Hadith #13 & #14 – Tazkiyah – Purification Part 2 – The Nature of the Deen

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with over to Heidi today we started one in our last class about two three weeks ago before they eat. And it's the Hadeeth with the Prophet sallallahu send them was talking about the importance of the Muslim purifying himself and making the test clear to knifes that's clear to knifes. Everybody here if you are mature man mature women have to make jihad against you or knifes your heart which is not brought under control can lead you to a lot of problems. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Allah Allah He was sending them gave the similar to love the harness and methyl kalba method resha

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the example of the heart is like the example of the feather the feather to kaliber. Her Rhea the flatten the wind blows it back and forth in the desert. So the feather is not going to have any resistance against the wind it's going to go wherever the wind blows it because the wind is so strong and the feather is so light and weak. He said the heart is like that. The heart will be blown around from pillar to post if a person doesn't take care of it by developing any test kit enough's. The way we develop this kit enough is by simply practicing the religion, like a solid in a solid 10 handle fracture, the salaat provincial from doing the lewd things and the bad things if you're

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praying the right way in the month of Ramadan, while you're fasting in the month of Ramadan, causes your eyes to go down and it causes you to get in control of your desires. And that's why the Prophet told most of you Chabad Salama when he was sending them Yama[???]a Chabad minister timing coming back a failure to zone which woman them yesterday following he was sown more young people who in this ministry right now hear me right now men and women, whoever from amongst you has the money and you have the ability to get married and hurry up and get married. And if you can't get married, you don't have the money you don't have the ability, then you should fast. He said that fast then would

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put your desire to get married down. That's does create enough's. We just completed our hij hij hedge. One of the lessons one of the major lessons of hedge is that when you perform the hedge, you see the universality of Islam. It's a lesson. You see how ad hedge everyone going around that Kaaba, everybody who is in Minar everybody who's in our firms delaford making dua to Allah with his a Rama and he looks like the next guy.

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So when you go to hij if you are a businessman if you are a rich person if you from this tribe, you are racist, you go to hygiene you're supposed to learn that in the lives of Hannah with Dallas the isn a Chroma coming the light at Arkham The one who has the most tough call from amongst us all as the best one has most taqwa. So while people are at Mount arafat and it's hot, and you have to make dua all day, there's no one in his right mind. I don't care how racist he is. I don't care how rich he is and how arrogant he is. If he just sits there all day doing autofac all day he's not doing any do I not making any vehicle All he does is eat

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We may even waste time Look at his mobile phone. No person like that, in his right mind is gonna look at a person who he sees who's different color than him lesser in the social order. He's not gonna say I'm better than him, just because I'm from this group or that group, and he wasn't doing any work, which teaches you that. So practicing the arcane of Al Islam, they will naturally give you this kit to knifes. They will give you purification of your heart of your soul. A prophet says Allah Allah while he was setting them in, behind in the globe, banners behind a rock, mango caribou, coffee, a shed all of the people's hearts and between the two fingers of a rock man a lot, he

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changes them how he wants to change them. So there's the person over there who he doesn't follow his desires, because he has created knifes. So he's gonna have patience, and he's gonna cause himself to be patient and so forth, so on. And as it relates to the actions of the hearts as it relates to he man, as we mentioned already, and he man to the people with a sin that consists of the statements with your tongue in order to become a Muslim, you have to say you believe in a lies which if you don't say it, and you have the ability to say you don't become a Muslim, you have to say it. The man came and say you have also lied. Tell me something that if I only can ask you, I can't ask anyone

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else. He says, say I believe in a lobby upgrade. So it consists of your statements like the law that in that. Second of all, it consists of the actions. If you are a true believer, you have to pray. You have to fast you have to make sola you have to make victory, you have to go to the masjid. You have to make an amber Morrow for Nana and mocha. And all of those things are going to manifest on your limbs. You don't do any actions, any these. But you say with your tongue, there's no difference between that person in the moon. If you're poor Luna bl phonetic in Malaysia, people obey Him, they say with their tongues that which is not in the heart. So you have to say, and you also have to do.

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And the third one, this is the point. It consists of what you believe in your heart and in the card, what's in your heart. And I'm telling you as relates to the knifes and what's in your heart that is more legit than the actions on your limbs. The actions of your heart are more important than the actions of your limbs, the actions of your limbs of praying and some and given Sotherton, Zakat, and hygiene all of that walk to the masjid or less important.

