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The Islamic Personality – Episode 24

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Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

Channel: Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

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Light Hearted ‘Joking’

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Cuz I spoke to him twice

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smilla mal Rahim al hamdu lillahi wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah he am about to

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come to the next two Hadith from the book. the personality of the Muslim is the Hadith, Abu huraira to love the Allahu anhu wha hoo. And which the companion said to the nebby son the law while he was sending them piano solo lie in next to the buena verily you joke around with us. You are light hearted, and you joke around with us. Then they'd be Salalah Why do you send them say yes, he jokes around with them. And he said, Well, that oh kulu illa haka. But I only say what is true. I only joke around when I joke around, I don't joke around and I don't

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play practical jokes where I'm lying. And I don't joke and say things that are not true.

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This is the first video that we're going to deal with in shall lies agenda.

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And continuing the explanation of the book, and a lot can be said about the jokin of the nebula what he said. And it is as we mentioned, when we explained the book of an imam of worries, at tirmidhi, hearing this mistake from the first chapter all the way to the last top to the Shema Elan mohammedia in which an amendment to the MIDI gathered for us those are Hadith of the Nabi sallallahu Sallam that describes for this omen for this nation. All of the characteristics that we need to know about Masoli now he's a lot of what he was saying, how he spoke, how he ate, what part of the meat did he like, how he slept a lot while he was sending them how he walked, how he spent his time so that the

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Muslim, if he wants to get to know his little soldier, his nibi son, the law when we sell them, then it is laid out for him in that book. And as we mentioned back then, when it came to the joking of Rasulullah sallallahu, it was said to them, he used to joke

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but it wasn't what he used to do all the time. And he didn't do it a lot.

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And for that reason, they described himself a lot when he was setting them as companions and he said about him kind of two wheelers slumped khaleel aback. He used to spend long periods of time being quiet.

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Although his job, his responsibility, his mother Leia, his work visa was to talk and to guide people and to teach people. That was his responsibility. That was his job. But he just didn't spend a lot of time making a thorough thorough when he was just doing chatter. And he was just chitter chatter and he just kept on fighting Hashem in law. They said that he used to spend long periods of time being quiet, not being quiet with a sunset, the sun not like we find from the Sufi vehicles, where they decide not to speak for a day or for two days or for three days or something like that. That's outside of the heady and the guidance of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was setting up but as you said in

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the authentic hadith, mankind human biLlahi well, Yeoman acid fell yaku Hira Alia Smith, anybody who believes in a lot in the last day, then let him speak and say what is good or let him be quiet? He says I love what he was saying lemon summertime Ninja, anyone who was quiet, he will be successful yomo piano he will be successful in this dunya he won the community and he said something a lot what he was saying. Yeah, come wakulla defend your total mental. Be aware of every type of speech

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That you'll have to come in apologize about it, or you'll be embarrassed about it, or you're going to be held accountable for it. So the Muslim is the one who he thinks before something comes out of his mouth. And what's going to come out of his mouth. He weighs it. If it's going to be beneficial is dour is the hop is no see, ha, it's moussaka. He's going to say something that is going to benefit the people and benefit themselves. He says it. If he knows that it's going to harm him. He doesn't say it. If he's not sure it's going to harm it's going to benefit him. It's better for him to be quiet. That's the meaning of what the companions describe. Rob the line whom when he said he

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used to spend long periods of silence, and he used to laugh a little sallallahu alayhi wa it was seldom. So his joking. As we explained, it wasn't overboard. He wasn't a joker Hi, Shelly lag. And for that reason, and emammal, Kodama Rahmatullahi, to Allah, Allah He mentioned, when it came to the issue of joking with the prophets on the light, it was setting them there are three types of issues that should be understood that when he used to joke Salalah, while he was saying them, he would only say what was the truth and he would joke saying the hop, when he used to joke he used to joke with who he used to joke with women used to joke with children. He used to joke at times when joking was

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appropriate. He wasn't with this as hobb Abu Bakar Mrs. Man it who were region men, as the Quran described them Salalah while he was setting them out of the alignment, he wasn't always joking and playing around with that with them because they were people were building a nation. They had what is known in Al Islam, as Alou with him. High determination jocose they don't have high determination. They don't have that. People want to joke around. They're not trying to build things and I tried to build a community. They're not trying to do things that are going to be left and you're going to see the thought the effects of what they put forth after they died, and the mandible Kodama

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Rahmatullahi, Tana, he said, The third thing is, he used to joke and it used to be nagged him. It wasn't a lot. It wasn't overboard. The fact that he joked someone laugh while he was sending them shows his complete personality, shows that he was a human being. Allahu taala mentioned about himself in the Quran. Well, no Who? Who? At haka. upca, Verily, Allah is the one who makes you people laugh and he makes you cry. So if a person never cries, something is wrong with you. His mother died, his father died, his wife died, his sister died, his baby died, his nephew niece died, something happening somewhere. He sees something that would disturb most people. This individual

