The Islamic Personality – Episode 21

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Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

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Loving & Hating for the Sake of Allah

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam ala rasulillah. It was Sakurajima in an Abu huraira todo de la

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la la bajada de la otra de la manera de la vaca Stedman email man.

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And hamdu Lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah he, Mr. Bowden.

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Come to the next Heidi has a connection to last week's honey.

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And it is the hadith of Abu huraira May Allah be pleased with him.

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I think that is authentic collected by Imam Abu doed and his son and other than an Imam Abu

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hanifa describes for us indicates for us the personality of the Muslim men and the Muslim woman. A description of the reality that the Muslim men and Muslim woman has to struggle for to obtain this man Zilla

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and to be able to swim and move stuff on which tebah Salalah while he was sending them he said, Whoever loves for the sake of Allah and he hates for the sake of Allah. And when he gives, he gives for the sake of Allah. And when he refrains from giving he refrains from giving for the sake of Allah, whoever This is his description, then his Eman is complete. Men have been in law he will have lava lilla he will occupy lilla he, woman and Milla he fucka distech Mela, a man who

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love for Allah hate and for a lot, when you give you give for the sake of Allah. And when you choose not to give you choose not to give for the sake of a lie anybody that is this situation. They are a man can lie man complete. Amen.

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diva nibi Salalah YT was sending them touches a lot of chapters, a lot of blab concerning the AB lab of Islam. The most important dorval Islam institution of Al Islam is a class. This Hadith is talking about doing things for the sake of Eliza gentle enough salatu wa nissaki mama, mama Mattila na here ablon me say, my life, my death, my Salah, my sacrifice, all of that is for the sake of allies with the Lord of all the worlds. So my sitting my stand in my walking my evening, my drinking, my anger, my happiness. All of that is for the sake of alliances, which of the positions that I take as it relates to things that unfold before me on a daily basis during the course of my life during the

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week. I'm going to take positions, positions that have been legislated by law sanctioned by law, I'm going to do my best to avoid those positions and those feelings and those emotions that are not in consistency with what lies revealed in what what the prophet brought some of the law while he was on it was settler must suffer. Am I being quiet is not because I'm scared and nobody's not because I'm scared of you. It shouldn't because we're scared of people, whether they be white people, black people, Muslims, non Muslims, older younger, must suffer my quietness is because of a lab leave that allows me to be quiet here and I have suffered here because it's going to bring about the best

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circumstances so everything that the Muslim does from his haircut and from his second act, all of his movements are four lines, whichever. And as the Prophet told the people to love what he was selling them for takuna Willow Bishop Tim Burton, fear the whole fire, even if it is with half of a date, try to get to the agenda and avoid the hellfire. Even if you do that, by utilizing something small and insignificant in the eyes of people, like a half of a date. Give that date and allow use of Hannah Montana for law with a golden objective of getting yourself and freeing yourself and emancipating yourself from the non agenda. And that's a lot that we do the childhood Italia to

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lillahi wa salatu wa piggybac this movement of the finger this small movement of the finger or keeping it straight As I see as being the Sunnah, then it besides Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam the here I should do Allah shape Bani Minal Hadid you doing that to he got to the law is more harmful and more heavy. It disturbs shape bond more than you've been able to hit him with an

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iron pipe. So I'm going to do that, and I'm going to teach it and I'm going to call to it, I'll make a football about it, for Allah sake, in order to raise the consciousness of the people without being afraid. Because my life and my death is for a lot, your dour, your naseeha, your positions for the sake of a lot, everybody in the office, everybody in the mistake, they're not in tune, and they're not on board with your point of view, I'm going to take a position against all of you, for the sake of Eliza Joe, provided that you really believe that your point of view is correct. That's what today's video is all about. So it touches the door of loss, do things for the sake of alliances with

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Joe, and don't do things for men and men know is when you do something for someone, you've approached him and you tell him at some time, don't you remember I gave you this? And I gave you that? Don't you remember who gave this and I did that? Because you want to be repaid for what you did. While if you did it for Eliza gel. You should never ever say to someone, don't you remember what I did this and I did that? Well, if you did it for lives with gel, don't destroy it by reminding me that you did it. Because one of the reasons One of the issues that will cause a person's DS to be refunded null and void. Another bad whiny that this particular idea touches is

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really important is the Bab of what our listener will not believe in the Muslims will find the truth, the Muslims who are buying the way of the singer, and that is that led men or faith belief. It goes up and it goes down. A person can be on a level of man and his faith is so strong and so high at one point that he's flying and soaring in the skies with the birds. And then his faith can be so low and he can be so down and depressed as it relates to his religion or her religion, that he's inside of the dirt in the mud. That's how he feels. So his Eman goes up by obeying Allah when he fasts the month of Ramadan. When he is an individual who's making the salaat when he fasts the

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days of the white days, the three middle days of the month every time you fast he obeys a lot. So as the man is going to go up when he reads the Koran learns the Quran his Eman is going to go up when he sits in the masjid and he says in the halaqaat his Eman knowledge is demand goes up. And likewise when he makes sense in mistakes, his demand goes down. When he makes Heba Nima he backed bites he slanders he lies he stills he does these issues that are against the dean whatever they happen to be disobeying the husband being rough and tough with the children being a person who's rough and tough with your wife being disobedient to your parents whatever you can think of those things cause a

