The Islamic Personality – Episode 24

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Light Hearted ‘Joking’

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The speakers discuss the history and cultural practices of Islam, including the belief that individuals can absorb something without realizing it and the use of branding. They emphasize the importance of not being advised on social media and not giving advice on religion. The doctor and nurse are discussing the best way to proceed with a procedure and the patient is aware of the options available to him. The doctor is the one who will decide what is the best way to proceed with the process.

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Because I spoke to him twice.

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swindler man Rahim. Al hamdu Lillahi wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah he, Amar Bardo.

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Come to the next to Hadith from the book. The personality of the Muslim is the hadith of Abu Huraira to rub the Allahu Anhu what are the who, and which the companion set to the NABI SallAllahu. It was setting them Yano Sula, Allah here in Mecca to the Laguna Verily you joke around with us. You are light hearted and you joke around with us. The Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say yes, he jokes around with them. And he said, Well, I call him Illa haka. But I only say what is true. I only joke

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around when I joke around I don't joke around and I don't

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play practical jokes where I'm lying. And I don't joke and say things that are not true.

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This is the first Hadith that we're going to deal with inshallah is with Jana.

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And continuing the explanation of the book, and a lot can be said about the jokin of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And it is as we mentioned, when we explained the book of an Imam, Abu Issa Tirmidhi, here in this masjid, from the first chapter all the way to the last talk to the Shema Elan mohammedia in Which Imam and Tirmidhi gathered for us those are Hadith of the NABI SallAllahu Sallam that describes for this online for this nation. All of the characteristics that we need to

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know about Masoli now he's Allah while he was setting up, how he spoke, how he ate, what part of the meat did he like, how he slept Allah, why he was sending them how he walked, how he spent his time so that the Muslim, if he wants to get to know his Rasulullah, his Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then it is laid out for him in that book. And as we mentioned back then, when it came to the joking of Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he used to joke

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but it wasn't what he used to do all the time. And he didn't do it a lot.

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And for that reason, they described him Salah when he was setting them as companions and he said about him, Cana to wheel and some Khalil a bike. He used to spend long periods of time being quiet. Although his job, his responsibility, his muscle, Lea His will vifa was to talk and to guide people and to teach people. That was his responsibility. That was his job. But he just didn't spend a lot of time making a thorough thorough when he was just doing chatter, and he was just chitter chatter

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and he just kept on fighting hashing Allah. They said that he used to spend long periods of time being quiet, not being quiet with a sump that the Sunnah, like we find from the Sufi tourniquets, where they decide not to speak for a day or for two days or for three days or something like that. That's outside of the Hadith, and the guidance of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was setting up but as you said, in the authentic hadith, mankind of human Billahi will Yeoman acid failure call Hira? LDS

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not anybody who believes in Allah and the Last Day they let him speak and say what is good or let them be quiet? He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam in summertime Niger. Anyone who was quiet, he will be successful yomo piano he will be successful in this dunya he wants to community and he says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam er come were Kula Hadith in your total mental. Be aware of every type of speech

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that you'll have to come in apologize about it, or you will be embarrassed about it, or you're going to be held accountable for it. So the Muslim is the one who he thinks before something comes out of his mouth. And what's going to come out of his mouth, he weighs it, if he's going to be beneficial, is Dawa is the hop is Naseeha is Musa Ida he is going to say something that is going to benefit the people and benefit himself. He says it if he knows that it's going to harm him. He doesn't say it.

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If he's not sure it's going to harm is going to benefit it is better for him to be quiet. That's the meaning of what the Companions describe. Rob the hola I know when they said he used to spend long periods of silence and he used to laugh a little Salallahu it he was it was seldom so his joking as we explain it wasn't overboard. He wasn't a joker Hi shall Allah and for that reason Imam Ibn Kodama Rahmatullah heeta Allah Allah he mentioned, when it came to the issue of joking with the Prophet

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sallallahu wasallam. There are three types of issues that should be understood that when he used to joke sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would only say what was the truth and he would joke saying the hop when he used to joke he used to joke with who he used to joke with women used to joke with children. He used to joke at times when joking was appropriate. He wasn't with us as Hobb, Abu Bakar in Northland Ali, who were returned men, as the Quran described them Salallahu Alaihe was setting

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them out of the alignment. He wasn't always joking and playing around with that with them because they were people were building a nation. They had what is known in Al Islam as a Lululemon high determination. Jokers they don't have high determination. They don't have that. People want to joke around. They're not trying to build things and I tried to build a community. And I tried to do things that are going to be left and you're going to see the I thought the effects of what they put

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forth after they died, and Imam even Kodama Rahmatullahi Tiana, he said, the third thing is, he used to joke and it used to be mad if it wasn't a lot. It wasn't overboard. The fact that he joked SallAllahu it was sending them shows his complete personality shows that he was a human being. Allahu Taala mentioned about himself in the Quran. Well, no, who at Hakka were UPCA verily, Allah is the One who makes you people laugh and he makes you cry. So if a person never cried, something is

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wrong with you. His mother died his father died, his wife died, his sister died, his baby died, his nephew niece died, something happened somewhere he sees something that would disturb most people. This individually doesn't cry. Something's wrong. And there was a companion who said God also Allah. Do you cry? Do you cry because your grandchild die? Do you cry because your grandchild died? Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim say yes, he was crying when his grandchild died. The man said I don't cry. I

