The Islamic Personality – Episode 19

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Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

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Backbiting

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swindler Manor, Haman hamdu Lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah he a MOBA ik rally for them.

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Number one Rahim salatu salam ala rasulillah Lama fill in our chef in our

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lab the lab in honor of the low Kala Kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and had access to who had been had been mean, Manhattan if I had to do and I had the mean todo de la gente de la cama de forma Mata Juan he didn't when I say be denari what I

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what I can, what I can have Santa,

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or what I can

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lm yes and if you saw hot in LA he had that India woman coffee mug meaning Marisa Fie as canon law who Ratan Habad he had tyagaraja minha.

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Ahmed.

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Today insha Allah azza wa jal when we come to a really tremendous Hadith that talks about the personality of the believing men in the believing woman,

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and the vast majority of people are contradicting this hadith.

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And I don't say that to put anyone down or to put anyone out, but I say that to say the light bulb needs to go on in our heads, our minds and our hearts. As it relates to trying to be away from this issue, chroma

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nibio sallallahu Sallam mentioned for hassall four characteristics in this Hurry, all of them are bad. So the believer has to be away from these four characteristics, the share, Abul Hadith and halaby hafeet Allahu taala, the author of the book, he called this particular chapter

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elvi, but to lace it filming that backbiting making Riba is not a part of the description of the believer.

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And the course of a day is almost impossible to find a person from this oma who wakes up in the morning and goes to sleep at night without making eba

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and the Rebbe that he makes or she makes sometimes is from the closest people connected to them. We may agree above our mothers, our fathers brothers sisters, we may leave Reebok dorama rebar of people who are poor Pete Reba of the companions of the worst people who you should meet Reba.

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Reba for

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Our new Muslim brother, my wife. Reba is backbiting.

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backbiting. So the chapter is about the believer doesn't mean he bought. He shouldn't make veba.

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The Prophet Solomon law when he was setting them gave the prophetic definition of a Riba and he said that it was the cuca hack Bhima Sakura for Conde Nast jasola when Calif Effie Monaco

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calificado tato. And canopy moto cool. When Linda confy motto call fucka.

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Reba bag Byron is mentioning something about your brother.

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Something he doesn't like, in his absence.

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They say you're also the law. But what if what I say is true? He's not there. But I said it's true. He has a foul smell coming from him.

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He's tall, he's short, he's overweight. It's true. What if I say and it's true? He said, If what you say is true.

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You have fallen into Riba you ate his flesh. And if what you say is not true, then you have made Bhutan. Bhutan is around what is Bhutan again.

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But then when you accuse someone of something that they're free of their body of what's the word again, you've slandered him, you slandered him. So when he listen, Reba is mentioning something about someone in his absence. That is true. But he's not there to defend himself. If you don't have a religious reason to say that, then you've made Riba

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and if what you said is not true, then it's even worse. You have slandered that man. And look what happened with the companions. The problem was travelling sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with his companions. And while they were traveling, they woke up late and they miss the federal prayer.

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rasulillah Mr. fudger prayer so the law what it was setting them with his companions by accident, they didn't mean it happens to the best of them. Salawat de la he was salamati so when the people woke up, and they were preparing to do the prep and things like that get themselves together. I Buchan they had a man who was responsible for waking them up and he didn't wake him up their servant. So he was still asleep and they came to him and say, Hey, Hey, wake up. Wake up. You're supposed to wake us up.

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may say, Man, you sleep a lot. This guy sleep a lot. One of them said to the other. This man he sleeps a lot. That's all they said. He over sleeps, he sleeps a lot.

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A man woke up they said go until the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we are hungry, can you send us some food if he had some food? The man when

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the man say God also liable buckler man they sent me and they said to you said I'm on a camera to lay over a cattle and they asking you Do you have any food to send to them? The prophets Allah send them returned the synapse. He said, you go back and you tell them that I said, when it comes Salah Morocco

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and tell them that they already ate.

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He came back and he told them Rasul Allah gives you the Psalms, and he said, the two of you already ate. They said, We didn't eat. What is that? A miracle? What's going on? So being students being from Northern Iowa, they wanted to know, what did these words mean to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he could have said, Maybe he thought we ate we didn't eat and just left the issue. But the companions always wanted to learn and research. So they went and said to him, jasola What do you mean, we ate? We didn't eat anything. Why did you say that? He said, you remember what you said about that man? And this is from the marriages act of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, not the animal

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rape, the unseen jabrill informed the Prophet revelation came and he found out what happened. Not because he's hazard naza everywhere, omnipresent. Now.

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You remember when you said that man sleeps a lot? He said, Yes. They say yes, we remember. He said, when you said that there's a Heba and as the Koran said, you have a hadoken manga Kula hee hee matin. Character mucho. Allah says Heba is like eating the dead flesh of your brother. That's what the Quran described as Viva so some major sin. He says, so then when you say you snap a lot, you said that to him, he slept a lot. Yeah, we said that. He said, Well, you ate his flesh, and I could see his meat between your teeth, your canines and your Molas. You ate his flesh. They say, y'all

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Rasulullah asked Allah to forgive us ask Allah to forgive us. He said No, you go in Acts that man to forgive you.

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And all he said was all they said was the man slept a lot. That's all they said. The man slept a lot.

