tell you, Hey, don't get it twisted. And think that I'm telling you that we have to live with people and we have to accept what everybody's saying. How's that another, there's no way that you're really cut them. There's no way that they maybe never died Salalah while he was sending them, he knows that.

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There is no SP laughing that there is not an fd live that is considered a tuber. Someone comes So just imagine is just imagine this. We all believe collectively, Mohammed Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wasallam. Some man comes from outside, European white man comes from outside. And he's drunk. He comes in here with a barrel of lager and he says, I'm Rasulo laughter Mohammed, we're gonna look at him. No one here is gonna say, Okay, this is issue of the life.

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We're gonna look at this guy and say, Hey,

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we have to go and help him to find his mind. He lost his mind somewhere. Let's go help him to find his mind.

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So the point here is, I'm not here telling you, every life is considered. There are different types of FP life. The end result comes like that, for certain reasons, and the beginning of the fdlr for certain reasons. Again, with experience with knowledge, a person begins as he gets older, especially he becomes more tolerant. But when he's young, when he's young, and he's newly practicing, it becomes a problem.

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Because his lack of experience and his lack of knowledge Oh, he that he's sincere. So he'll come and he'll accuse the man. He'll accuse the administration you people don't want the sooner. Hey, hey,

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slowed down and pump your brakes, slow down and pump your brakes and relax. So I just want to make it clear, there is an empty life that is natural, the one that comes as a result of being the fitter of Allah, the fitrah.

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No two people are going to think the same and understand everything that seems not going to happen. A level Tyler mentioned in the Quran and sort of who

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he said in the Quran superlow who were to Allah willo Sha rabuka lija Allah NASA mettam wahida wallaga Luna mokhtari theme in the Mariah murghab buka.

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Listen to this I

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had your Lord wanted. Yeah, Mohammed, if your Lord wanted, he could have made all of the people want.

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Everybody is on Islam, everybody is on tauheed everybody is doing the right thing. He could even make them an Africa where they don't even make mistakes. Hi Joe, Lord wanted me pay attention to this if he could have made all of the people one oma. But they will not cease to have fit life between themselves, they will not cease to be divided, except the one that Allah had Rama upon. And for this reason they were created.

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Few things in this is number one, number one, the eye shows people were created to have the life

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to have the life. So as a father, my two wives are not the same. My children are not the same. I gotta deal with everybody in different ways. This is a boy, this is a girl, this will hold it this way. And this one is easy to understand that can't deal with everybody that same way. He's older. He's been in Islam longer, he's more knowledgeable. This one is sick. This one is challenged mentally.

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He said because of that they were created. He said they will continue to live in Rocky Mora book, except that the one that Allah has Rama, and that goes to show the live oma teaser Rama, that Hadees is fabricated, not true. The Prophet never said that someone lies. And this is said, being united is the Rama.

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And having the last is an eye that the FT last becomes a Rama. It could be a Rama in that the religion allowed you to do things certain ways in different ways. Everyone knows that. You can make the hygiene of a tomato. Or you can make the hijab and ekron. Or you can make the hedge of a fraud. That's a law that you have a choice, you have a choice. You want to pray your Sunni prayers, like the Hanafi is do after salata a shot. Some of them stay on their knees, and they do those to rock up. You want to stay on your knees, stay on your knees and pray those two records. You want to stand up in prayer, stand up and pray those two records. Because you have a choice. As for you say what

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you want to see I say what I want to say you think but you know this is that.

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And the Arab Spring, the Arab Spring is a clear indication that if the latter is or that if the last is or that when the BU sallallahu alayhi wa ala Ani was setting them concerning this particular point as well. When he he said inauthentic carried Salalah while he was sending them an RA junoon mu janetta ma Tara for minha a telephone when Martin akademin telephone. He said that the souls of the people are like train soldiers in the army conscripted soldiers. He said the people's souls, their souls like training soldiers, there are some souls when they come together. They harmonize and they mesh and you just get along. And then there other souls other people when they come together, they

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clash. He just doesn't like you. You ask him why you don't like him? He doesn't know.

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He himself doesn't know. Some people know his skin is black. I don't like you know, some people know, but some people don't know I just don't like them.

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And then they have this is the person who you meet them. You're like man, I don't know, you

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know, we just met but that's how it is you get along with them. And I hope and pray those of you who are not married, you get a wife like that. When you marry your wife you just like you have NC jam like that. You have NC jam. It's like when the lights go off. We all go to put our shoes on. We don't see the shoe. You put the shoe down, you put your foot in. You said it's not my shoe.

