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Santa Monica, What

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are y'all doing?

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A lot of sodium khadim I'm about four arrows below him in the shade line the rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim labiche Riley is solidity we're silly, angry, washed up data melissani of koko de probenecid.

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back the free okay losely Well, we'll do a debt free is from for Raka youfor, ricotta free, which is to create division, meaning to separate, to separate what a muscle the muscle wall will do. And the will do what does this mean? Meaning that while a person is performing muscle, he takes a break, he divides the muscle into two parts. So for example, he performs half of his whistle at one time. And then because of some reason, let's say the water ran out, or there was an urgent phone call or something so a person had to stop or there was an emergency so he had to attend to it. And then when he went back to taking his whistle he resumed from where he left off.

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Likewise, we'll do the free in we'll do is what the person is performing will do, but then he stops somewhere in the middle and then later on, he resumes where he had left off. So, is this permissible or is it not?

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This is the question that is this permissible or is it not permissible, and it is basically referring to the issue of more or less, not more or less when it comes to wilaya with the foul, no more or less in its literal meaning the word more that means to join together. And it is basically to join together all of the steps of rebou all of the steps of whistle that a person maintains the right order and he also performs them in one go without giving a pause without giving a break in the middle.

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So, is this permissible? Is this a condition for the validity of Budo Is this a condition for the validity of also or for either or for both? So basically, this is the issue that Mr. Bahari is referring to over here. Now, the scholars have different concerning this. Some scholars they said that more or less is not a shift, meaning it is not a condition of Voodoo or of muscle that you join together all of the steps No, you can give a break, you can pause in the middle. And they say that Allah soprano data tells us in the Quran to, you know, wash the face, wash the arms, wash the feed, wipe the head. And we do that, even if we give, you know, a break of two hours in the middle, or

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three hours in the middle. They say that as long as we're fulfilling all of the steps that we'll do, it doesn't matter because we are we're doing it at the end of the day. So this was the opinion of some scholars. So they said that a person can give a pause during will do during rehearsal. And even if the will do dries up, or the whistle dries up, he does not need to repeat, he does not need to start all over again. He could just resume from wherever he left off. And he could have left off in the middle for some valid reason or out of forgetfulness or just to take a break. He didn't feel like continuing so they said it's okay. But other scholars who said no more or less is a chef and

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this is a stronger opinion. That while at is a shot that if a person does not have more Latin will do or universal than his widow is merciless, invalid, that if a person washes his hands, takes a break for 10 minutes comes back, renders his mouth and takes a break for 15 minutes and then comes back and you know washes his face. This is not good. What's the evidence? The evidence is first of all the verse in the Quran, where Allah subhanaw taala says that all you have believed in their own Camila salette fallacy Ludovico What idea come Elon Moravec that the command is fallacy, Lou, okay. And this fact it gives the benefit of mubadala meaning of doing something quickly and the rest of

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the commands that are mentioned meaning after washing the face, washing the arms and wiping the head and washing the feet, they are all connected with while and while is what have and you know that have the same ruling applies over there too. So this is why they said that when you have to wash the face right away then that means you have to wash the arms right away and you have to wipe the head right away and then you have to follow that by washing the feet immediately after as well. So this is one evidence. Another evidence is from the Sunnah of the prophet total audison and which we learned that once the prophet SAW a lot of them saw a man who had not completed his widow meaning he

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left out a part of his foot, meaning he left to dry. Okay, so when the prophet SAW a lot of sun observed that he told him his gear for sin will go back and do your will do properly

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Meaning he didn't tell him to go and just wash his foot, or wash that part of the foot. No, he told him to repeat the will do. So this shows that if there is a gap in the middle of break in the middle, whether it is for a genuine reason, or because a person forgot, then that will do is invalid, and that also is invalid, and a person has to start all over again. Because we'll do and also, both of them, they are a single act of worship, you know, just like Salah, it's a single act of worship. It's not like your record is a separate act of worship, and you're essentially as a separate act of worship, and your pm is a separate act of worship. So you go, you know, say Oh, pm,

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then you go take a break, and then you feel like doing glucose, or you just do Luke or no, you can't do that. If you do that, that's not Salah. Why, because Salah is a single act of worship, which you have to complete in one shot in one go. Likewise, Voodoo is also a single act of worship. And Wilson is also a single act of worship.

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When it comes to Hajj, for example, is that similar, it's different. It's spread out over a number of days, you eat in the middle, you sleep in the middle, you travel in the middle, use the washroom, you can take a bath, there's lots of things that you do in the middle. So it's not a single act of worship, per se, dislike will do and hosel are. So this is the reason why, when a person starts, you will do it and he must complete it. And if he's not able to complete it, then later on, what does he have to do, you have to start all over again.

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So what's the conclusion that mobile ads is a shot off with.

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But remember that this does not mean that a person cannot pause for a few moments even in the middle. No, he can do that. Because as long as a person is in the same mindset that I am making will do, let's say you are doing will do as soon as you wash your face, your baby came in crawling into the washroom, so you have to pause, you have to pick up your baby, you have to take him back to the room, put him there, and then come back. Now if you have to start all over again, you won't be able to complete your will do. Because every time you reach your arms, your baby's gonna crawl in again, right, it happens sometimes, you can't leave the child and attended either. So you could be in a

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situation like that. So you don't have to repeat from the beginning, you don't have to start all over again, as long as the boss is very short. And you're in that same mindset. Likewise, you're doing good or somebody comes and starts having a conversation with you and the tap is on. So you just close the tap, and then you respond to them, you talk to them, and then it's just for a few moments. And then you continue we'll do that also, okay. Likewise, in the middle, you want to brush your teeth, you want to clean your teeth, you do miswak. So even that's okay. So there, there are two things that you have two, three things, basically, you have to remember when it comes to taking

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a pause, in Voodoo or in hosel. First of all, it should not be too long, it should not be too long.

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Secondly, a person should be in that state of mind that he is performing will do, he should still be in that state of mind. Now if you pause, your will do and you go and you're checking what's in the oven. And then you start checking what's on the stove, and then you're you're cooking and then you know, you forgot all about your will. Or you pick up the phone and then you're having a conversation 15 minutes you're talking you forgot all about you will do you're not in that state of mind anymore.

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So you have to be in that state of mind. And the third thing is that that the Buddha should not have dried up or the hosel should not have completely dried up. So for example, you washed your arms, and you still have to wash your feet, you still have to do your massage of the head, but your face is still wet, your arms are still wet, slightly damp, you can continue but if they've completely dried up that you don't even remember, did I wash my arms or No? Then you have to start over again. So these are three things that we have to remember. Another fourth thing that some scholars have said is that if more or less is left out, meaning a person does not do will do in one shot does not

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complete it in one shot. Why? For the purpose of obtaining the hora

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like for example, he has to go to a more cleaner place to wash his feet. So he has to take a pause to see what I mean. Is that okay? Yes, that's okay.

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What if in the process, the widow dries up.

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It didn't take that long. Let's say it took less than a minute, but you are out in the open, it's sunny, it's hard. After a few moments, even the water will dry up especially if you're walking. Even then the scholars have said that we'll do is still valid meaning you can just go and wash your feet where you have to wash your feet. Why? Because you had to give a pause in order to obtain the hora because if you washed your feet where you were, then your feet would get dirty. And this is exactly what we learned from the action of even a little bit lower. I know which Mr. Bahati has mentioned why you've got to live near O'Meara and it has been mentioned

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from urban aroma, meaning his action, that under who has an academy he that he washed both his feet by the AMA, after Jeff felt that after his widow had dried up, meaning he did will do, he did must, but he did not wash his feet. Rather, he washed his feet after some time, and when he washed his feet by that time, the rest of the window had dried up. Why did he do that this incident is reported by Mr. Malik. And it's an authentic report, in which we learned that even a moral dilemma I knew he did will do in the marketplace. And he did not wash his feet. And right from there, he went straight to the masjid. And when he got to the masjid, he washed his feet, and then he entered and he prayed.

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Now, there is a valid reason why he did that, because he was going to walk to the masjid, it may have been wet, or muddy or dirty. Or he had this belief that if he washed his feet now, at that point, they would get dirty by the time we got there.

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And remember intermodal deliver and what kind of shoes would you usually wear sandals, open sandals, remember the hoodies that we learned? So obviously, if your feet are wet, you have just washed them, and then you walk across a sandy or a muddy bath, then definitely Your feet are going to get dirty. So this does not mean that, you know, we generalize this action of urban or modal de la Arnhem, and therefore we give long gaps long pauses in the middle, and we say, oh, his will dried up. So I will look and also dry up. No, there was a reason why he did that. And if we are in a similar situation, then we can do that, as well. So what's the conclusion then? What do we learn that while it is a

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shift, it is a condition, okay, meaning you have to join together all of the steps of will do, if you don't do that, you will it will be invalid. But if for some reason, a person has to give a pause. And as long as these four things are kept in mind, then inshallah is will do is okay.

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Now, what if a person did will do, and he forgot to wash his feet or forgot to wipe the socks? And later on he remembered, then what should a person do? Just repeat? He should just simply repeat. Okay, let's do we'll do all over again. You know, one is that you're in doubt, that's a different thing. But the other is that you're certain you did not wash your feet, then you will do was not valid. And we know that if the window is not valid, then Salah is not valid. Without it. So both are necessary.

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Yes.

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Very true.

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It's honesty with yourself honesty with the loss of panel data that will give you the full con basically, right there. Is this okay? Or is this not? Question is that if you know you do, what do you forget to wipe your head. And later on you remember, if it was just after a few moments that's different. But if it was after an hour or something, then you have to repeat all over again.

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But other scholars, they have also kept the theme as a short, meaning you have to maintain the order as well. Meaning wiping the head will come after washing the arms and before washing the feet. So if a person did not wipe the head, then that will do is not he has to start all over again. When you are in doubt, then what are you supposed to do? When you're in doubt? Remember that my URI book ilima library book, leave that which puts you and out to that which does not put you in doubt, so seek certainty. And the only way of seeking certainty is that you do it again. That safer. It's better. Now, if you remember we learned a principle that when a person is in doubt, then he should

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we should go for what he is certain of the last thing that he is certain. So for example, if a person is not sure if he has will do or not, then what is he going to go with the last thing that he remembers doing for sure. So he will go with that. Another principle is that if shaitan is constantly bothering you, right, you vice versa, Chuck, then in that case, you will ignore the doubt. Like for example in Salah. If you're in doubt about whether or not you did Riku then what will you do? You will just do it again. Because the last thing you remember, what's the more certain thing that you did not do? So just do it again. These two principles are similar but they're

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slightly different. Basically, go with what you are more certain and leave the doubt for that which you know, is more certain. So what are the Hadees? How does that end Mohammed hammer the blue marble or had the center of the warhead but I had the tunnel airmesh and Sally with me I will Gertie and Caribbean mo live near a bus or near a bus. Gonna he said I didn't

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Muna to maimunah deliver Anna she said, Well done utterly Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and yoga syllabi. I left some water for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam so that he could do he was still with it. For alpha Allah Allah de he so he poured water on both his hands for Lhasa, whom Mr. latane will attain ocellus and then you watch them both twice or thrice, some of Labine Allah chemin e then he poured with his right hand onto his left hand meaning some water for cinema dakila who and then he washed his private part with the left hand on which he had bought the water, some Adela Qaeda who bill then he wrapped his hand on the ground, why in order to clean it, so my model was done,

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shocker. Then he rented his mouth and also cleaned his nose. So Melissa was Yahuwah de he then he washed his face and his hands from Allah sallallahu taala. And then he washed his head three times, some of our alleges that he then he poured water on his entire body. So Medina, Jaime makani, then he moved aside from his place where he was standing, and then for Salah Academy, and then he washed his feet at the end.

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So what do we see over here, a pause in the will do that he deferred washing his feet until the end, he performed the will do at the beginning did not wash the feet, but rather he washed them right at the end. So what does it show that a person can give a pause? As long as he's in the same mindset, okay, as long as the body has not dried up, and it is for the purpose of Bukhara that he had to give a gap. So this was for the purpose of the 100 that he was washing his body, he was washing his head and that it doesn't take too long. So all of these conditions are fulfilled. Therefore, such a gap is allowed.

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that men have the hobby Amina here unless you merely fill the one who poured from his right with his right hand onto his left hand in the hosel. Meaning he took water with his right hand and he poured it onto the left hand. Why would he do that?

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For two reasons. One is that you want to do everything with the right hand. And if the left hand is dirty, you want to put the dirty hand into the bucket of water. Secondly, to keep the water clean, because if you put the dirty hand into the clean water that clean water can become dirty.

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Had this enter most of us marine Allah had dishonorable awana had the tunnel airmesh insanely with me with Giardia and qure mowlem near our best enemy are Besson and maimunah bintan Harris call it well there are two little Sunni lights on Allahu alayhi wa sallam a Muslim was set up to who I placed some water for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to wash himself with was adoptable and I also concealed him, meaning I covered the Prophet sallallahu wasallam while he was taking over, so maybe she put a sheet or something. So she shielded him she covered him for some ballet he then he poured on his hand what the water for Lhasa Hamilton Omar attain then He washed it once or twice honestly

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man let a DD at acara Selita amla. One of the narratives he said I'm not sure whether he mentioned the third time or not mean the one from whom he heard the Hadith is not sure whether it was mentioned the Prophet sallallahu Sallam washed his hand the third time or not. So my other hobby Amina here Allah she made he then he poured from his right hand onto his left hand for Salah forger who then he washed his private parts on my delicata who will be open hearted then he represent on the ground or on the wall. So metamodel was done shuffle was sort of logical way a day he was a lot so who so Masada alleges that he saw Madonna half of us and Academy for now? Well, two then I gave

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to him for cotton, cocoa is a piece of cloth.

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Why did she give that to him as a towel, so that he could dry himself up after taking a bath. For Karla via de Hakka then he said with his hand like this meaning he gestured with his hand to indicate that he did not need it. While I muted her, and he did not intended meaning he did not want it, he did not want the cloth in order to wipe himself dry. So the Hadees is similar as the previous one. This Heidi's has mentioned many times in this book, and 100 is just slightly different versions with so many lessons we learned. One of the lessons that we learned is that a person may scoop water with his right hand and pour onto the left, and then wash himself. Another thing that we learned

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over here is the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not speak, he just gestured.

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So this shows that everything does not have to be communicated with words all the time. We can also use gestures and signals because it's faster.

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Once we start talking and explaining then it takes longer. So he did not speak he just used his signal, his gesture, something that I have seen growing up, that my mother whenever she she was busy doing something or she preferred to communicate through gestures a lot, because it's faster. It's quicker, right? It saves time.

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It's also easier on yourself and also on other people because if we're communicating, talking, talking, talking all the time, the other person's like, Okay, give me a break. So it's a very effective way of communication. I'm not saying that don't talk, talk as well, there should be a balance. But if you're busy doing something, then it's better to communicate quickly through gestures so that you can focus on what you're doing.

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But either jamara some other woman della Alani said he fell asleep with her head, either Gemma when a person had sexual intercourse, some other and then he repeated, meaning he repeated without taking a bath. Okay, he repeated without taking a bath in the middle, a woman down Orlando, he said, he and the one and the one who made rounds, meaning he went to all of his women, fearlessly were hit in one whistle, meaning he had sexual intercourse with his wife if he had more, but he took only one bath at the end. So basically, the question over here is whether, after every sexual intercourse also is mandatory or not? In other words, is it necessary for a person to take also before having sexual

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intercourse again, or not? It's not mandatory, it is you can say it's better. You can say it's better to do we'll do but if a person does not it's not a problem. It doesn't mean that a person does not come out of the state of impurity. The question over here is that is it necessary to be in the state of Ohio before having sexual intercourse again? No, it's not necessary. Right? whether a person is having sexual intercourse with the same wife or with another wife? Or is there a confusion here? You don't understand or you do? Raise your hand if you don't understand?

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Look at the statement either gemera samaveda when a person had sexual intercourse, and then he repeated, meaning he had sexual intercourse again. In other words, he did not take a bath immediately after the sexual intercourse. Rather, he he had it again.

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Woman doll and he said, if you will see why him and the one who went to his wives in one whistle, meaning he had sexual intercourse with multiple wives, one after the other. And then at the end, he just took one bath in the middle, he did not take a bath. Okay. You understand? So basically, the question is, that, is it necessary do take a bath before having sexual intercourse again? What's the answer? It is not. You can say it's better, it's cleaner. But is it necessary? It's not

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had the pharaoh Mohammed Abu Bashar. Allah had the Sunnah if new ibrd way ahead. No, sir either in shaba and Ibrahim of new Mohammed bin Rashid, an OBE, Allah He said the Kotaku there are issues. I mentioned it to our issue. What the statement of imminent remodel did over on who? Okay in a longer version of the Hadith that's mentioned over here, Clint mentioned. So he mentioned the statement of urban or moral dilemma and who to who? To Arusha. What was that statement, that when he said he would not put perfume even before taking the bath, for the purpose of putting a alarm on?

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Because it is permissible, right, that a person puts fragrance on his body, and then he takes a bath, and then he puts on the home? And even though when he's putting on the exam, the fragrance is still there. That's permissible.

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But when Roman was asked about it, he said no way he wouldn't do it. He said, I would rather have put it on tar on my body then put perfume in this way. So this was mentioned to her. I shall deliver on her when she heard for quality or Herrmann law who about may Allah have mercy on a man meaning on intermodal de la who are going to OPI yebo Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I would put perfume on the Prophet sallallahu Sallam failed to forlani say he then he would go to all of his wives, meaning to have relations. So my use behold then he would enter in the morning more anyone in the state of Islam, and young, the Hopi, even smelling of fragrance. Now there are a number of

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things that we learn over here. First of all, we see that it is permissible for a person to book review, and then take a bath for it. And even though after you boots on the ground, you can still smell the perfume. It's completely permissible. You know that in the state of Ohio, a person cannot put perfume on, that's not allowed. But before that, if he put it on and after afterwards, the fragrance is still there. Sometimes it happens that you put something on it, it's so strong, especially on the body, that you can smell it until the end of the day, sometimes the next morning. So this is something that is permissible. Then we see that are shielded or she prayed for mercy for

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even a little bit ago. I know. Why did she do that? Because she knew that if he had seen the Prophet sallallahu Sallam doing that he wouldn't have set such a harsh statement. This shows

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You know, giving the benefit of the doubt of the other person thinking positive thoughts about them. Because sometimes a person may say something based on whatever knowledge they have, and every human being has limited knowledge. And they strongly believe that and, you know, something, perhaps that they don't know. But how do we react at these times? We become so emotional and so upset and so angry, or what does he know? He doesn't know anything and he has this mistake, you know, he made that error. He doesn't know anything. You don't need to listen to such people. You know, we will come very aggressive and harsh.

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Look at the attitude of Arusha.

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May Allah have mercy and even if he had known he wouldn't have said this. And then she mentioned herself that come to apply Hebrew Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, I myself would put perfume on him. And then in the morning, after taking a bath, he would still be smelling of that fragrance and he would be in the state of your home. Then the relevance of this Hades under this chapter heading is that the Hadees proves that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam visited several of his women in the same night and he took just one bath at the end. If he had taken multiple baths than what would happen. He would not smell of that fragrance anymore, that fragrance would be gone. So this is the evidence.

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And other Hades had this no Mohammed Abu Bashar had the sun Mr. Chairman, Cora had the Tawny Abbey and Qatada. Allah had the Santa Ana sub nomadic autocannon abuse that Allahu Allah He will send me your doodle earlier and he said he started we're headed man or lady when

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he said the prophets are the loudest. What do you do he would, who is basically to go around meaning he would visit all of his wives facade were hidden in one Psalm. Sarris translated as outward, it does not mean that truly 60 minutes, but rather it means in one go in one go in one portion of the night or the day. If it was nighttime, you would visit all of them if it was daytime, you would visit all of them were hoonah Dasha, and they were 11 at that time, how many were there? 11 Cora is a call to the anus. I said to unece who Qatada. He said that I said to another hour, can you take Ooh, did he have the strength? Was he actually able? Either he said Khun Nana had the suit. We used

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to say that I know who that indeed he was. Yeah, he was given what are the strength of the Latina 30 men, meaning in general, the prophets, Allison was stronger than the average man, even physical strength. You know, for example, the incident at the Battle of the trench have observed that when a man came to the prophet SAW him saying that he was so hungry and he lifted up his shirt and showed him the rock that he had died to his stomach. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam showed him too, that he had died a stomach.

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An ordinary person cannot survive like that. Only a person who has a lot of strength can do that. The prophets are those that would pray in the night to the point that his feet would swell. How many of us have ever done that?

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So really, he was stronger. He was braver, you know that why was not easy to receive.

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It was not easy to receive, the camel would sit down. Imagine a camel, a companion thought it his knee would break it would shatter. Because the prophets have a lot of systems leg was on his knee. And the way he came, the pressure was so much.

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We know the incident when the province of medicine was praying and shaytaan came and tried to harm him and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam got hold of him and he said that if I wanted to tie him up to the masjid, and so that the children would come in and play with him. But he remembered the prayer of Solomon and he said, which is why he left the chair Bongo, you know, strong Jean are. They're strong. Imagine one of them lifted up the throne of the queen of Saba. I mean, that's some strength, but the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was able to control him. So really, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had a lot of strength at every level, whether it was physical or emotional or mental, or whether it

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was, you know, the strength of his determination, he was given more and this was a special blessing upon him, this was you can say a miracle of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam because he performed what an ordinary man cannot perform, he had to accomplish what an average person cannot accomplish. So for that Allah subhanaw taala gave him all that strength. And part of that strength was also to be able to fulfill the rights of all of his wives in one goal, in a part of the day or in a part of a night will call us or even on Qatada in the NSN had data on this or this one. In another version, it has been narrated that at that time the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had nine wives. And this is

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correct. Because the prophets Allah said them, yes, he married a total of 11 wives, but two of them passed away in his lifetime. Who are they? How they generally don't. Zainab bint who's a man

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and when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam died, he left behind

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Nine waves. So this is more accurate, that there weren't nine. And we know that for a very long time the prophets of Allah had only four wives It was after the Battle of zap, that you when he made his end up a little, and then after that he made the rest of them. And you know that that was a special exception in his case, and, and the whole discussion is there, incidentally. So this was indeed a miracle of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And this Hadees proves that a person may have sexual intercourse multiple times before taking a bath, meaning he can take a bath just once at the end, it's not necessary to take a bath, and then have sexual intercourse, another person can have

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multiple and take only one bath at the end. Now, there are many people who when they read it had these here such are these they become embarrassed or they're surprised or they're shocked. And there are people who raise objections against the Prophet sallallahu Sallam against his marital life, you know, based on such a Hadith, because the problem is that we think that if someone is religious, they cannot have, you know, a sexual life. Basically, these two things cannot go together sexuality and religion, they don't go together. This is what majority of the people believe that if a person has desire lust, if he's fulfilling that, even in the right way, that makes a person unreligious.

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This is not the case, we see that where the prophets, Allah does not fulfill the rights of all of his wives in one night. He also spent nights where he would pray, where he would pray, where he would stand in PM, reciting sort of Baccarat earlier in Ron and Lisa, you know, we stand in intravital, for 20 minutes, and we think the man prayed for too long. And we decided to go to another mustard The next day, because we cannot stand for that long or we sit halfway, or we keep a chair behind us just to be on the safe side. Imagine he had such balance, that where he had so many wives, each one of them was happy and pleased. At the same time. He was a devout worshiper. But this

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balance has been lost. And people think that if you are fulfilling your desires, you're not religious, you cannot be religious, you cannot focus on rabada you cannot focus on a higher, you know, purpose or objective in life. And on the other hand, if a person wants to be more religious than he has to become celibate, but we see that that celibacy, when people decide not to have, you know, any sexual relations, whether it is for religious purposes or for worldly purposes, it doesn't work out.

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It doesn't work out to the point that now the Pope has to decide whether this is going to carry on in the church or not. Because it comes out it fails in in horrible ways. It failed in horrible ways. You know, in sexual offenses, pedophilia, whatever you call it, so many things happen amongst people who are great religious figures, because our bodies are not programmed for celibacy. They're not programmed for this. They're not made for this.

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Human beings, they procreate. I mean, this is unnatural, this is unnatural. So the dean is the Dean of fitrah, it is the natural religion, and we seek the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was the best example, that if he can be the most devout worshipper, the most successful man,

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he also had 11 wives, he also had nine wives at a time.

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And he fulfilled the right of every single one of them. You see the perfect balance in his life, when things are done in the right way, with the right intention in the halaal Wait, and that's a subtle call that that's a good deed. So don't become worried when you hear such a heartbeat when you read them have sukoon in your heart, that this was, you know, this only shows to us the strength of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam his success, I was watching this interview of this woman who has written a book on the history of celibacy. And she has mentioned that now she has chosen to become celibate herself, not for a religious reason. But she said, I want to do something in my life. And I

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know that if I have relationships with other people, then I cannot focus on what I want to do in life. She said, I want to write books, I want to do research. But I cannot do that if I have a relationship with another person. But we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam What did he achieve in his life?

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He was the most successful person even in the worldly sense. Yet he had nine wives. So it's possible this Deen is really the Dean of fitrah. It is the benefit. Because the thing is that if you don't give your body is right, even that's not fair. There's research going on today. Whether or not it is possible for human beings to remain celibate. It's not possible. They said that people who claim that they are celebrated in their private lives, many wrong things are happening. Because your body's there, your hormones are there. You can't control them. There's fitna everywhere. It's impossible for a person to remain celibate today, basically. So the Hadith

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gives us many lessons. And also remember that if the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had nine wives, and he was able to fulfill the rights of every single one of them that shows us physical strength, and that shows the Shahada as well. Now people say that Oh, the kind of words that they use to describe the Prophet sallallahu sallam, they're horrible, but they use this against him that look at the Shahada. But if you think about it for a man, Shahada is actually good. Because that makes him a man. If a man does not have shower, then he is weak. kosslyn lazy, whatever you call it. I mean, he doesn't he's not a man, basically. Do you see what I mean? His his manhood is not there. So shower

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is actually something positive for a men.

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Okay, it is actually something positive for men.

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And now the villa if the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had this out of control, narrow the villa, then he would not have married the women whom he had married. Who did he may? Only one girl who was virgin, the rest of them were previously married. They had children from before, or they were all much older than him in age, and he would not have remained limited to nine or 11. Wives, neither.

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Because people who, who have such problems whose desires are out of control that are they're limited to their wives, are they limited to one mistress or two mistresses? No, many, many. And it doesn't stop anywhere. The profit level Allison was in his 20s when he married her digital below or no was so much older than him. So there was so much older than him. So it shows that the marriages that he had were for a different purpose. And what was that to show the balance in the life of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, when he married those women, those enemies became his in laws, enmity turned into friendship. Many people accepted Islam as a result of that. And also we see that the wives of the

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Prophet SAW the father son and they learned sooner Ballina, meaning the Sunnah, that is hidden from public view, that of the private life. Now imagine, have sort of deliver on her, I shall deliver and how both of them narrative. Heidi's about maimunah later on the narrative, about how the Prophet sallallahu Sallam took a bath,

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a bath of Geneva, I mean, you think a companion was going to see that the Prophet Thompson would go and telling people about it. No, this is something that can only be observed by a wife. So these things we could not have learned unless and until the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had those women around him. So there are many, many benefits wisdom behind the marriages of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, when he was married to what they did, or I know when he was young, he did not marry anybody else. And if he married, so that that was because he was being pushed into it, because he needed someone to look after him to look after his young children. And because of that, he was convinced

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into marrying her. It was not about his own himself, it was also about fulfilling the rights of his wives, which is why he visited all of them in one. And this shows that it is permissible for a person to do that. But if a wife does not approve of it, that she says no, this day is only my day or This night is only my night, then it is not permissible for a man to do that. And we know that later on in his life, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was allowed to not keep perfect justice between his wives, although he would try his best, but he was not obligated to maintain perfect justice between his wives because he had a lot of important things to do. And his situation was also

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exceptional. He had nine wives at that time. And a man is you know, failed at pleasing one wife. Imagine he had nine to please and keep happy.

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Despite the strength of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he still had a very soft heart. We think physical strength, emotional strength, mental strength, that means that you were very tough at your heart and you have no emotions. No, he was still a very soft person. Very gentle. What opened the phone one of the little calbee and

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that was little muddy. Well, what do even home less than muddy, washing off the money. Now the word muddy. This is pronounced in two ways. It's pronounced with a spoon on the then so maybe, and it's also pronounced as with a casa under the del. So as muddy, both are correct. It's not two different things. It's the same thing. So washing off the muddy Well, we'll do a mean who and performing will do on account of it. What is muddy sexual discharge, it's basically discharge that is a result of shower that is a result of desire. So when this is excreted, whistle is not required. Instead what is required will do, just washing off the muddy and performing will do that is efficient a person

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does not need to do worse. How does it matter? Well, it doesn't either. who aren't we have seen an OB ob department. And are they in color? He said contura, doula and mother a little below. I know he said I was a man who would have a lot of muddy mud that meaning a lot of money for Mr. toura julienne. So I told the man and yes, Elena via sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he should ask the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for me meaning as as to what I should do. Why did he ask another man to ask the question Lima Can you benetti he because of the position of his daughter, his daughter was a little older and his wife, so he was embarrassed to ask the question about money directly from his

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father in law for color. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, No, we'll just do we'll do we'll sell the car and wash your private part, why wash the private part in order to clean because muddy is impure. And secondly, it is said that the benefit of washing is that money reduces over time, meaning then a person gains control over his desire or what then less money comes out. Bad mental Tayyaba, the one who put perfume, some of the Salah, and then he took a bath Wolbachia and it remained what remained, I thought we'll leave the effect of the fragrance meaning the fragrance still remained on the body, even after having taken a bath. Because fragrances what its oil, okay,

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like, for example, the ether that we use, or even other kinds of perfume so it gets onto the body. It's not that easy to take it off. And besides, it's not necessary to take it off. Why?

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Because it is not such a barrier that would prevent water from reaching the skin. We have learned this in detail and kitabi will do right that if the barrier is imperceptible meaning you can't even see it. It's not visible. You can't touch it there's like nothing you can't tell if something is there yet the oily feeling you may have but other than that nothing then you don't need to remove it in order to wash so basically your skin does not have to be squeaky clean. hair doesn't have a boon Armani color. Ivana or an Abraham bin Mohammed bin wintershall. avi, Allah He sets the ultra shutter, I asked our Isha for the girl to LA. So I mentioned to her kolad Nero model the statement

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of urban remodel Dino and who what was that statement that mount or hip boo, I do not like an beheld that I enter the morning more halimun in the state of Iran. On the hotel even I'm smelling of fragrance meaning I do not like that. I get into the state of your home. While there is fragrance on my body for color there are issues. So I shall deliver in her she said annata yep to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I would put fragrance on the Prophet sallallahu Sallam so my father Feeney said he then he would go to his wives, he would visit them the mouse Bahama Herman and then he would enter in the morning in the state of Arizona. And in one night, that fragrance would not go

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away. So this shows that it is allowed that a person puts fragrance on the body, but it is not allowed to put it on the clothes. Remember that? Okay, meaning on the home, you don't put the fragrance on the body that's different. Is it just for men or also for a woman, a woman, I mean, you can, there are different kinds of fragrances, right, some spread, and others just remain, you know, on your body, they don't really spread, but at least you don't smell bad. So that's fine. Or if someone comes really in close proximity to you, then they can smell it. Right. So you can put something like that. And in fact, you should because if you are, you know, doing hot you out in the

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open, you may sweat you may, whatever. So it's better that you put something on that will not spread. For a man if it spreads, that's different, but for a woman, her fragrance should not spread. So anyway, we see over here, the action of eyeshadow bleed over into that we see that the wife of the prophets, Allah is taking so much care of the prophets all along. You know, one is putting water for him and others putting, you know, a curtain for him. And other is bringing a towel for him. And other is putting fragrance on his body. Why? Because these actions, what do they do? They grow the love that is there between the husband and the wife. Because the husband feels important.

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He feels important and that's the one thing that men need.

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They need to feel that they are important that there's something that they're the king, they're the boss, or that they rule. They're the one basically, Allah has made them for why not? You know just like that. It's for a reason. They need to feel that they're important. So a woman by these little things, she is giving importance to her husband, she is honoring him. She's making him feel that he is someone special to her. And this will in turn, make him more affectionate towards her. And then there's a cycle of goodness between the spouses. Had the thinner Adam color had the thinner Sherpa Carla had done and halcomb and Ibrahim are an expert on shadow ology said any Unruh

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In another version, she said that it is as though I can see either will be simply be, I can look at the listening will be as as the glistening The Shining of the tube of the fragrance. The muffler can be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the hair barking on the head of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa who are mocking him, and he was Mohammed he was in the state of Arizona, because he had put the the sleeve the fragrance on him before he entered the state of Iran. So it was like oil, and she put it on on the head on the hair. So she could see the shining the glistening of that on his head, it shows that a person may put fragrance on the body before taking a bath. And he may also not put

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fragrance on the body before taking a bath. Both are permissible as we learned earlier.

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And this also shows that the province of the laws that have put fragrance on the head, where do we put it, maybe on the hands or on the neck or something like that are we sprayed on the clouds and ruin the clouds, fragrance would actually go on the body, it should actually go on the body because that is when the body will smell nice. And this shows that the hair should also smell nice, because sometimes we have long hair, but they smell bad

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because we either don't wash them regularly or don't wash them properly 30 or whatever, just because we have straightened them once so we don't want to wash them for the next two days to three days. Because then you have to stand and straighten your hair again. Know the hair should also smell nice. This does not mean that you start putting perfume on your hair I mean but those products on the hair on the head that are meant for the hair in the head. But the hair should also smell nice. If you apply something on the skin and then wash the skin then whatever you applied on the skin will actually be absorbed by the skin why because when you pour water on the skin the pores open so the

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pores will open up what you put on the skin will be absorbed by the skin so the skin will be basically infused with the fragrance with the nice smell or with the nutrients or whatever that you're applying

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that Lena sharp he had the either one an avocado, Ottawa bachata who FL barley clearly show the fetus from Finland and that is to run the fingers okay through so running fingers through what a shoulder here when taking muscle have the untill meaning running passing the fingers through the hair okay until either one the person is certain that unknown but autoweb schelotto that he has made his Bashara or y meaning he has made it wet. Okay Basha, the scalp the skin that he has made it wet. After doing that I felt early after having that certainty that the skin is wet. Then he pours water on top. So basically when you're passing your fingers through the hair to make the scalp wet, you

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will do that until you are certain that everything is wet, the scalp is wet. And once you have reached that point of certainty, then you will just pour water from the top or for example if you're standing under the shower, then as you pass your fingers through your hair, this makes sure that sweat 30 Okay, meaning that the entire scalp is wet behind the ears above the ears, you know above the neck on the back so just make sure with your fingers that the scalp is wet because that is necessary that's a shot for the validity of also when it comes to muscle of Genova then no but after menstruation and yes you have to because basically you have to wet the hair as well after

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and if you can make sure that the hair gets wet 30 then it's okay but you have to make sure that it does get wet. How does it work then color one on Abdullah color one on a shadow neuroma a be here on a shadow. All that she said Canada sort of lies on Allahu alayhi wa sallam in a terminal Genova the facility on the property. Take a bath after Geneva. Then he would wash his hands whatever we'll do a hula Salah some of the Salah he will do will do like they will do for salah and then he would wash and then he would take a bath basically. So mahalo. Then he will do Hillel BIA D with his hand shadow of his hair had that until either when he was certain and called autoweb schelotto that his

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skin was made wet FL Darla Hill method at the mandala then he would pour water on himself how many times three times so Melissa it'll just add then he would wash the rest of the body. So if a person washes the head in this manner, then that's water is used and you also have that certainty that the entire head is wet. We'll call it come to our city and our solar lights on a long running Salah mean in our in my head, not only for men who jamir in Nevada we would take wolfer meaning we would take handfuls of water domian together, okay meaning we would together take handfuls of water in the bodies that we learned earlier we learned that they would take turns

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Okay over here we learned that they will take the water together other studies show that their hands would also touch okay. So, obviously this will happen. So, these are these What do they prove that in hosel Hillel is necessary when the hair is thick and when the water is less do reasons when killall is necessary. What are those two reasons First of all, the hair is thick that if you just pour water from the top the scalp will not get wet. And secondly the water is also less

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when the water is is less you have little water, then you have to be very careful. And for that you will do Hillel first and then you will pour water but if you have plenty of water, plenty like a showerhead today and then you're standing under it and you just pass your fingers a little bit. That's enough.

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Bab mantapa fildena Betty semasa Surya Jessa de Waal am you're a Muslim? Oh, well, they will do Mr. Ratan

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Tata, the one who performed we will do Phil Geneva in the state of Geneva, meeting us in Geneva to come out of the state of Geneva he did Voodoo. And then what did he do some masala say Raja said he then he washed all of his body when he read and when he was washing the body. He did not repeat lossless washing Meanwhile, they will do he the places of Voodoo Matata for another time.

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Meaning he did will do. Okay, washed his hands face arms feet. And then he went on to doing most of the body washing the body and when he was washing the body, he did not pour water on his face. He did not wash his face again. He did not wash his arms again. But rather he focused more on the rest of the parts of the body. So is that okay? Yes, it's okay. A person does not need to rewash those parts. So basically will do and also can be joined together they can be combined together. And this is what we see in the son of the Prophet total autism so much so that he would defer washing the feet until the end, and he would join them together so much

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harder than I used to use of new Risa or about an alphabet of new Moosa airmesh and Salim and qure molendinar betsson and even Airbus and maimunah are at water auto su de la has a lovely sentiment will do and Legion evety the prophets are allowed to set in place and water for will do when in the state of Geneva for IBM in here unless you Maliki model attain. And then he, he poured a water with his right hand onto his left hand twice or thrice model attain the lesson Some of us are fortunate and he washed his private parts a little bit easier to build up. Then he stuck his hand on the ground or will hurt or the wall model attain Elsa Latin twice or thrice in order to completely clean

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the hand. So my mother was done to clean his mouth and nose. While I said our job with the law. He washed his face and his arms, some sealer then he poured water on his head. So Melissa just said the hood and he washed his body. So Matt and I have a delay, he then he went aside and he washed his feed policy set for a day to be forgotten. I brought him a piece of cloth to wipe himself with follow me later, but he did not want it for jala yen photo ba D, then he began young photo, wiping off the water, how with his hand, meaning he wiped off the water from his body with his hand.

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Instead of using a cloth to wipe himself dry, he just rubbed off the water with his hand. So this is something that we can also do.

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One is that you use a tower. The other is that you don't use the tower, then you'll be dripping wet. Okay, water will be dripping off of you, you'll make the washroom when you make the floor wet. So in that case, what should be done, water should be rubbed off by the hand. Now don't try it in winter. Try it at a time when you know better to do it. Like in a warmer place or time.

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vibe either the call of duty and the hoogenboom when a person remember is in the masjid that he was gentle. What should he do? Yo, he should leave commando just as He is. Well, I have yet a mom and you should not start doing a mom in the mustard. Meaning a person was in the state of Geneva. And he forgot and he went to the masjid. And when he was in the masjid he remembered. So in that case, what should he do? Do time over there? No, he should just leave the masjid go to the zoo and come back. So if a person is ever in a state of Geneva, and he's doing something that he should not be doing, like for example, being the students of Quran we might start doing our lesson or something reciting

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the Quran, our recitation and if you remember, while you are reciting, while you're doing your lesson, that I was in the state of Geneva, then at that time, what should you do? Immediately, take a bath and then continue

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this also

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proves that when a person is in the state of Geneva, it's not necessary that he takes a bath immediately. It's better, but it's not necessary, he should take a bath by the time the time of solid comes in. And if he's going to sleep, then it's better to sleep in the state of tahara. And if taking a bath is not possible, then at least we'll do. But remember, it's not mandatory.

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But there are many fabricated things out there, which prohibit a person from walking around from taking a certain number of steps, even somebody mentioned weed, you're not allowed to take, I don't know how many steps in the state of Geneva, how many 40

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you can only take 40 steps, when you're in the state of dilemma not more than that. One of the washroom is fire a person has to do something attend to something, immediately somebody has come or a child needs to be looked at or the food has to be looked at or whatever, then

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it's unnatural, right? So then again, is very natural. And you will see from this hadith It's so beautiful, I would think is so beautiful.

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is

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again, with that mindset that if a person is in a state it has had sexual intercourse and it says though he is sinful

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and he has to feel guilty until he comes out of that state. No, he doesn't need to feel guilty.

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Angels do not enter where a gentle person is sitting. I mean, what's the evidence for that? Yeah, you can you can say or or even but not

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Yeah, you can say your morning evening. That you dip your fingers into the bucket. Okay. And then you you pass your fingers through your hair and when you feel that they have become dry then you dip them again and then you pass your fingers again. No as many times as necessary. Okay, when the leader shower you will do that as many times as necessary to ensure that the entire scalp is wet. That opening the hair is not necessary.

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How does an Abdullah hypno Muhammad Allah How does an arithmetic neuroma have one on a unison? Is it an AVI sedima an OB hudaydah or ot Mata Salatu He said, The sola had been established meaning the karma had been said had been pronounced word did it so forth and so forth. Were also made the rules were also straightened up. dm and people were you know, while standing so people were standing, the rules were made. Your karma had been pronounced.

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For holiday, Elena Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the prophets are a lot of them came out a bonus from his hurdler fellow mahkamah v masala. Then when he stood in his place of prayer lefkara he remembered that analogy, you know that he was in the state of Geneva for collina Then he said to us mechanicum stay in your places. Meaning don't disperse. Don't go away. Don't go to the back of the machine and sit there stay right where you are. So Maharajah then he went back for the salah and he took a bath, the Maharaja Medina and then he came to us what suhu Jaco and his head was dripping meaning the water drops were falling off of his head for Kabbalah. They needed that beer

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for Selena Mara who and then we prayed with him who Darla and Marmot or Nisa de Rosario Ernie sorry. So in this hadith we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did a very natural life he was very normal person, he forgot as well. And when he forgot, he didn't think it was embarrassing to go and take a bath. Because I mean, Allah knows honesty with yourself and honesty with Allah soprano. So the solution is simple if you remember, then just go take a bath and come back to where you were

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supposed to go long won't be home they can assure they will let you under Mr. little corner to wait a second. I'm already caught with the light