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never cry. Another narration a man said I never kiss my children like you kiss my children. Prophet Muhammad told that man says a lot he was sending them. I can't help it if Allah took right out of your heart. You're a person who never cried, something is wrong with you. And if you're a person who never lives, you never smile. You don't find the light side of issues that are going on in the everyday life. Then you're not on the he died of the Nabhi Well, Islam sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi

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wa salam. O Allah is the One who created Benny Adam and in his fitrah is that capacity to cry and that capacity to live? If you're crying all the time? No Siva, if you're laughing all the time muesli but it is a problem. There has to be at dial in that issue. Also concerning his jokin sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and his life and, and the light sided way that he used to deal with his companions, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. It was something that as we mentioned, he was divinely

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inspired by Allah. When the Nebby used to speak sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when ever he spoke, although when ever he spoke, the truth came out of his mouth all the time.

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Because if he's a newbie in the real soul, when people can't take him seriously, then they won't take the result and the dollar that he's bringing seriously. The prophets and the messengers, they don't blink their eyes like this, to show that they're joking. They don't do that. It's not from the moral is not from the editor of a Nebby or Rasool to blink to cross his fingers you saying something but he doesn't mean it. He has his fingers crossed behind his back was a symbol where I come from an

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America that means you really don't mean it. This is not consistent with being an OB and Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. So when he used to joke, he used to say what was the truth? And when he used to get angry, he used to say what was the truth similar to this hadith? And this hadith? You said, when I joke with you, I only say what's the truth? Abdullah even Amory even allows may Allah be pleased with him. He said that during the time when the Prophet was given dabbled Allah at the beginning,

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the non Muslims of Quraysh they criticized Abdullah even amor Ebenen us and they said to him, What's wrong with you? Right and everything that Mohammed is saying. You write all of his Hadith showing and the beginning of Assam some of the companions used to compile and they used to write Hadith and even not be tolerated and others Abu Shah they used to write the Hadith of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam What's wrong with you Abdullah even unbundle us every time we see you you're

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writing all of this and you're carrying these things that he said he's a human being he gets happy he gets upset he gets angry indicating that maybe when he gets angry you're writing something that's incorrect. So Abdullah bin amor even asked when to the Nebby he told them what Kure said Sallalahu it was set it up. Well, so I told Abdullah ibn amor Eminem RS oke took for inner hula Yeah, which men who Ill have continued to write, because nothing comes out of my mouth except the truth. When my

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young tick or Anil Hawa in Hua Illa you, he does not speak sallallahu alayhi wa sallam based upon his desires, but he speaks based upon what is revealed to him. So that goes to show that Kamal radula of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in terms of a man, he's the only human being that was complete from this ummah. Salawat Allah He was cinammon whiny concerning this particular Hadith, Abu Huraira a describe the condition of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with his companions

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and he said

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that he used to joke with them.

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And he told them yes, I joke with you but only say the truth. Some of the companions like a companion by the name of Abdullah Abdullah Al Hadith may Allah be pleased with him. He said about the newbies character sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Mara a to add an ad Farah, the best sermon in Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I never saw anyone who used to smile more than the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to smile more than everybody. So this is our group here

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today. Quite a few people. Can we say you're the one who out of all of these people here we see you smiling more than everybody else. We don't know who that individual who is from amongst us. This companion said out of all of the people Rasul Allah himself being a could one example. He smiled more than everybody else. The companion God Ativan, Abdullah Al beggarly. Robbie, Allah I knew he said, my hijab Benny and EBU sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Mungo and as slumped. Well, early in the

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summer. He said from the day that I became a Muslim, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never closed his door. I mean Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never told me I talked to you later. Never said give me a ring check and come late and we'll deal with it. Maybe he was busy and he had the right to say to the people call me later. Come meet me later. Let's do it on Friday inshallah. He said once I became a Muslim, he never did this show when again, the Kamal Aquata of the NABI

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SallAllahu Sallam somebody from this magic show me someone from amongst us who never said to you call me later or I'll call you later or Let's meet later inshallah. And none of us are comparable in terms of being busy like the nebi Salah it was a sign of him knowing how to deal with people and knowing how to practically show people how he cares about them. His o'clock was earlier, as Allah mentioned in the Quran, we're in Nicola Allah hood, open Amin. So this companion, he said, the

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prophet from the day that I became a Muslim SallAllahu Sallam never close his door and put a hijab between him and myself. And I never saw him, except when I saw him. He smiled that mean sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we have the tremendous companion aloe vera alga fairy, Radi Allahu Anhu that describe the prophet and he said some Allahu alayhi wa sallam, or a two day had the bed that nowhere

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Shiva. I saw the Prophet laughing one time salAllahu alayhi wa sallam, and I saw his molars when he was laughing. And again, it's a sign an indication that he was a balanced, normal human being. He didn't have this warped understanding that some people have the understanding of the Hawaii cottage, the understanding of the watershed Didim the understanding of the people are rough and tough. He wasn't like that. Not at all. He mentioned to us Allah, Allah who it was selling them a lip design

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fee, which he or he sadhaka tool for you to smile in the face of your brother is keen to you given sadaqa sadaqa just to put a smile on your face just to put a smile on your face. That goes to show a 20 Again, the one who walks around and he never smiles he is on other than the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam and an other than his he died. And we have unfortunately some people believe when you start practicing, then this is how you should behave with people and is not correct. We

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have that from all of the jamaa art, all of the people who tried to practice Islam from every group of Muslims. When people are trying to practice and be religious, you will find amongst every single group deal Bundys bro with Kalani Sufi Salafi every single group, you will find people practicing from that group thinking al il T Zahn. Today you'll be in on the dean is looking at people hard and rough. And unfortunate. Unfortunately, I Sellafield those companions and following those companions

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and follow the Kitab in the Sunnah, the way they followed it. Where is the application of this particular Sunova Nabhi somebody was setting them because I know people unfortunately, they have a misconception. Those people I know. I know Nora Dean.