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But the actions of your heart are more important more watching. What are the actions of the heart? The actions of the heart are things like a class your sincerity, like having a tawakkol that's in your heart slamming your limbs. That's you having your clean and having no doubt no doubt you're gonna die. You're mukaiyama Allah is gonna ask you slam is the truth. What symbolize the truth? The Quran is the truth. Some people and I'm not talking about with was OCD people. I'm talking about regular people. Sometimes they sit there and they start doubting and then we'll have your pain. Is your mukaiyama true? Am I really doing the right thing that you're keen is from the inside of your

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heart does care to knifes if you purify it, these things be clear for you these things will help you and Inaba Raja Raja is hoping for luck existing, hoping that allies with Joe will accept from you your dour, your efforts your Salah, your soul, but you also the opposite of that is you have fear that law is not going to accept it from you. You have health all of those issues are issues of the heart actions of the heart. They are connected with the issue of a test kiya does create enough's Allah saying the Quran cut f Lucha menza ca rockethub M and de sa whoever takes care of his knifes and he purifies it from ignorance, from arrogance, from envy, from jealousy, from anger. He has a

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muscular of anger management issues. He's still punching walls.

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At this age, he's still kicking the tires to the to the car with his foot.

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That's clear enough that has sought that situation out. That's what today's Hadeeth is all about. We started already alone time I mentioned about prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who will who will levy basophil Amina Rasul and men who are yet to lay him IRT he will use Zeki him where you are limo, whom will keep tabs on what hikma towing cattlemen coven, Luffy Bala mobi, Allah is the one who sent his message.

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Salalah while he was studying them

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and he sent his message to the unmarried people, and it was a NEMA from Allah that He sent him to them because Rasool Allah gave them that test Kia he cleaned them up.

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He cleaned them up, he may Hummer haraam he may Reba haraam get in hi haraam NEMA haraam

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he made the good things halau as Allah mentioned in the Quran, the dirty things the filthy things, he made it haraam, the good pure things Hello.

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So he described the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as being a person who purify them, and he reads to them the book and he reads them the hikma meaning the Koran. So the Prophet came from Allah Why do you send them a 24 test kit to neffs he says some love why he was selling them in the booth to return the macadam Allah flood. I have been sent to perfect the good character to perfect it. So we used to say to his companions, things that other companions were seeing witness and learn from. He said to one of his companions in the FECA hustla, attain you have boom Allah, you have two characteristics that allow loves you agentive your haleem with your wife, your children and the

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people, people under your supervision, especially your underbed you are gentle with them, your Halim and the other characteristic that Allah loves is you have not you're not Mr. gel. You're not like the young man who's always in haste and rush and you can't wait for anything. alijah the two minute shaytan being in haste is from shaytaan driving too fast, leaving your house coming in too fast. You're gonna lose something or forget something. Allah loves the one who has a tourney take your time, they come in and ask you a question about something that somebody your family member an issue who said that you have to answer the question right now. You say reweighed them reweighed them. Give

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me a day. Give me a tow. There's a fitna and let me think about it. The one who has moustache gel. Allah doesn't have that unless you absolutely have to be moustache a different issue. So those examples are the examples of skeleton knifes that the Prophet gave the people and there are many high definition art work a few Roma here they just so many Prophet said about themselves and Allah while he was selling them Enderman have become Elaine will occur Robic mini major the sing yo mo pm at aha cinecon laka. The one from among shoe that would be closest to me. And Jenna is not the one who gave the most talks, who gave the most hope. But it's not the one whose job is the shortest? Not

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the one was lucky as the longest. It's not the one like that. The closest one from amongst you to me yomo kiama and the most beloved to me yom Okayama is the one who has the best clock. So the guy is practicing Islam. He's given dour, she's where he died coming to the masjid student of knowledge and they want to be on the sooner but when you look at him, he's dirty. hygiene problem is eliah anger management issues doesn't take care of them. The Amana swears curses lies all of that and he really believes is going to be in the agenda and he walks him up inshallah we're all being gentle inshallah. But this hadith says what you're saying and doing is not right. The most beloved people

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to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, the closest to him. Yokoyama, the one who has the best and the most the best o'clock. And what is the o'clock is those things whiny that tell people when they look at you and listen to you, that you're not Majnoon?