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person's man to go down. So we have in the book of Allah the Quran meanie is that prove your demand goes up, meaning I got that proof your demand goes down. Maybe Heidi that proof demand goes up, meaning ahaadeeth approve your demand goes down. Eliza Jen mentioned in the Quran in me Noonan. levena eva bukiet Allahu YG let kulu boom. We're either to de la him. Who's that tune in manna? What Allah Robbie him Nia tawakkol verily the true believers, the real true meaning are those people who, when they remember Allah, if Allah is mentioned, when allies mentioned it, tequila, don't do that fear law. Stop doing that. Don't be angry, calm down and tequila. Don't say that. Don't do that.

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When that's mentioned to him, Allah said this, Allah said that is proving you wrong. His emang goes up when the ayat of the Quran or recited the recitation in the Quran today. We took about 15 minutes a little over 15 minutes to complete salata Alicia, the man that comes here usually our brothers aka law, me Eliza gel, have Ratan upon his mother and put into the genetic dose without any other boy he said, we're listening to the Quran being recited. We're not used to the person taking longer to the man, Zakat Allah so when we're here, the Koran, the person with Imani listens to the recitation of the Quran, he is he mangles up, the one who has some kind of sickness in his heart says, Why is he

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remained so long?

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Why is he taking so long we're not used to this. Know the believers of those people who, when the Ayat of Allah or read, it increases their Eman, that's an ayat of the Quran that shouldn't be rejected. Allahu tada mentioned something that happened with the companions and we have to remember this what happened in New Zealand. Those companions are at the wall ally. I lay him edge mine. They used to suffer the way we used to suffer

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A lot told us Do you think that you believe you're not going to be testing you're not going to be trying. Very little people came before you they were tested and they were tried, to the degree that the messenger that was with them was say along with the believers, when is the help of Allah going to come? It was difficult for those people used to believe. So the believers have always gone through drama. And we have those situations. So some of the non Muslims of Quraysh they came against the Prophet and his companions sallallahu alayhi wasallam were of the Allahu anhu. And a long time I mentioned that incident in the Quran. Allah Dena Kala humanize in NASA Capgemini Lancome, shell home

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for carlu highschooler Poseidon imana, makalu Espanola net men were killed. Those people who win the non Muslims of the Arabian Peninsula, all of them came together against the Muslims, all of them with the media, all of them with their army with their people with their racism, all of them with their double standards, all of them came against the massage king of the Muslims, few in number, they don't have a lot of ability, those people, the majority, they all came together, and then they knew that these non Muslims are going to come and get us. So some of the non Muslims said to the Muslims, hey, all of the Muslims, all of the non Muslims have come together and they're going to get

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you. They're going to extinguish your religion. They're going to polarize all of you each and every one of you. When the companions heard them say that to him. They said, Allah said their Eman was increased when they were told that by the disbelievers and they said, Allah is enough for us. And Allah is a great protector. He's the best protector. Why did they Eman increase the man increase? Because the Prophet told them this is what's going to happen to you

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has stabilized and you're

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known to the people think they're going to believe by just saying we believe allies going to test you to test the people who really believes from those people really don't believe.

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So these things that are happening. The Muslim he doesn't like it. He's upset about it. He saddened by it. He mourns at it. He's freaked out about what that man did. All of that happens, but at the same time, this is what a lion His Prophet told us was going to happen sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at this time that we're living, so it's not acceptable for the man to get on the member and to become emotional and start screaming and spitting hatred. plan to the emotions of the people. No, the man has to calm the people down and say to the people what the companion said has been a law when men were killed had the my wife de la la hora Sula, who this is what a lot his message I

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promise.

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So his Eman increases as a response to as a as a result of that. So the shade of all of that cut on many many I tell us that a man goes up when they beat all the people some of the love while he was selling authentic hadith Sahih Bukhari Muslim. Cada sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he man bittern was a tuna shoulda Allaha como la ilaha illallah wa at the NA ha Mr taco and authentic while higher short of a two minute Eman and Eman has 70 different levels and branches. The highest branch is La ilaha illAllah and la isla de la has conditions. La Isla de la has a meaning that ILA Halo law has knowledge and information, nothing can happen to you except by laws permission, will call Langmuir

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cebuana illa marketable law hulan. And nothing is going to happen to us, except what a law rule for us.

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What was meant to hit you, La ilaha illAllah is going to hit you, but was not meant to hit you La ilaha illa Allah is not going to hit you. So the man shouldn't come in and just play on the emotions of the people. The man should remind the people have those issues that will cause them to not become faint hearted not to behave in a way that's not acceptable not to apologize, neither.

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Alice lamb is for the future and the futures for Ellis lamb. No bullets can stop that no bombs can stop that no legislation can stop that. You and me We can't stop that.