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And the things that we say about people, it may be true, it may be true, but it's much worse than that. And the reasons why we say it is to bring them down a lot of times to make ourselves be up above buck and Roman may Allah be pleased with him that wasn't the golden the objective. They didn't like the fact that they Mr. Fletcher prayer, so they said what they said and when we drink in Ellis lamb and honey for the new Muslims, we drink with our right hands. We drink tea, coffee, cold hot carta de Lima and everything when our right hands okay with our right hands, because the Prophet told us that some law while he was selling them, so listen, if this is veba, man, his guy sleep a

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lot.

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And what about what we do and what we say? So that's the name of this chapter. And the last portion of the Hadith is what deals with Riba? Well, there are three things that were mentioned prior to that, that we have to avoid.

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The first one is the statement of the nebby. salon lot he was telling me this authentic idea that I do live in or not, may Allah be pleased with both of them. He said that the nibi mentioned sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Anyone, anyone who tries to intercede on behalf of someone who the head from the Hadoop, Allah has to happen. Anyone who does that particular thing, anyone who does that big problem. Big, big, big problem. He has opposed a lot in his command in his religion in his Deen. So the meaning of that Hadith is in our Deen, if someone stills he gets his hand cut off. If he stole enough, if someone made Xena was married, the person is flogged to death, capital punishment,

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corporal punishment, the Hadoop LS lamb, when you make a mistake, there's some retribution in Ellis lamb, the law of allies with Joe is that this will happen and that will happen. Now someone comes in, and because of his position, because of his relationship, because of whatever he's able to get between the heartbeat and establish, and that thing that he did, it is let go. So because he's important, he comes in, he says, like in the Muslim world, all over the Muslim world, Pakistan, all over the Muslim world, in parts of Africa all over with no exceptions, Saudi Arabia everywhere. You can kill someone. And if you got money, you get off of the hook, because you come from a prominent

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family or someone prominent gets involved. There is no exception. And Allah knows best all over the Muslim world.

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That's the first thing.

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The second thing he mentioned some love what he was sending them. Anyone who dies, and he owes people money has a debt, a debt, then the score won't be settled, the score won't be settled with money, the dinar or the Durham. The score is going to be cielo yomo kiama by the hacer net and the segi Act.

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Back then, it was an issue where people used to try not to be in debt. And when they were in debt, they used to really have a lot of taqwa as a relates to the debt. If a man was indebted to another man, and the man who is indebted, wanted to give a companion who he was indebted to a gift, he wouldn't take it. He wouldn't take it. Because he said this is kind of like Riba.

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And he didn't want this person to be filling, he has to give him something to cool him out. And maybe use a little love while he was selling them. He didn't pray over the person who committed suicide. And he didn't pray over the person who owed a debt. Those the only two people he didn't pray over the salata, janessa the only two those two. One more is the man who stole from the spoils of war that he had Hulu, they made Jihad and he took something and they tell the people and he stole it. Those three people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to the people, you pray over him. Now if he didn't pray over people who died with a debt, that means he wouldn't be praying over the vast

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majority of people from our oma today.

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Because almost everybody is in debt. And I'm not talking about that debt that you have to take because you're in trouble. So you had to borrow money to get this thing sorted out. I'm talking about

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The debt that people take out for things just to live high on the hog, as they say, people live beyond their means. So he has a credit card and things like that. And he or she is living beyond their means. The third thing that he mentioned a lot while he was sending them in this Hadeeth is and this is tremendous, man ha some of the ball telling

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anyone who argues on behalf of false hood, and he's arguing, and he knows his falsehood, his side, the truth is not with him, the Huck is not with him. He knows the heart is with his opponent, and may be in a court of law. It may not be in a court of law, it may be between the relatives, it may be in the street, it may be in a store, anyone who argues and it carries on an argument. And he knows he knows that he is arguing and falsehood is on his side, anybody who does that, he will remain in the anger of a lot until he stops doing that. Until he stops doing that. There are people who argue, and they know that they're the hackers not with him. The man got married, he got married,

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his wife found out that he got married somehow. But he doesn't know or she thinks that he got married. But but but she doesn't know. And she steps to him say Yo, what's the dealio? You you got married? And he said, Well, no, he isn't. And he's just going off.

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And he knows full well, what he's doing is wrong.

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That hard either is applicable to that. It's not just you going to the court of law, and you're lying. But it is even worse in the court of law. Because you're swearing by a lie. You're telling the truth and so forth and so on. You remain in the anger of Allah until you abandon that. Number four, and this is why the chapter is talking about a libo as mentioned Riba, he says Allahu alayhi, wa ala it he was seldom anyone who says something about men. And that thing that he says about him is not true. It is not in him, it is not true, then this person will be forced to be in the rubber

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band. And he won't come out of it.

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Until he stopped saying what he is saying but he won't stop it. The run of the Cabal is different interpretations. One interpretation is rather it means mud, mud and dirt, like murky waters with mud and dirt

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is Pass Pass plus. So in the narrative jahannam yomo chiama. The reward of accusing someone and saying something about someone that's not true, is that the reward is you'll be burning in that mud with that plus, some of the scholars said the other meaning of that is the assault, the juices that come from the people of the hellfire. Why would you be let him in danika people burn him from the Hellfire, they're gonna have sweat, they're gonna have blood. They're gonna have pus, whatever liquids come out, whatever liquids. There's a hadith that says the people are the jahannam they have liquids they're gonna come out of them. So this is the reward of the one who says about a Muslim

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something like the Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mancala li a he got a double la Oh, yak caffeine, for cut by Bihar Duma. Anyone who says about a Muslim, his brother Hey, you enemy of Allah. He saw him doing crackle. He's a crackhead. He's addicted to heroin. He can't get off of it. He's an alcoholic. She's a prostitute, a crime of common law. And we know that it's out in the open. There are Muslims and they're doing something bad. And you say to him, Hey, you enemy of Allah.