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I know my man. I know him. I know him. I know him. I know him. I know him. But I never saw this brother before. So when I come and meet him for the first time, I don't give him any love. And I don't smile to him because I don't know what his men hedges. The Hustle with the people I don't know is a shock. I have doubt people around. No, I know. He said if he I know he said if I know he said if I know he said if he so I laugh I smile I give love a hug. People I don't know. I look him up and

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down. How short is this throw? Where's his beard what it was? And if I don't see what measures up to what I understand, I give no love. And I get close to Allah like that. That's not the Sunnah of the NABI SallAllahu. It was set up instead. That's the Sunnah of as I mentioned, Liu Hui Sera, the man who was the father and the leader of the very first helot EJ, who the Companions described him, rubbed the Allah on him as a man who had very thick eyebrows, and he was looking and frowning at

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He was looking and frowning at everybody, no love.

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My young buggy. And I want to mention this right now with 20 because it is really important those of us who have jobs, and we work with and around non Muslims, and we're into service in the general public, and you see a Muslim, come up to the counter, and you have to serve the Muslim. That's your job to give the Muslim headman don't say hello. Don't say welcome. Don't say good morning, say to the Muslims, salam, why they come and give them some sadaqa and give them a smile, and teach that to

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your children. Because your children may be teenagers, they may be in their early 20s. And they're working in those jobs. And we find that we a lot of times are afraid, shy and embarrassed to say, just Zakah low Hara when a Muslim has given us hitmen especially when they're around other non Muslims as if we are those people who are to be afraid of our religion. And this is not the deen of Islam. We give that simple etiquette that the Prophet taught us sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa

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sallam. So the newbie of Al Islam he was an individual who was balanced we have to mention this as well as it remains to smile in

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the prophets Allah Allah what He was sending was hacking. He was a wise man and then hikma it is translated as having wisdom. But as we mentioned many times and Hickman is putting things in their proper place, knowing what to say when to say it and how to say it and who to say it to. So treating the mother and the father as they are the mother and the father. That's Hickman

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worshiping Allah with Tawheed. And worshipping Him alone is Hickman giving Dawa to Allah with a glass until he

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Need your common to Allah that is hikma. When you miss appropriate things and you put it in the wrong place, that is volume and oppression. When you worship other than Allah is well, when you treat your mother and your father as if their children vote, if you were to treat the catheter, as if he was the Muslim and the Muslim as if he was the caffeine, that's what you put in the wrong place.

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Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he put his smile. He put his joking, he put it in the right place. He did it at the right time. He did it moderately. He did it just enough. salAllahu alayhi wasallam and he did it with those people who deserved it. So we don't want anyone in this audience to misunderstand that we just go around smiling. We just smile and like everything is fine and dandy and Cookie Crunch with everybody la el amor Olisa dyadic not like that. We have something

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in our religion where we have love and we have hate for Allah azza wa jal and we explained that hadith before and smiling comes in this chapter. That your love and your hate for people and things and manifest in your limbs and from your lens are your two lips. I love nature I love Allah alumna Allahu Amen. Well, the Salem witch chef attain, they will not create for mankind as an Atma, two eyes, two tongues and a lip. His lips are from his lens. They make the vicar of Allah, his tongue is

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from his lens, don't allow your tongue to become dried as a result of making the Dhikr of Allah. So what's the point? The point is, people have innovation. We don't give them smiles when we don't give them love like that, when they're really people of innovation, especially when they're the Imams and the leaders of innovation. And especially when they innovation are the innovations that take people outside of the slam the innovations on innovations that are prevalent that make people lost in the

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sauce stuck on stupid, they don't even know what I was slammed is because of this particular Darwin understanding. And we're going to come and sit and smile and laugh with them and say that's the Sunnah no Rasul Allah didn't do that. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allahu Taala describe the companions in the Quran describe Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam Mohammad Rasool Allah he will live in a man who is she dead will prefer Rohana obey know who Muhammad is the messenger of allah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and those who are with him Radi Allahu Allah and whom they are strong with the kuffar and they are merciful between themselves. So with the non Muslims, not just any old non Muslim, Jack, Bob and Danny just any old non Muslim, we got to be rough and tough with Nat lat Lionheart. levena la new cardi lo confit Dean, Willem Johanna DuCommun, Dr. Hickman terbaru, whom were toxic to lay him, Allah doesn't make it haram for you to be nice to be gentle with those people

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who don't fight you for your religion. They don't expel you for your homes because of your deen. You can be kind to them you can be nice to them.

