The Islamic Personality – Episode 20

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Minding Your Own Business

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And Abby Herrera todo de lo and who are not also less Allah La vida cinema can mean Hosni Islam in Turku Mariani rolton me de la you

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see la malar Haman hamdu Lillah wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Rasool Allah He Ummah bound to

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come to the hadith of today's dose. Well known famous Hadith and Eman And no, we brought it in the book 40 Hadith.

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And the 40 Hadith al Imam and know regarded the 40 Hadith that he concentrated on gathering that deal with the gioi man and kill him.

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So I will share ideal halaby haffi the hula has brought this hadith in the book because we're dealing with the issue of the Muslims personality.

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And today's How do you think honey is a tremendously important Hadith, like the Hadith that have passed in last few weeks and I'm talking about a hadith that is extremely important, and it's critical that we study it, we learn it, we remind each other of it because the vast majority of people are falling into the opposite of this hadith except those people that allies who don't have rock upon them.

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And that is a hadith in which the nibi mentioned some lava it was seldom from a person's good Islam from the proof that a person's Islam is good his hosting al Islam is that he abandons and he avoids that which does not concern him. Want to repeat that again. A messenger of Allah He says Allah Allah while he was sending them from a person's good Islam, from the fact that a person's Islam is good, he's a good Muslim from that is that he should avoid those things that are not his business. So the ideal halabi Rama to lie and he called this chatter, and Muslim and Muslim one movement lays to be fully the Muslim from his characteristic is that he's not nosy

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he minds his own business. This is what this hadith is talking about. Men Hosni Islam in Turku mala Yani

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tremendous Heidi, what is the meaning of leaving alone, those things that don't concern him, it means a lot of things. Leaving alone that which does not concern you, it means mine and other people's business when you have more than enough issues in your own personal life.

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It means engaging in those things that won't bring you any benefit in the dunya or the ahera.

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like wasting your time

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watching TV programs that bring no benefit, they don't raise your level of awareness or consciousness. They don't remind you of a lot. surfing the internet and wasting time watching movies, watching football, watching basketball, watching baseball, watching cricket, playing those things is one thing, but to sit three hours, two hours and a half, five, six hours to watch the NFL Super Bowl. That is you're not minding your business because your mo kiama you're going to be asked about your business.

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This Hadith also means falling into level level is again, anything and everything that brings you no benefit in the dunya on the Hera doing all of those things that are problematic. Talking about allows religion without knowledge is paying attention in mind and other than your business given foot towards, like on the social media culture that the millennials have right now is that everybody is free to give his opinion, your mind and other than your business because you're not that dude, you're not that guy that should be given opinions. You should be quiet. Because you don't know what you're talking about.

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This Hadith is a serious Heidi for us, our wives and our children. Mind your own business. Don't be nosy, certain asking and talking about so and so's divorce. so and so's problem, so and so's issue. And it may be true. But it's not your business. You're not actually you have nothing to do with the problem. Mind your own business. That's the deal that you have good Islam. And the opposite of that is a de Lille you have bad Islam. Although you may say I'm selfie. And although you may say I'm a lawyer, you may say I'm sorry, I'm a dying I'm a shill. If you want individuals talking about people and people's issues, this ruler, the hacking the hacking like Saudi Arabia, or anywhere for that

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matter. He did this he did that he did this he did that he did that he that they said that's not your business.

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That's not me defending him as such. That's not me defending him. Because some of our Chabad because of the cultivation and the Tao of the political groups, they understand from this statement of mine, that I'm defending him, I will defend him as I'll defend any Muslim when they deserve it. The point that I'm making is you are throwing your good deeds away to people who, maybe they don't deserve them because you're making Riba is not your business, preoccupy yourself with those things that are going to benefit you in the dunya in the era and as I said, most of you, I don't know your names, many of you I do. There's not a single person here except that we all have more than enough to deal

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with and our own situation, that there's no time for anyone here to get your nose involved in someone else's business.

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Look at the importance of the issue, because I want to deal with five massage. A lot can be said but I just deal with five massages before we get to those inshallah Yeoman piano. The different people from the nations will go to the profits, I mean the different people from our community, they will go to the orderlies and men are also aisa over the oil as a mineral so who are they the five major prophets who are they?

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Selling water salatu wa he was Salam O Allah. Nor Ibrahim

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Musa Raisa and Mohammed salatu wa he was Salam wanting not Adam don't mention Adam from them but good job son.

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The people from this oma will go to Adam. Oh, our Father Adam, we got all this trouble. I got a lot of issues. I need your help me intercession. Adam is going to say no is going to say knifes enough. See Neff. See I got my own problems.

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That's a nebby saying I got my own issue. I'm happy to be responsible for all of my people and what I did and what I didn't do.

