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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. salata, Rahim maintaining a good relationship between
your kin and your family. Now many people they asked me, every time I go to my uncle's house, my
aunt's house, you know, we don't have that good relationship between between us. And sometimes
because my mom has done in good terms with her sisters. So when I go there fair to my aunt's house,
becomes some issues and so forth. I mean, to what extent Should I really maintain good relationship
with my with my family? See, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Lisa was a little bit more
careful in the molosser lady. Yes, it is. So NASA takato the professor Sam said Lisa was Bill
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McAfee, the one who really maintains that a healthy relationship with his family meaning his
extended family so that rahem is not the one who only rewards them by reciprocating their goodness
and their visits. So if the visitor you visit them, if they invited you invite them back, and if
there's something good to you, you do something good in return. He said no, this is not the true one
who's doing salata. rahem the one who truly made them salata, Rahim is the one when they cut him
off, that's when you maintain the relationship with them. So if they don't greet you either as you
call them and you check on them, and if you don't visit you you go on your visit them okay, but to
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what extent What if every time I go that causes fitna and troubles, what if I go there and
eventually, you know, I don't feel comfortable and so forth. The answer to this is that you need to
continue with patience to maintain good relationship with your family, with your aunt's, with your
uncle's with your grandfather and grandmother and so on. All those around you from your extended
family. As long as there is no really great damage to the relationship. That's number one. Number
two, and they don't tell you don't show up again, we don't want to see you come in again to this
place. Other than that, you need to maintain a shallow shallow healthy relationship with them and
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even if they asked you not to contact them again. You still with a lot of patience and shallow data
and compassion to them. You didn't ever and I wanted to check on them making sure everything is okay
and shallow out about our data. There is so much reward in doing Salatu Rahim inshallah we're going
to discuss that in detail as vanilla. So Joel, in my my new class, protect this house coming out to
a city near you vanilla zone. Check it out was Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.