The Islamic Personality – Episode 20

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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Minding Your Own Business

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The transcript discusses the importance of good Islam and avoiding silly questions, as well as the need for people to practice good manners and avoid abandoning businesses. The speakers stress the importance of guarding one's tongue during conversations and avoiding giving money to anyone without their permission. The segment also touches on issues related to addiction and health, including slacking and smoking cigarettes, and the need for men to take care of their health. The importance of protecting one's time and working hard to become successful is emphasized.

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And they'd be Herrera 30 Allah I'm home and not also less Allah Allah will send them a call. mean firstly Islam in Morocco third kumara Yanni Rolton me the volume

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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam o Allah rasool Allah He Amma bound to

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come to the hadith of today's Doris well known famous Hadith an imam. And no, we bought it in the book 40 Hadith.

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And the 40 Hadith that Imam and no we gathered all the 40 Hadith that he concentrated on gathering that deal with the July man and kill him.

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So I will share ideal Halaby high fever hula has brought this hadith in the book because we're dealing with the issue of the Muslims personality.

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And today's Hadith 20 is a tremendously important Hadith, like the Hadith that have passed in last few weeks and I'm talking about a hadith that is extremely important, and it's critical that we study it, we learn it, we remind each other of it because the vast majority of people are falling into the opposite of this hadith except those people that allies who then hit rock upon them.

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And that is a Hadith in which the Nibi mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, from a person's good Islam from the proof that a person's Islam is good. His Hosni al Islam is that he abandons and he avoids that which does not concern him. want to repeat that again? A messenger of Allah he says Allah Allahu Allah, he was setting them from a person's good Islam from the fact that a person's Islam is good. He's a good Muslim from that is that he should avoid those things that are not his

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business. So the CHE ideaal Halaby Rahmatullah Allah He called this chapter and Muslim and Muslim all movement lays to be footballing. The Muslim from his characteristic is that he's not nosy.

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He minds his own business. This is what this hadith is talking about. Men Hosni Islam and Mark Turco Humala and he

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tremendous Hadith. What is the meaning of leaving alone bolts, things that don't concern him, it means a lot of things. Leaving alone that which does not concern you, it means minding other people's business, when you have more than enough issues in your own personal life.

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It means engaging in those things that won't bring you any benefit in the dunya or the IRA.

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Like wasting your time watching TV programs that bring no benefit, they don't raise your level of awareness or consciousness. They don't remind you of Allah, surfing the internet and wasting time watching movies, watching football, watching basketball, watching baseball, watching cricket, playing those things is one thing, but to sit three hours, three hours and a half, five, six hours to watch the NFL Super Bowl. That is you not minding your business because you're more piano, you're

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going to be asked about your business.

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This hadith also means falling into level level is again, anything and everything that brings you no benefit in the dunya on the Hara. Doing all of those things that are problematic. Talking about Allah's religion without knowledge is paying attention in mind and other than your business given to us, like on this social media culture that the millennials have right now is that everybody is free to give his opinion, your mind and other than your business because you're not that dude, you're not

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that guy that should be given opinions. You should be quiet. Because you don't know what you're talking about.

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This hadith is a serious Hadith for us, our wives and our children. Mind your own business. Don't be nosy, Satan asking and talking about so and so's divorce. So and so's problem, so and so's issue. And it may be true, but it's not your business. You're not actually you have nothing to do with the problem. Mind your own business. That's a deal that you have good Islam. And the opposite of that is a delille you have bad Islam. Although you may say I'm Salafi and although you may say I'm going to

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test them a lot you may say I'm sorry, I'm a dying I'm gonna share. If you want individuals talking about people and people's issues, this ruler, the hacking the hacking like Saudi Arabia or anywhere for that matter. He did this he did that he did this he did that he did that he did this that's not your business.

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that's not me defending him as such. That's not me defending him, because some of our Shabbat, because of the cultivation and the data of the political groups, they understand from this statement of mine, that I'm defending him, I will defend him as I'll defend any Muslim when they deserve it. The point that I'm making is you are throwing your good deeds away to people who maybe they don't deserve them because you're making riba it's not your business, preoccupy yourself with those things

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that are going to benefit you in the dunya in the IRA. And as I said, most of you I don't know your names many of you I do there's not a single person here except that we all have more than enough to deal with and our own situation that there is no time for anyone here to get your nose involved in someone else's business.

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Look at the importance of the issue because I want to deal with five myths satin A lot can be said but I just deal with five Messiah before we get to those inshallah Yeoman piano the different people from the nation's will go to the prophets I mean a different people from our community. They will go to the oil Isom mineral sole, Asa over the oil as a mineral, so who were they the five major prophets who were there?

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Salawat wa Taala he was salam Ye, Nora, Ibrahim

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Musa, Risa and Muhammad sallahu wa Taala he was salam wanting not Adam don't mention Adam from them but good job, son.

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The people from this OMA will go to Adam. Oh, our father Adam, we got all this trouble. I got a lot of issues. I need you to help me intercession. Adam is going to say no is going to say enough's enough. See Neff. See, I got my own problems.

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That's a Nebby Sana I'm on issue. I'm happy to be responsible for all of my people and what I did and what I didn't do.