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And it goes down the line. Each of one of those profits is going to say knifes, enough's enough, see my own problem. Go to the next one, go to the next one, go to the next one. When the people from this oma go to Isa, and this is gonna say, hey, go to Mohammed. And then the prophets Allah Allah, what do you send them will make intercession? The point is and the showerhead is the prophets and the message best people they're going to say, myself, myself, myself. yomo Kiana. The idea of the Quran Allahu taala mentioned only a federal woman, he will only be wasafi but he will Benny, the Columbian men whom you met in Shetland, me, on that day, yo kiama, every single person that people

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except the ones that are not blessed, they were running away from and they would avoid their brother. They're gonna run away from their mother and their father, they're gonna run away from their dad, their brother, their friends, they're gonna run away from their children. Allah said on that day, every single soul will be concerned about itself. And you got to be cursing people. You're going to be cursing your companions who got you involved with a lot of canal that had nothing to do with you in that making took fear of people start your business. Nobody made that your job to make took fear. Nobody made that your job in the city of Birmingham. In the comfort of momos you're up

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there eating, drinking, making takfeer or a judge what ideal snatch your business. You're not the man for that job. It's not your job.

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To as it relates to the issue of this Hadith, honey, this is an important Heidi, the scholar said that it is a Aslan from the soul of an edit. It's one of the foundations foundations from the foundations of good manners as a Muslim.

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Good manners. So as it relates to the issue, we don't want to be like the people going to come your milk cow and they're gonna be jammed up. Five issues we want to deal with today and Charlize with Joe. The first one is

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we're gonna let you know right off the bat, right off the top. This Hadith is difficult to practice. Difficult meaning it's possible but it's difficult because it requires some discipline. It requires discipline and we're not disciplined people. We're not disciplined. When it comes to eating. We're not disciplined when it comes to our lifestyle. We're not disciplined when it comes to just doing the things we need to do. We are living in a culture where everybody is running buck wild, even the people who are trying to be religious. It requires discipline. Only the ones that are like isn't tofi can do it.

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It is difficult. In order to do this and practice hard if you're going to have to make some serious changes, like, you're going to have to start to cut off most of your friends, because they waste your time. What you in them engage yourselves and what we talk about. Much of it is none our business, just kicking the Willie Bobo on just chewing the cud. Talking about issues and people and affairs, it's not your business. As simple as that, if you're going to practice this, Heidi, you're going to have to stop speaking half of the time that you actually speak some people two thirds of the time, because most of what you're talking about, it's not your business. It has nothing to do

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with what's going to benefit you in the dunya. Or in the accurate, you're just saying column faram column that has no benefit whatsoever. That's the first point that we want to mention. I want to say this, make it very clear, as it relates to us hub companions, the best companion that you can have during these times the times of social media, the time of fitna is you have to make that call on your companion, because that Koran is not going to fail you, those of us who are married, those of us who know how to read the Quran, you're trying to learn how to read the Quran. If you read one Jews every day to the best of your ability, you and your wife, you and your family every day, you

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kept up with today's date in the Arabic In the Arabic calendar, because you know what juice you're on. So you know, it's the 14th it's the second it's the third day of Ramadan, because you spend one hour or less to read one juice per day, every year. You've been married for three years, five years, 15 years, 20 years. You don't complete it, the Quran and all of that time. The Quran won't tell you as for the people, most of our companions, it's not your business. That's the first point. It's not easy. And in order to do it, there has to be drastic changes in the person's life. You got to cut people off and I don't mean be antisocial will be nasty, but you got to really evaluate Who are the

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people that are surrounding you. The people of ketover call Heba Nima Michelle, just as that's that's what it is. second issue with honey,

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is that there are a lot of benefits and this Hadith of the nippy sound a lot Why do you say a lot? we'll mention two benefits of this Heidi just two and there are a lot I mean, firstly, Islam in Turku mala Yani from a person's good Islam is him avoidant, and abandoning that which does not concern him, it's not as business gonna not gonna benefit him in the doing your the act of not gonna affect his family in any positive way. One of the benefits of it is, if your mind in other people's business, you're going to neglect your own.

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By default, you're going to neglect your own business. And as I said, I don't know all of you people, I don't know. But one thing that I know is the son of Allah and His creation. Everybody here as I sit here, everybody listening, everybody tuning in to this dose right now, every woman, every man, every teenager, every older person, you got more than enough in your own life. You know, the problems you got with your mother, or your father, what's going on with your sister or your brother, or your cousin or yourself? Where do you get the time? What do you get the time to mine other people's business and to put your nose in other people's business?

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And you know, where I come from, and I think it's here in the West as well. You know, we say, men who talk a lot, pillow talk and talk about people. That's a characteristic of women. That's something that they do. And this is something that we have to remind our women don't mind other people's business. Take care of your own business. She's on the horn. She's talking to her girlfriend, about this one, that one this one that one is she went to clean up the house, cook for the kids helping with their homework, whatever. She'll be minding her own business. As to what he did what she did over there that divorce, that's not your business. A lot of the time I mentioned in

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the Quran, latter kulu colombina Nestle La Jolla and Salomon for some Don't be like those people who you who believe. Don't be like those people forgot about Allah. So Allah caused them to forget themselves. Pointing fingers he did that. He went over there. He did that with she was like that she was what about you? You forgot yourself. You forgot Allah. You forgot that Allah said Pina will call is haram Riba is haram. Naming is haram, putting your nose in other people's businesses Haram. Going outside of your ability is haraam. Stick to your lane. Talk about what you talk about what you know about. You want to get down. That's from your business, but it's from your business.