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Or, hey, you cash your cash here. Because I or or Hadid said whoever does this thing. they they they won't go to gender or something like that. So the person says your cash problem Mohammed says a lot while he was sending them that that word that he said you catch him. Enemy of a lot is gonna go on one of them. If he's really the enemy of a lot and a hit him. He's really a catcher in a hit him. And if not, it's gonna come back to the one who said

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so that's Heba. That's Reba. We're going to deal with the four issues. And there's a lot to say we try to get done with this as soon as possible.

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As it relates to the first issue, when in Finland I really hope that we all pay attention. We try our best to avoid these things.

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This is why having classes listening to lectures on the internet, being around people going to remind you, we need that we need that injection. We need that boost removed that Vicar. He says I love what he was saying, whoever tries to intercede when there's a law and the people they have done something and the law is supposed to get them now, then if you do that it's a bad issue. There's only one Heidi's I want to mention concerning that Hadith in Bukhari and Muslim, the Hadith who Salah Abu Zaid and it's important that we know who sila Eben whose aid was I don't have time to go into his details, but his father z w haritha. He used to belong to Khadija our mother in Jamia may

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Allah be pleased with her. She gave the father to the nebby as a gift.

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She made him the Prophet slave his card them when the Prophet took possession of them before Islam, he used to be close to him and he used to treat them good. And then in Islam, he treated them even better. And then the Nabhi said to the people in Mecca, this man, this man, right he is a

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He's my son. He's my son. If I die, he inherits from me if he dies I inherit from him, which is a big thing. But Islam came and it destroyed that you can adopt people in Ellis land you cannot adopt people. One of the reasons why this ruling came is because of this man, this man z the new haritha

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he had a son and his son came from a lady Her name was own Baraka or Baraka. She was a black lady, and her color very black. She was an older lady, the Prophet told the campaign's anybody want to marry a lady from an agenda, let him marry Baraka, all the people like I'm not marrying her. She's old. She's dark as well. I'm not marrying her.

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z said I'll marry her jasola lady from Jenna. They got married, they had Osama. Osama came out dark.

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So he has a long story. He was like Hasson and Hussein Osama like hustling Hussein to the Prophet sallallahu. wasallam. has an Hussein their mother is Fatima. The door of the Nabi sallallahu wasallam. So zayde is like his son, they had Osama. So Osama was like has an Hussein like Oh, mama, like those companions? Who were his grandchildren. May Allah be pleased with all of them. And some of the love what he was selling. There was a lady from Quraysh, Croatia, differential tribes, one of the tribes is called Benny and model zoo, the tribe that aroma comes from, and they're from courage. So they're from the Shroff and they're from the best and the elite, like we have where we come from.

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There are some people come from the lower caste, and some people come from the higher class caste, every place has that every place has that in the Muslim world. Anyway, she was from the high class of Polish, this lady stole something from Krish when she stole something I handed has to get chopped off in Islam. The people of courage started saying, No, we can't let that happen. That would be a bad reflection on us, the men of the community. It's like we weren't taking care of one of our women and she went out and installed so it reflects on all of us. We can't let that happen. Who can we go to to go and make she five. They want to go and make intercession. They said, no one can do this

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except Oussama. The love the Beloved of the nebby your little child, you look the daughter that you love a lot. The father is really really really upset. If the daughter come and say, Abby, I need to rap to you real quick need to highlight you. Yeah, what's up Binti? She started saying listen, you know that guy who owes you money that just just let him go because of his love for his daughter. And she came she touches heart like that. He said, I I'm gonna give him a pass and let him go. That's how it is. Osama came and say Yato. So Allah, please let that lady go, you know, coration this and that, and this and that. And the Prophet loves who sama. But when he said that, the prophet became

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angry sung a lot what he said. He said to him and to the people who were there at Ashford. We had them in hadoo de la Oussama

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in La Liga, la veniamin kubla Khan.

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And know whom, either Sarika fee who has sharifa Turku where either senator FEMA bereave accom Wally had way more he know and Nefertiti Mata Binta Mohammedan serikat locker kata

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Oussama Are you trying to intercede as a relates to the corporal punishment in the slam the cap

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To punish me, you try to get involved and make that stop and don't go forward. He said very early people came before you, the Yahoo, then the NASA as well. keytab if an honorable person to Sharif, if they stole something, they will let him go, they wouldn't do anything to him. But if the week the dive in significant, if one of them stole something, then they would do the HUD on him. He said, I swear by Allah, if Fatima, the daughter of Mohammed, if she stole something, I'm gonna cut her hand off, showing the justice of the nebby some of the love while he was setting up sallam, that if you were the closest person to him, it didn't mean anything. It didn't mean anything to him. When it

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came to issues like this, the Naboo sallallahu alayhi wa it was seldom unlike what we have in the Muslim world today. And don't look at the whole can look at ourselves, look at ourselves as it relates to practice in this religion. Even in issues like this, when you have to take a sigh. We give people passes who don't deserve passes. So that was an issue that destroyed and then kita Eliyahu the one nesara and one of the reasons why this is a problem and it's many problems. We don't have the time to deal with this issue and everything that's concerning it is that alized Magellan is religion. A lot decreed that that the head the corporal punishment, the corporal punishment capital

