Channel: Waleed Basyouni
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How the natural him Allah said that abou sermon or the Allahu Anh narrated that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu Sallam said, He who caused harm to a Muslim will be harmed by Allah. And he who acts in a hostile manner against a Muslim will be punished in the same way by Allah subhana wa tada this hadith reported by a widowed sister You can come here if you want and the light on the side, this right side of the mustard will also keep it for the sisters. So you guys can come forward.
up to you either there or here. It's up to you.
So I will say that the hurried again, mumbled one muslimin who
here who caused harm to a Muslim all be the Roma will harm him would be harmed by Allah and he who acts in a hostile manner against a Muslim will be hostile manner sharp Muslim and a Muslim in any whoever make things difficult for his Muslim brother.
Allah will make things difficult for him too.
So the concept of you know her style maybe, but we'll see right now only comment on the wording of the hottie. Anyway, the head his head even Hasson
told me that a human law said it has an annuity which when he says very, he indicated that there is a weakness and it because it has a woman by the name is
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she is not a trust. We cannot claim that she's a trustworthy narrator narrator for a simple reason, because nobody knows who he is really? who she is. Nobody knows who she is. So we don't know much about her. We only know that Mohammed bin Habana read Hadith from her but we didn't know much about her wouldn't have many other narrations than this narration from Muhammad Ali Habad. So we call this in signs of Hadith Madrid had Madrid has something unknown to us, except one generation or one narrator sorry, one narrator generated from that person. So we really cannot judge if that person is a trustworthy narrator or not.
Abu sudima who sodoma to Abu Saud, Amitabh NeoPixel massini and Benny masm, and Benny nightjar.
His name is Malik Abner case and it was said may be a low low bar but have no case or even case of nomadic ibns and whenever you see multiple opinion about somebody's name, it is because of what can anybody think why there is debate about his name?
Because he is known by his nickname Abbas Abbas,
like Abu hurayrah, nobody knows his name really many, many different opinions, because nobody call him anymore. That was his name. He always was his nickname.
Like for years and years and years, we have a family that we know for years
and I hear their this sister's name
and finally I found it's not her name. It's actually Her name is completely different. This is kind of nickname you know, they give it to the to the woman and I was like, I didn't know that.
Anyway, so I wouldn't even know her name is so that's the case. So or somebody like always known about Abdullah Abdullah Abdullah, but I don't know what's really His name is.
This man it was said that he is the one that last winter revealed the verse and social Baccarat in relation to Ramadan related to him.
about Allah said Kuru Shara bohat, Sabina, Komal, hiatal, abdominal hiatal Swati mineral fetch, eat and drink until you distinguish the white line from that black line which it means night from the from the day, which it means when the fetcher comes and you know, the the person who had that he took literally, you know, a robe, white row block, and he said, as long as he can see the difference, I will keep eating and consider the night but that's not what meant it meant on the horizon, you can see that feather when it comes.
He attended better and whatever after his bedri that's a very great honor. Because anyone attended the Battle of Bedouin Nabi sallallahu Sallam said that they are the best among the believers. And also Allah subhanaw taala have told Mohammed Salim that anyone witness the Battle of better all their sins are forgiven no matter what they do afterwards.
He was with you, but on Sati in the time of Earth, metal, the alarm when they ride the seat together to go to Cyprus and to conquer that part of the world. And also he witnessed the conquered of Egypt. So he's a very well known and was known also as a poet kind of shy. And Rahim Allah mentioned some of his poetry.
I always like to comment in narration or companions are not very well known. Abu Saud mattaponi basinal Ansari
and the Hadith goes, man, Barbra muslimin, Baba Hola. Woman Shaka Muslim, insha Allah,
whoever harmed a Muslim, whoever, put a Muslim in the heart,
put them in a hardship or give them a hard time, the word Muslim, Muslim.
we couldn't find it in the copy that we have inserted. Certainly,
like the cubbies that we have right now from the sun
is not there. Okay, so he referred to widowed with Timothy, we couldn't find that actually the word Muslim it comes without this specification without restricting it to Muslim. So whoever harmed someone and or been hostile or give somebody a hard time.
But the concept was well known, established by the scholars, which I understand. But that shows you that Muslim and non Muslim, I'll leave about you, which is great scholars who, who wrote an explanation for somebody that would actually said no, there is some he mentioned that in the copy that he had from Serbia. It has the word Muslim, but for what we have right now printed in our hand, I don't think I
as far as I know, it's not their
bar, it means harm. Okay, and bar or harm. Either you directly harm the person, or you cause harm to the person said, the head said, Whoever harm his brother, whoever harm a Muslim, whoever harm someone by harming him directly or cause harm to him.