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No problem, but those people will show us enmity and animosity. The Quran said that those companions were tough with them. made it very clear. Let them Dino Khumba Lea Diem and let your friends that like that. Allah commanded the believers in the Quran. Yeah, are you levena Manu cartoon Ladino YOLO no Camilla let cotton levena You know no ko mental kuffaar Well, yet you do men come Leverton while the moon and Allah Muhammad pain, oh you believe fight those people from the non Muslims who are

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against you. Fight those people and let them feel from you and see from you. UVA, roughness, toughness, and know that Allah is with those people who have Taqwa in Allah, Allah pin, the Maria and ha saw. Allah is with everybody. He's with everybody in his ability to see and hear his ability to that he knows everything is with everybody. The back end inside of the cave, walking and a black rock and the pitch black darkness of the night. Allah sees him and hears me knows everything about

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And he's with everybody, although he's over his throne. But Allah is with those people have Taqwa. Those people have suffered. Those people who have L II man, he's with those people in a special way. And that he defends them. He protects them.

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Hey guys, them and so forth and so on. So the IA clearly shows that there is some Huva Luva what the prophet negated from the Prophet what Allah negated from Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam and revealed that he said about him will continue further than really the

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lung fog Domon holy ya rasool Allah Muhammad, if you are rough and tough with your companions, and you didn't smile, and you didn't have Rama, and you were not gentle, and you didn't play with them, and you weren't easy with them, and you didn't always open up your door for them, you didn't treat them like this, if you were not like that they would have dispersed from amongst you. So all of you younger brothers, and also the older brothers who are married, as a vicar, as a vicar can be rough

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and tough with your wife can be a cowboy man can be a gangster can be a thug, got to take it easy, can be rough and tough with your children. Always rough and tough. do this do that. You got to be you got to take it easy. So when our Dean 20, we don't smile at the people of innovation. And we don't sit around in touch and just, you know, rub shoulders with them from the soul of a soul of Salafi the religion that the Prophet brought Salallahu Alaihe salam from those principles is we

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don't smile at people of innovation. We don't sit with people of innovation, but that has its understanding, not open ended like that. Everybody who uses an innovator, you don't smile at it. No.

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No, this issue needs to be understood. But I want to bring it to your attention that Allah prohibited that, as he mentioned, an ayat of the Quran ayat of the Quran, were either at Lavinia who Dunleavy it Natha

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had your whole Dolphy Hadith in Haiti, where emergency Danica shaytaan for light touch or by the Vikram coma Vani mean, if you see those people who talk about the Ayat of Allah in a way that's not appropriate, Mr. Probe, misappropriating the names and the attributes of Allah, Miss understanding and giving crazy interpretations of the religion. If you see people doing that, then don't sit with them and listen to them. While we're doing that. Get up and leave them in, don't sit with them.

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And if shaytaan makes you forget, then remember, get up and get away from them. That's one iron.

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One iron is enough caffeine. But Allah sent another iron as it relates to sit in with these people. And this is what Islam us from mini mini, a dilla mini mini muscles to say don't sit with the people of innovation. So a problem. It is a problem. Chandeliers, lambda blue Tamia said that the heart of the human being is like a sponge. The nature of the heart is like it's like a sponge, it will absorb the things that come to it. And it is possible that the individual can absorb something without even

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realizing that goes against the religion. Like the jail, at the jail comes, starts talking to the people started doing these tricks, started doing miraculous things, giving people what they want, what they asked for from the dunya money and so forth so on before you know when a person says this is my Lord at the job. But the prophet said what Salah Why do you sell them? If he comes when he comes, get up and go, don't go being inquisitive, trying to listen to him. Don't be inquisitive.

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Because one of you would think that your religion is strong, you go to listen. And then before you know it, lo and behold, you were sitting there and you believe that the job is Allah. Someone in this Mejlis knows this religion better than everybody else. Someone in this Methodist right now is closer to Allah than everybody else. Whoever that individual happens to be. If the Zhao came, that person has to leave. The self used to saying you guys remember this. As long as a person is alive.

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He is not safe from Al fitna. They were companions, people. They were companions. They saw the marches act of Rasulullah, sallAllahu wasallam. They saw the moon split. They saw water come from between his eyes. Some of the people saw all kinds of things. He's eaten the meat of the Jewish lady that gave him the meat and his companions were eaten. And the leg of the meat that he was eating told him, there's poison in this meat.

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They saw all kinds of things. And some of those people pass David may left Islam when the Israeli Mirage happened. If that can happen to them that can happen to you that happened to them that can happen to me

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So don't look at it as being a small thing about setting with people of innovation.

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Don't do it, don't do it. Don't do it. For like top or my Lavinia who do not feel Hadith Allah had the whole door thing ready don't sit with those people don't do it.

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As it relates to the hadith of Abu Huraira may Allah be pleased with him. He said that the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to joke with us. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam used to joke with his family members, and he used to joke with his companions from amongst the men as he was sitting with them. We gave some examples of that when we did the Tirmidhi class as Shama Elin. Why Medea? And we gave that example as well. When we did this doubles. He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came from

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a trip. And after coming from the trip, he sat with our mother I Isha was playing with some doll babies. And she was playing with the doll babies in a room by herself. The wind blew the curtain, and the Prophet saw her playing with Donald babies. sallallahu alayhi wasallam. That in of itself is a sign that He was gentle, and he was easy, and he was tolerant

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to allow his wife who was young to play with Tao babies.