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This is not my shoe and maybe two

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small to big and maybe my size, but it's not my shoe. Whereas in the darkness, the person puts his foot in his shoe. He says, This is my shoe. Some people like that very easy to get along with. I mean, even when they start talking, you kind of know what they're about to say already, you can finish the sentence because they're easy. And the news people were just very difficult. That goes to show you that some empty life. It's just natural. And that's why we have and that's why we have pay attention. I need you to understand this point. That's why we have some of the best people have in the life.

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Some of the best people

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our father, Adam, had a laugh with Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Wiley Hema. They had a discussion.

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And they both were bringing their Hajaj

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Moosa was saying you're Adam, Allah created you with his own hands. You're the father of the human beings. A lot put you in the agenda. He told them a lot. Academic says dear to you, you got us kicked out of the agenda.

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Musa said back to him, are you going to hold me accountable for something that was written on me 50,000 he has before the heaven and earth were were created. The Prophet said sallallahu wasallam. He said,

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Adam overcame Moosa in his argument, in the discussion, the argument that they were having Sulaiman in the old, the Hadith in Bukhari and Muslim of the two ladies. They had two babies. The older lady put her baby down, and the wolf came and ate it and ran off. The younger lady put her baby down. The older lady took that baby. She said, it's my baby. They said, No, that's my baby. No, that's my baby. That's my baby. They went to download to the Father, they get to judgment. They told the story. He looked at the delille. The delille was in the hands of the woman who wasn't her baby.

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He said, that's your baby. He gave a ruling. That's your baby. It's yours. Because he asked the judge based upon what's a parent

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was a baby. When they left the room, they came upon his son soon a man. So a man said, okay, just bring me a knife. I'm gonna cut the baby in half. I give you half I give you half. That lady who wasn't the real mother said, Okay. All right with me. The other lady said, No, no, no, she can have the baby, she can have it. So they may say that's how baby

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the ruling of the father was this the ruling of the sun was that they didn't give the same ruling because circumstances changed. And that happens in the dunya with Rama they say and most of the or most the Assyrian 50 The movie is the captive of the one who's asking the question. Beware of these brothers. And this Hulu a junk with ideal? Who don't have this Rama, where you can have the life. I don't have to follow everything scheckler B says or any chef in the dunya Don't force me to take the HTML out of the mouths of Islam is the HDI. So these brothers will say you're out of the sooner because you say that. Don't don't don't, don't be like that. Don't be like that. Take it easy. Just

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relax.

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There's the lag between the scholars the person comes and he says to the ship, Chef, what do you have to say about the person who did this this this this. The shake is going to give us fatwa. The shape is the captive of the guy asking the questions because he's gonna give his footwork based upon how the question was given to him. And then that person comes in he takes that and he says shake so and so said that this Masjid in Huddersfield is an deviant Masjid. He never mentioned anything to the chef about Huddersfield

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never mentioned anything about harrisville but the one who has that disease in his heart. So my point here is the NBN the profits, there is a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam an imitator. Maybe he collected in this authentic inshallah from the detail to see.

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Allahu taala said to the Prophet Sal, Allahu Allah, he was sending them yeah, Mohammed, a temporary female tassimo and metal Allah. Do you know why the angels who are Up above are arguing?

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The angels are arguing. Do you know why? The Prophet said, Allahu Adam, I don't know. Elijah Joe put his hand on the prophets back in the dream Salalah

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While he was selling them, he said I felt the coldness of allows hand. And Allah has two hands. They right hands they both fit his majesty. He said I felt the coldness in my chest. And then I said, Do you know why the angels are arguing? He said, Yes, they are arguing about the project. And Faraj, they argued about those things that cause you to go up, and they argue about the things that will cause you to get your sins taken off.

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Namely, walk into the masjid.

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Namely, sitting in the membership from one slot to the next a lot. Namely, making a good rule.

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This word and Maha sama and Maha sama. In the Arabic language, it means argument. When Group A person is saying something, someone else says something bad. Now the melodica they don't disobey allies with Joe, but the monastic are given their points of view, why are they making this mukaiyama between themselves? Why are they having this thing? So some of the marvelous lamb, they use this particular idea to go and show Allah subhanho wa Taala is the only one. He's the only one who knows everything. So as a result of that, everybody and everything else in his creation, they can have different opinions about different things, based upon what information came to them is going to be

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what they say what they do what they believe. And that leads to natural equity life. Because he heard something here something else he believed some other thing, he read it in another way. So the equity life is something that is normal is something that is normal. Don't think if the life is inherently evil, no, when we don't have etiquette, this is when the problem is and these are the things we want to speak about right now. Okay.

