Dealing with the Whispers of Shaytaan

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Matter Rahim and hamdulillah al hamdu lillahi wa Kapha salatu wa he was salaamu Ana, Benin and Mustafa

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watershed one La ilaha illa Allah who act hula Sharif Hello, y shadow Anna Mohammed and do what Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, bout

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last Sunday,

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a brother drove all the way to another city to meet me.

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When I met him, I can see he was in quite a state, he was suffering from an issue that we want to raise the awareness of our community as it relates to this issue, because in this semester, a lot of people are dealing with it, or a lot of our relatives are dealing with it. And it is a serious problem dealing with mental illnesses.

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He was and he is suffering from with swas. With swas, everybody he has suffers from with swas. There's not a single person except that he or she has with swas.

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And with sweis, which is the whispers that come from a shape bond.

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It has an assorted number of cousins and relatives under the same umbrella.

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So the person has speculation the person has suffered some suspicion,

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the person has doubt has all kinds of issues.

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So he came all the way to that city. And when I saw him, I said, Yep, this brother has an issue. And this is an ongoing thing. You deal with it all the time with people from our community. Not only that,

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but personally, I had two family members in Islam who suffered from westwards, my wife worked herself out of that. And in 18 years of marriage, that lady did not miss making the F car before going to bed, and 18 years of marriage from what I saw. And now she doesn't have with swas at all.

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But everybody has with swas. But the one who has some level of you know, normality he can bring us with sweis in control.

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He remembers what the prophet said Salalah while he was selling them iatan oven for in oven accessible Hadith. Beware of speculating, beware being suspicious, because usually that's wrong. So when one of the people who is normal, when he starts or she starts to speculate and have suspicion, they push it away. And they say that's from a chiffon. And the Prophet said, don't do it. And it's going to twist you up the mess you up. That's for people who don't suffer from with swas. As for the one who suffers some requires some mascara.

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The brother is listening to me.

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One of us says to his wife, you know, I regret the day marrying you. I'm sick of you, and I'm sick of this marriage. And that's what he says. That's what you said to your wife. That's what I said to my wife. That's what your wife said to you.

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was how it is almost everybody in here who's married, you're going to say something that you didn't mean to your wife, that's hurtful. She's gonna say something back to you. One of the two, we're gonna say more, the other one's gonna say less. But that's something that's normal, except for the one that Allah gave him or her charisma, and we'll have the Elahi. I'm sick and tired of you and I'm sick and tired of this marriage. But for the one who has with swas This means that he is divorced. And he lives his life. I'm divorced, because I said that to my wife. No matter what you say. You say you say to him or her? It's gonna be hard for them to accept it.

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So this particular brother, May Allah help us and him after going to 10 people 10 do I show you 10

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I was number 11.

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He drove me home. I listened to the story. After hearing the story, I said it's very simple brother. Are you done? Yes. I say you're not divorce. The Hadith of the Prophet is clear. And he knew the Hadith in the Mullah. madhubani I'm not even going to translate it because everybody knows it. That was natural nia.

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And Allah mentioned in the Quran, when there is a little inserting a llama, sir. When the Satya console for Europe, the human being will not get anything except what he desired and he intended and he worked towards it. And your efforts are going to be seen by Allah as side like a side beaner between surf and mattawa.

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So the meaning of cycling as the I said, is what you intend and what you work towards. Now if you just sit there and twiddle your thumbs and say I'm going to gently

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Non agenda, and you don't do any work, you don't do any intentions. And this is what this is talking against. But the iron is applicable here, you didn't intend that you didn't mean that. When a person makes a sign between surf and miroir After finish sign, he's not going to say, I just made to walk around the Kaaba, a sigh he is with your near. I was the 11th person who told him that.

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Some time went by he relaxed. We stopped talking. I woke up, he brought it back up again. Am I married to my wife? No, yeah, actually, you're not married. And then I saw what the issue was. So I wanted to bring this to your attention. Because, like me, you're the community member that has to deal with the husband like that. The wife like that.