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doesn't cry. Something's wrong. And there was a companion who said God also Lola. Do you cry? Do you cry because your grandchild die? Do you cry because your grandchild died? Probably Mohammed Salim say yes, he was crying when his grandchild died. The man said I don't cry and never cry. Another narration the man said I never kissed my children, like you kiss my children. Prophet Mohammed told that man Southern lady was sending them, I can't help it. If a lot took right out of your heart. You're a person who never cried, something is wrong with you. And if you're a person who never lives, you never smile, you don't find the light side of issues that are going on in their everyday

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life, then you're not on the he died of the Nabhi Viola slam. sallallahu he went on to it was Salah, Allah is the one who created Benny Adam and in his fitrah is that capacity to cry and that capacity to live. If you're crying all the time, even if you're laughing all the time, mostly, but it is a problem. There has to be an 80 down in that issue. Also concerning his joking some law when he was setting them and his life in and the light sided way that he used to deal with his companions, some of the law while he was setting them. It was something that as we mentioned, he was divinely inspired by a lot. When the nebby used to speak sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, whenever he spoke,

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although whenever he spoke, the truth came out of his mouth all the time.

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Because if he's a nebia, narrow soul, we people can take him seriously, then they won't take the recyling the Dow that he's bringing seriously that prophets and the messengers, they don't blink their eyes like this, to show that they're joking. They don't do that. It's not from the moral is not from the back of a nebby or soul to blink to cross his fingers. He's saying something but it doesn't mean it. He has his fingers crossed behind his back, which is a symbol where I come from an image

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America that means you really don't mean it. This is not consistent with being in a being that Rasulullah sallallahu was settler. So when he used to joke he used to say what was the truth? And when he used to get angry he used to say what was the truth similar to this hadith? And this hadith you said when I joke with you only say what's the truth? Abdullah even amor even allows may Allah be pleased with him. He said that during the time when the Prophet was given dabbled in life the beginning the non Muslims of Quraysh they criticized Abdullah even amor ebenen us and they said to him, what's wrong with you? Right in everything that Mohammed is saying. You write all of his Hadith

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showing in the beginning of Assam. Some of the companions used to compile them they used to write Heidi, and even diabetology and others Abu Shah they used to write the Hadith of the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. What's wrong with you, Abdullah, even I'm with us every time we see you, you're writing all of this and you're carrying these things that he said he's a human being. He gets happy he gets upset he gets angry, indicating that maybe when he gets angry, you're writing something that's incorrect. So I do live in Ammar even an ounce went to the nebby. He told them what qure said sallalahu it was cellular, or so like told Abdullah even Ahmed ebenen rs took for in no hula men who

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ll have continued to write because nothing comes out of my mouth except the truth. When my young tipple Anil Hawa in who were in law.

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He does not speak Salah law while he was setting them based upon his desires, but he speaks based upon what is revealed to him. So that goes to show that Kemal radula of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in terms of a man. He's the only human being that was complete from this oma salewa to LA he was cinema whiny concerning this particular Heidi Abu huraira. He described the condition of Rasulullah sallallahu it was settling with his companions and he said

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that he used to joke with them.

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And he told them yes I joke with you but I only say the truth. Some of the companions like a companion by the name of Abdullah Abdullah Al Hadith may Allah be pleased with him. He said about the NIMBYs character sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Mara A to A had an ad Farah, the best sermon in Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I never saw anyone who used to smile more than the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to smile more than everybody. So this is our group here today. Quite a few people. And we say you're the one who out of all of these people here. We see you smiling more than everybody else. We don't know who that individual is from amongst us. This

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companion said, out of all of the people rasulillah himself being a quote one example. He smiled more than everybody else. The companion, Jimmy Ativan, Abdullah Al beggarly rhodiola and who he said, My hedger Benny NBU, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Mundo and as slumped wallarah ani in the best Sunnah. He said from the day that I became a Muslim, the prophets Allah love while he was setting them never closed his door. I mean, Rasulullah sallallahu it was selling them never told me I talked to you later. Never said give me a rain check and come late and we'll deal with it. Maybe he was busy. And he had the right to say to the people call me later. Come meet me later. Let's do it on

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Friday and Sharla he said once I became a Muslim, he never did this showing again, the command a lot of the Nabi sallallahu sent him somebody from this measure that show me someone from amongst us who never said to you call me later, or I'll call you later, or let's meet later inshallah. And none of us are comparable in terms of being busy like the nebby sell a lot. He was setting up a sign of him knowing how to deal with people and knowing how to practically show people how he cares about them. His aha was earlier, as Alan mentioned in the Quran, we're in Nicola Anna hudak NaVi. So this companion, he said, the profit from the day that I became a Muslim, so I love what he was selling

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them never close his door and put a hijab between him and myself. And I never saw him, except when I saw him. He smiled at me Salalah while he was selling, we had the tremendous companion Abul version of fairy rhodiola and we describe the prophet and he said something alive while he was silent or a to die. Had the bed that night.