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And there are a lot of advocates of it the

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first one that we want to bring to your attention and shout Allahu tada is

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signal Hello.

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Just having good character as it relates to the life. That's a general statement. Having horsnell Hello.

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He says have a loved one. And it was selling them oskaloosa a film is Daniel mukaiyama. Personal Hello. The thing that's going to be in the skills heavier than everything you'll know Qian is good character.

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Selfie Allah, Allah Sunnah.

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Good characters from our religion.

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The one who knows that allows us Basir he sees he's a semi he's alcovy. He's al Jabbar and Avi.

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For him to parrot off this iron and this hadith.

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But we don't see that reflected in the way he's dealing with us. He's not gentle. He's not kind. He's not patient. It's not clean. He's not truthful. But he's gonna stand up beating a drum set if he said if he I'm here to save a lie. He has said if he is the truth, but what is the Safia? It's not my property that I come is my club. My club? I mean, am I blowing Deobandi? No, Sophia is taking that Quran the sooner the way the companions understood him in practicing his selfie what the media telling us a Salafi jihadi Al Qaida Boko Haram Chabad. These guys are the selfies. No, Safia. Selfie is Allah snam and mustafar that we shouldn't be shy and embarrassed or afraid.

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Somebody say to me, Hey, are you a Muslim? I'm so scared. I'm gonna say, No, I'm not a Muslim. I'm gonna tell you people. I'm a Muslim. What kind of Muslim are you? I believe you got to be on the keytab in the Sunni the way the companions understood those two sources. That's what I believe. Call it what you want to call it? Should we run around beating that drum everyday all the time, putting emphasis on the Quran, and not on the essence of the meaning? No, we have to put essence on the meaning and from the essence is the way we act.

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If you're really Engelhard if we work by the Hadith, and be gentle, don't talk so much. Don't be hard. Don't be hassid Take it easy.

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Anyway, when I say good character whiny

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the arrogant person.

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He's going to differ with people because it's high it says way or the highway.

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The one who thinks he thinks I'm always right, and everybody else is wrong. That's going to lead to more sad life. good character. Love for your brother. What you'd love for yourself have Houston oven.

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Do you think he hates the sooner

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You think he took that position because he's the bad guy hate the sooner you want to be a troublemaker he took that position because that's what he believes he believes that

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another thing from the hospital holdup is in our slam in our slam what is big we make bake was little we make little

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so I'm praying next to a brother who's leaving the masjid right now he was moving his finger like this in the salon I don't know my finger

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at the salon Am I gonna grab his finger and break and snap his finger

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and say to what are you doing?

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I'm not gonna do that. Because what he's doing even if I didn't hear about leave Friday, no it good Hello.

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Don't be in haste coming x two brother. Why don't you do that? What's going on? Just take it easy, and be relaxed when people disagree with you. The reason why I say that, look at this.

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few incidents happened. They were the same happened with Irma and another companion to other companions where the man was reading the Quran Surah Al Hadid in a way that Allah wasn't taught that Quran and I said I got ready to grab them when I heard him he was praying. And he started reading sort of them Hadid almost grabbed them. I was gripped him up.

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But I let him go respecting the prayer. After you finished praying, I grabbed them thinking he's messing with the Quran. He took them to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam jasola This man is reading the Quran in the way that you didn't teach me. But mama said let him go. He let him go. He told them and read it. The man started reading the Koran read the line he said now you read it. I'm I started reading the Quran. The Prophet told both of them sell a lot of what he was selling them. Kayla Kumar Merson, both of you are correct.

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One issue and both of you are Correct, correct. So the heart can have two sides to it.

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Or three size or four sides.

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But if you're arrogant, and you think that you, you, you have collected all of the religion, your med had collected all of religion, your chef collected all of the religion, you're going to be a problem,

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you are going to be a problem.

