Channel: Yaser Birjas
Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala nabina, Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa salatu salam and
in the book of manners
chapter the secrecy of private matters, which means guarding seasons, dedicated garden season and the importance of garden secrets if someone asked you, I mentioned earlier many sessions before, the meaning of assessment with one very simple way of defining a secret. If someone wanted to say something to you, and they look behind,
it means that
because the reason this person look behind, like that's the reason they've
done themselves, they want to see
that and if someone else was listening, that means they're going to become more private, more.
So now, again, to recognize that the person does not have to listen.
They don't have to say, you can just simply pronounce it and say, Do you mean okay, making sure no one else is listening. So here's now remember number of data, your data is
a nominal meaning it
could not be some Obama, it was seldom, and it says one now one day, one occasion, all the wives in the last messenger, sallallahu alayhi, wasallam were women. And that was during the end of his life. So
when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was, was ailing, and he was basically
he was able to rotate, do the regular rotations visit the houses of the wise.
So I showed you a lot of the product was always asking, Where am I gonna be next day when I'm gonna be tomorrow. So the other ones I realized was being too physically ill right now and physically. And he wasn't able to keep rotating. She was suggesting and asking if you could stay without right. So there is that gesture from him.
So they said,
Why don't you just announce it? And we came up, we come up with a visit. So
for the last few days, before he passed away,
it was actually over a week over almost 10 days, or 14 days. So then, one of these occasions
they came over to this
random farm what Fatima Fatima his daughter wrote a long
She says, Then his daughter 14 Atilla who walked up to the style of her father. She says that
she is our
Which means you can walk in and somehow a lot the walking style was like,
you know, in English, they say Like father, like son. And in this case, it's a problem. The problem is our son, his daughter, she looks like him and the way she walks on the line and even they say about her on the candidate
is just the closest resembles the father or the children he had. She was the most assembling to him.
So he says to her, so she said actually, about her that she wasn't sure what exactly
it seems that
she hadn't seen she had not seen
for a while because he was lying in bed.
she looks exactly like your father on the
So imagine a father.
you see your older daughter younger daughter in this case? was younger daughter was coming into his house and his his solar cells? How would you receive your daughter she comes in, specially in front of your wife.
Well, you have one mic
around him and his daughter's cousin. How do you explain
the process of a woman who immediately caught up
when he saw he won't come immediately. I have a walk on so I do not have a minute. Welcome my dear.
Welcome materialy Allah,
even the prophets are the Messenger of Allah, still assuming this role as a father, he never learned this was he was on his deathbed. So a lot of Salah, and he sees his beloved father maratea.
Father, she comes in, says,
Welcome my dear daughter.
So even in a position like this, some people might be reserved and the way they might show this graph, integrating specifically that this daughter, she's not the daughter of his wife
was on the line. So, there might be some sensitivity, some issues still
favor his daughter. So you might have
some reading on she meant, she says then the next
chart actually she forgot.
But she remembered remember one important thing that he brought here, next, right next is even if anyone else is there, he would he would move a little bit.
He brings me as close as possible. That is the daughter Fatima
when she sat next to the Prophet,
the prophet SAW the
current through masaba he whispered something, you know, when you have, you know, the wants to this is your doctor, you want to say something special is okay. It was first interview. So it was for some something to Fatima
when she heard that she thought
she refused the service.
So panels on the processor, so again, it was a fun. How can he be the reason causing so much pain for his daughter, the
when he saw what she was planning and how she she was crying, unhappy, basically, because what he said to her
whispered to her quality for the hecate to start smiling or giggling.
So the first time she cried, the second one Sheila and I wanted to be in the position of all the women on the
newspapers to Fatima. She cries then three seconds later, he was for something else or her to drive out. And she started smiling.
Everybody's gonna be thinking What happened? What did he say? What What was that all about? so forth. And
once she finally
as she was leaving
her she was taken
to the hospital.
II Samantha. So she told us she said this,
your part of
has made his has favored you over everybody else among his wife, by giving excuses. I was presented to you and you should be happy. What would you cry for? So for
some of the brothers or some that I told him, I said this even when she was younger, why would you cry?
