The Woman Who did 2 Hijrah (Migrations)

Yasir Qadhi


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The success of Islam in the United States has been rewarded and respected since the early days of the century, with the woman of Hab dots claiming to have more right to the Prophet sallahu than the woman she is speaking to. Habashi claims she was born in a habitat and was born in the ocean, but was later married to Omar reminded her of the benefits of her position and the importance of complete gender segregation. The Prophet system has not always been the best fit for everyone, but the culture has changed and become more popular, with the woman of Ja Nos who had to sit and cry because of her emotions and the Herid system seeing the woman and her family and deciding to bring them home.

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Hola hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah why the early he was so happy woman well Hammerberg today inshallah we'll do a beautiful Hadith in Sahih Bukhari that has a lot of benefits to it insha Allah to Allah, it's narrated from a smart Binti roommates a smart Binti roommates smart bento mais she was the wife of Jafar Ibn Abee Taalib Radi Allahu Taala and, and she was not actually from the Quran. She was from the Bani Hassan and she was also the the sister of the wife of Hamza, so Hamza la the Allahu and Jaffa of Nebuta. They were they had married two sisters. So a smart mentor amazed had accepted Islam very early one Jaffa accepted Islam to the LA one a smart accepted

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Islam before the double come way back in the day, and they had migrated to have Russia to Abyssinia and they had lived in Abyssinia for around we estimate around eight years or so they lived in Abyssinia. And then when the Prophet SAW Saddam was in the Battle of high bar, so the Sahaba came to Medina from Abyssinia. So they have a city and then came to Medina. They hadn't been with the Prophet system for seven, eight years. And you have to realize back then leaving your country leaving your land was a very big deal. It wasn't like an hour, every one of us has gone through four or 510 cities in our lives. It was a very difficult thing to leave your culture, your society,

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different language, no protection. It was a very and that's why Hijra was as rewarded as it is the Hijra that the Quran mentions of leaving your land for the sake of Islam for the sake of peace and security. So a smart job for others. They had been from that 70 batch that had gone to Abyssinia now they've come back and hottub Radi Allahu Allah and visited his daughter half size house, the wife of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and he saw a lady with half salt. She said who is this? He said who is this? And a smart said I am a schmuck vintage roommates they hadn't seen each other since Makkah, and the hijab has been revealed now by the way, so they haven't seen each other since

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Makkah. So I'm gonna be the hot tub. He was a little bit Johnny teasing with her have a Shia

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bahariya a smart the habit she, meaning the one from Zinnia a smile, the one from the ocean. Okay, so he's like ocean because of course back then, to write the ocean was one of the things that the coloration particular and that Central Arabia, they considered to be a very dangerous thing. Writing the ocean was like a very, almost crazy thing for them. And that's why for either rakibul For Baja, Allah says in the Quran, it was a very rare thing. And the Quraysh had a type of almost a phobia of writing the ocean for understandable reasons. So he said you are the Habashi lady because she's lived in habitat. You are the lady from the ocean writing the oceans. And then he said to her, don't

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think now that you've come back, that you have more right to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam than us. Don't get your hopes up who you are and who we are. He's in a half tz men are unique. They go back a long time they don't think that you have more a hacker your hack over the process them than us rather, we were with him in budder and an ODE and we fought and we did this and that. Okay, so he's telling her we have a higher rank than you. You were safe and secure and have Russia and we were fighting and on the front lines. And a smart Radi Allahu an estimate mentor and as she became so angry, she responded back instantaneously. love Allah He that's not true. Whatever happened, she

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said, You were within the company of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. If any issue arose, you would come to him directly. When you felt uncertain or wavering, he would comfort you directly. And as for us, we were in a strange land far away with no help and support away from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Subhanallah look at the mentality difference right? She is saying regardless of what trials you went through, you had a blessing we did not have Wi Fi comm rasool Allah, you had Rasul Allah system in your midst, how can you compare us and you, you had the Prophet system, no matter what happened, you would go back to him, he would comfort you, he would encourage

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you, what more do you want? As for us, we were inhibition who's going to help us there who's going to comfort us there? We were all alone. We were cut off from our culture and our lands. Then she said, Well, Allah He I will not say another word until I go directly to the provinces and and ask him which of us to is more right to him. He only she is now irritated and she has every right to be irritated. Okay. She is now frustrated. How could you tell that we don't have more right than you just because we were an amateur. On the contrary, we should have more right than you. And so she immediately came to the masjid of the Prophet sallallahu. And he was set up and as usual, he's