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So, deal with people in a nicer way, in an easier way. Don't be one of those people who's real rough and tough my way or the highway image data and hacking for asabe drawn when after photo aging Why? If a human being and which Dead Island, he looks at an issue and he makes he had, if he gets it right he gets two rewards. If he gets it wrong, he gets one reward. That's the Rama Allah the look of Allah, the apple of Allah

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can give the man a reward because he's qualified to make an effort. He did the best that he could. And he arrived to the wrong conclusion and he still gets a reward. Which goes to show whiny every single empty lab shouldn't be something that you wage war against it number two is just as important. Number two

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the regular people from amongst us.

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Don't talk so much. Don't be so opinionated.

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In the dean or the dunya Don't be so opinionated. Look what I don't even need to be taught him said it rubbed the Allahu The Prophet said about himself. I love what he was setting them up la de la la Vitaly, he's the best quality of this woman. He's the best judge of this woman that's from his house office. And he said kinda looked at him for decorative fee mela sinner who fissara and an arriba. He said knowledge used to be just the dot. But then people started getting to knowledge who are not the people of knowledge. They started talking started writing started giving the opinions and then knowledge became very expansive and wide. Meaning what? A library bilby I have the port on Aurora

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nan llrc Stella when that I it was revealed, describing a lot of the load of all the world's man is over his throne in the way that'd be fist His Majesty. Not a single companion said how wide when were not a single one. They had nothing to say. Just it's this lamb they just submitted. I told you that Heidi Cozzi

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Allah came to the Prophet at nighttime when he was sleeping some a lot he was sending them touched him in the back, he felt the coldness of that in his neck in his chest. Not a single companion said how, why, when, where.

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And now what we have with the Muslims is

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a rock man he came down, he made his steel up is the one the language it means this and that poet, he said that, and this that, and if it comes down, and it goes up, and then what happens? Well, that, and you have to write an explanation of that, and then an explanation of that explanation of that explanation. And now we have all of the Quran.

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And that's why they said that the companions, they had a few words, but they had a lot of actions.

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Today, we have a lot of cadang and few actions. And that's why remember the alignment when he saw the man, a man said, Yeah, middlemen, and you see that guy? He said, that's a good guy, put them in your office, put them he's a good guy. He said, You know,

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he said, ya know, you travel with him. You sleep with him. You do business with him. Did you eat with him? He said, No. He said, You don't know him. Maybe you just saw him going up and down in the machine, and you think he's good. Now, um, if we see him in the master going up and down, we have personal one. But does that mean you loaned him money? You don't know him yet?

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No, you have to get to know that brother.

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So those people back then.

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Not a lot of connection, but a lot of actions. So now Now, from the adab of the life.

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The regular people, the ignorant people shouldn't talk.

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I come to this message. This community, I'm brand spanking new. I don't know about the problems that exists. This community says to me, you can give the hook but you can give the talk. I'm going to avoid the issues because I don't know what's going on here. And I shouldn't put my foot down in a place I don't know if should go there. I love setting the Quran what I took for my lease Allah Cubby, I don't talk about that which you have no knowledge about.

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That's the way of the moon at 15 especially as it relates to the community.

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A lot of times I mentioned those 15 way that men and men and amnio will cope. And that will be what we do in our school where

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many men whom the animal will lead in a stem between a woman who will Lola fuggle ally and a Kumara Moto, Hola. taba, to misshapen. e la kalila.

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dominatrix team, if something happens to the community in the way of public safety or public fear, then when after Keno the ones who talk about it, everybody, they got something to say everybody got the opinion. I like I said, if those motherfucking ignorant people, if they just would have referred that issue back to the messenger, sallAllahu, Alayhi, wasallam. And those who have knowledge,

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then they would have put the best construction on the situation. And if it wasn't for the Wrath of Allah upon you wouldn't follow shape on most of you, except a few of you. So this is in the Diem. I don't know much about the dean, why am I giving my opinion? Why am I debating? I don't know much about the dean. The Dewey is the same way.

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That's not my forte. That's not like the hustles. These are not like people listen, honey, in this country, as well as in Somalia, in Europe.

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I traveled to Europe quite a bit. And I did with Somali communities in the Somali communities because I'm not Somali, they were things that I did not touch on from the problems that they've had over the years. Because I'm not the man for that job. It's too sensitive. You got to let their mind talk about that. They're sure you talk about that. And I'm talking about the dunya is not for me to talk about what's going on with the problems of the administration, because I don't know. And by giving my opinion, and I don't know all of the angles, I'm just gonna make more problems. Let the people handle the situation handled. That's why I said about our brother that you people have heard

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about, don't pass that stuff out to the next guy.

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Don't pass it out. Because you wouldn't want that to happen to you.