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He SallAllahu wasallam said to her, what, what what are you doing? What are those? What are those and there was one down that was in the shape of a horse.

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And it had wings. He said, what what is that? She said, Well, the Alana, this is my doll, baby and it has wings to it. The Prophet saw seven she said, This is my doll, baby, the horse the horse. He said, What is that on the horse? He said they are the wings of the horse. Prophet Muhammad says SallAllahu wasallam. And does does horses do they have wings? She said mines does. Don't you know the horse of Souleymane used to have wings. And being young. She just made that up. Because that's a

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delille of how young she was. For the people who have a problem with accepting that.

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People have a problem that he married to at a very young age a tender age, Salah who it was selling them well. Robbie, Allah Anna, she was playing with Donald babies. She's not 21 Praying the doll babies

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21 The narration said 11 that people come and say nah, nah, nah, that was a mix that the printer print inside of Buhari that print. It says 11 But it was really 21 Those should have been to one not one one.

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He married that a young age sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but he didn't consummate it till later on. So my mentality was the mentality of a young person. So yeah, Rama didn't consummate to later on.

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So the point here is, he did and make took fear of Aisha for making something up in the religion. Soon a man's horse got wings. He didn't say how dare you?

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He didn't do that. The young man, the brother of Anna, Sybil nomadic, who used to have a pet bird and the bird dies. So the brothers stopped coming outside. And he went missing from Miami. Santa Anas where's your brother? Yeah, it also lies bird died, he won't come out of the house. He's like mourning the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said to Abu Bakar roof man and those older companions let's go visit our brother in Allah SNAM he went to the boy SallAllahu wasallam he said to the boy yeah,

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about Oh, man. Yeah, about remade my father. No glare. Oh, man. What did the sparrow bird do? And he made a little nursery rhyme, to deal with the mentality of the boy.

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To deal with the mentality of the boy, being gentle, easy, light hearted joking.

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He used to sallallahu alayhi wa sallam play with many of his family members. And he was to do the same thing and joke with many of the companions, the men as well as the women. from them is the old lady who came and say God also Allah, please make dua to Allah azza wa jal to put me into the Jannah ask Allah to put me into the gentlemen your Dwyers Mr. Jarvis accepted. The Nabil sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said no.

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You're not going to go into Jana. I'm not going to make that dua. You're not going into Janna. The lady turned around, walked away and she was crying because that's the last thing a Muslim wants to hear. A person who doesn't speak based upon desires tells you you're not going to Jana. That is something that causes heartbreak and sorrow. She turned around walking away crying a deal of her Eman. The Prophet told the people so loved while he was setting them go and tell her she won't go

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into the gentleman like that. As an old woman. She

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I'm going to Jana as an old woman, and then he read the ayat of the Quran in and shut down Hoonah in sha for Jana Hoon, Cara, urban a Traba Wehrli the women who go into Jana, my wife in your wives, my mother in your mother's my sisters in your sisters my Auntie's in your auntie's, my daughters in your daughters, my nieces and your nieces in sha Allah.

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Whatever age they go in when they are older, Allah says in the Quran, we have created these women in Janna in Shah, they're going to be useful.

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And we will make them virgins who will never touched before.

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And we translate it as the I said, Not Afraid not Matera did not hot if not afraid, not, you know, worrying about what these non Muslims want to say when they want to misconstrue our religion.

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So she's not going to go into gender like that she's going to go into Jana, as a youngster because we don't have old people in gender like that. Not Oh, I Jews share like some of our shield who was sitting on chairs, there is a Hadith that says Hassan and Hussein are the same Di Di Shabaab, as Jana has an Hussein are the leaders of the youngsters in Al Jana. And there's a hadith that says Abu Bakr and Omar are the leaders of the show you are in Jannah. But the meaning of Shijo here doesn't

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mean that they're real old. And the meaning of youngsters here doesn't mean like the little kids doesn't mean like that doesn't mean like that. The people have an agenda or not Oh, and the people of Ghana are not like young like that. The older adults don't become young like that. We ask Allah data to put us in the agenda to the for the dose, without any of that without any he said, as it relates to the issue of joking and quite a few things want to mention, in our religion, there is FIP

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when it comes to joking, and we should know some aspects of these issues, do's and don'ts, how to laugh, how not to laugh, what to laugh about what not to laugh about. We already mentioned some of them. But to add on to some of the don'ts, especially now, during this time, where you guys are millennials and you're dealing with social media. And social media is a cesspool. And a lot of what is in and on social media contradicts the religion. And if you don't learn about your religion,

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young man, young sister, you will be doing things that will make allies angry with you and possibly put you outside of the religion of Islam. If you're not careful. What we don't joke about and one of the things is not permissible to joke in is someone Joking, joking. Concerning the religion. We don't joke about the religion, no aspect of the religion. We don't do social.

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What do they call those things?

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Say it again.

