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Upbringing Of Children

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Sulaiman Moola

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In alconbury, la

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la

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Vina

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de la

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la ilaha illallah

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wa Maulana Muhammad in Abu

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Dhabi Coca Cola la junta Baraka holla

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Alhamdulillah

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Allah ma ma ma ma, ma ma,

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ma Kala Kala prima Carmen.

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What a more unlikable

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La la la la, la, la la, la

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la la la la,

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la la la la la. La been I've been hustling.

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Salam, O Allah, Allah. Allah, Allah. Allah Allah, Allah.

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Allah Allah, Allah to a Salam. Salam Ala Moana, Navin was

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carrying one minister he Deena was good enough.

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For me,

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honorable Allah microm respected brothers and elders and our listeners.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has blessed and favored in town with many newcomers and bounties and favors.

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The check comes in the Hadith at Villa katella. That whatever is in the union has been created for the service for the service of in turn

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and in turn has been created exclusively for the service of Allah.

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Among the many Yamato Baraka tala, upon in turn, is the number of children and offspring.

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That is indeed a great number from Allah. tala, the value of children can be asked to those married couples who are desirous of children and cannot have children.

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The way your son can react to those parents who have daughters and sons, and likewise the vice versa.

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That is the case of Allah.

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In the Quran,

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de la tema, Allah, blessed with some, some I blessed with daughters, some are blessed with sons and daughters, and some do not bless the children. This is my choice and my decision my knowledge is complete and my power is complete. And according to my divine beauty center is our distribute among my creation.

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Little girl Amina sama, I regulate the affair from the time to the

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haka abacha Amata raffia.

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Allah Allah says it is me that makes them happy. And it is me that makes some people go through difficulties.

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It is me that makes some wealthy in some

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mention Allah Allah will be known as the natural hierarchy at their children and sons is the parent of in Tanzania. They look towards the future these children. In fact,

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he has also encouraged us in the dinner table. That is something that has been encouraged by Islam.

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Get married to a woman that can pay a maximum of cost by gauging as her mother or a sister or aunt or their family

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so that I can have the pride on the day of our lives. This is my alma

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mater pyramids, he says that 86 will be formed of this old man and 40 of the nations that came prior to us giving us a total of 126

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because of Luca DJ to monaka masala Kanaka

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for Indian children is a great Rama Rama Baraka tala.

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But we must understand that

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Allah in the same breath it is a test from Allah.

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Allah

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Belize

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In your children, he is a great admirer from Allah.

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It is a great responsibility from Allah. Allah responsibility is a gift and not a burden.

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In fact,

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because of children many times a person becomes selfish and a person becomes coward.

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They cannot spend because the needs of his children are before in every moment.

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He is not ready to thrive in the path of Allah at every moment because of the nature of the needs of his children.

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Sabin aliotti along with Alejandro was asked, What is Nika? What is the reality of Nika? So he said resume remembering the compassion of diary.

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Is the person asking the question said what comes after it because

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after that comes joy and happiness for one month.

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Let us put that in inverted commas, joy and happiness for one month. When asked what comes

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after it comes a woman with a lifelong thing, Bob problems hardship difficulties, adverse condition, the ups and downs of life. Like in English, they say problems never end the only data, what cannot be cured.

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Someone said, How said roses have fun. So the next one said how nice

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they are in life.

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Sometimes these days of joy, sometimes it's days of difficulty. After that, what comes

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after that your back will break into

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and then now is to say after it comes maybe recovering six feet down.

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So in the manufacture better than listeners, it is a great llama from Allah, provided the children is given the correct upbringing.

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Like when the child is more, we think the bundle of joy is the apple of the eye. And when he grows up, it becomes a shoulder for the parents to lean on. And if the correct therapy is given to him, then his good is not limited to the dunya. But after the demise of the parents, that is the time they benefit from the maximum Lee

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that the offspring that you will leave behind will not only benefit you but the benefit will be transferred

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from your

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from your

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from your body that can undergo difficulties in the promotion of

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trauma promotion of DHEA

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and I have a partner that makes my pleasure and also a pleasure.

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I protection from good

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Malema colalillo Allah I seek my protection from such wealth which becomes the means of my destruction.