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And it goes down the line. Each of one of those prophets is going to say knifes, enough's enough, see my own problem. Go to the next one, go to the next one, go to the next one. When the people from this ummah go to Isa, I guess is gonna say, hey, go to Muhammad, and then the Prophet sallallahu or you send them will make intercession. The point is, and the showerhead is the prophecy the message best people they're going to say, myself myself, myself, yo, Mo Kiana. The idea of the Quran Allahu

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Taala mentioned Yama, your federal woman he will own me will be was Sahiba to hear you have been in the culinary and men home Yeoman eating Shetland Me on that day, Yom Okayama. Every single person, the people, except the ones that ALLAH blessed, they were run away from and they would avoid their brother, they're going to run away from their mother and their father, they're going to run away from their their big brother, they have their friends, they're going to run away from their

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children. Allah said on that day, every single soul will be concerned about itself. You're going to be cursing people, you're going to be cursing your companions who got you involved with a lot of commands that had nothing to do with you in that making tech field or people start your business. Nobody made that your job to make tech fear. Nobody made that your job in the city of Birmingham. In the comfort of momos. You're up there eating, drinking, making tech fear or a job, what type of deal

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slash your business. You're not the man for that job. It's not your job.

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So as it relates to the issue of this hadith, honey, this is an important Hadith. The scholar said that it is a classroom from the school of an edit. It's one of the foundations, foundations from the foundations of good manners as a Muslim.

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Good manners. So as it relates to the issue, we don't want to be like the people going to come You're welcome. And they're going to be jammed up. Five issues we want to deal with today in sha Allah azza wa jal. The first one is

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we're going to let you know right off the bat, right off the top. This hadith is difficult to practice. Difficult meaning it's possible but it's difficult because it requires some discipline. It requires discipline and we're not disciplined people. We're not discipline. When it comes to eating. We're not disciplined when it comes to our lifestyle. We're not disciplined when it comes to just doing the things we need to do. We live in a culture where everybody is running buck wild, even the

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people who are trying to be religious. A requires discipline. Only the one that Allah gives them tofi Can doing it

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It is difficult. In order to do this and practice Hadith, you're gonna have to make some serious changes, like, you're gonna have to start to cut off most of your friends, because they waste your time. What you want them engage yourselves and what we talk about. Much of it is not our business just kicking a Willie Bobo and just chewing the cud. Talking about issues and people and affairs, it's not your business. As simple as that. If you're going to practice this hadith, you're going to

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have to stop speaking half of the time that you actually speak some people two thirds of the time, because most of what you're talking about, it's not your business. It has nothing to do with what's going to benefit you in the dunya or in the Acura, you're just saying can I emphatic Kalon that has no benefit whatsoever. That's the first point that we want to mention. I want to say this, make it very clear as it relates to us hub companions, the best companion that you can have during these

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times at times of social media, but time of fitna is you have to make that Quran your companion, because that Quran is not going to fail you, those of us who are married, those of us who know how to read the Quran, you're trying to learn how to read the Quran. If you read one Jews every day to the best of your ability, you and your wife, you and your family every day, you kept up with today's date in the Arabic and the Arabic calendar, because you know what juice you're on. So you know, it's

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the 14th it's the second it's the third day of Raja, because you spend one hour or less to read one juice per day, every year. You've been married for three years, five years, 15 years, 20 years, you don't complete the Quran and all of that time. The Quran won't tell you as for the people, most of our companions, it's not your business. That's the first point. It's not easy. And in order to do it, there has to be drastic changes in the person's life. You got to cut people off and I don't mean

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be antisocial will be nasty, but you got to really evaluate who are the people that are surrounding you. The people of Quito con Hebron Amina mudjacking just as that's that's what it is. Second issue with whiny

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is that there are a lot of benefits and this hadith of the NABI SallAllahu it was a lot will mention two benefits of this hadith just to in there a lot. I mean, firstly, Islam and Mark Turco, Ramallah Yeah, and he from a person's good Islam is him avoiding and abandoning that which does not concern him, it's not his business gonna not gonna benefit him in the dunya the art is not going to affect his family in any positive way. One of the benefits of it is, if you're minding other people's

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business, you're going to neglect your own.

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By default, you're going to neglect your own business. And as I said, I don't know all of you people, I don't know. But one thing that I know it's the Sunnah of Allah and His creation. Everybody here as I sit here, everybody listening, everybody tuning in to this dose right now, every woman, every man, every teenager, every older person, you got more than enough in your own life. You know, the problem is you got what your mother or your father, what's going on with your sister or your

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brother, or your cousin or yourself, when you get the time when you get the time to mine other people's business and to put your nose in other people's business.