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social experiments, where we go around the cabin, we play jokes and things like that. We don't do things like that. We don't carry suitcases briefcases and we're folk with a culture and you throw a bag as if it's a bomb. And you laugh at people running into the water and you don't joke like that. It's not our religion. We don't joke about Salah we don't joke about the event. We don't joke about the Lucha Allah who taught me that Haram is a major sin is something what will naturally poondu a

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biller? He will it will slowly come to the stanzi Oh, do you joke with Allah and the Ayat of Allah and His messenger? This is what you talk about. You have disbelieved after you believed, don't give any excuses. So joking about the religion and with the religion is not permissible in any shape form of fashion. Another issue is what we have with the NABI SallAllahu, alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam. He said an authentic hadith way Mala levy you had the feel for yet that you take will be here to comb

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for weight on level weighing on level, one to the person who speaks and he lies. And he jokes in order to make people live? Well, one to that person who does that woven to that person who does that. So you can hardly find right now where we're going to get a situation where we want to collect money for Syria, want to collect money for this project for that project, collect money for LEA men and what they need in Yemen. So we're going to give the people with dinner, and we're going to ask

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the people to come to the dinner. Someone's going to give a religious talk about the virtues of Syria. Someone's going to talk about the virtues of at the end, and then we're going to get

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got someone who's going to get up there and he's going to start joking.

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He's going to joke about the religion. He's going to laugh at the religion. He's going to joke about religious people, and so forth and so on. And in his jokes, you'll find there's lies. It's not true. We don't have Islamic jokes, or Islamic comedians. Now I know the young people saw sour grapes man, you always dreaming up the program, old school overhead.

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show me show me we had companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who used to joke we had we used to joke but they were not Joker's they were not jokers Prophet Muhammad used to joke I told you you had a companion. His name was Zaheer Zaheer, Zaheer used to live in a desert. He used to bring goods from the desert to one Medina when he came to Medina, he would give those goods to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Rasul Allah before the mangles back to the desert he would gather the things up

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and then in Medina and give it to that man and let that man take the desert. He said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Zai had bad dia tuna. We're not know how the RO czar here is our desert. He brings the desert to us, and we are his metropolitan, we bring the city to him. And the Prophet used to joke with that man and that man used to joke with the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but it wasn't a joke all the time. La. Not like that.

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So watching comedians, and don't get it twisted and don't Don't Don't look at me anybody else's being some one from the melodica growing up, I like Eddie Murphy. I like Richard Pryor growing up, it's part of my culture. Part of our crack up at that stuff. And I'm sure if I looked at some of the comedians today, and I gave my time to that, Kevin Hart and people like that. It may be funny, but you can give your time today. Because the Nibiru this land said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam woe unto

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the person who speaks and he lies in order to make the people that will want to him Well, one two is not permissible. The companion of them that'd be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam jab at abdillahi, Radi Allahu Anhu. He said, nah ha and Nabil sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and a dark men of verta. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam prohibited us from laughing when someone passed when.

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So if someone were to pass when, and we heard it, he was going to get up and it came out. He sat down, it came out, he coughed, it came out. He lived in advertently. Accidentally, it came out.

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And when we hear that we laugh, that's not from the Edit. The Prophet was sitting with the people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and someone passed when and the people started laughing. He said, Why do you people laugh at the passing of when of his brother? not permissible. So if someone were to fart or something like that, and Al Islam, we just let it pass. We just don't say anything. Don't laugh at it. That's it. And even if it gives off a repugnant smell, we don't make a big deal and

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start saying, oh, let's let the egg we don't make that kind of discussion. That's bad edit in Ellis lab, that our children need to be taught. Don't do that. So laughing That one's gas passing of guys. The smell of that guy's his birth is something you shouldn't do. What did the Prophet teacher SallAllahu wasallam? If someone passes, guys, if you fart, what should you say at Cromwell Kamala, he didn't tell us to not say no anything. When you yawn, he didn't tell us to say anything. But in

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the culture that we live in the earth of the culture that we live in is that you say excuse me, I'm sorry, excuse me, that the Prophet teaches that, you know, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but the culture of the people is permissible, as long as it doesn't go against the religion. And it will be highly unacceptable for someone to be around now Muslims, and then he passes guys, and they're waiting and expecting him to say, excuse me, and he doesn't say it. They say he has no manners. He

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has no edit, and you give a bad pitch of Islam and the Muslim

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from what is not permissible in terms of laughing is when he said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lie matassa hibi he laughed even Oh.

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Jad, then

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none of you should take the property of your companion your friend your brother. No, none of you should take his property playing around or being serious. I never had he

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Similar to this and an incident will explain why he said it follows Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam law, your halal and Muslim. And you were rally Muslim Willow Mazzy ha. It is not permissible for a Muslim to cause terror and fear towards another Muslim. Even if he's joking. The meaning of the hadith is there were some companions when they were traveling, a man went to sleep. And some of the companions went and they tie that man up with ropes while he was sleeping. So when the man woke up,

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and they woke him up, he found himself tied up. And it made him nervous. It made them nervous, it made them upset.

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You can cause someone to catch an heart attack playing like that. He's at the ATM machine, getting his money and you come from behind them and say, give me your dough, and you're acting like you're robbing him.

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Or you reach around him to give me the money and you're just joking. He's gonna look into the hole. It's just you. Yeah, but when you do that, that person can catch a heart attack.

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That person can think you're serious and be in America somewhere where you allow to carry a gun, and he pulled his clock out on you on blast you because he was joking. But Muhammad said don't do that don't joke like that.