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Like me, I had to deal with that brother. We got to deal with people like that.

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So I want to address this issue for people like him. And the community showers. Second thing happened. On Wednesday, I get a call from someone in America, they reached out to me, they told me about an incident that blew my mind.

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The lady who I know, took her daughter took the son to the grandparents, happy to see the kid dropped them off, never came back to get the kid when they win. What's going on? after so many days, the lady was there in the house blew her brains out. Why did she kill herself with suas.

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With was not schizophrenia. With worse, she couldn't live with the with worse in her head. And that's another thing, this issue of with swas. When the person is in the room, the width wise is not under the bed. The width was is not in the cabinet in the dewlap that was worse is in the head. It's in the heart. And it's not okay for you to come and say get over it. Come on, it's just shaped on can't say that to these people. Because they are not processing things and thinking and analyzing. Normally they have an issue.

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Worse than that, or just as bad as the isolation. They come to our community. And it's naive to have any mental disorder. Although the vast majority of people in this Masjid have some kind of mental issue, from severe to mild.

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Everybody in here, from severe to mild, except for the one that Allah gave him, his HIV ilahi. So one of our community members, they go to the doctor, and they are afraid to say what happened. Because they feel a I can't talk, they're gonna think I'm crazy. If I started saying to the doctor, you know, prinzip keeps coming to me. He's a pastor, that's the one who comes to you makes this worse. When you're praying. Now the doctor is gonna diagnose him or her as someone who's hallucinating schizophrenic. So the person just suffers and sounds

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big, muscular in our community is a big issue. And it creates all kinds of issues. For the people who have widthwise, whether it's severe, moderate, or just what most people have shaped by comes to you and he makes with swas there are a number of things that you have to try to do. Now my wife, my other family member, who is not doing these things, if you're not doing these things, then you're blameworthy. I'm going to tell you right here on behalf of your wife, you're making life difficult. How in the world do you expect your wife to live with you amicably? How do you think she can live with you with Sakina and mawatha? When one word will trigger you, one word will trigger you.

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So because the person says, Get outta here to his wife get it here. He thinks she's divorce. So the word out if the wife says I'm getting it, oh, and you expect them to be able to live with you.

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She won't be able to live with you, there's gonna come a point where she can't take it anymore. So the people who suffer from this, you can't be a poor bunny rabbit and just sit back and say, everybody has to love me unconditionally. No, I'm here on this minbar saying all of our community has to support these people. Don't laugh at them. Don't ridicule them. Don't make them isolated. We have to say in our community, our messaging is here to help you. We're here to help you. You're the topic of today's discussion, but you have a level of responsibility. Because I cannot be patient all the time. There are going to be times where I wake up on the wrong side of the bed. There's gonna be

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times when it's hot out here. There's gonna be times when we're dealing with stuff

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If you don't try to do some of these things, then you are blameworthy. And from those things that we can do, and that you should do, and at the top of the list is what the prophet mentioned. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tremendous Hadith. He says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Allah to Jah was an Mati. Ma had deferred Bian fossa ha, Marlon Thurman out at the Kalam, Allah will forgive all of my oma all of my community, when they think about things internally, when they think about whatever it is, is dirty, it's nasty. It's crazy. The normal person may see it in a dream. He's doing something with someone that is out of his world. He wakes up saying,

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Just thinking about it makes him want to vomit. Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam Allah will forgive you for that cannamd that goes off in your head, your dreams, you're sitting there and you start thinking crazy stuff, and you're awake. He said, as long as you don't talk about it, and as long as you don't act upon it. So if someone comes to you say, Hey, I saw in a dream I was smoking weed with my mom's, or right now you're in trouble. Now the injury rates that down, but as long as you're quiet and you don't act upon it, you're not responsible, just like the one who's fasting and he drinks he eats while he's fasting. That's how his nerves is like the one who goes to sleep and he

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doesn't wake up on time for frigid and intentionally lie You can leave law who knifes him or her so I say to the person with with wise law, the Kalam don't talk about it to the best of your ability, make jihad, the knifes and kicked and stuff inside to the best of your ability. Secondly,

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a vicar, the vicar of Allah. Allah mentioned in the Quran Allah Levine attacco messung ta effeminate shaytaan avec Kuru, for either whom oopsie roll.