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And you know, where I come from, and I think it's here in the West as well. You know, we say, men who talk a lot, pillow talk and talk about people. That's a characteristic of women. That's something that they do. And this is something that we have to remind our women of, don't mind other people's business. Take care of your own business. She's on the horn. She's talking to her girlfriend, about this one, that one this one that one is she went to Clean Up Downs cook for the

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kids helping with their homework, whatever. She'll be minding her own business. As to what he did what she did over there that divorce, that's not your business. Allahu Taala mentioned in the Quran. Latter Kulu Colombina Ness Allah and Saddleman Folsom. Don't be like those people who you who believe. Don't be like those people forgot about Allah. So Allah caused them to forget themselves. Pointing fingers he did that. He went over there. He did that when she was like that she was what

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about you? You forgot yourself. You forgot Allah. You forgot that Allah said Pina will call is haram Riba is haram mean is haram, putting your nose in other people's businesses haram. Going outside of your ability is haram. Stick to your lane, talking about what you're talking about what you know about. You want to get down. That's from your business, but it's from your business.

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is relatively speaking don't go beyond your ability.

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So that's one of the great benefits of minding your own business.

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I give you a number of examples of that. Just to remind you, the event goes off. And the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, anyone who repeats what the oven said.

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And then he makes the DUA add to the oven, then maybe we'll come yomo piano and give intercession for you. SallAllahu it was something like that first Hadith I mentioned. When the people go to the prophets, they'll say not me, not me, myself, myself, myself. Then you go to the Nebby of Islam, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and you are a person who committed me just since

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you're a person who missed some here and there, you did some things that you know you did, then maybe we'll make intercession for people who they deserve to go into the hellfire. But because they made that do it and repeat it what they then said, he'll stop you from going into the Hellfire bylaws permission, he'll get you out of the hell fine. So there's a person who's listened to the event, and he repeats it. And then there's the other person over there talking nonsense.

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He's in the masjid, on his mobile phone, reading, watching gossip or that which doesn't, but that's an example of forgetting yourself. Right now. Everybody is sitting right here, minding your business, was minding your business, getting down, giving dower getting knowledge, sit in the circles of knowledge, educating ourselves about the religion, getting these a hadith explain about our religion as your business is wedging. The Muslim, male and female, they have to get knowledge is

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wedge it upon everybody, according to your ability. So everybody is sitting here, there is that person who wants to sit over there. And I'm not talking actually about the 810 people over there. There's just an example. They don't sit in the measures. They sit over there on the wall. And they are talking again about Peter will call the leader of Saudi Arabia did that. They chopped that man up in the embassy and they did that. And over there, he's doing this and he's doing that he did

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that. Yeah, he that's not your business. Because you are busying yourself with something else you are missing out on that, which is your business, learning your religion.

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So in terms of the for one of this hadith, the benefits, they are a lot. The second one that we want to mention is when you find a person who is nosy newsy, he wants to know the news of everybody. Everybody. He's nosy, she's nosy.

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When you find that, that process, it makes people fall into what is haram. Because in mind and other people's business is superior than having bad opinions. Because you don't know the whole story. It ain't your business. You don't know all of the details. So you're always talking about a fraction of the problem. So you have some truths. And there are many truths that are concealed from you. And you're talking about it so you fell into suit oven you fell into he said she said you fell into

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Heba, Reba, you're making viva, what is the Rebbe mentioning your brother or your sister with that? They do not like what you're saying, in their absence. That's what you're doing that when like you're talking about the affairs. So that's what mine and other people's business being nosy. That's what it does. Not to mention, not to mention, it creates enmity and animosity between the Muslims and our religion, the A Hua, being brothers bringing brothers in this religion. It is a sacred

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institution, we compromise it. We compromise this issue of I'm your brother, and you're my brother, none of you truly believes into you love for your brother, what you love for yourself. The Muslim is the brother of a Muslim. He does not hurt him with his tongue or with his hands. We compromise that day in and day out. From the time we wake up in the morning to the time we put our head on that pillow. We are compromising that except those people that Allah Allah had Rama on them, save them

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divining. So when people hear this man is talking about me, This man said this, and the news came back to me, I'm gonna be upset, you're gonna be upset.

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It's all haram. And one of the worst issues talking about Allah's religion. And we have a lot of people as the Prophet said about this time sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a young tipo de hydraway vida. Kala remember to be a little wavy the jasola covered Raju taffy, yet the kalam fee shouting and I'm one of the signs of yomo piano is that the ignoramus, the miscreant, the real ignorant person, the riffraff an ignoble person? I'm talking about that cat who's under the foot? He's

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nobody. Absolutely nobody. He's talking about the affairs of the general people. It's like Who were you? For you to be?

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so opinionated and so authoritative on this issue with that issue, you're brand spanking new Muslim. You're brand spanking them how much Islam Do you have? And you're talking about these big issues at Joshua tideal He's a Catholic. He's a millennial. You don't know your elbow from your ankle bone and you're talking about that big issues give him fatawa

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If blood comes out of your body you get a cut blood comes out. You break your will do when you get that from I heard it somewhere. Come on, man. You heard it somewhere. It's not Christianity, Judaism. Talk with knowledge about the deen say what you know and if you don't know to remain silent, call in nama Hara Mara BL for wash, ma vara manava button while efma While Berea beraten Huck we're in we're in to shoot khubilai maalim units will be Suparna will enter Kulu Allah Allah

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Hema Allah Tala moon, tell these people Muhammad are your Lord, you want to know what he made haram. He may haram and for why he's doing the LU DS and the lewd acts whatever they happen to be, it could be Xena. It could be adultery, it could be masturbation, it could be looking at pornography, it could be talking nasty on the telephone, all of that stuff is for why hitch all of that. And Allah may haram that you will press people and your oppression can be apparent and it can be hidden.