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And I seek by protection from such offspring who dominate over the garden

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which is the thing

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that will give birth in America. In other words don't become

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the father will find it difficult to ask your child when they can will come late in the night two o'clock and now the parents will sign with relief then the father will get his wife and say

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it was difficult for the parents to approach the children what method should I use and apply

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protection from touch me via

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my evil will publicize it

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wanting to get into sanjivani Kabbalah killing machine and I think life protection from such a partner that makes me age before my time.

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So if they will be given the correct opinion.

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Man I've

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been blessed

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With two daughters, and he gives them the correct answer, they mature

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and save myself and he will be so close on the day of piano indicating the closeness, what is missing, that is his index finger and the middle finger, they will be so close on the day of Tiamat.

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And if the cricket bring in is not given, then instead of becoming a victim,

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and instead of becoming an income, the money that is gathered is waste is used on his

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on his demand.

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Instead of becoming a shoulder for the parents to lean on the other possible shoulders in the form of the other children, this child because of his evil deprives the father of the benefit of his other brothers also

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in the length of

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some two weeks, which is common in our country, which is common internationally, which is common in the era in which we are living.

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What are the contributing factors to the destruction of our children?

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complaining that the son of mine is just obedient to me.

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demanded that son admonished me one other thing he was completed

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by us is the level of the alarm if you permit me to speak, I would like to say a few words. As I said, Go ahead. The thing is that you have explained to me and we are well acquainted that our parents have rights over us. My question to you is,

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do we have rights over our parents,

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our parents,

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our parents,

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you will have free reign over your parents. Your family is responsible of choosing the correct mother for generations to come.

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At the time of marriage, it is that your father chooses the correct mother

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when you are born, to give you the correct Islamic name, and third to educate you with the Kalam of the Quran.

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I can negate all three, my father hasn't given me the opportunity to benefit from one of the three numbers.

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Let us listen to the very attentively.

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And he told the father, let me tell you, you have been evil to the side before he was evil to you. During this time before he picked you, and you have destroyed the child before he has destroyed himself.

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They have been evil to the child before he had been evil to you.

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You will have death or they will before he has this or they do and you have destroyed him before he has destroyed himself.

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That when the child comes in dystonia

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becomes with a clean heart.

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We come to work the complete ability of accepting the truth.

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And it will be very unfortunate on his part, that when he comes with the correct open mind,

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surgery cannot settle harder to educate a child in this trial is like in graining something onto the stone.

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It is better for one of you to give a one to one charity while you are alive. And you need that money then to give 100 at the time of death

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that you attend does not go to your brother

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in law,

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whether you distribute it or not distribute it, you say como la Viola de

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la

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so that time comes with the ability of accepting the truth.

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It will be edited as soon as the time comes into. The first attack comes from the devil

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in the heart of Scripture is that when the child comes into the movie, his client is not crying because he's feeling cold. He's not crying because we are not acquainted with the atmosphere.

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A pawn is crying because the devil has poked him and the devil has announced his enmity with this Muslim child from day one.

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That myself and you are enemies. Today you die and I have battled with Allah.

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Allah La La coda na

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na na

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I'm going to set in the path of guidance

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from every angle and the effect of my attack will be I will make them

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do mean it is a very minority, a very small finger of my servants are grateful to me.

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The power plays a very beautiful a

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good many times the child is deprived of the correct upbringing because he loses his parenting before reaching the age of puberty. But the poor the Arabic facilitated, Nathan latinoamerica ha, la,

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la la, la la, la la la, la la de la la

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Gula. He says, as far as I'm concerned, there are two categories of open, and I will sympathize on both. One is the child will physically know that his parents before he reaches the age of puberty, but he says there is another category of orphan as well is that child who finds his parents but unfortunately I too occupied in the material commitment and unable to hear the side and giving him the correct Islamic upbringing. The poet says

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he's also

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been there are two categories of your team.

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And we

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have seen that we educate him, Allah tala and he has encouraged us to having children and Allah Allah has explained to us from childhood, till the day we leave the villa, how to conduct his life from birth to death, a complete coding mode and a way of life.

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As a female

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says, I was a small boy at the age of three and I was at the place of my uncle. So my uncle told me that Oh, my nephew is going to worship that Allah that is created you

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are only at three at that time that our time is still known in the name of Allah. Today our condition is such that when the wife countries, we make la manana make de la Salama, give me a normal child.

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After lunch, Allah blesses us with a normal time, Manila, make La La keep the children happy and Allah keep them healthy. After law, keep them happy and Allah keep them healthy. When the child reaches the age of 14,

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already showed his routine life, that time if you want to make God laugh around in a banal way,

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which was the first option of a believer, Zachary Salatu was Salam. ala.