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Relatively speaking, don't go beyond your ability.

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So that's one of the great benefits of minding your own business.

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I can do a number of examples of that, just to remind you, the event goes off, and then maybe says something a lot who it was selling them, anyone who repeats what the President said.

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And then he makes the do I add to them, then, then maybe we'll come yomo piano and give intercession for use of the law while he was selling like that first Hadeeth I mentioned, when the people go to the prophets, they'll say, not me, not me, myself, myself, myself. Then you go to the nebbia of Islam, Mohammed Salah who it was saying, and you are a person who committed me just since

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you're a person who missed some here and there, you did some things that you know you did, then that be will make intercession for people who they deserve to go into the hole fire. But because they made that do I, and repeat it what have been said, he'll stop you from going into the Hellfire by lost permission, he'll get you out of the hell fight. So there's a person who's listening to the event, and he repeats it. And then there's the other person over there talking nonsense.

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He's in the messaging on his mobile phone, reading, watching gossip, or that which doesn't. That's an example of forgiving yourself. Right now, everybody is sitting right here, minding your business, was minding your business, getting down, giving down, getting knowledge, sending the circles of knowledge, educating ourselves about the religion, getting these a hadith explained about our religion is your business is wagging. The Muslim, male and female, they have to get knowledge is wagging upon everybody, according to your ability. So everybody is sitting here. There's that person who wants to sit over there. And I'm not talking actually about the 810 people over there. There's

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just an example. They don't sit in the matrix. They sit over there on the wall. And they're talking again about Peter will call the leader of Saudi Arabia did that. They chopped that man up in the embassy and they did that. And over there, he's doing this and he's doing that. And he did that. Yeah, he that's not your business. Because you're busying yourself with something else. You're missing out on that, which is your business, learning your religion.

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So in terms of the format of this Hadith, the benefits, they are a lot. The second one that we want to mention is when you find a person who was nosy, nosy, he wants to know the news of everybody. Everybody. He's nosy, she's nosy.

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When you find that, that process, it makes people fall into what is haram. Because in mind and other people's business is sooner than having bad opinions, because you don't know the whole story means your business. You don't know all of the details. So you're always talking about a fraction of the problem. So you have some truths. And there are many truths that are concealed from you. And you're talking about it so you fell into suit oven you fell into he said she said you fell into Heba Heba you're making Viva, what is the Rebbe mentioning your brother or your sister with that? They do not like what you're saying, in their absence. That's what you're doing. They wouldn't like you talking

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about the affairs. So that's what mine and other people's business being nosy. That's what it does. Not to mention Not to mention, it creates enmity and animosity between the Muslims and our religion, the A who are being brothers being brothers in this religion. It is a sacred institution, we compromise it. We compromise this issue of I'm your brother, and you're my brother, none of you truly believes in to you love for your brother, what you love for yourself. The Muslim is the brother of a Muslim. He does not hurt him with his tongue or with his hands. We compromise that day in and day out. From the time we wake up in the morning to the time we put our head on that pillow.

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We are compromising that except those people that Allah Allah had Rama on them, save them divine me. So when people hear this man is talking about me, this man said this and the news came back to me I'm gonna be upset, you're gonna be upset.

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It's all Haram. And one of the worst issues talking about a lot is religion. And we have a lot of people as the Prophet said about this time someone loved what he was saying them a young, Wolfie hydraway Buddha, Kayla, remember there'll be a way B the yard also law collar Roger Lu tacky, yet the column fee sharpening I'm one of the signs of yomo piano is that the ignoramus, the miscreant, the real ignorant person, the riffraff and ignoble person. I'm talking about that cat who's under the foot? He's nobody. absolutely nobody. He's talking about the affairs of the general people. It's like Who were you for you to be?

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All opinionated and so authoritative on this issue of that issue. You're brand spanking new Muslim. You're brand spanking them. How much Islam do you have? And you're talking about these issues at Joshua tideal. He's a Catholic. He's a man.

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You don't know your elbow from your ankle bone and you're talking about that. big issues given fatawa

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if blood comes out of your body, you get a cut blood comes out. You break your rule. When you get that from, I heard it somewhere. Come on, man. You heard it somewhere. It's not Christianity, Judaism. Talk with knowledge about the deen say what you know, and if you don't know remain solid. Call in namaha Rama Robbie alfawise. Mahara minyama button will will Berea be Raven Huck when when to shampoo bigger MLM units lB suparna en Taku Allahu Allah tala mon tell these people Mohammed or your Lord you want to know what he may Haram. He may haram and for whitish doing the Lu DS and the lewd acts whatever they happen to be it could be Zina. It could be adultery, it can be masturbation,

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it could be looking at pornography. It could be talking nasty on the telephone, all of that stuff is for why hitch all of that and allow me haraam that you will press people in your oppression could be a parent and it could be hidden. People don't know that you're pressing them stealing their money, doing all kinds of stuff.