Allah will harm this person. And either you harm him physically,
or you harm him emotionally, or you harm the person or you harm him in his wealth, or you harm him by harming his family member.
Okay, and obviously, when we talk about harming you harm him, and you have no right to harm the person, but if you have the right to harm the person, yes. Like the judge, for example, you know, somebody or a police officer, yeah, he arrested someone, someone violated the law. Somebody made a crime, you know, get punished for his crime. He got harm, but he deserved it. He doesn't deserve it. That's Well, the hallowmas
Bar wahama. Allah will harm him. Yeah. And he, Allah Subhana. Allah well cause things to harm that person. Why? Because it's a common rule. Does that mean Jensen Iman, you get what you you earn what you basically what you done? You know, whatever you plan to, you're going to cultivate
shark mineral machaca, as I said earlier, which is would someone be hostile? Someone gives someone a hard time, someone who will munez utter Roger beer at home.
Yeah, and it means that I,
I put you in a hardship by claiming things that it doesn't belong to me put you in a difficult situation, all this meanings under the word shop, I think you got the point. So the point of headings is very clear anyone who cause harm to his Muslim Brothers, that's absolutely hard on any person who cause harm to his brother or to other people, that's absolutely something how long, not only how long, it is how long and Allah Subhana Allah promised to punish you for this the same thing. So, if you give somebody a hard time, you know, financially, emotionally, physically, verbally expect to get the same in your life, you harm someone in their, in their work and their
with their in the family, you expect the same to happen to you. So, this heavy is very powerful, when it comes to any form of harming is not allowed, even what some of the harm can be psychologically, you know, there is a lot of people get abused, emotionally and psychologically, financially physically, all this head on. And this head is in the same line of the previous ahadith. If you look at the previous areas we studied, it talks about different type of harm. Like for example, the process Salim said, Do not propose over your brother. And he somebody proposed a woman to marry, then someone else come and propose to her to take care away from him, that's harming that
the person that's harming him emotionally.
Individual songs that don't, you know, offer a I'm selling him something, then somebody else said how give you a higher price, or someone else comes in I will give you a lower price and buy from me. You harm me financially, after this quality brought this hadith to tell you any form of harm is haram and is not allowed.
And you see sometimes people harm others, put others in difficulties, and in a hard position and situation.
I saw this a lot in marriage.
You know, he will in marriage, and even more in divorce. So after they get divorce, you know what, she will not hesitate to harm him and he will not hesitate to harm her. And to put him or her in a difficult situation.
Even though Allah Subhana Allah said, For him, secondly, my outer city can be sad. If you stay together, stay in good. And if you separate, separate with even better manner,
even better sun, which is higher than good.
But today, unfortunately, you see how people harm, I'm not going to divorce her, I'm going to make her suffer, I'm going to hair beg for her divorce, I'm going to not I'm going to take he will go and change all his
equity and everything he has. And he put it in his cousin's name and a father cousin. So she will not have any money is it I'm poor, I cannot give her anything.
I'm not gonna give you your Mahara. I'm not gonna give all this how long.
And sometimes she'll do the same. I'm gonna go after all your assets, just to harm them just to make things, you know, to hurt the person harming you know, partners in business. I noticed this a lot too. And businesses, you'll see people in business, they will, you know, give their partners they want to get rid of them. They put them in so much difficulties, or their employees.
They became so harm and hostile against their employees. Give them a hard time.
I was told like, you know, it's a joke, but I've been hearing a lot from people. You know, they're so happy in Amazon that the CEO is retiring. You know, because now they can have a break. You know, they said because it's like the environment is so harsh. I don't know if that's true or not. But if that's true, that's not right. To put pressure on people and not to give them you know, and to abuse your your power of them. That's not right.
Also, those who are in power police officers, harming others, using the power that they have. A anyone who is in a position of power to harm someone. It is hard, even if you're not in a position of power, harming someone putting someone in difficulties purposely is not to make it hard for people.
Like it hurts me so much. When I see like, for example, somebody comes to the muster and drive and the message here, I say this and it stands for it.
You know, I get so angry when this happened and anything that I manage,
like let's say somebody comes all the way because he needs a certificate
you know, for marriage or certificate for being Muslim, whatever. And administrator for example, handle I didn't happen to him, but if it happened, the administrator or somebody would say, Okay, no problem come tomorrow.