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I saw the Prophet laughing one time saw the love, why'd you sell them, and I saw his Molas when he was laughing. And again, it's a sign indication that he was a balanced normal human being. He didn't have this warped understanding that some people have than the standard of the hawara. The understanding of the material, the dean, the understanding of the people were rough and tough. He wasn't like that. Not at all. He mentioned to us a lot while he was setting them ellipta Sam, for which he uh, he set the tone for you to smile in the face of your brother is king to you given Southern sadaqa just to put a smile on your face just to put a smile on your face. That goes to show

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a whiny again, the one who walks around and he never smiles, he is on other than the sooner Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam, and an other than his he Daya. And we have unfortunately some people believe when you start practicing, then this is how you should behave with people. And this is not correct. We have that from all of the jamaa at all of the people who tried to practice Islam from every group of Muslims. When people are trying to practice and be religious, you will find amongst every single group deal bundys Bray always inclining Sufi Salafi every single group, you'll find people practicing from that group thinking and design. Today, john, being on the dean is looking at

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people hard and rough. And unfolding, unfortunately, I Sellafield those companions and following those companions and follow the keytab in the sooner the way they followed it. Where is the application of this particular sooner than maybe somebody will send them because I know people unfortunately, they have a misconception. Those people I know, I know Nora Dean.

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I know my man. I know him. I know him. I know him. I know him. I know him. But I never saw this brother before. So when I come and meet him for the first time, I don't give him any love. And I don't smile to him because I don't know what is meant hedges. The also with the people I don't know is a shock. I doubt people I don't know. I know. He said if he I know he said if I know he said if I know he said if so I laugh I smile I give love I hug people I don't know, I look him up and down. How sure does this throw where's this beard up what it was? And if I don't see what measures up to what I understand, I give no love. And I get close to a lot like that. That's not the student of the

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Nabi sallallahu. It was set up instead, best as soon as I mentioned Louie Sera, the man who was the father in the leader of the very first Hawaii cottage, who the companions described him, rubbed the Align him as a man who had very thick eyebrows and he was looking and frowning at everybody. He was looking and frowning that everybody know love.

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Miam buggy. And I want to mention this right now it's funny because it is really important those of us who have jobs, and we work with and around now Muslims, and we're into service in the general public, and you see a Muslim, come up to the counter, and you have to serve the Muslim. That's your job to give the Muslim hedmark don't say hello. Don't say welcome. Don't say good morning, say to the Muslim have set out why they come and give them some sadaqa and give them a smile and teach that to your children. Because your children may be teenagers. They may be in their early 20s and they're working in those jobs. And we find that we a lot of times are afraid shy and embarrassed to say

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hello hello Hara when a Muslim has given us hitmen especially when they're around other non Muslims as if we are those people are to be afraid of our religion. And this is not the deen of Islam. We give them simple etiquette that the Prophet taught us sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the newbie of Ellis lamb he was an individual who was balanced we have to mention this as well as it remains to smiling.

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The Prophet sallallahu what he was sending was Hakeem. He was a wise man and Al hikma it is translated as having wisdom. But as we mentioned many times and Hickman is putting things in their proper place, knowing what to say when to say it and how to say it and who to say it to. So treating the mother and the father as they are the mother the father of as hikma

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worshipping Allah with tawheed and worshipping Him alone is Hickman giving Dawa to Allah with a class into here.

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You're calling to Allah, that is hikma. When you misappropriate things and you put it in the wrong place. That is volume and oppression. When you worship other than Allah is

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when you treat your mother and your father as if their children vote. If you were to treat that catheter, as if he was the Muslim and the Muslim as if he was the cashier, that's what you put in the wrong place.

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Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he put his smile. He put his joking, he put it in the right place. He did it at the right time. He did it moderately. He did it just enough Salalah while he was setting up, and he did it with those people who deserved it. So we don't want anyone in this audience to misunderstand that we just go around smiling. We just smile and like everything is fine and dandy and cookie crunch with everybody laughs and ammeraal a psychedelic not like that. We have something in our religion where we have love and we have hate for Allah azza wa jal and we explained that Hadith before and smiling comes in this chapter, that you're loving your hate for people and

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things and manifest in your limbs. And from your lens are your two lips. lm nudge lm lm nudge Allahu I Elaine Willie Salim was chef attain, did we not create for mankind as an enema, two eyes, two tongues and a lip. His lips are from his limbs. They make the vicar of Allah, his tongue is from his lens, don't allow your tongue to become dry as a result of making the dhikr of Allah. So what's the point? The point is, people have innovation. We don't give them smiles when we don't give them love like that, when they're really people of innovation, especially when they're the Imams and the leaders of innovation. And especially when they innovation or the innovations that take people

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outside of Islam. The innovations on innovations that are prevalent that make people lost in the sauce stuck on stupid, they don't even know what I was slammed is because of this particular Darwin understanding. And we're going to come and sit and smile and laugh with them and say, that's the Sunnah. No, Russell I didn't do that. Salalah what he was selling, allow to describe the companions in the Quran describe Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam Mohammed Rasulullah he will Edina ma Hua Shi det waterproofer rohana obey No, Mohammed is the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and those who are with him raviolo and whom they are strong with the kuffaar and they are merciful

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between themselves. So with the non Muslims, not just any old non Muslim, jack, Bob and Danny just any old non Muslim, we're going to be rough and tough with La la la

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la Vina la new katello confit de la mujer common Dr. Eggman de barro whom were toxic to LA him. A la doesn't make it haram for you to be nice to be gentle with those people don't fight you for your religion. They don't expel you for your homes because of your deen. You can be kind to them. You can be nice to them.