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And also heroin for you that you love me heroin is for you to make chick with a lot and the last thing and it's the point for you to say about a law that you have no knowledge about.

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We have fitna Allah says in the Quran about this fitna how we are being nosy. What Jana Bardot Cooney, Bogdan Nathan at us be wrong. What can I rub bukem basura you people Allah has made some of you are fitna for others, we are fitness to each other.

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Your own family, your children are fitted for you. Your wife is a fitna for you. And it doesn't necessarily have to be bad. You should be educating them. You shouldn't be roughing tough with them doesn't necessarily have to be bad that the way they behave. If they're behaving badly. The wife is going against your command. That's a fitna, but it doesn't just mean that something negative. So fitna law is going to question me I'm not married to the mother anymore. I have to take care of him. I gotta be in contact with me. I will sama so we may you people thickness to one another. And this thing is a fitna brother. It is a fitna being nosy stay under my business man. Manual.

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But he's a fitness for me and your fitness fame as well, because he's enticed by your situation to talk about it.

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Big, big, big mosquito. So as it relates to the issue of the benefit, there are many.

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The third must ally that we want to mention is that this had effect when he shows the importance of guarding your tongue.

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From the characteristic of the Muslim is you have to guard your tongue. And it's directly connected to this. Because when you mind other than your own business, you're going to speak about it. You're going to talk about people and their issues.

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Look at all of the Hadith connected to how the tongue is connected to the fitna.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam, he said similar to this Hadith, let's get to the Hadith men Hosni Islam in Morocco terrco Humala Yani from a person's good Islam is him leaving along that which doesn't concern him. There's another Hadith that may broaden his Muslim add another Hadith similar to it. Men Hosni Islam and Mark turtle, Callum and lavilla yani from a person's good Islam is him leaving alone and abandoned in the speech that has nothing to do with him.

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Because the speech is the thing more than anything else, when you're minding people's business, you're going to talk about it, you'll act on it in other ways, you'll act on it in other ways. inside your heart, you may start to dislike him, you acted on it. inside your heart, you may boycott them.

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You didn't say anything, but for the most part, your tongue is going to manifest this fitness of talking about people because you're minding other people's business. Look at the other Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she said to one of the companions, his mother side that died one of the tremendous companions from the prophets, companions and then Medina. He helped Ellis lamb he was the leader. People came as Muslims because of him tremendous man, he died. His mother was there when he died, and she knew all of his virtues of what the prophet said about him Salah

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Why'd you send the mother say yeah, sad? Yeah, sad. Don't worry, because you're going to Jenna. Mohammed says so many positive things about you. Yes, sir. Don't worry, because you're going to Jana. The Prophet heard her say a statement

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that he wasn't happy with. He said, Yeah, massage. You drink a mother of side. How do you know he's going to gender law? I don't know who can lemma be kelemen mingma Lamia knee, it may be that side spoke about some cannamd that had nothing to do with this business.

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Big mosquito big mosquito, that companion who the Prophet said all those positive things about him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Maybe he said something that wasn't from his own business as a result of that. Allahu taala will do this. Allah will do that with him. So the mother spoke without true knowledge, clear knowledge. Don't say that. The Navy said Don't talk like that. So I love what he was saying. And the thing that he pointed out, maybe he said something that was not from this business.

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Another example of that, what if you learn tremendous Hadith in the times of fitna look at the advice than the Seahawks and number we're, it's from the mascot of a Nebraska from the younger of a Nebraska from the world of prophecy, the Lenten of prophecy that gives light color sallallahu it was setting them during the times of fitna unsick la Cali Sonic Well, yes. Bay Touka Chiara t attack.

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The Nabi says Allahu alayhi wa sallam during a time of fitna, when things are as a base up people are fighting. You know this fitna between salovey that stay out of it. You stay out of it.

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Take care of your family and learn your religion. And he both sides alone in this issue. Don't add to it. He said during the time of fitna, hold your tongue, don't talk. number one. Number two, let your home house your own house. Let that house be the place where you are, act and cry for your own sins and your own mistakes.

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You know that Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu semi told us companions, it that the mentor role when it comes to sadaqa doing good start with those who are under your supervision and your authority. I want to give money to the Muslims in China, and they deserve it. I want to give money to the Muslims in Syria, and they deserve it Well, like I want to give money to this project and that project and they deserve it. But how in the world am I going to give $1 one pound one day not how I'm going to give that to somebody and my own family. Very nice. He says start with your own family. Protect your own family. Cool and for Sakuma Lee canara waku Hannah, super ijarah save yourself, save your

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families from the Hellfire whose fuel as many stones start with your own family. The best dinner that you can get on Saturday you said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the dinar that you spend on your family first.