No, no, no, come on. Why? Why would you make give the person hard time
it's, it's a harsh, you put them in a hardship, he has to drive again to you know what, go do your job, go do that. Don't put the person and give him a hard time. Don't put him in the difficulties.
And just to give you an example of how wide This concept is, Allah subhanaw taala said,
in alladhina, mini Mina at BYU remac de PUE felt body damage.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, harm the believing men and woman.
unfairly, they have carried Bhutan which is a great deal of sin.
great deal of sense.
Because Be careful.
When you give people hard time.
Allah will make other people give you a hard time.
Because what we say what goes around comes around
you basically he you make people's lives miserable. Allah subhanaw taala will make that to you.
And be careful to do that with your parents.
Be careful to do this with your spouse, with your children.
Carefully careful to give them the hard time that they don't deserve or to harm them.
From this habit also Huneck mfu however, the opposite.
If this head is saying those who harm people, Allah will cause harm to them. Those who put people in a hardship alone will put them in a hardship. What's the opposite?
Those who make things easy and people allow will make things easy for them. Those who try to help people and to make it easy live their life easy and to facilitate things to people allow will make other to facilitate things for them as well. Nakula demo is a memory foam and mojarra
Please don't harm your neighbors.
Don't make it hard for them.
Make sure that because these are people who are have a very high rights on you.
So the worst person to harm is your parents, your children, your spouse, the circle, then after that, your distance relatives, your neighbor, then another level you go your follow Muslims don't another level any human being you know another level is basically animals. Okay, then there is another aspect for harming that is some people their harm is even, not necessarily to individual, he can harm a whole entire community. A whole entire, like those who are sick, like somebody had the COVID-19 goes to the mustard.
He tested positive.
And he told the doctor I'm gonna double the mask I'm going to go
that's harming people
hiding this and bribing an airplane.
That's harming people. And the harm is not related to one to multiple people.
Those who legislate things just to make people's life miserable and difficult
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caravan EBIT da da da da Allahu Caracalla Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in a la jolla bahagian fashion. Michelle Bedi, Geraldo tirmidhi, a Buddha narrated the Messenger of Allah sallallahu Sallam said Allah hates that profligate and the ups the obscene.
It will furnish the one who speaks with indecent words. The one who is explicit in in things is indecent and not appropriate and buried.
The one who speaks ill
The one who speaks bad words. You know, his mouth is filthy. This is lbv
this hadn't stopped like this. This is this is a part of it, but they didn't tell me they start like this
mashi on earth fimi zanele min min holyoake in hassane we're in Allaha babul farrish Alba v salt like this, there is nothing heavier in your skill on the Day of Judgment, then good manners.
And Allah hates that person who speaks in decency and say evil and filthy language award they ally hates Yes.
hates is one of that attributes that the last panel data described himself with it an obese or solemn described him with it and he hates only what is evil, what is bad, what is Kufa what is harmful? What is and when the last one that I said or the problem said that the law hate something, that thing it means it is a major sin, it's a major sin hates It's what we call a suffering fairly it's only happened when the cause for it happen. It's like love Allah loves it when someone does something good. And Allah hates when someone do something that hates and love and all these attributes It is not like the way we hate or leather or we love because I lost my dad has not like
us is different. So our last part as attributes is completely different than others. Some people said oh hates it means losing control and anger taking over let's human beings hates we're not saying hey, was it allows a different case. So whenever you say attribute something to a lot more data, it's be it's always seen and understood in the light of the most
respectful what can we say Allah hates? It means punishment. No, because he doesn't mean punishment in Arabic language above lion flotilla, that's not Arabic language, that some language
that's not how Arabic works.
Definitely one of the results one of the outcome of that, that Allah hates something that He punished somebody for it, but the attribute itself is the hate and there is no need for this kind of twisting and and transfer it to be metaphorical. Because the only reason people do that but because they think when you say Allah hate something, he became like human that is not the case.
Anyway, and fish don't fish or fish moja was still had in fact, he is the one who exceed the limit. The limit is to speak a proper speak with a good word. When you go beyond what is respectful, what is appropriate. That's fresh. Something is not supposed to be spoken in front of people. And something is not supposed to be said to people. You know, part of this bad words.
Lying accuse a false accusation. indecent jokes, no mentioning things which is indecent or bad especially with sexual nature. Well, beda okay.
comes from the
who the one who has no shame, any shameful.
The one who has no shame, shameful talk.
Some of the LMS said
alpha, one beta, there is a difference between the two alpha when you speaks and in decent words and words would not appropriate a lot. Always, always saying bad words. I'll buy that sometimes. So in fact, is the one who is excessive. Some people are a bit loud when they open their mouth and just like like a sewer and open a sewer. It just bad words bad words, but he cannot speak pure. Good talk. He doesn't know how to say no without cursing and using bad words.