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sitting amongst the Sahaba and she said from the back of the gathering, ya rasool Allah Roddy, ya rasool Allah Omar Abdullah sobre la vie came to us and he said cada waka and I said to him cuz our cada

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So now you tell what is the right one? And this shows us so many things, by the way, right? It shows us first. I mean, there's so many benefits we can describe a scribe of the things that shows us is that, you know, the Sahaba they have a healthy competition, that who's the higher amongst us, right? Their competition is in degrees and ranks in the eyes of Allah. It's not in bank accounts. It's not in the house and the cars that we drive, it is in the closest to the prophets of Allah, who I think he was setting him also of the points of benefits here, and SubhanAllah. This is self evident. But still, sometimes it needs to be said that this notion of complete gender segregation that many women

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don't even speak to one another, it was not found amongst the sahaba. This incident took place after the verses of hijab had been revealed. This is in the seventh year of the hijra, the verses of hijab came down in the end of the fourth year of the Hijra. And here asthma is getting irritated and she's responding directly in anger. And then she walks to the masjid and in front of all of the men from the back, obviously the gathering, she speaks out, and she describes her complaint and she says, Yeah, rasool Allah, this and this, and nobody said to your voices, our yoke, they don't speak to them. And so we have to be in the middle not too extreme and not too lacks. And this is one of our

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problems of this society that what is that good middle nonetheless, clearly from the Sahabas time they know each other? Oh, ma recognizes a smash. She says, Ah, he says are that USMA he knows who she is, in some cultures as some people have the cathedral where you're not supposed to mention the name of the person write the name is unknown. Oh Mephala. The Sahaba knew everybody's name. Autopsies. So the even after her job, and she says cut that off took I've recognized you Oh soda. He says her first name. Soda in and of itself is nothing wrong as long as there's no Hello. And it is done in a dignified, dignified manner. So as smart as the Profit System. She says, Yeah, rasool

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Allah or Homer says such and such and I responded such and such. Now I said to him, I'm not going to eat one morsel or speak one word until I come to you. So now here I am. So she explains why she's in the gathering and what she wants to know. And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, love Allah, He know by Allah, they have no more right over me than you do. They have no extra right over me than you do. For you are the people of two hedgerows and they are the people of one Hijra. Subhan Allah He brings forth SallAllahu Sallam another benefit another blessing, right? The concept of Hijra and the reward of the Hydra is well known. And the prophets are some saying you people have

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haberdasher, you have something that will hide you don't do not have them will hide you don't have one Hegira from Mecca to Medina and you have two hedgerows from Makkah to haberdasher and then from Habesha to Medina, you have that blessing over them by the way very interesting point. The Prophet system did not say you are better than them. He simply said they should not say they are better than you notice the very precise wording right and this

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this introduces us to the reality that there is something called an Arabic we call it of leanness v. And that is relative preference right? In some categories and aspects that Mahajan are better. And in other categories and aspects the people of Habesha are better in some areas, the unsought are better in some areas, this is better. So we look at the good and we do not try to diminish the good of the others. This is the overall Islamic spirit. By the way, this is best manifested when it comes to the Gambia and also is that tilaka Rusu. Football now about Amada about that some of the prophets have lead over others and yet still the prophets Assam said love to follow the dunya Unison but

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don't say that I am better than Jonas than Jonas even matter how can the Quran say that Allah has made tough deal. And then the Prophet says I'm saying don't make the deal. The response is very clear, when the tough deal when the preference is done to talk about the good of all of them, go ahead and do it. But the minute that one preference is used to negate the good of the other than you have gone into territory, you should not do we don't use the good of one to diminish the good of the other. That's not the Islamic spirit. And in some sense, that was as if I'm what are they saying? You are not worthy, we are worthy. And the prophets have said no, you are worthy, and they are

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worthy. That's what he's saying that you have a blessing and they have a blessing. And this is the Islamic spirit. We look at the good and we we concentrate on the good and we don't compare, you know, to put other people down in this regard. So a smart became very happy and she came back to Earth. Bob gave him an earful that this is what the process some said hello as you can see this anymore, and then she returned home and then the new spread and this was right after they had returned from Habesha. So it's basically a month or two after they come back new spread amongst the entire people from Habashi that had come the MaHA Judo that had come from Habesha news spread about

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what the prophets have said have said so a smart set for the rest of the day. Every single person from you know that that contingent will come to my house in batches in one and twos and