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No problem, but those people will show us enmity and animosity. The Quran said that those companions were tough with them. made it very clear let them Dino khumba Lia Dean, I'm actually a friend that like that. A lot commanded the believers in the Quran. Yeah, you have levena Amano car to lead. Nina Luna Camilla leg cotton levena you know, Naco manual kuffaar Well, yeji do min como gelatin wildermuth and Nala Herman.

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All you believe, fight those people from the non Muslims who are against you. fight those people and let them feel from you and see from you, UVA, roughness, toughness, and know that aligns with those people who have Taqwa in Allah takim the Maria and hacer allies with everybody. He's with everybody in his ability to see and hear his ability to that he knows everything. He's with everybody. The black end inside of the cave walk in and a black rock and the pitch black darkness of the night. Allah sees him and hears me knows everything about him.

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And he's with everybody. Although he is overthrown, but allies with those people have Taqwa those people have suffered. Those people have a man he's with those people in a special way. And that he defends them. He protects them.

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Hey guys them and so forth and so on. So the I clearly shows that there is some Hoover Hoover what the prophet negated from the Prophet what Allah negated from Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. And revealed that he said about them will open to further than really the

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fundamental domain holy, yeah Rasul Allah Mohammed, if you are rough and tough with your companions, and you didn't smile, and you didn't have Rama, and you were not gentle, and you didn't play with them, and you weren't easy with them, and you didn't always open up your door for them, you didn't treat them like this, if you are not like that they would have dispersed from amongst you. So all of you younger brothers, and also the older brothers who are married as a vicar as a vicar can be rough and tough with your wife can be a cowboy a man can be a gangster can be a folk. Got to take it easy, can be roughing tough with your children, always rough and tough. Do this do that. You gotta be you

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got to take it easy. So when our dean at whiny, we don't smile at the people of innovation, and we don't sit around and touch and just, you know, rub shoulders with them from the soul of a selfie and the religion that the Prophet brought sallallahu Sallam from those principles is we don't smile at people of innovation. We don't sit with people of innovation, but that has its understanding that open ended like that. Everybody who uses an innovator you don't smile, no, no.

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No, this issue needs to be understood. But I want to bring it to your attention that a lot prohibited that, as he mentioned an ayat of the Quran Ayat of the Quran, wherever you are at levena Holden Fei Tina

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had your whole doofy Heidi thing ready? Where am I gonna cache pan for like tap or bad Vikram and como Vani mean? If you see those people who talk about the reactive a lot in a way that's not appropriate. misappropriate misappropriating the names and the attributes of a law, Miss understanding and giving crazy interpretations of the religion. If you see people doing that, then don't sit with them and listen to them while they're doing that. Get up and leave them and don't sit with them.

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And if shaytaan makes you forget, then remember get up and get away from them. That's one iron.

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One iron is enough caffeine. But Allah sent another iron as well. They used to sit in with these people. And this is what a marvelous lamp use from mini mini Adela mini mini muscles to say don't sit with the people of innovation. It's a problem. It is a problem. shirtless Lambie blue Tamia said that the heart of the human being is like a sponge. The nature of the heart is like it's like a sponge, it will absorb the things that come to it. And it is possible that the individual can absorb something without even realizing that goes against a religion. Like a digital a digital comes, starts talking to the people starts doing these tricks, started doing miraculous things, giving

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people what they want, what they asked for, from the doing your money and so forth, so on. Before you know it, a person says this is my lord a day job. But the Prophet said what sallallahu it was sending him. If he comes when he comes, get up and go, don't go being inquisitive, trying to listen to him. Don't be inquisitive, because one of you would think that your religion is strong, you go to listen. And then before you know it, lo and behold, you were sitting there and you believe that the job is Allah, someone in this mejlis knows this religion better than everybody else. Someone in this measure this right now is closer to Allah than everybody else. Who whether that individual happens

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to be if the digital came, that person has to leave. The cell refused is saying you guys remember this. As long as a person is alive. He is not safe from and fitna. They were companions people. They were companions. They saw them when Jesus of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. They saw the moon split. They saw water come from between his eyes. Some of the people saw all kinds of things. He's eating the meat of the Jewish lady that gave him the meat and his companions were eating and the leg of the meat that he was eating told him, there's poison in this meat.

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They saw all kinds of things. And some of those people past stated they left Islam when the Israel Mirage happened. If that can happen to them, that can happen to you that happened to them, that can happen to me.

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So don't look at as being a small thing about setting with people of innovation.

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Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it for like top or my levina who do not. fee hydrophila had to do fee radii don't sit with those people don't do it.

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As it relates to the hadith of Abu huraira May Allah be pleased with him. He said that the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to joke with us, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam used to joke with his family members, and he used to joke with his companions from amongst the men as he was sitting with them. We gave some examples of that, when we did the tirmidhi class as shama mohammedia. And we gave that example as well. When we did this Doris he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came from a trip. And after coming from the trip, he sat with our mother, I was playing with some doll babies, and she was playing with the doll babies in a room by herself. The wind blew the curtain, and the prophet

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SAW her playing with doll babies. sallallahu it was setting them that in of itself is a sign that he was gentlemen. He was easy and he was tolerant

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to allow his wife who was young to play with Tao babies.