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You come from good stock. The man gets on the member he has to give the hoba when he gives that he has to come out to the people with edit and a clap. So that when he talks that people go away saying he talked with intelligence with proofs it made sense. They don't go away saying anything other than that. If he got up and he was screaming and shouting and taking this coffee orphans just got they say that guy is crazy.

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And you also sit in in the audience, you have a religious responsibility to show a clock, the way you sit, the way you dress. What colors you're wearing, what you're not wearing the way you look, guy come up in our Masjid. He has a leather jacket on and this weather. He got our Mohican here cut like this with earrings and we're gonna say this guy is mentioning

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something's wrong with him. We're gonna say he's not a Muslim coming to the masjid like that. So we're going to treat him in a nice way to bring him to a slam. Well, if we found out he was a Muslim already

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We're gonna say what happened to him. Something has happened today.

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So o'clock in the religion of Islam, it is vitally important Allah said to the prophet in the Quran subhana wa tada we're in Nicola Allah. avi. You on a high level of a clock yeah Mohammed

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Baba Jaya cumbre Sulaiman m forsaken Prophet Mohammed is just like us. And he showed us what allows kind of what data wants from the human being and that he showed us this test kit. So today's Heidi deals with five things have just gotten nerves that the Prophet MacShane some a lot he was telling me he said that Mr. harden it Turkey, and Muharram takane and the nurse, stay away from those things that are Haram, and you will be the one who has the most the bad, the real, he bothers salah and all of that is pretty bad. But shaken Islam is the new Tamia.

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He said that a bad day is the Essman January they could Nima your hibou. Allahu taala, your minimum acquired will have

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a VA Hera will bertina worship is everything that Allah loves, from the actions in the statements that are apparent or hidden. So the bad is drinking water and saying this Milla to get nourishment. eating food is a bad thing, cinema like them and opening up the door. A bad in Islam is just not praying is everything from what Allah loves anything that he loves, from the statements and the actions, the statements that are apparent, and the actions that are apparent, the statements and the actions that are hidden. What are the actions that are hidden fear, a class, and we are keen tawakkol, an inner harbor all of those issues. So the Prophet said, the first thing is have a loving

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listen to his companions, who would take these five things and I'm about to tell you, if you take them and spread them and practicing and teach people about them. I Boomerang said I'll do it. I'll take them. He said number one, fear those things which are haraam, you will be the abit denies the one with the most divided. And again, if either he is just not prayer,

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favor Muharram from the Muharram and the greatest Muharram is to be disrespectful to your parents. Someone said, as Abdullah in school said, the main axiom of sola what is the biggest sin? He said that you make shift with Allah? He said and then after that was the biggest sin, He said, or po Qawwali day that you're bad to your parents. You're bad to your parents again. He's in the masjid. He's a student. He's trying to be a Muslim. He wants to do the right thing. He's better than many of the people who he's around classmates, friends, relatives, he's better. But he never considers. Yeah, actually, you are really disgusting me disrespectful to your mother and your father, your

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mother or your father. Because your father divorced your mother. You don't like him?

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Okay, that doesn't give you the right to be disrespectful to your dad. That's from the worst. From the worst o'clock. So the point is everything. It can mahanta cannot be the nurse. segue he says of Allahu alayhi wa sallam word that Bhima pasa Mullah who like at a con, earn a nice, be satisfying content with what Allah has given you in terms of wealth, you will be the most evident Nast, you'll be sufficient. You won't be jealous about people. You won't be jealous about what he has. And you know in this society we live in, you know why tik tok, and all these things are so popular, these influences because people, people, people, they look at other people, and they think other people

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look success and we make other people have all this money and attention, when in reality, most of those people not happy, most of my happy.