And by the way, it doesn't help to make a provision
to use letters doesn't help.
Genie Genie to purify the stun
Also he mentioned another Hadith
which is very similar also we mentioned it. telemedia also related and the authority of Messiah on the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said, the believer is not a slander, nor does he curse others, and nor is he immoral or shameless, shameless, related by a tournament he who agreed who graded it to be Hasson and unhackme graded as Sahil and Dara Courtney said that most properly mo poofy anymore properly statement from Massoud not from the prophets of Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam.
Same thing of near Medina or hopefully will Baghdadi and it looks like it's an authentic narration as a statement from Mr. Alon. When the prophets of Salaam said not a believer,
the believer is not a believer. It doesn't mean that he's cafetiere out of the fold of Islam. No, it means he's not a true believer. It's not a true believer is not he didn't perfect a man or did not fulfill the obligations of a man by Simona nafi li Emanuel moplah What is a man you negate the perfection of as a man not the basics of is a man and maybe some the moon he said upon time, the one who slander, you know, when it bad, it means slander a lot. Like he always accused people and slander people. So that means there is an excessive. So the first one, talk about somebody who might do it. Sometimes he talks about someone who is always doing it. And by the way, I'll tell you the
If you get to use if you use to say bad words, it will be a habit.
The moment you just relax yourself and you start using bad words, it became the habit
and it will be used to it you will find out that this how we talk all the time.
And this is very there is very it's very dangerous. I'm saying this specially for young people.
You know, we all know that is bad words there.
But that's not the point. The point is we don't use them because they are bad.
And we have to know that they are bad words. It's not it doesn't make you smart that you know bad words. Or you say bad words. It doesn't make you older. doesn't make you Oh, I'm a big guy, big girl now and he used all these bad, not all these bad words. And I can say it doesn't make you cool. It doesn't make you good.
You know, and unfortunately some people when they learn that language, like I know a lot of people I learned English in America and they came and I know a lot of friend not friends but I know people. Okay, when they start learning English, the first thing that they learn as the bad words, the curse words.
No, that's that's not correct. That's not how it is. We should have pure tongue in Arabic in English and French and in any language, your tongue should be clean and clear.
A lie liable job The sooner Allah doesn't like when he sees you speaking in a bad language. It's a serious issue. Why? Because in Ibiza, Salim said, you might say one word, lead you to the bottom of hellfire.
And when you start saying this, when you start saying bad things, send or send and you don't even count all the sudden you're accumulating a great deal of
sense in the Day of Judgment. It's not an easy thing to accumulate this sense.
And guess what? One of the worst thing about us to say bad words that your tongue will be so occupied with the bad words, and there's no place for good words anymore.
One of the things that I'm so grateful to I'm so grateful to that when I was young, like this young girl over there. How old are you?
Nine? Yeah, maybe a little bit older than you
are? What about you?
11. Yeah, around that age. When I was young, though, that somebody told me something very interesting. And maybe you guys can pick that up as you grow up. Somebody told me whenever you get angry at someone, make the offer them.
So when I get angry, I say May Allah forgive you.
A lion ferulic. And I said an error. Actually, if my kids or my dog hear me saying, May Allah forgive you, they know that I'm absolutely angry at them.
a lot. Yeah, any.
Any, let your sense go something like
it's actually it replaced and I became automatically associated with it
because that's how your tongue became. That's the habit.
So, somebody also told me the Hadith and Nabi sallallahu Sallam that they were traveling and somebody fall off the camel so the person curse the camel.
And also if you said Bismillah the angle the angle would have picked you or help you.
And since that time,
every time things goes wrong, I never say
I don't say
D word or s word, whatever word people cite. I don't say these kind of thing. I always say Bismillah
Bismillah and I don't even think about it because when I was young, somebody told me to do that
it became a habit.
And you know what, you get the reward. And instead of using these bad words, I think one of the biggest trick that the people and people think that just by changing it to abbreviation letters, I got rid of the prop now in my opinion, you actually make this comp more deeper in your in your in your system. Because you still think about the bad words.
You know what, replace it with something that you will be rewarded for it.
And also he talks about the accountant line Allah and the person will always curse.
That's not a lot enough time.
And it should not be done especially cursing. Li Li nk
carlina v sussan, La Mancha. kotli cursing a believer like killing a believer to major sin in Islam.