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Those people were touched by the devil. The gate mess by the devil with was I mean whatever they get touched by the devil, if they remember Allah, lo and behold, they can see you're right. So the Prophet taught us some of the seven things to do from this with Swami quani we have this frozen personally sadness zand sadness. It comes as a result of the bad experiences in the past. You saw something bad something bad happened to you, you heard something bad. And as a result, you're now in today, you're suffering because of what happened in the past. But then there's the things that are gonna happen in the future inshallah. And they create anxiety. Those things create electro

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depression, because she's worried. She's worried what is she worried about? If I die, will my kids will become will they stay on Islam? And she worries herself to death. Her stomach is big and bloated. She can't sleep jazz pain, and she has worried about something you should worry about that will your children remain Muslims May Allah give our kids the dad that our death? She should worry about that. But not to the degree where you can't sleep You can't eat. But that's what she has with suas

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puts her stomach like a pretzel and you are the one who loves her. You come and say don't worry about that allows the word kill Allah azza wa jal is enough as a hasid Don't worry. It's not like she's against that. You tell that brother as if he wants to hear he's divorced. And the 11th one your brother what you want to be the verse, Allah says in the Quran, when I test and I share into Contoso comm don't ask about those things. If they were to be made apparent to you, they're gonna cause you harm. Do you want to be divorce? No, he doesn't want to be the divorce. He doesn't want that. He just can't help it is difficult for him. So if he or she, they're making booboo at the base

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in and you see them, and you're there to make maraca, you tell them after they finish, hey, you did everything and you did everything correctly. And three times they're going to say to you No, I didn't want a bill claver you have a condition. So as the husband, the Father, the brother, the sister, the man, as the neighbor, the distant relative, and certain people, after support them, never argue with them about the issue because they are talking to you from a place that's dark for them. Now you get upset and frustrated he arguing with them, and that causes the problem to escalate. It's not the way we say to that person. You have to make the vicar of Allah and from the

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vicar of Allah every night before going to sleep. The prophet may Rukia

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he ran IE to crosseyed he read Coahuila and the last two swords of the Quran. And in the last two of the Quran, you're seeking an str the help from Allah against the shaytan min Cherie. And with worse and Janice, Allah He was with Sophie so during nurse, thus seeking refuge and love from shaper lesson on myrtillus Lan, I wanna be in our Rasul Allah in South Sudan King with a religion and he taught us certain to our that our divine protection and one of those do eyes that do offer this stuff. And I'm not gonna go through that. But I'm gonna ask this person in our audience you hear this cookbook, and you sell hamdulillah Finally, you hear this hook

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but I want to ask you, did you memorize the duel of wits Was it a memorize it? Did any Muslim he had memorized the dog was was because in this day, everybody is affected and what this guy said when a Saba who hung up her moon men Assad or her moon alum felida Ruby having can ignite anyone who was affected with anxiety, or he's affected with glooming D, and he's down anyone who has this worry anyone. If he makes this draw it go away. Easy to Allahumma in the app Duka addict, I'm a ticker to the end. Now see a TV addict. Malden fear Luca igloos Kaga tremendous Hadith and I make you an A teacher. Don't feel sorry for yourself for your wish was because Allah is idle. He's just and what

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he decreed on you. And your forehead is in Allah's hands. Everywhere in every place. Allah wants you to go and what happened to you or not? That's with Allah, not you or me. And it's been written that with swas hits you, so don't say well with me, I'm the poor bunny rabbit. Save the Diwan and learn this blank. Part of that Guam Allahumma inni. As I look at the coolest men who were lucky, some made a big enough soccer alum to help out and Zell toufic he tied. Our start felt to be here.