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Another Hadith or the IRA the Quran that Allah describes the believers the bad man his worshippers when he there Maru, belagavi, Maru ki Rama, the real true servants of Allah those people when they pass by vain speech, vain actions, they pass by with honor and nobility, people in the month of Ramadan on Coventry road, I don't make playing Domino's harangue. You normally mix up those Domino's and stuff you get some you get something and you'd be slapping them down like that. I don't make that haraam. People want to play spades and he slapped the cards down and they take the book I don't think they're wrong. As long as it's not a company by gambling, enmity, animosity fighting, wasting

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time in the month of Ramadan. That's right around the corner inshallah. right around the corner. Our street right here coming to you roll is packed out and I'm doing that during the night during the night time and people are wasting time. The believers are those people okay, I want to go get some tea. You know that tea that the Yemenis drink? They settled over the the lollies what is called What's that? What's that tea call?

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No.

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I didn't but there's another Indian Elmo him and more him. He wants to go get that tea after tomorrow when he wants to go get that tea. He sees all those people people you know hey, I want to come on over here. Wherever Maru be lovely Maru Kira, Maya, I call you tomorrow, man. filarmonica.

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He doesn't go over there and sit down and get involved wasting his time. People playing cards, smoking cigarettes, just hanging out.

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That's a description that Alize which gave the true believers Don't waste your time and don't let other people waste your time mining what is not your business mind and what is not your business. Another must lie ohanian this is really important another muscle I really want you to reverse to pay attention to this.

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This Hadith goes to show that the Islam of each and every one of us, it goes up and it goes down.

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It goes up your Islam goes up and it goes down. There are different levels of people's Islam. You can be on a high level Islam at the beginning of the year, and you're gonna be on a low level of Islam at the end of the year. before Ramadan comes you can be on a low level of Islam. But when Ramadan comes on a higher level of Islam, there are Assad in there are see fact mawatha fact descriptions. There are signposts that show a person has good a flag, and berries land for an example, the five pillars of slam, if someone is doing that, that's a sign he has good Islam, especially salaat. And insula, the Federal prayer, he's not praying on time him his wife, family,

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then I pray and fetch on time. I don't care what you say sell if you sell it, I don't care what you say. I don't care what you say what I say. If a person is not getting up for Salatin fetcher, his Islam is weak.

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And that's the amazing thing that I know I don't make a lot of budget. It's not a part of who I am. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam escolar salatu

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salam most heavy is difficult salah and the hypocrite is the fudger prayer can't get up, especially right now five o'clock, five o'clock where we are in Liverpool, and then five o'clock, so that'll finish at 515 Ramadan, it's gonna be 434 o'clock inshallah. And he or she doesn't get up for salah and we're talking about people. He's Teddy and he's this he's that he's this he's that man, you got one of the series characteristics of the Manasa key, but the one who prays The one who makes such that the one who makes you recall that's a sign you got Islam.

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Better while he deign taking care of your parents, whether they're Muslims or non Muslims is a sign you got good Islam. Being negligent as it relates to your parents is assigned us lambs by efe

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taking care of the Amana having suburb being truthful, the woman wearing hijab, wearing hijab, that wife who her husband got married to a second wife, or he wants to get married to a second wife. She may not like it but she says this is from the dean Brava just feel Ah, and I'm gonna feel a lot and I'm gonna support this situation, I'm not gonna kick off, but the one who kicks off and she acts in a way that the Prophet said don't do that. Men have been rotten, Atlanta zoji la samina

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any person who causes a woman to be divorced from her husband is not from us. So the first wife tells the husband, if you marry her, I'm bouncing and rolling out with these kids.

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You better divorce her, you can't do that. Now, I'm not telling anybody to get into this situation. What I'm saying is, this is from Alice lamb. So the Muslim, he loves everything from Islam he accepts embraces it, it may not be his cup of tea, that I want to do this particular thing Snagit I don't want my husband to have a second life. But if he did, and he had the ability to do it from your goodness lab, is that you have summary. And you do what you talk to the right minded people who you know, don't talk to the share thing.

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And there are many examples. As for the weakest land, the weakest lamb, it's the opposite of everything we just mentioned, the weakest lamb, making Heba making the Mima stealing lion, not taking care of the Amana not being clean.

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From a person's weakest lamb is this phenomenon of a jar ideal the way it is. People get close to Eliza, Joan killing Muslims like ISIS. And people get close to lies with Joe eating the flesh of other Muslims by saying you're an innovator. He's a caffeine he's this he's that.

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Your goodness, man, minute own business, take care of what is in front of you. Take care of your own family. It's more than enough to keep you preoccupied. The next issue

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concerning this issue that we just mentioned good Islam bad Islam for the reverse pay attention to this.

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Abdullah Dyneema spruit May Allah be pleased with him and what was collected by the Imam Bukhari Muslim he acts the Prophet

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Very important question, so I sell him that is important to us reverse.

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And the companions used to ask the right questions. Asking dumb questions is from a person's bad Islam from a person's good Islam is leaving that which does not concern him. So asking questions that have no benefit is from this issue. Abandoned questions that have no benefit.

