Taleem al Quran 2012 – P12 122D Tafsir Yusuf 7-18

locker the canopy use of Allah says certainly in use of for equity and his brothers I act on many lessons Lissa Aileen for those who asked, Who are those who were asking them which to gain of maca because remember they asked the prophets of Allah for the mockingly so do you know about use of the prophets of Allah Azim didn't know at that time. And then Allah subhanaw taala revealed the surah saying that there are many lessons for who for those who ask.

Because the situation of the Prophet sallallahu sallam was very similar to the situation of use of race, Anna. And many people will actually find themselves similar to the situation of use of our lesson and they will be able to relate with his story really well.

Use of s&m was given a big blessing. But at the same time, his brothers, how are they treating him? How are they treating him? What did they do? They were jealous of him. And we learn about it later in the story that they threw him in the wealth, right? Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was also given a big blessing of Prophethood but his own brothers, meaning his tribesmen, however, they dealing with him very similarly. They were jealous, they were envious. And instead of supporting him, they opposed him. They wanted to get rid of him.

And then what happened? Yes, he left Makkah, just as use of artisan was made to leave Philistine. But Allah granted glory and success to use of artists and so Allah who will also grant glory and success and victory to Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a very, very clear lesson. So there are many I had for those who ask if Kalu when they said, who said the brother said, lay use of surely use of what a who who and his brother, a humble Isla Urbina more beloved to our father, Mina, then us, the brothers, they're sitting amongst themselves. And they are saying that use of N his brother, meaning Yusuf and Binyamin, his full brother, our dad, he loves them more. More than who, more than

us, he doesn't like us as much as he likes us of and his brother,

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whereas we are in earthbath. ERISA is from the letters I am sada. And a respite is basically a group, a band of strong men who are friends and supporters of one another. You see a group of strong men, supporters of each other friends of one another. You can imagine what a strong group this is. So let's say we are in our house, but we are 10 strong men, we are big boys. And here's use of and his brother, and our father. He likes them more than he likes us. And is that in Urbana, shortly our father in the field? Well, Alan will be in us shortly in clear error. Not in religion. But in duniya, meaning he is making a big mistake. He's making a big mistake. How could he prefer them over

us? Now? Do you see a problem with this conversation that's taking place? What's going on here? What's going on here? 10 brothers are talking about their father. What are they saying? He doesn't like us. He should like us more. He likes them more than he likes us. He's making a big mistake. We are much better. What's going on here? What's the problem over here with this conversation?

Okay, they're jealous. But is it natural to have such feelings? Do you ever have this feeling that my dad loves my sister more than he loves me? Or my mom prefers my brother over me?

Do you have these feelings? Sometimes? Yeah, it's normal. Why? Because maybe she's more helpful. Or maybe he's financially supporting them. And you feel like you're a burden on them? Or because she's more obedient? Or because they're not that religious and she's not religious, and I want to keep my hijab on. So yes, my parents love my sister more than me, is this normal? It happens. It happens. But what's the problem here?

Okay, the father is a prophet here, but he was also like a father. It's natural that a parent will be more inclined towards a child sometimes one particular child why? Like for example, over here use of art isn't really the or Cooper ism did like him more perhaps than he liked his other children. Why, for an obvious reason, look at the way use

somebody's home is talking to his father.

He looks up to him, he asks him, he trusts him. Right? There's a healthy relationship between father and son. And USADA son was perhaps also younger, and more beautiful. I mean, you know, the use of Rotosound was perhaps one of the most beautiful people, which is why all the women were going crazy about him. So he was obviously more beautiful. And that made the father, you know, love the son more. And this is normal. I mean, if there's one child that is more cute, what happens?

You are attracted towards them more compared to other children. Right? So it's quite possible that jacobellis anam did like use of artisan and more, but what's the mistake that the sons are making here? Talking about it,

talking about these feelings, doesn't mean that if we have, you know, some feeling in our heart, we should not express it.

Express it only if you're seeking help.