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People don't know that you're oppressing them stealing their money doing all kinds of stuff.

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And also haram for you that you loan me Haram is for you to make * with Allah and the last thing and it's the point for you to say about Allah what you have no knowledge about.

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We have fitna Allah said in the Quran about this fitna how we are being nosy. What Jana bought the company back then fitna 10, a Tourist Bureau. What can rob welcome basura you people Allah has made some of you are fitna for others. We are fitness to each other.

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Your own family, your children are fitted for you. Your wife is a fitna for you. And it doesn't necessarily have to be bad. You should be educating them. You shouldn't be roughing tough with that doesn't necessarily have to be bad that the way they behave. If they're behaving badly. The wife is going against your command. That's a fitna, but it doesn't just mean that something negative. So fitna, Allah is going to question me I'm not married to the mother anymore. I have to take care of

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him. I gotta be in contact with me. I will sama so we may you people fitness to one another. And this thing is a fitna brother. It is a fitna being nosy stay out of my business man, manual.

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But he's a fitness for me. And you're fitting for him as well, because he's enticed by your situation to talk about it.

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Big, big, big, muscular. So as it relates to the issue of the benefit, there are many.

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The third must lie that we want to mention is that this hadith of 20 shows the importance of guarding your tongue.

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From the characteristic of the Muslim is you have to guard your tongue. And it's directly connected to this because when you mind other than your own business, you're going to speak about it. You're going to talk about people and their issues.

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Look at all of the is a Hadith connected to how the tongue is connected to the fitna.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam, he said similar to this hadith, let's get to the Hadith men Hosni Islam in Morocco terrco Humala Yanni from a person's good Islam is him leaving along that which doesn't concern him. There is another Hadith and Al Imam brought in his Musnad, another Hadith similar to it. Men Hosni Islam and Mark Terkel, Kalama LaVilla Yanni, from a person's good Islam is him leaving alone and abandoned in the speech that has nothing to do with him.

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Because the speech is the thing, more than anything else, when your mind and people's business, you're going to talk about it, you will act on it in other ways, you'll act on it in other ways. inside your heart, you may start to dislike him, you acted on it. Inside your heart, you may boycott them.

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You didn't say anything, but for the most part, your tongue is going to manifest this fitna of talking about people because you're mine and other people's business. Look at another Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she said to one of the companions, his mother side that died, one of the tremendous companions from the prophets, companions and then in Medina, he helped Ellis lamb he was the leader. People came as Muslims because of him tremendous man, he died. His mother

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was there when he died, and she knew all of his virtues of what the Prophet said about him. Salah

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Allahu it was the mother say yes side. Yes side. Don't worry because you're going to Jana. Prophet Muhammad says so many positive things about you. Yes sir. Don't worry, because you're going to Jana. The Prophet heard her say a statement

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that he wasn't happy with. He said your massage mama you drink a mother of son. How do you know he's going to Jana the Allahu to Kalama be calaman Men Malam Yanni, it may be their side spoke about some Qalam that had nothing to do with his business.

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Big muscular, big, muscular, that companion, who the Prophet said all those positive things about him, Salah Who are you selling, maybe he said something that wasn't from his own business as a result of that. Allahu Taala will do this, Allah will do that with him. So the mother spoke without true knowledge, clear knowledge. Don't say that. Then that being said, don't talk like that sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the thing that he pointed out, maybe he said something that was not

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from his business.

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Another example of that is what if Allah tremendous Hadith and the times of fitna look at the advice the Naseeha and number we hear is from the Muscat of a Naboo from the Youngberg of a Naboo from the world of prophecy, the Lenten of prophecy that gives light kala sallallahu alayhi wa sallam during the times of fitna unsick illegally Sanic Well, yes, Bay Touka well yep Chiara.

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The Nabi says Allah Allahu Allah He was during a time of fitna, when things are ASA bass up people are fighting. You know this fitna between Salafi that stay out of the AQIS You stay out of it.

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Take care of your family and learn your religion. And he both sides alone in this issue, don't add to it. He said during the time of fitna, hold your tongue, don't talk. Number one. Number two, let your home house your own house. Let that house be the place where you are at and cry for your own sins and your own mistakes.

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You know that hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he told us companions, it that the mentor role when it comes to sadaqa doing good start with those who are under your supervision and your authority. I want to give money to the Muslims in China, and they deserve it. I want to give money to the Muslims in Syria, and they deserve it Well, like I want to give money to this project and that project and they deserve it. But how in the world am I going to give $1 One pound Wendy not how

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I'm going to give that to somebody and my own family they're in need. He says Start with your own family. Protect your own family. Cool and fusuma athlete Canara we're called to her NASA Ijarah save yourself save your families from the Hellfire whose fuel is men and stones. Start with your own family, the best dinner that you can give them sadaqa you said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the dinner that you spend on your family first.