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And if the believers and those who claim that they have a man, if we don't take this contract that Allah has taken from the believers, the contract that he took is that allow without as purchased from the believers, their wealth and themselves and they get the agenda in return. If they don't live up to that contract, then allow Tyler will replace them with the people who are better than them. I don't know about you, but I've suffered from

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Racism all my life. So it's not new to me. It freaks people out, whoa, they want to be like white people, they want to be like Europeans. So when something happens like that, you get disappointed and your heart gets broken. Because look what they're doing. They've been doing this to African Americans forever, tying them up by their necks and drive dragging them in the street in a car. This is how it is. We don't have a monopoly on that. We've been on press. So now that this issue has taken place, calm down, calm down. La ilaha illAllah. We going through more than what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam went through Canada will lie. When those companions went through that

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drama. When they went through that drama. They came and say God, oh, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la la jasola. Make dua to Allah. ask Allah to help us. The Prophet told those people Salalah who it was, sell them calm down and listen, listen,

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they were mega weak and oppressed, and people were killing that. He said, There used to be a man who was a believer in the past, the non Muslims would grab him and dig a hole for that man, put him in that hole. And then they would take a saw and saw him in half, they would take a hot comb and make that comb, pull his skin and his body and his meat off of his bones, separate him from his bones. And that would not cause him to leave his religion. He said, I swear by the one who my hand is in his soul.

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A man is going to come at the end of time. And he's going to walk from sinad to huddle remote, he's going to walk along distance, and he's going to have his sheep. The only thing he's going to be afraid of is the wolf eating his sheep. There's going to be afraid of non Muslims hurting him, shooting him killing him. And that's because al Islam was spread. He told his companions that and they were in Mecca getting killed. And he told us companion sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah can no come to study alone, you companions, you're in haste. You have to go through this thing, so that the tests will be there to see who truly believes. And who doesn't believe those people don't have real

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Eman. They're the ones who want to handle the situation based upon emotions and desires. And those people who have a man are the ones who handle things based upon knowledge based upon the example in the blueprint that the Prophet and his companions left for us, sal Allahu it was sent him someone from amongst you show me where your tooth got knocked out. As a result of the religion, someone from amongst you show me where your head got cracked open as a result of this religion. Someone showed me where one of your relatives died as a result of defending this religion. Now, it doesn't happen to us. This was a daily occurrence with the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi, WA, it was

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Salah, they shot him and killed me honey, from the Islam that the Prophet brought sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, your Eman goes up, and your emang goes down. So we have some white people who have embraced this religion, our brothers in this religion, are we going to hate all white people because the racist man did. That's all white people are bad.

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One of the lessons of this issue that took place is you see the evil of racism, that's the evil of racism. And then we come into our mission and our community. And we find racism amongst our own people, amongst our own people.

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So we have these new brothers, and we're going to tell these new brothers and Islam is not going to be a walk in the park for you. Your relatives will be upset with you and ask you why did you leave the religion of Christianity that you don't know anyway, and you went to the religion of the barbarians and the enemy, you have to be patient. You have to take it easy. And the man goes up. And then he man goes down. As it relates to the issue was on the table about loving for man hating for like honey, and this man came and explained to us about all of the emotions that the human being has to deal with. And Islam explained the emotion of love. If a person is sitting in this machine, and

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he doesn't love anyone and he has not been loved then he's not a human being. He's not going to really appreciate the true quality of life. If there's no one around him asking where you been? Where you going? When you come in back? How are you doing? If you don't love people, there's something wrong with your life.

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So while this man came, and he organized everything that we have to know about love, it showed us how to love how not to love what is love, what is the love that is acceptable and what is the love that is not acceptable? There is the love that is why magic you have to have it and then there is the love that is is haraam, you can have that love. So from complete love, complete

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Man is loving for a lot and hate him for a lot. As far as our adonia we are, there are two types of love The first love is the love that is the dunion love is just the natural love that people have. I love the color purple, that brother loves the color orange, he loves the color green, she loves black and so forth and so on. And you can't help it. He loves ketchup. He loves mustard. He loves Manny's, but he doesn't like ketchup. He doesn't like mustard. He doesn't like Manny's those things. People just can't help it. And you're not responsible for that kind of love. It's just something that a lot just gave people and he created people like that. And it's part of the life. The Prophet

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sallallahu it was setting them brought us the understanding of that. Anyone who does good to you, you're going to love them. Anyone who does bad to you in the dunya you're going to hate them. It's just natural the way human beings had been created. Allow suppiler what Allah has mentioned in the Quran concerning the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in some of his closest relatives who did not accept Ellis lamb in the manner that were akinola. Yeah, the manga Yeah, Mohammed, honey, you cannot guide to Ellis lamb those who you love. My mother didn't come to inflamm father and come to slam. My sister didn't come to slam novellas and come to a slam, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam, his uncle, his grandfather, they didn't come to a slam, although the Navy loved them, and they were now Muslims. You can guide those who you love. Why do you love them? Because that's my grandfather. That's my uncle. They treated me honorably. They're part of my Klansmen. They're the parents of my family, my parents, they're my parents, parents, and so forth and so on. It's natural. No problem. Everybody's gonna love his relatives. And I want to tell you reverse here, because I heard this recently. It's not permissible for you, to keep your parents outside of your potential marriage that you want to have with a lady or with a man. Yes, they may not necessarily have an