Over here, they're sitting, and they're talking badly about their father Liba. And they're getting the support of one another. And it's not possible that you talk about this, you get support, and then you don't do anything, you'll definitely do something,

you'll definitely do something. Because you see, as long as there is a feeling inside of you, which is bad. Doesn't matter. If you verbalize it, if you express it, you act on it. That is where the problem is.

You feel jealous from somebody, you are hurt because of them, you just don't get along with them. You don't like certain things about their personality, find no problem. But don't

become rude with them. Don't start backbiting them. Because if you do that, that is where you're sinful.

So

as a parent, we every parent loves their children, almost equal, but sometimes one child is sick, you love him more until he become okay. And the youngest one until he become old and the one he's truffle until he come back. So just we have to understand the situation and use value salaam he will become prophet that why he perspective Exactly. You're gonna say something

really weird. Actually, parents don't really love one of their kids more than they love the other. It's just that they like one of their kids more than the other, you know, it's like cuz some kids are sometimes really annoying. And then their parents don't like them. And then it's like one kids always like inclined, like you said, like, adding on to that. It's just that they like one kid Exactly. One more. And it's only natural. I mean, if somebody's talking to you respectfully, of course, you're going to be more inclined towards them. That doesn't mean you hate others. But it is just that one is in your good books at a particular time. More than the other is

my mom likes to use the example that each of her children are like fingers on the same hand. She doesn't like one more than the other. They're just different. Exactly. Each one is different. And each one is loved in a different way. Because each one has a different, you know, quality within them.

When my sister was born, I used to complain a lot that my mom wasn't giving me as much attention because I was like, the baby of the house for a really long time. So I was used to that. But my mom, she told me a really funny story. An owner had a donkey and a dog. He really loved his dog. Like he was the donkey to write, but he didn't treat them same. So once the donkey rolled over at owner's feet, I needed like a beat him up or something. So like he tried to be like the Bossy Yeah, exactly. So each one is different, right? So you see, you do get these feelings sometimes that maybe your mom doesn't like you as much, maybe your dad doesn't like you as much as your other siblings. It's okay.

It's normal. And it's quite possible that your brother or your sister has a better relationship with your parents. That's also normal. It's fine. You have a different kind of personality. It's okay. But thinking that your parents don't like you at all, and that they're making such a big mistake and you know, talking about it and then backbiting about your parents. This is something that does not fit a believer, this is an action of shaitan

chiffons instigation. So what happened, this ad hoc to use of they got so angry, so emotionally charged that they said, You know what, kill him.

Kill yourself. And this is what happens when you talk about real feelings when you express them when you discuss them with others and you get their support, then you want to, you know, take some action. That's an optimal use of our throw who

or throw him discard him get rid of him. It throw who is to throw something far away, like you would throw a piece of garbage, because you have no intentions of getting it back. Right? So the said, Just get rid of him. I've been to a land meeting, throw him away at some other land from where he can never make it back home and you can never go get him and our father can never find him over there. Just get rid of him altogether

interesting that they said Yusuf and his brother are more beloved to our father. Right? And over here they're saying kill Yusuf. Why? Because one of the reasons is that use of Islam was older. Okay, Binyamin was younger and use of it Islam was older Binyamin was perhaps still a child and use of his time was slightly older so they saw that the father was more inclined to use of artists than anybody okay so often you use of ultra who are get rid of him have been to a land what will happen Yeah, Lulu calm it will become free for you. They can for you. What you have become the face of your father. Yes hellos from column Well, hello, hello, to be empty to be vacant. So basically they're

saying that once we get rid of Yousuf if we kill him or we just throw him away in a far off land, what's going to happen? The face of our Father will become free for us. Meaning he won't have any use of to look at he won't have any use of to talk to he won't have any use of to, you know show his love to so what's going to happen? He will have no choice but to pay attention to us. That's a perfect plan. And if we kill him or we get rid of him, Oh, no problem. What Hakuna remembered the Yokomen Salah Haman you can be after that very good people, meaning we'll just do Toba will kill him and we'll do taba later on and we'll be perfectly fine. What a great plan. And this is exactly what

you upon does with many of us. He plays with us that yes, we know it's haram but you know it's necessary for you. You have to do it. So Toki take this haram loan for like 510 years and just do Tada after that Allah photo Rahim. Amazing. You are intending to commit a sin and do Toba after that. How do you know whether you get a chance to do Toba even?