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Which foot to the people go into gender with the right foot or the left foot? Your knowledge of it doesn't increase you anything your your ignorance of it doesn't harm you. People ask questions that are difficult to perceive. difficult. What are you asking that question for? If the sun rises from the west, and sets in the East? How do we fast in the month of Ramadan? shomo Pm if that happens, we asked you that question for the sunrises in the West, and sets in the east. How do we do the soul for fetcher?

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Don't ask those kind of questions. The scholars of the self when people used to ask questions like that. They used to say did that thing happen yet? This thing you're asking about didn't happen? No. It didn't happen. It's a hypothetical question. He say, leave me until it happens. We'll cross that bridge when we get to it.

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We'll cross that bridge when we get to it. I beleiving was older and the companions may Allah be pleased with them. They used to ask intelligent questions. jasola when is yomo Kiana? The one who's being asked the question knows just as much as the one who was asking the question, I don't know. Well, what are some of the signs I need to know?

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Your rasulillah which person will be entitled to your intercession more than everybody else? They used to have really intelligent questions. Yeah. And also the law, which person from amongst us as the most beloved to you. They want to know what is beneficial. They didn't ask those questions that brought no benefit in the deen in the dunya. One time he came out to them and he told them some love while he was Salaam. radi Allahu anhu

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Verily Allah has made Hajj obligatory upon you, towards the end of his life. Hajj is obligatory upon you. A man said, do we have to make Hajj every year? Prophet Mohammed told himself Allah what he was sending to all the people verone Morocco. Leave me as long as I leave you, because the people wouldn't be for you. They are who them Asara. They were destroyed. Because of the excessive questioning Moosa, you told us to slaughter the cow. What color's the cow? What day should we slaughter? What does that just slaughter the cow man? Don't keep asking them questions.

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So the companions Rwanda, why Allah him, especially the big ones who have been within the before time, they didn't ask those questions that didn't bring benefit. The no Muslim Oh came out of the desert is a brand new Muslim, rhodiola and home, they may ask questions that some people will laugh at. Because they used to love to hear the questions of the Bedouins. Because the companions the major ones, they were shy to ask those kind of questions. So I'm delighted to say jasola Hello

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Bhima Amina Phil j helia

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rasulillah will we be held accountable and responsible for what we did in j helia. Before I became a Muslim, will Allah cause me to be accountable for the abortion the person you killed? The weed used to smoke you know you robbed people you was cheating you was doing that all of the craziness in the madness that is part and parcel the high active agenda here. What a law make us accountable for that. The Prophet he says Allah Allah who it was seldom a mom and a center min Khun LS lamb fillet you be her woman.

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Oh, he that the AMA de fille Jay Haley, will Islam pay attention you reverse. When I be told that people someone loved what he was telling him?

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He said, As for the people from amongst you, that people amongst you, whoever are center Islam or who like the Hadith men Hosni Islam and Mark from his good Islam. He said anybody who makes his Islam good, he does good Islam,

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then he won't be held accountable for what he did in janelia. But anyone who comes in to Islam, and he's still messing up the way he used to doing Jay Z, and he really didn't change that much. He'll be held accountable for what happened in Jamia and what happened in Ellis lab. Now I know it's gonna come to some of your minds that famous Hadith

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amor Eben allows the tremendous companion may Allah be pleased with him when he was about to die, or he thought he was going to die. He thought he was going to die. So he said to the Prophet on what he perceived and thought was his deathbed

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jasola

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I want to make a condition. I want to come into Islam, but I want to make any condition and Allah. Muhammad said what was that condition? He said the condition that Allah forgives me for everything that I did before becoming a Muslim.

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He asked him the question sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah tala men in the slammer, you mechanical blue. Don't you know that Ellis lamb wipes away everything that went before. So many of us say, once you become a Muslim, your slate is wiped clean, and you're like a newborn baby. And we hear people say that, but it's not true open ended like that. You have to add that Hadith that I just told you about. Abdullah soul, will we be held accountable for what we did enjoy here? Anyone who perfects Islam and does a sign in Islam? He won't be held accountable for what he did in janelia. But anyone who carries on the way he did, and yeah, he's still doing that. He just took a Muslim name. He's a

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real Muslim. He goes to Juma he does. He he names his children Muslim names. He doesn't. He does all of that. But still, he's getting high.

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He never stopped smoking blondes never stopped smoking blunts from Jay Haley into his lab, that He said he'll be held accountable for what he did in January. And so how do we harmonize the two Hadees because they may seem to conflict. One says Islam wipes away everything that went before the other hand, he said you will be held accountable for what you did. And generally, if you do bad in Islam, the meaning of the Hadith al Islam wipes away wouldn't be for if a person has camee lie, man, his Eman is complete. This headset from a person's good Islam is for him is for him

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to leave alone that which is not from his business. So if he is mine and others people's business is not the best Islam for him. He's not complete in his Islam, because he's doing something that takes away from His perfection in Ellis land. That's a sign us lamb is not complete.