You know, they want to sympathize with
you mean look, the professor has just given me specific attention from all the ways he's been given a special attention. Why should you try? When actually when when the professor was when she told him
what did you What was it? What made you cry?
She says, I cannot I can't tell.
I cannot disclose the secret of the profits.
Because you saw him whispering that he wanted you to know he would have said that.
But he was reluctant
to disclose that. So she left for a while firma
after some time, the prophets of Allah Allah wa sallam passed away.
She met Fatima some other occasion afterwards, and she said solid
beam and he
never had any mozzarella.
She said to her after a while, but after that. Now when I was messengers as fast as I want, she said to her, actually.
What was missing the first thing I said to her
not ask you buy the rights I have in respect of you to tell me what was taught. Basically, you know,
this the widow of your father,
mother, and I'm also concerned the mother would
you call these lights at this you know, please let me know. What are the profits or loss
for Fatima she told her now that the prophets of Allah Allah has passed away. I can tell. That's it. It's not now I completely
forgot an answer. Now I can tell you
when I saw one, hula Bharani unnaturally.
the first time he told me when he whispered to me, he told me, Jabri used to listen to my citation.
And then recite his back to me once a year, into the months they, and this time of the year Ramadan he did in his life.
So every time he comes once a month, no, hold on. But this time, he comes twice.
What does that mean? What do you understand from this falcata hustle a lot of salon. So he told her, why we la la, la la hora de la,
he told her, and because of that, I perceive that my debt is approaching
the Rosa MC. And the reason it came to me twice in this particular it's in the army about today. So that's why you want to make sure double check that a citation for handling. So he did that. So it's always a fact of the law was busy. It's over. Therefore, I'm giving you the advice. The patient experience time with a beautiful drama, and English, which means I'm dying, I want you to be patient.
And that is we learn from this other family member of the household, the father, to make sure that before he was basically reached that age that they give advice to their parents or their children to the staff behind them after them that they feel lost.
And they remain quiet and will remain patient that should remain patient.
After the death of the beloved not for Karla tequila, I was very excited when
he told her I want you to be patient and steadfast, for I shall be an excellent call Ron for you. Which means I'll be waiting for
just coming after him. I'll be waiting for you.
Remember what I've done. So be patient.
When I heard that I
can imagine for a long time. So you know the painful the situation for
the first thing she learned when she was very young and very tender.
She was very young when she saw all the humiliation, all the torture, all the difficulties the father had to go through when he was delivering the message. And
she was the one she was the one when
he saw the process
was very close to the cabinet. And they knew about some of our sponsoring the cup. So one of them he was who who can go and take the test the cow from such and such house and throw it on the back of Mohammed Ali prostrate, and I'm giving them such and such as record.
One of these guys actually came on, and you got that stuff.
And he waited for the profit so
he can do that.
On the back of
why he was insurgent.
And he learned he start running away laughing and making fun of
the Prophet sallahu wa salam remained in that same position of citizen. He did not even he didn't know he said in his position.
Who came to the rescue? That little younger, back then
she came she started pushing this away from the back of a father pleading his back in his head. Some of us are crying. She was crying. And she was basically speaking about this. How could you do that to him and she was crying.
he didn't say
he was not given the order to retaliate or to defend himself in another way but patience
was given back
Allah subhanho wa Taala
me, which means
be patient with them, and is not yet to respond. So that was asked about a lot, she saw that she grew up seeing her father living three years after a mother as well.
They both lived the three years of the boycotts ensure
the value of a lot when they had when they were not allowed to find to muscle food for them, to trade with them to bring anybody that it has sustained their life so they could not do that. She lived them. She was one of those who suffer.
And then she saw how her mother she was affected greatly because of that malnutrition, because of after three years, three continuous years. And by the end of that season, she died.
She witnessed the death of her mother
and sister have siblings. But here are three three brothers, the boys, she was their death, and a very, very young age. All of them died when their
father mother in law, she lived long enough to enjoy the companies and our sisters on consume Rotarian. And
however, not for too long
and she was she was there, she saw that who was left for her, her father. her sisters are in a hospital.