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be satisfied with the beauty that Allah gave you be satisfied with the job that Allah gave you the house that he gave you, the intellect that he gave you. Some people every time something happens, he says, The snooker player is I wish I was that when I wish everything is good, in which man be satisfied with who you want. Does that mean as young people you shouldn't work hard to become rich? Does that mean you shouldn't work hard to take your company to the next level? That doesn't mean does that mean you shouldn't work hard to become independent doesn't mean that but whatever lies gave me You don't look at those people above you, it's against the religion and you're going to turn

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into one of those people has has said and how you're going to be jealous. You know, in our communities. This is popular in the culture of the people I'm saying will fit in in front of me is popular in many cultures, but some they have it worse than others. Remember the Hadith of the Prophet SAW Allah while he was cinema Unruh element who is filming khumba Latin guru element

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We'll focus on vatika edge doodle and let us do NEMA to lie on a column that's a principle now lives you live by it you'll be better off you don't live by you're gonna have problems. He said look at those people focus and look and consider the people have lesser than you. And don't look at the people who have more than you. If you look at the people who have less than than you, that will make you more appreciative of the name of Allah bestowed upon you. I'm sitting here and I see people in front of me I think every single one of them even the youngest from amongst us, they're gonna have dinner tonight if they didn't have it already. They're gonna go to sleep tonight and maybe a little

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bit hot but they got fans they got a ticket this they can open up the window. There are people not gonna sleep with any food tonight. They are Muslims are not gonna sleep tonight. I'm gonna get killed tonight. They have no stability. There are people were so hot. We be complaining about the weather. There's a hadith the Prophet says some Allahu Akbar Benny Adam, like the I love the Quran. In an insanity rub. behavour canewdon we're in now who Allah, Nicolas Shaheed mankind is forever ungrateful to his Lord. And verily he bears witness to that. And his self ungrateful. Allah gave them so much stuff. The weather changed the other day we had a heat wave in

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the masjid.

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Hi, my car lies Hi, my house, walking down the street,

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in the street, all he does this complaint, maybe you think I can make it cooler? Nobody can make it cooler. Muslims don't make that kind of complaint. That's the complaint of them when I feel pain and the complaint of the kuffaar when the monastic King used to have to go out and make Jihad with the profits of a man who suddenly says too high, they will just say it's so hot out here so high. Allahu taala told the Prophet Cole narrow jahannam I should do heroin low Can we have a Hoon? Tell them the heat of the Hellfire is worth more than this if they only understood and they know.

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So he said about a believer

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either a Saba

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enabler Adam either asabe her Carla his with a Saba who burb Carla, who is the son of Adam is the person who

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is the heart you'll feel his heart.

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And if it's cold, he'll say Oh, it's too cold.

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A few months ago when it was cold, he was saying I can't wait to the summer time. Now summertime, he's so cool. I can't wait till winter time. Yeah, summer winter. No, he loves his situation. And he doesn't complain unnecessarily. Unnecessarily snap from class law.

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And unfortunately, the older people suffer from this a lot, especially older women. You go you say how you doing holler. How you doing? Sal? My auntie, and right away? She's Uh oh, I got a headache. Oh, my head my high blood pressure. Oh, nobody loves me. They won't come pick me up. Oh, life. So I know people like that. Oh, people.

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Hey, guys, don't laugh at the old people. Yeah.

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But they had that thing. Don't be one of those people. You actually get on the bus. The man that driver doesn't know you. He says being courteous to you. And he says Good morning. How are you? And you say my wife doesn't want to be married to me anymore. Man. She wasn't asked you all of that.

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Now as for the one who has a complaint, and he has the heart to come complaint, alleges profit complaints on the law while he was setting them. Robin Tomita who has a per annum Jura complaint. Oh my Lord, my people are banned in the Quran. They don't read the Quran. They need this Koran is mere recitation and hearing it and reciting it is better for them and their families. But they don't do it. So the Prophet complained about the condition. Abu Bakar complaint about Ramadan

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so the companions complain in the Quran in surah 10 mujaddid. God sent me Allah Who told the lady to Jaya derocker physiology How would Turkey and Allah Allahu Yes, smooth to Howard? Oh, who am I to how little Kuma sweat Allah said he heard the complaint of the lady who was complaining to a lot about her husband, and she came to the prophet to tell a profitable husband. So she had a right to complain. up no press. Don't anybody see anything I'm telling you suffer in silence. You can complain to get that one off of you. But we should try to not complain about things that we can't change and try not to complain openly. That's why I was setting the Quran first bear subbrand

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jameelah be patient with the beautiful patients. The sobota Jamil is the patients that you

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Have you don't complain Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam a food was given to him. If he liked it, he ate it. If he didn't like it, he left it. He didn't say it's too hot, too cold is too salty is two ways. He didn't complain. His wife gave him the full. He didn't say, Oh, you don't cook like my mother.

