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Halal Intimacy #09 – Oral Sx

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Wael Ibrahim

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Welcome back Brothers and Sisters in Islam and everyone to Hallel in Tennessee. Apologies for the delay. There has been a lot going on Alhamdulillah lately in a good way in short, la you'd be informed about new projects coming up in the light Allah may Allah subhanaw taala make it easy. Please make dua for me in sha Allah. But for now let's get back into the book of study Abdul Latif Abdullah, he Halal intimacy, I skipped a few chapters, which I found them to be related to the previous episode about seduction. So I'm not going

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to repeat that or add all those steps. I would advise you kindly to go purchase the book and read them for yourself in sha Allah. But today in sha Allah, Allah is a very, very essential topic which oftentimes couples reach out asking for guidance and clarification around it and that is oral sex. So let's get into it in sha Allah and see what Islam says and told about this very, very important topic.

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First of all, my dear brothers and sisters in Islam within the Sharia within the Quran and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad wa sallam, there is no direct prohibition regarding oral sex. However, the scholars of Islam have classified it as mcru or disliked by Allah subhanaw taala because of a moral and health reasons for more reasons, because Muslims should conduct and behave in certain expected ways that Allah Subhana Allah has revealed in the Quran, and it was demonstrated in the life of the prophet Muhammad SAW Salam in the early generations, and for health reasons, because there are a lot of medical reports and research that have shown the danger and the harmful effects

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of oral sex on our health. Not only that, but some people may even develop sexually transmitted diseases as a result of oral sex in the same way how other people who indulge in unprotected sexual activities may carry the same diseases. Even though experts have argued that transmitted sexual diseases is higher in unprotected sex than oral sex, yet the chances are still there. That's why the majority of the scholars would go with the opinion that it is absolutely haram completely prohibited, or mcru. highly discouraged at the mouth and the tongue my brothers and sisters in Islam were created for a higher purpose and that is to remember Allah subhanaw taala much to pray to read

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the Quran. So how could that same mouth do other things which are looked at as morally low. That's why my brothers and sisters in Islam when the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam was approached by a man, telling him that the fatwa the obligatory duties of Islam became too much upon him, he couldn't bear the obligations anymore. So he was asking the process and to simplify things. So the Prophet Mohammed Salah Lysa, and told him what, keep your tongue moist with the remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala This is why the tongue was created to remember Allah much. So the scholars will would look at it from that perspective, how could that same tongue go that low and indulge in activity

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that is not befitting for a believer is not befitting for a person with that higher standard and, and high expectation of Allah subhanaw taala that, that the tongue should be always moist, not for atheists, other than the remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala and speaking that, which is good Sheikh Salah had frozen had recognized that there is no specific or clear cut evidence from the Quran or from the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim that prohibited oral sex, he recognized that, but he said that this is also an act of a dog of an animal. And this is exactly what dogs do before approaching the mate and we are higher higher beings we are we are created better and higher than

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any other creation. The Kohala canal in Santa Fe asks Anita Queen Allah subhanaw taala create human beings in the best mold ever. So how could we go to this level and indulge in such activities, but please also bear in mind the scholars who have taken mcru as the valid opinion regarding this issue, and let me remind you what is micro macro is an act that if you indulge in it, if you performed it, you are not sinful Allah is not going to punish you for it. However, if you abstain from it is way better and much rewardable those quarters have taken that opinion. They allow couples to engage in oral sex provided of two things. Number one, no partner should force the other on any of these

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activities. So long as both partners are in agreement, then it is permissible. Number two, no partner should ever swallow or concern

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All the liquid that may come out of the private parts of either of the spouse. So it's very, very important to keep this in mind that even those colors may allow or give a room of permissibility of engaging in oral sex. There are conditions that you should also look into, so that you can maintain your dignity respect as human beings as that higher being that Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the Quran, it is the best of all creation, but I want you to see how the scholars looked at the meta view it wrote about it, talk about it in the lectures for our own guidance. For example, Chef infozone mentioned that if sex itself, if intercourse itself is permissible, between lawful husbands

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and wives, then whatever less than that whatever less than the intercourse itself, the penetration should be also permissible. And as a result of this, he took the opinion that oral sex is actually permissible, and this opinion is actually taken from Toby, and in his tafsir on salsa. So if intercourse itself is allowed between spouses between lawfully married spouses, then anything less than that the kissing the oral sex, would be also or should be also made permissible. emammal portobay May Allah Subhana Allah have mercy on him. When he was asked about lustful speech between spouses, he said, If intercourse again, if intercourse itself, if penetration of the private parts

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is permissible between a husband and wife, then anything less than that is also permissible. So last full talk, go back to seduction episode to just understand how these things could spice up a little bit the relationship between spouses for the benefit of the halal part of the relationship so that we don't look outside the boundaries of marriage. The main problem for me personally, my brothers and sisters in Islam is that there are many people Muslims married, lawfully married on the Judiciary of Allah subhanaw taala, are engaged in these oral sexual activities, because they've learned it from pornography. And if that's your main educator regarding sex, then you definitely

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will end up in a very unpleasant place. So this is the problem if we can educate ourselves about the activities that can enhance our sexual relationship, enhance our health as well. And maintain our dignity and respect as Muslims. No one should force the other on any act that insha Allah Allah will find pleasure in every move. But if you are influenced by pornography, then everything associated with it will be haram or Hezbollah. May Allah subhanaw taala protect the soul I hope that this episode has shed some light on one of the always less talked about subjects among the Muslims especially so I hope that this have offered a little bit of guidance, but it's not everything that

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you need to learn you need to enhance your knowledge in this area as well to seek out scholars regarding this matter. Don't just take my words for granted. This is just sharing the knowledge of what has been written about the subject sharing perhaps experiences with people who have suffered a lot as a result of not being able to function sexually in an appropriate Islamic manner. So may Allah subhanaw taala keep us safe. May Allah subhanaw taala protect our homes and inshallah to Allah leave. Leave your questions and comments in the box provided below this video. And don't forget please to share the video with your circle and perhaps subscribe to the channel if you didn't

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already. And we'll see you next episode in sha Allah Allah Allah make dua for me as Salaam Alaikum warahmatullahi over again