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Another Hadith or the either the Quran that Allah described the believers the bad man his worshipers were either Maru beloved we Maru ki Rama. The real true servants of Allah those people when they pass by vain speech, vain actions, they pass by with honor and nobility, people in the month of Ramadan and Coventry roll. I don't make playing dominoes haram. You normally mix up those dominoes and stuff you get some you get some and you'd be slapping them down like that. I don't make that

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haram. People want to play spades and he slapped the cards down and they take the book I don't make that Haram as long as it's not accompanied by gambling, enmity, animosity, fighting, wasting time and the month of Ramadan. That's right around the corner inshallah. Right around the corner. Our Street right here coming to roll is packed down and I'm delivered during the night during the night time. And people are wasting time. The believers are those people Kate, I want to go get some tea.

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You know that tea that to give me a nice drink. They said a little vignette. Diwali is what it's called. What's that? What's that tea call?

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No shame. I didn't eat but there's another Indian and him and him. He wants to go get that tea. I have to turn away. He wants to go get that tea. He sees all those people. People you know, hey, I want to come on over here. Wherever Maroubra luckily, Maru Cyramza I call you tomorrow, man. sulamani

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He doesn't go over there and sit down and get involved wasting his time. People playing cards smoking cigarettes, just hanging

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that's a description that Allah azza wa jal gave the true believers. Don't waste your time and don't let other people waste your time mining what is not your business mind and what is not your business? Another must la quani. And this is really important, another must and I really want you reverse to pay attention to this.

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This hadith goes to show that the Islam of each and every one of us, it goes up and it goes down.

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It goes up, your Islam goes up and it goes down. There are different levels of people's Islam. You can be on a high level Islam at the beginning of the year, and you could be on a low level of Islam at the end of the year. before Ramadan comes you can be on a low level of Islam. But when Ramadan comes you're on a higher level of Islam. There are Hassan El, there are SIFAT mawatha fact descriptions. There are signposts that show a person has good Islam and bad Islam, for example, the

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five pillars of SLAM if someone is doing that, that's a sign he has good Islam, especially Salaat. In salah the fajr prayer, he's not praying for on time him his wife, family, they're not praying for John time. I don't care what you say sell if you sell it, I don't care what you say. I don't care what you say what I say. If a person is not getting up for some item fidget his Islam is weak.

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And that's the amazing thing that I know I don't make a lot of fidget it's not a part of who I am. And the Prophet says I'm Allahu alayhi wa salam ala Salah to you, if you're keen Salat al Fajr. Most heavy is difficult salah and the hypocrite is the fajr prayer can get up especially right now five o'clock, five o'clock where we are in Liverpool and then five o'clock so not to finish at 515 Ramadan, it's going to be 434 o'clock and Shala and he or she doesn't get up for Salah and we're

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talking about people he's more Teddy and he's this he's that he's this He's that man, you got one of the series characteristics of the Manasa T. But the one who prays the one who makes such the the one who makes it recall that's a sign you got Islam.

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Better worry, Dane, taking care of your parents, whether they're Muslims or non Muslims is a sign you got good Islam, being negligent as it relates to your parents is assigned to Islam as the eighth.

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Taking care of the Amana having suburb being truthful, the woman wearing hijab wearing hijab, that wife whole her husband got married to a second wife or he wants to get married to a second wife. She may not like it but she says this is from the Dean brava just feel law and I'm going to feel Allah and I'm going to support this situation. I'm not going to kick off, but the one who kicks off and she acts in a way that the Prophet said don't do that. Men have been Ratana Anana Zoji la Samina

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any person who causes a woman to be divorced from her husband is not from us. So the first wife tells the husband if you marry her, I'm bouncing and rolling out with these kids.

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You better divorce her you can't do that. Now I'm not telling anybody to get into this situation. What I'm saying is, this is from Alice lamb. So the Muslim he loves everything from Islam he accepts embraces it, it may not be his cup of tea, that I want to do this particular thing Sajid I don't want my husband to have a second life. But if he did it he had the ability to do it from your goodness land is that you have suburbs and you do what you talk to the right minded people who you

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know, don't talk to the shayateen.

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And there are many examples. As for the weakest slab, the weakest lamb, it's the opposite of everything we just mentioned. The weakest lamb, making Rebo making the Mima stealing lion not taking care of the Amana not being clean

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from a person's weakest lamb is this phenomenon of a Jehovah ideal the way it is. People get close to Allah azza wa jal killing Muslims like ISIS, and people get close to Allah azza wa jal eating the flesh of other Muslims by saying you're an innovator, he's a character he's this he's that.

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Your goodness man, minute own business, take care of what is in front of you. Take care of your own family is more than enough to keep you preoccupied. The next issue

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concerning this issue that we just mentioned good Islam bad Islam for the reverse pay attention to this.

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Abdullah Dyneema spruit may Allah be pleased to him and what was collected by the Imam Bukhari and Muslim he asked the Prophet

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A very important question. Question saw Selim that is important to us reverse.

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And the Companions used to ask the right questions. asking dumb questions is from a person's bad Islam from a person's good Islam is leaving that which does not concern him. So why skin questions that have no benefit? Is from this issue. Abandoned questions that have been in no benefit. Which foot to the people go into gender with the right foot or the left foot? Your knowledge of it doesn't increase you anything your your ignorance of it doesn't harm you. People ask questions that are

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difficult to perceive. Difficult? What are you asking that question for? If the sun rises from the West, and sets in the east? How do we fast in the month of Ramadan? See on the pm if that happens when you're asking a question for the sunrises in the West, and sesame Eve? How do we do the soul for future?