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opinion that you're going to listen to, but you have to honor them in that way. And don't come and say, it's from Ellis lamb to keep them out. You can't meet my relatives because they're not Muslims. No, you have to let me see your relatives as the will of the girl. I have to see the old relatives that see where you come from. And I have enough sense to not hold you responsible, that they are not Muslim. That's not your fault. But as the father of the girl to see what kind of cloth Have you been cut from? Are they drinking? I think drug addicts Have you having a dysfunctional lifestyle that you came from? From the love of the dunya? Is what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told the

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people when he said, by a layman to a tee when he said, Would you relate to Salah to me, what has been made loved to me from your dunya the junior love that everybody has is I love nice smells, and I love women. Meaning the benefits that you get from the companionship of a woman and the things that a man gets being complete as a result, as a result of marrying a woman. Whoever has gotten married, he has completed half of his Deen let him feel on the other half showing the importance of the Nika The point here is from your dunya people love women. Women love men. You love your children if something not you, zucchini and a nice hug Boucher, Hawaii men and Nisa. Well bethanien Allah

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said may beautify to the NASS Muslims and non Muslims. Sudanese is Nan Sudanese may beautiful to everybody is the love of women and children. Everybody loves that you have to be a Muslim. To be able to love someone is something natural, everybody has it. So another is a hadith woman iottie and kala, kala comin and fusi come as weijun with Jana bainer, commodity Rama in Fida Nicola, I attend niccone Kuru from the I add in the signs of Allah is that he has created from you, your mates, the test kulu la ha, so that you can have Sakina with this wife, she's from you. And Allah created her so that you can be calm, cool and collected. Why and as a result of being married, and a lot of

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places between you and your wives, love and Rama. That's not just for Muslims. That's not just for Muslims. Man, our Muslim parents have love for each other. Your non Muslim parents have lust for each other, no problem. So that is the love of the dunya and many other is that speak to this reality in this narrative, but there's something important we have to know about the dunia love and the doing your love is if it is not governed by this religion.

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And it is not looked at and practice and weighed by the religion, it will come your mukaiyama and it will be a cause of people's sorrow as a lizer dimension in many is the Quran, a Hilah Yama, even by the Holy Bible, I do enlighten

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those people were who were kellele is the Hulu, the one you love a lot. Those people had close bosom buddies and people they loved in the dunya yo kiama they're going to be enemies one to another. Except the people who have a taqwa. Those people who had tough one the love that they have, then that's going to be beneficial. Like we mentioned last week, the ayah or the Hadith that we took last week, we had mentioned that the Islam the Islam of a person goes up and it goes down from a person's good Islam is for him abandoning and leaving off what doesn't concern him if he does that he'll have complete Islam along with other issues. And from a people having sand and bath in his Islam is that

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he minds his own body minds, other people's business and so forth and so on. So as it relates to this issue, he man goes up it goes down, and part of a completely man is the second type of love. The second type of love and whiny is the love of this religion and loving people because of the religion and because of Allah. The Prophet told the companions a loved one he was seldom in them in the bad the law he tala Nason man whom bmbf shuhada in your NBA wushu had yo qiyamah be Subbu mechanically him, min en de la he supernova Allah, from the people are some people who they are not prophets, and they're not messengers, but the prophets and the Shahada. They will have jealousy of

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these people Yokoyama because of their relationship and their position that Allah has given them yomo Kiana when the companions heard that they say God also law Who are those people, that the prophets and the messengers will be jealous and envious of them? You'll know Kiana they're not prophets and the nice shuhada Who are they? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was setting them home comin to Habu Bureau, Hila Haney Erhan bainham they are the people who love each other as a result of Allah because of Allah, Allah told them your brother's one to another, so love each other as brothers, and they love each other as a result of the role of Allah as a result of what Allah has

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commanded. They don't love each other because of money. They will love each other because of any position or favors they're going to get. So that goes to show the position of loving and the virtues of loving for law as well. And not many people had that. We love people a lot of times because they're our relatives. We love people a lot of times because we're going to get some ulterior. We have some ulterior motive or we're going to get some benefit from the individual. But the Navy has informed as there are many many virtues of loving people. One of those virtues is what we just mentioned. You have completely men who have a loved swala he says a lot who it was setting them sub

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i Tania Villa Houma la houfy ville de Yama La Villa 11. Lo there will be seven people that Allah will shave them under his shade yo Kiana from the sun and the difficult nature of that day seven will be shaded from the sun and the heat and the problems on the day there will be no other shade to be found.