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He sallallahu wasallam said to her, what what what are you doing? What are those? What are those? And there was one down that was in the shape of a horse.

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And it had wings. He said, What What is that? She said, read the Alon Hmm, this is my Tao baby and it has wings to it. The prophet SAW seven she said this is my doll baby, the horse the horse. He said what is that on the horse? He she said they are the wings of the horse. Problem. Mohammed says Southern lady was selling them. And does does horses Do they have wings? She said mines does. Don't you know the horse of Souleymane used to have wings. And being young. She just made that up. Because that's a dilemma of how young she was. For the people have a problem with accepting that.

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People have a problem that he married to at a very young age at tender age sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Ravi Alanna she was playing with down babies. She's not 21 praying the Dow babies

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21 the narration said 11 that people come and say Nah, nah, nah, that was a mix that the print the print inside Bahati that print it says 11 but it was really 21 though it should have been to one not one one.

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He married at a young age Salalah white, he was selling them. But he didn't consummate it to later on.

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So my mentality was the mentality of a young person. So yeah, Rama didn't consummate to later on.

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So the point here is, he didn't make took fear of Ayesha for making something up in the religion. Soon a man's horse got wings. He didn't say How dare you.

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He didn't do that. The young man, the brother of nsabp nomadic, who used to have a pet bird and the bird die. So the brother stopped coming outside. And he went missing. Mama said and this is your brother. He also lives bird died He won't come out of the house. He's like mourning the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said to Abu Bakar amount roof man and those older companions. Let's go visit our brother in Al Islam. He went to the boy sallallahu wasallam he said to the boy got about man. Yeah, about man my hair. Oh, man, what did the sparrow bird do? And he made a little nursery rhyme. To deal with the mentality of the boy

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that deal with the mentality of the boy being gentle, easy, light hearted joking.

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He used to sell a lot while he was selling them play with many of his family members. And he was to do the same thing and joke with many of the companions the men as well as the women from them is the old lady who came and say God, Allah please make do on two lines is a gel to put me into the agenda. ask Allah to put me into the gentleman your dryers Mr. Job is accepted. The nibio Salalah while he was setting them said no.

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You're not going to go into Jenna. I'm not going to make that do I you're not going into gender. The lady turned around, walked away and she was crying because that's the last thing a Muslim wants to hear. A person who doesn't speak based upon desires tells you you're not going to gender. That is something that causes heartbreak and sorrow. She turned around walking away crying, a delille of her he man, the profit tool that people sell the love. Why do you send them go and tell her she won't go into the gentleman like that? As an old woman. She went

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I'm going to gender as an old woman. And then he read the ayat of the Quran in. And now when you shout

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for Jana when akara Urban traba wehrli the women who go into Jenna, my wife in your wives, my mother in your mother's my sisters and your sisters, my Auntie's, and your Auntie's, my daughters and your daughters, my nieces and your nieces in sha Allah,

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whatever age they go in when they're older, Allah said in the Quran, we have created these women in Jannah. inshallah, they're going to be youthful.

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And we will make them virgins who were never touched before.

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And we translate it as the I said, Not afraid not Matera did not hot if not afraid, not, you know, worrying about what these non Muslims want to say when they want to misconstrue our religion.

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So she's not going to go into gender like that she's going to go into Jenna as a youngster because we don't have old people in gentlemen like that. Not Oh, I Jews share, like somehow she was sitting on chairs. There is a hadith that says, Hassan and Hussein are the same de de Shabaab as lagenda. Hasn't Hussein, are the leaders of the youngsters in agenda. And there's a hadith that says Abu Bakar and Omar are the leaders of the show you are in Jenna. But the meaning of shields here doesn't mean that they're real old. And the meaning of young says here doesn't mean like the little kids doesn't mean like that doesn't mean like that. The people have an agenda or not. Oh, and the people

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of genda are not like young like that. The older adults don't become young like that. We asked a lot of data to put it in the agenda till for a dose without any adapt without any he said, as it relates to the issue of joking a whiny few things want to mention, in our religion, there is fifth, when it comes to joking. And we should know some aspects of these issues, do's and don'ts, how to laugh, how not to laugh, what to laugh about what not to laugh about. We already mentioned some of them. But to add on to some of the don'ts, especially now, during this time, where you guys are millennials, and you're dealing with social media. And social media is a cesspool. And a lot of what is in and on

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social media contradicts the religion. And if you don't learn about your religion and men, young sister, you will be doing things that will make allies angry with you and possibly put you outside of the religion of Islam. If you're not careful. What we don't joke about and one of the things is not permissible to joke in is someone joking, joking. Concerning the religion. We don't joke about the religion, no aspect of the religion. We don't do social.

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What do they call those things?

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Say it again.