How do you know you don't know whether you'll be able to make it? The other day I saw a picture somebody had shared a tweet of somebody who had mentioned something about Ramadan that this Ramadan perhaps will be perfect from my head if this was their last week and the died in a car accident.

How far is Ramadan?

is two weeks. How do we know whether we're going to make it? But she lon says it's okay. It's okay. Just do this. You will do Toba later. You're young you need it. It's a necessity. You know you live in North America. That standard of living is just very very different and we don't really have a choice you brings excuses for us.

And this comfort that it's okay you can do Toba later and that's exactly what he did with these brothers is that you can just put the coulomb embargo you call monk Salah Hain Kanaka illumine home one of them said kala he said illumine whom a speaker from among them. He said Let actually use of don't kill yourself. See how Allah subhanaw taala protect two servants from amongst those 10 Brothers one is saying don't kill him. Don't kill him instead. What unclear who you go and throw him philia button in the bottom of a well throw him deep in a well and what will happen yell takut who it will pick him up who will pick him up Bible sejarah some travelers in contemporary lien if you're

really going to do something meaning if you really want to do something to get rid of use of please don't kill him Come on. I mean that's really a big sin.

Commit a smaller sin

don't commit a big sin. I mean do something that is slightly less than that. So don't kill him inside going throw him in a well labutta job Leia is from lainnya but Leia is basically anything that hides what is in it.

Anything that hides what is in it, whether it is darkness, or it is night, or it is you know, a well, or a dark room, whatever it may be.

Okay, a chamber in a basement or something like that. So whatever is in it, it's hidden. This is why Yeah, but the job job well, what kind of well, a deep well, because when someone is in that deep well who can see him from above, no one can. So they said throw him in

In a deep well yell taka through from lamp off ba

il Takata is to pick something up that was dropped accidentally by someone. Like for example,

you get up and go to the cafeteria after class and you see $50 bill on the ground on the floor $50 Bill and you're like, huh, how many dropped it? Finders keepers.

Right? Finders keepers. You see someone's watch. In the washroom, you see someone's assignment, you see someone's book, you see someone's shoes, you know, something or the other. Somebody has dropped forgotten. And you pick it up, that is what ilta cover. So they said, throw him in a well, and somebody will just pick him up. And I mean, if you really want to do something, don't commit a big sin, just a small one. For this idea, that sounds like a good plan. We'll just get rid of him.

What does this tell us about the brothers of use of de Sena?

They're not really that bad. Okay, because when we study the story, we think really, really badly about the brothers of use of Elise. And I'm realized that later in the summer, we learned that it Toba, they asked us to focus on their father to seek forgiveness for them. And even at this point, you see, they do intend to do Toba. And they do realize that killing is something really bad, so we won't kill him. Instead, we will do something that is of lesser evil.

They're using the word osebo. So they're talking about a young group of men, men and boys at that age are automatically hot headed, not all of them. But they're typically understood to be hot headed, temperamental, and just a little less stable than their female counterparts. Which is also why the insurance is so much higher at that age of cars. So you can't really a lot of times you're like, oh, you can't blame me for my teenage years, I didn't really know what I was doing. So it's the same thing for them. They were still young men. So you can't dislike them or think bad of them. Because of that you need to make an allowance that they weren't really at the best, the most wise of

ages. Yes, that's true. But it doesn't mean that you have the license to do whatever you want. Right? You are still responsible for your actions. Why? Because you still have that conscience within you. That's telling you don't do it.