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Eva,

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our lab blessed me with pious upbringing.

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He hasn't been granted the assurance of the acceptance of his prayer, but he highlights the aspect of one life you're going to give me a child and one that is obedient to you.

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Bye, uncle how much I worship and I'm only three years old. How can I worship Allah? So my uncle told me every night when you go to sleep retreat, Allahu, Allahu Allah, Allah. Allah is watching me. Allah is aware of what I'm doing. And Allah is with me. It is as a small child, I took the advice of my uncle. And I read this every day. After one week, I came back to my uncle as a child, that I'm reading this law. So he told me increase the figure from three to 7537 times every day, one year left, two years, three years. By the time the sweetness of this guy has already penetrated into my heart. Then you pay me says, Oh, my nephew tell me that that person is watching. And Allah is every

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action of his killing ever disobey Allah.

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haram was dopamine at that moment when we recognize you alive without introducing Allah to our children, and then telling them that is haram. How can the child ever obtain when he doesn't know what

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Allah tala taught in the advice of lokmanya mentioned in the Quran, Yamuna in LA.

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It is oh my son in law

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if you have to commit an evil act, but according to Socrates, hidden in the mountains, on custom art on the cave, open up on the earth, oh my son, if you have to disobey Allah in any remote place in any hidden please remember in La la la,

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la,

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la, DE LA County. Ha

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Let's clean up our children and we have discussed many issues. If we ever sat down and reminded them about the day that they plan to be for Allah, maybe a creme de la creme

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de la

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Ilaha Oh Fatima, whatever you want as far as material is concerned of your father, then you will have the choice to have it and take it without my permission. But don't remain into deception. That because you are the daughter of the Navy of Allah, you will have no neck at all Fatima before Allah your reckoning will be separate lines will be separate.

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What about our daughters? What about our children when

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brought to the grave?

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The grave?

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In a grave Do you know what a man has been brought to you today? And do you know who will be loaded into you have a built in Mohammed Ali?

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Ali Allahumma that is the daughter of a phenom. This is the wife of Ali and this is the mother of

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the grace po ma mo de la bella Bell an ammonia or ammonium Farley?

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I don't see who comes I see what what they come.

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I do not see as Oh can I see what what they come?

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What will be the condition?

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If we want to know what is best for our daughters, then let that very thing Fatima who is the queen of the woman of

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a UK

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about what is best for women to have or remain silent. Go and ask my daughter Fatima. That woman who has preserved in Asia

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every time comes with Petra, but that woman were preserved her nature can make a statement of this caliber Are you saying what is this for woman Oh Fatima, Fatima de la casa de oro de la la Marina di una The best thing for women is Olivia from LA her faith must not fall on any strange men and new strange men faith must fall on her. There's nothing there is no better for any girl.

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And says

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the closest a woman can become to Allah and the most connection she can have with Allah is when she even before was about a woman cannot come closer to Allah at any other venue. He came in the photos of our

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my respective brothers let us understand that is the statement of that woman that is the queen of the woman have tended

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to be what

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we used to teach our children

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in the campaign's in which

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participated as we used to teach them

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at any time like any child can reach

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any of our sons our children are the children of the Sahaba could explain to anyone how many betters participated in there is always to educate them.

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Oh my son, I want you to be wealthy and you want to be wealthy and that is the common now every parent

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bow bow bow dado

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all my time if you are searching for ways, then third point in contentment unlock

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the power

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and the

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abdomen mathema well Abdo Makana. The key is a claim as long as he agreed, and this may be the key as long as it contains

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the grid have to never come to an end.

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coonawarra yan will be rewriting Lokhande adamawa de

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la salita while I am in love, it man has one day of going he will desire to and if he has to, he will desire three The only thing that will saturate the belly of insaan will be the the soul of his grave nothing.

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So,

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the first array the second infantry will accompany the call of some

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man after a while a lot of

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that person who is just obeying his parents

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will not accept that he sees prosperity from

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that person who is his parents.

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Our system is not showing him obedient children.

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My respected brothers, when the topic is highlighted of the respect of parents, then we are ready to turn.

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But what about our parents that are seen in the graveyard for so many years? I only have the ability to go on a date, and I only have the ability to go once or twice a year. How long have I been to my parents that I want my children to be loyal to me.