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punishment, is this or that or this or this or that. So if anyone comes to try to change it, anyone, then you are in opposition to a lot that's what the Hadid said photog da de la huffy Emery, anyone who does that he has oppose the law in his affair. I'm joking Shoraka Chateau de homina, Diem, mala Mia, de la mala Mia, Bella, do they have partners who have legislated for them? What Allah didn't give them permission to do. So a lot of said anyone who does this, this should happen. But because I got money, important, I get involved. And I say no. And it's just not with the Muslims. It's just not with the Muslims. There is a double standard in the Western world. In America, in the UK, if a

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white European does something, if a person who has money does something, they'll get a pass, if a person of color does the same thing, or Muslim does the same thing. There's a different double standard. So with this thing about what's going on, with these people being accused of taking advantage of women here and there, you'll find the black people, the black people, no matter how powerful they are, they're going to jail. They're going to jail, the Bill Cosby's of the world for an example, they're going to jail. But when the white people do it, same thing, or even more, they don't go to jail, they lose their jobs and things like that. So the point here is this issue in

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Islam, the prophet made it clear.

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If a ruling has been given, it's not for anybody to come and try to get involved and prevent the HUD from the hadoo Davila. The second issue about the debt, anybody who dies and he has a debt and even pay the debt, you won't be able to pay the debt with the dinar or you won't be able to pay the debt with the dead ham, the pound the dollar, the Euro, it's going to be with your selecting your CD at with the exception of the person who he said about himself to love while he was Salaam, Alaska to colo home Dom in Walla Walla, there are three people who allow will be responsible for them allow will take care of them. One is the one who went out for Jihad ccbt lat. So if he gets killed in the

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real jihad, not Boko Haram, not Shabaab, not ISIS is all the Islamic State, not that stuff. The real Jihad that we don't apologize about, he goes out, he gets killed, a lot will take care of his family, he goes out a lot take care of him as well brings them back. The third one is the one who gets married. He's young, he doesn't have a lot of money or whatever. If he's really getting married for his Dean, a lot will take care of them. And the third one, the one who takes a debt, but he really wants to pay it back. A lot will help him to pay it back in his life or when he dies. When he dies, a lot is going to give him friends as hard relatives people know him, a situation will come

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where his debt will get paid by lies which this hadith is talking about the one who's taking a debt and he's not trying to pay the debt. So therefore his case yomo kiama, you ain't gonna have the ability the person will have the ability to pay money. It's going to be with the hassle and the Safety Act. And that comes from the authentic hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and it's important. He acts as companions to the rule.

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Manual mufflers, do you people know who the bankrupt person is? Do you know who he is? They said a muffler Safina? Yeah Rasulullah mela Durham Allahu wa matar the mufflers from amongst us in our society the way we think and we believe is the one thing I know money doesn't have any money, no data, no de la no money. He has no pounds, no dollars and got no cash, nor does he have any property. He doesn't own a car. He doesn't have property. He doesn't know anything.

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The Prophet said and mostly Sumin Mati and levy yet to mukhi Amity bisola Salatin was the captain was so many were cut, shatter my head

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will cover for her they were Akela mala had what suffocate them had what Dara had for your personality, he will have him in her celerity for a funnier tesselaar to cabling de la la. Tony had to obey that men kataya home with Tony hatari from

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the banquet person and now oma is not the person who lost all of his dough, hustling and grinding and going into business. So he went bankrupt. He filed for Chapter 11 in America. It's not the bankrupt person and our

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bankrupt person and I will miss the one who will come yomo piano. He fasted a lot. He has a lot of prayers. He has a lot of zakaat he may hide you may aamra. She's wearing Hijab just bad new cop. He's a student of knowledge he's memorizing. He's given down a law. He's going and giving money to Syrian doing this and doing that all of those things that people inspired to do. He's in the front row in the salon. He's doing all of those things, getting his Jihad on.

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But that person will come Yokoyama. But what did he do? He cursed this one out. He argued with him and cursed him out. This one over here. He accused him have committed Zina. You don't even have divio. He accused him accused her of being an adulterous adulterous. This one over here. He hit him. He spilled his blood. This one Oh, he took his money. So y'all know kiama he's gonna get his bassinet. He's gonna get his hustle net, he's gonna get his hustler, he's gonna get his hustler. And if all of his hustle net are taken before the people that he did wrong, get their heart, their bad deeds will be taken from them and be thrown on him. So this issue about losing your house and net

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and your CV at being

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other people saying that say you're being thrown upon us a serious issue. Listen to Emmanuel Bahari. And Emmanuel Buhari said, when I found out that Riba was Haram, I found out Hebrew was Haram. I didn't think anybody was worth me giving them a bassinet. No one's worth it. Not my wife, not my children, the only people who are worth me giving them my good deeds, my mother and my father. He says so for that reason, I held myself back, and I didn't make Kiba and it was his job as a Mahadev. Who know a joke with tideal. It was his job to say this one is a cadaver lab in the Hadith that went over this Diouf in Hadith, this one over there forgotten Hadith, this one over there is a good job

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in Hadith. And that's why mama Bukhari when you look at the criticisms that he made of the worst people, the worst people I'm not talking about the people of Hades, who just made some mistakes. I'm talking about the guy in the people who fabricated howdy they made up stuff. And he mad at me, we'll call him a dead cow. I mean, I'm an SI we'll call him a shaytan. And Mr. Malik will call him he believes and so forth. And Imam Bukhari was say, fee he never in him is something