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Another incident, a man was sleeping from the companions or dwama Lay I lay him at Jemaine the companions. Some of them wanted to pass the time away. They were out traveling, they put a rope on his leg, they pull the rope over there, and they started pulling the rope very slowly across his legs. He woke up thinking it was a snake or scorpion, something is on him. So you don't come behind the people with a feather and you put it on his ear and you don't do that. You don't stand behind

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the door. And then people come through the house and you scam like that. Don't do that.

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We don't do that.

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Again, why? Maybe you'll kill that person.

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You're joking with him can frighten him to a degree make them do something where you can harm he catches a heart attack. It's a stroke. And you see on social media. I saw this where the young kid was joking with his grandmother and grandfather. He would jump from behind this play jump from behind this wall. Grandmother open up the frigerator and the grandmother was was cursing and swearing when you look at it. It's funny.

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It's funny. For the one who doesn't have edit and UCLA and Ellis lab. How can you do that with your grandma be doing?

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Don't treat me like I'm the only one who saw that video. You guys saw that video.

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Did you guys see that? I'm the only one who saw that video.

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I'm the only one who saw that video on.

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Okay sure craniotomy.

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So, joking with people like that is not permissible. Another issue Lithuanians what the Prophet mentioned some Allah who it was sent in, which is important he said he Yakumo cus beware of plucking rocks,

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for inner hair to castle as sin. What tough Coraline? Well, I told the ruler I do. He said, because when you pluck rocks, you will knock someone's teeth out, you'll break his tooth, your chip is too. You'll knock someone's eye out accidentally because you can't control it, no matter how good you are. And there's no benefit in it, and that it doesn't harm the enemy. It's not a skill that you can harm the enemy. He didn't say, yeah, come beware of mixed martial arts. He didn't say that. He

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didn't say beware of learning how to box. He didn't say beware of learning how to wrestle and learn how to fight and protect yourself. Because that is a skill that you should have. As a Muslim. I'm not telling anybody to go to Syria and then like that, I'm telling you to learn how to defend yourself. As for plucking rocks, it has no benefit, no benefit.

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So the companion Abdullah bin Maga fell, he saw a man plucking rocks plucking rocks. He walked by the man while he was puking. When he saw him doing that he did his job. He gave a doubt Allah and maruf and Nan monka and not see her. He said, hey, the Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam beware of plucking rocks, don't do it. Because of the break the tooth knocked out the eye and it won't harm the enemy. And he left he went. When he came back from whatever he was doing. He saw the

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man still plucking rocks. He said to that man, I tell you that the Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, this and this and this and that and you still do it. He said, Well, Allah He I'm not going to talk to you anymore. And he boycotted that man, showing how the Companions used to look at certain people at certain times who when they hear the Sunnah, they hear the Hadith, it just rolls off of them the way the water rolls off of a duck.

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Can't say when people have innovation like that.

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Not the one who was plucking rock because an innovator, but the point I'm making is when people misconstrue and mess up the religion you can say with people like that. And again, I gotta repeat that,

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me some knowledge, not the way some of the rough and tough brothers were ignorant doing this in their normal messages in the way they're treating the Muslims, even from their own selves the way they treat people from the own Jamaat too rough too tough. Last thing that we want to mention one is the next Hadith, the hadith of who they for who they feminine via man.

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He was with Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu. And Hubei for said in the book The next Hadith after the one we just explained, so we're dealing with two Hadith today because they connected who they first said Abu Bakar I've become a monastic, a hypocrite.

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hamdulillah said to Abu Bakr, I have become a hypocrite. Abu Bakr said, Why do you say that? He knows hamdulillah was a tremendous man. hundra finally made Jihad and he was killed visa vie the land.

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And he had gotten married, and he was consummated his marriage. And he heard the call of jihad and he got up without making muscle and he went out for Jihad and gotten the fight and he was killed. So we had Geneva when the Prophet saw him dead. SallAllahu wasallam you said that the melodica washed Hamdulillah this man was a shade be manual Kereama and he went to Jana, as a shaheed. And yet he said about himself to Abu Bakr, I'm a monastic because he was afraid for himself. As long as you are

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alive, you can become a Catholic. As long as you are alive, you're on the sooner Today you become an innovator tomorrow. As long as you are alive. You're praying today you start praying you don't fast anymore.

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As long as you alive you're wearing hijab, niqab and gloves. Today I saw someone today today I saw someone used to when he come hurt, they took off the hijab hum de la saw them with hijab back on they used to weigh me cop took off hijab and hamdulillah they're coming back. May Allah guide us and guide all of our brothers and sisters, as long as you alive aboubaker used to eyeball Bucky used to fear for himself Mr. Used to fear for himself. And here we are we fear for everybody but but

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I became an avid 100. I said Abu Bakr Why do you say that? I say that, because whenever I'm with the Prophet sallallahu, it was setting them and he's telling us about the gentleman he's telling us about the hellfire. It says if I see the hellfire and the Jannah. And as a result of that I straighten up, it affects me my Eman. But then when I leave the audience of the prophets of Allah when he was setting them, and I start dealing with my children, and I start dealing with my wife,

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and I go to work in the marketplace, you know, some of us and the jobs that we have in the month of Ramadan, that fitness is when we start hooking up with the people, especially people at work, non Muslims, who we work with, who use that language, what they talk about how they are, and they drag us into those discussions, students in the classroom that we're with that draw us in those discussions, when I'm away from the Nebby. I don't feel the same way I think I'm a mafia.