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So the reverse we have to keep that in mind. We come into Islam as Allah commanded Yeah, you're levena am an otaku. facin mikheyev fatten will add to who to watershape on in no hula Kuma do mubin Oh, you who believe entering to Islam wholeheartedly. wholeheartedly. pluraleyes is from Allah Islam sister. The woman getting in line with her husband is the man. Her husband is the Amir. She has to change that personality of being shot with a tongue hot tempered, thinking she's the boss, and she's wearing the pants. I can't use that word pants anymore. So we say from America, she's wearing the trousers, because somebody told me when I say pants a thing to talk about the undergarments. She's

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wearing the Charles's in the house. No, she has to rectify that personality. And the man is well, and Jay Haley and Jay Haley. He didn't want to work. He didn't want to get out there and grind and hustle, take care of himself be self sufficient to the best of his ability. So he comes into Islam. And he goes with Jamaat to believe in America. Because I saw this with my own eyes. He connects himself with Jamaat to belief in America. He doesn't learn his religion. And he travels to Pakistan in JavaScript this Jamaat and do that what do they call the HTML? In Bangladesh in this way over he over there and he's sleeping in the masjid. He doesn't have to work because he gets fed in the

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masjid. All these places you go, No, man, you gotta get out there and get a job. Don't be lazy like that.

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So as it relates to the issue of a person's good Islam, good Islam, our Islam, some Islam it is hi canon. Some Islam is weak, just like la man and the man goes up and he man goes down people on different levels as it relates to the Islam MBE man, last issue concerning this the last point the last must Allah

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that is the must have when a person is practicing this Hadeeth right here.

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He'll be taking care of the importance of his time

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is an Arabic word I want to teach you guys today inshallah. We're going to ask you this word next week. I'm going to say it I want you to say it is his stiff Marv is stiff Mar I'm going to see you say it's stiff mark.

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Good job. Someone say is this man is stiff man.

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I see your muscles jumping man when you do that my shala is stiff ma

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is stiff Monique honey it means

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to invest in your time. Like when you invest money in a project in a business, that's a stiff man. You put your money in a business and you expect to get profits and returns. You have to get a stiff Mark from your time. They said about the time that the time is like a sword. If you don't cut it, it's going to cut you. Right now the time is nine o'clock UK time nine o'clock. This Thursday, Friday now Friday. We're not going to see it again. We're not going to see Wednesday. We're not going to see Tuesday. We're not going to see Monday. I was born March 10. On Sunday, Sunday 56 years then passed in my life. I see where that time where did that time go? and Islam 1986 and 22

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something like that. Where did all that time go? None of it is coming back. None of it. Not a single second is coming back. So this is the smart it's smart of your time. Getting knowledge giving down evil law reading the Koran making the Quran make a Toba pondering contemplating what you did what you're trying to do. Allies or gela has sworn by different parts and aspects of the time because it's important. He swore by the time he swore by a boo ha time you know the morning right before he swore by that time. He swore by law for his for us war by a lay of the night time. Because important and look at the head effect we took already in this book. We had this class, the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam to Sleeman kathira Matan maka Boonen Fie Hema Cathedral millionaires are set to hold forever. There are two phases to netlist that Allah has given people that most many of the people are losers in these two phases to NEMA. And we got a lot of numbers, nim of our children, 14 sons, that's a NEMA

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has four kids five cases case seven kids, he's married. He's not single anymore. We have stability, we have enough to eat. We're gonna go home tonight inshallah, those of us who did not eat, we're gonna have some food to eat. I got to get back to Liverpool. I get on a train and go back to Liverpool.

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But there are two networks, that many of the people they are losers in it. First one. Good health. Having good health.

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Right now for a lot I was thinking. I'm feeling okay. Right now at this age. Although I'm out of shape, and I'm not working out. I'm out of shape. But my sciatic nerve is now bothering me. I don't have a slipped disc in my back. Well, hamdulillah

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I don't get migraine headaches with hamdulillah I can still pray standing up my knees and I bother me no arthritis, but the time is gonna come in sha Allah, Allah wylam where my health is going to be compromised, and maybe it's being compromised right now. I just don't know about it. Then I save us from cancer and those kinds of diseases. There are people right now who are suffering from mental health, all kind of issues. So you got to take care yourself, brother. I got to take care myself. These diets that we're doing, then we start suffering from bad health. And then you lay back and you say you need to leave it at the I said the man who said Oh how I wish I seen something for you I

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would have did better. It's too late now. You got emphysema because you smoking cigarettes, or whatever the case happens to be good health. You got good health. Go ahead brother and and take advantage make it stiff more of your time.

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Learn the Quran, go to the Davos go to Mecca May Allah make hij do something with your time. The second one he said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam good health and being free having free time.

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He said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam let us cut them or add them Adam Latta Zulu Padma bunny Adam had to use an arrow back.

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son of Adam, the daughter of Adam, the son, the daughter of Adam, their feet will not move Yokoyama until they're asked about four things never had he said five, you're not going to move from in front of Allah being question. One of those things are going to be asked, What did you do with your free time? What did you do with your youth? What did you do with your money? What did you do with your good health? We're going to be asked about that question. So you have you have free time right now. free time right now. You're not busy. You don't have children. Right now. You're not even married right now. Learn your religion.