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in him is something he wouldn't say is worse, as bad as the other ones. But the scholars knew if Buhari said that it's a serious issue. But that's the level of the water. The level of a taqwa of Allah Imam Bukhari was an imam of a jar with tideal haka. So he right come and I'm a revert. I know nothing about a job with ideal, but I talk about Muslims like any no tomorrow. I talk about Muslims like there's no tomorrow but we're gonna come to that inshallah. So the second issue that whiny is that we understand

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the real debt is not the debt of the dunya. The real debt is the debt of the Sahara, the days of the dunya. Maliki Ahmed Dean, a dean is the dame allows the law of the day

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The day the Dane people going to be looked into you're gonna have to pay that money back. But you don't pay it back with currency. You're gonna pay it back with the Hassan act me allies which will protect us from that issue. person comes and he fought and he thinks and he expected that he will get this kid that only for that stuff to be thrown in his face big, muscular, big muscular. You're going to marry someone and you're in love. You're really in love after being patient. You want to get married. And you really believe that that beautiful sister is going to be your soulmate and you are making the teeth of your life. I'm going to get married and I'm going to live here. We're gonna

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have children and my first child is going to be Mr. Mr. Cooney is our man and I'm going to have five girls three boys and that's what you did. And then the day right before then the Godfather calls you say that wedding is off son.

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You can't get married. And they don't give you any reason any excuse. After you've been building this up this excitement, this expectation for the day of your new car, your friends, your family, all of them are going to come but then the day before the wedding or the day on the wedding. The father says Look Look, look, look look. This wedding is off. Can you imagine the embarrassment, the heartbreak, the headache, the mosquito will allow he'll methyl Allah. Yo km is worse you don't want to come yo mo Kiana and your good deeds are jammed up. Student of knowledge, a student of knowledge and all of that that you did. And the people around you were lazy. They weren't doing anything. The

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iwrm from the oma the regular people from the oma they're not trying to learn anything. If they come to the dentist, they sit in the back. Not that that's how wrong you come you memorize. You're studying you're reading, you want to come home a piano for these things to be thrown in your face problem. That doesn't mean that we're telling you in this doing you're going and take debts just take debts because the real debt yo pm is your husband. I'm not saying that. But I'm saying that the reality of the issue is the real debt. yomo piano is the one where you get paid back in the vicinity of people or the car that the person has gets thrown on them. The third issue that was mentioned in

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this Hadith of the nibi Salalah whining was settlement that depicts and shows was clearly how the Muslim should be and what he should not be doing. Is that the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned anyone who argues and he's arguing with false hood Barton and he knows his false hood. Then he will remain in the anger of a law until he leaves it.

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This Hadeeth is really important this portion of it because it shows a principle of the sooner that is important guys. And that is something that the scholars say rather bill Jehan,

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a person is excused if he doesn't know something. So if he prays towards the Qibla, but it turns out not to be the kibble and he made a mistake. He's not held accountable in Allaha. Zhao was an Emirati el Hata. Witness this young woman, Stokely who and he, Allah will forgive the members of my mama, for whatever they do. make a mistake, they forgot, or they will compel. So you have to have knowledge about something if you made a mistake, and you didn't have knowledge, Allah azza wa jal, he forgives you. He loves the river he loves the fact that people have excuses and not knowing is an excuse. And this is why we don't make took fear of Belize. We don't make fear of people who are from

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the Shiite, we don't make tuck fear of them. Because these people are growing up, many of them not knowing their religion, not knowing their religion. I went to the grave site the other day in my community, there was a group of people from a country I won't mention where they come from, so that if this word gets out, I don't want anyone to be offended. But it was my first time going to a janazah for these people. And the bid that was taking place at the janazah blew me away.

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Innovation, but the people think what they're doing is a Tucker up in a law. You had to see it. You had to see it.

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I mean, it was really amazing. And that's because people don't know the religion now. tawheed is ship ship is a towhee with many Muslims. Beta is the Sunnah and the sooner is better with many Muslims. If the man guess I'm the member, and he's passionately speaking, the hog barn is is is talking

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Some people say, Why is he so mad?

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Why is he so mad?

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And that's because the Navy use of the law what he was sending when he gave the hook. But he used to be like that, as the companion said, but the one who doesn't know that, they will say, in any given machine, why is he so upset? Because they don't know the sooner.

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So the point here that I did said, Men, ha, Salah thebarton. And

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anyone who argues about something that's false hood, and he knows this false Good. Now, for the one who doesn't know is false hood, there's a different issue. So two people have an argument. Both of them believe that the hackers with them, and they arguing their case back and forth. This doesn't apply to them. He has a DLL, he has a DLL, maybe one of them has a shubha. But he believes what he's doing is the right thing. This Hadith is not applicable to him. It's not applicable to them. This is the one who knows, he went to the court of law with these non Muslims. And he knows he's lying on behalf of his relative, his Muslim Brava against the non Muslim, he knows he's lying. This is

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talking about you, if you're taking the rights of people. Now if you're trying to save your Muslim brother from Full Moon, then that's a different issue. He is going to be oppressed. So you go and say something so he doesn't get oppressed and you don't take the rights from anyone. That's different issue. That's a different issue. Allow that mentioned in the Quran and Ally's been said about people argue a lot big muscular women a nasty man, you're a Jew, Coca Cola, who Phil hayata dunya. Well, you should Allah Allah Martha kalbi, wahoo Allah saw from the people or Mohammed, and people follow Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam from the people, you know, those people when they talk,

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their speech pleases you, you are amazed and pleased at the fact they've been given the gift of God.