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You don't even cook like my little sister. He says that to his wife, too much. So his. russula wasn't like that. You give him the food, you're likely to eat them like he won't eat it. They gave him some lizards. But so I look at the lizard. He didn't touch it. They say also as a harem. He said no, it's not her arm, just not from the food that I eat. But he didn't complain about it.

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And that's why when the hair is important,

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that to say, a lamb turkey Illa Turkey. When I called her Amica in the movement, don't be afraid except to a person with tequila. A believer with tequila. He's gonna make haram haram Holla Holla. And don't let anyone eat your food who's not a movement because the movement when you give him the full, too hot too salty is weird. He says he won't complain because he has Tuc work. And he man you gave him a boiled egg you come into the house for lunch. You expect to get rice he give you a ball a and some tuna fish

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and he says this mean that as a feeling nobody's business. The one we tuck was gonna eat them food and then after finishing half of his that others you're gonna make dua for him and say, what are we gonna go do now? But the one with no Dean and the man he kind of goes even knew he had the nerve to give me a bone egg. He had the nerve. No, seriously. You know some of our Muslims from China. They eat things we don't eat bats and things like that haraam. You can eat buys can eat monkeys does haraam consensus of the real ama because they have things can eat monkeys, k bats, but they eat things like

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grasshoppers, snails be moving around in the soup, and it'd be moving around. If someone put that in front of us. It'd be hard not to say

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no, it'd be hard will be hard pressed not to make a sound.

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But the movement is the one he follows as soon as

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you say any no complaint. So from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, if he saw something that he liked, he said and hamdulillah levy be met he the Tim was slowly heard, or Praise to Allah, Who righteous these are complete by him. If he saw something that he didn't like, he didn't complain. He said Alhamdulillah he and a coolie. How are you doing as a migraine? How you doing? I'm doing Ilana Cooley, how do you even know from that that something is wrong.

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That's what the province to say. So as it relates to this issue of whining, stay from the mahana. Number two, be the person who was satisfied with what Allah is giving you by looking at people who have less than you. We have to keep renewing our phones renewing our phones. I'm not saying that's haram but we just keeping up with the Joneses. They get a extension kitchen I have to get an extension we talk him out live within your means. If that's what you want to do you plan to do it but don't do it because for landed in Atlanta, we're chasing after these people. The Prophet said number three, some loved one he was it will seldom

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be good to your neighbor and you will be a movement.

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The neighbor in Islam has been

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been given a lot of rights to the point where rasulillah thought that the neighbor would be allowed to inherit in Ellis lamb. He said well lie he lied to me and will lie he will mean he does not believes

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the one who goes to sleep hungry and his neighbor is

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the neighbors won't go to sleep fullness neighbors hungry.

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That's the second thing test kit enough's comes with us being dying and good to our neighbors. Number three, he said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam or number four he says some of our in sanlam love for the people that you love for yourself and you'll be a Muslim.

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Love your neighbor. To kill your neighbor. You'll be a movement.

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cashes Muslim, you'll be a movement because whoever believes in LA last day fell your Chrome. Jara Whoa, whoever believes a lot of last day, let him take care of his neighbor gonna be questioned about that. Muslim or non Muslim. And without neighbors do we look out for that?

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All of us from Tuskegee turnips, that the neighbors that you have in the x Isha, who is the neighbor, she said 40 doors this way and 40 doors that way. So if you live in the middle of any of these streets and small Heath, everybody on your street is your neighbor 40 doors this way, not a Hadeeth I initially said that, and 40 doors that way, the closer they are to your house, the more rights that they had, and then if the neighbors from your relative is double the issue.

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And then finally, he mentioned some of the love while he was sending them what I took from the Huck Finn a catheter dike to me to tell and don't laugh a lot. Because laughing a lot will cause your heart to die.

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So the people who are the famous comedians of the world and every culture, African American culture, British, every culture, we have our comedians Africans, everybody, Arabs have theirs.