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To have those people we said Raja Lan, Taha ba fella, he, ah tener, la de Waterford, Raka LA, two men who love each other, just for the sake of Allah. When they used to come together, they used to come together because of their love. And when they were separate from each other, they will separate from each other because of that love. So it's something that needs to be cultivated. Something that means to me made to happen is part of the religion of the Muslim. When Abby mentioned to the people, so Allahu alayhi wa sallam, and he swore by Allah, whose hands his soul was in lanta total johnetta hotter to me no one took me no Hector to have you people will not go into Jenna until you believe no

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non Muslim is going to go into the agenda. And you will not believe until until you love one another. Shannon, I tell you that thing if you do it, of course you love one another. They said what is it God also law he says spread the salaams between yourselves. So the Huck that the Muslim has

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His Muslim brother, his Muslim sister, the sister and the other sister and the Muslim brother and so forth so on is that when we meet we greet, we give salaams. And we share sometimes you will not go into Jenna, if you're a disbeliever until the camel can go through the eye of the needle is haram and never happened. And you will not go into Jana, until you love one another. Should I tell you what will help you to love one another. Just spread this alarms to people just spread the synapse to people, people you know, and people that you don't know. So I will put out the companion app do live in the remainder of the learning whom, when they heard that Hadith, they used to go to the

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marketplace. And they used to say to the people, Santa Monica, Santa Monica, Santa Monica, Santa Monica, but in our community, like we have racism

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I won't give Salaam to the person who's not a revert. I'm born and raised in Islam, I'm Arab and Pakistani, I'm Somali and whatever. I won't give synonyms to the one who's not who's not from the Whizzer River. I won't give Samson non Arabs and on and on and on. That's how some people walk. They won't give you some lambs. And then we turn around and we say, look what happened in New Zealand. Look what happened in New Zealand? What's the difference? What's the difference is that we're not attacking people with weapons, but we're attacking people with the weapons of the chiffon that keep us divided and so forth and so on. So loving in the cause of a lack of money is from the most

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important issues in the life of a Muslim, he has to make efforts to cultivate it. He has to make efforts in order to make it something that is happening and then the Prophet when and he shifted to the next issue and the lot can be said about loving for the sake of Allah. He said you also have to hate for the sake of Allah. You have to hate for the sake of Allah. What is hate and for the sake of Allah,

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hating for the sake of Alliance, hating those things that Allah hates. hating coffee, Hainan ship, my family are disbelievers. I can help to love them naturally as my mother, my father, but I don't love the coffee, Nana love the ship. So I can't play keep them in their coffin in the ship. I can make them feel confident ship is easy, and I'm okay with it. I can act and hide my my Islam so that I don't get them upset. No, I have to give them doubt a lot in a nice way with my roof, I have to be with them. And I have to explain to them that this covenant is shipped that you people upon what you're eating, what you're doing, how you're dressing, what you're thinking, all of that is against

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the religion. And it doesn't mean you're nasty to your relatives. But you cannot conceal you can hide the DAO in the truth with the claim that I don't want to make the people upset, making them believe and think what they're doing is not that bad. I have relatives who are Muslims, but there are people of innovation. And I don't say anything. I let them do that and exist like that. No, you have to give him dour because Eliza Joe hates that. Look what happened the other day in New Zealand. It was a monumental, historical event, and that the parliament was opened by someone given the van outside and the parliament was opened by the recitation of the Quran. Did you guys see that? Did you

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guys see that? I think everybody saw it. But look at the Islam of today. Look at the Islam of today.

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Although we're happy for something like that, but when a man may be done, during the time of Abdullah bin Omar Abdullah bin Omar heard him make the event where he was singing. And he made a LAN tell him he didn't make the event that bira was making the event of Bilbao was so that the people can hear a man calling the event like a man not like a song. Not with a line where you make these long, elongating Oh, are you doing like that? And it becomes a beautification and it becomes a song and a dance, just like domestic. He said from the signs of yomo piano is that people will beautify the meshes and make zugriff in the

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big chandeliers, big member very expensive carpets this in that the Quran is written all throughout the mischief. The whole Quran goes around the whole wall of the mess. The whole Quran is written in calligraphy from there all the way around, but the people are not in the masjid. That's not what they must do this for.

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So when Abdullah and your mother heard that man made cumbia, then he finished. The man saw living room and one of the companions from the Redeemer, the son of an Ferro, Rod the alarm Jemaine, he said yeah, I'm delighted in Roman law, he I love you for the sake of Allah. And that's from what the Prophet taught us about love in our religions. Allah love why he was sending him. If you love someone

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You have to tell them that you love them. I don't want anybody to show your hands. I don't want anybody to show your hands. But I want to ask you, did your father ever tell you that he loves you?

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Did your father ever tell you in your whole life? I love you.