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social experiments, where we go around the car and we play jokes and things like that. We don't do things like that. We don't carry suitcases briefcases, and we're fold with a goodra and you throw a bag as if it's a bomb. And you laugh at people running into the water and you don't joke like that. So not our religion. We don't joke about salaat we don't joke about the event. We don't joke about the Lucha Allah who taught me that Haram is a major sin is something what monaci poondu A Billa? He will it will surely come to the stanchion. Do you joke with a lot of the Ayat of Allah and His messenger? This is what you talk about. You have disbelieved after you believed, don't give any

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excuses. So joking about the religion and with the religion is not permissible in any shape form of fashion. Another issue is what we have with the Nabi sallallahu, alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam. He said, an authentic way Mullah Levy, you had the flu for years. You take will be home for way too low. Whoa, wait, whoa, whoa, whoa, went to the person who speaks and he lies. And he jokes in order to make people live? Well, one to that person who does that whirlwind to that person who does that. So you can hardly find right now where we're going to get a situation where we want to collect money for Syria, want to collect money for this project for that project, collect money for lm n and what

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they mean in Yemen. So we're going to give the people with dinner, we're going to ask the people to come to the dinner. Someone's going to give a religious talk about the virtues of Syria. Someone's going to talk about the virtues of a demon and then we're going to get

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Someone's going to get up there and he's going to start joking.

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He's going to joke about the religion. He's going to laugh after religion. It's going to joke about religious people, and so forth and so on. And in his jokes, you'll find there's lies. It's not true. We don't have Islamic jokes, or Islamic comedians. Now I know the young people saw sour grapes, man, you always dreaming up the program, old school overhead.

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Show me Show me we had companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who used to joke we had we used to joke, but they were not jokers. They were not Joker's Prophet Mohammed used to joke I told you he had a companion. His name was Zaheer Zaheer za he used to live in a desert. He used to bring goods from the desert to one Medina when he came to Medina, he would give those goods to the Prophet sallallaahu was sending russula before the mangles back to the desert. He would gather the things up and then Medina and give it to that man and let that man take it this desert. He says sallalahu it was selling them Zai had bad dia tuna. We're not know how the RO za here is our desert. He brings

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the desert to us. And we are His Metropolitan, we bring the city to him. And the Prophet used to joke with that man and that man used to joke with the nebby sallallahu alayhi wasallam. But he wasn't a joke all the time. Not not like that.

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So watching comedians, and don't get it twisted and don't don't don't look at me anybody else's being some one from the melodica growing up. I like Eddie Murphy. I like Richard Pryor growing up, it's part of my culture. Part of our crack up at that stuff. And I'm sure if I looked at some of the comedians today, and I gave my time to that Kevin Hart and people like that, it may be funny, but you can give your time today. Because the Nibiru this lamb said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam woe unto the person who speaks and he lies in order to make the people laugh. What went to him what went to him is not permissible. But Companion of the newbies a lot while he was setting them jabbing that

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delay rhodiola

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he said, Nah, ha and Wu sallallahu it was setting them in a dark man a

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prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam prohibited us from laughing when someone passed when.

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So if someone were to pass when, and we heard it, he was going to get up. And it came out. He sat down, it came out, he coughed, it came out, he laughed inadvertently, accidentally it came out.

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And when we hear that we laugh, that's not from the Edit. The Prophet was sitting with the people selling love while he was selling them. And someone passed when and the people started laughing. He said, Why do you people laugh at the passing of when of his brother? not permissible. So if someone were to fart or something like that, and I was like, we just let it pass, we just don't say anything. Don't laugh at it. That's it. And even if it gives off a repugnant smell, we don't make a big deal and start saying, oh, let's let the egg we don't make that kind of discussion. That's bad edit in Ellis lab, that our children need to be taught. Don't do that. So laughing That one's gas

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passing of guys. The smell of that guy's his burger is something you shouldn't do. What did the Prophet teach us a lot. He was seldom, if someone passes, guys, if you fart, what should you say a chromosomal lock. He didn't tell us to not say no anything. When you yarn, he didn't tell us to say anything. But in the culture that we live in the earth of the culture that we live in is that you say excuse me, I'm sorry, excuse me, that the Prophet teaches that, you know, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but the culture of the people is permissible, as long as it doesn't go against the religion. And it would be highly unacceptable for someone to be around now Muslims, and then he passes guys,

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and they're waiting and expecting him to say, Excuse me, and he doesn't say they say he has no manners. He has no edit, and you give a bad pitch of Islam and the Muslim

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from what is not permissible in terms of laughing is what he said someone loved while he was setting them. Like

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matassa heavy he laughed even Oh

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Jad didn't.

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None of you should take the property of your companion, your friend, your brother, none of you should take his property playing around or being serious. Another headache

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Similar to this and an incident will explain why he said it follows on the law why he was seldom law, your Helen Muslim. And you were a Muslim, Willow mazzy ha. It is not permissible for a Muslim to cause terror and fear towards another Muslim. Even if he's joking. The meaning of the Hadith is, there were some companions when they were traveling, a man went to sleep. And some of the companions went and they tie that man up with ropes while he was sleeping. So when the man woke up, and they woke him up, he found himself tied up. And it made him nervous. It made him nervous, it made him upset.

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You can cause someone to catch an heart attack playing like that. He's at the ATM machine, getting his money, and you come from behind them and say, give me your dough, and you're acting like you're robbing him.

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Or you reach around him to give me the money. And you'll just joke and he's gonna look at you. Oh, it's just you. Yeah, but when you do that, that person can catch a heart attack.

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That person can think you're serious and be in America somewhere where you allow to carry a gun, and he pulls Glock out on you and blast you because he was joking. But Mohammed said Don't do that. Don't joke like that.