Right, something made them realize that we shouldn't kill him, we'll get rid of him when we don't kill him. That shows that they were able to figure out that killing was something not acceptable. So now they wanted to execute this plan. So they went to their father, they had to somehow get use of away from their father so that they could actually go and throw him in a well. But they knew that if they asked her father, can you please send us have with us, he won't just send him. So they had to come up with a plan. Very interesting, very clever. Kalu. They said, Yeah, Urbana, or our father. Monica, what's wrong with you?

Father, what's wrong with you as if they're saying what's your problem? Let up Manana. You don't trust us. Allah use of about use of, we're so good. We never intended to harm you serve. We are his brothers. after all. It's all your fault. You don't trust us with yourself.

And many times children use this tactic against their parents.

They want to go somewhere. And they know that their parents are not going to let them go. So they say, Mom, you know, you never trust me. I'm 18 years old, you've never allowed me to go to any party. This is why I have no friends. You've cut me off from the rest of the world, you've over protected me, and you force me to wear this and you force me to do this. And to the mothers feeling guilty and so bad, you know, feeling horrible inside, make the parent feel horrible, so that they will allow you to do whatever you want, you know, make a seat in front of them. And little children do this. Even little children. Literally even they do this, they will cry, they will throw a tantrum

as if they're being you know, they're being oppressed, or they're being mistreated. They're being abused. Literally, they will scream as if they're being abused. And so what happens the parents, they're like, just do anything to make them happy right now. I'll break all my rules, to make them happy just so that they stop screaming.

So that's exactly what these sons did. They went to their father and they said, What's wrong with you? How come you don't trust us about use of what Inala Hulan LC her own and indeed we're to him shorty ones were very sincere. We were so sincere to him. We are his brothers after all, but you don't trust us as if they're saying we want the best for him. Give us a chance please. We'll show you and they say I'll say Lou please send him Marna with us Ludden tomorrow, tomorrow when we go out for our picnic or we know with our sheep whatever send them with

us so that Yatta he will eat well, you know you're depriving him by not letting him go with us. He needs to go and have some fun yatta yatta is from Ryan Yeah, Rory is the grazing of the animals you know, when they eat freely and to their fill. So basically they're saying let him come with us so that he can eat you know freely and happily you can have some fun way alive and he will play in that a hula, have you grown? And indeed, surely we are going to protect him.

You see, they're saying, we are sincere to Him, we will protect him. People will fall short in action. They make up for it how? Through talk.

They have to use words they have to talk in order to convince the other why because they fall short in actions. This is why they have to keep saying we want the best for him. You don't trust us. Please let him go with us. Let him have fun. He's being deprived. Karla jacobellis Salam said in the indeed I Leia Zanoni. Shortly, it makes me sad.

It makes me sad. And that hub will be here that you go away with him. Meaning if you take him away, and I don't see him all day, that will make me sad. I'll miss him too much.

Is that normal? Yes, it is. Parents love their children.

And sometimes it's very hard for them to separate from their children, even for a day. They miss them. And ask any mother who has a baby.

Any mother who has a baby? What happens if she has to leave the baby? Even for half the day to go to work? It's very difficult for her. It grieves her to be separated from the baby. Yes. It doesn't only happen when like their babies because I know my older sister, she's older than me. And she went down my other sisters house for one night. I don't know. They just had to go. And like the whole day my mom was like, it's so good in the house. Yes. Even when you're all grown up, still, your parents treat you as if you're a baby. And you're like, Mom, come on. I've grown up. Let me go. But your parents love you too much. Similar to what she said, when my eldest sister got married. She moved

all the way to England, and she was the first child and none of us have ever been away from our mom for even like a day. So my mom would literally she would just cry every day. And yes, we can talk on the phone and what they came for visits, but it's not the same. It's not the same. So layout Zuni makes me sad. If you take him away, well, a half full and I'm also afraid and yet Kula who the Buddha wolf will eat him, will undermine Hoover alone, while you will be negligent of him, meaning while you're not really watching him, I'm afraid that a wolf might come and kill him. So basically, he said, I feel sad on his separation, and I fear for his safety also. Now his response shows his

