Friday Sermon – How To Be A Happy Wife 14

Waleed Basyouni


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AI: Summary © The importance of having a heavy man at home and being a good wife for happiness is emphasized. The four things that bring happiness to a happy life, including having a good wife, being a good wife, and being a good father, are emphasized. The need for strong relationships is emphasized, and the importance of fulfilling man's desire to get married is emphasized. The speaker also discusses the natural rhythm of men making it happen, and mentions a woman with a sense of good enough who experienced a difficult marriage and became a woman with a sense of good enough.
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Ready by the luck, Oh praise be to Allah praise and blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa even send them either witnessed that Allah is the only one worthy of worship, and Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his last and final messenger.

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Maybe brothers and sisters, few or two weeks ago, I spoke to you about

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heavy husband at home, how can our sister assured that they will have a heavy man at home.

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And today is your turn,

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man to talk about the other side of the coin,

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the other half of the thing.

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The other important component of this beautiful relationship

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that ALLAH SubhanA with Allah have himself made that time between both of you, you and your spouse.

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When denied it and Canada incredible physical as well I generally discriminate among his side that you have created for you from among your souls, a spouse that you can grow in turn quality with them, and live in peace and harmony with the love, which I'll obey that command that Allah and mercy

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the prophets of Allah, Allah you are I mean, we're setting them said, Oh, God, I mean aside for things among habits, and

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then the person will be among four things. And when that happens, then it will ensure a happy life for you. As I said two weeks ago, that happy husband means happy family. And a Happy wife definitely means a happy family.

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I'm going to add the four things among happens they bring happiness to your life, to have a good wife at home, a good wife,

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a good wife, as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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and this just mentioned about the happiness of

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Allah, and also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, doesn't really matter reported in the sinner, Mustafa that

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Allah there is nothing convinced it the male believer, the man of belief, after us,

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nothing can benefited more than Hailong in zoomed it in slightly better than a good way, righteous fine, in a bad way, another way you may have somewhat well, you

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were in love.

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NASA have to go to the next see how a man that didn't consider a woman that if we asked her to do something, she would be cooperative, she would obey his order. And if you look at her, he wouldn't be pleased by the way she looked. And if he asked her and asked if I allowed you to do something, she wouldn't fulfill the heavy oath and promise. And if he in his absence, definitely she would protect his honor as well.

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Wow, that's so great.

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And another how you

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can behave the mechanism. Do you want to know the best thing the best treasure that you can ever possess? Because Islam Allah will begin to ask the province of southern as your any

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above a certain relation to this hadith that the Sahaba said Yasser Allah give you give us a permission to possess wealth, to have treasures, keep treasures at all, had a look at the labyrinth kingsnake Mr. Dowd for Ireland and abuse all of us. But I think Allah will be done.

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And in some allowed us to possess gold and to keep gold and tough treasures as long as we give what the catch and

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then the prophets or something so that the Companions start doing that they want to tell them about the best treasure that they can ever teach us.

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After kings techniques, okay. There's no the golden the silver, not on a large flat account.

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And the banks know, it is what the Prophet SAW southern said. You can design the mannequins, and Mala to sign. The best dredger that you can ever have is your wife, that righteous woman. She is, as the practice described her I treasured, that something should be cherished, something shouldn't be honored, something should be locked

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in to be some of our descendants also sell

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Allah, whatever Allah how to how to marry a good Lord, Allah and how to fulfill half of his

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legit, you know, steam.

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That's how I looked at.

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It's not like what you hear some people say, you know, it's literally the *tiest incomplete until they give me.

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And this guy was saying, I was incomplete until I get married. And after I got married, I was completely finished.

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no, it is the half the other half that is missing, that marriage is supposed to be the thing that asked you. It's complete.

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My brother and sisters, as a self today, it's about having

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to buy a good husband knows how to win the heart of his wife.

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Do you think is a true of this app? That the secret of a hobby why remains a secret?

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I don't think so.

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Is it true? When that woman said,

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I never. I never knew what true happiness was until I got married. But then it was too late.

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So true.

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I don't think so. Could be the case for certain people. And I don't think that's what he does. Because Allah subhanho wa Taala have made this relationship in describing a very unique when

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I was proud to have a sense that there is love and tranquility and peace, make it something natural to the person looking for getting married. That's the normal that's the norm to be married.

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Or there also

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is not to live single. That's when the use of Allah or you it was settlers come upon, das come.

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He is the best among the super and he was married. That's why he had been mistreated, said love never believe in dunya in love ala God mean to kill can lay on

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the streets in Israel only have one life left for me in this life, I will not remember to spend that night single.

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I would like to fulfill that I will have my d by getting them by getting married.

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This relationship was the last time on the other side, about Hoonah devices.

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They are like a garment to you.

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Like a garment. And when you think about a gun, you think about the clothes that you wear. You think about something that suits that something that covers you. That's something that beautify him, there's something that bring protection to you. There's something that beautify you.

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When you think about a garden, you think about something so close to you this the things that makes your skin so frosty. You think about something so private. And that's the nature of this relationship between you and hell. So when I speak about this coalition, we describe this beautiful description, this beautiful metaphor by saying that women are the messenger

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you're like a garment to them and yet they are like a garment.

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Ottawa Santa Ana Washington wouldn't

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live for them with my own futures, what is known as good and this is so unique, what is known as that means out is known according to the culture, because my in certain culture that's known as good enough, but in our culture, maybe that's not enough.

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I remember a que se hack, a mother in law came to me and she said my son only responsible to you know what, a handful of garlic every week, and she gets her there. And it's three get that from, should I have the books, I'm assuming? No,

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she's not, but she's became just absolutely missing. Notice for the sake of my daughter.

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She's English attorney. She's my advisor, my son will be required to do this. That's what the boss said, in the old days, handful of Barbie, you know, skin, wash skin, fill it up with water, and that's about it. And one dresser recently. I said maybe that's what is known in the past

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1400 years ago, 1200 years ago, but not today. That's not how their standard of living is today. The rule of what is known as good is completely different.

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In this model of what is known as good has nothing to do with only materialistic. Good also goes to things beyond the materialistic

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things that you provide goes to what is known as good when it comes to treatment to behavior