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Another incident, a man was sleeping from the companions rug wanna lay I lay him a Jemaine the companion. Some of them wanted to pass the time away. They were out traveling. They put a rope on his leg, they threw the rope over there, and they started pulling the rope very slowly across his legs. He woke up thinking it was a snake or Scorpion, something is on him. So you don't come behind the people with a feather and you put it on his ear. You don't do that. You don't stand behind the door. And then the people come through the house and you scan like that you don't do that.

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We don't do that.

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Again, why? Maybe you'll kill that person.

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You're joking with him can frighten him to a degree make them do something where you can harm he catches a heart attack. It's a stroke. And you see on social media. I saw this where the young kid was joking with his grandmother and grandfather. He would jump from behind this place jumped from behind this wall. Grandmother opened up the frigerator and the grandmother was cursing and swearing when you look at it his funny.

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Funny for the one who doesn't have edit and clap and LS Lang How can you do that with your grandmother? be doing?

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Don't treat me like I'm the only one who saw that video. You guys saw that video.

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Did you guys see that? I'm the only one who saw that video.

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I'm the only one who saw that video, huh?

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Okay. shukran. Yeah.

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So joking with people like that is not permissible. Another issue that one is what the prophet mentioned some of the law while he was selling, which is important and semi Yakumo cost. Beware of plucking rocks,

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for ENDA to Castle as sin. What tough Coraline will lead to Dora do you say because when you pluck rocks, you'll knock someone's teeth out, you'll break his tooth, your chip is to, you'll knock someone's eye out accidentally, because you can't control it, no matter how good you are. And there's no benefit in it, and that it doesn't harm the enemy. It's not a skill that you can harm the enemy. He didn't say he got gum, beware of mixed martial arts. He didn't say that. He didn't say beware of learning how to box. He didn't say beware of learning how to wrestle and learn how to fight and protect yourself. Because that is a skill that you should have as a Muslim. Am I telling

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anybody to go to Syria and then like that, I'm telling you to learn how to defend yourself. As for plucking rocks, it has no benefit, no benefit.

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So the companion Abdullah bin Lagerfeld, he saw a man plucking rocks plucking rocks, he walked by the man while he was plucking, when you saw him doing that he did his job. He gave a doubt a lot and maruf and Nan Mancha and he said, Hey, the prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam beware of plucking rocks, don't do it. Because of the break the tooth knocked out the eye and it won't harm the enemy. And he left he went. When it came back from whatever he was doing. He saw the man still plucking rocks. He said to that man, I tell you that the Prophet said something about what he was sending them, this and this and this and that and you still do it. He said, Well law he I'm not

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going to talk to you anymore. And he boycotted Batman, showing how the companions used to look at certain people at certain times who when they hear the sun and they hear the Hadith, it just rolls off of them the way the water rolls off of a duck.

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Guess what people have innovation like that.

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Not the one who was plucking rock as an innovator. But the point I'm making is when people misconstrue and mess up their religion you can say with people like that. And again, I gotta repeat that,

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me some knowledge, not the way some of the rough and tough brothers were ignorant doing this in their normal messages in the way they're treating the Muslims, even from their own selves the way they treat people from the own Jamaat too rough too tough. Last thing that we want to mention that one is the next Hadith, the hadith of who they for who they feminine man.

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He was with Abu Bakar radi Allahu anhu. They first said in the book, The next Hadith after the one we just explained, so we're dealing with to Heidi today because they're connected, who they first set Abu Bakar I have become a monastic, a hypocrite.

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hamdulillah said to Abu Bakar, I have become a hypocrite. Abu Bakar said, Why do you say that? He knows hamdulillah was a tremendous man. He finally made Jihad and he was killed. He said Bibi lat. And he had gotten married, and he was consummating his marriage. And he heard the call of jihad and he got up without making muscle. And he went out for Jihad and he got in the fight and he was killed. So he had Geneva when the prophet SAW him dead sallallahu wasallam he said that the melodica washed humbler? This man was a Shaheed be manel kelemen and he went to gender as a Shaheed. And yet he said about himself to Abu Bakar I'm a monastic, because he was afraid for himself. As long as you

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are alive, you can become a Catholic. As long as you are alive, you understood that today you'll be coming into VEDA tomorrow. As long as you're alive. you're praying today you start praying you don't fast anymore.

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As long as you're alive, you're wearing hijab, niqab and gloves. Today I saw someone today today, I saw someone used to when the car herding took off the job hum de la saw them when he got back on they used to when the cop took off he job and hamdulillah they're coming back. May Allah guide us and guide all of our brothers and sisters, as long as you alive abubaker used to I boubakeur used to fear for himself. Mr. He used to fear for himself. And here we are we fear for everybody but but ourselves.

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I became a monastic handler said Abu Bakr Why do you say that? I say that, because whenever I'm with the Prophet sallallahu, it was setting them he's telling us about the gentleman, he's telling us about the Hellfire, it says if I see that he'll find the agenda. And as a result of that, I straighten up, it affects me my email. But then when I leave the audience of the prophets of Allah when we send them, and I start dealing with my children, and I start dealing with my wife, and I got to work in the marketplace, you know, some of us in the jobs that we have in the month of Ramadan, the fitness is when we start hooking up with the people, especially people at work. Now Muslims who

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we work with, who use that language, what they talk about how they are, and they drag us into those discussions, students in the classroom that were Wait, they join us in those discussions. When I'm away from the nebby. I don't feel the same way. I think I'm a monastic.