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what he's talking about, you're amazed, you're blown away. And then that person, that person, he calls a lot to be a witness that he's telling the truth. He I swear by Allah, Allah said, but in reality, he is the worst people when it comes to argument. He is a lucky sob. He is a person given to argument. So it's a bad characteristic for the Muslim to have.

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Even if you're not arguing with what is Barton just to be an argue,

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just to be a person who argue, the Prophet says a loved one he was on he was sending them in them in a shed the NASA adapting normal pm et al, Allah Abdul salam, O Allah, Al Hassan, the person who will get the worst punishment from the people who will get the worst punishment. You'll know kiama are the people who are argumentative.

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She has a husband, that dude is argumentative, he won't let nothing go. They'll argue is done. dusted finish. At the praise, it comes back. And another thing and they right back at it again. Oh, he has a wife who's like that. Or a mother who's like that, or father who's like that. That's a bad characteristic. Then they be mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Abu Dhabi in Allah. Allah Allah Abdul Hassan. From those people who ally hates the most out of all of the men, all of the people. The one that Allah hates the most is the one who was argumentative. This is without arguing and Boulton in what is false hood, just being an argumentative person. We get into a dispute

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misunderstanding.

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The person says what he has to say. And then it's done. You say your piece he said his pieces done let it go. But the aladar handsome, he is the guy who keeps going. The lady who keeps going

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you know you don't want to marry a lady like that. I'm going to tell you guys you don't want to marry Not that I know. I'm just saying generally speaking. You don't want to marry her. You know your central nervous system. It gets into your central nervous system and before you know it you blow up yes you don't want to marry a person like that. Look at this issue as well what he told us so I sent him a serious or a barren man Khulna fee he can moon African ha Lisa, when cannon field hustle 10 min ha canopy has certain minimum effects for things. If a person has all four of these things, he is a true blue straight up and down like six o'clock munaf hip problem Mohammed and say

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straight up and down.

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For you to understand, he's a troll blow monastic. If these four things I've lived him, and if he has one of the four, or two or three, if he has one of them, then he has a sign of the hypocrites. Number one. First thing he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wasallam is that to Mina Hana, if you leave something with him a trust, he breaks the trust, wherever, death a credit, and if he speaks, he's lying, he lies. He's not telling the truth, sign of the monastic number three, he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, wherever I had another. If he gives a contract, if he agrees to a contract, or he agrees to a word, he's going to act treacherously and break his word. And number

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four, in our hearts, and

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if he argues, he becomes a badger. Badger means he starts using curse words. He starts swearing like a soldier, like, like a like a sailor. I mean, all of the curse words in the book, and we're gonna come to those curse words as well. And also if that, if that if he argues, he's becomes fatter, for sure. Another meaning of that is, when he argues with you. He's arguing and he knows he's lying. He's not telling the truth. He's lying with false hood. So before going to the last point and why this is the reason why, listen, you should try to abandon argument altogether. Say your piece is what lol Barney used to say all the time, right not to lie.

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He said, say your word. And then just leave meaning. Say your word, your point of view, your position leaving. You don't have to keep going back and forth. Especially with these religious arguments. The brother is a young brother in Islam. She's a young sister Nell Islam, that internet social media is a big muscular, because everybody is a Mufti. He's a Mufti. So they arguing about things back and forth, back and forth. They bring a deal you bring a little against them, they bring if you bring it against them howdy if you bring and we're going back and forth, and the Quran and the Sunnah, they were not revealed for that. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam epidural

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por tener, LA, boo boo, calm way that the left arm Docomo

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read the Quran, as long as your hearts are together. But once they start dividing, because he's saying it, he said then stop, get up and disperse. The Quran wasn't revealed for that. I tell you what to do. And then you push my deal away with another dilemma we going back and forth, back and forth. There those people believe based upon the Koran that you hold and the nesara are our brothers and their engender, you can understand that there's some guys that say that Iblees Allah told them and that it's about doubtedly all bow down except the blees. So that person thinks that he believes is from the Malacca. So this one thinks a belief is from the Malacca and that one over there

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believes that and rocky tab and gentlemen, there are brothers, you explain your point of view. And then let's say

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he needs a little bit more elucidation and explanation you try to give it to him. But you see he's staunch on his thing. Hey, I don't have time. Say you're kenema from MB. Roll out. That's it. So it's better just to abandon arguing altogether. He says a lot when he was selling them, Anna. Zarin be baited in fear about the Gender, Women Tara Connemara, when Canon mohaka I will be the guarantor. I guarantee that the person who abandons arguing, although the truth is with him, I will guarantee your entrance into the Robert Ebell agenda.

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The heart is with you. The heart is with you. But you're willing to let your heart go. I'm not going to argue with you people. I'm not going to argue with you because argumentation is a bad characteristic in this religion. A lot of hasty argue, that doesn't mean you don't have the heart to argue for your heart.

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You can argue for your heart. You go to court of law, argue for your heart. But let's just say people want to take you to court or you have been wronged and you want to take people to court, you can take them to court, but that'd be the last alternative. And if you can let it go. Believe in anyone who leaves something for a law law will give them better than that. As the Hadid said men taraka shaking the law he or what the hula, hula hula hieromonk anyone who leaves something for a lot lower given better than what he left off. So try not to argue and you little Chabad

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little guys.

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Yeah, you little guys, that goes for you too. Don't argue with your sister.