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I don't want you to answer I don't want you shake your head. No. If you say yes, no problem. But you ask yourself that question. Well, if he never said that, you should say it to him. And if he never said that, you be sure to say that to your son in your children. Father grows as his child, and He never says to him, cut me a boy. I love you. He doesn't do that. Because our culture in Africa doesn't encourage us to do that. No, man. It's not our religion. Prophet Muhammad said, If you love somebody, tell them that you love them for Allah. So I see and I say, I love all of you for the sake of Allah azza wa jal. Now, I can't say that to my father, my mother, my brother, my sister, my

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relatives. I can't say that to my auntie to her husband. She's my mother's sister, and her husband, her husband, her husband is not kin to us. But I can't say to her I love you for taking care my auntie. So that man said to me, No, man, I love you for Allah's sake and allows cause Abdullah bin Omar said, and I hate you for a lost cause. Man was shocked. He said, Why do you hate me for a lost cause? He said, because the way you make the event is with a line you're singing, playing around with the event. And then then below wasn't like that. The event of Bilbao, the goal of the objective was to have a loud voice so that people can come. Now if a man has a naturally loud, beautiful

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melody in his voice when I say that, that's Haram. nor should we say we should get the person with the words voice and let him be the more adamant not saying that. But what we're saying is the then in Mecca, the man saying the tech beard after the more evident Mecca, that's not what the prophet brought in the two holy mosque in Al Islam,

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the two holy Mosque of Al Islam, that's not the event of the Nabi sallallahu wasallam, via that and many of the places of Al Islam. So the very Islam that we're practicing in that we're understanding, a lot of times in Hawaii, it is not Islam, that the Prophet Brooke, this is the Islam of the 21st century where we've gotten way, way far away from the way of those companions and many issues. But I do want to lay I lay him and not to be negative and not to be a person who's dark and just sour grapes. We make dua to Eliza gel to bring our oma back to the rush of LS land, because will like a lead de la ilaha raido. As the newbie said, sallAllahu sallam, there's a lot of virtues in the

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Muslims who are living right now. And from those virtues, is the man that people have now they believe in the nibi of Islam, and they never saw him. They never saw the Quran being revealed. They didn't have to go through all of that stuff, but they still believe. So we have to be balanced. So that is haven for a lost cause. Hayden went to law hates, from what is not in the religion, and whoever gives for Allah and he doesn't give for law, what is given for a law.

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The man comes to marry your daughter, and he's not from your tribe.

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He's not from your tribe. He's a revert. And he comes to the Somali family to marry your daughter. So the Prophet told you sallallahu alayhi wasallam. If someone comes to you for marriage, and you are impressed with his o'clock and with his Deen, then hurry up and marry him. Because if you don't marry him, there's going to be fitness and facade in the earth. The boy is Somali. And it comes to marry your daughter who is Pakistani,

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loving for a lot given for Allah is after he passes the tests, you check them out, you watched him, you went to his family ticks, all the boxes, you say, I'm gonna marry you for a lost cause.

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That's what it means to give for last cause those things that are dear to you and important to you. Like your daughter, that's just an example. And that's the problem that we have today. We have a problem New Zealand, New Zealand. There are people who we know who are trying to marry people. The father doesn't want to cooperate. And the father is not going to cooperate just because just because he's not from his tribe, or or just because the father just doesn't want to cooperate.

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That's given for a lost cause. We hear people during the month of Ramadan almost every single night in the month of Ramadan. We're going to have this project we want you guys to give sadaqa and then the second this project third of Ramadan this project is this is throughout the whole month.

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I'm just gonna give, I'm going to give for a last cause for the sake of Allah. Every day they asked me, I'm going to give them every day if I can I gave him when I can. And I don't give him when I can. The point is given because that issue is something that is going to benefit you, because Allah He told you to do it. And similar to that is not given for laws, courts. Your wife's nephew wants to marry your daughter. And you say no, because he doesn't pray. You say no, because their family are cursing the companions. You say no. You say no, because your daughter is on the sooner and your daughter's practice Islam, and that person has innovation. They have real innovation. And you say

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no, you say no, those scholars are the players like Imam Sophia and authority. And other than them. They said any father who marries his daughter, the one he's responsible to, he marries him to a person of innovation. He's made piano towards the girl pianos active treacherously point is you make positions they want to March, Let's march in our mosque. Let's march from Greenland,

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to city center, holding hands singing, we shall overcome like Martin Luther King, as Muslims as a result of New Zealand. All of the messages on agreement with that, because of the effect and the impact of the Tao of the political groups that one Muslim in protests. Let's march let's do this. Everybody wants to do it. Because that's what you do at times like this. You say, No, I'm not giving you the microphone for that. I'm not giving you the hearts and the minds of my community for that. And I don't care that you guys are getting upset. Instead of doing innovation. Let us do this sooner. Why don't the Muslims make note as the Prophet used to do sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, some

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people killed some Muslims, the way those Muslims were killed. They killed them and chop them up, killed them. The Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and salado fudger as

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he will come up in the last night God semi Allah demon hamidah. He raised his hand and he started making dwad to note against the murderous for a whole week and every prayer today if you do that, and select the vote, if you do that, and you come up you make the Muslims are gonna get out of the surface. What is he doing? It's not Ramadan. It's not labor to Qatar. It's not salata, Witter.

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Because the Islam that we're doing right now, let's solve the problem with innovation. Let's solve the problem with what is politically correct. Let's solve the problem with everybody is saying, No. Let's solve the problem in the way it's been legislated to solve the problem.

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I'm sure you guys are like me.

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When the little boy took the egg, and hit that racist Australian Senate in the head, I was happy.