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Don't ask those kinds of questions. The scholars of the self when people used to ask questions like that they used to say did that thing happen yet? This thing you're asking about didn't happen? No, it didn't happen. It's a hypothetical question. You say, leave me until it happens. We'll cross that bridge when we get to it.

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We'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Abdullah you must order in the Companions may Allah be pleased with them. They used to ask intelligent questions. Yeah, Rasul Allah when his yomo Kiana and one was being asked the question that was just as much as the one who was asking the question, I don't know. Well, what are some of the signs I need to know?

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Ya rasool Allah, which person will be entitled to your intercession more than everybody else? They used to has really intelligent questions. Ya rasool Allah, which person from amongst us as the most beloved to you. They want to know what is beneficial. They didn't ask those questions that brought no benefit in the deen in the dunya. One time he came out to them, and he told them sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were of the Allah who I knew my aim. Verily Allah has made Haji obligatory upon

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you, towards the end of his life. Hajj is obligatory upon you, a man said, do we have to make Hajj every year? Prophet Muhammad told them Salah what he was selling to all the people Verone Morocco. Leave me as long as I leave you, because the people wouldn't be for you that you hold them in Masada. They were destroyed. Because of the excessive questioning. Musa you told us to slaughter the cow. What color's the cow? What day should we slaughter? Well, does that just slaughter the cow man?

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Don't keep asking them questions.

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So the companions are dwama why I named him especially the big ones who have been with the newbie for time. They didn't ask those questions that didn't bring benefit. The new Muslim who came out of the desert is a brand new Muslim Rhodiola and home, they may ask questions that some people will laugh at. Because they used to love to hear the questions of the Bedouins because the companions the major ones, they were shy to ask those kind of questions. So I've been lobbying my school sejahtera

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Sula, Hull

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Bhima Amina Phil Jaya Helia ya rasool Allah, will we be held accountable and responsible for what we did in Jahai Lea, before I became a Muslim, will Allah cause me to be accountable for the abortion the person you killed? The Weed used to smoke you know, you robbed people. You was cheating you was doing that? All of the craziness in the madness that is part and parcel the hierarchy of a Jamelia what Allah make us accountable for that. The Prophet he says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam among men

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Ascena men Khun al Islam Falaj you be women Assa okay that the Amity he filled Jaya Helia Well, Islam pay attention you reverse. When I be told that people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam desert alone.

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He said, As for the people from amongst you, that people will monks you whoever I center Islam or who like the Hadith men host me Islam and mark from his good Islam. He said anybody who makes his Islam good, he does good Islam,

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then he won't be held accountable for what he did in Janelia. But anyone who comes in to Islam, and he still messing up the way he used to doing Jay Haley, and he really didn't change that much. He'll be held accountable for what happened in Jamia and what happened in Ellis lab. Now I know it's going to come to some of your minds that famous Hadith ah

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amor even allows the tremendous companion may Allah be pleased with him when he was about to die, or he thought he was going to die. He thought he was going to die. So he said to the Prophet on what he perceived and thought was his deathbed.

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Ya rasool Allah.

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I want to make a condition. I want to come into a slam, but I want to make one condition Allah. Muhammad said, what's, what's that condition? He said, the condition that Allah forgives me for everything that I did before becoming a muslim. He asked him the question sallallahu alayhi wa salam, O Allah Tala min Islam, you blow, don't you know that al Islam wipes away everything that went before. So many of us say, once you become a Muslim, your slate is wiped clean, and you're like

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a newborn baby. And we hear people say that, but it's not true open ended like that. You have to add that hadith that I just told you about. Abdullah, we must Oh, will we be held accountable for what we did in Janelia? Anyone who perfects his Islam, and that's a sign in Islam. He won't be held accountable for what he did in January. Yeah. But anyone who carries on the way he did, and Johanna is still doing that. He just took a Muslim name. He's a real Muslim. He goes to Juma. He does their

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eat. He named his children Muslim names. He doesn't kick he does all of that. But still, he's getting high.

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He never stopped smoking blunts, never stopped smoking blunts from Jaleesa into his lab that had he said he'll be held accountable for what he did in January and in Slack. So how do we harmonize the two Hadith? Because they may seem to conflict, one says Islam wipes away everything that went before it. The other Hadith said you will be held accountable for what you did in January. If you do bad in Islam. The meaning of the Hadith al Islam wipes away wouldn't be for it. If a person has cam in El

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Eman, his Eman is complete. This hadith said from a person's goodness lamb is for him is for him

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to leave alone that which is not from his business. So if he is mine and others people's business, it's not the best Islam for him. He's not complete in his Islam because he's doing something that takes away from his perfection in endless land. That's a sign you Islam is not complete.