insight. He was hesitant in sending use of artisan I'm with them. Why? Because he knew how the brothers were. Oh, no, they said let in shortly if Accola who they will if a wolf eats him. We're not animals, but and we are a group of strong men in either last room than indeed surely we would be losers. As if they're saying what you're talking about. Come on. We're a group of strong men. How is it that a wolf will harm him when we are around? Again? Their words? Right? What are they trying to show through their words that they're very sincere. Now the sons they were very persistent. They didn't give up. And they basically emotionally blackmailed their father. They made him feel

horrible. They made him look like the bad guy. And they basically convinced him and they took Yusuf Ali Salam with them the next day. For llama the hub will be heathen when they went with him. They took him well ojamajo And they all agreed a tomorrow from intermarriage mark is together upon one decision to decide unanimously, so they all agreed, I adore I know that they will throw him feel I abital in the bottom of the well, meaning they went and did it. They want an executed their plan. And when use of artisan was in that well imagine cheated, snatched away from his father thrown into the well. Allah subhanaw taala comforted him whoa Hanaa la he we revealed to him why he came

immediately. Some scholars said that this was literally where he used the virus and and received his prophethood in that well at that age. And others say that this was not really Revelation it was inherent meaning Allah subhanaw taala inspired that feeling that faith in him that led to not be unknown. Surely you will inform them one day be up to him about their affair Hi, this will home Leia Sharon and they will not recognize they will not realize me they will not even recognize you. And you will be telling them about what they did to you. In other words, when he was in the well, deep,

he was distressed.

Everything was snatched away from him.

What happened? Allah subhanaw taala comforted him that your life is not over, you're going to make it out of this. So much so that one day you will be facing your brothers. And you will tell them you will remind them about what they did to you. And they will not even be able to recognize you because you will be so different from them, you will be completely different. They could never expect that you could ever become that person.

What does this tell us that sometimes we are

in a lot of trouble. We feel alone, completely abandoned, completely defeated,

emotionally broken, deceived, rejected. You know, we feel like we've lost everything. But that is the beginning of a new chapter in your life.

That is just the beginning of a new chapter in your life that is from where success will begin. I read a quote the other day by this Christian man, he said that your greatest ministry may begin from your greatest pain

from your greatest pain, that something because of what you've suffered a lot, that becomes a source of pushing you to go to the next level. Get out of that shell stop worrying about yourself and begin worrying about other greater problems in life. So Allah subhanaw taala comforted us have already said I'm strengthen his heart give him all Don't worry, this is not the end of it. Allah will take you out of this situation. And one day you will tell your brothers what happened then would you who and they came about home to their father, reshot and in the evening, early night late evening. I tama is used for dark darkness of the night, but Orisha is used for early part of the evening. So

just one night has fallen. So they came to their father at that time. He ever Kuhn they were crying. Imagine 10 Boys, men and what are they doing? They come at night and they're crying and wailing and making the scene. Question is why did they come at night? Why did they wait until night would fall and then they came to their father? Why?

It's easier to pretend. Because you can make all this noise if you're crying and there are no tears, and then you're trying to hide your laughter nobody can really see you, basically so that they can pretend really well. This is why they came at night weeping crying making a scene called who this idea of oh our Father in heaven or indeed we went nuts who is Starbuck yesterday, today race try to get ahead of one another. We were racing. What the hell can I use of and we left us over in the marina? We know with our stuff matar Is there stuff there things? We left yourself with our stuff? And what happened for UCLA who? And wolf came and ate him?

A wolf came and ate him. I mean, how silly they couldn't even come up with a different plan. Their father said, I'm afraid of wolf might eat him and they said the exact same thing.

And as if they're trying to show that, you know, we're like strong boys, we're bigger. We were in a race and use of obviously he couldn't participate with us. So he was there with our things behind and we went a little too far. And by the time we came back, a wolf had eaten him.

And they said again, emotionally blackmailing him, making him feel like he was a bad guy. Well, Matt, and who Milena Of course, you're not going to believe us? Well could not saw the pain even if we're truthful.