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Connected ties and relationship, getting where you fit in and try to do some things that are going to benefit you like this what we see about Syria.

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A lot of people were taking these goods over to Syria and distribute, distributed them amongst the needy over in Syria, now that they're in the heart of the winter. They always needing people to come and fill up the container. They need young people, they need people to go over to Syria, to help put that stuff out. Now, I'm not talking about going over to get in Syria and get lost in a sauce. And you wind up with Dinesh lost in a source directory, you trying to come back now. So we have to give a hope about why did you go over there? We're not talking about that. We're talking about you going to Syria, for humanitarian aid, like some non Muslims do.

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Whatever you can think of you should do that. So when concluded a hotel Villa, I, yo Raisa,

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take advantage of your time. That's a sign of a mature man, a responsible man. And another thing, and I am with this, you know, a lot of the people that dunia who we look at as being successful because they got money. Some people the money just fell into the lap. They just were born in the lap of luxury is just like that I lied to create that. That's how it happened. But a lot of those people were hard workers. And when it came to the time, they didn't mess around

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the entrepreneurs who are the cream of the crop. If you read those stories of those people, even the majority mean the criminals, singers, these people, rappers, these people, people just think you get out there you become famous just like that. Now you got to work.

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People work hard. I'm not condoning that. I'm not telling you work hard to become a rapper. I'm telling you there is a principle and that principle is in this universe, that principle. If you work hard, harder than everybody else, you'll get out of your efforts more than what other people are getting out. Some of us want to look back, sit back, maximum relax, like the Prophet says sallallahu wasallam laget Tolkien kumala ricotta he do not allow any of you to relax into reclined on his couch with a full stomach.

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And he says whatever comes to me from the Quran, I'll believe in I'll take it. Whatever comes to me from the sooner I won't take it from Mohammed said that. The sooner I make halau like the Quran, MiG tau i make haram like the Quranic Haram. So the point is, he didn't do any work. He's living an opulent lazy lifestyle. Rasul Allah say, you're learning is from the shape barn. So when you yawn, keep your mouth closed or cover your mouth. Why is it from the shape and it's a sign of overeating. It's a sign of laziness. It's a sign of being tired, and the Muslim is the person who's getting up and he's making things happen. He's making things happen.

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So take advantage of the time take advantage of your time. This is what we want to present today. We asked Eliza gel to put Baraka now a time time allowed with Chabad and we asked allows Hannah with Allah give us good health and the Shabaab who are growing up good health, and that he helps us to practice this hadith mangyan business.

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Talk about what's going to benefit you in this dunya or in the era. Now, before I forget, some people may say some people may say,

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Well, I'm not giving down a lot. He sees something going wrong. He said that's not my business.

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That's not my business. I see something, it needs to be maroof at the command the goods that evil, he says that's not my business. That's not what this hadith is talking about. That is your business. Now. The example of those people who fall into what is haraam?

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And those people will see them falling to what is haraam is like the example of a group of people who boarded a ship.

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Some of them were on the top of the ship. And the other group were on the bottom of the ship.

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The people at the bottom of the ship whenever they want to drink water, they have to come up to the top of the ship and disturb these people wake them up, step over them, step on them fall on one of them, wake them up his head hit his head. So the people on the bottom came up with this idea. Look, instead of going up on the top of the boat, this top of the ship and disturbing our brothers less just dig a hole right here in the ship and get the water directly from the ocean. The other people say that's a brilliant idea. So they started digging a hole. Can you imagine they started digging the hole making a hole in the wood in the ship. The people on the top hurting. They said what

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was the noise? They went down here? And I said what are you doing? They said we didn't get our own water. They stopped them and said thank you

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Today,

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you want to destroy all of us. Prophet Mohammed said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, if the people on top of the ship, if they did not grab them and stop them, they would have destroyed themselves and they was destroyed the people on top of the ship. So in this society, if the people are not given down and not given they'll see her not advising and Amber muroff and name mukha. Then the fitness going to hit everybody. For taco fit little left for taco fitna. I let the lie to see benalmadena varnamo men come Ha. So beware of the fitna that will not only hit the people who are doing the fitna. It's gonna hit everybody. If we don't make a statement about our s E.

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It's gonna hit everybody. You guys right now you're not even married. You're not married.

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You don't have any children. But you will one day have some kids. So you can't say aaRC then got nothing to do with me has everything to do with you when you're looking down the line, but some people we only see the front of our noses some can't even see that. Some can't even see that. So this Heidi doesn't mean be afraid be scared to give a doubt Allah and to me this wedge above my roof and naman mukha. As for the person who doesn't have the ability to stop with his hands, he speaks out about it. He doesn't have the ability to speak out about it. He hastened his heart, but it can't be one of those people who's always hating this heart and allows Allah an alum have mussulman law

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who will sell him by the cotton abena Why not early, he was hardy Jemaine was sent Imani Kumara to learn more about a cat