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So the reverse we have to keep that in mind. We come into Islam as Allah commanded Yeah, you're Lavina ammonoids Hello facin me cough button will tell you how to what to shaytaan in no hula Kuma do womb moonbeam. Oh you believe enter into al Islam wholeheartedly, wholeheartedly. plural wives is from Al Islam sister. The woman getting in line with her husband is the Imam. Her husband is the Emir. She has to change that personality of being shot with a tongue hot temper, thinking she's the

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boss and she's wearing the pants. I can't use that word pants anymore. So we save America. She's wearing the trousers because somebody told me when I say pants, they think I'm talking about the undergarments. She's wearing the Charles's in the house. No, she has to rectify that personality. And the man is well, in Jay Haley, and Jay Helia. He didn't want to work. He didn't want to get out there and grind and hustle, take care of himself be self sufficient to the best of his ability. So

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he comes into Islam. And he goes with Jamaat to belief in America. Because I saw this with my own eyes. He connects himself with Jamaat to belief in America. He doesn't learn his religion. And he travels to Pakistan in Java suits this German and do that. What do they call the HD man in Bangladesh in this way over he over there and he's sleeping in the masjid. He doesn't have to work because you get fed in the masjid all these places that you go, No, man, you gotta get out there and

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get a job. Don't be lazy like that.

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So as it relates to the issue of a person's good Islam, good Islam, our Islam, some Islam. It is Hi, Kevin SummerSlam is weak. Just like Al Eman, Le Man goes up. And Al Iman goes down people on different levels as it relates to the Islam and the Eman last issue concerning this the last point the last must Allah

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that is the must have when a person is practicing this hadith right here.

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He'll be taken care of the importance of his time

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is an Arabic word I want to teach you guys today inshallah. We're going to ask you this word next week. I'm going to say it I want you to say it is is stiff. Marv is stiff ma I'm gonna see you say it's stiff ma

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Good job. Someone say is this MA is stiff ma

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I see your muscles jumping man when you do that, mashallah is stiff Ma

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is stiff minus 20 it means

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to invest in your time. Like when you invest money in a project in a business, that's istithmar, you put your money in a business and you expect to get profits and returns. You have to get istithmar from your time. They said about the time that the time is like a sword. If you don't cut it, it's going to cut you. Right now. The time is nine o'clock UK time nine o'clock. This Thursday, Friday now Friday. We're not going to see it again. We're not going to see Wednesday. We're not going to

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see Tuesday. We're not going to see Monday. I was born March 10. On Sunday, Sunday 56 years and past in my life. I'd say we're at a time where did that time go? And Islam 1986 Psalm 22 Something like that. waited all that time go. None of it is coming back. None of it. Not a single second is coming back. So this is the small it's diff mod of your time. Getting knowledge giving Dawa it Allah reading the Quran make him thicker make a Toba pondering contemplating what you did what you're

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trying to do. Allah azza wa jal has sworn by different parts and aspects of the time because it's important. He swore by the Fidget time, he swore by a boo ha time, you know the morning right before her he swore by that time. He swore by law firm he's fought swore by a lay of the night time because important and look at the Hadith that we took already. In this book. You had this class. The Prophet says Allah Allahu alayhi wa ala it was selling them to Slimming cathedra near mutton milk boom fee

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Hema cathedral Mennonites. I set her to well Ferrara, there are two favors to Netmums that Allah has given people that most many of the people are losers in these two phases to to nema. And we got a lot of Nemours nem of our children, 14 sons. That's a NEMA.

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He has four kids, five kids, six kids, seven kids. He's married. He's not single anymore. We have stability, we have enough to eat. We're gonna go home tonight Inshallah, those of us who did not eat, we're gonna have some food to eat. I gotta get back to Liverpool. I get on a train and go back to Liverpool.

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Where there are two Netmums that many of the people, they are losers in it. First one, good health. Having good health.

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Right now for a lot I was thinking. I'm feeling okay. Right now, at this age, although I'm out of shape and I'm working out. I'm out of shape. But my sciatic nerve is not bothering me. I don't have a slipped disc in my back. Well, Hamdulillah

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I don't get migraine headaches when Hamdulillah I can still pray standing up my knees and not bother me no arthritis. But the time is going to come in sha Allah Allah wa salam where my health is going to be compromised, and maybe it's being compromised right now. I just don't know about it. Then I save us from cancer and those kinds of diseases. There are people right now who was suffering from mental health issues. So you got to take care of yourself, brother. I got to take care of myself.

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These diets that we're doing, then we start suffering from bad health. And then you lay back and you say you're late to the kingdom to the hayati like the I said the man is oh how I wish I sent something for it I would have did better. It's too late now. You got emphysema because you smoking cigarettes or whatever the case happens to be good health. You got good health. Go ahead brava and, and take advantage make it stiff mod of your time.

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Learn the Quran, go to the Dallas, go to Mecca make aamra make highchair. Do something with your time. The second one he said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam good health and being free having free time.

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He said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam let his owl cut the Magne. Adam, lattice Zulu cut Mabini Adam had to use Allah and our robot.

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Son of Adam, the daughter of Adam, the son of the daughter of Adam, their feet will not move your MO Kiama until they're asked about four things never had he had said five, you're not going to move from in front of Allah be in question. One of those things are going to be asked, What did you do with your free time? What did you do with your youth? What did you do with your money? What did you do with your good health? You're going to be asked about that question. So you have you have free

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time right now. Free time right now. You're not busy. You don't have children. Right now. You're not even married right now. Learn your religion.