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The condition of the game is like a man drowning.

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He is waiting for someone to take him to the shore in the form of

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in the form of 10 hours in the form of

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drowning.

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alanna mentions the first responsibility.

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Or the first write that our children have overseas at the time of need to choose the correct partner,

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Maria, Kareem calamari

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Molina Juanita Medina, high when it really happens, or is it dangerous?

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that a woman is generally married on one of the four grounds one of the four reasons either as a beauty his or her piety, either her lineage or either her well

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when you have to weigh the option, and when you have to make a choice, and then give preference to the Rebbe at any court give preference to them. In fact, it comes in 100 A month ago whether in Martin Lima Lena, lumea.

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chakra,

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that person who gets married to a woman only on the grounds of and ignoring her piety, thinking that after we get married to her, I will become wealthy and rich. After performing the nikka Allah will open the doors of poverty for you.

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Mankato, Donna de la Hanako. Further we do when that proposal comes to your house, for your daughter, regarding who's been and whose o'clock you are, please do it. immediately have the kneecap open. If you will delay in such a good proposal, it will lead to conflict and

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it will lead to corruption and evil in the entire dunya can we imagine neglecting over a good proposal. If it is going to lead to fitna in the entire dunya then how much fitna when it goes into the house from which the fitna will emerge and originated

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with understand where our faults lie, allegedly, also the understanding and lack of all our listeners and all our brothers understanding.

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The reoccurring

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theme

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get married in a pious family because family habits will penetrate into the offspring. Now that can become an answer for many of our young.

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My parents do want to understand she has accepted Him and

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yet he has accepted. But not only am I ever going to come into the children, the habit of that entire family is going to come into the children

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get married into a pious family. And that is why the one of my parents to look for poopoo and equality in piety so that both partners have the same goal before them. Otherwise, if they've been in one and even been in the other one, the wife will desire a different future for her child and the husband will desire a different future. And this is where the class will come.

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So it's not only that beautiful religion that he has taught us, or educated us to make an effort of bringing piety in our children, not after they are born or after the life is conceived. From the day we are choosing the partner Frankenstein thing for the future of your children.

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In the time of Sahaba Ikram, there was absolutely no formalities we find the qualities of Sahaba aka living second loop and they had no second look. And that is why they were Berkut in whatever they did. As a gallery along with Alejandro went to Yemen to propose listen to the story. He told his future father in law today when he opens the door he says Ana de la bajada de

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La Nina la Habesha will Navarre lympha Donna la una de la takala intern Kahuna salon de la income the owner for LA vaca.

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I am Bilal and this is my brother. Look into my introduction. We are two slave of everything. Yeah, we were astray Allah guided us if you give me the hand of your daughter in my marriage Alhamdulillah and if you don't give it a lie sufficient

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absolutely no formalities go back to the center.

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I'm Monica Burkett and then he got the greatest burger is the one with the least expensive Mongolian.

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Mongolian Allahu

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Allahu Allahu

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Allah man, that person who will be pleased with minimum sustenance from Allah Allah will be pleased with minimum action from him

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Sahaba took minimum sustenance and maximum amahl we take in maximum Marlin may have minimum it

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many times, we are not realizing we are under the impression that we are benefiting our children well we are harming them. And parting advice tomorrow who who is the greatest mystery of the

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day when is departing not for one month or two months? made it known to him and clear to him Allah Allah taccone bada amiata la la casa movie mystery we'll be covering Omar's This is minds in your last meeting after that we will not meet let me give you some parting advice. In jacoba in la de la la subida Madonna.

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distance yourself from the luxury of this linear allocation. The Chosen friends of Allah have nothing to do with the luxury of this world.

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We think once our daughter is married, the responsibility is off our shoulders. There is a hadith in Bukhari and Muslim the words of Muslim is

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a Nakata, Mata Marathi change a lot a lot. The other women are living in so much ease and comfort. I think you have to give us more expenses. Well.

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I did not feel that now. My daughter is out of my control and she's living with a husband. I don't have to worry. He went to Einstein. He said I thought that was gonna do the lotto money.

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And

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I don't want to

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be over lotto money

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to tell the people in my own

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town, Allah,

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Allah, Allah, Allah, when

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you get the things you don't eat, you're putting your grandchildren up, you will benefit in which you don't stay. Don't you fear Allah, the people that did the same thing for us.