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And touch ll

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be kalbi. We're Nora Sabri.

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I'm gonna ask the person who suffers from this words. I'm a river. I memorize three or four is source of the Quran? Am I exempt from trying to help myself? Is that an excuse? I'm a river. My wife is a river. She doesn't know Arabic. But she had with was.

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So in that duanne against with Swanson against this issue. Oh Allah, I beg you and ask you make the Quran the spring of my heart and make the Quran make it the new more of my chest. So that goes to show the Muslim should be reading the Quran, you got widthwise spend time with the Kalam of Allah?

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How much time have you spent with the book of Allah? And that's a question to all of you. That's the question to me. That's the question to you. Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, how much time do we spend with the Quran? So now that we have these mental disorders, listen from the ashra to Sir Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tunes through a cool new app. 30 valic is the man the majority of the people close to my piano, the majority, their minds will be gone.

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Their minds will be gone.

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That's the condition. So maybe you don't have what suas you got something else. But that shows us what that Hadeeth goals are show us the importance the importance and the role that the Quran has, and it plays Rokia and other than that, Apolo Cody has always stuck for Allah. When Allah to Allah, bad was said

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spinland hamdulillah Salat salatu salam ala rasulillah.

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Last thing I want to mention to everybody here is a chiffon is a big fitna and a big problem. But he said in the Quran and Allah mentioned the meaning is in that he By the way, silica Allah him Superman, hey, shaytani Please, Allah said, My sincere servants, you don't have and you won't have any power over them.

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Shaytan said to the human beings, Allah promised you and I promise you, but I broke my promise. And I can't do anything except call you and make whispers. Shakedown can't grab anybody here by the neck and say, I'm gonna stop you from praying. He can't grab anybody.

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He'll make him roll up a spliff and smoking, he can do that. As a matter of fact, if you close the door, he can open it. If you put something in a towel, a piece of paper, the pot over the top of the pot, if you put the lid on, he can open it. That's how weak he is. If you say

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a gene is going to get into when you read sort of to buckle is going to get into when

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that shaytaan so we have all of those Ayat of the Quran, in the mass will pan.

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His strength and power and ability goes over those people who take him as a friend. How do you take him as a friend, you don't pray? You are kita first of all your IP that James, you want a Hocus Pocus, cultural Islam, russula didn't die has allows that kind of stuff. You will straight up real rally is being above a strict No. Just beyond your religion, easy religion of Allah Islam is the religion of Islam. So as it relates to this issue, I want to say to the community members very quickly, the brothers told me 20 minutes Get out of here we got to be done. But because of the nature of this issue on Metin, Islam, your relatives who are suffering from this, you got to go on

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the internet. And you have to learn clinically and technically, how to deal with people. A lot of times, we're not educated and we don't have the wherewithal or the professional, you know, ability to deal with these things were emotional. This requires someone who knows the deal, and he knows the importance of being patient, being easy, and it requires someone who has read up on this stuff to deal with our brothers and sisters who have with swats and concluding we went every Muslim in this Masjid, and in other than Smith, shih tzu at Gln. We're not perfect, but we're people we're trying to be on the Sunnah, according understanding of what those companions were upon me a lot, be pleased

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with them. And we're trying to address and take care of the affairs and the knees of the oma, internationally, nationally and locally to the best of our ability. So that means if you fall anywhere in the scale of these mental disorders with swastikas that our moms are here for advice, and our community is here to raise awareness like today. We're here to support our community members, and from this member on this day, and concluding this hope to Juma. I asked Eliza gel by his esserman avem to give shifa to all of our brothers and sisters and youngsters who are suffering from this with swats to give everybody Subbarao to deal with it from both sides and that allowed

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Tyler if he chooses in his infinite wisdom to leave the widthwise on people. Oh Allah we asked you to give us the southern the with the wherewithal to be steadfast and patient with it. We asked him that and only he can deliver that for us and make it happen for us. And we accept from shout Allahu taala Ottoman Salah, your hammock, Mama