My Parents Hate Me

Yaser Birjas

Channel: Yaser Birjas

Episode Notes

share this pageShare Page

A lot of people ask about “Birr Al Walidayn,” in the context of what if my parents weren’t that good to me?

I hate my parents….

Do I still have to maintain good relations with them? What if they want to cut me off, and every time I talk with them they are harsh toward me?

Episode Transcript

© No part of this transcript may be copied or referenced or transmitted in any way whatsoever. Transcripts are auto-generated and thus will be be inaccurate. We are working on a system to allow volunteers to edit transcripts in a controlled system.


00:00:01--> 00:00:34

Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. So people they asked me this question about rural holidays, being dutiful to your parents. What if my parents were not that good to me? Do I need to maintain good relationship with them? What if they want to cut me off? What if every time I tried to talk to them they always answered in a harsh way to me so do I still need to maintain that good relationship to my parents? What is the answer to this question? You see Allah Subhana. Allah says in the Quran, when Jay Haddock Allah and Tisha bmls, Allah Kabir, that even if they strive and they struggle and they put the effort to force you to worship other than Allah subhanho wa Taala Fela

00:00:34--> 00:01:15

tutor Huma do not obey them, don't listen to them. But then a lot of that says also have humor for dunya Moreover, and keep good companionship with them. So when it comes to Buddhist holidays in this ayah Allah subhanho wa Taala is speaking to us about our parents. If they tried their best, they tried their best to force you to disobey Allah azza wa jal and does it mean to disobey? Allah subhanho wa Taala in the way you treat your parents afterward, he says no, also have Houma for dunya meroofer cable good companionship with them is what is your responsibility? What is your being asked to do as a believer is that you obey your parents, even if they're trying to ask you to do something

00:01:15--> 00:01:55

wrong. You don't obey them and that but you still keep good companionship with them. You will not ask to love your parents, you are asked to be beautiful to your parents. That means even there is something between you and your parents, you still need to show them the act of love. You protect you, you respect them, you be near them when they need you. You help them out. You listen to them, you obey them in any way in any manner that doesn't include distributors to Allah subhanho wa Taala. The point set over here is that it's not about just loving your parents. It's about showing them that love in actions, and that's what I mean more in depth on the subject which are loudhailer we

00:01:55--> 00:02:06

are going to be to discuss in the one weekend seminar that I have protect this house again. It's all about building a healthy family life. I invite you all to come and join me in sha Allah xojo salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.