You're never going to believe us. I know. You're not going to believe me. So when you say something like this to someone I know you're not going to believe me. Instantly. The other person says no, no, I understand what you're saying. And I believe you. They're trying to make him feel bad. What Yeah, oh, and they came I love coming so he on his shirt.

Beat them in with blood. Can they? False gathered meaning a lie? False blood, not real blood. They brought his shirt to their father and it was stained with blood. Of course the wolf you know it took the shirt off and then eight use of rally center and left the shirt behind of course stained with blood. So they took that shirt to their father stained with blood as a proof

as a proof. Allah He said, bail someone at law calm and foster calm Umrah.

This is not true. I don't believe it. Rather, your souls have enticed you to something some wallet so well that's from seen while lamb and this wheel is when the knifes present something ugly as beautiful. You see sin is bad, it is ugly. But why is it that people will commit the most pathetic actions the most evil actions why? Because it's made attractive and beautiful to them. So your nafs has made

This action seemed beautiful to you, and this is why you have committed it. I don't know what you did, but I know you did something bad, something wrong and you're lying to me. And whatever it was you did because your naps made it attractive to you. You listened to your knifes and you shouldn't have such a big matter. And you have considered it so minor so small balsa wallet locum and physical camera for sovereign Jamil. So beautiful patients. What a dignified response. Imagine if someone does this to your favorite thing. They borrow it from you, and they come up with the most lame excuse for having lost it.

What do you want to do?

What do you want to do to that person? You want to tell them to their face? I don't believe you. What did you do? Tell me and you'll use your power to get the information out of them.

jacobellis And I'm so dignified, he says possible on Jimmy. I don't care about you. I'm just going to bear with patients beautifully. In this situation for sovereign Jimmy Sobor is Jamil Saba is beautiful. Meaning the only beautiful thing that I can do right now is patience. If I observe patients, that will be beautiful. Nothing else would be beautiful right now. And patience that is in itself beautiful, without any complaint to people without blaming them without making a fuss and making a scene I accepted.

What was going to happen has happened. What you have done has happened? Well Lahoma Stan, and Allah is the one who's helped I seek ALLAH modestly phone against that which you describe, describe was meaning that what you make up being the lies that you're making up, I only seek Allah's help against that.

Now this story, think about it. If those of you are parents here, if your children did that, what would you do? How would you respond? How would you react? And if you were in the place of use of Ernie, Sam, and your brothers did that to you or your sisters did that to you? How would we respond?

There's a lesson in this for everybody. But what I want you to notice over here is that the brothers of use of an s&m? Why did they want to get rid of use of y so that they could get the attention of their father. And like this, many times, we also behave, we want to get the attention of our boss, or we want to get the attention of our teacher wanted to get the attention of our spouse, and we make other people look bad, just so that we can be good. We try to get rid of them. Because we blame them for our problems in life.

Did they actually receive the attention of their father by doing this? No. What happened? In fact, they got even farther away from him.

They wanted to seek the attention of their father, and they lost it altogether. Why? Because the wave was not correct. It was dishonest. It was wrong. It had loom in it. They were doing glulam on somebody. Another important thing we see here is that the brothers of use of Renaissance they wanted to make their father happy. They wanted the attention of their father, they were hungry for his love and his attention. Who are they seeking a man? A person.

But the thing is that if we seek people, if we spend our life trying to make people happy, trying to win their love and attention, we're gonna get nowhere.

Who is it that we really need to seek ALLAH subhanaw taala because if he's happy with us, if we please Him, then He will put love for us in the hearts of people. But if he is unhappy with us, then there could be 1000s of people around us but nobody cares about us. Why? Because Allah is unhappy.

Seek Allah not people. If you seek Him, you have everything and if you don't see him you go after people you run after people, you'll have nothing left. Nothing at all. In fact, who will be more distant more far? May Allah subhanaw taala protect us. Let's listen to the recitation. Lamp order. A few sofa watching see two lists

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