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The Prophet said about them so many things. He say your mukaiyama won't be established until the world belongs to look I'm going to look at Luke Cardinal loci as a fictitious individual. He's like as ignoramus. So if during person, and people celebrate them, like some of the real foolish people, they get rich off of acting and behaving in a way with no edit. And he's one of the richest people in society, worth two $300 million because he plays in some show a program where he's being celebrated as being an an nincompoop, an ignoramus.

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laughing at that stuff sitting down. It's nothing wrong with laughing moderately, sometimes. I love saying the Quran and know who attacked our upca He made you laugh, he make you cry. If you never laugh, you ever cry. Something's wrong with you. But if you cry all the time, or you laugh all the time, something's wrong with you. And if you cry for everything, something's wrong with you. You laugh every time something's wrong, something's wrong. edit, edit. He laughs That was funny. And he's serious when things are serious. Unless he's just overwhelmed by extremities. A man can become so happy that he'll say something to do something that's weird. so mad and angry. I know people get

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so mad they laugh. They're so angry when I talk about that. But talking about purchases responding to things correctly. So before going to the next Hi, defect honey. This issue of tos kit enough's, the rhythm of the seller face to write books about azote and awara and Amen, Akhmad. lmm Abdur Rahman,

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le le Manoir, K. Eben Abby, Jura, wor K. Evan Jura, wor K. aventura these mams wrote these books about how to be an aesthetic, like the Sufi but not the Sufi today. With a Sufi back then the one who wasn't into this dunya he wasn't fooled by this dunya he is the individual who gets salad to tranquillity. Sakina is being hemin Allah in Victor insula.

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He wants to be around people remind him of Allah give them close to Allah. He doesn't want to deal with anybody or anything for one second, that causes him to forget. Even when he's cooling down, he's drinking, eating and having a good time. It's about getting closer to Allah azza wa jal. So test kitten knifes the second Hadees that one is a tremendously important Hadith as well.

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Is the Hadith in which the companions said whenever the Prophet sallallahu it was send him send people to give dour He will say to them, yes, zero will add to a zero but Shirou will add to net zero. I'm gonna sing you you will you to give Dawa to those people you are my messengers. So when you go to these people, the three of you and you give dour. make things easy for them and don't make things difficult. Give them glad. Don't run them away.

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make things easy for them and don't make things difficult for them.

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Now in our community, acquainting Listen, my family member two of them suffer from ODC OCD, which was OCD. One of them struggled with it and we got through it for the most part, but sometimes I see some remnants of it. We come to the masjid and we come late and

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they think that the Salah has started and the car is pulling up, they open up the door before the car stops. You may didn't get out to jump and that's just that OCD of the past.

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kicking in.

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But one of them struggles with it. So I'm like everybody else. I have to tell you, people, anybody, because I help you with this OCD. But I gotta say this to you, as I say to my family members, you have to do a better job with memorizing those two hours that the Prophet taught, that takes away

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from stress, anxiety. You didn't memorize it.

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Not to put you down, but Come on, give yourself a chance in the race. You got to memorize that. You got to stay on top of your F car and those do have the Quran, the DA

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Eunice in the well and all of that.

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My family member doesn't want to memorize those, you know, I'm not an Arab.

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Okay? Come on. Can't you can't blame anybody. So don't say that in a rough tough way. But I'm saying Come on. Come on. The OCD, the widthwise makes your life difficult on you. And you got to remember that it makes your life difficult. And Allah said about himself in the Quran, Ma sha Allah Allah redeemed him and how much money that I basically brought in. Allah didn't make anything difficult for you in your religion. There's the middle of the deen of your father, he brought him.

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So let other people make things easy. Don't make things difficult. Someone comes to me. They have OCD. What's worse, they say to me, this is my situation. I think that I'm a disbeliever now, I say yes. you disbelieve. You have to become a Muslim again. Yes, your divorce. You gotta get married again. Yes, that's a lot doesn't happen. I'm making things difficult on the Muslim.

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ISIS, Boko Haram Chabad.

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People will make a beer because the brand spanking new Muslim doesn't agree with you you want in your friends about them?

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You is a brand spanking new Muslim. Are you serious? That's Sofia. That's the sooner

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No, as soon as the Prophet having the companions who had good our clock and him telling us be gentle with people take it easy. So in this Heidi, there are different narrations. Sometimes he said it to two people. Bechet Ah, what are two nephila? yesira What I said I said to people, make it easy, don't make things difficult. Give guide Titans don't run them away. Sometimes he said it to three people. He said it had been retarded. He said why the blue Jabal Abu Musab Al ashari, all three to jack to toliman. He told the three of them, the three of you make things easy. Don't make it difficult. Give grad Titans and don't run them away. What?