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Aurora,

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Aurora, whatever they gathered was destroyed their hopes with deception and the palaces became grave.

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Without teaching them and see what Allah will do.

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It was the practice of Marietta in Santa Monica, Santa Monica sakala, he used to visit us as well.

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And we used to go with everyone for a short period of time and every woman was desirous that might be the longest period. So what they used to do sometimes, after he had completed his check, and he was about to go, this is one of your family trip or something for you. They used to prepare when it was time for him to leave. And in that manner, he used to have a honeybees available the Allahu taala on his plate. And because of that history, it was it was longer than the period otherwise, that Einstein was at haute-savoie after all our infant

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and the reoccurring Carson's teaching to us. When you are in the house, there was like one ordinary person who one day told her that I I know exactly when you cross and you're upset with me? Because I said, How do you know whenever you have a law?

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There is an American said when you are happy with me, you're a lover of the Mohammed. And when you are displeased with me, you say, Abraham, when you're pleased with me, you say I take the customer

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and when you are displeased with me you say I think the customer of the Lord or the Prime Minister

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says I said yes or no Do you have a llama and the gorilla is like I don't leave you I only leave your knee

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because I know that Hassan Elana made a claim that when the recession is going to come back, we are going to tell him oh now Viola de dohmen, curry homography and getting the smell of magoffin from you and Mahathir used was the type of food which used to give up an odor which nobody said a lot he was disliked because he used to mention an original onaji Robbie, you don't give me anything that has a bad smell because I am in perpetual contact with the Malaika in my alma

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mater the smell coming out of your mouth. Every person said no I just said honey I had nothing else.

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Then he went to the house of

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Nana rasulillah as a domain kuriyama Coffee This is the word of Buhari

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getting a funny smell from your mouth. When he saw some said no class Rosslyn industry in a pinch a Jackson Pollock our Eau de la vaca Fernando LA to query with Erica I used to have honey but now you insisted given a Batman Alaska some I won't have the honey but do me one favor don't tell the nose and don't tell the otherwise do like it.

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Libya Kareem sallallahu alayhi wa sallam abstain from something that was halaal to accommodate unity between his life. Let us

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What was the approach of Allah to this decision in terms of

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Allah?

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Allah Allah Allah, Allah, Allah robota has logic

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has logic

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to maintain unity between your wife? Are you going to abstain from something that I have made halaal for your car.

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Allah is teaching you the manner of breaking your custom and eating that hurry. Now my respective brothers and sisters let us pause when the lobby of Allah to accommodate the pleasure of the daughter of Abu Bakar abstain from something that made was made halaal Allah gave me place in the Quran, today's parents to accommodate the luxury of their children to accommodate the desires of their children, sometimes in the names of people.

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And sometimes in the name of

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we forego the auto Villa we neglect the order of Allah, we make the overly flexible what must be our condition in the eyes of Allah.

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Allah,

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Allah, Allah,

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Allah,

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Allah,

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Allah Allah,

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Allah

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to Allah and if not, Allah will replace his nibi with wife and then Allah describes his wife, Connie 13 Aveda

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de la and Allah.

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Allah tala curse even that person who cast an evil glance at the opposite sex and alas curses on that person, male or female, who promotes himself or herself so that others can look at him. Now if we sit down and study our whole setup today, we will put a divider between the males and females but the main table must be centralized and everyone can see.

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We are thinking that we are trying to start a good future of our children. In the light of this hadith we are commenting the future of the world the curse of Allah with the curse of Allah is maybe

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my respective brothers let us understand this is Quran. This is howdy This is divine.

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Allah has done this and

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then he says when the child is born, to give him the correct name nebia Kareem salario says in according to the Havana, Yama Yama, TPS, my econ was my econ.

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On the day of geometry Tiamat you will be called by your name in the name of your father, so beautify your name, when a person has unusual surname, and he has to be called up in a much more than he dislikes people recognizing by that surname, call me by my first name is enough. You don't have to mention my surname.

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Imagine on the day of Tiamat when billions of people will be gathered. Let us see when this is the divine order of Allah tala How did Sahaba implement this?