One of the things that we learn from this study that Allah subhanaw taala hates and he doesn't like to see the Muslims
have no pure tongue.
use bad language, filthy language. And that shows you its harm and it is something that it is not just our it's not a good thing to do. No, it is forbidden in Islam. And the person who does that his Eman is decreasing.
That's why he said not a believer.
That means not as a man who is a man his Eman is decreased.
The person who has no shame.
Shameless, the person who has no purity in his tongue and in mind
his Eman is decreasing.
Unfortunately, today, bad words and filthy words.
mean words, insulting. Making fun of people. And that's one of the things our country and our society at large, infected by the previous presidents.
And don't underestimate the impact of leaders even if you can't stand them. But they do have an impact on people.
On a national TV, young people and oh and society at large. Oh, this is just
what do you call what they call a closet?
Talk or a man talk. That's how boys talk or men talk to each other.
So what do you call it? closet?
locker locker room? Yes. Yeah. locker room talk. That's a locker room closet. locker room, locker room talk.
At least the closet. It's private
locker room talk. It's disgusting.
And I think one of the things that does
encourage indecency and filth, movies,
hollywood, and many of the movies that's introduced to our society at large
Just one movie
has the F words 569 times.
And by the way, that's not the worst movie. That's not number one.
Any almost 600 times it was repeated.
Actually, number one, it was repeated in it 935 times
I guess between every two words
hip hop music's
and robbers and robber
as a lot of false a lot of bad words.
And it is making this as an art making this as, as part of that's how people talk. Unfortunately the reality is now became that's how a lot of people talk
are shocked that even some of the brothers and good brothers
you know in their own personal life that's how they talk
at home st with non Muslims school.
And I want to tell everyone out there especially young people,
especially go to public school,
or public life, if you think using bad words will make other people respect you You're wrong.
Because I will guarantee you something.
Anyone who use this kind of language would never disrespect himself. And if you don't respect yourself, nobody will respect you.
You're hated by last Madonna when you say things like that.
Who cares if the whole world hates you? But almost loves you?
What will benefit you of the whole world? Give me the respect Whatever you're looking for. On our last panel data hates what you're saying.
This is also shows you that cursing a Muslim is haram and it's a major sin.
liability belly listen diakonia cornella Anna it's not a lot. It's not a lot. It's not for a believing a truthful Muslim to be a person who curse lacuna Allah Allah Shiva, Allah Shahada, Mohammed he will not intercessor they will not be intercessor in the Day of Judgment.
Interview so Salim said.
one of the heads mentioned is not of the quality of the Muslim that he always accused others Cathedral time for and always accused people.
Now I think he meant this. I think the this always accused people. Oh, she is this she is this. He's this he's this always accused people will something wrong. He must be doing this. He must intend for this. He must want this. Don't accuse people of something bad. That's not the etiquette of the Muslim. That's why in the head he said, Listen, the believer is not
Bharani and he the one who accused people
and in every so solemn said to among the quality of care for the quality of the kuffar the disbelievers, a part of a NASA person accused people that they don't hate he's not from this family. He doesn't belong to this tribe. And some society This is a common thing when you had it made which is the over when some people went over the dead person and mourn the dead by practicing things who's not allowed in Islam like screaming and hitting themselves and that nature.
One of the things also in Ibiza Salaam here or this hadith warning us accusation and part of accusation accused people with big data with cofre with accusing them that they are facet accusing them with haram things and they are not just rumors and you you don't have the knowledge to qualify you to accuse them with these such things. So the Muslim should be very careful before slandering and accusing others. If telepon OBL Sina Tuco Mata Puna bfsi Kumara Solukhumbu hear you say it with your tongue. Okay, and
You saying what you have no knowledge of what? Una haina. You think it is not a big deal for who are in the lobby but it is a very big deal with a lot. But it is something so great with a lot.
So be very careful from accusation because again goes back to the previous Honey, it's harmful. It's harming people to accuse you harm others when you accuse them. Thank you very much. Kamala Harris Allah Lhasa lemon and Amina Mohammed. Next week, shallow will continue with
another beautiful Hadith
which is very bitter because this one I'm talking about, you're not allowed to harm someone in front of you. In the results of them said, You're not allowed even to a law to support
me Don't speak bad about the dead, the people who passed away
Can you imagine that and Islam saying you're not allowed to speak bad about the people who passed away?
Pamela, this religion protect you while you're alive and after you die.
Protect your honor while you're alive and after he passed away. So there's a lot of nice good discussion shallow we'll have next week about this heady thing shallow Todd panicle, the caching event store already Thank you very much.