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Connected ties and relationship, getting where you fit in and try to do some things that are going to benefit you like this what we see about Syria,

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a lot of people are taking these goods over to Syria, and distributed, distributed them amongst the needy over in Syria, now that they're in the heart of the winter. They always needing young people to come and fill up the container. They need young people, they need people to go over to Syria, to help put that stuff out. Now, I'm not talking about going over to get in Syria and get lost in a sauce and you wind up with Dinesh lost in a sauce doctor, you trying to come back now. So we have to

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give a whole book by Why don't you go over there? We're not talking about that. We're talking about you going to Syria, for humanitarian aid, like some non Muslims do.

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Whatever you can think of you should do that. So in conclusion, what if Allah, I, yo, Isa,

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take advantage of your time. That's a sign of a mature man, a responsible man. And another thing, and I am with this, you know, a lot of the people of the dunya, who we look at as being successful because they got money. Some people the money just fell into their lap. They just were born in the lap of luxury. It's just like that Allah decreed that that's how it happened. But a lot of those people were hard workers. And when it came to the time, they didn't mess around

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the entrepreneurs who are the cream of the crop. If you read those stories of those people, even the majority mean the criminals, singers, these people, rappers, these people, people just think you get out there and become famous just like that. Now you got to work.

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People work hard. I'm not condoning that. I'm not telling you work hard to become a rapper. I'm telling you there is a principle and that principle is in this universe, that principle, if you work hard, harder than everybody else, you'll get out of your efforts more than what other people are getting out. Some of us want to look back, sit back, maximum relax, like the Prophet says Salatu was Salam ala Turkey in the Kumala

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do not allow any of you to relax and to recline on his couch with a full stomach.

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And he says whatever comes to me from the Quran, I'll believe it and I'll take it whatever comes to me from the Sunnah I won't take it from Muhammad said that the Sunnah I make halau like the Quran, make Halal haram like the Quran make haram. So the point is, he didn't do any work. He's living an apple and lazy lifestyle. Rasul Allah says, yawning is from the shape Bong. So when you yawn, keep your mouth closed or cover your mouth. Why is it from the shape on? It's a sign of over eating? It's

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a sign of laziness. It's a sign of being tired, and the Muslim is the person who's getting up and he's making things happen. He's making things happen.

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So take advantage of the time take advantage of your time. This is what we want to present today we ask Allah azza wa jal to put Baraka, now's the time, the time of our Shabbat. And we ask Allah subhanaw taala give us good health and the Shabbat we're growing up good health, and that he helps us to practice this hadith. Mine your own business Yahi talk about what's going to benefit you in this dunya or in the Ashira. Now, before I forget, some people may say some people may say,

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Well, I'm not giving down with Allah, He sees something going wrong. He said, That's not my business.

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That's not my business. I see something, it means I'm robbing my roof, I have to command the goods that the evil he says that's not my business. That's not what this hadith is talking about. That is your business. Now. The example of those people who fall into what is haram.

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And those people see them falling to what is haram is like the example of a group of people who boarded a ship.

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Some of them were on the top of the ship, and the other group were on the bottom of the ship.

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The people of the bottom of the ship, whenever they want to drink water, they have to come up to the top of the ship and disturb these people wake them up, step over them, step on them fall on one of them, wake them up, his head hit his head. So people on the bottom came up with this idea. Look, instead of going up on the top of the boat, this top of the ship and disturbing our brothers. Let's just dig a hole right here in the ship and get the water directly from the ocean. The other people

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say that's a brilliant idea. So they started digging a hole. Can you imagine they started digging the hole making a hole in the wood in the ship. The people on the top heard it. They said

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What's the noise? They went down here? And they said what you doing? They said we're gonna get our own water. They stopped them and said Man, you

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Can't do that. You want to destroy all of us, Prophet Muhammad said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, if the people on top of the ship, if they did not grab them and stop them, they would have destroyed themselves and they there was destroyed the people on top of the ship. So when the society if the people are not giving Dawa not giving the see her not advising and under my roof and then we move on, then the fitness going to hit everybody. For total fitness for Taco fitna. I let the lie to see

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bender levena vulnerable men come ha. So beware of the fitna that will not only hit the people who are doing the fitna, it's gonna hit everybody. If we don't make a statement about our S E.

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It's gonna hit everybody. You guys right now you're not even married. You're not married.

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You don't have any children. But you will one day have some kids. So you can say I see them got nothing to do with me, has everything to do with you when you're looking down the line, but some people we only see the front of our noses, some can't even see that. Some can't even see that. So this hadith doesn't mean be afraid, be scared to give a doubt Allah and to make this wedge above under my roof and namely mukha as for the person who doesn't have the ability to stop it with his

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hands, he speaks out about it. He doesn't have the ability to speak out about it. He hastened his heart, but he can't be one of those people. He's always hating his heart. And Allah is Allah, an island have a wa salam O Allah who was selling Mubarak out of Nibi Vina wa early he was hobby Jemaine was sent on mighty Kamara to La he Roberta cat.