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We will say that no Alhamdulillah I am keeping my children's name according to the sin according to that has already been used to say in Nepal hyperbola obey the law. You're suddenly beneath the smile. ambia waka Anima Allah and Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he knows me as my Shahada. Lavinia says

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that I will name and label my children after the means of massive hoping that just says a line is blessed those people with martyrdom, Allah has blessed my children also with martyrdom. When my child comes into Julia, I can't put me in the battlefield, but the minimum that I can create the minimum similarity that I can create between him and Amata is given the name of Amata. So Allah had blessed him with seven cents, and he gave his first son's name Abdullah, after a great match Abdullah bin Joshua de la 101 the occasion presents and said, Allahu

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Allah salado forgotten our law tomorrow will be the battle between the Muslims in the kuffaar for Cthulhu in any given the carpet and apprehend zucchini, while Yoku, botany and give him the ability to cut my stomach into wedges

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and give him the strength to remove my ears and my nose. And in this condition that can lower me in my grave tomorrow when the alarm will be made.

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Bollea Oh those decomposed boons, resting in the cemeteries of the entire dunya who may stand

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up before Allah, Allah Allah Allah.

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Allah Allah, Makati only Malou I want to walk on the Madonna Fisher in this condition then you must ask me over law that oh Herbalife affected you and send you in this dunya what has happened to you? Then I will say Oh Allah, this was my little contribution to the promotion of your deal.

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He named his second son movie after the Great Master movie bill hammer. He named his third son after a great match.

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He named his first son Hamza after the great mother comes up in Abdulmutallab. He named his son Joshua, after the great mother daughter had been named in sixth

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grade matter must have been on air regarding whom the Sahaba used to say if there was anyone deserving of this virtue in the Quran MENA region in

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La La

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La La Mancha avant

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la de la from among the believers are those who kept up to the promises that they made with Allah. If there's anyone deserving of this virtue it is Mousavi

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and he named his seven son Khalid after the Great lotta Khalid bin Saeed Allahu taala. On one side is the hobbit

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very briefly I will highlight is

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that our child has overseas to show him love Mahabharata and affection within the boundaries of Islam to show him love and affection within the boundaries of Islam, Libya Kareem salani senseis lace Amina Mel Amir Hamza de Rana when I'm Jacobi Rana, he is not from among those who doesn't show mercy to our little ones, and who does not realize and recognize the rights of our elderly people. Libya Kareem sallallahu wasallam kissed one child as a hobby by the name of a crab in hobbies whether your loved one who was present, so he said Olivier de la luna Sudan Akira cinema Ana Viola Do you people kiss your children in Mali arthrotomy novels the I have 10 sons I have never kissed

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them. There is a lovely sunset Mullah Johan is the one that doesn't show mercy will not be shown mercy

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and human How do you come to the resource and say, What can I do if kindness has been snatched away from your heart when he

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passed away? So he started crying?

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Also the anomalous present he said only to follow what is this? I can understand if I will cry perhaps I Alexa, but only be open like yourself. Maybe for Laurie cinfed has the hero

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of the ramen. This is mercy that Allah has placed in the hearts of his servants

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in the lioness Atma,

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in the words of Abraham della dama Barakatuh poco could be better if

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he showed us the rights of this child also and he showed us the limits also in the lion method. The eye is set in tears

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and the heart is full of sorrow, grief and Ramos. Voila coup in dama yo Bobby hero buena, but we will only after that which Allah has commanded us to utter and that is in Nagila here in LA Roger. So it is the right of the stallion that if I'm not going to cry, who will cry? And the limit is I will not question the authority of Allah manchaca merci Ba ba ba in Amaya school Raja whoever complains of any calamity that comes his way he is questioning the authority of Allah

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to sodium Mahabharata love and affection within the bounds of Islam.

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Then he mentions that to ensure that only our muscle is going down the belly of your children, nothing else. Let us directly understand that our haraam earning is directly connected connected to the destruction of our children. Allah mentioned in the Quran

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cambiare Masato Salaam, yeah universal guru,

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Lama Lusaka, he from the Philippines into good. The commentators have explained the love and the connection between the two verses, according to how much halaal will go in your stomach according to that Allah will give you the ability of obeying Him.

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And let us not for a moment feel

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that if we have shown our children Makkah and Medina, then we have the responsibility and Alhamdulillah there isn't anyone that can grant his children a better gift than us. Maria Karim. Allah says in the Hadith at the bow Allah, Allah sallallahu sallam, educate your children with three things have been a vehicle the love of your Navy, for

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the love of his family and to our children, the love of Quran and the recitation of the Quran today because we haven't given our children the La Mamma mia Kareem sallallahu sallam, so when they go to Mecca, Medina in the words of Libya, Kareem sallallahu wasallam Yachty and a nasty salmon to have

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a look

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at Dara T.