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Don't argue with your sister. You gotta start being in training day of training day right now. Training right now.

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And that when they want to argue with you and just let it go, brother, just let it go. Who's gonna? I was first No, I was just let it go Brother leave it for a while and that are going inside of the salon. A chroma komova is mine. It's mine. No, it's mine is mine. You have to say, Man, I'm a man. No, I'm a man's man. You can have it and you let the sister go and she has it. And then later on, when you get big and shallow and you get married, and your wife wants to argue, it's just gonna, it's gonna be real easy for you. But if you are a little guy, and you really tripping out like that,

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it's not a good characteristic. That's for you little brothers to understand that. Stop arguing with your sisters and your brothers, siblings arguing back and forth. A lot doesn't like that a lot doesn't love that ally hates the argue. And the one who is his heart, his her heart. He gives it up, she gives it up. It's your sister is your brother. Give it up to your sister, your brother, and then allies, whichever is going to give you something better than that.

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The last issue that mentioned in this hadith is about saying something anyone who says something about his brother, that is not true. It's not a true characteristic about his brother. He will be caused to be in that pus or the fluids and the liquids of the people have jahannam until he leaves what he's been saying. And he won't come out or he won't leave it. You know, honey, we are living right now in a time where as I told you, that things are upside down.

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There is an individual who is getting close to a lawn he may set the corrupt ilala by killing people. I watched a program today on YouTube, about ISIS. With all of these young sisters from the west from America trying to go back to their country. I saw one young sister from Yemenis descent, she was Yemenia.

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She wants to go back with her child. She got married three times first husband killed. second husband, she had a baby 18 months, their husband was killed. She got married without her Willie. She was brainwashed, groomed. Now she wants to go back to America. After watching her story, because she's in the news under that was these people were in ISIS. And they were telling how this is not the Islamic State. And I realized that once I got there and started telling the stories, I could not believe it. I couldn't believe what these people thought they were doing was true.

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It's our religion.

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Who would accept Islam, if this is the religion of Islam, what they were doing?

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Just amazing. But the people have ISIS that Hawaii cottage, they get close to allies with gel by killing people. Do you guys know in the long Hadeeth, about what happens to a person when he dies, if he's a man, he dies. And then after that people bury him and I really wanted to talk about this, but it's important.

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The Angel of Death comes to him. And the angel of death takes the soul of the movement. And it takes it out of the body and it comes out the way water drips real easy. You know, if I just drip this water, he takes it out real easy. And when he takes it out the magnetic accom and they sit and witness it for as far as the eyes can see.

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As far as the eyes can see one of the happy to show the great number of them and that

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they are not four fingers you can put in the heavens, except there's an angel making record or such that

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when the Prophet went for Israel with Mirage, he saw the beta or more that it's over the cargo over the cabin every day 70,000 angels go in and out never to return again. So the guy who's only nine years old, 10 years old and this metrics, how many melodica went through that house since he's been alive. It shows a great number. The angels who will carry the throne of allies with gel, there will be 70,000 strings on each string 70,000 angels no one knows the number except

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Allah, but one of the proofs of the great number of men Attica, when the believer dies, and they pull his soul out, the angels are for as far as you can see. And that's everywhere where a believer dies all over the world, so a lot of angels.

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And then he takes his soul out. And before he gets his soul out, before you can blink an eye, his soul passes to the other angels, they all grabbing them.

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Allah knows reality of that. And then they take them up to the heavens, the first Heaven, it knocks so that he can get it has he been allowed? Yes. As he's going up, there's never a group of angels except they say, whose spirit is that? It smells good. It's a spirit. That was beautiful, calling them by the best names. And then those angels follow him up to the next heaven, and the next heaven. And then next heaven until he gets to the seventh heaven. And then Allah tala tells those angels up to blue at the fill me in, put him with the alien, his book of goodies. Now the point I want to make here is

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all of those angels from the time that he dies right there, and it goes up from there, follow Him, although that goes show to show that with Elijah jello, the life of one believers serious

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sacred

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lands, the wild dunya Allah menang yoke tell Muslim volna for this whole dunya to be destroyed is easier on the law than for one believer to lose his life unjustly. The believer is it has huruma his honor, his life and there are those people get close to a lot by killing people. In Somalia, they put a bomb in the capital and blow people up and kill 5060 100 people.

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And they get close to a lot like that.

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And then we want to come and say look at the Sufi people saying who were who were, who were, who were who were. And that's not right, that getting close to Allah with innovation of

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Allah, that's not from the religion spinning around like that, with a dress going wide open like that. You think you're flying in the center with the Malacca, they get close to a lot like that's bad.

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But they are those people get close to a lot

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by saying this one is an innovator, and that one is an innovator. And that one is a teddy, and Teddy, and that and they get close to a law like that. And you don't take into consideration Yeah. If you say about a Muslim, what is not true is not in him. He's a person who's on the Sudanese Senate. Is that what you're saying? But you're just parroting off what you heard. It's not. This is the recumbent so it's better for you. Leave that alone. Stay with the people who you're with. But learn the religion, learn teach, we learn sick of the religion, make Jihad and be a better person. But don't talk about the people leave that part off. Because the result of that when you say that

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your cat hit the karate they make took fear of Muslims. They get close to Allah by first saying you will catch him and then after that spilling your blood spilling your blood.