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they would ask me to hear directly from my mouth with the Prophet system had said, and nothing made them happier when I said that the prophets have said to them to us that no, they have no more right over you. You are the people of two hedgerows, they are the people of one hijra, but there will be so we see over here as well that Subhanallah the men are coming to the house of a smell, obviously Yanni in not in single but they're coming in batches of two or three they're talking to her directly, she's responding to them directly and she's narrating the Hadith. Obviously, they're not going to go to the Prophet system that's too high of them are calm to get the Hadith back again,

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they're going to USMA and they're feeling happy. This is what the prophet Silla seldom said about us. So this is the beautiful Hadith it gives us an incident into the psychology of the sahaba. And by the way, before we conclude who is a smile to your face, so as far as the wife of Jaffa, we said she had three children from from Java, you know, Abdullah, and others, the famous children of Java and maybe tardive Jaffa, the Allah when he passed away in the bottle of water. As you're aware, the prophet system was in the masjid, and he saw the bottle of water and he described the bottle of water while it's happening live. And he began to cry, because Zaid even had it that had been killed,

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and then Jaffa had been killed. And then Abdullah midwall had been killed. And he literally had to sit down because of his emotions, because especially zayde That was, quote, unquote, the adopters and remember from the days of GE idea, and then a Jaffa, who had only had just seen Jaffa, of course, when he came back to hyper the Profit System stood up, kissed him on his forehead, this is Java. And he said, Well, Allah he I don't know why I am happier today. Is it because high blood was conquered? Or is it because I'm seeing you after so long? This is on the day of the conquest of Haber. Jaffa came back the same day and the Prophet says that I don't know why I am happier. Is it

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because of hybrid or is it because of you that is Jaffa within a month or two Jaffa was Dido Shaheed the Prophet system visited the house of a smart this a smart and she did not know what's going on. She had prepared a meal everything and he called the children of Jaffa and he you know brushed over their head their head and he hugged them and tears began to form a smart realize something's going on. Yeah Rasulullah Did something happen? And he said yes. Jafar has to she has died a Shaheed and she began her wheeling because at that time still, the issues still had it took a while she began wielding at the time. The Prophet system after a few days visited and said stop this three days. He

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went back to the masjid He informed the Sahaba that is now the early Jaffa altar and prepare food for a smile on her family. They are not able to prepare meals. This is a sunnah when somebody passes away in your immediate family, not your family but your cousin's family, your uncle, when somebody passes away, somebody close should take care of the food. The process I'm told us this that go and prepare food and he visited them he made up for them. And then after a few months, Abu Bakr Siddiq proposed after there that he proposed to a smart and so a smart became the wife of Abu Bakr Siddiq after she was the wife of Jaffa middleby Tada and we got to Sadiq and Esma they had Mohammed bin Abu

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Bakr, the famous Muhammad me bucket if you know your history, there's a lot of history about Mohammed ma Bucher and Abu Bakr, Muhammad Amibroker, about whether he was born during the hijab loaded literally while they're on the the way of hedgerow that Mohammed Abu Bakr was born. And then a worker passes away a smart then marries, who does she marry it even authority the only the only sahabi, who marries three illustrious Sahaba is of that nature. Jaffa and Abu Bakr, Siddiq and Ali ibn Abi authority, and the only Sahaba to be married to to Khalifa is because of avocado and olive. Nobody thought of art conifers, and she had children from all three of them. So happened to be burqa

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Subhanallah what eight and this also shows us by the way that the concept of a divorcee did not have the stigma. Look at the nobleman. She was a well known Sahabi or Eman and Taqwa was well known and so people are the highest caliber are marrying her after Jaffa was a bucket after obika Olivia Tada. And by the way, another point to all of these are benefits we can derive this notion that some groups have that added of the Allahu and Oba karate Allah had tensions between them. History disproves this there was no tension between them here is added on the Allah one marrying the ex Yanni and the wife of the workers passed away of workers today and then raising his son, Mohammed

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ibn Abi Bucher, in reality was raised by the imminent authority and his loyalties throughout his life were to add even if you thought him and there was no conflict with the fact that he's a worker son, the entire life will have no you Bucher he was fighting on the side of it and he was very adamant about the fit and that took place on the side of it of the Allahu and, and the fact that he's the son of Abu Bakr was no contradiction to his whole lifestyle because there was not that tension that these other groups claim to be in any case. interesting anecdote. beautiful story. Lots of benefits to Dr. Sharla will continue another story later on Kamala Harris and I'm about to catch

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