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But I know that Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would not condone and would not sanction something like that. Because it's juvenile isn't mature. It doesn't change anything to turn a man into egghead doesn't change anything. But when he hit him, I was upset at what had happened. Unbelievable. So when the enemy in the head, I was like, Yes.

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But does that change anything? But we all felt that thing. We all felt, hey, we want something? Well, the way that we should really be happy is doing the things that align His messengers, solar lighting, the seller, the things that a lot legislated. So which messages did you go to? Where they make pollute against the murderer of the Muslims? Which means she did that?

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The recitation of the Quran in the parliament after you finish saga cola who love him, and all of this other stuff. Is that the worst thing in the world? No, it's not the worst thing in the world. But what I'm telling you is the way we're practicing Islam, the way we're understanding Islam today, at tauheed, has become [???]can Billa.

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The one who was calling to tawheed is the one who's looked at as being a problem. But one who was calling to [???]can COVID is looked at as being the guy who is a relief from the od avola the one who was calling to a sooner disarm and at bar. He's watershed did he's rough, he's tough. He's not for this time. intolerant a problem. And the one who's calling to and bitter. He's the nice one. He knows how he's know what he's doing. He captivates and captures the hearts. Your Tao is roughly

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Your dad was tough. And we're not for the rough and tough dollar. We're not what for that. But rough and tough. dour does not mean, when you say the truth, you're being bad, you're being rough, you're being tough. The very nature of the truth is that is heavy on the people, what we want to do is we want to go to the nikka, we want to go to the walima. And we want the women that be without hijab, just without anything, we're gonna want to hear anything, we're gonna have st lock, free mixing, and our walima. We want to have our women with no he died in our walima we want to have music in our walima we want to just dance and have a party in the minima. And if someone does stand up and says

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to the people, hey, I would rather have saddle saddle mush, Tamil, ma Hakka, the guys are going to read the label, don't do it like this. People say you must shed it. That's our religion today. That's our community today. So we got to go back to the keytab of Eliza to the son of the Nabi sallallahu Sallam in your individual life

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being responsible for the people you're responsible for.

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And if everybody takes responsibility for himself, deals with these issues for himself, then we're going to be okay. Because I heard something acquainting that was a bit disturbing on that day.

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Last Friday, at this time, or in the morning, I heard when someone told someone what had happened, the person said that hamdulillah duty that they were happy, and hamdulillah those people got killed Sharla the martyrs? No, man, that's extreme. You can be happy about that. Yes, we're going to put it in perspective. We're going to say if a person died on Friday, so sign if a person died, and the last thing that he did, it was go to the salon, it was to go to Juma was reading the Koran in the Milan team. The DS will be judged based upon the last things that you do. But don't come and tell me

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that when a person loses an infant baby, that baby will be a hijab for you yo kiama a curtain that he died from the knock. If you lose two, it's got to be a job for you. So a person loses his baby and you go to your sister, your brother for condolences, your niece and you said hamdulillah your baby died.

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They're gonna say to you What?

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What religion are you on? You're going to cry. And you're going to do what the Prophet did sound a lot. He was settled and your eyes are going to shed tears and your heart is going to grieve. But you only going to say that which pleases Allah is going to practice the religion. He said barely our eyes shed tears and our hearts grieved for you, Ebrahim that you left us, but we're not going to say anything that doesn't please Allah. Oh, why don't you take our baby Why us? curse the time curse the cutter. And I'm going to say that. So that goes to show that the Navy he was grieving. It is wrong for you, anybody who thinks like that, that you can be happy at the catastrophe but to deal with the

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pain to deal with the sorrow the morning to deal with the atrocity. As Allah said knocker Antara Juna Milan la de la mala yo Joon you hope for LA what they don't hope for our debt inshallah. They're going to get the agenda and we have our agenda hope for that. They are dead they don't keep that so we put it in perspective when we get strong. These issues that whiny these tests, trials, tribulations, they're going to continue to happen, rest assured, there are benefits you lessons from them, but let's just love for Allah, love what he loves hateful law, hate what he hates, good for law, give those things that he told us to give tours and prevent from giving in those things that he

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prohibited us from giving. As a result of those. We're gonna stop here inshallah. If you brothers have any questions, inshallah we'll answer two or three questions for tonight, keeping in mind that this love is a NEMA from Allah and it only can happen by the permission of Allah as allow us to tell the prophet and many Ayat of the Quran, lo and fuck them after our DJ me I'm left the bane of kulu bM malaccan Allah, Allah for beno in no Azizullah hockey. Yeah, Mohammed, if you were to give your companions all of the money in the world, you gave him a lot of money him him him him everybody and said, Now love each other. You would not bring their hearts together, but alive with the hearts

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together how what

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with the dean with tauheed with a salon with his a cat with sewn with hedge. Allah brought our hearts together. So when

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We divide ourselves with, that's your group. This is my group, someone said, you know the people that got shut up if you looked at the msgid, they went on sooner.

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So handy lad inhabit to the mystery of the sinner. Come on brother. The example of the Muslims and their love for each other, and their mercy for each other, and their emotions and gentleness towards one another is like the example of one body. If one part of the body aches, all of the body suffers from sleeplessness, and from fever, who in his right mind thinks like that. It didn't happen to the question of the sooner you saw what they was getting. What are you talking about?

