Friday Sermon – How To Be A Happy Husband 34

Waleed Basyouni

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Every day.

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That's that's, that's natural. And this is an area that should be thin no matter how old you guys grow.

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So many people in the middle age crisis, they just thrown off either the man or

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she's not internet anymore. And I can't tell you enough how much this became a source of stress for so many men in their 40s and 50s. And, and 60s, that is still active, and they want to fulfill that desire.

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From I do think it's for nothing the prophets on Sunday, when he specifically explicitly said when a man called his wife for bed, and she refused the angel curse. Such why, why the person used that explicit in that clear statement, make that statement very clear. It shows the importance of this remote

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part of this to take care of your appearance. Don't let yourself go. Just because he had been married for

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several kids doesn't mean you let just let yourself

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go sighs go live.

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You know, take care of yourself. And that's how you should be and for your own health, first of all, then to keep that marriage to keep him almost designed to look at you. As the prophets of salaam said one of the good things about the good wife, he says

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when you look at her, that you will pleases you.

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It's not that old cuttin thing that you put in them for years and years, it's about time to change it to give a new look new hairstyle. This has nothing to do with ages seven, no matter how long you've been married to each other. This is an essential to keep warm relationship.

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Develop flair, unexpected

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interest between you and him during the daytime

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and the nighttime as well.

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Next point is number five,

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believing if I tell you that every one of us whose husband wants one goal, which is every one of us wish to achieve, that we want to make our wives happy.

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That's what what do you think why husband work so hard, get money buy houses, this is what makes you happy. And it really make the husband so sad. If he sees after all this effort that he puts in the marriage if he sees you.

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When you don't show that happiness, the husband turned off completely shut down.

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But the moment you show that you're so happy, and you show him that he's happy with the good things that he does, he will be encouraged to do more. And let your husband look because the minute that the husband feel that I make my wife happy, I feel that ego fulfilled as

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I feel that that image has been fulfilled I count as my task which is entering this woman for reason to make her happy.

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So showing your happiness showing that you're happy with the gifts that He gave you things that he gave you you know show that happens to lose a lot he gives you let's say a smartphone as a gift after this book will

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be the number one near lost dialing the speed dialing less.

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You don't call him by his name you call him by making in between you send him you know, naughty text Nasik loving TechSmith

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with your cell phone, that's the first thing I did with my phone.

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You know things like this and spice up, you know, spice up your relationship. Because one of the God has to keep that relationship you know, and flat. What do we call this then Zane in your marriage? Keep it

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also, one of the two searches number six. And the husband's always need your understanding.

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Use your emotional container if I may use you know The Good Wife is the wife who figured her husband out without her husband speaking. I know this is has to face to it. I always tell couples, don't expect somebody to detect what you feel always explicitly, but in the centers on the hospital

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that she can figure out your house without speaking. You figure out if he wants to intimidate you figure out if he's angry and he want to be left alone. You figure out if you want a vet you just want to cool down he does want to talk to anybody right now. You figured out that he needs your help to touch and your kids right now. You know that he needs the software. Will he need to be versatile that

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the more you're able to

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seek him out, the better while you will. And you will make him so happy because he feel that finally somebody can understand me in the light on this slide.

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Be understanding of his work schedule. Because the nature of the work that he does, the more you do the more you understand him and he feels that you understand Him you will make him happy. And that's how you can get a happy husband at all.

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Number seven, every husband looking for a peace at home.

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Peace will be made with the first impression. First impression

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this in this this I got accident I've been testing

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Tickity even first impression is complaining nagging problems is not a peaceful house. first official screaming that's not that's not a good piece it means can quote

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no fight.

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It is essential to focus in the first impression. Good Smile. Good words. I hope you had a great day. Because I really had a good day except one thing else one thing only. What is it that I've been missing you so much. Wow. Every husband will be very happy to hear things like that.

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I wish that my sisters can see the faces of the brothers

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have said the brother this as of the face and say I wish

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I know you can. I know the sisters can do that. It's just a matter of reminder.

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My brothers and sisters, every husband looking for a family life, home that the House of home not a hotel. I want to have my wife to cook for me a good me on how to clean place a clean house. You know this wife went to her husband she told him Hey dear, telling me something dirty. And he said kitchen

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laundry, show many better things in the in the house. You know it's sick.

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It is sometimes bad that you know what your house is not clean. It's not organized, I want home. That's all I'm not seeing the hotel. Honestly, like I'm at home, somebody's cooking good meal homemade food we can do together. But it's something means a lot to the man to the husband makes a huge impact on the husband actually read the statistics. It's run by more than 200 parents, and they consider a meal is one of the best way to bring him closer to his wife, which is ironic. In this basically stoicism was made yet in the West locked in some foreign countries between Canada and United States. So it means a lot to enhance mela

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among

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all of [email protected].

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About so we talked about first one to make your husband happy husband at home respect. Second lot, he knows that you will stand beside him. Number three, he needs you approval, emotional support. Number four.

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Basically a good, intimate life, it's equal to happy husband.

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Number five, he wants to make you happy to show your happiness and that will basically go back to the relationship and make it much better. Number six, any husband will be so happy and he feel he feels that his wife understand him very well. Number seven, every husband looking for a peace at home. Number eight. Every husband wants to have a family life or someone warehouses clean organized. You know fruit has been made for him to feel like he's sitting at a family environment. And number 10 I would like to say that you know what, if you not him a little bit, he can be a better Muslim.

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Any husband when he feels that his wife making him a better Muslim, he'd be happy. He'd be surprised. I'm so happy that I'm married to this woman. She really helps me to wake up for fetcher. She really encouraged me to go to pray Orisha at the mustard. She really helps me to fast and to give charity for the sake of Allah. She didn't help me to come to attend the classes to be active in the community. We need do that believe it or not technology just a little bit of not to be pushy. You know you can force him to do anything but just a little bit of that push in and up. It helps a lot and it makes him very happy. Even maybe she resistance a little bit but after he can post a good

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beat he

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You will be so happy and that's one