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I told them three. And a TA means between yourselves the three of you, when you have differences of opinions, don't split the three of you.

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You got to figure it out amongst yourselves and come to a common agreement amongst yourself. You three are going to give

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he doesn't agree with you. And then you split. What is that going to do with the people law he is what happened without a doubt.

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And people were involved with that stuff. I don't agree with the one over they don't agree with me. So our community is getting the middle of this stuff. And our communities are suffering from all kinds of stuff. LGBT

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foreign policy, domestic policy marriages, our children, the school where they're gonna go to school that we have all kinds of issues, and you and I are going to start being at each other's neck and I'm a scream. This is the sooner I represent the sooner I heard her You're joking. The religion is easier, he is easy for you.

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If you ever got a box like an iPhone, an iPhone, you open up the iPhone. If you find it too difficult, the ergonomics of it, you can't open it up the box is not working. know for sure too, you're doing something wrong.

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Because the bags wasn't made to be difficult to be opened.

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They don't make boxes like that. They make the boxes so that you can open them you just take your time Look, you'll figure it out. The religion is like that when lacking methyl Allah to a certain degree, that if things are being difficult on you unnecessarily then something's wrong with you. Allah said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam febi Ma Ma 10 min Allah heelan tele home, la quinta fotheringhay the Sultan and sub Doom in howling. It's a Rama from Allah Mohammed, you were gentle with these people.

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With your wife, with your kid, with your heart, with your students, with your community, with your workers, if

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You were rough and tough with them, they would disperse from amongst you because that's the natural response to that.

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This headache goes to show a whiny pay attention. The arsal in a dour abou Sam I'm giving Dawa to people the apostle s to be gentle and easy sometimes you have to be tough, but not right away and not always. The first thing is the Quran eight five the lady asked and push back with what is best. A nice word, a kind word, a gentle word, not rough and tough. Sometimes you have to be rough and tough. But the prophet bought a religion that is easy. The hedge from the lessons of Al Hajj, importance of tawheed from the lesson of hygiene, the importance of the sooner you don't know how to make Hajj without the sooner the Quran Aeon Elias can they're born. May Allah Allah Allah guide us

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and guidance. You can't take just the Quran Are you gonna know how to make to offer on the cover? How are you gonna know what you're doing? Don't know what you're doing. The sooner came and explained all of that. That's why the Prophet said take the height for me the rights of height from the lessons of a hydrogen meant we imagined the universality of his man from the lessons.

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The hedge is the ease of Islam

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and hedges, jihad,

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hedges, jihad, and any and everybody who goes to hide here under normal circumstances, you will come back along those best tired, but you feel like you did something for slang. And if you take your wife is Double Trouble in terms of jihad, and it's real jihad.

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And yet, Allah gave you a choice. You want to do this Hajj or that you have other Hajj that's ease you will catch him all off. You can

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show you here.

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If you have an ailment you can leave before everybody else is allowed to leave Rasulullah sallallahu It was a NEMA winter hij he did this test his Tesla order the person came and messed up the order said I did this and I there is no problem lahav

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hygiene is a sign that things are made in our religion. Religion is not a difficult religion for in the mouse real surah in a mouse we use raw with difficulty the easiest come in the lab not bad said listen. any difficulty that hits you know for surety, the ease is coming behind it. Even if the difficulty went into a hole. The ease is coming behind it. It's like a twin two twins they're always together. A father and a son two twins always together. One of them comes in the door you walk down the street you say what's up man on country? Well we your brother, you don't see him down the street so you know he's coming. That's what the meaning of this is. No one is going to deal with permanent

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difficulty for us in his life. With telco I am nuda widow have been a nurse as

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the be with the people up down black white coal, rain drop, that's how it is. No one's gonna be happy forever. No one's gonna be sad forever.

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Allah mentioned I add that the IRS Allah allowed by the URLs from a nuestra Allah is going to make after difficulty is for you. So many Ayat of the Quran.