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He was so happy

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to come upon a time is to come. People the loyalty category of my own ma will make MCI and Medina place on holiday. The middle class will make it a means of business commercial transaction

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As

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we make Makkah and Medina

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as a middle class woman

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transaction

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early

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on Angel I noticed that oka halaal

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had the ticket was purchased with halaal earnings you have strength that was via halaal earnings welcome and Nevada to hedge

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and when a man leaves his house with polluted income, sometimes he can it make that money sometimes we do sometimes we delay

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sometimes we neglect the law and we get the money to go it comes in the

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angel

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have

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you gained

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that place?

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Allah Allah says

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the doors are closed that is why this

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change will come we will pick up

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we will pick up

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the maximum benefit derived from the Medina

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Na

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Na otherwise

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on home and he sees his daughter's on the floor of poverty because his daughter's Oh my daughter's I don't like the fact that I can tolerate it. Let me tell you this much. If your father wanted we could fill your belly with halal and haram without anything.

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interest and you could see the need of yours. But unless this naked eye of your father's can never see any Daughter of these earrings

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and better see my daughter's in a condition and I will sympathize no concern and I'll try before law that this is difficult but it's tolerated one my father can Liberty his daughters in Ghana.

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It is a matter of changing our priorities.

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And the most important aspect is

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that when it comes to the options of refugees

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let me

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address

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a young boy yo that needs a small boy.

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limo Can you imagine let me teach you some words Oh my child

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or my son? God the deen of Allah, Allah. Allah Allah will guide you. But as the Dean of Allah, Allah will protect you. Because the deen of Allah Allah will preserve you. Honor the deen of Allah, Allah Allah you

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will not

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obey Allah. Allah with you in every aspect of your life. And remember my servant, my my nephew, my son,

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Allah.

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Allah is the entire Delia decides to benefit your benefit welcome.

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You. And if you do decide to

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only get

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decided

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by the

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law, yada learn to align days of Eve Allah will recognize you in days of difficulty when

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Allah Allah,

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Allah

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Allah Allah,

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Allah deliver Eva

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unknown voice from an unknown place.

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This is my second unit that

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allows

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me to come out

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if it wasn't for this blonde who did remain in the stomach of the day

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And remember

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what

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to avoid you

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don't say if I have to avoid this, if I didn't use this road, it will never happen. Once it has been decided then it is over. Don't ever use the word if anything has happened.

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Now, let us understand and see if

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we know the famous.

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He passes by locality, and the three incidents that transpired. One was when they came by a pastor locality in the woods, and they asked those people to be hospitable.

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And on the outskirts of the town, there was a wall that was about to collapse.

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In that was so nice. I mean,

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we are going to be hospitable, they refuse, we are hungry, you did them a favor. Why don't you ask them some money? Of course, this was the point of separation has

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been the crime experience, the hidden wisdom of Allah in these three decisions and these three episodes that transpired

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regarding the girl that was about to believe that was a treasure that belonged to youngsters. Now why did Allah take additional precaution in protecting the treasures of these two youngsters? The commentators have highlighted this portion of the

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masala ha, the father was a very pious man and he made an effort of implementing this piety in his children. So Allah tala did not only protect him, Allah tala protected the treasure and he's

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the one when I will tell you whom Allah, Allah to Allah up with them Allah to protect them on the piety of Allah, Muhammad.

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Allah commentating on the pious right in the law,

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on the piety of a father, when you make an effort of implementing it into your

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children and grandchildren and the people that live in it, and not only

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and then on the day of the AMA,

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in the children, Allah.

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Allah Allah says, knowing very well that how can a man appreciate his gentleness when your children are not working? We can cancel vocations when the child is sick, or any other thing of that nature, on the piety of the father when he will make an effort of bringing the piety in order to maintain unity among the family, Allah will not drop the status of the parents load. Instead Allah will raise the status of the children and Allah will put them on when the father will make an effort of quality to his children.

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That is the fruit.

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Also,

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when we will give our children the correct Islamic upbringing, then inshallah it will be sufficient for them to understand the responsibility. For example,

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to what extent

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Allah

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Allah you're more beloved to me than everything pat myself

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on the back otherwise your mind is not yet complete.