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And we are people who are people of proofs, not people of, of of you know the way the newspapers are the sun magazine.

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So the issue here is, from the etiquette of the life is for a person to just keep his mouth shut.

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Not to talk about things. Another very important issue from the etiquettes of the life Maura

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and Masada

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that you have to take into consideration the harms and the benefits of the thing that is on the table. Listen to this very carefully

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doing the Hajj

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during the life of Omar

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or doing the Hajj, one of the Hajj

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during the life of Earth men,

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and Mina, Earth man, he prays a lot, the Lord for Raka

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and Mina, all of the prayers are just too I got to be prayed at the time, Lord to Raka. And it's time also to like I said, it's time and that's what you're doing the days of minute you don't combine in minute, Earth man combined because man pray for rocket after praying for rocket which was against asuna some of the youngsters went up to Abdullah the most old man lobby please. And they said, Hey, Earth man was man he played he did the whole thing for Aren't you going to say something? Aren't you going to do something

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up to large, we must all said now the sooner is to shorten and make two. And what he did was a mistake when I can and he laughs sharp. He shouldn't make too. But there's enough that you guys are doing is evil. So if I get up and I start talking to man, the halifa. And the way you guys are, there's gonna be a problem. So I'm logging him and he let that thing which was wrong, he let it go. Because to try to deal with it with the way these people were. Maybe it's going to lead to civil war. It's going to lead to civil war.

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So we are in a Masjid. And the elders they think a certain way. Elders sometimes, as always, say win a relay race. I get to pretend I'm running. I'm running, I'm running. I gotta hand it to you. So you're running, and you get it from me. And then that's how we did. Sometimes when you're running with the elder and the elders like this.

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And you won't do this. He just keep running.

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You say Chef glava sub let us up. Although he's tired, he'll pass it off.

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He has to pass off the baton. The same way was passed off to him by those who preceded him.

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But I'm coming in, I'm coming into the masjid as a youngster. I gotta take it easy. I gotta relax. I can't clash with the elders.

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They're the ones who built domestic. They're the ones who purchased the masjid. We have to keep working in a nice way.

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We have to be able to wait the homes. And we have to wait. The benefits. I mean, msgid I want to get down on that mess jet. As soon as I start saying in Alhamdulillah the people gonna say as Wahhabi. So see?

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I don't say me.

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Because saying I mean in that mesh is gonna create fitna.

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Does that mean that we're gonna let the student and die trying to please people? No. That's what the Prophet did sell a lot. He was selling them when he left the door of Mecca up when the kuffaar craze didn't want to write Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim.

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And he let it go. Because there's a bigger picture.

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So when it comes to the issue of the etiquettes of the last, the etiquettes, you have a position and I have a position. We got away the massada Hey, hey,

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you want to marry a girl?

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And your parents don't want you to marry her.

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How he jabbed you bad gloves need cops a lot, Kara. She's a good girl. And the sooner and she's beautiful.

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But your mother and your father are not with the program? Why? racism?

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Or whatever reason. They don't want to marry from that tribe from that family.

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You have to wait, the harms and the benefits? How in the world? Is the girl gonna run off and marry this guy without her father? Or how are you gonna run off and marry them? Despite your mother and your father? How are you gonna do that? You guys have different opinions. way what your father's doing is not right.

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It's not right, trying to force you to marry somebody you don't want to marry and not allow you to marry someone who may be the perfect girl for you. What he's doing is not right.

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But you're about to create a bigger problem when you marry without their

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consent and permission and without your support.

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Again, honey from the etiquettes of the life and is one of the most important ones is we have to refer things back to the keytab. And back to the Sunnah. The Companions all of them felt that the prophet SAW Selim loved them the most. He felt the Prophet love them the most. He felt he felt he felt, so they were bragging, he loves me more than you. He said, No, you don't want law. He loved me more. And they were bragging. They said, let's just go to him and let's ask him. So they went to him. They said, Oh, do you love the most? He said Abu Bakar.

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They said, but but we don't mean that we meet from the women from the he said he said,

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he said no, that's they say that's your wife. We mean from the men. He said her father boubakeur.

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So they didn't sit there fighting and arguing with each other. No, he loves me the most. No, he loves me. No, you know, and then we get into a fight.

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Go back to the keytab. And the sooner antennas are shameful to do with a lie or a soul and confirm to me noona Billahi min ash, that assoluta Lila, if you people have a difference in anything they refer back to the line is messenger that is better and more appropriate for the final. The final determination. Look what happened in hijack whining, I'm almost done here.