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He mentioned in the Quran, you need to learn when you have if an Kumar for dependency, or if Allah wants to make things light for you lighten your burden because mankind was created weak readalong will become ilyasova Elia you read to become an Ursa allow once is for you. He doesn't want difficulty for you. I add upon

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your prayer.

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What's wrong the machine today use it so when concluding in 20 in terms of giving out a lot whether you're given doubt to people even down to people or your husband or wife Take it easy with your family members your children take it easy with your relatives not easy not easy Some of us have anger management issues Some of us have that we have to learn how to calm down we have to make Jihad on calming down as you should know I was laying me things easy for us and clarifying This is one make two points then we're done in shala easy is not easy out of kayfabe it's not made easy the religion I don't want to pray slam is easy. I last go for Rahim Islam no allies go for Rahim but he

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said is shadle a cop is Severe in punishment to

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so easy is not doing what you want how you want to do it. Easy is doing the thing the way the religion say the ease of the RP the of Alice man when Allah take his names and attributes the way he said it and keep it moving. Don't make the colophon go overboard. You know this salada to Southeast Asia when I became a Muslim like some of you brothers, I became a Muslim he told me after after Isha you have to do all the

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These subnets

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I mean, it's like 100,000 Sooners. And then if you say man, will you get these 100,000 Sundays from?

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He'll give you some more crazy answer. And there you go in the corner doing it with a class. That's what I did when I was like Jamaat to believe, because I was sincere. They told me I gotta do all those records. And I was like, man, I noticed. They say, you got to do it if you want to be and as soon as I went over in the corner, I was doing those records, who knows.

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And I was sincere, but something was inside in his saying, something's wrong with this. It was just too much. And then every issue has started dreading so.

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I don't want to praise him after the show, because after he shows the or that

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the punishment machine is coming now.

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Take it easy. Last thing is whining about ease.

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The man gets on the minbar and he's pumped up and he's passionate, raises his voice. He's sweating and he's talking. And then after the other person comes and says, Hey,

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Prophet Muhammad said Take it easy. You're not taking it easy. On the day of the Juma that's not the day to take it easy for the fatigue, that's not the day and the member, he should try to inspire the people who form people. When the propagate the footbox sallalahu it was setting them up to steaming kathira his eyes became red, his voice would raise up and he is anger winning tense as if he was one of the people of an independent army that was about to pounce upon them. So it's the right time in the right place for everything. But still, although the fatigue is allowed to be passionate still he can go overboard you putting you two

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is a Shiite man given the foot but he got so wrapped up in upset he took his his turban off and flew it down and hula stick and jump on the marijuana

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he jumped on the fan and if you see it if you see if you see that and that was our he man we're all going to get up at the same time and just talk him off of the member you can't be up here with your crazy acting like that. Jumping on a miroir and his legs what's up look up look it up in the YouTube look up putting crazy man but in in crazy. Crazy my my Friday. Look it up you'll see. You'll see the I Jubal rujak Okay, when if you guys have any questions, five minutes shout out we take any questions that you may have. What time is the event? I think

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40 if you guys have any questions shower, what happened to the machine today?

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Something's wrong. Thank you, man. Appreciate it says

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All right, like we have a cut that we asked him all the time to give us the good of the dunion the article. Remember whining. Every day is a new day. This one is down and dusted. We have selected a shower left and shot a lot. Tomorrow we make tomorrow a better day than today. Test kitten knifes and being gentle and being easy. Those of us who had this roughness in his toughness with our family members. Let us go back today. Buy him something nice. We call it

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milkshake from ISIS. What's that place called?

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I don't know crap. ISIS by the eight bus over here.

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aces, aces aces. You know go get him strawberry milkshake from me. Bring it to your family and saying look, I'm sorry. to rough overreacted. And from today I'm getting myself together. We have to be like that with our kids. Over the weekend for the raid. Some people didn't sing you aid Mubarak. A Kareem and you're mad.

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Let him go let him go. No big deal. You say to them happy Kabila men and women. People are mad at each other because he didn't send me a thing but you didn't send it to me why I listen to you why wasting time with that just let the first one be the best one. We have big fish to fry and big nuts to crack whining let's not stay stuck on stupid with these trivial issues that a lot doesn't like so pilot that Allah doesn't love suparna Kalona what behind the coercion one that either in the end as the federal cover to equal Santa Monica