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None of you can be a true believer

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in humanity at large.

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We will put the love of Allah and the love of God into the hearts of our children. One peritoneal

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yamasa Shabaab all the group of youth minister

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For those of you that have the ability of performing Nuka Cola delay,

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this will enable you to lower your bid and guard your custody.

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And those among you who do not have visibility because of lack of finance or anything of that nature,

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then we should pass and keep in abundance, this will assist you in coding with desire. Now, when we will put in the heart

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of Allah then 100 will be sufficient

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to run

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the millennium.

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One who has the ability of performing Mecca and then does not perform

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a lot but

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it is better for your mic

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into your head.

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It is better for you that will be driven into your head when you touch the hand or the palm of a strange woman.

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Today in the absence of

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what may

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have become common

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Allah

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Allah let me know

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when people don't follow divine guidance and not

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era Allah, Allah and modesty will lead to such an extent

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and modesty for the elderly in

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the

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Philippines, we are living in Samana the minimum we can

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inshallah there will be an instant revolution

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if you will in shortly inshallah

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Mr. Khurana

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ability

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to be

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a man and modesty are to continue. When one leaves the next one follows his modesty and

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I'm only mentioning the paddy Pondicherry seriousness of the matter.

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It Model T has left us then connecting to leave.

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But we are living in the

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era

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of Muslim sorry, a man was filled with entire

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benefits and the reoccurring salary.

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I have not lived behind me

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for the many years of my own

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my respect

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and they

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become despondent. In fact,

00:58:19--> 00:58:22

people criticize me, then how can you do this? How can you do this?

00:58:26--> 00:58:29

How can you ever say you're Muslim? And how can you

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do not exercise and express joy and happiness on the phone or the pain of your brother? Allah Allah will shortly remove me from the problem and Allah will afflict the same oh one word in the

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greater common statement, we are living in a Samana

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in the heart and the heart is not on the tongue became

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doing the hot anything, needed something like this.

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So

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praise Allah that Allah has protected you.

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If you had to find your brother in law vote, what would you have done? You just picked him up in the very same way this is your Muslim brother

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in law,

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I think his action and I love him in my Muslim brother, how can I give you my brother

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today

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and tomorrow

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if you will not, Allah will replace you by

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forgiveness and Allah will forgive. Although in the forest we are not been encouraged to sell. The thing that is highlighted is to ask Allah for forgiveness. And Allah says, domain Love Guru guru by Allah and who can find anything other than Allah become that one either.

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I mentioned in the beginning and a hadith and

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Allah tala mentioned what is the cure, what is the solution, we have highlighted some of our flaws and our weaknesses. Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah Allah, Rama, Rama,

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Rama

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remain firm on Farah and Kumar your children to perform Salah.

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debility of preventing you from every evil, we don't have to look at anything, every father inside Let's make the intention that inshallah we are going to perform

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Allah

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Allah Murphy and your father is not my client,

01:00:52--> 01:00:54

my father, Oh Allah,

01:00:55--> 01:01:00

father who makes an effort in trying to bring his children on obedience.

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When a person starts an act of good, he will first do it out of lane and then he will do it out of habit and then he will do it out of everybody.

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Come on your children to perform the age of seven. At that age they will perform it from seven to 10 because the father is watching at the age of 10 they will perform it out of habit that we've been performing for the last three years and inshallah the day they will become ballad that is the day they will perform Salah in the sweetness of your body. Today we want our children to start

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to get out of debt is also if it is constant.

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It is constant then some 1015 years later does it become

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relevant? added in happening? Many parents are getting many children's gifts and presents and I'm hungry lions given my sandwich and I have given him that. Let us see what does Mr. Ethan say what is the best thing you can give your children

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there is no better gift you can give your children either than good manners.

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It is better for you to give them the correct upbringing than to give charity in the path of Allah. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make our children pious. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make them the coolness of our eyes And may Allah subhanho wa Taala those of our parents that have lived this dunya Allah tala degrees with those that are desirous of children Allah give them children two subgroups Shri

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salatu salam wa salam ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi

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Aloha, aloha mahalo.

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Aloha mahalo.

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Allah, Allah, Allah Allah.

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Allah ma,

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ma ma,

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ma,

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ma ma.

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Aloha.

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Aloha.

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Aloha.

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Aloha, Aloha.

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Alone.

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Alone,

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alone

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alone

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Led

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Zeppelin and famous style