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I'm delighted my boss was making to walk around the Kaaba with while we are ebonite be soufiane.

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Whenever we are we went around the Kaaba, he would touch each corner and make a buck with each corner.

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Edna bass looked at him and said, Why are you doing that? He said, because the Kaaba is all of it is herma. All of it is all of it is sacred. He said, but the Prophet sallallahu wasallam didn't do that. The Prophet used to touch the Yemeni corner, if you could touch the Yemeni corner, the one before the Blackstone, if you could touch it, he would touch it. If he couldn't touch it, he wouldn't wave that it wouldn't do anything. And then when he came to the Blackstone, if he could touch it, he would touch it. If he couldn't touch it, he would wave to it say this mean that.

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He said, But all of the Kaaba is good. He said, but the Prophet didn't do that. I say it's all good. But that's not the sooner when while we are heard that's not the sooner read the Align home. He just said, Yeah, you're right.

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And that's the way the companions were. Abdullah, even a lot of said that Salatu Doha, put your hands up if you heard of Sinatra, if you heard of it, so that the Doha Sonata Chateau, a Doha, everybody, Abdullah, in an Omar says salado, Doha is an innovation.

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So innovation, don't do it.

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Don't do it. But when he heard the delille, he accepted it. And that's how the companions work. So I want to conclude here, what in we can mention a lot of other things, but time is done on us. If the life is normal, it happened with the best of the people. The Companions had a laugh, and salaat as the cut a song and hij they had a laugh, and it took care of the poor and I left right and center.

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They had the laugh. They even had if the laugh in the most important issue, and that is the IP that, generally speaking, the FT laughed at they had an IP that is small in comparison to the SDI for that exceed and a few issues. Just a few, not many. Some said the prophet SAW a lot. Some said he didn't see a lot. Some said the kuffar. Some said, No, they're Muslim. Some said that ABC is the job. Some said No, he's not the job. Some said that getting punished in the grave that one game in the grave will be punished by the crime of the one outside those companions in the life in a few Mosad ill the best of the people. So you think that we're not going to have a life? Just have good o'clock and

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relax and I end with a statement of an Imam Shafi. He said, anytime I have an issue. I believe that I'm right. But I believe that I'm right, and you're wrong.

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But I also know that it's possible that you're right, and I'm wrong. But you have to prove that to me. He's not a person who I'm not gonna listen to what anybody says anybody. This is my position. I'm saying no. He said, I believe that I'm right. I believe I'm right. And I believe that you're wrong. But at the same time, I believe that I can be wrong, and that it's possible that you can be right. So already when you come to the discussion table, he's open for discussion. He's open with that type of mentality with that type of mentality. And that's why when it came to SDRs, he used to have those beautiful positions his book keytab own and on his student ribbon to suit a man and

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Marathi took

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That book and show that the laughter mama Shafi have with those other scholars from the three men that have been other than that

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and nobody makes a big deal about it except the people that I see boon to Casa this man that have a mountain of them is the right one. So whiny and concluding, just relax yourselves and Sharla and learn the etiquettes of the life. Have a chest and a breast that is open and remember, remember, we're living in a very tough time. This is the worst time for the Muslim so Benny Adam is the tough time with a knowledge of the religion is a little bit so people are going to make mistakes from our oma where's the Rama with the Rama and the Sunnah are the our humaneness and asuna had the most Rama and the people because they're the most knowledgeable people of the harlot allies gentle allies

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forgiving a lot of parties. A lot of loves the excuse, you have the Sunnah. Why are you so mean and nasty man?

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Why are you so mean and nasty brother when you go to his mother's his grandmother's janazah because she was a breakaway.

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I said Are you serious? He was serious. Who does that? Your grandmother can't read or write. She can't read can't write. She's from the r1 who we asked a long time to tap mercy upon her to put in gender without any addabbo he said she didn't know what she was doing.

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So relax and take it easy. Okay, honey, we're gonna stop here and want to thank the administration the man for allowing us to give you these words of this important topic and we asked a low Tata bismi and album to continue to guide you brothers inshallah, by your namazi and bring you people closer ever so closer to the middle path, and the way of those companions Ridwan ye la him Jemaine suparna, Coloma wobm, deca wash Edwin La Ilaha Illa and astok Furukawa to la Santa Monica tilaka