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There's a cyclone that hit the Muslims in Africa. Now the cyclone hit the Muslims. That's another catastrophe that we as Muslims, we feel the sorrow the pain of loss that those people go through. Okay, if you guys got any questions, you can ask your questions now that can in the come shake for the

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smiley, Brian.

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What's the beginning of the question? I think I mean,

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if a person loves a person because he gets benefit from them from the dunya, as we said, that is not nothing that's not anything that you're blameworthy for. It's just natural human nature. Your children we grew up loving our parents, the baby loves his mother loves his father loves his siblings, because they're they're taking care of him. When he screams out when he hollers. He's diapers changed, he's given milk, he's made to be warm, he's helped him protect it. As a result of that he's going to have an affinity for those people. We're doing that for him. There's no blame on that. But the other love what we have to develop, you're going to go to Hajj one day, inshallah

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you're going to go to Rome, Rome one day, and you're going to meet Muslims who will walk up to you from China. I'm talking about China. People will really look Chinese, Jet Li they Chinese. And when you meet that person, you amaze that wow, Chinese Muslim. And they look at you and say, Where are you from? You say from the UK. Wow. You're Muslim in the UK.

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And when you sit there and you meet that individual, there's this natural brotherhood and bond that is going to exist between the people.

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When you meet a brother, what's that guy who beat up that? Guy McGregor. What's his name again? Habib came from where he's from Dagestan. You see somebody with that Dagestani hat. You say you from Dagestan. You think emammal Buhari mmm 3 million, those kind of people. You have a natural affinity and connection and love for people, because they're your brother in this religion. They came from the other side of the world, some far off place that you never would fathom, you would meet a person there. Because the images of your mind and your mind is just so far off.

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This white brother, this white brother, he heard about Timbuktu. They were doing cataract surgery in Timbuktu when that was the Learning Center in the world and Mali, Timbuktu

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there was knowledge there. There wasn't knowledge anywhere else. cataract surgery in your eye. White brother meets another brother. And that brother is dark is coal from Mali. He meets him we from family and from Timbuktu. He says, Wow. Because he read about that. And he has that affection and that affinity.

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It's natural. But unfortunately, in our message, we see people we see every day, and we don't have that love, and we don't have that affection.

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We have some people who everything about the West, they praise it. I went to the west and I found this lamb. And I went to the east and I found Muslims but not Islam.

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So when the non Muslim, the Muslim terrorists does a crime, he does a crime and he kills someone. He's upset about that. How can you kill these people like that you give Islam a bad name. When his own brothers and sisters get killed in New Zealand. It doesn't affect him like that.

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He doesn't affect him like that. He doesn't have that same vigor and he hears about being upset when it happened to them. And that's an important issue because it's a lesson from the lessons of this problem and who it is. Although we are very clear and denouncing the terrorism of our brothers and sisters, extremism, radicalism, we're against that and all of these groups that are on that were against that and all those personalities

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When they blow up and they kill people in Nairobi, or whatever it is, in Paris running people over with trucks on London Bridge killing people, every time it happens,

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the non Muslim community, they feel a certain way.

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And although we don't like what that person did, we may not feel the way they feel. But now we get the taste, the sourness of the scourge of terrorism

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is a sour feeling, and our hurt. And our pain is greater than this. Because we are a community that allow me that's real brothers.

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There's racism in Christianity inside of the religion, because Jesus is white. So white people are better than everybody else. Jesus is a Jewish person. So therefore, God chose Jewish people, white person to make him a son. And that's why they do many of the things that they do. These people are not even practicing Christianity, but they are standing up for religion and not practicing. Whereas in our religion, and Islam addressed racism. So we are brothers. So when we see something that happens like that, it affects us, it affects us very deeply. So now we get to taste the herradura of an herb. It's a sour pill, and that's why it's not okay. It's not okay. If you don't want that to

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happen to you, then what's wrong with you that you would do that to other people? It's not okay. May Eliza gel give in Sharla the agenda to the for the dose to all of those people who were killed in that massacre. amaze Hannah with Donna give a speedy recovery to our Muslim our sisters who actually hurt and wounded in it, and may help us to take away from that. lessons have no doubt until Islam when the people came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to change the religion. Slow down young honey, change this religion. Look, look, look, we're going to practice Islam one year and you practice you know our religion and next year, just slow down we don't want to slam to keep going. The Prophet

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said some of the law while he will Allah it was seldom if you people were to give me

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if you were to ask me to take one spark from the sun, that would be easier than to let this religion I don't call to this religion. Is it possible for someone to take a spark from the sun? It's not possible. It's not possible for me to change my religion, who will lead the arrow Salah rasuluh Beluga demon haka live hero violet, Dini Cooley, he will carry on Cafiero. Allah is the one who sent this religion with this messenger to proclaim it over all other religions, although the disbelievers may hate it and they kill us like that. But they're not going to stop the spread of Islam. They're not going to spot Stop it. akula Cody ha that was thoughtful it will akunis Allah tala tofield was

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said that was