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Big muscular. So look what happened in the book of Eliza Magellan we almost done allow time and mentioned in the Quran. In a levena, your Moodle, select the lava fielack minute learning ofit dunya one

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of those people who accuse married women who are not aware of what's being said, and they are believing women, those people will accuse them of Xena. They will be cursed in this world and in the hereafter and a grievous punishment has been made for them.

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Someone says to his wife, you whore you home. You prostitute because he's upset. You said something. She's not a hoarder. She's not a prostitute. Yeah. And even though you didn't mean that, you said what's not in that lady. And she's your wife.

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You stand near my back. Nobody stabbed you in your back son. What are you talking about?

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They said that our mother our insurer of the Align her committed Xena and she didn't. Allah said that the believers when they heard this, they were supposed say soup, Hanukkah, soup Hanukkah, how the boy Dan mubin. Korean to your life. This is a great slander that they will say this about the wife of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam like the rafidah of Iraq and Iran, the Shiite

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They get close to a law by cursing the companions cursing Ayesha saying she made Xena rub the Allahu Allah. That's their Deen. And they're getting close to a law by doing that.

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Well, levena You mean in one minute? Tessa boo,

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boo boo.

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Boo Bina, those people who annoy the believing men and women with those things that they then do. They are innocent. This person who does that they have carried on themselves a great slander, and a great statement with a large with Joe

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saying that about people, and it's not true. So when concluding, whining I just want to bring to your attention to something. And it is important, really important. We have to avoid becoming angry and when we get angry, just keep your mouth shut. Because when you get angry, that's when we all make mistakes. I know I do when I get angry. That's when you say things you don't mean to say and you shouldn't say like some of these curse words that are in our culture. The curse words actually they had the origin in the English language actually, they are not originally curse words, but they became curse words swear words, so we should avoid them. But they are in the dictionary they used to

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be used here in the UK, Shakespeare and those guys used to use these words. One word they did not use they didn't use but you know the efa you know the mF Don't look at me like I'm crazy. You guys know what I'm talking about? We use that cursor you fo you know what I'm talking about? If you say somebody to somebody will ever

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noun a short leg sing now in the slang now these kids mofo

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My father was the same thing, because as you're near that word, when you call somebody that, that man didn't do that with his mother, or she didn't do that with her mother.

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This Hadith is applicable to you. You say something about a believer, it's not a true, you're going to be in the pus, and in the liquids of the people of the hellfire. Those are the cursors that have the origin in the language, I would say it. But I don't want someone to miss everything that I said for the last hour. They're going to disregard everything that I said for the last hour, and it's gonna hang on, I will set these curse words that have the origin in the language. So I'm going to do what the prophet said some of it was settled and leave what you doubt for what you don't doubt.

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The curse word you be, you know the B word. You know I'm talking about right? That really means a female dog. And people work with dogs a chromic. Milan, they use that word right now to differentiate between the male dog and the female dog. So to call someone that B word, and learning create them and made them a beat. Allah says Allah, Allah katka ramna, Benny, Adam, we added Benny and we make him into a dog, a female dog. Another one of those words is the other B word. The other B word. Anybody know what the other B word is? Anybody? Anybody? I'm gonna throw you under the bus. Anybody know the other B word? That the B word is the best it the best. It is a word in the English

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dictionary. It is a person who he was born out of wedlock. She was born out of wedlock. Her mother his mother committed Zina. So they had a baby out of wedlock. So the best thing you call someone this word, it became a swear word now curse word now but it's in our language is in the dictionary. So it should be avoided altogether.

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And if we ever hear our children saying these words

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way

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way like don't come tell me it was in a dictionary

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and pointed to me in a dictionary. If you say that to someone, and they are not like that, this is your reward and so many of these words so many but I think you get the picture. Like the donkey you guys know what the donkey is called? Right?

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guys know what the donkey is called? Right? The eight a word? Yeah, yeah, it could just be that or it could be that whole a whole.

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Allah said about the dunk in the Quran in the anchor, a SWAT the Sultan honey,

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an anchor as swatting de la. Sultan Hamid, that worse voice to Allah is the voice of the donkey. So when you call people that are not in Korean into a donkey, make him a donkey. He will make him a donkey. So don't use those words. And they are like the head, all of this stuff, all of this language that they have out there. And one of the worst ones and we're

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With this is when you find a Muslim who you perceive him as being but he'll he may really be stingy and then you say to him you do

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you do

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I heard a brother say to another brother you Jew nigga

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How can you be a Jew Nick at same time?

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But he was angry.

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So if you say that he is a Jew

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first of all you can stereotype all Jews and not stingy First of all, that's not right say that. Second of all, if he is a Julia, who does not have the religion, you may took fear of him.

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And then the other issue about the nigga should be avoided altogether. Even those people will say, look, we've reclaimed that word, and we're using it for ourselves is a better word that we leave it alone because it's a derogatory word. And we've been told that stay away a lot. Tyler told us, we'll add to Naboo Bella out the car don't call each other offensive nicknames. So it should just be avoided. So acquiring these are the four things that were mentioned in this video. Today, we asked you to excuse us for the usage of the word that maybe you may find it offensive. But as I said it, as I said to you earlier, a little man in the back right there.

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relax yourself, man, till we finish the dose. Okay. All right, little man.

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So we asked Eliza gel to make it easy for us in sha Allah to be far away from these characteristics. We're not going to take any questions tonight. I have a son in law who will send them about a Canon ebina while he was having my Santa Monica move to LA he will Bearcat commando man, Kimmy?

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How you been man? Good to see you.

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Can we get over here?

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Where's Zeki?