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And it goes to show 20 that some of us some of our community members, some of us, some of us are a bit hard on ourselves in that when we do certain things, for example, the child of a particular lady gets in trouble in school or the child fails the exam or the mother, something happens and the person says, I'm a bad mother, I'm no good. You can't be like that. I'm no good. When in fact, her child has memorized more of the Quran, then most of the people's children

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because she's making the efforts to bring that child to Koran school. But when something happens over here, she just judges herself too hard. He judges himself too hard. He made a sin, He made a sin there, or he didn't do something or he did do something. And he says, that's it I'm destroyed. Can't be like that.

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When he talked about bucha The reason why I didn't say he was a monastic, but obika said, You know, I feel the same way. The same way when I'm with the Navy, so I'm really high. But when I'm with my family, and I'm not as high, let's go ask him. They went to him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Honduras spoke. Yasuo Allah, when we're with you, I feel like this I feel like that, but when I'm away from you, I'm like this lamb like that. The Prophet told him salon la Hawaii.

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seldom,

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if you people have the ability to stay on the same level that you are at when you're with me, and I'm giving you the vicar and teaching you, then you will have the ability to shake hands with the melodica. While you're laying on your beds, when you're home with your wife and your children at home, you'll be able to shake their hands, when you're walking in the street, going to the marketplace and going to the school or whatever. If you were able to stay on that same level, you will be like the melodica you will be able to shake their hands. He said but he man is

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sometimes like this sometimes like this sometimes like there's sometimes like this. Amen goes up and it goes down it goes up and it goes down. And the connection of this Heidi to the previous Heidi about the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to joke with his companions, the connection is sometimes you joke around, and sometimes you have to be very serious. Sometimes you're lighthearted. And sometimes it's time to be really, really serious. So he told the people to love what he was selling them though and Nicole talamona alum, the baccatum kathira, what the heck to kalila if you people only knew what I knew, you will laugh a lot less and you will cry a lot more. If you knew what I

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knew. Everybody he is going to die. Somebody from from amongst us is going to die before everybody else.

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And it doesn't have to be when you're old. It doesn't have to be after Ramadan. Somebody here was gonna die

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before everybody else. So with that being the case, there's not a lot of time to be wasting, joking around and laughing but let your laughing and your light heartedness be in the way of Allah Fie. sebelah Let it be mature is legislated. I want to apologize to the one who attended last week. But there were some technical difficulties. So what you had just now is what happened due to the fact of the technical difficulties. If you guys you brothers have any questions What time is the event for Alicia? What time is the event? 10 o'clock.

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What time is the event?

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You guys have any questions? shala about the dose today will

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answer those questions for the next 10 minutes. Before doing that one to remind you of the

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imminent visit the zyada of our Baba Mufti Mohammed Munir from America, one of the dwad they're calling to the Sunnah. May Allah bless him and bless the brothers who are with him. From the

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Hadith disciples are going to be coming to this country. We encourage you brothers to try to attend them to support those classes to get benefit from the brother, our man he and Nora Dean, the copy of the book of the class, give you all of information and shot law concerning his schedule. You can scan any questions anybody got any questions concerning today's Doris ganim award? Anybody got someone in this audience? Anybody got any water?

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Any questions or whining? Any questions?

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Katie shala Don't ask me questions when I get up and leave from this spot. All right, Father, yeah.

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Gotta get some of that water homie. I get some of that. Nothing any

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shukran man,

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the

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Ukrainian

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the brother wants to know is there a difference between a solo fit and fit?

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A big difference between the two?

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solo feck is the science in which people get to learn how to make a custom bath and to extract and extrapolate the proofs from the keytab and from the Sunnah.

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terms of some of the rules that Mr. Ellis lamb came in, came up with to help us understand, like the

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federal Amr, the

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better but command of the Quran. When Allah commands or when the Prophet commands sallallahu wasallam then they command means that that thing is whadjuk and when they prohibit they make a name. If the Hadith or the ISS don't do that, then that thing becomes haraam. So, in a solo, or solo fakers, the process is a science in which you come to understand how things become halau and how

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things and why they become haram based upon the proofs how they're coming as the simplest way that I can put it, whereas fifth, fifth is the comprehension of those ayat, and those are Hadith. The fifth of the religion, the jurisprudence of the religion is the is the actual ruling, but the solo effect is the process that is used in order to come to those conclusions. Well, solo fit is the process that's used. I guess you could say that just in a nutshell, I hope that that's clear to you, and Imam, Shafi Rahmatullahi, Thailand. He was attributed with being the first person who wrote a book in a solo was his book kitabi Salah, and some people said that the scholar of Islam and Eman

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Abdullah Malibu, Maddy was the first one and he was sending his book back and forth on Imam Shafi, who Mammon Shafi copied from him or got the idea from him, and Allah knows best. Any more questions acquainting?

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