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And it goes to show 20 that some of us some of our community members, some of us, some of us are a bit hard on ourselves, and that when we do certain things for an example, the child of a particular lady gets in trouble in school or the child fails the exam or the mother, something happens and the person says I'm a bad mother, I'm no good. You can't be like that. I'm no good, when in fact, her child has memorized more of the Quran than most of the people's children.

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Because she's making the efforts to bring that child to Quran school. But when something happens over here, she just judges herself too hard. He judges himself too hard. He made a sin he made a sin there. Well, he didn't do something or he did do something. And he says that's it. I'm destroyed. Can't be like that.

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100 has said I'm gonna Madatha

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when he talks about bulk of the reason why I will bucket and say he was a monastic. But Abu Bakar said, you know, I feel the same way. I am the same way when I'm with the Navy, so I'm really high. But when I'm with my family and I'm doing I'm not as high. Let's go ask him that he went to him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in 100 A spoke ya rasool Allah, when we're with you, I feel like this I feel like that but when I'm away from you, I'm like this and I'm like that. The Prophet told him

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something Allahu Allah, you

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was seldom,

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if you people had the ability to stay on the same level that you are at when you're with me, and I'm giving you the vicar and teaching you, then you would have the ability to shake hands with the melodica. While you're laying on your beds, when you're home with your wife and your children at home, you will be able to shake their hands when you're walking in the street, go into the marketplace and go into the school and whatever. If you were able to stay on that same level, you

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will be like the melodica you will be able to shake their hands. He said but Eman is

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sometimes like this sometimes like this sometimes like this sometimes like this. Amen goes up and it goes down it goes up and it goes down. And the connection of this hadith to the previous Hadith about the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to joke with his companions, that connection is sometimes you joke around. And sometimes you have to be very serious. Sometimes you're light hearted, and sometimes it's time to be really, really serious. So he told the people to love what he was selling

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them low and not come talamona My album, Love baccatum cathedra What the heck to kalila if you people only knew what I knew, you will laugh a lot less and you will cry a lot more. If you knew what I know. Everybody is going to die. Somebody from from amongst others is going to die before everybody else.

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And it doesn't have to be when you're old. It doesn't have to be after Ramadan. Somebody here was gonna die

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before everybody else. So that being the case, there's not a lot of time to be wasted and joking around and laughing but let your laughing and your light heartedness be in the way of Allah fie sebelah let it be mature is legislated. Want to apologize to the guy who attended last week? But there were some technical difficulties. So what you had just now is what happened due to the fact of the technical difficulties. If you guys you brothers have any questions What time is the event for

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Alicia? What time is the event? 10 o'clock.

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What time is the event?

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You guys have any questions Shala about the data today. We'll

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answer those questions for the next two minutes. Before doing that one to remind you of the

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imminent visit the zyada of our brother, Mufti Muhammad Munir from America, one of the Duat they're calling to the Sunnah May Allah azza wa jal bless him and bless the brothers who are with him from the rum, Hadith disciples are going to be coming to this country, we encourage you brothers to try to attend them to support those classes to get benefit from the brother, our man here and nurudeen the copy of the book of the class give you all of information inshallah concerning his schedule. You

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guys got any questions? Anybody got any questions concerning today's data's got any more water anybody got someone in this audience? Anybody got any water?

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Any questions? acquainting any questions?

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Clearly Shala Lomax me questions when I get up and leave from this spot. All right, father, yeah.

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Gotta get some of that water homie. I get some of that. Nothing in me

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shukran man

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of the

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the brother wants to know, is there a difference between a solo fake and fake?

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A big difference between the two.

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Solo fake is the science in which people get to learn how to make a stem bath and to extract and extrapolate the proofs from the Kitab and from the Sunnah.

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And terms of some of the rules that Allah slam came in, came up with, to help us to understand like the

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fatal armor, the

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butt the command of the Quran, when Allah commands or when the Prophet command Salallahu Salam, then their command means that that thing is Whadjuk and when they prohibit they make a name. If the Hadith of the ayah says don't do that, then that thing becomes haram. So in a solo film, or solo fakers, the process is a science in which you come to understand how things become halau and how

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to things and why they become haram based upon the proofs how they're coming as the simplest way that I can put it, whereas fifth, fifth is the comprehension of those ayat, and those are Hadith. The fifth of the religion, the jurisprudence of the religion is the is the actual ruling, but the solo fic is the process that is used in order to come to those conclusions, or solo FIP is the process that's used. I guess you can say that just in a nutshell, I hope that that's clear to you,

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and Imam Shafi Rahmatullahi Tada les was attributed with being the first person who wrote a book and a solo Fick, which is his book keytab rissalah. And some people said that the scholar of Islam and Imam, Abdul Rahman Ibn omega d was the first one and he was sending his book back and forth to Imam Shafi, who Al Imam Shafi copied from him or got the idea from him, and Allah knows best. Any more questions? acquainting.

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Hava was on Allahu wa salam abiotic and then a beginner or an early he was Hobie Jermaine was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh