Taimiyyah Zubair – Bukhari 064 Ghusl Hadith 276 282

Taimiyyah Zubair
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out of Sweden Kareem and my birth father would have left him in a shape ontology was similar to mine over him. Rubbish roughly. So do a silly MD, who looked at me lissoni acabo de probenecid

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a few things about Bob number 17.

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that when a person in the mosque remembers that he is in the state of Geneva, he should leave immediately and should not do diamo

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a few things about this hadith in this hadith we learned that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he was about to lead the people in Salah. The karma had been said the suffering of the rose had been straightened. And he remembered that he had to take whistle. So what happened he told the people to stay where they were to stay in their roles. And he went to Cabo so came back. And then he led to people in prayer. So from this Hadith, we see that if a person is in the masjid, and he remembers that he was in the state of Geneva, then he doesn't need to make a move where he is, and simply he can just get out of the masjid take also in return. Now, there are a couple of things that we

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learned over here. First of all, why is it that it would be even hot? Or that the question would arise that he needs to make diamo? Why why they are?

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Basically, the question arises when a person thinks is it okay for him to walk through the muster? He may be sitting talking to somebody, he may be standing. So that standing, that waiting for a few moments, those steps that he takes through the masjid, can he take those without fahara? Yes, he can, in order to take those steps in order to get ready to leave from the mustard he doesn't need to do.

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In other words, he can pass through the mustard, he can walk out, he can get ready, it can take him a couple of minutes, it can take him 1015 minutes even. And for those 1015 minutes, he doesn't need to make the mo he can just simply leave whenever possible for him the earlier, the better. And this proves that I'll Horridge meaner them

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that the one who is coming out of a sin is not sinful. Meaning that if a person committed a sin, He committed a mistake, he did something wrong. And he realized, and then he is trying to get out of it. Now in the process of getting out of the sin, He might be committing more mistakes, but he has to deal with that otherwise, how will he come out of it? Like for example, a person did not know. And in his ignorance, he let's say consume some interest, okay, or has an interest loan or something, he realized, and he wants to get out of it as soon as possible. But still, it will take him. Okay, a year, maybe a few months, maybe a couple of years. So in those couple of years that

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he's trying to get out of that state of sinfulness is he sinful? No, because he is in the process of Toba. He is in the process of coming out of the sin.

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So this is a very important point. Because it happens that a person his circumstances are not within his control. And he has to get out of the sin commit something wrong. So because that's you can say it's lesser of the two evils. It's lesser of the two evils and Allah knows the intention of the person, the striving of a person. So that is forgiven in travel. Meaning he doesn't need to make the home, you know, standing where he is in order to get out of the mustard. No, he doesn't need to he can just leave. And this would be based on the opinion that a person cannot go to the masjid, even in the state of Geneva. Right? But we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he needed the whistle

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in order to pray in order to perform the Salah.

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Other lessons that we learned this her these are the straight rows that this habit would form for Salah because that is mentioned we're delighted to suffer for straightened up. If there was a crowd of the rules were haphazard and the prophets Allah loves and would not be able to leave as quickly. Then, this Hadees also proves that there is no harm if there is a delay between karma and Salah

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because the karma was pronounced, the rose had been straightened up and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam left to go hosel returned and then let the prayer meaning when he returned, if karma was not pronounced again.

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So sometimes there can be a delay 15 minute delay half an hour delay even 20 minute delay, five minute delay, there is no harm.

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Bab neph Lilya danamon and loosely are Neil Genova Neff Lee wiping off, Aaliyah Dane the hands mean elusive after bath Anil ginebra of Geneva meaning why

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The water that's on the body of a person after taking a bath of Geneva, wiping off that water using what? using hands and when a person will do that what will happen the sprinkled will follow. So is that okay? Yes it's perfectly fine.

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How does an herb then called upon Abu Hamza call us a miracle our image and Salim are in good shape and if they are best in Allah He said call it my Muna to my moon will be lower in her she said well dr Linda beistle Allahu alayhi wa sallam of Muslim I placed for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam some water for Vasu fossa top to be Tobin and then I concealed him with a cloth Why? To screen him okay to screen him. So she placed the water and when he went to take her so what did she do? She put like a cloth like a curtain you can say in order to screen him for setup to be solvent. Well somewhere Elijah de he then he poured on his hands for Salah Houma and he washed both of them. So masabi amin

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here unless you merely then he poured with his right hand onto his left hand for Salah for jeho and then he washed his private part for a lot of a big hill from us haha. Then he stuck his hand on the ground and he wiped it meaning he wiped clean his hands, the masala Hamamoto, then he washed his hand and then he rented his mouth was done Chaka, and then he cleaned his nose was Elijah Who was he washed his face and his arms still muscle barely see he then he poured water on his head would have failed our electricity and he poured on his body. So Medina half the LaSalle Academy, and then he went aside and washed his feet for now well to celban and then I brought him a cloth why, so that he

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could wipe himself dry, follow me, but he did not take it from Tanaka. Then he went on to Hawaii in Fallujah de he and then he went on wiping off the water with his hands, meaning it's not necessary to wipe off to wipe oneself dry with a cloth with the towel. It's not necessary. You can even just you know wipe off the water with your hands.

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Batman better a bishop seal Amen. Phil was the one who began with the right side of his head can be shifty with side which side of his head I'm on the right one. Phil whistle in the back. We need beginning with the right side of the head when taking about half a dozen a holiday of New Year here, Colorado, Santa Ibrahim of Luna here and it hasn't been Muslim and I'm Sophia to Binti shaybah or Nora Ishita. Archie said corner we used to either a saw but if Dinah Geneva when one of us would have Geneva meaning the women 100 beard the hair salon full color see her she would take b a day her with her hands. The lathon full policy her What does this mean that she would pour water over her

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head three times how using both hands. So Mata could be at the helm on a ship in alignment, then she would take with her hand, I should be held I'm on the right side of hers meaning the right side of her head, then she would take hold of that here would be at the helm. Oprah and with her other hand are now shipping Elisa. With her other hand, she would take the left side meaning she would pour water on the right side first, and then on the left side. So basically first three times on the head and then wash the right side first and then the left side. Next, why washing this way? Because beginning with the right side is what this is sooner. This is Mr. Herb. This was the habit of the

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Prophet sallallahu wasallam. This was something that he liked to do. We have learned in Qatar we will do that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he would do tyerman meaning he would begin with the right side with the right hand. And this is something that he liked to do in all of his affairs. Okay, in the Hadees, we learned when we shut in E. coli in all of his affairs, this is what he would like to do. Now, one thing before we continue, that there were a lot of questions about the hosel of Genova and hosel after head. Remember that this kita primarily speaks about the hustle of Genova. So don't think that this is similar to hustle off hide. There are a few things that a person needs to

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consider when taking the hustle of help, which inshallah we will learn about in the next chapter. Primarily, it's about washing the hair, that the entire hair meeting from top to bottom need to be washed or washing the scalp is sufficient. inshallah those details we will learn about in kuttabul head, but over here, what do we learn that washing the head is necessary, washing the scalp is necessary and when a person is doing that, he should begin with the right side first, and then he should move on to the left. That with one hand, she would take the right side of the head and with the other hand, she would take the left side. Why because it's convenient

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Money doesn't early on, and why the who Phil halwa, the one who took a bath earlier than naked. Why though when he was alone, meaning himself, Phil halwa in seclusion, meaning a person who took a bath while he was naked. And he did that, because he was in seclusion mean, there was nobody there. Nobody could see him. Is that permissible? Or does he have to have something on his body to cover his private parts? No, this is permissible. woman does cetera, and the one who screened himself, meaning he covered his private part with some kind of clothes, or he concealed himself meaning he had a curtain or something to have absolute privacy, then for the set to have well, then the subtle

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screening oneself is something that is better.

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So if a person is alone, in an open place, such as a huge washroom or even outside, there is nobody on that side, then can a person take a bath without anything on his body? Yes, he can. But as a precaution, if you put something, meaning if he covers his private parts with a garment, or he draws a curtain to screen himself, then that is better. So the setter basically will be in two ways. One is that something is worn on the body.

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And secondly, the setter is held by having a curtain or a cloth or something to have privacy. So the sector is much better. Why is it better?

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Because accidents can happen. Right? accidents can always happen. So for example, if a person is in the washroom, the doors closed, and they draw the shower curtain, drawing the shower curtain is better, as opposed to not joining it. Why? Because you may have forgotten to lock the door. And somebody might not realize and they might walk in. So yes, the washroom door is closed, but it's better to draw the curtain to have more to settle. Likewise, if a person is outside, and yes, there is nobody walking there, nobody comes out on that side, it's complete privacy in that area. But still, it is better to have the subdomain to have something on the body when taking a bath. Now this

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might be irrelevant for us. But for people who live long time ago, or in certain places, even today, were private, you know, shower stalls are not available, then in that case, what's better does that. And even today, in fact, when you go to, you know, for example, public swimming pool or something over there, you don't have separate shower stalls. Correct. There are no separate shower stalls. If a person wishes to rinse themselves off, then what should they do take off their bathing suit, not at all, they should still have themselves covered. Unfortunately, this is something that happens within Muslims as well. I have seen myself that it's so awkward that you are it's a shower where

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everybody's taking a bath and people start taking off their bathing suit, one piece after the other and they're washing themselves in public. So this is something that's not correct. A person must have something to cover there are law. And even if nobody's there, then the center is better.

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Exactly. Even at home you feel secure. When you draw the curtain you feel more covered, you feel protected. The washroom door may be closed, but there may be windows and somebody could see from outside so it's always better to have the center.

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So what the center of

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wirkkala bassen earned a BA here in Jeddah here and in the BIA sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Allahu Allah is more deserving and you stay here Min hookman a nurse that a person is shy of him, then people this is a hadith a part of a hadith that Mr. Bahari has mentioned without the complete chain, why not? Why not the complete chain because it does not meet his strict criteria. Nobody was very strict in accepting her these the chain had to be really strong. So this chain was not at a standard which is why he did not mention the entire Hadees but he mentioned a part of it, but because it is still acceptable near other scholars and this hadith has been narrated by Timothy and Hakeem and

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they have regarded it as a Hey as Hasson and in this hadith What do we learn that a companion as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam if it was necessary for him to cover his Allah when he was alone? a companion asked if it was necessary for him to cover his or when he was alone. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam replied that Allah who helped us to hear men who've been a nurse, that even though other people may not be there, so yes, technically you're not required to cover yourself. But Allah is watching you. So Allah deserves more that you are shy of him. When you become shy of people you cover yourself. So when you're alone still, Allah is watching you

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So keep yourself covered, keep yourself decent.

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So a lot of Hacker News, they're hammering home in a nest. This head is what does it prove? What does it show that even if a person is taking a bath when he is alone, there is no other person there, from whom he is supposed to conceal himself, then still it is better to have the center, which is why we see that the prophets have a lot of center was taking a bat, and my Mona will deliver on what did she do? She put out a garment in order to screen him. Now, he didn't have to be scraped, maybe there was somebody Allahu arlin. But apparently, it seems that there was nobody there, except his wife. And we see that in other occasions, he would take a bath with his wives. But

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at this occasion what happened at the screen was But why? Because it is better to have the center somebody might walk in, there might be an accident. So you want to prevent such things.

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had done his helicopter Nursery in the center of the reserve and mermen and Hammamet Dimona and Abby who later are gonna be on the Lahore and he will send him a call. KENNETH Vanessa Eli of the solunar rotten the bunny is what they used to take a bath how rotten naked, young little bamboo elaborate and they would look at one another. What kind of Moosa and mozzarella salad he would do, he would take a bath alone, for kalu. So they said, well law he by Allah Maryam never Moosa, nothing prevents Moosa and sila Marina that he should take a bath with us in law except a new adverb, that he is out of meaning he has Squirtle hernia Is this some kind of defect in the male private part? So, they

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said that he has some kind of you know, defect in his private part, this is why he does not take a bath with us, he is embarrassed that his array will be known to us, this is why he takes a bath and seclusion. So what happened for the Hubba mirliton. So he went once you have to salute in order to take a bath who mozzarella salad and he went alone because he will take a bath in complete privacy. For what are Silva who are in the huddle, and then he put his garment on a rock, so it shows that he was taking a bath when he was conceived by a rock. When he was alone, nobody was around. Secondly, he was concealed by a rock and then he put his clothes on the rock. But what happened for fun lol

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hedger, Ruby's ob, but the rock it went away it ran away with his clothes for her Raja musasa Moosa went fi in its sprint meaning in its traces behind it YOLO saying so be huddle my claws are harder. Alright, give me my clothes back. had another not been who is La la la Musa until the Bani Israel the samosa for Allah and then they said, well, ally may be Muslim members. By Allah there is no harm with Busan Islam, he doesn't have any defect, no deficiency nothing. What are the tobacco and he took his clothes for toffee carbohydrate. And then he began hitting the rock for Khalid Abu hurayrah, who later said, well La Jolla by Allah inna who Lana de boon, indeed is another one surely

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marks will harder. On the harder citizen oh seven, six or seven, little been beheaded because of the striking, meaning the rock got six or seven marks because of the striking of musasa he hit the rock so hard that imagine the rock, they've got marks on it. The muslin ism striking was not ordinary. He struck a Coptic and what happened? That person died. So Allah gave him a lot of strength, because after all he had to face in our own and he had to deal with when he Israel and he had to use a stick to do so many things. So Allah had given him a lot of strength in his hands. So anyway, what do we learn this Hadees that there is no harm if a person takes a bath when he's naked, as long as he has

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privacy, because mozarella slam took off all of his clothes in order to take a bath and he put his clothes on the rock, which means that he was naked, his private parts were exposed, but he did this were in privacy when he was alone. So that is permissible. But the bunny is right. What would they do? They would take a bath in front of each other, they could see the private parts of each other. And it seems that apparently this was something that was permissible for them. Because if it was Halloween for them, they would not be allowed mozzarella salad would have forbidden them.

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Why do you think it was allowed for them? Think about the circumstances they were in where were they? When they were with most artists and and where were they? after they left field where were they in the desert. They don't have anything to cover their heads with Allah subhanaw taala sent clouds in order to shade them. And they were in the desert so they didn't have anything to conceal themselves with and they weren't in the desert for a day or two.

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They were there for 14 years. But musasa, he was even more careful that even though there was nothing to shield, there was nothing easily available to shield him still, he would go behind a rock in order to take a bath, and he would take a bath in seclusion. And also, if you think about the Bani Israel, they had many wrong things in them. But you have to prioritize. You have to prioritize in Islam, if they couldn't understand the hate correctly, using they could understand hire correctly.

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Imagine Allah save them. And they went on making an angel out of golden worshipping. This are people worshipping idols, and this item was our listener, make idols for us, so that we can also worship it. Now, if they could not understand the heath correctly, how can they understand the concept of higher correctly. So there may be many wrong things in a person in a community. But you have to prioritize as to how to do this. And this is exactly what happened with the bunnies, right?

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Just yesterday, my doctors and my mom and this guy were talking about Islam. And he was I don't know where he was, but he knew a lot of us now. And my mom kept he kept telling him that what you read is wrong. I don't know where you're getting this information from is like all Muslims are experiencing this. And I simply like I went over and I you know, I told him that, you know, regardless of what you're saying that Islam is perfect, and it may be that the Muslims are not. And then he's like, that's true. I didn't understand that because he was basing Islam on people. So if you tell him that, oh, you're reading the Quran wrong, before you even get there, he doesn't even understand what

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the concept is exactly, start with the basics. First right?

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To share once I was reading a book that discussed all the shadowy issues, as to how to take a bath, and this, that and the other and how it was described that a woman should take a bath was so cumbersome, you would think you don't want to take a bath. And it said that she should uncover one arm and wash it and uncover it and each body part wash it and cover it. And I was sitting in wondering if I'm going to be doing that I'm not going to be able to do anything else. So Subhanallah Dean correctly explained and with the Sunnah of the Prophet and the Hadees. Mashallah, it's it does every single time I'm in class, I find there's some ease somewhere so popular. And you know, you

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felt guilty, because you're not doing what this Maulana or whoever that person was explaining how a woman should take about, don't bear anything like keep covering, keep covering, it's impossible to do that. And it depends on the situation that a person is in, right? It depends on the situation. If a person has complete privacy in a closed space in a closed environment, then it's okay for him to take a bath completely naked. But if there is a chance that somebody might pass somebody might see, then it's better to conceal. Okay, but the bare minimum doesn't mean that a person has to only take one arm out at a time one leg out at a time and wash it quickly and hide it. No, the bare minimum

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needs to be covered. See, this is why you make the door a long way near with little hopes evil eyes. And the angels. I mean, they're always there with a person writing taking notes. I mean, obviously, this is why the Hadees that Allah is more deserving that you were shy from him that no need to prolong it unnecessarily. that a person thinks Oh, nobody's home so I can walk around naked. No, this is not correct. Okay, because Allah is more deserving that you shy of him. Now, in this Hadees we also see that the people of Masada seldom accused him, but who clarified the position

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unless So, a person is wrongly accused. But Allah knows the reality. And most RSM did not argue did not tell them that No, I'm not. I can prove it to you. I can show it to you. No, he didn't do anything. A lot took care of the entire situation. So without any intention on the part of musasa his reality was made known to his people.

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And we also see here that a rock ran away with mozzarella Sam's clothes, because the cooter of Allah is above everything. If he tells the rock and workone to move to walk away with the clothes of husar Listen, the rock will

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return to Mr. Wade a summer over here, the High Noon for Karla will be at a torn curtain on Athena.

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So, even these inanimate things, nonliving things, stone rock, even they do whatever Allah Delta

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Musashi sallam, he was not happy at all with the rock running away with his clothes because he hit the rock. He was very upset. He beat the rock and really severely

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But we see that this was a muscle soreness plan. So it happens sometimes that a person disliked something, but in reality, it is good. But I was in university too. I remember some people telling me that they had the image of practicing people to be either because they're really dumb, or cuz they're really ugly. They're like, that's the only reason that a girl would consider wearing hijab. There must be something, something with your hair. This is why she's wearing hijab, or even the fact that you spend time studying the deen. They think you're dumb, you couldn't do any other like non Islamic thing. And that's why you chose to go into Islam. But in fact, if you think about it,

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memorizing Quran and doing those things is more difficult, but they couldn't comprehend it. And I was amazed about the way their brain thinks I'm like,

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in this situation, if a person is you know, being accused, then you know, no need to go and justify what you're doing, or prove yourself perfectly normal. No, there's no need to do that. Allah will take care of the entire situation. Also, we see here that mozarella salam addressed the rock saying, so be your header. Why is he talking to the rock,

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because the rock did something that a living beings will do. So he addressed he dealt with the rock as if it were a living being, which is why he yelled at it, and he also beat it

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all the time. We trust a lot as much as we should, really, and this helped came from where he could not have imagined and he wasn't even worried about it. But I think Allah subhanaw taala was displeased that my prophet is being blamed for something he doesn't have. So that something happened who can imagine that Iraq is going to come to your help iraq Iraq, something so unusual happened in Iraq will not roll down the hill But literally, you know, roll over away from you walk away and run away? A lot of how that happened, but it did happen.

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We're under the hood a lotta and in the BS en la hora de la sala McCall bainer au buyuk silurian and verina once a you are you are in a salami or does he do he was taking a bath or leannon naked for hot are lazy so it fell on him gerado locusts means a hub of gold. When was this when Allah cured him of his disease? So he was taking a bath and locusts of gold fell on him from the sky. for Java Are you boo so are you buddy Sam began? Yes, he he began collecting fee so be in his clouds. What? The goal locusts? Fernanda hoorah. Boo Yeah, are you so his Lord called him are you kind of need to? Have I not made you rich? You know without need without desire of amadora of that which you see.

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Meaning Why are you collecting them quickly? Do you have desire for them? You like them? You want them have not made you free of need of them. That you were sick and I cured you. You had everything I took that away from you. You still want these things? Carla Bella. He said, Of course we're exotic. a buyer is a buyer honor we're lacking but let Lina be there is no richness with me and Baraka Tikka from your Baraka, meaning if something comes from you, if a blessing comes from you, then I am not free of want of it. No. If something comes from you, then I want it even if I may have everything. But still I want what comes from you. Want to well Ibrahima and Musa in Iraq veteran

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So, again we seen this hadith that the Quran Allah is above everything, locusts are not of gold generally. And likewise gold does not fall from the sky. But on a you've already said I'm locus of gold fell on him. And this was rewarded for his patience. And this how this shows to us that no one can ever have enough of Allah subhanaw taala restore of Allah blessings of Allah as gifts, whatever Allah gives, then what should we do? Take it happily and grateful, even if you do not need it, even if you have enough, but if Allah sends something your way, you did not expect it. You did not intended. You did not want it you never thought about it. But something comes your way from Allah.

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Then do not refuse it. Do not reject it.

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Rather, anything and everything that Allah sends your way it is worth taking.

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Because musar Listen, I'm also what do I did he make rabine Lima and Zelda la Yeoman hierin faqeer I always forget. I'm always desperately needy of any

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Good that you can send my way.

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So, no matter how much a person has, if Allah has more to give him a person is in need of that a person should take that happily and gratefully. So, when these go locusts felon or yubari salaam What did he do he started collecting them and in their head is what is mentioned that he was naked at that time. So he was taking a bath, okay, while he was naked, and obviously, being a prophet of Allah, it is understood that he would do that in seclusion. So likewise, if a person is in a state like that, that in seclusion, he is taking a bath naked, then Is that okay? for him? It is perfectly fine. I

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think sometimes we would have grocery and someone brings the same thing more, sometimes we would have something at home for our own use. And you know, that happens. Sometimes there's a lot that comes to me like, we don't want any more of this. Well, we shouldn't let that also steal away get wasted. If Allah has given us more we can share, instead of letting it get rotten in the fridge or in the pantry, or that thing getting too old, in our garages or our basements. We could take it that allows wells that he has sent us extra, we have to share it with others. Because I was reflecting on myself on reading this Hadees that many times it happens that if you get something that you are not

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in need of like what happens we treated like a burden. Or like no, I have to deal with this as well. I already have so much food in the fridge and now this person has brought all this food, what am I going to do? We get upset, we don't want it or we say there's too much stuff there's too much food and we complain rather we should think of it as Allah's blessing Baraka and really make the automata that Oh Allah, tell me what to do with this. Tell me what to do with this. You help me use this benefit from this in the best way. And then Allah will show you ways as well. But the first thing is acceptance, being grateful, being happy, and then do whatever you can with it, you know, freeze it,

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for example, if it's food, use it later, or give it to somebody else. Or take it to someone else. You know, once it happened with me that I had food in my refrigerator and somebody else brought food and I asked a friend of mine that What should I do with all this food? Can you help me with it? And she messaged me that why don't you you know take it to your neighbors if you have any that you can take Do you know you are on those terms that you can take the food to or where you're going tomorrow you can take the food over there. So I was going somewhere the next day and I took that food with me and people were so happy and I thought because my husband was also not there as like how am I going

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to eat all this food myself together not gonna eat it and it's gonna go with but I was like, I don't want this food to go with it's so good food. Right? So whatever Allah sends your way, then take it happily.

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Allah subhanaw taala sent you something that you don't need, it's extra there is Baraka in it, but this trial in it of course, what are you going to do hoard it wasted, put it in the compost, share it and then sharing and Allah gives you more somehow I cannot understand still this comprehend this dynamic. Like you keep on giving and he keeps on giving. And you keep on giving and he just doesn't stop Subhanallah so never ever feel that if you give it away you're gonna be poor.

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something better comes

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when you have something extra last minute data Oh, he also tells you what to do with it in the Quran. Because the companions as the prophets are lowly of Salaam, what should we do when we have any spending? So he said the Quran life so spent from it exactly.

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is the reward in the dunya what would be the reward in Panama, he had so much gold

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and gold imagine being rained on a person who has suffered for 18 years. This is just one year. Imagine the rewarding to hear.

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You know, the other day somebody was mentioning to me that they know of a couple who wanted to have children for the longest time. And then eventually they the wife became pregnant. And during the pregnancy, they forgot to take one of the tests, which is for Down syndrome. They forgot and the doctor didn't push that much. When the baby was born, the baby had Down syndrome. And the parents are upset till today with the doctors that why didn't you push us to take the test. If you had pushed us we would have aborted the child. And now we have to deal with this child. It's so difficult. It's so hard. These tests are you know our only means I mean it's not necessary.

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That a test will tell you for sure what's going to happen in the future luck and change a situation whenever. But I was thinking that, you know, how ungrateful can a person be?

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How ungrateful human beings can be we can be that we want something so desperately when Allah gives it to us, we think it's a burden. And if we accept it the way it is, the imagine the reward. Imagine the reward. I mean, this is an opportunity for reward for a person greater reward in dystonia and in the alcohol. But, you know, one is that you take it as a burden. And the other is that you take it as an excellent opportunity.

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Because they have done all the tests with met with the second child, and they could not find anything, they could not even test it every time the baby was against them, which is his mouth handler, healthy boy. But the third one, when I went, when I got pregnant, I had to tell them that I'm going to get pregnant or that I'm trying for. And then when I went to the doctor, he said, Oh, you're five months pregnant? I said, Yes. He said, Okay, then we have to do a very fast test and everything, so your child will not be sick, like your other one. So Pamela, I said, but what it makes sense, you can make any test, but I'm not going to move this child. Because if this child is

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for me, as a healthy child, Allah has written it for me, I'm gonna have it, if it's not, I'm gonna still have it too. So they were pushing me to do the test. I said, it doesn't make sense, you're going to waste the money, you're going to waste all the time. In * alone, my dad is not healthy. But a handler, like, if they had done it, what then I would remove the baby. So I actually had a non Muslim friend. And she was saying she had the same, like, hardship. She had, like 10 years of marriage. And then she finally had a child. And she said, when the child was born, the doctor said that they have some sort of disability that they cannot, they're mentally not going to be aging,

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like their age, but they won't be smart, like they won't be at an average level at all. And this was in Canada, and she said, they gave her the option to kill like they said, to silence the child or something in Canada, and I was shocked. And like, really, this happened. And she said, they gave her the permission to do this within the 24 hour period of giving birth. And she said, Can you imagine I'm holding the child in my hand. And they're telling me that, you know, your child is gonna suffer, you know, you'll be it will be like a burden on you. So she's decided not to do it. And after six, seven years of her child, she that you know, my daughter is advanced in her studies. So they were

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wrong. But she said, Can you imagine and now she's not able to have another child. She was saying to me that, can you imagine if I had let them carry on with this, and take the child away, because science is not always true. And even if it is true luck and miracle make miracles happen for us.

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And there are miracles that we see. Just recently, somebody sent me a video of

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a man who was paralyzed from birth, the entire body except for his tongue.

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And I think his eyes I'm not sure, but his tongue Crusher and an Arab man.

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And the doctor said that he wasn't going to live that long. But he has memorized the entire Quran. When they showed him reciting the Quran,

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he was me he was lying down, immobile is done was moving, he couldn't even move his head. He was reciting.

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And what else has he done? graduated from university with honors, imagine. So the point over here is that we've gone on a very lengthy tangent, but the main point here is that anything that Allah sends a person's way, even if you think you don't need it, even if you think you don't want it, you still cannot have enough of it. You can never have enough of what Allah gives you. So be grateful, be happy. And this is with tangible things and intangible things. Like even for example, the opportunities that Allah gives to a person to do good to do something in his way. Never think that Okay, I have taught once I have volunteered once I have worked for so many years. No, if another

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opportunity comes, then again, you can never have enough of it. Never. Because this is Baraka, there is blessing. One more thing that we learned this Hadees is that it is permissible to increase one's wealth.

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A Hubert is Sam, he was collecting the gold locusts in his garment. Why do you think he would do that so that he could have more gold?

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Allah gave him double of what he had previously. This is why I asked that how am I dude rich enough that you don't have the desire for more, but he still wanted more? right because it was coming from Allah. So this shows that even if a person's needs are fulfilled, he has more than enough Can he increases? Well, yes, there is no harm in it. A person must never feel guilty. That if I have a job that pays me this much, I should aspire for a job. That

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That brings me more money. I mean, you shouldn't just focus on the money, but also on the work. But if there is an opportunity for more money, and an investment or whatever, a person should not feel guilty, because it's something that is permissible, okay, there's something that is permissible, it does not contradict, it does not contradict what are okay, because Zuma does, like, abstention and what are is like an extreme level of that. So it does not contradict that, especially when can actually help a person. So for example, if a person thinks I should work, or I should continue to work, so that I can make this much money so that I can go for Romana every year, I can go for maybe

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two years, is there anything wrong in thinking like this? Not at all, if a person makes more money so that he can support a cause, you know, give sadaqa spend on others? Is there anything wrong with that, not at all, there's no harm in increasing one's well, as long as it is done in permissible ways. And the focus is not just the money, but the focus is also the work that a person is doing. But if a person knows his weakness, that if I get into this cycle of you know, making money and more money and more money, than I know my weakness, you know, I'm going to be shopping around all the time, I'm going to be, you know, busy with my house all the time, then I'm going to be worried about

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my car all the time paranoid about the spy not about that it's going to affect my prayers, it's going to affect my need to focus on the alpha then, of course, you know, he knows himself Jacobian so what did he do? He made camel meat for written on himself, because he liked it too much. So anyway, these incidents of the profits, what do they prove that it is permissible to be the wild naked? Now there is one question that person may think that the previous shut out, aren't they abrogated anyway? So why is the man Buhari deriving a ruling from the incidents of the previous prophets?

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Okay, they were on Islam but aren't they're shut off air, the laws of the previous prophets? Aren't they abrogated? Yes.

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Exactly. That they are not absolutely abrogate. Because if they were completely abrogated, meaning nothing of their shut off air of their ways was applicable to us. Then Allah would not have mentioned them in the right along would not have mentioned Allah mentioned them in the Quran. Allah Delta's Furby Huda macdaddy, there is a bra there is less than their incidents or stories are mentioned in the Quran, Anderson. So just something that we should remember that when it comes to the previous shala err, there are three cases. One is that what is mentioned in their Sharia is also mentioned in ours, it's the same, then what's the ruling that you do it? Now you have to do it.

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Another scenario is that something is mentioned in there shadier, but it's not mentioned in ours, then, that as long as it doesn't contradict me, there's nothing mentioned. Now we should hear about it, then we can do it. It doesn't mean that it's mandatory. But we can do it if we were in a situation like that. So for example, over here. Thirdly, the third cases that are shown here contradicts what is mentioned in theirs, then in that case, we don't do it like for example, the Bani Israel used to take a bath naked, looking at each other, they would do it but we know that in the Quran, Allah subhanaw taala has told the believing men and the believing women to cover the

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private parts to protect their private parts and part of protection is to cover them. We know from the Hadith about the odor of a man of a woman. So there's contradiction here. So, we will not follow the example of bunnies for you over here.

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But at the set to reveal Lucy in the nurse screening oneself when doing goosal in the presence of other people, meaning when a person has to take a bath and people are close by then he should screen himself it is not permissible to take a bath before people when a person is naked. And remember the scepter is of two types one is subtly to cover the erla and this is why and the second is setup of the complete button. So for example having a curtain or something this is not wide yet but it is

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it is better. Had this inner Abdullah hip new Muslim and Malik molar or more of new Obaidullah Abramova Mola me honey Binti, a bit polyp Bara who know who Sameera O'Mahony Binta Vitaly, the Kuru she was saying so um, honey, she said, they have to eat out Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I went to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, I am alpha three in the year of the victory. Howard had to so I found him you're taking a bath with Fatima to and Fatima? That's true. She was concealing him for Allah. So he said men had He Who is this woman for control. So I said no honey, I am honey. So this is what we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was taking a bath but who was covering him

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fundamentally they weren't. In other words, we learned that his wife was covering him. Over here we see that his daughter was covering him. So it is something permissible that somebody else

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can hold, you know a sheet in order to cover you, which means that you can take a bath in close proximity to another person as long as there is a barrier. There is nothing feel shy in this awkward there's nothing awkward about it because then a person needs to take a bath he needs to take a bath. And Oh honey, who was she? The daughter of Appleton. So what does that mean she was the sister of or the the Lena Horne who the cousin of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So she came to see him. And the Hadees also proves that a person can talk while he or she is undressed. While a person is undressed, he can talk because the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he was taking a bath. And he asked me unhappy.

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And Omani replied, It is me. So, when it is necessary a person can This doesn't mean that a person is sitting on the toilet and talking on the telephone. No, but if there's a necessity, like somebody outside the washroom, they're asking how long you will be here, there's a phone call for you, or, or you know, they have to ask a question or something and you respond, yes, you can.

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See, the angels don't just write your words, they also write your actions. So again, Allah is more deserving that you are shy of him. So if there is a need a person may Converse, and we see that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did that,

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and I mean, if you think about it, was it really necessary for him to ask?

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was it was it an absolute necessity? He wasn't an absolute necessity. And look at this incident, when did this happen in the year of the victory, so this was in the much later stages not at the beginning later, had the honor of then call it a forerunner of the law audit of modern SPN. And in our image on Saturday evening, I will grd or engraven I have never bet on my Mona got it set up to nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallahu wa sallam in Elgin Abba. I concealed him I shielded him while he was taking a bathroom Genova for less than a day is a must suburbia meanie are unashamedly Wasilla, Georgia who have done this already. So I'm just gonna read the text. One man asaba, who are Sabo

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meaning and that which had reached a meaning than a gesture, he washed that off. Tomas Javier de la la la la some Matilda will do the Salah lady lady. So my father and I just met so matana half of us Allah called me, Da Hua will Alana webnovel laden fist cetera.

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Now we see that my monocular and he had also screened him, but she saw him taking a bath. Because if she had seen him only then she could have narrowed this. So was it okay for her to see him? Yes, because she was his wife. So, this means that he has the Satori is better, but not from the spouse. Bab either tell me more, when a woman has a dilemma, meaning when a woman has a sexual dream,

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from home and what is her main dream, meaning and it is if the lamb is to have a dream, that is of sexual nature. So if a woman has a *, in other words, a dream that has a sexual nature and she feels sexual pleasure, physically, not in the dream, but physically as well. And upon waking up, she finds herself wet, then Is she in the state of Geneva?

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Yes, she is. Because remember, ginebra we had learned at the beginning of this bad that it is in two cases. One is on having sexual pleasure, whether it is on having sexual *, whether it is by other means or whatever, this is what this is something that enters a person in the state of Geneva meaning when a person has money. So in other words, having an * this is what this is what Geneva This is one state. Secondly, sexual * whether or not a person has *. Okay. So, there are two cases of Genova This is talking about the first case, meaning this is not sexual *, but rather a dream of such a nature and a woman finds herself wet on waking up.

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So will this make it necessary for her to take a bath? Yes, it will, because she is in a state of Genova. Now, many people find this strange, because it is thought that perhaps women cannot have such dreams. No. wet dreams are as normal for women as they are for men. Men have wet dreams and women also have wet dreams. The frequency may be lower compared to men but it is something that is perfectly normal for a woman. And if a woman has if a woman experiences such a dream, then it doesn't mean that she

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Is immodest and unrighteous. And you know, in any sense, no, this is perfectly normal. It doesn't have to do. It doesn't have anything to do with the person's level of Eman. This is something that is normal. It happens because woman also has hormonal changes just as a man does. So obviously this is something that is expected. In the Quran, Allah says what is available at fair lumen common Halima when the children reach and help them and children includes male and female. And this is a sign of puberty, because this happens after the age of puberty.

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And this is something that Allah has created. And this is something that happens in sleep, in a dream in sleep. And we know that if something happens during sleep and a person is not conscious, and he is not held accountable for it. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said the ban has been lifted from three from the one who is sleeping until he wakes up from the child until he reaches the age of puberty and from the one who is insane until he comes to his senses. So if a person is sleeping, and they have such an experience, then this is not something that they need to feel guilty about. So when a woman has a *, then she needs to take a bath. Had the center of the law have no use

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of water nomadic on his seven year old will be here on Zainab Vint to be Salama or Nomi, Salama Omen, momineen and a pilot, Jet Muslim. I'm so lame she came. Who was she in LA to Abuja, the wife of Abu talha. You remember the story of their married

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one of the richest men in Medina, he proposed her and she refused because he was not a Muslim at that time. So he became a Muslim. So she came in our Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for all that and then she said, Yeah, rasulillah or messenger of Allah, in the law, hilarious, the human and Indeed, Allah is not shy of the truth, he does not hesitate to state the truth. Hello, lol marotti is there on a woman, min Roslyn. And you also either here when she met when she has irregular meaning when she has a * for color? Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam? So he replied nerim Yes, either when Allah she sees ALMA, the water meaningful, the discharge, this is very important for us

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to understand neuron is Allah Attila. So if a woman wakes up more wet than normal, and remembers that she had a dream and experience of such nature, then she has to take a bath.

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Okay, then she has to take about there's two things, she had a dream. And secondly, she sees extra wetness. And notice Alma, Alma, the URL over here is meeting the specific discharge, not every kind of discharge, but that specific discharge when she sees it in the morning on waking up, then that means that she is in a state of dilemma. So in other words, a person has to determine what kind of discharge it is before taking any action. Even normally, just because a woman has discharged does not mean that she needs to drink also, she needs to take a batch and is to do we don't know, first identify what kind of discharge it is, and how do you identify by going back to its cause that what

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caused it if it was accompanied with sexual pleasure, then what is it money and that requires a reversal, if it was not caused by sexual pleasure, but rather sexual arousal, okay, meaning a person desires were there, then in that case, it is only muddy and what has to be done, it has to be washed and will do needs to be done. And if it came without, you know, any sexual pleasure or sexual arousal, then in that case, it is just normal vaginal discharge, and it doesn't need to be washed a woman does not need to make will do alright, meaning she is clean, that discharge is also clean, and we have discussed this earlier in great detail. So the profit or loss of some specified norm inara

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Attila when she sees the specific discharge, and that was accompanied with sexual pleasure, then she will take a bath. And if a person is confused,

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meaning one wakes up and she's not sure if she had a dream of such nature. certainty takes over a doubt. Okay. And in this case, what are you certain about that you didn't, but you are unsure whether it happened or not. So, in other words, when the occurrence of something is doubtful than it's non occurrence is certain. Remember this principle we did this and we will do as well, that when the occurrence of something is doubtful, you're not sure whether it occurred or not, then what is certain it's non occurrence then you will treat it as if it never happened. What's the evidence of this there are these in which the man has the pockets of a lot of them that he would feel as if

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he passed woundedness

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prayers all the time. So the prophets of Allah and Allah Don't worry, unless you hear or you smell. So, when you can be certain, then you take action, when you cannot be certain, then you do not take any action, then you will treat it as if it does not exist. So, if a woman sees a sexual dream, but she is not sure if she had an *, if she experienced sexual pleasure, then in that case, what should she do? She, she doesn't need to take a bath. Okay, because if even if she finds herself a little more wet than normal, then it just may be muddy, you're not money, she has to remember, she has to be sure that there was sexual pleasure. Likewise, if a woman sees extra vaginal discharge,

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but is sure that she didn't have any dream of that sort, then that is again, she does not need to take a bath. Because that liquid that discharge is not a result of sexual pleasure.

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For men, yes, there will be difference in the characteristics of the discharge. But for a woman, not necessarily because many women can't tell, there might be the smell, every person knows themselves. So for the characteristics do differ. But for a woman, it is more confusing. So then she has to go on thinking that whether or not there was such a dream, there was such an experience. If there was, then it will be considered as money if there wasn't, or if she is confused, she's not sure, then it will not be considered as money.

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It doesn't make a difference. If she's in a period, then she's, I mean, her taking a bath is not going to make her tired anyway. Now there are other lessons that we learn from this one is about the good etiquette of also named when she did not abruptly ask the question, but rather she respectfully prepared the prophets a lot isms that he would not be surprised that what kind of a question she's asking, you know, sometimes the question comes when you'd like to shock them? How could they say such a thing? And how could you ask her to think so? She said in the lower layers that he will help Allah is not shy of the truth. And then she asked the question. Another important lesson we learned

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here is the prophets of autism did not represent the woman. He did not represent her that how can you answer the question? or How can you experience such a thing? No, we made it clear that in other studies, we learned that I shall deliver on her she was shy, she was surprised at what happened. How can a woman even have if the lamb and the prophets of the Muslim said yes, so there's nothing wrong about it, nothing strange about it. Thirdly, we also learned that Allah does not shy away of the truth, meaning he does not hesitate in mentioning it in clarifying it.

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So likewise, if the truth has to be clarified, and sometimes some terms may have to be used, some words have to be used, and they may seem too explicit. Again, if it's for a purpose, to clarify the truth, there should be no shyness there. But decency must always be there.

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The next topic is slightly long. So I will leave that in Sharla. For next time, if there's any question you may ask.

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I'd be more comfortable with my spouse as Yeah, the women of the inside. They were not shy of learning. And they were praised for this, that how good they are that they're not shy off, asking. And obviously, they maintained the proper etiquette as well. Now, it is best that in such a situation, a woman, you know, asks her husband to find out but if he's not there, then what?

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Exactly many times it happens that, you know, if you ask the question through somebody by the time the answer gets to you, you're not sure if the question was even asked property.

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Of course, this also teaches that ask those who know it is permissible for a woman to ask a male scholar even about a question as long as decency proper etiquette is maintained.

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Once it's enough for you

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know, once is enough,

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as well, right. So then the province of Assam said now is our updated map. So maybe he would have just went home and said, yes, you have to do with it. Right. Which is correct. He has to do with it, but the condition? Yeah, exactly.

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It's a clinical condition, world that he learned to be like us and I'm really cool with the life

Lesson 64 – Chapter 18-22 Hadith 276-282

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