Then her older sister passed away.
And now she's the only child.
Imagine nominee for all of this in perspective. Now there are
two men her entire family is the only one left for her. Except now that she has
she had her beautiful kids
is the fruit of the heart of
the profit and loss. I'm used to so many things in the community just to play with.
So these are the fruits of the article sola sola, sola. And Fatima is there. She knew how much they love their grandfather. She knew how much would a prophet comes home. He brings so much fun when I say look.
I'm sitting there on his deathbed and it was
your father in law.
I want you to be patient. What do you expect her response to?
She cried. He cried her eyes out. He does what she said.
Which means she finds so much because of that. And then the birth of Saracen could not see his daughters like this. He couldn't see out of her iPhone.
fella just saw when he saw me cried so much. He didn't wanna leave me at that time.
So he was against me for Karla Fatima. Mr.
Cooney, so he does and he says,
Oh, we say either. Mr.
Caracalla head to the heat.
He says she said she said that he told her in whispers of are you not pleased that you will be the chief among the belief in women, or the crown of women have this
in another direction, he says, by hand and say that and he said, You will be the fare Ladies and gentlemen,
is your man or woman would object to the scarf.
proposition of this life?
Of course, everyone would love to be. So far they're all she heard that. She's one.
I'll be that lady. And he was given a promise to show me this lady and a gentleman.
The gentleman, you'd be the third Lady of a gentleman. Some of the comments from the Spanish he gave are also a subtle message
that some of the message that you're going to be coming after me,
which means you're going to be joining me in agenda very soon. So you know, it's okay. And sure enough, six months after the prophet SAW sounds as though she died.
that 41 of the time, she took
she wouldn't tell anyone, not even
under the potter's house also passed away when he passed away.
This is part of the knowledge you wanted to share with your mom. So she said and she said, I probably am
Someone's gonna make a shout out the chief.
You might feel embarrassed, I think I deserve it.
she was given this from the
Father, he was the Messenger of Allah. So when she was asked,
that's what he told me. And I'm proud of her, I'm not going to be one of those things. So thought about electronics, she kept that secret. It's very important if someone tells you a secret that you stay, and you keep that secret with you.
far the most best answer when she died, actually, she died normal day. It just
wasn't an accident.
that she doesn't stay too long.
If you know something about someone likes Muslims who drink alcohol?
Does this person is this person doing it in
the question is, Are you allowed to go and expose them in front of other people? That's the question.
I would say it depends on the circumstances.
Maybe just to go and talk to everybody about this.
But if someone comes to you, or you know that this person is going to marry so and so's daughter, whom you know that their martial art comes from a very good family, and this is you have responsibility, moral responsibility to tell them
that I know this person.
You are allowed to do that. And you're not allowed to do this. So basically, the decision is there.
But you have more responsibilities of their life, or you know, someone wants to make this person like a spokesperson for the Muslim community.
In this case, you're going to tell them by the way, this person is not the best role model
or a community wants to hire a youth counselor, for example, he applies.
And this case we have to tell there are specific occasions we are actually obligated by law.
Well, Ah, yes.
the law says the government, a
museum many, many for the perfection, quality, quality and perfection of mankind, human and human achieved. And he mentioned off the top of his head.
And he counts for on it. So the last moment, he says
Khadija is what he mentioned as the wife of ceramic. And he mentioned Mario, the mother of his or his,
his daughter. So
is there a question? Is there any specific ranking for these women who was top number 1234? I don't remember the process of give them a specific ranking. And if they were mentioned in a hurry, if that was the ranking, that was my
last question. Yes.
I have a whole weekend.
The profits my
brother's asking about how the purposes have looked like which has caused
the normal characteristics of the profit. So
if you want to read about a subject there is a book in the market you can buy through shala You can find it online.
collection of ideas by a famous
So you can find that in both Arabic and English I think this was available
but not so terrible Arabic and English in different languages for
the normal characteristics of the Prophet Mohammed